Part One: Loni and Adrienne’s Emotional Reveal About Their Little-Known Struggles
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- Опубликовано: 24 мар 2022
- Although we’ve been together for quite some time, there are still things we’ve never gotten the chance to ask each other… until now!
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Loni is one of the most compassionate people in television. She's mentioned the people that were laid off before and it always brings her to tears. I recall her telling this and she cried for those people.
Yeah she is very compassionate and empathetic. Behind that comedic persona is a very kind, compassionate, and sensitive soul. Loni and Adrianne are my faves on this show. 💜💚💙🧡
Honestly your profile pic is hilarious. I read your comment with an attitude without even realizing it at first haha!!
@@sugarcloud5521 lol I should change it, but it's my mood many days, so I'm having a hard time parting from it.
I always hate when ppl would give Loni hate cuz she wears it on her sleeves
Yes. It’s so genuine💜
Loni hit home with me… As a 45 year old woman, who’s caring for 78yr old mom, no children nor husband I totally understand and agree whole heartedly with Loni🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾
Wishing you strength, peace, and opportunities for rest. I just dedicated
7 years of my life to caregiving for my beautiful, loving Mother. She had me very late in life so I spent my twenties and very early thirties isolated, with no help from siblings, caring for her. Her death on February 13, 2022 broke my heart irreparably. I have no significant other nor children of my own and the thought of creating a new life for myself is daunting. My Mother would have been 80 in May. I feel very, very alone in life 😕
This is a reality for sure!!
@@AvecPoesie I'm so sorry for your loss😞
Same 44 worries me everyday! You're not alone
@@AvecPoesie Dont give up take it minute by minute. The same soul that fought for your mother to the very end. The same soul can fight for yourself and your Life ❤️
Loni is a GEM. Tough exterior but so gentle at heart...she spoke facts. Being financially free is something most people don't speak about, but having financial freedom can bring you a level of comfort that is unbelieveable...money cannot buy you happiness but it can ease a great deal of stress in that aspect
Spot on
You are so right! It cannot buy you happiness, but it is a defense.
Yesss!!
Haha…I can’t help but drag her being a Cancer into this. Your second sentence triggered me lol
Exactly!!!
Man, what touched me about what Loni said was the fact that there's a lot we weren't taught. It's never too late to start. Be encouraged!
We sure weren’t till we got older
Why not?
Loni is a very compassionate woman I respect what she had expressed about getting her finances in place in case anything happen to her and not be a burden to anyone and need to depend on someone else.
I am on the journey right now getting my financial house in order and realizing it is never to late to do so.
One day at a time and staying on point focusing on my goals. I have learned that self care is the most important aspect of my life and take it from there.🌹❤️🙏🏽
I love that Loni found James. She is so deserving of love!
Yessss!!! We all are🤩🤩🤩💐💐💐
I wish I could find somebody next.
@@Krzrrazrrokr your person will come 💜 don’t lose hope, it’s never too late
Absolutely it's good that she has someone in her life. James has been there and she's been there for James I keep telling y'all black women are the most loyalist creatures on the planet Earth
He will leave her once she’s off The Real he’s unsuccessful and she’s the bread winner
I love Garcelle’s answer. Having a partner should be an addition to your life, and add to your happiness, not be the source of it. Finding peace in being alone is significant.
That right there 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
It's not a need, it's a want. The key is loving yourself, and being happy in your own space. I am happily divorced, and refuse to settle for less than I deserve.
@@msmime35 Girl, it's a want, not a need! Know the difference! It's women like you that end up in bad relationships, because of that attitude. Looking for a man? Hilarious! Women don't go looking for a man, the man finds the woman.
Absolutely
@@msmime35 so true
I just love Loni. She jokes but all these years later she cries for those people. She’s such a good person, and she made SUCH a good point.
Loni has a good heart, but some of her problems are easily resolved. For example, Loni could always adopt!! Problem solved!!!! Why doesn’t she do that? Lots of celebs adopt. Maybe that’s God’s plan for her??
@@jjayguy23 she doesn’t want that, tho
@@VONiiE8 It’s a way for her to have a child. Someone who wanted a child, no matter what, would adopt.
@@jjayguy23 she doesn’t want a child
@@VONiiE8 Oh you’re right, it was Jeannie who didn’t want a child at first. Sorry.
I have to say having children doesn’t guarantee you’ll have someone to look after you in your old age. My grandma had 7 children and only one stepped up to look after her. She used to say to me that her children didn’t make her feel like she gave birth to 7 but to one. She surrounded herself with people who weren’t blood related as she couldn’t depend on her family.
I just lost my Mother last month after taking care of her for 7 years through her battle with Parkinson's Disease and Dementia. I was her only child that helped her in a caregiving capacity. My living siblings rarely called, rarely visited, and rarely demonstrated the love, respect, and affection our Mother deserved. I took care of her while also living with my own chronic health condition! My Mother used to say she sometimes felt like I was her only child. People should never assume that their children will have their back in old age and failing health. The amount of cruelty, neglect, and toxicity I saw my siblings be capable of will haunt me the rest of my life. 🥀🥺
That's heartbreaking 💔
@@AvecPoesie I know she appreciated you, and so does good karma. Wishing you many blessings.
But how did your grandma treat her other 6 kids cause ppl always put it on the kids and make it seem like the kids are bad ppl for not looking out for their parents and I’m not assuming your grandma is a bad person but maybe she treated that one kid better than the rest
@@julianacheriza1575 deep
This show has evolved into just what a show needed to be for the pandemic. This is what everyone actually needs to be doing and a lot of people I know are doing
a superb pint - ideal show for the pandemic
I see often people going in on Loni for being “too emotional” or “crying” But this is what makes her relatable and more human, behind the celebrity and fame. She certainly seems like a compassionate, thoughtful, and empathetic individual surely.💙
I prefer this Loni so much more than the one who hid behind the jokes. Vulnerability is beautiful on her.
I know Loni personally. She is my sorority sister and I pledged with her. She has always been a very genuine and very emotional person. She is giving, real (punt intended) and is very much a "what you see is what you get" kinda person. I hate to hear people going in on her about being emotional. It is NOT an act! I remember when she used to host the "Wanda Winfrey" show at Prairie View A&M University. One of the events that our sorority (Delta Sigma Theta) would put on as one of our community events. She would get emotional during those shows. So, I felt what she was saying...from past experiences with her and from my current situation of having no family of my own ( kids, husband, etc.). I wish her the best!
I actually didnt see anyone going in on her everyone well every comment on this post have been very positive toward loni actually. Definitely understand
I'm single, no kids, and I am prepared. Having children is no guarantee they will take care of you either. Witnessed it. Lonely is a state of mind.
SO TRUE. I know some older single people who are NOT lonely. They have lots of friends and a full life and commitments and they come home at night and sleep alone - but they are doing just fine!
Same situation. I'm getting prepared. But who knows what will happen. There should be an app for people that are single and like being single. 😊
Right
In my opinion if you are good to your kids they will be great to you as an adult. I can’t even comprehend no taking care of my parents if/when that time comes.
Ty . I strongly believe ur children don’t need to take care of u . Your suppose to love , enjoy them and take care of them no matter who they grow up to be. I’m Spanish and they we always give back to parents bc it’s something you should do it brings good fortune in ur life/ you’ll be the good one in ur family. I so disagree with that belief . Your their time support your children not for them to help you. Whatever you leave that’s just an addition to ur kids . Moments are what truly matters . After this we don’t kno if will see ea other again ( I hope we do ).
Lol @ Jeannie response to Loni's small joke about sleeping pills "...bitch." Can never be too serious between them, I love it!
Loni’s fear is my fear. Almost
40 years old and no children, I also feel as I don’t want to be a burden to anyone. I can totally relate to her. I am so glad I’m not the only one. 💜
I feel you Loni. I'm 40 and I don't have family either and I'm preparing as well.
If a family is something you want, it’s never too late for you
@@jodiesamaroo4232 Well my doctor is always saying different. Lucky for me I'm stubborn and I never listen to her. 😊
How about adoption? Foster care?
Same here I divorced 4 years ago and I’m in my 40s I don’t have kids and I’m not interested in dating as I was hurt so bad by my ex. I completed my degree and I just got a job which isn’t paying that great especially now with covid. My family is making noise now I’m getting old without baby and I don’t really want date someone bcz of baby I want someone to come into my life in right time so that I am not using them for babies. I kind of believe that God knows what is best for me I so want kids however have to be with someone who makes me feel safe and want kids as much as me.
@Day It’s because they think they won’t have a bond or connection with the child, since it isn’t their biological child. Also adoption is expensive.
I COMPLETELY feel and 100 percent understand what Loni means . As a wife and mother of 2 I worry about having enough money for them if I’m ever to leave this earth suddenly .
I know you don’t know me, Jocelyn but I was reading through the comments on this touching segment and your comment made me pause. There is a way where you can rest assured knowing your family will be taken care of in the event of an untimely death. I would love to connect with you to share those options with you.
I'm glad Loni's letting it out this season. I'm happy she's supported. Maybe the audience not being there is safer for her to share. She's a brave soul.
Season 8 is turning out to be an iconic one.
Why are they getting cancelled?
Loni broke my heart talking bout "I don't wanna be a burden on anybody"
I wish she saw herself in a better light 😔
It's not a bad light not to want to be a burden on others. I just came from brunch with a friend who is approaching 70, a lot of his friends are supposed to be retired. Not only are they coming to him begging, their spoilt (*grown ass*) kids are still dependent on them. Meantime he's employing 100 people, loving his life, and his kids are thriving.
It's in the attitude.
@@moimeself1088 but why is the assumption that she's a burden for needing help?
I'm not talking about feeling entitled . Loni literally is talking about making sure she never has to need support so she's not a "burden"
But we all need support at one point. That doesn't make you a burden
@@honeymoney23 maybe burden is too strong of a word, but I get where she's coming from. Working that hard all her life, if she were to reach her dotage with insufficient resources (financial, health, home, etc) to maintain herself, it *would* be a burden on someone, whether that person was willing or not.
@@moimeself1088 in that context, it's understood. But it happens all the time. If you love anybody at all, ever, they will inevitably "be a burden" in old age. She shouldn't feel bad about needing that help some day
I'm in my 30s and learning a lot from my elders, 65 year old plus. I've seen them lose their husbands, partners, alone, with no children or house security. It's important to have loved ones around you. Have a good community of people you can lean on and if you can organise a house and make sure you love what you do, where you live and attempt to go for your dreams, so you live with no regret .
I totally felt Loni's answer. I sometimes have the same fears about not having enough money in my twilight years. I don't have any kids either myself so I know that I'm going to have to make sure that I'm setup for that time. Financial independence is super important for anyone.
Hugs
Loni is seriously so bright and I would take any advice from her to heart.
Lori is a beautiful woman & intelligent!!! Her emotional turmoil is painful but beautiful she’s open & spreading awareness!
"Loni"
Lolll
It’s obvious she has been hurt in her past and use humor as a defense mechanism.
@@stacyr4768 yepp or some trauma or being let down / disappointed by close ones or relatives
Get it right LONI Lori is my son's name
I’m 26 and I recently got laid off. Before that I became homeless and spent all of my life’s worth on starting a home. I felt what Loni said. I am not near to finish my home and have to depend on others who are not my immediate family. And it sucks. But I have hope that things will get better.
Things WILL get better for you! You are only going UP.
Keep pushing!!! You got this!!!
You got this!!!!
All problems are temporary, please remember
Loni’s story is why young people have no loyalty for their employers and there’s no one rushing to get these post pandemic jobs.
How about employers having loyalty to their employee?
Exactly! I can relate to Loni's story. I started a job and the same time I started, the company was laying off thousands of older employees (probably to save money). These people had been working there for over 30 years and there was no loyalty to them and no concern about what they would do either. My eyes were definitely opened that day to never be loyal to any corporation!
Yeah I am as valuable or loyal to my employer as my employer is to me . If I don’t earn above market rate , they don’t have right to ask me to do extra hours .
They better not cancel the real cause the real is just real ❤❣
I totally agree. It's like having friends over for great conversation, laughs and to get your Friday drink on after a long week! But the best part is they don't wear their welcome out. They're only gonna stay for that hour. That's long enough. 😆😆😆
They better bring back the audience 😒😒😒😒😒
The people with the toughest exteriors have one of the kindest hearts and Loni is just that
Gosh when loni said" I don't wanna be a burden" my ass swallowed my tears because that's such a strong feeling
I can relate to Garcelle because I have been through so much in my life that I don't need a man in my life anymore I have my children and grandchildren that I love and adore after so many years of abuse from my past 2 marriages I finally learned to love myself and just be happy and blessed with what I have today.I achieved what I wanted to in my life now it's all about enjoying the fruits of my labor.
Loni is such a good and nurturing woman. She’d be an amazing foster mom, and maybe adoptive mother. I don’t know if she’s ever thought about it, but maybe she could look into adopting an older child that’s about to age out of the foster system. They’re looking for love and stability just as much as she is. It just might be a perfect fit.
Why do loni feel she has to take care of james he is not her husband and he should be looking out for his retirement plus he have kids and grandkids
She needs to see this comment
It’s refreshing seeing Loni so vulnerable and open because she was NOT like this the first few seasons !
She is now over doing it though
@@melmel7011 no such thing as overdoing being vulnerable.
@@ninaaden8338 the crying, its becoming too much
@@melmel7011 maybe for you.
It’s Fri-Yay we’re not supposed to be getting emotional 😭! Damnit Loni ♥️! I think this is one of those things where no matter what… there’s always a side of us that just wants more…we wish we had it all… all the money , all the time… real life concerns that we never think anyone will understand ! But there’s atleast someone out there that will thank you for being vulnerable Loni Lons 💕
Truth is everyone of us have something that make us stay up at night. Thats why its important to be kind to everyone.
Laying people off & not paying them our for all the money that was with held from their checks for a retirement investment, that's got to be criminal.
Thats what I was thinking!
It definitely is criminal
Were these people able to do anything to rectify this horrendous injustice? I haven't looked into this story beyond this clip,. I really hope these people are taken care of.
Sometimes I have to hold back tears watching The Real.. the only other time this happens is when Tabitha Brown does certain videos. Tabitha be having me crying at 1 a.m. There is something about her. It would be so cool if she was a guest on The Real.
Cooking videos make you cry?
@@ceeceedior21 not all of Tabitha Brown's videos are about cooking.
That is for sure. God puts stuff on Tab’s heart, and she is prophetic. She talked about grieving not long ago, and I was a puddle of tears. I love her!
@@forever_glaring I definitely believe that God puts things on her heart. She has had me balling, I'm talking about what Oprah calls "the ugly cry", on numerous occasions.
Her emotional side is so beautiful its inspiring to do the same.
It’s not something I really thought about because I’m 26 but I can see that I’m heading the same way as Loni.
I love Loni’s question for Garcelle and that’s great that Garcelle is okay. I feel like she’s done the partner thing already, she’s established, has children he wouldn’t mind whether a man came into her life or didn’t.
Being independent and being financially secure is a worry for me to. Another concern is reaching my golden years without children to see about me at a nursing home. I no longer have a child because he was murdered 3 year's ago. So the golden years are a real concern for me.😔
I’m very sorry about your son
I’m so sorry 😞 Sending love & light 💝💐
@@lanadeux4120 thank you 😔
@@tiffanydaniel4261 I truly believe that. I receive messages from him all the time. Thank you 🙏
As a child whose mother passed 6 years ago, I love you. I hope every single day the pain gets easier to handle. I wish nothing but light, love and happiness for the rest of your years.
Loni jokes but she is such a good person. And she made SUCH a good point.
Loni I relate so much, most of us were laid off in this pandemic and it’s been crazy trying to get back to the way things were. This stuff keeps me up at night 100%.
im a very intuitive woman and i notice that loni has been very emotional which it is a beautiful thing to be very vunerable but i hope she is ok.We love you loni
Loni, that's my story to the core. I just can't seem to find a step forward with being 20 steps knocked back. I am single never was a troubled child and tried to always do the right thing as I was always told growing up. Not having kids out of wedlock, going to school, staying out of trouble etc... But because I did everything right it only seems that I am being punished for doing the right things. To go to school when I graduated high school I was literally told that if I had a baby or get married is the only way I could get help or I have to take out loans. That is so sad I felt at times that I may have been a head in life if I would have done what I was told not to do. Only if you knew my story it's only by the grace a God I wake up everyday and keep pushing, not knowing most days how things and going to work out and not having family to help out. Someday all you can do is cry, pray and get back up and trust GOD at His WORD.
Your message is so so so similar to mine. My Grandma raised her kids that way, Mom and her siblings raised us that way.... you grow up, you go to school/college, geta job, dont have kids out of wedlock, stay out of trouble and so on. I too sometimes feel as if I'm being punished for trying to go about it the "right" way. And as a woman in 20s, 30s, I figured finding love of my life, kids will eventually come from that matrimony. But that hasn't happened. I'm trying to find content in being single, no kids & 48. Although daydreams of getting married are no longer that, I am still hopeful to find a mate (or he finds me) and have a committed and lasting relationship. Thank you for sharing. 🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Please do not feel that way guys . All love ❤️
I relate to you 100%. I've always done the "right thing" no drugs, not having seen, going to school, but life has been one setback after another since law school. I have applied to over 150 jobs literally, but I've only been hired part-time (grateful) and I'm happy to be an author now, but I crave, crave financial independence more than so much else
Christ, the one who matters, sees you. If your choices aligned with what He wanted you to do, then you can’t go wrong with that, ever. You’re going to be just fine. Just keep trusting Him. Set your focus there first and everything else will fall in place. Even when it feels difficult (over and over again), He’s still there carrying you 🙏🏽.
I literally looked to see if I had written this. It can be so disheartening and overwhelming at times.
Keep in mind there are women who have had children and as they got older their children aren't there for them, marry spouses that cause them to separate from you or are bickering over who will obtain their "estate" in the event you were to pass away. Having children doesn't always guarantee you'll be taken cared of during your golden years. Rooting for you Loni!
@@user-nt6fy2jr3u Oh, wow I love this idea. That's beautiful, thanks for sharing! 🥰💖
@@user-nt6fy2jr3u yes. Like the golden girls !
@@user-nt6fy2jr3u Such a great idea.
There's also a trend happening where single people in their 60s and up are deciding to live on cruise ships because it's cheaper than other senior living options and they can travel.
I think it highlights that there are more single people in their later years than ever and there will be a need for communal support like that. That trend seems to only be growing as people marry less, divorce rate, etc.
Right
Black women are definitely falling victim to this. A lot of women are age and older are single no children never been married. We have to compete with so many other things and entities out here in order to find the man of our dreams. I'm going to address the elephant in the room not only do black women have to compete with other women we have to compete with other women of other ethnicities also we have to compete with transgender women so it's like we may as well forget about even marrying a black man cuz nine times out of they will not choose a black woman especially if she's dark skin like I am like Lonnie is. I'm just saying. Lonnie is beautiful and I know I'm fine ain't no worries here. What God has for me is for me. I'll never forget that song when I heard RUclipsr Eat with Que,"what God has for me is for me"
When you cry Loni, I cry with you.
Loni is one of life’s amazing people. She’s got a huge heart.
Damn, Loni is always making me emotional! Now I need a drink! lol
I love that Garcelle is happy ♥️
Me too. She keeps it real. I like how she thinks about life, love and happiness.
She may want a sneaky link tho 👀
Loni it is well 🙏🏾, you are a wonderful woman and you will always find love and happiness as you grow older.
Loni has a hard exterior but a very SOFT exterior.😥 Such a beautiful soul. All of them are❤ this chat I relate to so much. I hope they at not cancelled because they keep me going on those bad days.
Loni, that was so real and authentic of you. I understand completely, I also have the same fears.
That's real, Loni!
Loni I love that you are so sensitive and compassionate.
Loni was really the most transparent in this segment. I totally get what she is saying. I would like to see more safe spaces for women to share these concerns and support one another.
omg! i had this conversation with my best friend just a few days ago..im 44 and work very hard but its scary to not feel secure financially..im with u loni on this one
I see Loni’s perspective but from a different lends. i think some people don’t realize that everyone does not have a community of people. Pavlov speaks of love and belongingness being a hierarchy need…but some ppl simply don’t have that. So, they do get old and live a lonely life. Everyone does not have that cushion or safe haven of family and friends. I’m a gay man living in the straight world and I work for a nonprofit that educates gay children. I can tell you that many LGBTQIA persons (or the alphabet ppl as so many like to say) do NOT have a sense of love and belongingness, especially in the minority races. So I see what Loni means when she mentions being alone or not having finances. I see it all the time with the children at my job and the people at homeless shelters where I volunteer.
This segment is beautiful. These women being so so raw and so so supportive and tender towards one another. I’ve LOVED this show for years
I think all the comments are so true about Loni’s compassionate soul, but I hope we get to the “Real” pain for Loni. This season she cries at the drop of a hat. She is definitely in pain. Sending you love and light Loni.
So so true ,I think she is lying to her self, she said she would never marry again and I and everyone else know ,if she runs into mr right she would get married in a minute ,I see that she kind of envies her co -workers with family and children,,I don't think she's happy at all ,and her boyfriend is just someone, to not make her feel left out when she does the show when her cast talks about their mates and family ,,
The tragedies and uncertainties of life sometimes keeps me up :(I
Loni you are so real I love your honesty dont change🥰
Loni you look so happy,you just have glow.I like how you look at life.
I don’t know why they are ending this show. With WW gone this was their opportunity to take over. I like The Real more than the View & the Talk, or any other talk shows. DONT CANCEL THEM! 😔 (plus I want to be apart of Adrienne’s joy when she has a baby, which will happen🙏🏾🤲🏾💕).
I love the real. Y’all real real love everyone’s opinions we are all our own person so i enjoy every perspective respect it
Jeannie is literally glowingggg
I'm happily single with no children. It is NOT guaranteed your children will care for you when you're old. Kudos to Loni for preparing for her future. Love you girl!
Oh my gosh! Loni’s comments! It’s the same thing that keeps me up at night. I’m so glad she shared that.
I love these heart-to-hearts so much.
I love that Garcelle has her sons and grandsons giving her the love that she felt she didn't get from her dad. She missed the love of 1 but gained the ❤ of 4. God is great like that.
I Love This Show
The Talk Because They Talk About Every Day Things We Go Through In Our Life ❤️
Oh my goodness ! 🤔 Loni love 💓 made me crying 😭 throughout her talk. Thanks for sharing this video 📸.
Loni is such a caring, companionate person. I cry right along with her every time. We love you Loni ❤️
Enjoy your life Loni and save your money and you’ll be ok. You can always adopt once you decide you’ll retire and just adopt a few kids and give them all that beautiful love you have and you will have a beautiful family. So many kids in need of a family.
I'm going to have to disagree with Loni a lil bit. It's not that black people don't prepare, but as a whole most black people don't make enough money to have a nice retirement nest egg set aside. Your average minority is just getting by paycheck to paycheck. You can't save what you don't make/have.
I came to say the same. There is a difference between not knowing and not having.
I also think there is an education gap also. I was an insurance agent, GoFundMe was and is used as a final expense policy.
True, but I've also seen priorities messed up as well.....like prioritizing Jordans over rent and other material things where you can be using that money for a nest egg or savings. So it's a little bit of both. I do believe a lot of poverty can be generational.
For example, my aunt always made good money, but never saved. So her kids watched her do the same thing and they are careless with money after watching her.
I also remember my cousins clowning me for driving a VW car when I made 6 figures. I didn't need an expensive car and it was paid for. Sometimes we have to make better choices.
@@quickpstuts412 That might be somewhat true. But you have realize, when you have never had... some people can't see the future of saving $150 or not buying new clothes to look good for a change. Not to mention the system is built to cushion or cottle white people and their financial irresponsibility. They could be making $750k ...big house ...fancy cars and file for bankruptcy, no problem. It's how a lot of them got out paying bills and becoming broke, yet still be prosperous. The system didn't allow black people to falter and be able to bounce back like their white counterparts. And let's be real at the end of the day for an average person saving $100 here and there isn't going to be life-changing. I do agree that education and responsibility are key but realistically most people that are born poor ...die poor. There have been so many systems implemented to keep certain groups of people from building generational wealth that's it's a very hard hole to dig out of for the most part, with some exceptions of course.
@@kikibigbangfan3540 Yes, I hear ya for sure! The system does work against us.
Loni thank you for sharing, that's as real as it get❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ sista God got you.
Keep this show on air ‼️‼️‼️
Loni and Adrienne made me tear up uncontrollably!!😭😭😭😭 I hear u all ladies I am right there with u Loni!🤗🤗🤗🤗
I really do feel the same way as Loni.. that definitely keeps me up at night
Damn, this is so true. I thought I was the only one struggling with this as well. I wonder, will I be a story on the news…nobody knowing I’m dead or missing me.
ADRIENNE- YO TAMBIEN. Thyroid disease and anxiety…… ugh…….. every minute of this topic- I relate 1000000%. I’m right there with you THANK YOU for sharing 💗💗💗💗 know you’re not alone!!
Garcelle 😭 omg am I gonna cry now. Strong and witty. ❤️❤️❤️
Right I was like I hope not😊🤭😅😭🥺
Loni really gets me everytime. So beautiful
loni touched me and spoke some real stuff alot of us go thru
So relatable on so many levels!
Loni, you've done a great job for yourself. ❤❤ We love you; this is a great segment, ladies. Please never cancel this show.
I love auntie loni, I got you!
Awww... That is so emotional ...God got you Loni... Understood and true true true.. On point
I love this segment, they were so open and vulnerable with each other. But it definitely was Garcele knocking on wood for me. That ish is so ingrained in us from childhood.
They said “ they just made up a segment “ but there’s definitely been rumors of this show coming to an end ( sadly ) so this “ what we always wanted to know abt each other” is kinda confirming that it really is …
Lots of love to you, Loni. I have the same concern in my 30’s 💕💕💕
Loni!!! Heart spoke up and spilled for most people, ESPECIALLY, all of us black and brown singles of all ages. 🙏🏼❤
"But then I take some sleep pills and go to bed." LMAOAOAOAO
JEANNIE - "Bitchhh🤣" hahahahha love ha!
I understand Loni. I am in the same boat. No children No immediate family. But Trust God, Family is not always your blood relatives. Real True friends are our family. You will be just fine Loni. One day at a time. God knows what you need. Emmanuel. Always with You.
Loni awwww....she got me with her response about what keeps her up at night. Love what she said because a lot of us out there need to be educated on preparation: mentally, financially, our health as we age, if we are fortunate to do estate planning for our homes, real estate, other major assets, and more. I think if you hit your late 30s or 40s it's never really to early to learn how to build and prepare. If you want an IRA/Stocks do angel investments, bitcoin, establish businesses, invest in charities, or someone's upcoming business. it really will pay off for people and their longevity.
Thank you Loni! I so understand!!!
Wowwww I definitely can relate, Loni. Thanks for your transparency. 🤗
It’s not that we don’t prepare, we don’t have the funds in the first place. There is an enormous wealth gap.
I love that Loni cries so much these days. She seems to much more real and open
Loni! You just made a difference to so many! ❤️
So much love for Loni & Garcelle here sharing such powerful messages.
UGHHHH....I seriously love them!!
I took care of my mom on up till she passed. I held her hand as she passed away because she always told me that when it was her time she didn't want to be alone. I don't have any kids and my biggest fear is that I will not have anyone to care for me when I am old and I can't care for myself. Not gonna a lie it makes me feel like a failure.
Having kids does not mean they're going to care for you later in life, nor should that be the expectation.
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Yeah putting your burden on the next generation is not fair . I never really understood that
Wow talk about women empowerment just found out the Loni is an engineer that's amazing I'm glad that question was asked of Loni I love the interviews of people on the other side Entertainer and that was lovely good luck ladies of the real enjoyed it hope to see each and everyone of you soon on your next project
🙏 you girls of the REAL I watches your show almost every day from your first trial and I've been watching ever since and I'm loving it. When you CRY, I cried with you all too, and when you're happy I'm happy for you all too. I'm surely going to miss all of you. Blessings you all.🤗✌.