Esther Perel on the Art of Relationship Expectations

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  • Опубликовано: 24 ноя 2024

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  • @INBOUNDStudio
    @INBOUNDStudio  3 месяца назад

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  • @tralala88
    @tralala88 Год назад +23

    "You need a space for belonging, and a space for becoming." Wow! So simply put yet profound.

  • @IevaKambarovaite
    @IevaKambarovaite 5 лет назад +43

    This needs more views. Esther Perel is such a gift. I looooove her work. I recommend to all my clients her books, talks, a podcast. Thank yo u for all the work you do.

  • @Mimuchica69
    @Mimuchica69 Год назад +3

    Listening to Esther fills me with pleasure. She articulates a philosophy of love and relationships with depth and insight. She is an agile and original intellectual thinker, skilled with ideas, precise with vocabulary, and a keen observer of human nature. Her enormous cultural capital and broad cross-cultural experience, including fluency in many languages other than English, enhance the perspective with which she expresses herself.

    • @kimgordon3695
      @kimgordon3695 2 месяца назад +1

      ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @9y2bgy
    @9y2bgy Год назад +4

    Ok, so I feel like there are layers upon layers of text and sub-text to everything she says. I mean, it's just so DENSE, what comes out of her mouth! Many people have one layer of context filled with a lot of "like", "I mean", "you know", interjected with another context, etc. Her words are often concise and on singular theme. When she moves on to another theme, it often doesn't deviate from it, and this I find refreshing and inspiring. I can't even carry on a conversation in that fashion let alone give a talk in front of people.

    • @MetubeYoutube
      @MetubeYoutube 6 месяцев назад

      35 years in 1 profession, she’s written books, she keynotes, and consults for major organizations. When she reminded the host of the cofounders topic, it becomes obvious that they had a list of topics to discuss so she’s well-rehearsed and an expert in her art form.

  • @terynmc
    @terynmc Год назад +5

    Cycles of relationships
    Harmony-Disharmony-Repair
    Passion-Dissolution-Reconnection

  • @stephaniefortney22
    @stephaniefortney22 2 года назад +9

    Esther is Dynamic ✨✨✨a priceless gift of insight, clarity and knowledge. One of my top Talks I’ve listened to, I’m going to share this with many, it’s so important, I want my sons to hear this……This wisdom brings tears for all that I did not understand nor know…hits your core when you lost your marriage for not knowing or having this insight, not lack of desire or like, not having the tools and knowledge, no excuses I can own every ounce of my ugly part, certainly accountable , 100% have worked on myself and grown to understand things I did not, even in this talk…. it’s given me more compassion and love strange enough…. I believed in us, in him still do….. Your Podcast is a brilliant way to help others….it’s real life… my reality is just keep growing, it never ends, certainly never grow up, there’s to much fun to have in life, even the simplicity in your day, you nailed so much in this talk, it’s amazing….Esther your a Jewel…….Thank you both so much for sharing🌸🙏Extremely Grateful

  • @Stumpybear7640
    @Stumpybear7640 4 года назад +6

    Esther is the best! X

    • @lucillebennet4233
      @lucillebennet4233 4 года назад +1

      I thought my life had nothing to offer anymore because life became meaningless to me cause, I had HERPES virus, the symptoms became very severe & conspicuous and it made my family abandoned me so they won't get infected. I gave up everything, my hope, dreams, vision, and job because the doctor told me there's no cure. I consumed so many drugs but they never cured me they only suppressed the symptoms inside me making it worse.
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  • @freakyGisy
    @freakyGisy 4 года назад +3

    Esther always helps me understand 🙌🏽💛

  • @milesjones2738
    @milesjones2738 2 года назад +1

    Thank you so much. We all need more of this.

  • @bashmanbashman
    @bashmanbashman 4 года назад +2

    Awesome as always. Love her.

  • @maxi2005100
    @maxi2005100 4 года назад +1

    wonderful energy info and realisation , Esther is a wonderful experienced channel

  • @amandaswan5529
    @amandaswan5529 Год назад +3

    I can’t believe the interviewer asked how we can talk about emotions, admittedly she said in the work place, but is it not universal... If there was any tell tale sign as to where we are on the communication scale in society, in any type of relationship, that was it.

  • @therapywithlara
    @therapywithlara 2 года назад

    Brililant as ever 🙌

  • @POLYLIVING
    @POLYLIVING Год назад

    I honour Esther

  • @rosejacks8662
    @rosejacks8662 4 года назад +1

    Awesome!

  • @jodirowe2996
    @jodirowe2996 Год назад

    I believe there would be more views/comments if the audio were better

  • @MultiMuffin21
    @MultiMuffin21 2 года назад

    Queen

  • @user-yk9sk7pg6v
    @user-yk9sk7pg6v 3 года назад

    (thank you)

  • @geeyeahyeah
    @geeyeahyeah Год назад +1

    6:54 7:48

  • @REVIEWCHANNEL4FUN
    @REVIEWCHANNEL4FUN Год назад +26

    The interviewer is quite bad, she is only reading the checklist of the questions, doesnt show any reflect feedback or just some of human sympathy =))

    • @sheenapearlbarandino3776
      @sheenapearlbarandino3776 Год назад +2

      So agree with you there. She seems unprepared

    • @emank8137
      @emank8137 Год назад +1

      Totally agree.. I’ve seen so many other amazing interviewers who actually engage the guest and *connect* with them through feedback and validation etc. in fact, Esther had to ask “does that make sense?” Just to get some feedback! How sad.. :(

    • @LookSharpFeelSharpBeSharp
      @LookSharpFeelSharpBeSharp Год назад +2

      I disagree.

    • @tshwanedaynightrides173
      @tshwanedaynightrides173 Год назад

      Where did they even get her from? Its like they pulled her off the street and said hey, wana do an interview. What a waste of Esthers time.

    • @praneetakpoudel
      @praneetakpoudel Год назад +3

      Maybe she’s just starting out. I don’t think she’s terrible, just nervous and possible a little inexperienced.

  • @thevasvip
    @thevasvip 2 года назад

    100%

  • @fishstickbio594
    @fishstickbio594 Год назад +2

    The normal expectations will be …..NO ABUSE of ANY TYPE ….NO to sex outside the marriage …NO to a TONS of stuff that are TOXIC . I call this normal expectations .Don’t marry if you need to be/ feel free .

    • @CaLDesignFirm
      @CaLDesignFirm Год назад +1

      If someone laid out a list like that in Esther’s podcast, they’d get a reality check real quick.

  • @FaithfulandTrue949
    @FaithfulandTrue949 2 месяца назад +2

    Esther is incredible, the interviewer is awful and never validates her generous guest

  • @screenplay78de
    @screenplay78de Год назад +1

    To all men:
    Never marry a career woman. You will regret it sooner or later.
    She will love and amdire her career, her boss and her success more than the relationship with you.
    It is always a ticking timeb*mb. Do not invest in that kind of relationship.