My nephew (a 23yo) spent 4 days glued to his phone playing games whilst he was boarding at my place. When I asked him what he enjoyed reading he says he doesn't read, he "learns visually" - but then when he wasn't playing games he was watching RUclips videos of people playing games 🙄 Also didn't eat anything home-cooked - and no vegetables whatsoever - didn't say please or thank you once in the 4 days and flooded my bathroom without even attempting to clean up the water. I was absolutely livid, especially considering that his parents (my brother, and his wife) are pretty trad. Truly disappointing!
You're a beautiful woman with a beautiful family! Thank you for inspiring young woman like myself to learn about the traditional role of mother and wife hood.
This is so inspiring. What a beautiful Christian household! That's amazing how many languages you're teaching at such a young age. What is that chocolate stuff you made at breakfast time? It started out looking really gross, but not so much by the end. Is it something fermented?
I would encourage you to work on homemaking skills like cooking, cleaning, sewing, music, reading, etc. Keep up your studies because it will all be useful as a stay at home homeschooling mother! Bond with your family and church, and pray for your future husband ❤️❤️❤️
I would like to add... keep looking at videos like these for more information and inspiration. Longing to be a traditional woman will bring envy and anger in others around you, they will judge you. Stand your ground and keep your traditional values close to your heart. When you meet a Godly husband and have your own children I promise you you will not regret it. And endless amount of love from your own family.
Uhm definitely still go to school, college & university, have a skill/skills outside of the house. Because it's difficult to find men who settle down in this generation & divorce is... well it just is. Secure yourself then be a trad wife.
I love this. I am an old fart in my 50s now, but when I was a kid, music study was required in my family. Every kid took 2 years of piano lessons, and then at least 2 more years on their instrument of choice. We also were required to study a foreign language until we became conversational in said language.
"Living like this"? You mean living to your fullest as a women? This IS how a women should live for the most part. I mean, I'm glad you're happy for her, but there is no "living like this"...this IS the way to live.
Me too! Some my age frown upon that but I got used a lot from the age of 7 so I would hate to live how they think I should I experienced it and it messed me up bad
There's nothing wrong with this, a happy family that has found out what works for them. It's just the whole tradwife movement its self isn't a reflection of everyone's reality,and people who have attached themselves to the movement,who are blatantly homophobic,racist and often don't even have kids or are married have the largest voice
Do you have any tips on transitioning towards the traditional housewife role? It’s something that definitely resonates with my beliefs and my soul, but right now in this word we need 2 incomes for our house to survive? I’d like to in coming years turn my role more into the house and my child, hopefully soon children - But I don’t know where to start
I like the books “The Excellent Wife” by Martha Peace and “Created to be His Helpmeet” by Debi Pearl. Changes your perspective on your role as wife and mother.
I like how she lets the toddler run around in his diaper lol, it shows how you can't be too crazy controlling about everything!! Even we gotta run around in our underwear ;) you don't know how many times.i peek my.head out door and say , "one moment ! :)" * **runs upstairs for pants**lol)
What advice can you give to a trad wife who's falling out of love with home making I have diagnosed PTSD and panick disorder . I used to love home making now I feel everything very overwhelming and it's breaking my heart . How can I cheer myself up get bk to being me . Any books to read would be lovely advice
Thank you for the insights. I find this all very interesting. So do you have to get permission to be able to do anything outside of the house? Like going shopping or out with friends without your husband? You said that you didn't have shopping because you couldn't get a delivery I wondered why you don't just take the children to the supermarket and get the shopping surely that's allowed like most families, even during the pandemic. Or do you do shopping when your husband gets home. Or does he take charge of that?
@@user-yr5er5uz5k I don't understand the comment regarding indoor shopping. Every supermarket has been open throughout the whole pandemic in the UK. vulnerable people were struggling to get the delivery slots. So those who weren't vulnerable were urged to not take the slots out of kindness and compassion for those who needed them.
hey so, I have a question, if one of your kids grew up and stopped being religious would you have any problem with that? you seem like you're not the type of mum to force things onto her children, i'm just curious :33 also, the food you're making looks so good!
Also the fact that you're just making assumptions based off of a 18 minute video is ridiculous you saying that she seems like the type of mother to force things onto their children you need help she's literally such a good mother and involved mother who is willing to not only educate her children but is willing to stay home take the time to develop a relationship with the child stop with your ignorance get a life
And also keep your irrelevant opinion to yourself you Mom shaming is not cute this is her kids and she's the one that's taking care of them and taking the time to make sure that they become well-mannered citizens of society later on in the future not you
Do you manage to enjoy things you watch on TV, or does your mind often wander into watching camera techniques, with angles and effects, that you mentally add to your Director's arsenal? Losing the flow of what you are watching in the process. I imagine you don't just watch the film like most people. Like if you don't paint, you just see the picture...but if you do paint, you see the brush strokes and techniques too. ?
I know right. I'd be bored out of skull if all I did was cook and clean all day. Not to mention I'd be so depressed. How is doing the same sh*t everyday living?
What’s wrong with a woman wanted to be a woman when she grows up? Not every woman is fit for the office life, the academia, the court room, the army. Most of them are fine where they all.
The kids have so many friends and the ability to truly socialise more than in school where they’re told to “sit down and be quiet”. We learn with other families together twice a week and the children get to play a lot! We homeschool because it’s a higher quality education: classical education, and because I really enjoy my kids and teaching them important life skills.
@@PostmodernMom I get it about the life skills, but at a public school you also learn life skills, just a bit different and you meet people out of the friends and family circle. just one more question: if they go to middle or high school, do they get a diploma?
@Focused Studying this is probably very accurate. Religion being the worst offense of brainwashing anyone could ever do to their children. Hopefully the brainwashing doesn't take to the kids.
@@dddtrump Unlike you getting up on your high horse, Focused Studying took the time to read her reply and apologised for what they said, so your comment looks pretty dumb now doesn't it.
i do understand the tradwife but i don't think its for me. i see my dad always demanding food in a rude way, and my mum will be pissed at him for it. i rather stay single for awhile and get a degree first.and if i do marry and he treats me like shit then i have a backup plan.
This is what happens when you have people brainwashed who thinks that the only job out there for a woman should be her being in a freaking office working a 9 to 5 job and being depressed instead of actually being involved in her children's life because she choose to and she wants to give her kids the privilege to be able to have a mother who cares deeply about them that's willing to not only take the time to educate them to nurture them and to create a safe and peaceful home for them people have lost that sense of traditionalism and it's disgusting and horrible this is why you have so many kids out in the world today with deep rooted issues
That is very nice. However, have you ever stopped to question wether or not this "lifestyle" was right on the long term? What is your husband leaves you, or what if he dies? You're being dependent on someone else and sure it might be nice, but you're loosing yourself as a free and independent individual, hell, you're loosing yourself as a whole and complete woman. What's more I really doubt this is truly fulfilling. Here's a fun fact: in France there was an important reduction of antidepressant consumption after women gained economical independence. Truth is women are happier outside of their homes than inside, and, even more importantly, have a lot more freedom then. That being said, if you really want to make your own existence dependent on a man and forget yourself in this search for stability, so be it. But as Nietzsche said it, there is nothing weaker than humanity's constant search for constance and stability, and it is to this end that humans will forget their freedom, as a way to give in to the appeal of weakness and laziness.
Every lifestyle choice has risks, and you have to make sure you're comparing apples to apples here. Tradwives and their husbands tend to think very differently about marriage, children, and life in general (than other men and women) which affects the likelihood of abandonment, abuse, and yes even accidental deaths because traditional men have more incentive to take fewer unnecessary risks. You have to factor in this notion that you have *moral* obligations and duties as it pertains to your family, and many of them believe in a god that will hold them accountable if they fail. But it would be a good idea for tradwives to not literally just stay home all the time. Luckily, many of them still get out and enjoy things like going to the store with or without friends or other activities that don't get in the way of being a tradwife. They can also homeschool which is challenging work but can be very fulfilling as opposed to doing the bidding of a soulless corporation somewhere.
Where does one find a husband that makes enough to support an entire family by himself. Our economy is so bad, many people can’t make enough to support a whole family on their own and the wife has no choice but to work.
I feel like you’re looking more for the idea of a tradwife so basically woman with conservative values and as one I’d have to say you definitely won’t find one on tinder don’t judge a book by it’s cover If a girl is wearing shorts and talk top or has some cleavage she still can be traditional deep down it’s kinda just luck of the draw
@@brachiosaurus6350 no, I'm looking for more than just the idea of a Trad wife. I'd highly appreciate a actual trad wife, not just a woman with conservative values. I've seen enough women with conservative values who do things and carry themselves in ways that are non conservative to know that that's not what I want. As for the cleavage, nah, I'd highly appreciate it if she covers that up. That's not traditional. I've seen plenty "conservatives" who are not traditional women and those are not the women I'm looking for. There is no "well she can be traditional deep down inside" in some hidden place in her heart...either she is traditional, and carries herself as such, or she isn't. You can be a modern women, with a few trad qualities, but that doesn't necessarily mean you're trad. Not you specifically, but in general. I do agree however, finding these women, especially in today's western modernized, feminist society, is extremely hard.
@@cade_blade6126 You'd be surprised. I have a friend who lived in New York with 60k a year. Meanwhile, I lived all over the Southeast US and made between 85k to 95k in my time there. I had enough money to take care of myself and another partner. The issue is that most people don't try and get better jobs. I agree that living is becoming more expensive due to inflation, but your money has to outgrow inflation. It's why I invest about 60% of what I make annually.
@@brachiosaurus6350 I agree with this wholeheartedly. This isn't the 1930s, girls can wear shorts. I can't speak for OP, but I don't think that a woman has to wear some super long dress and an apron to be a traditional wife. It's more about behavior. She and her conventional husband are life partners that own up to what they provide in the relationship.
how nice to see children reading and playing outside instead of sitting in front of a TV or playing video games. Good job mom!!!!
My nephew (a 23yo) spent 4 days glued to his phone playing games whilst he was boarding at my place.
When I asked him what he enjoyed reading he says he doesn't read, he "learns visually" - but then when he wasn't playing games he was watching RUclips videos of people playing games 🙄
Also didn't eat anything home-cooked - and no vegetables whatsoever - didn't say please or thank you once in the 4 days and flooded my bathroom without even attempting to clean up the water.
I was absolutely livid, especially considering that his parents (my brother, and his wife) are pretty trad.
Truly disappointing!
Ok boomer
@@MalachiCo0 ok groomer
Nothing wrong with watching tv
You're a beautiful woman with a beautiful family! Thank you for inspiring young woman like myself to learn about the traditional role of mother and wife hood.
Loved this video you are such a great mother and wife love how you guys put God in everything I wish you nothing but beautiful blessings in life ❤️
God bless you and your family. I found you from Instagram! Traditionalism is the future.
lol!
This is so inspiring. What a beautiful Christian household! That's amazing how many languages you're teaching at such a young age.
What is that chocolate stuff you made at breakfast time? It started out looking really gross, but not so much by the end. Is it something fermented?
This was the sweetest! If I work really hard, perhaps I will be as good at this job as you are one day. Also, you're super gorgeous! :)
Beautiful beautiful family. Blessings from New Zealand
Beautiful to see a mother raising her own children instead of having babysitters do it for her🌸💕
Hey! As a teenager that wants to be a tradwife when i get older, what should I think of and do? (except have a husband and kids) Much love!
I would encourage you to work on homemaking skills like cooking, cleaning, sewing, music, reading, etc. Keep up your studies because it will all be useful as a stay at home homeschooling mother! Bond with your family and church, and pray for your future husband ❤️❤️❤️
I would like to add... keep looking at videos like these for more information and inspiration. Longing to be a traditional woman will bring envy and anger in others around you, they will judge you. Stand your ground and keep your traditional values close to your heart. When you meet a Godly husband and have your own children I promise you you will not regret it. And endless amount of love from your own family.
Nice pfp!
Uhm definitely still go to school, college & university, have a skill/skills outside of the house. Because it's difficult to find men who settle down in this generation & divorce is... well it just is. Secure yourself then be a trad wife.
Learn the red flags of men to stay away from, and dont be hard on yourself for choosing wrong. youll likely date a few before getting it right
My uncle married to a traditional women, they both have happy marriage for 10 years.🥰
I love this. I am an old fart in my 50s now, but when I was a kid, music study was required in my family. Every kid took 2 years of piano lessons, and then at least 2 more years on their instrument of choice. We also were required to study a foreign language until we became conversational in said language.
Love this!
This was beautiful! The lord said "A Man Who Findeth a Wife, Findeth a Good Thing."
As long as she enjoys living like this then this is good and I’m happy for her and the family
"Living like this"? You mean living to your fullest as a women? This IS how a women should live for the most part. I mean, I'm glad you're happy for her, but there is no "living like this"...this IS the way to live.
@@EliCamacho So a woman can't have a career? Maybe let women choose what they want to do.
@@EliCamacho stfu women do what they want
This is so beautiful....Im 16 but I want a family like this!!!
Me too! Some my age frown upon that but I got used a lot from the age of 7 so I would hate to live how they think I should I experienced it and it messed me up bad
Awesome stuff! And congrats!
I love your family and the way you pray together, love one another and teach your children. God Bless you🙏❤
There's nothing wrong with this, a happy family that has found out what works for them. It's just the whole tradwife movement its self isn't a reflection of everyone's reality,and people who have attached themselves to the movement,who are blatantly homophobic,racist and often don't even have kids or are married have the largest voice
There's no correlation between tradwives and racism ...
If people using homophobic can't consider any examples today of "hetrophobic" their concerns aren't worth listening to.
@@sirellyn no such thing as heterophobic
@@denisdenisdenisdenisdenis If you believe homophobic exists, then it certainly does exist.
Do you have any tips on transitioning towards the traditional housewife role? It’s something that definitely resonates with my beliefs and my soul, but right now in this word we need 2 incomes for our house to survive? I’d like to in coming years turn my role more into the house and my child, hopefully soon children - But I don’t know where to start
I like the books “The Excellent Wife” by Martha Peace and “Created to be His Helpmeet” by Debi Pearl. Changes your perspective on your role as wife and mother.
Thank you
@@PostmodernMom I'm going to buy these to read xx
Ok I need to know what that gadget was that you put the toast and sausage in? Im a homeschooling tradwife with 6 kids, and I need that!! So cool!
It’s a Halogen Oven! It makes life much easier 😄
The family that prays together...stays together!!
I like how she lets the toddler run around in his diaper lol, it shows how you can't be too crazy controlling about everything!! Even we gotta run around in our underwear ;) you don't know how many times.i peek my.head out door and say , "one moment ! :)" * **runs upstairs for pants**lol)
Wonderful video. Your example is a blessing. Continue to walk in God's light. God bless
I lowkey thought this was gonna be a joke video but this is really well filmed
Thank you Postmodern Mom for sharing this video. Your family love comes across the screen very well.
God is good. :) You are blessed with a beautiful family!
What advice can you give to a trad wife who's falling out of love with home making I have diagnosed PTSD and panick disorder . I used to love home making now I feel everything very overwhelming and it's breaking my heart . How can I cheer myself up get bk to being me . Any books to read would be lovely advice
I'm searching for more #tradwife channels like this. New subbie!
Thank you for the insights. I find this all very interesting. So do you have to get permission to be able to do anything outside of the house? Like going shopping or out with friends without your husband? You said that you didn't have shopping because you couldn't get a delivery I wondered why you don't just take the children to the supermarket and get the shopping surely that's allowed like most families, even during the pandemic. Or do you do shopping when your husband gets home. Or does he take charge of that?
The delivery part might be because of covid as many places don’t do indoor shopping
@@user-yr5er5uz5k I don't understand the comment regarding indoor shopping. Every supermarket has been open throughout the whole pandemic in the UK. vulnerable people were struggling to get the delivery slots. So those who weren't vulnerable were urged to not take the slots out of kindness and compassion for those who needed them.
hey so, I have a question, if one of your kids grew up and stopped being religious would you have any problem with that? you seem like you're not the type of mum to force things onto her children, i'm just curious :33
also, the food you're making looks so good!
Also the fact that you're just making assumptions based off of a 18 minute video is ridiculous you saying that she seems like the type of mother to force things onto their children you need help she's literally such a good mother and involved mother who is willing to not only educate her children but is willing to stay home take the time to develop a relationship with the child stop with your ignorance get a life
And also keep your irrelevant opinion to yourself you Mom shaming is not cute this is her kids and she's the one that's taking care of them and taking the time to make sure that they become well-mannered citizens of society later on in the future not you
@@princess-bf2cn I think you misunderstood her comment. She was very respectful and didn't momshame at all.
@@princess-bf2cnREREAD THE COMMENT 😂
It looks like heaven on earth
Do you manage to enjoy things you watch on TV, or does your mind often wander into watching camera techniques, with angles and effects, that you mentally add to your Director's arsenal? Losing the flow of what you are watching in the process. I imagine you don't just watch the film like most people. Like if you don't paint, you just see the picture...but if you do paint, you see the brush strokes and techniques too. ?
Sometimes this happens! Especially when we watched 1917--I couldn't stop thinking about how they achieved the continuous footage.
how is this NOT boring? what about parties, events, holidays, award shows etc.?
What💀
I know right. I'd be bored out of skull if all I did was cook and clean all day. Not to mention I'd be so depressed. How is doing the same sh*t everyday living?
I don't understand why this has 90+ dislikes. :/
Because modern day feminists are jealous of functioning families with parents caring about each others.
@@p.hhenry4454 Agree.
@@p.hhenry4454 bruh why people think we jealous? lol we just dont like you
@@ivory8492you just hate your parents!
@@drewjames5470 No reason to 💗
I have lot to learn from you ❤️
Well made video too, by the way. Professional quality.
Thanks!!
This last vid I can find! Have you and your husband returned to the US? Enjoyed all your vids, miss them.
I LOVE THISSS 🙌🏽🙌🏽💕
Thank you!!
Beautiful!!! Thank you💕
What’s wrong with a woman wanted to be a woman when she grows up?
Not every woman is fit for the office life, the academia, the court room, the army. Most of them are fine where they all.
The kitchen hygiene looks... disgusting.
The time she uses for styling is better invested in cleaning the stove and her kitchen properly.
Happy wife, happy lile. ❤❤❤
Happy husband too 💕
wow, u have restored my faith in humanity. Its hard to find a good human. you deserve to be treated as a goddess
If you know Spanish, Chinese, piano and violin...that is very good you can teach your kids.
Toddlers are hilarious 😂
Hi there! Does it ever become tiring being around children all day long? What do you do to recharge?
The children are in their rooms by 7:30pm and that gives me the rest of the evening to get work done and relax :)
why do you homeschool? How will the kids make friends? It's just a question, not meant to be offensive.
The kids have so many friends and the ability to truly socialise more than in school where they’re told to “sit down and be quiet”. We learn with other families together twice a week and the children get to play a lot! We homeschool because it’s a higher quality education: classical education, and because I really enjoy my kids and teaching them important life skills.
@@PostmodernMom I get it about the life skills, but at a public school you also learn life skills, just a bit different and you meet people out of the friends and family circle.
just one more question: if they go to middle or high school, do they get a diploma?
@Focused Studying this is probably very accurate. Religion being the worst offense of brainwashing anyone could ever do to their children. Hopefully the brainwashing doesn't take to the kids.
@@dddtrump Unlike you getting up on your high horse, Focused Studying took the time to read her reply and apologised for what they said, so your comment looks pretty dumb now doesn't it.
@@dddtrump Maybe you was brainwashed into thinking home schooling was less than going to school.
💛🤩
Good Mom.
RANDOM QUESTION: What version of the bible do you currently read?
I need to find a woman like you.
I like this video 1,000 times over.
i do understand the tradwife but i don't think its for me. i see my dad always demanding food in a rude way, and my mum will be pissed at him for it. i rather stay single for awhile and get a degree first.and if i do marry and he treats me like shit then i have a backup plan.
Wow, credit to you, you are so busy, I just don’t know how you do it. I just wouldn’t know where to start.
Wait.....both parent don't have to work??
If you’re homeschooling, how do you make money?
Husband works and she said she teaches music, probably from home.
I am so jealous of how god of a mom you are. Minus the Christianity I aspire to be better like you for my son 😭
💪🏻💖
So good!!!
How beautiful this must be!
Whatever happend to lillian
I have the same exact clock as you!!! 0:12
How do you feel about Roe V Wade being overturned?
Very good.
I did notice you guys eat alt of carbs.
You need more subscribers ma'am.
What is up with the dislike?
This is what happens when you have people brainwashed who thinks that the only job out there for a woman should be her being in a freaking office working a 9 to 5 job and being depressed instead of actually being involved in her children's life because she choose to and she wants to give her kids the privilege to be able to have a mother who cares deeply about them that's willing to not only take the time to educate them to nurture them and to create a safe and peaceful home for them people have lost that sense of traditionalism and it's disgusting and horrible this is why you have so many kids out in the world today with deep rooted issues
@@princess-bf2cn You seem to me just as judgemental as the people you claim to be against you. So then, how is this different?
I wish I had a wife like you! Maybe someday...
I love this
That is very nice. However, have you ever stopped to question wether or not this "lifestyle" was right on the long term? What is your husband leaves you, or what if he dies? You're being dependent on someone else and sure it might be nice, but you're loosing yourself as a free and independent individual, hell, you're loosing yourself as a whole and complete woman.
What's more I really doubt this is truly fulfilling. Here's a fun fact: in France there was an important reduction of antidepressant consumption after women gained economical independence. Truth is women are happier outside of their homes than inside, and, even more importantly, have a lot more freedom then.
That being said, if you really want to make your own existence dependent on a man and forget yourself in this search for stability, so be it. But as Nietzsche said it, there is nothing weaker than humanity's constant search for constance and stability, and it is to this end that humans will forget their freedom, as a way to give in to the appeal of weakness and laziness.
Every lifestyle choice has risks, and you have to make sure you're comparing apples to apples here. Tradwives and their husbands tend to think very differently about marriage, children, and life in general (than other men and women) which affects the likelihood of abandonment, abuse, and yes even accidental deaths because traditional men have more incentive to take fewer unnecessary risks. You have to factor in this notion that you have *moral* obligations and duties as it pertains to your family, and many of them believe in a god that will hold them accountable if they fail.
But it would be a good idea for tradwives to not literally just stay home all the time. Luckily, many of them still get out and enjoy things like going to the store with or without friends or other activities that don't get in the way of being a tradwife. They can also homeschool which is challenging work but can be very fulfilling as opposed to doing the bidding of a soulless corporation somewhere.
Respect
You also have a side hustle
im so jelous 😭
Strange 😱
Question is, where does a man find more #TRAD wives? Its like trying to find a needle in a haystack.
Where does one find a husband that makes enough to support an entire family by himself. Our economy is so bad, many people can’t make enough to support a whole family on their own and the wife has no choice but to work.
I feel like you’re looking more for the idea of a tradwife so basically woman with conservative values and as one I’d have to say you definitely won’t find one on tinder don’t judge a book by it’s cover If a girl is wearing shorts and talk top or has some cleavage she still can be traditional deep down it’s kinda just luck of the draw
@@brachiosaurus6350 no, I'm looking for more than just the idea of a Trad wife. I'd highly appreciate a actual trad wife, not just a woman with conservative values. I've seen enough women with conservative values who do things and carry themselves in ways that are non conservative to know that that's not what I want. As for the cleavage, nah, I'd highly appreciate it if she covers that up. That's not traditional. I've seen plenty "conservatives" who are not traditional women and those are not the women I'm looking for. There is no "well she can be traditional deep down inside" in some hidden place in her heart...either she is traditional, and carries herself as such, or she isn't. You can be a modern women, with a few trad qualities, but that doesn't necessarily mean you're trad. Not you specifically, but in general. I do agree however, finding these women, especially in today's western modernized, feminist society, is extremely hard.
@@cade_blade6126 You'd be surprised. I have a friend who lived in New York with 60k a year. Meanwhile, I lived all over the Southeast US and made between 85k to 95k in my time there. I had enough money to take care of myself and another partner. The issue is that most people don't try and get better jobs. I agree that living is becoming more expensive due to inflation, but your money has to outgrow inflation. It's why I invest about 60% of what I make annually.
@@brachiosaurus6350 I agree with this wholeheartedly. This isn't the 1930s, girls can wear shorts. I can't speak for OP, but I don't think that a woman has to wear some super long dress and an apron to be a traditional wife. It's more about behavior. She and her conventional husband are life partners that own up to what they provide in the relationship.
HalleluJAH
Praise JAH
Praise JehovAH
What a boring mundane way to live. Good Lord.
@Tashana Luda Do you know me? You don't get to ask me questions.
i want this so bad
Coffee while pregnant??
Yes, it’s decaf :)
Caffeine in reasonable amounts has been proven to not be dangerous for unborn children.
It always baffles me to see the washing machine in the kitchen.
Imagine that people think this is interesting. Look at where social media has brought us. Inanity
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