this video will make you confident | building a relationship with yourself first

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  • this video will make you confident because ill teach you how to build a relationship with yourself first. In this video, I break down a 4 phase blueprint for building REAL confidence. I start by discussing the importance of auditing your inner circle because you are who you surround yourself with. I discuss how you should think of yourself as an organism and the surrounding area of your body as your personal ecosystem of confidence. Nothing harmful or damaging should enter your ecosystem, this includes friends, people, situations, things, etc. You should also be monitoring the energy LEAVING your ecosystem. This means not spending time or energy worrying about not getting a text back, the opinion of someone else, criticism, or judgment - it's not worth your peace. You build REAL confidence by creating a space perfectly crafted with things and people who will help your confidence, not deplete it - people who will help level you up, not take away from it. Phase 2 is all about your inner world, this means building a relationship with yourself first and foremost. I touch of 7 key points to building this relationship with yourself that will completely transform your confidence. You are your biggest priority, building confidence and self-love is your biggest priority. You, the organism can only flourish in an environment that is helpful (your ecosystem of confidence) but the actual organism must be at peace within itself, harmonizing mind, body, and spirit. This is true confidence. Knowing who you are, solid identity, self-trust and reliance, good rapport with yourself, seeing yourself as the beauty standard and epitome of beauty etc. Phase 3 is personal landscaping. Make sure to prioritize your appearance as its KEY. You build confidence by focusing simultaneously on inner and external faculties. One cannot be without the other in the level-up journey. Finally, I discuss two very important mindsets on your confidence journey. The first is the objective vs subjective mindset and the second is the law of thought transmission (conceited advice for confidence). You have to become so mentally obsessed with yourself that you believe everyone wants you, wants to be you, and admires you. I hope you enjoy the video and subscribe!
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Комментарии • 91

  • @VickitaTrivedi
    @VickitaTrivedi  10 месяцев назад +13

    so sorry for 16:34 being out of place. It goes with step 2 (building a rapport with yourself), not step 4! 💖

    • @mdwang0923
      @mdwang0923 4 месяца назад

      Hope you can rerecord this with good mic,,, ❤❤❤

  • @belleboutiquebylynbella
    @belleboutiquebylynbella 9 месяцев назад +117

    One thing I’ve heard that stuck with me is, “her beauty does not mean the absence of mine”. We are all beautiful, we just need to learn to believe it. ❤

    • @Bolero_Son
      @Bolero_Son 6 месяцев назад +1

      I agree. Every woman who levelled up improves the situation of all.

  • @Tealaful
    @Tealaful 8 месяцев назад +33

    I used to be like this when I was younger, then life beat me down so much that I lost myself. I like watching videos that remind me of the old me. I'm learning how to be myself again and hopefully this time, it will be a better version. ❤

  • @VickitaTrivedi
    @VickitaTrivedi  10 месяцев назад +34

    Sorry for the audio everyone, will be sure to come strapped with a mic for the next one 😂

  • @delphinedjomo
    @delphinedjomo 10 месяцев назад +24

    Your videos are so impactful. I especially love the part about becoming your own beauty standard. I would love if you expanded on that in its own video, it was so good! But the entire video was chef’s kiss

    • @VickitaTrivedi
      @VickitaTrivedi  9 месяцев назад +2

      thanks so much! absolutely will do a separate video

    • @sarijay5482
      @sarijay5482 7 месяцев назад

      I've just watched her video on becoming your own beauty standard and let me tell you it is game changing!! this is the link for it:
      ruclips.net/video/h9TkmFlAkbc/видео.htmlsi=87SWAAgacCpnAqb3

  • @vaishnavimishra
    @vaishnavimishra 10 месяцев назад +28

    Hey V, I’m a new sub and you’re literally my inspiration already.. you literally have brought so many new perspectives in my life which I have already started practising, please never stop posting. Love from Bharat. 🇮🇳❤

    • @VickitaTrivedi
      @VickitaTrivedi  9 месяцев назад +1

      im so so glad! And welcome to my channel, i appreciate the support 💖

  • @KillerKistal
    @KillerKistal 10 месяцев назад +16

    Love your message. Thank you for lifting us other women up and being a strong example.

  • @annajorgenson3012
    @annajorgenson3012 9 месяцев назад +11

    I’m much older than you , I could be your mother ! But I absolutely resonate with your contention ❤! Thank you !

  • @snwngl2261
    @snwngl2261 9 месяцев назад +12

    From now on, I'm setting myself as the beauty standard!!! Thank you so much 🤍🤍🤍

  • @helplinebss3039
    @helplinebss3039 9 месяцев назад +7

    Hi! I’m a new subscriber here from Philippines. I love all your videos. Such an inspiration and great help. I’m 39 and trying to improve myself for the best. 😊

  • @trishahutchison5438
    @trishahutchison5438 9 месяцев назад

    Wow! I needed to hear this today!

  • @mimiwolfprincess
    @mimiwolfprincess 9 месяцев назад +2

    I love you so much, Thanks for this video. You’re the best!

  • @chelseafabbri8705
    @chelseafabbri8705 9 месяцев назад +5

    Wow didn't even notice technical issues because the message was so impactful . Thank you I struggle with jealousy and this wad so helpful for me.

    • @VickitaTrivedi
      @VickitaTrivedi  9 месяцев назад +1

      Aw im so glad! and im rooting for you 💖

  • @emma_0928
    @emma_0928 9 месяцев назад +8

    I'm an indian girl facing all the issues in the typical brown family so recently i came across one of ur video n since then I've been binge watching😅 Srsly you're amazing❤❤✨✨ U don't know how much u r helping people🥰❤ thank u for existing😭❤🙏

    • @MjF809
      @MjF809 9 месяцев назад

      So are you!

  • @shannonb1207
    @shannonb1207 6 месяцев назад

    I just love you so much!!!Thanks for all the realness! ❤

  • @j.k4987
    @j.k4987 7 месяцев назад +1

    About going out by yourself and doing erranda and not needing somebody else to do things...truth is i went from going out w my abusive mom daily and never alone....until i decided i never wanna go out w her.And now i go out alone doing errands shopping.eating etc and i feel so empowered it has become off limits to me to go out with anybody else. I feel suffocated w another person. I feel so secure when i do things ny myself its become a struggle to let someone in.I think its important to discuss on having a balance.🤷‍♀️😅

  • @Herocaa
    @Herocaa 3 месяца назад +1

    Being grateful can be helpful as well ✨

  • @supermodeljaz6829
    @supermodeljaz6829 8 месяцев назад

    These talks are spot on, I’m a new subbie. Thank you Beautiful Vickita!

  • @mariahashmi1234
    @mariahashmi1234 9 месяцев назад +1

    Brilliant video 👏

  • @blackgirlonmountain1437
    @blackgirlonmountain1437 10 месяцев назад +6

    Nothing but facts spoken! Subscribed ❤

  • @meenakshikalita8353
    @meenakshikalita8353 8 месяцев назад

    This is so realistic❤️

  • @lexiebboutique
    @lexiebboutique 10 месяцев назад +2

    Good good stuff❤

  • @Shakeddbiton
    @Shakeddbiton Месяц назад

    Such a great video! Thank you for that🌸

  • @kimberlytakesover
    @kimberlytakesover 10 месяцев назад +2

    I love your videos!! I’m a new subscriber but wowww, your content is real and raw. Needed this video 💖

  • @Theenergyneverdies
    @Theenergyneverdies 8 месяцев назад

    Wow! I‘ve viewed Just a few Videos made By you but i have to say that you explain those „inner Game“-Parts in such a practical and Great way! I myself have already overcome an amount of issues regarding this Point, but your words help me to keep my Direction! Thank you so much for that! 🙏🏻 p.s.: you dress in such a Beautiful way👌❤

  • @renatacampos8652
    @renatacampos8652 9 месяцев назад +1

    I just discovered you and am mindblown to know you only have 19k subs. Your content is gold!!

    • @minnaabdelkader1945
      @minnaabdelkader1945 2 месяца назад +1

      Now she has 132k and it’s only been 7 months 🤍

  • @Giftjonah0820
    @Giftjonah0820 7 месяцев назад

    Love the way you explain things❤

  • @minnaabdelkader1945
    @minnaabdelkader1945 2 месяца назад

    Thank you ❤

  • @glucksdrache8332
    @glucksdrache8332 4 месяца назад

    You bring it to the point 👌🏻

  • @AlwaysSpoilt
    @AlwaysSpoilt 9 месяцев назад

    You’re a godsend ❤❤😘 fabulous videos. xxx

  • @coruptqueen
    @coruptqueen 8 месяцев назад

    Your videos are fantastic 👏 ❤

  • @GardenJoy-
    @GardenJoy- 3 месяца назад

    Thank you, Vickita.
    I appreciate your time and knowledge that you share. 💚
    I hope you’re having a good day, so far.,
    Take care.

  • @ldales95
    @ldales95 5 месяцев назад

    This is the first video that’s actually made sense and I think I get it

  • @krystynaprzybylska5006
    @krystynaprzybylska5006 5 месяцев назад +1

    I've watched several of your videos and the theme that comes across for me is, grow up and join the game of life as it is played on the proactive productive fun setting and stage, and I love it! Thanks!

    • @VickitaTrivedi
      @VickitaTrivedi  5 месяцев назад +2

      I'm glad my message is getting across ❤ we can't expect the world to bend for our triggers!

  • @rgrandberry1234
    @rgrandberry1234 3 месяца назад

    Great knowledge!!! xoxo

  • @RS-ne2yy
    @RS-ne2yy 10 месяцев назад +2

    Deep insiders are explained very well... really helpful content 🙂👍🏻

  • @rainbow123_5
    @rainbow123_5 10 месяцев назад +1

    Yours transformation legit shows all over your face.

  • @nurseannesinspirationalwellnes
    @nurseannesinspirationalwellnes 9 месяцев назад

    Thanks 🙏🏽

  • @pkjhgffgf19
    @pkjhgffgf19 10 месяцев назад

    I love you babe i wish you have a microphone so the audio is super clear because you have hands down the best advice

  • @cristalramirez648
    @cristalramirez648 5 месяцев назад

    New sub and been binging all your videos. ❤🎉

  • @angelahorne3094
    @angelahorne3094 10 месяцев назад +1

    I love your videos, we all need straight talk about things that can help us improve

  • @LittleBoSleepASMR
    @LittleBoSleepASMR 7 месяцев назад +1

    Vickita… the big sister I wish I had ❤

  • @sigridreede850
    @sigridreede850 6 месяцев назад

    I enjoyed the vid!

  • @carolynemusolo6188
    @carolynemusolo6188 8 месяцев назад

    Vickita is such an amazing woman, intelligent and incredibly beautiful.

  • @jlina
    @jlina 10 месяцев назад +1

    So impressed with your content!! Action steps outlined.... The channel should blow up!! ❤ but the examples of negative self talk were excessive... I could barely deal with listening to all that; maybe they need a trigger warning.

  • @awesomearab13
    @awesomearab13 5 месяцев назад

    What do you ask for when you get your hair dyed? It looks so good

  • @gabrielacoon532
    @gabrielacoon532 9 месяцев назад

    👏🏻

  • @Venna-mg1if
    @Venna-mg1if 7 месяцев назад

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @JayJay-wg5ex
    @JayJay-wg5ex 6 месяцев назад

    I was the opposite when i saw myself int a screen I was like I am not a beast but day to day I felt disgusting

  • @oliviasmit2657
    @oliviasmit2657 9 месяцев назад

    Please can you redo this topic with sound and more slow, I think it’s such an important video

  • @Jeshmin09
    @Jeshmin09 9 месяцев назад +1

    I love your videos but please change the audio quality use mic for good audio quality that will helps us understand better your advice

  • @jakicastillo5677
    @jakicastillo5677 6 месяцев назад

    Could you please talk about eating habits :)

  • @RosaMaria-im1iu
    @RosaMaria-im1iu Месяц назад

    Lol, removes myself from my eco system 🤣

  • @melinduhhhhh
    @melinduhhhhh Месяц назад

    Girl you are speaking the truth!!! Resonated with everything in this video. The source energy thing blew my mind, it's something i have always wondered and thought "i hope people see me the way i see myself". It gives me so much more confidence to just be myself and act how i want to, my authentic self 🫶

  • @hiniewinie
    @hiniewinie 5 месяцев назад

    What if the Palm is me and the fingers are everyone else? I find it more empowering but thats just me

  • @adrianavazquez4700
    @adrianavazquez4700 6 месяцев назад

    As I'm listening to this I'm shaving my legs & pits 😂😂

  • @MjF809
    @MjF809 9 месяцев назад

    You dont need to apologies
    I changed " Im sorry for excuse me"
    Thank you so much!
    Victims, abusers, men no self esteem, women no self esteem
    Critical ,negative, judgemental
    All...BYE BYE
    Misery...LOVES COMPANY.

  • @polishqueen3671
    @polishqueen3671 10 месяцев назад +2

    Hi..I'm also new to this channel...I like a lot...but so much echo...makes hard to hear..😢...❤🌺

  • @whileblueberrysleeps2993
    @whileblueberrysleeps2993 26 дней назад

    What if one of these women is my own mother?

  • @taniapannellini5209
    @taniapannellini5209 4 месяца назад

    Ops, sound is low quality 😢

  • @user-dk3nq9ht6o
    @user-dk3nq9ht6o 9 месяцев назад

    Is it only me who feels like she has to do SOOO much and has achieve nothing in comparison to everyone around me and I am turning 18 this year so...….????????? Like these people are earning at a younger age than met through their laptop etc. What do you guys think?

    • @manuuyt5919
      @manuuyt5919 8 месяцев назад +1

      I understand you as I was 18 once. Now I'm much older and I say to you- feed your sense of joy and your sense of commitment to long term learning. Life is not a race to win but a woodland trail to walk gently through and stop to smell the roses. What will be the roses of your life in comparison to looking at everyone else's roses?

    • @user-dk3nq9ht6o
      @user-dk3nq9ht6o 8 месяцев назад

      @@manuuyt5919 I don't know who you are but I am very grateful that you said this. It made my heart feel much more at ease. I guess I was just waiting for someone to understand me and be able to tell me that it's okay to slow down and take it easy. Thank you very much. I pray you all the happiness that one can have. May you always be blessed and happy.

    • @Ori0987
      @Ori0987 5 месяцев назад

      Please dont feel like you are "too old" to not be successful. you are so young, and those few who are younger than you and finding great success are actually so rare. Keep going and be happy for yourself, please

  • @VikasGupta-jo2px
    @VikasGupta-jo2px 8 месяцев назад

    i love you too much then me didi behan sister duniya sa maha harha hayha apkha dwar jha sa harha kha jahugha behan sister ❤😂😮😅😊😊

  • @mufasahm8238
    @mufasahm8238 9 месяцев назад

    Hun, you are amazing but I think you need a speaker. Your voice is echoing in your room, it is hard to understand and concentrate what you are saying. xx

  • @brennanleyen
    @brennanleyen 10 месяцев назад

    I cannot take the echo of this audio. Cannot listen bye

    • @VickitaTrivedi
      @VickitaTrivedi  9 месяцев назад

      ):

    • @manuuyt5919
      @manuuyt5919 8 месяцев назад +5

      Despite the audio, it was still clear and very valuable. Thank you Vickita

  • @mariambastidass
    @mariambastidass 2 месяца назад

    I love your videos, they help me to be a better person 🤍