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  • Опубликовано: 31 май 2021
  • Have you ever been in a relationship and wished the person would cheat on you so the relationship would end? If so, you’re not alone. One wife opens up about wanting her husband to cheat so she can get out of the marriage.
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  • @TheRealDaytime
    @TheRealDaytime  3 года назад +33

    Have you ever been in a relationship and wished the person would cheat on you so the relationship would end?

    • @madridista703usa3
      @madridista703usa3 3 года назад +1

      Sounds like she cheated already lol dummy

    • @madridista703usa3
      @madridista703usa3 3 года назад

      Gerson does not know how to keep a man or a household that’s why she makes a bit of money and leaves

    • @ebso2027
      @ebso2027 3 года назад +1

      Please does anybody know how you write a complaint to the producers of this show?

    • @adamsey_mame9043
      @adamsey_mame9043 3 года назад +1

      Ohh absolutely!!! Not only cheat but i was expecting him to slap me and then i can call it quits.

    • @adamsey_mame9043
      @adamsey_mame9043 3 года назад +1

      @@ebso2027 go to the main website

  • @QueenHayati
    @QueenHayati 3 года назад +130

    Getting cheated on is the worst feeling in the world. Some people never heal from it

    • @ingrid8994
      @ingrid8994 3 года назад +4

      Thank you! Totally agree. Good point.

    • @catgalura5572
      @catgalura5572 3 года назад +1

      truth!

    • @CC-si3cr
      @CC-si3cr 3 года назад

      Clearly Garcelle is one of 'em. JLo definitely isn't. She moves on to the next no problem.

    • @Prosper927
      @Prosper927 3 года назад

      @@CC-si3cr 🤣🤣 @ the JLo comment.

    • @BL3SSed-Bliss
      @BL3SSed-Bliss 3 года назад +2

      Traumatized, sometimes even leading to PTSD.
      💜

  • @madmann1000
    @madmann1000 3 года назад +160

    The grass is not always greener on the other side.
    To leave behind a good man because you’re “bored” is very strange to me.
    She’s most likely going to spend the rest of her life chasing after something that isn’t real.
    Eventually all marriages get to a point of stagnation and boredom.
    Has she consider expressing how she feels to him?? Therapy or marriage counseling??
    She didn’t really give up much information to receive good advice.

    • @2147273555
      @2147273555 3 года назад +35

      You are the only person I can totally agree with 100%.... there have been times we are at the point of divorce and some how we end up fighting through and are so grateful we pushed through. I am in a point in my marriage that I cannot see my life without my husband but had I left him when I was thinking that’s what I wanted we would not be where we are.

    • @roshogullah89
      @roshogullah89 3 года назад +15

      I completely agree with you. My friend left her husband because of that and now she’s talked to tens of men but no one is good enough. It’s literally an idea of a person that they’re looking of, not real.

    • @jonathangrabban912
      @jonathangrabban912 3 года назад +1

      A word is enough for the wise and a Narcissist should not be trusted because they are often toxic with an excessive need for admiration, disregard for others feelings, an inability to handle any criticism and a sense of entitlement. They also uses future faking and gaslighting as some of their control tactics. Narcissists are also trying to explore the coronavirus as a means of getting back to their victims so it is also important to observe the “NO CONTACT RULE”. I used to think that love could cure anything but it only fed my narc's enormous ego. It is important to be wise when dealing with a narcissist and I’m glad that cyberhackinggenius helped cloned my wife’s phone. I got access to all her dealings both on phone and social media without touching her phone. I’m here in Nevada USA and able to access my wife’s phone with a cloned app even while she was away in the UK and cheating on me. All I did was share my wife’s phone number with Cyberhackinggenius and I was able to read both her new and deleted messages from my phone through a remote link to a programmed app containing cloned cell information without having to touch her phone. My wife was a cheating Narcissist and I’m glad to find out all her secrets and infidelity with the help of cyberhackinggenius. My wife also tried to use this coronavirus outbreak as a means to get back to me but I’m not stupid enough to allow someone so toxic back into my life. I’m finally going through divorce with lots of evidence against her. I read all her deleted and recent chats on Whatsapp, Facebook and Instagram. Hacker Gavin also helped me in checking if my phone number is being hacked and he secured all my numbers from unauthorized access with a very powerful encryption software. You can contact this great hacker “Gavin” through his email cyberhackinggenius@gmail. com and WhatsApp: +19256795146 . You can also call and text his Cellular number on +16265152216 and thank me later for this great information...

    • @BombshElle_7
      @BombshElle_7 3 года назад +2

      Say it louder for the 4 women in this video

  • @britbritnicole9211
    @britbritnicole9211 3 года назад +146

    Loni’s right just leave me now than later. Staying in a relationship for the wrong reasons is not ok.

  • @itsissy5406
    @itsissy5406 3 года назад +135

    Nobody
    Garcelle “I’d rather him get hit by a bus than cheat on me “

    • @Drehgab
      @Drehgab 3 года назад +7

      Omg he got hit by a bus, now I can get a divorce.

    • @millsykooksy4863
      @millsykooksy4863 3 года назад +3

      😂

    • @Mistyfaery
      @Mistyfaery 3 года назад +7

      I don't know how anyone didn't get "I'd rather my husband die than cheat on me as a way to get out of my marriage" rather than "oh no,he got hit by a bus. Guess I'll divorce him." 😂How was her point of she'd rather death part them than infidelity not crystal clear?

    • @janeking4059
      @janeking4059 3 года назад +2

      AGREED with her!

    • @janeking4059
      @janeking4059 3 года назад +1

      @@Drehgab no...u can just leave his dismantled a$$ to lay in bed forever and go on with yours... Rather than him CHEATING on me and destroying me and my childrens lives!!! IT'S PAINFUL! let his lying cheating a$$ feel the pain instead of me and my children!!!

  • @hazel1eyes
    @hazel1eyes 3 года назад +29

    Adrienne: There’s no hurt, there’s no pain, there’s no betrayal. There’s peace...
    Me: There’s just the sin of adultery that encompasses hurt, pain, and betrayal

  • @bumedi
    @bumedi 3 года назад +17

    Lool the way Garcelle said 'you leave?' like its not that complicated , she's right 😂

  • @halfripejulie
    @halfripejulie 3 года назад +94

    Garcelle’s makeup is everything

    • @joshuagibson2541
      @joshuagibson2541 3 года назад

      She refuses to seen without make-up...

    • @gstarr2148
      @gstarr2148 3 года назад +1

      @@joshuagibson2541 She looks beautiful with and without makeup. Did you see the episode a day in the life of…

  • @shocomoco1867
    @shocomoco1867 3 года назад +73

    Once you've fallen out of love, doesn't mean you can't fall back in love with the same person. Love is not this scientific end all be all, where a whole relationship should rely on every second of the day. It's ok if it disappears for a bit. That doesn't mean it can't come back! It's something you CAN work on.
    I just think we as a society are quick to give things up for the sake of 'self-love'. But the reality is that it's selfISH and self-worship.
    Once it's broken, you CAN fix it. 27 years just down the drain? Na I disagree with everyone. A wise woman once told me; "I've fallen out of love with my husband 4 times, but I've fallen back IN love with him 8 times.

    • @Aminus211
      @Aminus211 3 года назад +2

      😩😭😭❤️

    • @IHYC678
      @IHYC678 3 года назад +19

      This!!! It’s so strange to me that people think ‘being in love’ is what sustains a marriage. Love is a verb. When we act in love, i.e. demonstrate patience, forgiveness, kindness etc, the affections/emotions often follow.

    • @qc4wings
      @qc4wings 3 года назад +7

      And mutual RESPECT!!!!
      No abuse of any kind.
      Communication, honesty, loyalty and committed to listening and committed to MAKING TIME FOR THE ONE YOU LOVE and never stop dating/hugging/wooing your honey 💘

    • @Mistyfaery
      @Mistyfaery 3 года назад +4

      Yeah,I think people forget that's the point of being married. Because that infatuation/state of being in love WILL fade at one point..but marriage gives you more incentive to work through it rather than just throw it away. It's literally in your vows.
      "Through sickness and health, through good times and bad, til death do us part."
      That being said, I do understand someone who is super religious having trouble leaving,say...a verbally abusive partner that makes them feel badly constantly. I can see the inner turmoil of wanting to get away from that but wanting to stand by your Christian values as well. So if the only grounds for divorce is infidelity in the bible...in THAT case,I can see someone wishing their spouse would just cheat on them so they'd have grounds.
      But if your marriage is peaceful as Adrienne suggest? Nah..that just sounds like someone who loves drama and is bored without it. 🤦‍♀️😂

    • @shocomoco1867
      @shocomoco1867 3 года назад +1

      @@Mistyfaery completely agree👍 I didn't know that about the bible (only stating infidelity for divorce). I can defo see their point in that case

  • @RomaroBrandon
    @RomaroBrandon 3 года назад +90

    There's obviously a prenup that says he cheats she can leave him with all his possession or take custody of the children.

    • @FranckYound
      @FranckYound 3 года назад +5

      I was thinking about this.

    • @yen3883
      @yen3883 3 года назад +11

      Exactly! I am surprised they did not think about this angle.

    • @ELmayberry
      @ELmayberry 3 года назад +1

      @@yen3883 yeah, same

    • @mscstapleton
      @mscstapleton 3 года назад +4

      That's the only way this makes sense!

    • @ebso2027
      @ebso2027 3 года назад +1

      🤣🤣🤣possibly

  • @estimatekay7351
    @estimatekay7351 2 года назад +2

    There was a time when there was just this animosity between me and hubby. He looked at me one morning and said, "I know you're wishing for me to do something, so you can find an excuse to leave me, but your plans has failed".

  • @snatched.8135
    @snatched.8135 3 года назад +7

    Garcelle is the ONLY one I trust at that table! She's 100% right.

  • @TiffanyRayneOfficial
    @TiffanyRayneOfficial 3 года назад +10

    I'm with Garcelle, just leave. There's no reason for a traumatic event to happen for you to exit a relationship or marriage. You're doing more damage than good to that person.

  • @CourtneyAverett
    @CourtneyAverett 3 года назад +18

    I don't blame Garcelle. Being cheated on is so heartbreaking and can really weigh someone down. I don't care if it wasn't the person's fault who got cheated on. It hurts period. It's why I don't rush so quickly to get romantically involved with anyone. She is probably sensitive like me.
    edit: typos

  • @Stephan__ox.
    @Stephan__ox. 3 года назад +47

    everyone looks lovely today

  • @yosrabenchikhi
    @yosrabenchikhi 3 года назад +9

    I absolutely agree with Adrienne and Garcelle. I'm going through a divorce with my husband and he was mentally draining the living hell out of me. After 2 years of helping him grow to become a fucking MAN, while I'm being forgotten and neglected, I decided to end it now before I would hurt myself. Now I'm getting shitted on because everyone always told me that he is such a great man and I'm the BAD GUY. Now I'm mentally ill and can't work anymore as a result of the marriage. At some point I was wishing and praying for him to just die so I can finally be free and focus on healing myself. It was horrible to get blamed by MY FAMILY for responding to HIS behavior towards me, i.e. always being late, not helping me grow, not helping me through my depression, abusing me mentally and physically, manipulating my mind and heart, etcetera.
    Now I'm at a point in my life where I could care less about the opinions of my family. I've removed every toxic person from my life and am hoping to heal soon. Please pray for a sister 🙏❤

    • @marymonroe-moore1195
      @marymonroe-moore1195 3 года назад +2

      You can make it!! The Lord is close to the broken hearted. I pray you find and keep your peace.

    • @agathachris9722
      @agathachris9722 3 года назад

      Sounds like a midlife crisis.

  • @monk3ysAn
    @monk3ysAn 3 года назад +8

    Keeping it real: I feel no sympathy for this woman. She's cheating her way out of closure in her marriage just to save her pride. I don't respect that at all!

  • @niltash4ever
    @niltash4ever 3 года назад +24

    In the words of Mariah Carey, “If it’s over, just let me go”.

  • @CoachLove
    @CoachLove 3 года назад +9

    Cheating to get out of a relationship shows there's a much deeper problem with the one who does it or wishes for it. You communicated to get involved, so show maturity to talk with one another when it's time to move on.

  • @ninabee1333
    @ninabee1333 3 года назад +7

    I know someone personally who was in a relationship for years and thought the grass was greener on the other side...Now he’s happy and she’s not

  • @heinricheverson
    @heinricheverson 3 года назад +8

    This woman should have an honest conversation with her husband and end things on an informed more healthy note than wanting him to betray his morals and making things messy.

  • @Marvin-ey4sq
    @Marvin-ey4sq 3 года назад +1

    Wanting and waiting for a spouse to cheat just so you have an excuse to leave without looking like the bad person, is cowardly and lacks integrity.

  • @taylorjordan2700
    @taylorjordan2700 3 года назад +12

    Why was Jeannie & Adrienne tryna play devil’s advocate.. if she’s soo unhappy leave stop wasting yours & his time

    • @blackbutterfly233ify
      @blackbutterfly233ify 3 года назад +5

      Because its good to debate these things. Not everything needs to be a clean cut decision

    • @taylorjordan2700
      @taylorjordan2700 3 года назад

      @@blackbutterfly233ify it’s a hard decision but waiting around for someone to something so you can get what you want is passive aggressive & childish.

    • @taylorjordan2700
      @taylorjordan2700 3 года назад +1

      @Rose you know her personally?

    • @stars3108
      @stars3108 3 года назад +4

      @Rose and loads of people back then throu she was wack as hell as she was basically giving him the go ahead to cheat 🤷‍♀️ (sorry jeanie fans)

    • @taylorjordan2700
      @taylorjordan2700 3 года назад +1

      @Rose I’m talking about you saying what she would never do to Jeezy.. But she acknowledged in this episode that Garcelle was right.. if you know this isn’t where you wanna be, leave.. 💁🏾‍♀️

  • @jonathanallsop9141
    @jonathanallsop9141 3 года назад +31

    Lmfaoooo I love Garcelle soooo much 😂😂😂

  • @IS33U
    @IS33U 3 года назад +19

    Meanwhile a lot of US Good Women are looking for a GOODT Man in the daytime w/a flashlight , she trying to leave guilt free. girl takeURarse on . Pull up ur bigGirl britches and go

  • @tatianadaniel3569
    @tatianadaniel3569 3 года назад +58

    The responses of Adrienne and Jennie are absolutely deplorable.

    • @EsiriE
      @EsiriE 3 года назад +2

      🤣

    • @tiamarie6997
      @tiamarie6997 3 года назад +6

      I can’t believe them‼️

    • @roshogullah89
      @roshogullah89 3 года назад +12

      I agree, that’s just a cowards way out of the marriage to not seem like the “bad” one. So the guy has to deal with the stigma of breaking up the marriage.

    • @tatianadaniel3569
      @tatianadaniel3569 3 года назад +3

      @@roshogullah89 Yep🤷‍♀️

    • @jyn88
      @jyn88 3 года назад +4

      That's why Jeannie said Garcelle's answer is the most mature.

  • @Nisha_Nykelle
    @Nisha_Nykelle 3 года назад +3

    Jeanine can relate to anything and everyone. I get she's been rich....she's been poor.... She's been married.....she's been divorced.... Im waiting for her to shock me and say I've been dead and rose again!

  • @ErbukahAlexander
    @ErbukahAlexander 3 года назад +38

    If it was a man saying he would want his wife to cheat so that he can leave..:no one would empathize with him.I’m definitely sure everyone on this panel would condemn him

    • @FranckYound
      @FranckYound 3 года назад +3

      I agree with you.

    • @Sandra-xn7qv
      @Sandra-xn7qv 3 года назад +5

      @Lisa Adams Facts!

    • @ijustwannabehappier-v4973
      @ijustwannabehappier-v4973 3 года назад +2

      Not a man talking as if y'all dont always defend men cheating. Chile.

    • @ijustwannabehappier-v4973
      @ijustwannabehappier-v4973 3 года назад +2

      @Lisa Adams Girl preeeeeach. The double standards is astonishing to say the least.
      These same men will sit back and watch their homies attack, assault or harass women daily but wont say a thing but let us have something to say about them and its ww3

    • @massiveman44
      @massiveman44 3 года назад +3

      @Lisa Adams nah. I've literally heard the same thing from every cheating woman. Word for word they blame the man. It's like it's in the female handbook to say you weren't getting attention and he stop showing affection. Blah blah. It sound like they are all reading off a script. Like they practiced saying it a million times to hide the truth they just wanted to cheat.

  • @wyntonmohorn
    @wyntonmohorn 3 года назад +37

    This woman sounds like a complete gold digger. Her husband definitely has a prenupt whereas if he cheats she can divorce him & get more money in spousal support. Girl, We see you. You're not slick.

  • @kezzyangelic
    @kezzyangelic 3 года назад +41

    I get what Jeannie’s saying no one wants to be the bad guy 😭

  • @mostafaabogamil5535
    @mostafaabogamil5535 3 года назад +9

    You wanna leave... leave
    Neither one of you is gonna be happy when the other one isn't happy 😟😟😟

  • @Lisa-ru9zq
    @Lisa-ru9zq 3 года назад +10

    Get a divorce girl damn

  • @_a-qu7yb
    @_a-qu7yb 3 года назад +2

    Why can’t a person just say I lost feelings for you and then leave why wish something like that

  • @snoopz2
    @snoopz2 3 года назад +2

    Am with Garcelle on this one, if you are so unhappy, don’t wish your partner to cheat on you, so you can have an excuse to leave the marriage, that just a rotten thing to wish for, so you can look like the good guy, if your partner cheat on you then leave, but don’t be a coward and wish for that l,this woman has lost her damn mind, her way of think is very selfish, I hope her husband see that article and divorce her ass, she doesn’t deserve him.

  • @Lalalalala...
    @Lalalalala... 3 года назад +2

    I cracked up when she said she'd rather him get hit by a bus 😂 I was not expecting that lol

  • @blackbutterfly233ify
    @blackbutterfly233ify 3 года назад +8

    Lmaooooo 😂😂😂😂. End of conversation

  • @ekaterinapetrova8975
    @ekaterinapetrova8975 3 года назад +10

    Anybody that is not happy meanwhile the other person is living their life thinking everything is OK it’s going to hurt the one who knows the least. So if she’s over here wanting him to leave when she actually wants to leave because he doesn’t know that is where she’s at mentally it will hurt him no matter what because she already has an upper hand in leaving department. If you’re not happy just leave and stop projecting on the other person leaving or dying so you can be the hero I think that’s an ego thing

  • @rebekahharris8713
    @rebekahharris8713 3 года назад +2

    The look on munchkins face when garcelle said I would rather he get hit by a bus 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @malikabernard966
    @malikabernard966 3 года назад +2

    I agree with Garcelle to an extent. I also understand that her response is coming from a personal experience with a cheating partner. Obviously, the mature thing to do is to be honest with your partner and tell them that you want to end the relationship. It’s mature but it’s not always that easy, which is why I understand where Jeanie is coming from too. People often make it seem like ending a relationship is simple. It’s hard enough to leave a relationship but it’s even harder to leave a relationship when your partner has done absolutely nothing wrong to you. Even if you’re not in love with that person anymore you can still care about them and you don’t wanna hurt them. I think a lot of people would rather be the one getting hurt than to be the one doing the hurting. No one wants to be the bad guy. Long story short sometimes doing the right/mature thing can often be the hardest thing.

  • @Prosper927
    @Prosper927 3 года назад +2

    Totally agree with Garcelle. Why does the other person (man or woman) need to cheat in order for you to absolve yourself of guilt when the relationship ends? Is the relationship based on what other people think?
    Be mature about it, have a conversation with your partner and let them know you are no longer happy etc, you never know where it may lead. The other person may be feeling differently as well, you may agree on a timeframe to work on things/areas of the relationship which could have positive and lasting changes or you may both decided to call it quits. Either way at least give the other person a choice instead of hoping they become the 'villain' so you can be the 'victim'.

  • @ashleybullard6712
    @ashleybullard6712 3 года назад +6

    In the story that loni told why didn't the man leave he too was not happy for 27 years at any point he could have walked away so why blame it all on the woman for not leaving

  • @Lauren_B89
    @Lauren_B89 3 года назад +23

    Let's normalize not settling for someone for the sake of being married, because you're in love with the idea. Be in a relationship where you both truly love and like eachother then divorce doesn't have to be an option. Every relationship takes work.

    • @Lauren_B89
      @Lauren_B89 3 года назад +2

      @Marie Baker Exactly!

    • @cheriedeparis5000
      @cheriedeparis5000 3 года назад +3

      I agree with you Laura Kelly. I also add that there is a huge difference between love and falling in love, wanting a wedding and desiring a marriage. Love transcends feelings and is not superficial. There are many questions to be asked about the reason for her decisions. Is he a good man in every other way and she is bored? Has she set her sights on someone else and perceived that there is greener pasture? Has the relationship gotten into a rut and become mundane and boring? What efforts has she taken to work on the relationship? Was there counselling etc? Has she cheated herself and is her desire propelled by guilt so that she can blame her husband or feel better about her own actions?
      These things should be explored. Marriages go through rough times but if persons are committed to making them work they will work. True Love is an action not a mere feeling. Falling in love is an emotional response, it is fickle and these feelings only last for up to 2 years. True love perseveres, finds solutions, encourages, support, is healthy, committed, patient etc. The grass on the other side is not always greener and marriage should be taken seriously. Unless there is some very serious underlying reason for her desire to escape the marriage I say work on it.

  • @BL3SSed-Bliss
    @BL3SSed-Bliss 3 года назад +1

    We need to learn how to communicate to others that "we've grown apart."
    We need to learn how to receive/accept this truth, as well.
    💜

  • @kanikagaral7637
    @kanikagaral7637 3 года назад +4

    Just coz he is a great guy doesn't mean she loves him anymore. U have to be attracted to the person to be in a relationship. And yes u don't want to be the bad guy. U don't wanna hurt feelings. I wish she find strength and leave the man without any cheating scandal.

  • @christinewillson8554
    @christinewillson8554 3 года назад +1

    Garcelle, I'm on your team. If you're not happy, you leave.

  • @maame6224
    @maame6224 3 года назад +3

    I don't know why that woman wants out of the marriage so badly. But I feel for the husband.😔

  • @miranda13c
    @miranda13c 2 года назад +1

    That shade of pink looks incredible on Loni. They all look beautiful! This along with Drew Barrymore’s talk show are the best ones on TV and the only ones I watch, I’ve been a fan of The Real since they did their trial run (I actually started watching because of being a fan of Tamera, Adrienne, and Loni) and I’ve been a fan ever since.

  • @distorbia20
    @distorbia20 3 года назад +3

    Clearly money is involved. She wants him to cheat so she secures money before leaving

  • @kishajones841
    @kishajones841 3 года назад +4

    It’s a cowardly way to end your marriage but I get it. It’s hard to not feel like you have to answer to people regarding why you left the “perfect guy”, especially since there’s this thought that good men don’t exist. I can hear all the women in her life telling her how ungrateful she is and they wish their husbands were like hers!

  • @TheAlkebulanTrust
    @TheAlkebulanTrust 3 года назад +23

    All she has to do is simply just end the relationship. There is no need for all the trying to make the man end it. If you want to leave. Then leave. You're a grown adult not a child that is still developing. But this goes to show the importance of once again why learning exactly how dating and relationships actually work. Otherwise this wouldn't be a problem...very true or that's true?

    • @amym1885
      @amym1885 3 года назад +3

      True

    • @lollolol6756
      @lollolol6756 3 года назад +4

      She wants her husband to cheat, so when they divorce, she can play up that narrative.

    • @roshogullah89
      @roshogullah89 3 года назад +1

      I agree to some extent as I think that it can help in the divorce proceedings if he cheats so she can get a better alimony.

  • @meeksworld6322
    @meeksworld6322 3 года назад +3

    Wishing or hoping that someone creates discord in thier own life just so you can sneak out the back door is extremely selfish. What's even more shocking is that thier are people in the world that would agree and do this. If you are that person you have more issues to work out than getting out of a relationship

  • @lollolol6756
    @lollolol6756 3 года назад +1

    That's called selfishness. She's doesn't want to carry the blame for ending the marriage, so she wants her husband to cheat so this way it will be his fault. Why don't she cheat so her husband can divorce her ass? Loni's right. End it now, so your husband can move on with his life instead of wasting his life away with a wife who clearly only cares about herself.

  • @ebso2027
    @ebso2027 3 года назад +6

    She doesn’t want the complications of probably spousal support, then the possibility of the children blaming her. Then maybe religious reasons.

    • @NnanaLS
      @NnanaLS 3 года назад +2

      That’s what I believe too. But that is so selfISH. Be it because of spousal support, or a prenup where she’d get out with nothing or any other excuse. She is the one who wants out, she should come up with her own solution that doesn’t involve him.

  • @soniairak80
    @soniairak80 3 года назад +1

    😂😂😂😂 Garcelle I get u 100%

  • @Lisa-ru9zq
    @Lisa-ru9zq 3 года назад +16

    She trying to find a reason to leave the marriage and there isn't any that tells you right there the marriage is not bad

    • @omphilemoerane2569
      @omphilemoerane2569 3 года назад +2

      Or maybe she's very religious and is only willing to divorce because of infidelity.

    • @Lisa-ru9zq
      @Lisa-ru9zq 3 года назад +3

      @@omphilemoerane2569 lol I don't think shes religious

    • @omphilemoerane2569
      @omphilemoerane2569 3 года назад

      @@Lisa-ru9zq ok

    • @MsRose00
      @MsRose00 3 года назад +2

      I don’t think that it is a matter of the marriage being “bad” and/or him being a bad guy, she just doesn’t know how to say that she doesn’t love him anymore. And I think many people may not understand someone wanting out of a marriage because they aren’t in love. People usually want a reason and unfortunately, falling out of love isn’t one.

    • @Lisa-ru9zq
      @Lisa-ru9zq 3 года назад +2

      @@MsRose00 that's were she needs to communicate with him and tell him

  • @lovelife610
    @lovelife610 3 года назад +1

    I feel like jeannie and Adrienne are empathizing bc they wouldn’t have to worry about the kids pov since they don’t have kids. Garcelle I think is saying it’s better to leave because she’s aware what happens affects the kids

  • @miraclekalunga1561
    @miraclekalunga1561 3 года назад +1

    Garcelle's response arrrrggghhh epic🤣🤣🤣 rather be hit by a bus than Him cheat

  • @timeka30
    @timeka30 3 года назад +1

    I understand how this woman feels but little does she know is she’s already the “bad guy” by writing this article. Look, just leave. Your heart is already gone, the rest of you needs to go as well.

  • @MB-iq9ew
    @MB-iq9ew 3 года назад +2

    The only correct way is to always do what is right, even if it means hurting someone with truth rather than hiding behind the lie; cause everything in life is energy and starts with our thoughts! Our thoughts produce our actions and once we decide to do what is wrong, we might regret it lifetime; while by doing what is right and being honest with person, it might hurt in the beginning but at least we did what we felt, and we did it in respectful way. 💯

  • @marisolforonda6811
    @marisolforonda6811 3 года назад +2

    I agree with those that say she must've had a prenup in which she would benefit from him cheating rather than her just leaving him. And I also know there are guys that won't come straight out and break up with their girl. Instead, they start doing things on purpose that can cause her to break up, so that she breaks up instead of him having to do it.

  • @Nique1986
    @Nique1986 3 года назад +2

    Yes garcelle I agree with the bus comment lol😂😂

  • @brittneysims2752
    @brittneysims2752 3 года назад +1

    Unhappiness is enough of a reason. We have to accept that people grow apart and most times the reason you need an excuse is because you don't want others the look at you differently. Forget others opinions and do whats best for you.

  • @lamarjohnson4035
    @lamarjohnson4035 3 года назад +5

    Your happiness is a good enough reason to get a divorce

  • @dance4life1208
    @dance4life1208 3 года назад +1

    That woman is crazy just leave tf

  • @oftones
    @oftones 3 года назад +5

    I just love Garcelle lol.

  • @tashawilliams8093
    @tashawilliams8093 2 года назад +1

    I wish people would wake up out of dreamland. Expecting to be happy and sexually thrilled 24/7 in a relationship isn't reasonable.

  • @ikeilajackson7884
    @ikeilajackson7884 3 года назад +1

    I don’t think Jeannie and Adrienne are bad people for their answers, I just think they can truly relate to the scenario. Not wanting to hurt someone by leaving them so you rather them hurt you so they can move on and be happy. Of course that’s not the best choice but I get why Jeannie said she was EMPATHETIC to that approach.

  • @xlpzten9274
    @xlpzten9274 2 года назад +1

    Garcell🤣😂 She’s so silly but honestly I can understand what she means.

  • @betvdaytime
    @betvdaytime 3 года назад +2

    Most marriages are seriously a joke. What happened to talking to your spouse. I wonder why she really badly wants out? It's more to this story 🤔

  • @teamlovepanda
    @teamlovepanda 3 года назад +3

    Garcelle needs to really heal before dating. Damn girl 😅😅

    • @alexandraanderson3988
      @alexandraanderson3988 2 года назад

      Right she seems dangerous when it comes to relationship matters that is🥴🥴😐😐😮 I can't even imagine wishing that on someone even just for fun or as a joke I don't think that was very funny for real tho.🤔She seems like she's one of those people that can probably make your life a living h***ll without even realizing it no joke lmaoo no but serious tho. The mind can be a dangerous place at least fo her and you kind of feel for anyone who crosses her cause what???😮😮😶😶 that's toxic & petty as h**ll but I agree maybe therapy can help a little bit more for her to probably heal lmaoo.

  • @87Sharakane
    @87Sharakane 3 года назад

    Hahaha Garcelle girl omg....😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @chicosworld
    @chicosworld 3 года назад +7

    I believe this happens alot to men the wives just don't admit it especially The husbands who's wives withholding sex for no reason 💯

  • @amimms5153
    @amimms5153 3 года назад +5

    People are so crazy out of their minds! The devil is a liar! If she is a Christian she knows what God’s word says! She can’t remarry unless he commits adultery or she’ll be in adulterous situations following him! She’s foolish! She should separate!

  • @robynbeckles
    @robynbeckles 3 года назад

    Please leave as soon as possible if you're not happy being married to me instead of praying that I cheat on you so you can divorce me!! And don't do it 27 years down the road, thats even more devastating.

  • @athomewithtroy1690
    @athomewithtroy1690 3 года назад +1

    I agree with garcelle I'd rather him be dead then betray me, I can live on his memory and the love we shared.😆

    • @TheBLACKKING25
      @TheBLACKKING25 3 года назад +1

      😱

    • @athomewithtroy1690
      @athomewithtroy1690 3 года назад +2

      @@TheBLACKKING25 🤦‍♀️ I know its not the Christian thing to say but we said till death do us part, but no worries my crazy husband feels the same😆

  • @ashleykim8189
    @ashleykim8189 3 года назад +1

    I love Garcelle HAHAHA

  • @Sarah-zg2iq
    @Sarah-zg2iq 3 года назад +1

    Okay but what if the husband won’t cheat on her? then she’s stuck anyway 🤷🏻‍♀️ so I do have to agree with G. part of leaving and being honest, it’s called being mature.

  • @Mandy-dw9wm
    @Mandy-dw9wm 3 года назад +2

    BRO i felt that!! this was my last relationship. I even prayed to god for an out and 2 days later I found out he was cheating. hallelujah! when I told you God answers prayers.

    • @ebso2027
      @ebso2027 3 года назад +1

      If I go with your template then this man might already be cheating.

    • @Mandy-dw9wm
      @Mandy-dw9wm 3 года назад +2

      @@ebso2027 probably but I didn't care regardless. Sometimes you just want an out without hurting someone

  • @MajesticMyronn
    @MajesticMyronn 3 года назад

    Ok question?!?? If she wants a divorce why not just make that risky move and just get out of the marriage... I’m not waiting on ANY DAMN BODY !!! If I’m unhappy I’m out

  • @ajfet8165
    @ajfet8165 3 года назад +1

    I’ve been there. I LOVED my man but was no longer in love. It sucked.

    • @agathachris9722
      @agathachris9722 3 года назад +1

      It sucked that you thought you'd always love him in the same way. Unfortunately living in a fairytale is what ends most relationships. Love is not linear. We don't love our own selves the same way throughout our lives but if you gave up on yourself you'd be somewhere lost.

  • @halledaymusic
    @halledaymusic 3 года назад +1

    Just find the courage to tell him. You'll both learn, grow wiser and probably be happier for it in the future. ... Probably more so than one of you getting hit by a bus 😅

  • @snenhlanhlankutha1340
    @snenhlanhlankutha1340 3 года назад

    I am garcelle, garcelle is me🤣

  • @tiamarie6997
    @tiamarie6997 3 года назад +2

    Ooooh weeeeee I see why Freddie didn’t want u anymore Jeannie ‼️🥴

    • @TamikaBelton
      @TamikaBelton 3 года назад +2

      Do u live in Florida

    • @tiamarie6997
      @tiamarie6997 3 года назад +2

      @@TamikaBelton I wish!!!

    • @TamikaBelton
      @TamikaBelton 3 года назад +2

      @@tiamarie6997 I thought you were my neighbor lol She has the same name

    • @tiamarie6997
      @tiamarie6997 3 года назад +1

      @@TamikaBelton awe cool lol.

  • @aninaalvarez
    @aninaalvarez 3 года назад +2

    That woman sounds like the song “creature of habit” that just came out by Jojo. Crazy.

  • @candycakeshake
    @candycakeshake 3 года назад +3

    Adrienne looks gorgeous

  • @CC-si3cr
    @CC-si3cr 3 года назад

    Garcelle is NEVER going to get over her husband cheating on her! They have been divorced for 10 YEARS!!! You would think that it just happened. Even a hypothetical cheat triggers her. 🙄🙄🙄

  • @JustSomeShorts23
    @JustSomeShorts23 3 года назад

    She should just leave him. Period. People just want drama.

  • @Candie4JC
    @Candie4JC 3 года назад +3

    Adrienne finally said what i was thinking the second they started talking about it. Maybe per her religious beliefs, divorce isn’t an option unless someone is unfaithful. That I can empathize with.

  • @ibby8198
    @ibby8198 3 года назад

    Garcelle is Haitian she don’t play 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @sbusisiwelinshaba7841
    @sbusisiwelinshaba7841 3 года назад

    That woman is crazy. She needs a separation to reflect or just divorce.

  • @rachelkelly6590
    @rachelkelly6590 3 года назад +1

    being in a volatile relationship or the person being mentally controlling and abusive and sometimes your afraid or you know the only way out is for him to cheat and hopefully move on so you can feeler safer leaving

  • @sarangan1995
    @sarangan1995 3 года назад +1

    Garcelle is the most woke.

  • @LoveTheEighties
    @LoveTheEighties 3 года назад +1

    That hit by the bus was funny as hell and of course your all acting holier than thou except for Jeanie Mai. Lonnie if you said something like that you would be cracking up so hard on the floor with your legs up rolling at your own unfunny jokes. It wasn't that serious Adrienne and Lonnie. Jeannie is down to earth. I like the newly married Jeannie

  • @ebso2027
    @ebso2027 3 года назад +3

    Jeanie why did you say Garcelle’s contribution was the most mature contribution. Why are you comparing contributions. Why are you being hurtful? It was a needless comparison. For me, Loni’s contribution drove the message home that Garcelle was making- get out early. I felt the emotions in the story and that made me understand the point.
    It was mean of you to make that kind of comment, there are lots of things you could have said such as , « I hear you Garcelle ».

  • @eurithibou
    @eurithibou 3 года назад +1

    Garcelle your makeup is beautiful!😍😍

  • @jaboubaa928
    @jaboubaa928 3 года назад

    Well when you cheat is when you already have one foot out.

  • @mandys1038
    @mandys1038 3 года назад +2

    LOL I love Garcelle I'd rather he get hit by a bus! Can't blame her after all she went through the cheating. As for Jeannie she's wised up a lot since her marriage to Freddie, she saw everything she did wrong and is not about to make the same mistake in this marriage to Jeezy.

  • @FlwrPetalsOnVenus
    @FlwrPetalsOnVenus Год назад

    uhhhh are they forgetting Garcelle got cheated on in real life?? why are they trying to get her to empathize with WANTING to get cheated on 😂

  • @ValentinoQ
    @ValentinoQ 3 года назад +1

    that sounds like some weak minded ish. why be miserable?

  • @muzicoooo
    @muzicoooo 3 года назад

    I am garcell and she is me😂😂