@Sam Du kommst aus Deutschland? Ich hatte vor drei Monaten meine Mastek und brauche meine Binder nicht mehr. (langer GC2B Größe XL; langer Underworks Größe L) Bei Interesse kannst du mir auf Wattpad eine Direktnachricht schreiben; Username ist Princeofpunk.
In Dutch public transport they say "dear travelers" now instead of "ladies and gentlemen". Also, stations are now "peopled" instead of "manned". And they took the gender markers off of the travel cards.
Gender neutrality's a bloody nightmare to do in Spanish. >.< The closest you can get without literally rewriting the grammar of the language is phrases like "Esteemed clients" (Estimados clientes) and similar, but even that is technically gendered masculine.
@@TwoWholeWorms and even "estimados" has a masculine ending!! I study Spanish and used to study French and always wondered how languages with gender built into the grammar would deal with gender neutrality. I was in Spain 3 months and it was never mentioned and I was too chicken to bring it up myself 😅
Benjamin Nolan I know right? It’s the same in French and unironically a reason I want to move to an English speaking country, it’s so hard speaking French/Italian/Spanish etc. when you want to be general/neutral/inclusive
it'sMe TheHerpes hey weren’t you in the hate comments in the last video? Interesting that you still watch these videos just to comment on them when you seem to hate trans people so much-
You certainly had me in the beginning with that one.. From the preamble and the way he was reading it I was so worried that things were about to turn violent and then suddenly onions, onions everywhere Truly an adorable outcome
I’m so, so happy that your dad was so accepting and you actually got a positive reaction, after your mum and sister. Here’s to your dad and his pork pie and candle. What an amazing dad you have there. X
My favorite neutral alternative to sir or madam is "Mademonsieur". My friend found that somewhere on the internet and takes great pride in using that and thude as often as possible.
I FEEL THAT SO MUCH. I'm semi-post-t (as in, I go on and off) but like, I've been pre-t and I know the feel SO MUCH You are a brave cookie and DON'T LET ANYONE TELL YOU OTHERWISE
hey guys. i got my first binder today and i wanted to share it. i feel the best i ever had in 6+ years and i guess this is a message to say thank you to jamie, for playing a part in the discovery of who i am, and for showing me what i can achieve. and also a message for others to say that you have to keep going, you will one day be able to be almost entirely free from dysphoria, and every day its just about taking little steps. love you all
Went to an IHOP with my grandparents and as we were being led to our table, the waitress looked at me and asked "Kids menu?" I laughed and said no. Then she says "Ah, you look right on the edge (of 12)" I looked at her and said "That's weird since I'm 19." She made someone else take our table, she was so beet red with embarrassment.
Last summer went to a mini golf place with my family, including my younger brother. At this place kids could play for free. The woman made direct eye contact with me and said “are you under 12?” I’m 21. She didn’t ask my younger brother, just me. She tried to defend herself when I told her my age. It was really awkward.
One time I was with my mom at an open house and the realtor asked what grade I was in and I was like “I’m in college” and he was like “you look like you’re 12, bless you”
Not inclusive to non-binary umbrella folks (including but not limited to non-binary, genderqueer, genderfluid) who go by Mx or They. Btw 'Mx' could be one 🤔 ✌🏻😁
Had a few conversations about gender-neutral honourifics (instead of sir/madam) on Twitter recently, and the general consensus (we're so British, lol) is to fall back on politeness. Instead of saying "thank you, sir" just say "thank you". It's not any LESS polite to not use an honourific when talking to someone... I'm cis and I'm not offended if someone doesn't call me "ma'am" or "miss".
This would be so awesome. But where I live (Deep American south) it is SO ingrained in everybody's head that leaving the sir or madam off is super rude. I'm a substitute teacher, and idk if the kids mean it rude, or it slips, or if they get vibes from me, but sometimes I get called sir (afab and not currently actively trying to pass) and they're like "oh I'm so sorry" {the kind of polite ones, anyway, sometimes I can catch them before they say sorry} and I'll be like "Hey, don't worry about it. I'll answer to either one" bc it HAS to be said, otherwise other teachers/parents/et cetera will say "Yes what ?" And the kid will say "yes ma'am" of "yes sir"
@@ambycat1105 I hadn't considered how different cultures have different expectations of honourifics.... I've got friends who live in Georgia who I've visited a few times so I probably should have thought about it more! You're right though, and sorry for not being more open-minded.
"Your majesty!" The only way I will allow common binaries to address me. *honestly I wish there were a way to adress me formally (in german there isnt)
ich glaube man könnte "sier" als genderneutrales pronomen benutzen, aber idk, nurn bruchteil der bevölkerung kennt das wort und idk wie man "seine/ihre" mit sier benutzen würde :/
@@crssnvrs Genau das is das ding. xier war ja auch so schwer mit der grammatik. Ich selber will mir die neuen pronomen so ungern anlernen auch wenns eigentlich gut wär für mich und wenn ich schon zu faul bin dafür will ich das echt nicht von anderen verlangen XD. Ich find das voll cool , dass ich unter einem von jamies videos mit leuten auf deutsch schreib. Das gibt mir voll das gefühl, dass wir mehr sind als erwartet - weil ichs nicht erwartet hab :>
@@danieln.schabauer1963 ich habs auch nicht erwartet lmao, aber ich finds cool! keinen plan welche pronomen man sonst benutzen könnte, ich hab nen genderfluid kumpel und er benutzt einfach männliche pronomen (is weiblich geboren, fühlt sich meines wissens etwas öfter weiblich als männlich), idk ob du dich mit sowas wohl fühlen würdest :/
Let me tell you how my partner found out about her latex allergy. She had a severe reaction at the dentists so the dentist changed everything they used (gloves, pastes, etc) just in case. That didn’t tell her exactly what she was allergic to but she never had another reaction at dentist. Following this, her next reaction was at a doctors. Unfortunately for her it was the Gynecologist. The reaction was severe and localized if you get my drift. She reported back to the dentist that it was definitely the latex gloves and had the allergy entered into her medical charts immediately. A few years later she had her hair done and hadn’t even considered the gloves worn by the colorist would be latex. Welp, a few hours later she had a beautiful head of hair and fish lips.
I found out I have fake-Latex sensitivity (which isn’t quite as weird as it sounds and it isn’t really a common material because this is a common issue from what I’ve heard) when I was in middle school and my Orthodontist had swapped over to the fake-Latex gloves and I basically broke out in hives on the inside of my mouth, but with braces they were scratched open all day and by the time I got home (since my appt was during lunch) I was bleeding from my mouth. Dad worries, but realizes what is causing the blood and gives me a Zyrtec and then calls my Ortho and just rails into the guy. Now I have to know which brands of “Not Latex” gloves can and can’t be used with me. I don’t see them very often- bc apparently this was kinda common- but they do show up every once and awhile.
Oof, I'm lucky in that I only get like irritated skin/itchy with no like bumps, and general discomfort. (I have a few mild skin allergies though tbf. Nickel earrings make my ears swell (common) and my skin green if via rings, and suuper itchy, and I can't put like face paints on unless they're specifically hypoallergenic. Not to mention those annoying bandaid shapes. Bandaids are so itchy, after like a good few minutes istg, I'm pretty sure that's not an allergy, but just grr. My cuticles basically peel and stuff all the time, and I'm generally prone to hand wounds (light ones, but worthy of bandaids.) along with acne issues. So I have to have bandaids almost constantly on hand just in case or I have a chance of bleeding everywhere lol. (More so from the acne, it bleeds heavier than I'd wish but for a short time, while other wounds usually just make it impossible to do anything without being in pain as I use my hands a lot, instruments, painting, drawing, etc.) Aka, my skin is picky and bratty. (Seriously though, I have dry skin issues where, when I was my hands, if I touch anything dry, it'll make me want to cry. I can't fold dry laundry, even if I haven't washed my hands or anything, without actually crying, because it hurts. It's not like sharp pain, it's almost like a mix of tickling soft discomfort or the sensation when you tense up your muscles and they tremble? It's achy soft sandpapery pain and I can't even touch myself or my clothes or anything at all, even lotion upon contact, without having that sensation. Lotion helps, but I have sensory issues and it's slimy and gross. Only few have been tolerable.) Also, bananas contain the same allergens as latex, from what I read, so that's why it's more likely that you'll be allergic to the other if you are allergic to one. Same with (using list I'm reading from) kiwi, avocado, chestnut, and passion fruit. (Not that you'll HAVE to have them, but you're at a higher risk of it.)
Just don’t say anything like ‘sir or madam’. Simply say ‘have a nice day now’. Any time I get folx stumbling over that with me, I tell them to cut it out of their vernacular. It’s easier for everyone. My friend now says ‘good evening. Please take your seats as tonight’s performance will commence’ at the theatre she works in after asking my advice.
This. I live in a country where we hardly ever use honorifics or anything like that (hell, we don't even have gendered pronouns) and I always wonder whether I come across as rude to foreigners when I just address everyone like "yo, wassup" even if they were the damn President. But I don't care because honestly the world would be better if everyone did that everywhere.
When I came out as NB to my parents, they told me "The only thing that matters to us is that you are safe, happy, and healthy." I kind of should have expected that cuz they would take me and my sisters to pride when we were little. It did take them a little bit hard for them to remember to use my new name and pronouns but they really did try.
This was the same for me. I’m gender-fluid so I guess kind of a different situation, but using they is the easiest since we don’t know what gender I’ll be at certain points and it’s difficult to just switch. So they use they, and my name was changed too so that took some getting used to, but it’s pretty solid now!
I got one 😂 My grandma and grandpa and I went to I hop at like 9 pm for dinner. I had to pee and I was wearing a button up shirt and bow tie (I’m ftm) there was nobody in the restaurant at the time so I went into the men’s (first time doing that). My grandma followed me in there and I had to tell her to get out. That’s nit even the worse part. Like 2 minutes after I came out and sat back down, an entire basketball team came into the restaurant (like 20 guys) and almost all of them went into the bathroom RIGHT after I left 😂 Edit: that same night the waitress called me sir and I smiled cause she called me sir and she “corrected” herself cause I smile/laughed 😂 but my grandpa jumped in a said no you were right the first time.
Okay but I've been going by Rayne for like 5-6 years now and I still deadname myseld It doesn't help that... I'm not out or asked my family to call me that instead but still, you'd think my internal monologue can get my name right but fjsjf
I feel that! I dead name myself like when I answer the phone and such I've been in the closet for so long I forget other people know now and I can just use my new name instead
In case anyone's wondering why autistic people look younger, it's likely because we have weird collagen. There's an incredibly high prevalence of Ehlers-Danlos (a connective tissue disorder) and milder connective tissue abnormalities in autism.
@@SpecialBlanket I didn't know that about E.D. huh. Would hypermobility fall under the weird collagen thing do you think? (I'll do my own research ofc but it seems like you know a bit about it is all :)
I'm also allergic to latex and I found out from stickers and Band-Aids. Most adhesive is latex based. It's not only gloves and condoms that are made with latex XD
I found this out after being out for a year but finding a short hairstyle that fits your head shape can really help you pass. I really hope i could help you in some way :)
I lost it at the "shit in the urinal" comments because I actually did that my first time in a boy's bathroom at...uh...seven or eight cause I had NO idea. I didn't tell ANYONE and was always afraid to go back in one (even while questioning my gender identity) once I realized you weren't supposed to do that, hence part of why I didn't come out as trans til I was 18. I was mortified when I found out what I'd done wasn't the right way to go about it. I found out cause one of the teachers came into our classroom and asked "who took a poo in the urinal?" It was attached to our classroom and one other. No one spoke up, obviously. I'm just so glad I wasn't seen doing it! D:
I always feel a bit weird being such a fan because I’m a straight cis female and your fan base seems to be mostly LGBTQ+ but I legit just love your personality and content and I’ve learned a lot from watching you💕
This just reminded me of something that just happened recently. I work at an amazon warehouse and to get in and out of the doors, you get this work badge with a barcode for scanning. If you forget your badge though, you can get a temporary one using your actual state id. Now I don’t look that much different from my id photo, like I’ve dyed my hair and got a piercing and started growing facial hair (I’m bout 9 months on t), but I still have the same face, so I didn’t think much of anything as I gave the security card my id, until he went to hand it back. When he gave me my temp badge, he looked kinda confused and a little hesitant to give it to me. I was annoyed at first and then it hit me *My fucking ID still says f on it* somebody bury me
Jamie, you have been a major role model for me throughout the last couple years as I discovered myself, and now I've been fully out as trans since October of 2018, and I'm starting on testosterone on Friday! Thank you for helping me find the confidence to be myself!
I kinda like the pale green color. I'd like to know if that green is his natural color eyes or contact lenses. He's got a pair of red contact lenses. Now THAT is terrifying.
I'm to teach my friends to say "thank you, Soldier.' or 'Have a nice day, Traveller' I'm dutch so we don't really use pronouns after a greeting or something, but instead of ladies and gentlemen, madam, sir, I think using gender-neutral titles are mysterious and cool to use. Especially if they are visibly not carrying that title.
@@namelesswolf2625 I use it for literally all situations, makes me sound like I know something they don't. For added mystery, use 'wanderer' or 'comrad' or 'my lord' or some other weird career position. XP
My eyes like how roly looks. I think it's the fact that his eyes are my favorite color and it's not every day I see that on a human. Just stunning! Love it.
They're definitely contacts, so I'm praising his style choice, not his uncontrollable appearance. :) I really enjoyed his personality as well. Gotta go sub to his channel now.
Jamieeeeeeee please make a video with stories where trans people were seen as their own sibling. a lot of people I knew when I lived as a girl ask me if she (me) is my sister now.
Ok I have been watching your videos for so long and you helped inspire me to come out as FTM, I’ve been on T for about 7 months now and just got top surgery 2 days ago. Now I’m the happiest I’ve been my entire life. I just wanna say to you and all the other trans youtubers that you’ve been so helpful in my journey, thank you.
You two are so fun together! :) And yeah, being in my 30s and sounding like an adult but not knowing how old I look and whether I pass or not... It's certainly interesting. Always looked way younger than I am and never liked it. I was always condescendingly told "one day you'll learn to appreciate it lol". Just as I was starting to look my age... I started my FTM transition x'D
Oh gosh, I love these stories, it’s good to know almost everyone else is also as awkward as you sometimes lol The name-birthday pork thing was so wholesome thooo
I work as a tour guide and I address people as "dear guest" a lot. I'm fancy and British so people sort of love it! It really works - typical situation would be "This guest is expecting two other people who haven't arrived yet" to my assistant.
I needed this light-hearted video. 💕 Since this is RUclips, based on the title I expected it to be gatekeeping a la Blaire White. Like deciding person xyz isn't trans cause they don't pass as well as you. I was pleasantly surprised and so relieved by the actual content. You two are gorgeous and very funny. Thank you!
I’ve got a couple that happened in the same week. For reference, I’m a really short AFAB and even when I’m assumed female I look younger than I am. I was buying milk at a gas station and the person working at the counter asked me how old I was and sounded really concerned, even though I was literally just buying milk. So you could say I got carded while buying milk. Three days later, I again get asked how old I am at a movie theatre because kids tickets. Kids tickets are 12 and under. I’m 17. Apparently I just looked particularly young that week.
This video made me laugh so hard!!! Ok this is just for fun but just this year I tried coming out to a friend who was a year younger than me. We were both in our high school gym watching a game and it was really loud in there. A formal dance was coming up and I told her I didn't want to go, my lame excuse was that the music wasn't gonna be good. She kept on insisting that I should go and I finally told her the reason why because I didn't want to wear a dress. My parents wouldn't let me go unless I was wearing one so I decided not to go. She still kept on persisting on me going so I turned to her and said I was trans. She paused and asked if I had said crayons... It was so loud in the gym she couldn't hear me. I gave up and just sat in silence. That reply gets me laughing so dam hard... CRAYONS!?
The story about the pork pie made me tear up; it was just so sweet. I love both of your channels, and the crossover videos are such a joy, as are Roly's happy socks. 💕🌈💕
RandomArt Lizard you know that when you say “I hate something, but...” that you’re lying to yourself? You obviously do like correcting people, it gives you some kind of a buzz. This is a global network, and a lot of people are commenting who have English as a second language. In Germanic and Scandinavian countries a K is always used, they don’t have a hard C. It really doesn’t matter to understanding them at all. I’m a counsellor, and I enjoy correcting people who are not emotionally intelligent, and who don’t understand themselves or realise that their fake motives are clear as glass! Spreading better emotional intelligence and compassion for differences is what I do in life. Why do you think that spreading correct spellings is so important? I don’t see the value myself, but you might have been brought up to see it as a worthwhile judgement.
I am not Trans, however at 18 I was really questioning. I went to The Clark Institute in Toronto and talked to someone and then was offered to start their reassignment supports in the Fall. That was what, for me, I needed to Not make the change. So.... the last time I got carded and refused entry to a bar I was 38! I was absolutely thrilled and passed off at the same time. I told the huge brute of a bouncer that I had a couple pairs of underwear older than him!!
Lol my friend sent over my story. Made me laugh and I loved your reaction. Mine was the first story, which is when the packer fell out into the ocean and the dog bit it. Still laughing on about it. Hillarious.
i started the video without looking at the screen and Roly's BRIGHT bright green eyes scared me a little XD wasn't expecting them. they're amazing though, and i love how chaotic these two are together
I never thought a pork pie would make me tear up. That story's ending is just beautiful. Hopefully the dad can help the rest of the family to come around. His reaction was so perfect, I really want to believe that between them they managed to get through to the rest of the family. There needs to be a wholesome, happy resolution for all of them, dammit! ❤
Thank you for having me! This was such fun to make and watch back! Come back to mine soon for tattoo fails 😉😉😉
Looking forward to it 😁😜
💖😢love u 2
Love you 2!!
Roly you are hilarious 🤣
Love those socks!!!
Still waiting for the “dinosaurs are cool, transphobia is not“ merch
It will happen!!
@@Jammidodger it better
@@Jammidodger hopefully the shipping to Germany won't be to expensive 😊❤
@Sam Du kommst aus Deutschland?
Ich hatte vor drei Monaten meine Mastek und brauche meine Binder nicht mehr. (langer GC2B Größe XL; langer Underworks Größe L)
Bei Interesse kannst du mir auf Wattpad eine Direktnachricht schreiben; Username ist Princeofpunk.
@@Jammidodger can't wait, I hope the shipping to Canada isn't too much.
Roly: How hard did you pull the leaver
Jamie : dies
Emily 38 if it falls on the floor, you’re doing it wrong. Lol!
Lol imma do u a favor and leave it at 666
Amelia G ayyy it’s at 669 now I missed the 666:(
I loved that part too hahaha
Omg I died 😂
In Dutch public transport they say "dear travelers" now instead of "ladies and gentlemen". Also, stations are now "peopled" instead of "manned".
And they took the gender markers off of the travel cards.
LM D when we’re liberal af
Gender neutrality's a bloody nightmare to do in Spanish. >.< The closest you can get without literally rewriting the grammar of the language is phrases like "Esteemed clients" (Estimados clientes) and similar, but even that is technically gendered masculine.
@@TwoWholeWorms and even "estimados" has a masculine ending!! I study Spanish and used to study French and always wondered how languages with gender built into the grammar would deal with gender neutrality. I was in Spain 3 months and it was never mentioned and I was too chicken to bring it up myself 😅
Benjamin Nolan I know right? It’s the same in French and unironically a reason I want to move to an English speaking country, it’s so hard speaking French/Italian/Spanish etc. when you want to be general/neutral/inclusive
Yay Dutch public transport! All places should be like that yanno? There are ways to be gender neutral in most situation
Non-binary here. At the airport my partner was asked "is the kid (they were talking about me) over 15?!". I am 27.
What's the difference between gender non-conforming and non-binary? Hmm 🤔
@@mikuenjoyerXD I think it's the same thing? Or at least around the same thing.
@@itsMe_TheHerpes a fabulous unicorn why the fuck do you care.
it'sMe TheHerpes hey weren’t you in the hate comments in the last video? Interesting that you still watch these videos just to comment on them when you seem to hate trans people so much-
@@itsMe_TheHerpes then wow your life must be so miserable
My pork pie story got in! Omg made my day.
You certainly had me in the beginning with that one..
From the preamble and the way he was reading it I was so worried that things were about to turn violent and then suddenly onions, onions everywhere
Truly an adorable outcome
omg your story made me cry happy tears!!! I’m glad your dad wasn’t an asshole ❤️❤️❤️
@@MotoCat91 thanks :)
@@turtlepenguinXkizuna thank you :)
I’m so, so happy that your dad was so accepting and you actually got a positive reaction, after your mum and sister. Here’s to your dad and his pork pie and candle. What an amazing dad you have there. X
“What’s a gender neutral term for sir or madam?”
Captain. Just call everyone Captain.
I would prefer lord of darkness, but whatever you like captain
You know what, I think I’m calling everyone captain now
Me who's watched AOT: CAPTAIN LEVI
I get called captain at work now and can confirm I love it
Oh captain, my captain!
Fun fact: My dad, a cishet FIFTY-ONE YEAR OLD MALE, is still mistaken for a teen boy. He's also 5' 2". So, it's not just for trans guys.
Wow what is your dad taking to age like that lol
What in the shit??? I- I need a moment. You have good genetics then
Your dad is legend
@@SoulSlugArts No he isn't his genetics are the only good thing about him
@@Marqkus I bet he's handsome
My favorite neutral alternative to sir or madam is "Mademonsieur". My friend found that somewhere on the internet and takes great pride in using that and thude as often as possible.
''Monsieur'' is french isn't it ?
@@61247pecticide Seems like a combination of French Mademoiselle (Miss) and Monsieur (Mister).
@@evaweiss1160 oh yes thanks
@@61247pecticide Yes. In french it's Madam or Monsieur - so someone on the internet combined both of them to make a middleword. Mademonsieur.
@@PaxPirate gonna use it for my invisibles nb friends ahah
Roly about Roly: the epiphany of the word amazing
Also roly about roly: yes hide the monstrosity that is my face
*covers entire life story with a baggy hoodie*
-laughs in pre t-
God Same lmao
That profile pic 😍
Me tbh
lmao ftm life is loving MCR and wearing baggy black hoodies
I FEEL THAT SO MUCH.
I'm semi-post-t (as in, I go on and off) but like, I've been pre-t and I know the feel SO MUCH
You are a brave cookie and DON'T LET ANYONE TELL YOU OTHERWISE
hey guys. i got my first binder today and i wanted to share it. i feel the best i ever had in 6+ years and i guess this is a message to say thank you to jamie, for playing a part in the discovery of who i am, and for showing me what i can achieve. and also a message for others to say that you have to keep going, you will one day be able to be almost entirely free from dysphoria, and every day its just about taking little steps. love you all
Congratulations! I'm happy for you.
Lindsey Cline thank you very much!
Congrats, dude!
Wait to go bud! I remember when I first got mine. Be careful and stay safe though!
My parents found, and threw away my binder
Went to an IHOP with my grandparents and as we were being led to our table, the waitress looked at me and asked "Kids menu?" I laughed and said no. Then she says "Ah, you look right on the edge (of 12)" I looked at her and said "That's weird since I'm 19." She made someone else take our table, she was so beet red with embarrassment.
Waitress: you’re so tall. How old are you?
Me: fourteen
Waitress: ...
Logan LaBelle I would have played along so I could get the kids menu lmao
@@kickme5592 how do you think I get the discounts at Golden Corral
Last summer went to a mini golf place with my family, including my younger brother. At this place kids could play for free. The woman made direct eye contact with me and said “are you under 12?” I’m 21. She didn’t ask my younger brother, just me. She tried to defend herself when I told her my age. It was really awkward.
One time I was with my mom at an open house and the realtor asked what grade I was in and I was like “I’m in college” and he was like “you look like you’re 12, bless you”
Gender-neutral "Have a nice day Sir/Madam":
"Have a nice day"
There is no need to involve gender in that sentence!
Hey just wondering if it would be okay to say "fellow human" or "terrestrial"
I hate it when people misgender me by adding those unnecessary gendered words
Not inclusive to non-binary umbrella folks (including but not limited to non-binary, genderqueer, genderfluid) who go by Mx or They. Btw 'Mx' could be one 🤔 ✌🏻😁
@@MidnightEkaki I understand that it’s bothersome and annoying but I don’t think it’s okay for you to be angry for people just trying to polite.
the chaotic energy when these two get together has me dying XD we need more roly and jamie content XD
Had a few conversations about gender-neutral honourifics (instead of sir/madam) on Twitter recently, and the general consensus (we're so British, lol) is to fall back on politeness. Instead of saying "thank you, sir" just say "thank you". It's not any LESS polite to not use an honourific when talking to someone... I'm cis and I'm not offended if someone doesn't call me "ma'am" or "miss".
hidingfromsomeone just say thank you comrade...... WHO DOESNT LIKE BEING CALLED COMRADE 😂😂
Imma start doing that
This would be so awesome. But where I live (Deep American south) it is SO ingrained in everybody's head that leaving the sir or madam off is super rude. I'm a substitute teacher, and idk if the kids mean it rude, or it slips, or if they get vibes from me, but sometimes I get called sir (afab and not currently actively trying to pass) and they're like "oh I'm so sorry" {the kind of polite ones, anyway, sometimes I can catch them before they say sorry} and I'll be like "Hey, don't worry about it. I'll answer to either one" bc it HAS to be said, otherwise other teachers/parents/et cetera will say "Yes what ?" And the kid will say "yes ma'am" of "yes sir"
@@ambycat1105 I hadn't considered how different cultures have different expectations of honourifics.... I've got friends who live in Georgia who I've visited a few times so I probably should have thought about it more! You're right though, and sorry for not being more open-minded.
yee yee damn I wanna be called comrade now
Lets see gender neutral words
Comrade
Cowboy voice: partner
mate
Pal
Buddy
Captain
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Keep it going in the comments
*foolish mortal*
Enemy
Your majesty
Creature
Earthling human
Yzma: "pull the lever, Kronk"
Kronk: *pulls the lever straight off*
Yzma: 4:10
I didn't expect this to get so many likes wow- ty fellow memers lol
i hate myself for understanding the joke.
Pfft lmao
lmfao thank you for doing this
Thank you, for this
Omg thank u so much. im crying. and i laughed so hard i nearly threw up
Gender neutral pronoun for madam and sir,
*comrade*
Or egleant person
@Milena Shvedova y e s
I'll add that to my list
"Hey bitches."
"Wassup, dumb fucks."
"How are ya'll, cowards."
"Watcha doing, comrade."
"Mixs" or Mx. Or smth is the enby version of mrs/ms and mr.
Pathetic mortal?
"Your majesty!"
The only way I will allow common binaries to address me.
*honestly I wish there were a way to adress me formally (in german there isnt)
Aber sicher besteht die Möglichkeit, Eure Hoheit! 😉
@@lukassimontm3546
ich glaube man könnte "sier" als genderneutrales pronomen benutzen, aber idk, nurn bruchteil der bevölkerung kennt das wort und idk wie man "seine/ihre" mit sier benutzen würde :/
@@crssnvrs Genau das is das ding. xier war ja auch so schwer mit der grammatik. Ich selber will mir die neuen pronomen so ungern anlernen auch wenns eigentlich gut wär für mich und wenn ich schon zu faul bin dafür will ich das echt nicht von anderen verlangen XD.
Ich find das voll cool , dass ich unter einem von jamies videos mit leuten auf deutsch schreib. Das gibt mir voll das gefühl, dass wir mehr sind als erwartet - weil ichs nicht erwartet hab :>
@@danieln.schabauer1963 ich habs auch nicht erwartet lmao, aber ich finds cool! keinen plan welche pronomen man sonst benutzen könnte, ich hab nen genderfluid kumpel und er benutzt einfach männliche pronomen (is weiblich geboren, fühlt sich meines wissens etwas öfter weiblich als männlich), idk ob du dich mit sowas wohl fühlen würdest :/
Let me tell you how my partner found out about her latex allergy. She had a severe reaction at the dentists so the dentist changed everything they used (gloves, pastes, etc) just in case. That didn’t tell her exactly what she was allergic to but she never had another reaction at dentist. Following this, her next reaction was at a doctors. Unfortunately for her it was the Gynecologist. The reaction was severe and localized if you get my drift. She reported back to the dentist that it was definitely the latex gloves and had the allergy entered into her medical charts immediately. A few years later she had her hair done and hadn’t even considered the gloves worn by the colorist would be latex. Welp, a few hours later she had a beautiful head of hair and fish lips.
I found out I have fake-Latex sensitivity (which isn’t quite as weird as it sounds and it isn’t really a common material because this is a common issue from what I’ve heard) when I was in middle school and my Orthodontist had swapped over to the fake-Latex gloves and I basically broke out in hives on the inside of my mouth, but with braces they were scratched open all day and by the time I got home (since my appt was during lunch) I was bleeding from my mouth.
Dad worries, but realizes what is causing the blood and gives me a Zyrtec and then calls my Ortho and just rails into the guy. Now I have to know which brands of “Not Latex” gloves can and can’t be used with me. I don’t see them very often- bc apparently this was kinda common- but they do show up every once and awhile.
Oof, I'm lucky in that I only get like irritated skin/itchy with no like bumps, and general discomfort. (I have a few mild skin allergies though tbf. Nickel earrings make my ears swell (common) and my skin green if via rings, and suuper itchy, and I can't put like face paints on unless they're specifically hypoallergenic. Not to mention those annoying bandaid shapes. Bandaids are so itchy, after like a good few minutes istg, I'm pretty sure that's not an allergy, but just grr. My cuticles basically peel and stuff all the time, and I'm generally prone to hand wounds (light ones, but worthy of bandaids.) along with acne issues. So I have to have bandaids almost constantly on hand just in case or I have a chance of bleeding everywhere lol. (More so from the acne, it bleeds heavier than I'd wish but for a short time, while other wounds usually just make it impossible to do anything without being in pain as I use my hands a lot, instruments, painting, drawing, etc.) Aka, my skin is picky and bratty. (Seriously though, I have dry skin issues where, when I was my hands, if I touch anything dry, it'll make me want to cry. I can't fold dry laundry, even if I haven't washed my hands or anything, without actually crying, because it hurts. It's not like sharp pain, it's almost like a mix of tickling soft discomfort or the sensation when you tense up your muscles and they tremble? It's achy soft sandpapery pain and I can't even touch myself or my clothes or anything at all, even lotion upon contact, without having that sensation. Lotion helps, but I have sensory issues and it's slimy and gross. Only few have been tolerable.)
Also, bananas contain the same allergens as latex, from what I read, so that's why it's more likely that you'll be allergic to the other if you are allergic to one. Same with (using list I'm reading from) kiwi, avocado, chestnut, and passion fruit. (Not that you'll HAVE to have them, but you're at a higher risk of it.)
Just don’t say anything like ‘sir or madam’. Simply say ‘have a nice day now’. Any time I get folx stumbling over that with me, I tell them to cut it out of their vernacular. It’s easier for everyone. My friend now says ‘good evening. Please take your seats as tonight’s performance will commence’ at the theatre she works in after asking my advice.
The naming day bit did not bring tears to my eyes. Shut up.
This. I live in a country where we hardly ever use honorifics or anything like that (hell, we don't even have gendered pronouns) and I always wonder whether I come across as rude to foreigners when I just address everyone like "yo, wassup" even if they were the damn President. But I don't care because honestly the world would be better if everyone did that everywhere.
@@human78631 what language is that? Just asking so I can learn it and move there asap
The Queer Runner im sorry, i don’t see anyone in this thread saying anything n about it. who were you talking to when you said shut up? and why?
@@-_e_- I think it's a 'I'm not crying, you're crying' while full on sobbing bit :)
Might be wrong, but that's how I wanna read it haha
Please do more videos with Roly!!! You two bounce off each other so well and I absolutely love you both ❤️🏳️🌈✌️🇬🇧
*cries when sees that Jamie liked my comment*
Shaun McCrimmon aaaaaaawwwww
When I came out as NB to my parents, they told me "The only thing that matters to us is that you are safe, happy, and healthy." I kind of should have expected that cuz they would take me and my sisters to pride when we were little. It did take them a little bit hard for them to remember to use my new name and pronouns but they really did try.
This was the same for me. I’m gender-fluid so I guess kind of a different situation, but using they is the easiest since we don’t know what gender I’ll be at certain points and it’s difficult to just switch. So they use they, and my name was changed too so that took some getting used to, but it’s pretty solid now!
I work in a bookshop and I always use “gentlefriend” instead of sir or madam.
Oh that's excellent!
I got one 😂
My grandma and grandpa and I went to I hop at like 9 pm for dinner. I had to pee and I was wearing a button up shirt and bow tie (I’m ftm) there was nobody in the restaurant at the time so I went into the men’s (first time doing that). My grandma followed me in there and I had to tell her to get out. That’s nit even the worse part. Like 2 minutes after I came out and sat back down, an entire basketball team came into the restaurant (like 20 guys) and almost all of them went into the bathroom RIGHT after I left 😂
Edit: that same night the waitress called me sir and I smiled cause she called me sir and she “corrected” herself cause I smile/laughed 😂 but my grandpa jumped in a said no you were right the first time.
Cool grandma!
>My grandma followed me in there and I had to tell her to get out.
LOL
Yay grandpa!
My trans fail is miss gendering myself after 5 years of be out and on testosterone for about 9 months
Ha, "miss" gendering
Same tho
Okay but I've been going by Rayne for like 5-6 years now and I still deadname myseld
It doesn't help that... I'm not out or asked my family to call me that instead but still, you'd think my internal monologue can get my name right but fjsjf
Dude, same lol
I'm a cis women and I did that as a kid 👁👄👁I knew the different but I forgot which gender I am
I feel that! I dead name myself like when I answer the phone and such I've been in the closet for so long I forget other people know now and I can just use my new name instead
Nobody:
Roly: I'm back girls
lol love you rolly
Honestly, Roly has the most gorgeous facial features.
I need Roly saying "punch me in the face daddy" as my next text alert.
I was drinking when Roly started yelling about the urinal flushing and I almost died choking/laughing. 10/10 would die again.
Are you a Winchester?
“Hey man, did u leave ur boiled balls on the floor?”
Lmao I think the best part is I’m the 69th like
Aren’t you guys just reacting to me in high school
I-is that Lin?
Doretha Roy yup :)
Wait.. I.. That is really Lin isn't it? Oh god
MOOD
My friend’s allergic to latex and he found out the HARD way
imchloegoodwin pun not intended 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 sorry about your friend though lol
Lily Flavin it’s all good you can get latex free condoms hahah
Roly: PUNCH ME IN THE FACE DADDY
Jamie has his fist ready
Roly: 0_0
Wait I need time stamp of that
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@@Galaxy-Emu Thanks!
I was 23 when the cashier thought I was not even 15. It happens to people on the Autism spectrum, too.
When I was 22 in college a teacher chased me down and accused me of trespassing, saying I was too young to be in college. Im autistic and nb 🤣.
In case anyone's wondering why autistic people look younger, it's likely because we have weird collagen. There's an incredibly high prevalence of Ehlers-Danlos (a connective tissue disorder) and milder connective tissue abnormalities in autism.
@@SpecialBlanket I didn't know that about E.D. huh. Would hypermobility fall under the weird collagen thing do you think? (I'll do my own research ofc but it seems like you know a bit about it is all :)
Can confirm. People stopped asking for my ID when buying cigs when I was over 30. Also autistic and nb :)
I'm also allergic to latex and I found out from stickers and Band-Aids. Most adhesive is latex based. It's not only gloves and condoms that are made with latex XD
I am a trans fail. 🤣🤣 Like I can't do anything right to pass.
still valid tho
I found this out after being out for a year but finding a short hairstyle that fits your head shape can really help you pass. I really hope i could help you in some way :)
I felt that
Mood tho
*is non binary* passing, what's that? *laughs heartily... sobs quietly*
Roly just out of nowhere: "Do you like my socks??" xD
Are they happy socks?
Roly: I’m not an arse hole I don’t really won’t tears.
Jame: (eye twitche).
Hahaha lol
I haven't even started watching this and I already love this collaboration.
I lost it at the "shit in the urinal" comments because I actually did that my first time in a boy's bathroom at...uh...seven or eight cause I had NO idea.
I didn't tell ANYONE and was always afraid to go back in one (even while questioning my gender identity) once I realized you weren't supposed to do that, hence part of why I didn't come out as trans til I was 18. I was mortified when I found out what I'd done wasn't the right way to go about it. I found out cause one of the teachers came into our classroom and asked "who took a poo in the urinal?" It was attached to our classroom and one other.
No one spoke up, obviously. I'm just so glad I wasn't seen doing it! D:
I always feel a bit weird being such a fan because I’m a straight cis female and your fan base seems to be mostly LGBTQ+ but I legit just love your personality and content and I’ve learned a lot from watching you💕
Tara Powers it’s an inclusive world. We need as many allies as we can get, so it’s nice that you’re here ❤️
Yo nobody’s gonna gatekeep here. Everyone can be spuds❤️
We don’t judge. Allies welcome!
The only thing that we do not accept is maps, transphobia, homophobia and spiders
@@jaydencreates8272 what are spiders and maps
I laughed so hard at these stories; the pork-pie-naming-day story made me so happy
I love Roly's laughs, they're contagious and send me from stifled (sometimes teary eyed) giggling to holding back legit laughter-
This just reminded me of something that just happened recently.
I work at an amazon warehouse and to get in and out of the doors, you get this work badge with a barcode for scanning. If you forget your badge though, you can get a temporary one using your actual state id. Now I don’t look that much different from my id photo, like I’ve dyed my hair and got a piercing and started growing facial hair (I’m bout 9 months on t), but I still have the same face, so I didn’t think much of anything as I gave the security card my id, until he went to hand it back.
When he gave me my temp badge, he looked kinda confused and a little hesitant to give it to me. I was annoyed at first and then it hit me
*My fucking ID still says f on it*
somebody bury me
Hard or soft boiled eggs! Roly asked the most important question
End of the video:
Jamie: ugh my butt's really sweaty
😂😂
Y'all are so precious, your friendship is something I admire
Roly: I WANT TEARS
(Seconds later I'm crying at the pork pie story)
So many comments about the sweaty butt, meanwhile I'm dying at "punch me in the face, daddy " 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Jamie, you have been a major role model for me throughout the last couple years as I discovered myself, and now I've been fully out as trans since October of 2018, and I'm starting on testosterone on Friday! Thank you for helping me find the confidence to be myself!
I hope it's going well!
This was the collab I never thought I needed. But I'm glad it happened.
9:31 Yes Jamie everyone knows that women don't have faces.
Roly's eyes are terrifying and beautiful at the same time
I kinda like the pale green color. I'd like to know if that green is his natural color eyes or contact lenses. He's got a pair of red contact lenses. Now THAT is terrifying.
I love when Roly collabs so I get to see him more. ❤
I want to watch the chaos which would be a video with Jamie, Roly and Noah 🤣🤣💕
I'm to teach my friends to say "thank you, Soldier.' or 'Have a nice day, Traveller'
I'm dutch so we don't really use pronouns after a greeting or something, but instead of ladies and gentlemen, madam, sir, I think using gender-neutral titles are mysterious and cool to use. Especially if they are visibly not carrying that title.
Oooh traveller would be so good for airports and parking garages to use. That would make me so happy to hear
@@namelesswolf2625 I use it for literally all situations, makes me sound like I know something they don't.
For added mystery, use 'wanderer' or 'comrad' or 'my lord' or some other weird career position. XP
In English there aren't really any that can be used in a non-ironic formal context, apart from professions like doctor, reverend, professor etc
@@rovy225 why only "comrade",tovarishch/tovarășe?
@@alexandrub8786 what do you mean?
Oh my God this is so wholesome i needed this our two uncles coming together yet again
Literally the best duo ever
@10:45 I've worked retail most of my life and I usually say "have a good day, friend". Makes people smile
I am under a spell under roly spell I mean just look at him his face is so aesthetically pleasing
He is very pretty 👌
My eyes like how roly looks. I think it's the fact that his eyes are my favorite color and it's not every day I see that on a human. Just stunning! Love it.
He wears contacts a lot so they might be contacts but yeah I agree they are nice
@Sam same I'm subscribed to his channel
They're definitely contacts, so I'm praising his style choice, not his uncontrollable appearance. :)
I really enjoyed his personality as well. Gotta go sub to his channel now.
Jamieeeeeeee please make a video with stories where trans people were seen as their own sibling. a lot of people I knew when I lived as a girl ask me if she (me) is my sister now.
Your both so iconic 💅✨ the pork pie story was really wholesome OMG
Ok I have been watching your videos for so long and you helped inspire me to come out as FTM, I’ve been on T for about 7 months now and just got top surgery 2 days ago. Now I’m the happiest I’ve been my entire life. I just wanna say to you and all the other trans youtubers that you’ve been so helpful in my journey, thank you.
I hope it's all working out really well for you!
You two are so fun together! :) And yeah, being in my 30s and sounding like an adult but not knowing how old I look and whether I pass or not... It's certainly interesting. Always looked way younger than I am and never liked it. I was always condescendingly told "one day you'll learn to appreciate it lol". Just as I was starting to look my age... I started my FTM transition x'D
That “punch me in the face, daddy” and Jamie’s reaction combined made me scream laughing and drop my phone omg
Oh gosh, I love these stories, it’s good to know almost everyone else is also as awkward as you sometimes lol
The name-birthday pork thing was so wholesome thooo
I work as a tour guide and I address people as "dear guest" a lot. I'm fancy and British so people sort of love it! It really works - typical situation would be "This guest is expecting two other people who haven't arrived yet" to my assistant.
Same! I'm also a tour guide and I use guest to refer to people on the tour. Sometimes visitor but I like guest better, feels friendlier
I needed this light-hearted video. 💕 Since this is RUclips, based on the title I expected it to be gatekeeping a la Blaire White. Like deciding person xyz isn't trans cause they don't pass as well as you. I was pleasantly surprised and so relieved by the actual content. You two are gorgeous and very funny. Thank you!
Who else loves Jamie? 😅✋
I love them both
Omg first (I waited really long for that) btw I love when you and Roly do videos together 😂💖
I’ve got a couple that happened in the same week.
For reference, I’m a really short AFAB and even when I’m assumed female I look younger than I am.
I was buying milk at a gas station and the person working at the counter asked me how old I was and sounded really concerned, even though I was literally just buying milk. So you could say I got carded while buying milk.
Three days later, I again get asked how old I am at a movie theatre because kids tickets. Kids tickets are 12 and under. I’m 17.
Apparently I just looked particularly young that week.
This video made me laugh so hard!!!
Ok this is just for fun but just this year I tried coming out to a friend who was a year younger than me. We were both in our high school gym watching a game and it was really loud in there. A formal dance was coming up and I told her I didn't want to go, my lame excuse was that the music wasn't gonna be good. She kept on insisting that I should go and I finally told her the reason why because I didn't want to wear a dress. My parents wouldn't let me go unless I was wearing one so I decided not to go. She still kept on persisting on me going so I turned to her and said I was trans. She paused and asked if I had said crayons... It was so loud in the gym she couldn't hear me. I gave up and just sat in silence.
That reply gets me laughing so dam hard...
CRAYONS!?
Omg, that's awesome. You should try telling her again if you haven't already. Crayons... trans... trayons... crans...
At 14:30, Jamie should have had a packer fall out as he was standing up as an homage to the earlier trans confessions lolol.
I love videos with roly and Jamie. The good kush contrast of reactions.
Y’all’s personalities are so different but it made for great content.
These two together are comedy gold
i watch both of your channels and your energy together just works so damn well! its like yin and yang
I love the contrast in personalities! This was a much-needed hilarious video. 😆
OMG I'VE NEVER BEEN SO EARLY!I LOVE YOU BOTH, BEST TRANS BEANS TO EVER COLLAB💓💓💓
is roly trans? i thought he was non-binary but i went through his channel and now i think he's cis and gay lmao
@@vitoisadoll he is non-binary but nb also falls under the trans spectrum, so they're both trans
@@trppc3795 oooh thank you!
Your eyes match Jamie's outfit!
I might be colourblind if I get these wrong, but Jamie’s outfit is yellow and Roly’s eyes are green
They're awesome and gorgeous but they really don't match Jamie's outfit lol
I love how Roly just casually said right at the end "Oh my butt's really sweaty"
Hahaha that was me
@@Jammidodger That was you? I was sure it was Roly's voice
Lol
This is my first time seeing Roly. I absolutely love him! His upbeat demeanour is so infectious.
The story about the pork pie made me tear up; it was just so sweet. I love both of your channels, and the crossover videos are such a joy, as are Roly's happy socks. 💕🌈💕
My favorite moment I get is when they look at me, see me as male then I open my mouth and they have the look of horror on their face
towards the very end
"My butt is very sweaty"
neutral term for sir or ma’am: friend :)
The energy between you two is amazing. Love it!
I love Roly in Jamie's videos, their personalities contrast in an oddly harmonious way.
Should teach my friends to say ''Hi komrade'' instead of gendered greetings.
Definitely gonna do it.
The far right will go up the roof if people start using comrade 😂😂😂😂
RandomArt Lizard you know that when you say “I hate something, but...” that you’re lying to yourself? You obviously do like correcting people, it gives you some kind of a buzz. This is a global network, and a lot of people are commenting who have English as a second language. In Germanic and Scandinavian countries a K is always used, they don’t have a hard C. It really doesn’t matter to understanding them at all. I’m a counsellor, and I enjoy correcting people who are not emotionally intelligent, and who don’t understand themselves or realise that their fake motives are clear as glass! Spreading better emotional intelligence and compassion for differences is what I do in life. Why do you think that spreading correct spellings is so important? I don’t see the value myself, but you might have been brought up to see it as a worthwhile judgement.
I am not Trans, however at 18 I was really questioning. I went to The Clark Institute in Toronto and talked to someone and then was offered to start their reassignment supports in the Fall. That was what, for me, I needed to Not make the change. So.... the last time I got carded and refused entry to a bar I was 38! I was absolutely thrilled and passed off at the same time. I told the huge brute of a bouncer that I had a couple pairs of underwear older than him!!
3:45 New fear unlocked!!! Falling urinals!!! lmao
Lol my friend sent over my story. Made me laugh and I loved your reaction. Mine was the first story, which is when the packer fell out into the ocean and the dog bit it. Still laughing on about it. Hillarious.
i started the video without looking at the screen and Roly's BRIGHT bright green eyes scared me a little XD wasn't expecting them. they're amazing though, and i love how chaotic these two are together
I love Roly's eyes.
I had a friend who used double sided tape to keep a packer in the undies.
...ow
Legend says that Jamie will like this comment....
I guess the legend was true
i love your username XD
can i please have 2% of Roly's energy please
I never thought a pork pie would make me tear up. That story's ending is just beautiful.
Hopefully the dad can help the rest of the family to come around. His reaction was so perfect, I really want to believe that between them they managed to get through to the rest of the family. There needs to be a wholesome, happy resolution for all of them, dammit! ❤
You guys are just the perfect balance and are hilarious together 😂