I'm tired of trying to make everyone happy. It's not my job. I know who I am in Christ. A long time ago I heard this saying. When you try to please everyone you end up pleasing nobody, INCLUDING yourself. Sounds about right. Thank you for this timely message.
I recently came across this RUclips channel, I’m on my sobriety journey it’s hard it’s very very hard I’ve cried every-night since this is my 2nd time relapsing I’m scared of failure, but the video’s I’ve watched have been helping me alot and uplifting me 🤍 I will get sober, i will turn my life around , i will prosper Amen 🙏🏽 I’am Free
Keep up the amazing work, God will come through for you if you let him. Lord, I pray JaycieA with you help Lord to overcome her struggles in life, Amen. You are strong and you will get through this because God never leaves us, he is always with us. God Bless and Jesus loves you soooooo much.
Amen God has delivered me from Alcohol and Cocaine. When I was younger and I was going through a hard situation the first thing I would run to is to party. I got sick of feeling guilty. I knew it was wrong in God's eyes. The things I did on drugs made me feel ashamed. It's such a freedom to be free from alcohol. God is doing a work in all of us in his own timing not ours.
I’ve played God enough, I’m not responsible for anyone’s happiness, not even my parents. I was not born for them but for God with purpose. I can honor you without disrespecting my boundaries and peace. I am who God says I am, your view of my worth does not define my value. I am free to be me. In Jesus Name, Amen.
This was so goood that I plan to watch it every night for the next few weeks, break it down and rehearse it in my mind. Thank you so much Mr.Curry for sharing your gift of teaching on how to heal!
Lord this spoke to me thank you Pastor. God I give it all to you for I am not you. I can’t fix everything or everyone it’s your job I need to direct them to you. I need to implement self care and stop trying to take on things I shouldn’t be.
I'M FREE.. I've played God enough, but I can't keep playing God. I can't control the image that you have of me in your mind. I can't make you happy. Can't make your happiness an idol in my heart. It's not my responsibility. The more I say yes to you and no to God, the more i abandon myself just to make sure you're secure. If you are reading this, this conversation is necessary for the annointed - so please learn to say no. Sometimes your no will upset people, just make sure your no is filtered through God. ❤🙏🏼
I had NO IDEA that I was or had been struggling with this particular issue, until I spoke "I can't make you happy." Out loud and began crying. What the heck!? 😒😮😢. I have so many issues 😭!!! You 3 men, keep me convicted of the things I swear I'm done with. SMH.
Ms. Yolanda I speak nothing but happiness in ur life when u wake up in the mornings be happy no matter what’s going on tell GOD I’m happy because of you Lord in Jesus Name Amen 🙏🏾
I can't make you happy ! Thank you Lord for saving and releasing me from People Pleasing . I have been praying for years for God to change my heart and release me from people pleasing 😭🙏🙏 Thank you Pastor Isaac for this word 🙌I'm FREE
I played God enough. I have tried saving people because I understand pain. I understand being alone. I understand not being understood. I understand being rejected. But what I failed to understand is that I’m not your savior, Jesus is. My job wasn’t supposed to fix you, it was supposed to point you to the One who fixes. I refuse to people please for we are not here to please people but to please our Heavenly Father. Amen 🙏
Love this , one day my cousin asked me after I vented to her about something so you were playing God? Wow I will not forget that and had to check myself .
What a timely message. I literally prayed to God earlier this week about how I feel different. Like I used to be compassionate, but I just don't have it in me anymore. I'm burnt out. 🔥 "You don't lack compassion, but you do lack capacity." Thank you, Pastor Isaac for preaching God's Word. I needed to hear this as I'm tired of people manipulating and controlling me while also making me feel like I'm responsible for their emotions. We definitely can't make people happy. It was never our job in the first place.
So powerful!! I'm going to fast, pray and study these scriptures and points! God's timing is perfect ❤ Thank you Pastor Isaac for being obedient and sharing such a great word 🙏
Learned to say no and been happy and at peace with God’s help. People say “you’re not being nice, you treating me bad, you’re boring, etc” and I don’t let it move me because if I don’t want to do something IM NOT DOING IT especially if it’s something that’s not me or of God’s will and don’t care what nobody thinks/say😙
🙏🏽 These sessions are amazing and have helped me over the last few days.. This is the most current show I've seen and I will be back for more. Help me to be stronger in YOUR will lord 🙏🏽
Welcome family. Back for another therapy Thursday from NJ, thank you for showing up. Welcome all and thank you for being intentional with yourself and God. Lead us holy Spirit.
People pleasing is 4 things: 1.Identity issue 2. Form of narcissism 3. Creating a world where you think you are a God figure. 4. Ultimate form of self betrayal.
Glory!!! After so much struggles l now own a new house with an influx of $155,000.00 every month God has kept to his words,my family is happy again everything is finally falling into place.God bless America 🇺🇲
It is simply the digital market. That's been the secret to this wealth transfer. A lot of folks in the US amd abroad are getting so much from it, God has been good to my household Thank you Jesus
I'm tired of being the white knight trying to fix people and be their savior and in the end not being happy. I'm tired of molding myself to fit others. I let go and praise God first and devote my life to Jesus. He is the only savior and I bow to Him and follow His will.
🤯🤯🤯🤯 this spoke right to me and is so eye opening. I didn’t even see this as a thing I did- I believed that I was meant to save people and I couldn’t understand why I so oftentimes felt like I wasn’t enough for people to want to change. it’s because I made myself believe that I was meant to save others not knowing how or what that really means. God never said to me that I was to change people- I understand now, we are called to Lead people by way of life, sharing The Gospel and speaking Testimony of God and How He saved us & to give hope to others through our Testimony to Him- and that be the light to those who are in Need of Him. They don’t need me- they need to know God in what He did for me, and in me- I’m not purposed to play God because I can never be God- There is only one and that’s not me. I have to make space for God to move- Maybe God didn’t come through for them because I was too busy trying to be God and the glory is all His, not mine. If He allowed me to save people- people would believe in me and not Him & that’s where I’ve been so so wrong and I didn’t even know that I was doing this. I am thankful for this message and now that I know my wrong I pray and receive Gods forgiveness and ask that He make my wrongs-right and He continue to be the revealer to all of the wrong and the right ways of my thinking and believing. I desire to be more like God but never to be God not for me or for anyone else. I thank you for speaking this truth and I thank the Holy Spirit for leading me to hear this message. God is flipping tables in me and changing the scripts of my beliefs. I believe that He is rewriting and building the foundation of His truth upon my heart and His teachings not the ones that I have led myself to believe. I pray this message reaches every heart of those who have been living and believing the lie that we are meant to save people- we are not meant to save them but to lead them to the only Savior who can- God. I pray that we become less a people pleaser and more a God led leader who leads people to You who heals, to You The Savior who saves- The Almighty, Miracle worker! In your almighty name, Jesus! 🙏🏼 🙌
People Pleasing is a trauma response called fawning. Many people with this issue learned to accommodate others people needs to avoid conflict. Many people who has experience childhood abuse experience issue with people pleasing. #traumatherapist here
Thank you ❤ I've experienced this. Once I got in my 30's I was literally drained from people pleasing, but what I did in place of it was isolate myself. It's been a journey...
Praying that God comforts your aching heart .And that he gives you a PEACE THAT PASSES ALL UNDERSTANDING!! Trust the process, and if you can hang in there a little the sun will shine again!!!
I played God enough and I can’t keep playing God. I can’t make my dad happy. I can’t control the image you have of me in your mind. I can’t make you happy. I don’t want to idolize my dad’s happiness in my heart. The more I say yes to you and no to God, the more I abandon myself just to make sure you’re secure. It is necessary for the anointed, so many people desire me and I have to learn when to say yes and no. My no will upset people, but my no is filtered through God!
I can’t make you happy. I’m free!! I’m so thankful to this series and that God cares enough about me to have led me to this word.
I AM FREE‼️‼️ I love therapy Thursday & I'm so thankful for this church ⛪️ it is helping me grow so much ❤️ Thank you for bringing me here Lord
I played God enough but I can’t keep playing God 😌
I'm tired of trying to make everyone happy. It's not my job. I know who I am in Christ. A long time ago I heard this saying. When you try to please everyone you end up pleasing nobody, INCLUDING yourself. Sounds about right. Thank you for this timely message.
I can’t make you happy. I won’t betray myself. I have the compassion but I don’t have the capacity. Whew 🙏🏾
I recently came across this RUclips channel, I’m on my sobriety journey it’s hard it’s very very hard I’ve cried every-night since this is my 2nd time relapsing I’m scared of failure, but the video’s I’ve watched have been helping me alot and uplifting me 🤍 I will get sober, i will turn my life around , i will prosper Amen 🙏🏽 I’am Free
Keep up the amazing work, God will come through for you if you let him. Lord, I pray JaycieA with you help Lord to overcome her struggles in life, Amen. You are strong and you will get through this because God never leaves us, he is always with us. God Bless and Jesus loves you soooooo much.
It is finished🏆
Amen God has delivered me from Alcohol and Cocaine. When I was younger and I was going through a hard situation the first thing I would run to is to party. I got sick of feeling guilty. I knew it was wrong in God's eyes. The things I did on drugs made me feel ashamed. It's such a freedom to be free from alcohol. God is doing a work in all of us in his own timing not ours.
I’ve played God enough, I’m not responsible for anyone’s happiness, not even my parents. I was not born for them but for God with purpose. I can honor you without disrespecting my boundaries and peace. I am who God says I am, your view of my worth does not define my value. I am free to be me. In Jesus Name, Amen.
I’m free! Thank you Jesus
This was so goood that I plan to watch it every night for the next few weeks, break it down and rehearse it in my mind. Thank you so much Mr.Curry for sharing your gift of teaching on how to heal!
Father God, thank you for this message because I really needed to hear this!!!
I didn't realize that I was making so many people my assignment!!!
Lord this spoke to me thank you Pastor. God I give it all to you for I am not you. I can’t fix everything or everyone it’s your job I need to direct them to you. I need to implement self care and stop trying to take on things I shouldn’t be.
I’m Free in the mighty name of Jesus! Yes thank you Lord
I Love this Statement. ."I can't imprison myself to Free you.'
I'M FREE.. I've played God enough, but I can't keep playing God. I can't control the image that you have of me in your mind. I can't make you happy. Can't make your happiness an idol in my heart. It's not my responsibility. The more I say yes to you and no to God, the more i abandon myself just to make sure you're secure. If you are reading this, this conversation is necessary for the annointed - so please learn to say no. Sometimes your no will upset people, just make sure your no is filtered through God. ❤🙏🏼
Amen!! Im happy for u ❤️
This comment was truly a blessing 🙏🏾💜
Amen!!!! Well said!!! God is Awesome!!! ❤️🙏🏽❤️
Amen❤
Thank you Lord for this timely Word! My God, my God! I needed this! Allllll of this! 😭😭😭
People pleasing no more. Just following Jesus, and let him order my steps
😭 Jesus is why I’m still here 🙌🏻
I speak life into you! May God continue to bless you in the needed areas!
An on time message.
Thank you Jesus!!
POWERFUL!🙏🏾
I’m free I’m free I’m free 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I had NO IDEA that I was or had been struggling with this particular issue, until I spoke "I can't make you happy." Out loud and began crying. What the heck!? 😒😮😢. I have so many issues 😭!!! You 3 men, keep me convicted of the things I swear I'm done with. SMH.
First time !
I can’t make you happy!
Ms. Yolanda I speak nothing but happiness in ur life when u wake up in the mornings be happy no matter what’s going on tell GOD I’m happy because of you Lord in Jesus Name Amen 🙏🏾
I’m free I’m fried I’m free Lord I’m free🙏🙏
It’s necessary for the anointed!
I am so proud of all of you!!! 💘💘💘 I can’t wait to watch!
This is one for the books!! Hallelujah. God uses all of you gentlemen to make major shifts in my life. Stay dangerous for the kingdom.
This was my first time in Therapy on Thursday. This was truly a blessing
I’ve played God ENOUGH, but I cant keep playing God!
Knowing you are qualified for God’s plan is truly a gift
🙏
This is a blessing, although it's painful, I know this is a word from God for my life and I've got to let some folks go
I can't make you happy ! Thank you Lord for saving and releasing me from People Pleasing . I have been praying for years for God to change my heart and release me from people pleasing 😭🙏🙏 Thank you Pastor Isaac for this word 🙌I'm FREE
Whew!!! I'm Free!! Amen! I am no longer in people pleasing mode.. I am in Yah pleasing mode! Thank you, Pastor Issac!
Sick of people pleasing. I surrender my need to people please and my fear of what others think about me.
I played God enough. I have tried saving people because I understand pain. I understand being alone. I understand not being understood. I understand being rejected. But what I failed to understand is that I’m not your savior, Jesus is. My job wasn’t supposed to fix you, it was supposed to point you to the One who fixes. I refuse to people please for we are not here to please people but to please our Heavenly Father. Amen 🙏
You are certainly not alone on this. I'm thankful God pointed this out! 🙏🏾
@@diamoundburns4134amen my sister 🤍 God bless!
This right here 📌 . This is defnietly me adn pratyong to God everyday to heal me and help me not tyrng to save people and be God in Jesus Name 👏🙏
Same here
Love this , one day my cousin asked me after I vented to her about something so you were playing God? Wow I will not forget that and had to check myself .
This guy. Every talk is so fulfilling. Thank you so much. You make Thursday so much better🙏🏾
I’m free, I’m free, I’m free, I’m free, I’m FREE ! 🙏🏾
What a timely message. I literally prayed to God earlier this week about how I feel different. Like I used to be compassionate, but I just don't have it in me anymore. I'm burnt out. 🔥
"You don't lack compassion, but you do lack capacity."
Thank you, Pastor Isaac for preaching God's Word. I needed to hear this as I'm tired of people manipulating and controlling me while also making me feel like I'm responsible for their emotions. We definitely can't make people happy. It was never our job in the first place.
I can’t make you Happy!!
This is my 1st time here❣️✨
Welcome ❤❤❤❤so proud of you, love 🥰🥰🥰🥰
Welcome 🙏 keep taking care of you. Praying for you and so proud you're here
Great to see you ❤
I can't make you happy
I'm free
I CANT KEEP PLAYING God I played him ENOUGH
So powerful!! I'm going to fast, pray and study these scriptures and points! God's timing is perfect ❤ Thank you Pastor Isaac for being obedient and sharing such a great word 🙏
This one came fully for the root of everything I'm doing. Cut it at the root Jesus.... 😢😢🙏🏽🙏🏽😬🔥✝️
Learned to say no and been happy and at peace with God’s help. People say “you’re not being nice, you treating me bad, you’re boring, etc” and I don’t let it move me because if I don’t want to do something IM NOT DOING IT especially if it’s something that’s not me or of God’s will and don’t care what nobody thinks/say😙
Jesus 🙌🏾
This is necessary for the anointed!
Thank you
Wow I was literally like I wish today was Thursday for therapy Thursday…. Thank u god!
Thanks!
I'm free in the name of JESUS
Health, Maturity and growth Amen
🙏🏽 These sessions are amazing and have helped me over the last few days.. This is the most current show I've seen and I will be back for more. Help me to be stronger in YOUR will lord 🙏🏽
I CANT MAKE YOU HAPPY ITS NOT MY RESPONSIBILITY TO MAKE YOU HAPPY 👏🏾🤲🏾🙏🏾
Good evening this is my first time. Thanks
Welcome family. Back for another therapy Thursday from NJ, thank you for showing up. Welcome all and thank you for being intentional with yourself and God. Lead us holy Spirit.
People pleasing is 4 things:
1.Identity issue
2. Form of narcissism
3. Creating a world where you think you are a God figure.
4. Ultimate form of self betrayal.
Thank you for this.
Amen. I’m free!
Facts!❤
Thank you for this timely message pastor Curry.
One quick adjustment: Narcissist SELF please, not people please.
❤ Proud of you family, I’m in need of some prayers. Lord knows, I just need deeper prayers please 🙏🏼
Im free
This is so good! This is speaking to me! Thank you Lord for growth!
You can’t avoid pain, pain is part of the process.
Confirmation well needed, after 5/ 1/2 years of it! I’m done
I literally had a situation yesterday that's is similar to this topic. Definitely needed this..right on time
Glory!!! After so much struggles l now own a new house with an influx of $155,000.00 every month God has kept to his words,my family is happy again everything is finally falling into place.God bless America 🇺🇲
That's a major turn around. Praise be to Jesus our Lord. Hallelujah
But then, what do you do? How do you come about that in that period?
It is simply the digital market. That's been the secret to this wealth transfer. A lot of folks in the US amd abroad are getting so much from it, God has been good to my household Thank you Jesus
Big thanks to Mrs Christian Evelyn Mackie
Her top notch guidance and expertise on digital market changed the game for me
I've played God long enough
First time here 🎉💯
Ready for spiritual growth.
I’m Free & Happy!
My 1st time listening to you 😊
welcome!!
I’m so happy I’m free. Pastor you put the icing on the on cake with this video for me. I thank you so much.
im happy youre free too!! walk in your light sunshine
@ thank you I will.
AMEN🙏🏽
I won't keep betraying myself much less God.
I'm tired of being the white knight trying to fix people and be their savior and in the end not being happy. I'm tired of molding myself to fit others. I let go and praise God first and devote my life to Jesus. He is the only savior and I bow to Him and follow His will.
I’ve played God enough!!
Thank you, I needed this!!!!
May the Lord bless and keep Nadia in Jesus’s name, Amen.
Definitely proud of you for showing up today
🤯🤯🤯🤯 this spoke right to me and is so eye opening. I didn’t even see this as a thing I did- I believed that I was meant to save people and I couldn’t understand why I so oftentimes felt like I wasn’t enough for people to want to change. it’s because I made myself believe that I was meant to save others not knowing how or what that really means. God never said to me that I was to change people- I understand now, we are called to Lead people by way of life, sharing The Gospel and speaking Testimony of God and How He saved us & to give hope to others through our Testimony to Him- and that be the light to those who are in Need of Him. They don’t need me- they need to know God in what He did for me, and in me- I’m not purposed to play God because I can never be God- There is only one and that’s not me. I have to make space for God to move- Maybe God didn’t come through for them because I was too busy trying to be God and the glory is all His, not mine. If He allowed me to save people- people would believe in me and not Him & that’s where I’ve been so so wrong and I didn’t even know that I was doing this. I am thankful for this message and now that I know my wrong I pray and receive Gods forgiveness and ask that He make my wrongs-right and He continue to be the revealer to all of the wrong and the right ways of my thinking and believing. I desire to be more like God but never to be God not for me or for anyone else. I thank you for speaking this truth and I thank the Holy Spirit for leading me to hear this message. God is flipping tables in me and changing the scripts of my beliefs. I believe that He is rewriting and building the foundation of His truth upon my heart and His teachings not the ones that I have led myself to believe. I pray this message reaches every heart of those who have been living and believing the lie that we are meant to save people- we are not meant to save them but to lead them to the only Savior who can- God.
I pray that we become less a people pleaser and more a God led leader who leads people to You who heals, to You The Savior who saves- The Almighty, Miracle worker!
In your almighty name, Jesus!
🙏🏼 🙌
Amen
I don't lack compassion. I lack capacity
This ministered to me this morning. So many wow moments
IM FREEEEEEEEEE
People Pleasing is a trauma response called fawning. Many people with this issue learned to accommodate others people needs to avoid conflict. Many people who has experience childhood abuse experience issue with people pleasing. #traumatherapist here
Thank you ❤ I've experienced this. Once I got in my 30's I was literally drained from people pleasing, but what I did in place of it was isolate myself. It's been a journey...
Please pray for me.. I’ve been struggling in my mind more and more lately. Thank you!
Proverbs 10:7
The memory of the just is blessed!!
Will definitely pray for you 🙏🏼🙏🏼
Praying that God comforts your aching heart .And that he gives you a PEACE THAT PASSES ALL UNDERSTANDING!!
Trust the process, and if you can hang in there a little the sun will shine again!!!
@@jeremygray6522 praying you can see beyond your struggle and onto your blessings. I hope you feel better soon❤️❤️❤️ much love
Praying for you ❤️ just hold on. Everything's going to be alright
I’m free I’m free I’m feee ❤️🙏🏾
I’m intentional with my healing ❤️🩹
Thank God for this message. I pray that God help me to make good decisions.
I played God enough. I can’t keep playing God.
First time here🙂
Good Word
Im Freee💜
Speak to me Lord! 😭😭😭
So good and on time
Boundaries boundaries boundaries
I needed this! Confirmation!
I played God enough and I can’t keep playing God. I can’t make my dad happy. I can’t control the image you have of me in your mind. I can’t make you happy. I don’t want to idolize my dad’s happiness in my heart. The more I say yes to you and no to God, the more I abandon myself just to make sure you’re secure. It is necessary for the anointed, so many people desire me and I have to learn when to say yes and no. My no will upset people, but my no is filtered through God!
Im praying you can abandon people pleasing once and for all! God bless❤❤
@@kimmywasherethank you. I truly appreciate your prayers 🙏
This so good
God, reveal the parasites in my life.❤
Thanks Isaac!!