Watching this video brings back a painful memory. Years ago, a guy I dated abruptly ghosted me without a reason. When I managed to call him, he shouted, 'We're over, get it into your head. Don't call me again,' then cut all contact. It's been 23 years, but those words still sting. Remember, the hurtful words we say can leave lasting scars. Just 8 years ago, in a shopping mall, I saw him with his pregnant wife, and those moments flashed back.
Omg I feel like yelling at him in front of his pregnant wife : yes it’s still in my head and I hope your wife won’t have to hurt u the same way you did to me… u know about what goes around comes around….. try to let it go, Jiayou 🥲
Being the one initiating the breakup gives you time to think things through when you are still in the relationship so you are technically “prepared” already but the other party can only start thinking things through and grieving after the breakup so it takes longer for them to get over the relationship
I almost ended my life because of my previous relationship it ruined my mental health so badly. So I really agree with what you all have said , is not the end of the world , if things arent meant to be then is just not meant to be no matter how much chances you gave. There is so much more to life , be a better person not for anyone else but for yourself , be happy and do the things you love to do !💌
You guys should make the next BeReal episode about us. Like read our anonymous stories and react to them. (I always have something I need to get off my chest 😅)
I hates being ghosted, at least give me the concrete reasons for breaking up... I am also agree that must talk face to face, using text or video calls won't helps sometimes.
omg i can imagine a young cute baby Randy carrying a teddy bear waiting for his ex who ghosted him downstairs 😢😢😢 I can’t imagine why would anyone do this to him 😭😭😭 Also Ben looks like a player 😂😂😂🌚
Hello Ben & Randy, I feel inspired by you guys, I can relate to Randy. 💜 I had 2 break ups in the past in my early 30s before I married at 34 years old. I feel that break ups are never easy, jia you, Randy. 💜🙏
I just watched this chinese drama where the boyfriend ghosted the female lead on their wedding day. I've never had a relationship before and even I have trust issues. Given that ghosting is so prevalent now, what's stopping anyone from leaving their partner at the altar? There's also no point in talking, of course no one will admit they are planning to ghost right. Especially since the female lead is so pretty somemore. As an average mediocre person, I feel like don't even bother. Better focus on my studies/career first. Given that I've never had a relationship before, it's very likely that my first relationship won't work out either.
My ex left after almost 9yrs in the r/s and 1 month after getting a kidney transplant. Cheated with another girl. Kinda felt stupid wasting my whole youth mayb coz my ex tt can't find anyone better with so much health problems during our r/s tgt
Can do an episode that talk about aimei? Recently I was being hurt badly as this guy did all the aimei action but when I try to dig some info, he told me those actions are only a gesture of friend and he has someone he like.
@@lily-zc1wj I don't think, I know. It's as clear as the sky on a cloudless day, as undeniable as the sun rising in the east each morning. There's no doubt in my mind, no hesitation in my heart. It's a truth as solid as the ground beneath my feet, as inevitable as the passage of time itself. THEY GAYYYYYY
i was listening v carefully hoping that there would be a slip of the tongue, but Ben and Randy were very very careful haha. Rachel tried to use 'this person' at first, but when she got a bit emotional, it became 'him'.
Mine was once randy relationship disappeared no where and wanted to look for the person but can't even see.... I can't even get new relationship until secondary nor now. And also always got played and disappeared one . As there's one guy liked me since sec2 until now but I'm like you damm annoying 😂 but was thinking tat he will continue to wait but who knows he got into relationship and I'm like ..... Not gonna find him anymore 😂
getting blocked is the worst feeling ever = you are forced to accept it and move on, your world just shuts off and you are all left blank-ed, but big pat for all who had made it through!!🤍see? it isnt that hard right?🤗
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Watching this video brings back a painful memory. Years ago, a guy I dated abruptly ghosted me without a reason. When I managed to call him, he shouted, 'We're over, get it into your head. Don't call me again,' then cut all contact. It's been 23 years, but those words still sting. Remember, the hurtful words we say can leave lasting scars. Just 8 years ago, in a shopping mall, I saw him with his pregnant wife, and those moments flashed back.
Omg I feel like yelling at him in front of his pregnant wife : yes it’s still in my head and I hope your wife won’t have to hurt u the same way you did to me… u know about what goes around comes around…..
try to let it go, Jiayou 🥲
So sad when u see him
Thanks for sharing your story! ❤️❤️❤️
Should have this kind of conversations more, I hope Ben & Randy will bring more of these episodes to us, perhaps even inviting some guests! ❤
Yes we love doing this series!!! Stay tuned for more! ❤️
Being the one initiating the breakup gives you time to think things through when you are still in the relationship so you are technically “prepared” already but the other party can only start thinking things through and grieving after the breakup so it takes longer for them to get over the relationship
Yes this 💯
I almost ended my life because of my previous relationship it ruined my mental health so badly. So I really agree with what you all have said , is not the end of the world , if things arent meant to be then is just not meant to be no matter how much chances you gave. There is so much more to life , be a better person not for anyone else but for yourself , be happy and do the things you love to do !💌
You are doing so well now!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@@BenRanAway thank you 😭
You guys should make the next BeReal episode about us. Like read our anonymous stories and react to them. (I always have something I need to get off my chest 😅)
Good idea!!! Leave your stories now!
I never been in a relationship and hearing in this video i think to save myself all the sorry feelings is just to keep being single
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love this kind of conversations cause it’s so real and we get to know more about you guys ❤
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It took me a few years to get over my last r/s and I've been single for the past 10 years ever since as I'm afraid of getting hurt again.
Thanks for sharing your story ❤️
Do a longer series but in podcast!
Yes we would love to do it!
I hates being ghosted, at least give me the concrete reasons for breaking up...
I am also agree that must talk face to face, using text or video calls won't helps sometimes.
Agree!!!
omg i can imagine a young cute baby Randy carrying a teddy bear waiting for his ex who ghosted him downstairs 😢😢😢 I can’t imagine why would anyone do this to him 😭😭😭
Also Ben looks like a player 😂😂😂🌚
Good topic of discussion…..love it!
Yay! Thank you for loving this video! ✨❤️
As we aged, it’s even more harder to ‘walk’ out of the break up
Yes agree!
Hello Ben & Randy, I feel inspired by you guys, I can relate to Randy. 💜 I had 2 break ups in the past in my early 30s before I married at 34 years old. I feel that break ups are never easy, jia you, Randy. 💜🙏
Thank you for your kind comment ✨❤️
@@BenRanAway You guys are awesome, hope to bump into you guys soon. 💜
Wow this video felt so meaningful 🫡🫡 thank you for sharing
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i usually remember the bad things of my ex instead of the good things
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Closeted - Describes a person who is not open about his or her sexual orientation.
U also think both of them are actually gay ?
My gaydar sense tingling
I just watched this chinese drama where the boyfriend ghosted the female lead on their wedding day. I've never had a relationship before and even I have trust issues. Given that ghosting is so prevalent now, what's stopping anyone from leaving their partner at the altar? There's also no point in talking, of course no one will admit they are planning to ghost right. Especially since the female lead is so pretty somemore. As an average mediocre person, I feel like don't even bother. Better focus on my studies/career first. Given that I've never had a relationship before, it's very likely that my first relationship won't work out either.
I ended a six-year relationship and canceled my BTO flat. It was a really difficult decision.
Yes it must be 😔 hope you are feeling better now ❤️
My ex left after almost 9yrs in the r/s and 1 month after getting a kidney transplant. Cheated with another girl. Kinda felt stupid wasting my whole youth mayb coz my ex tt can't find anyone better with so much health problems during our r/s tgt
Would be interesting to know how many ex or past relationship?
Can do an episode that talk about aimei? Recently I was being hurt badly as this guy did all the aimei action but when I try to dig some info, he told me those actions are only a gesture of friend and he has someone he like.
That’s an interesting topic!!! Thanks for suggesting!
I'm single for life can't relate 😂
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Thats actually scary😭
After all, different people have different perspectives. 😊😅
it's quite entertaining how yall continue each other sentences
Hahaha ✨chemistry✨🤣
Sorry i cant relate as I've not been in relationship before
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I kena trend on insta or fb b4 during one of my breakup.
Ever since having her in every video I rarely watch your video
Is your ex a guy?
U also think that both of them are actually gay?
@@lily-zc1wj
I don't think, I know. It's as clear as the sky on a cloudless day, as undeniable as the sun rising in the east each morning. There's no doubt in my mind, no hesitation in my heart. It's a truth as solid as the ground beneath my feet, as inevitable as the passage of time itself. THEY GAYYYYYY
i was listening v carefully hoping that there would be a slip of the tongue, but Ben and Randy were very very careful haha. Rachel tried to use 'this person' at first, but when she got a bit emotional, it became 'him'.
I cannot relate but this is a new one ah.
How about share abt your haunted stories will be more exciting and more viwers will watch
There's 1 similarity about 3 of them. Guess what? 😄
Obviously Ben is from Mars and Randy and Rachel are from Venus 🤣
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Ben or randy are you still doing the give away
6:48 Randy's expression :p
I rmb the bad side more than good side bcoz I have been ignoring 🚩s, keep on tolerating and forgiving and I got dumped.
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where it rachel go :(
Randy looks a bit sad. Take care, Ben and Ran.
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Wei, rebound also difficult la. Unless maybe gigi hadid level maybe that can actually distract you
Ghosted after 6 years ……
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Mine was once randy relationship disappeared no where and wanted to look for the person but can't even see.... I can't even get new relationship until secondary nor now. And also always got played and disappeared one . As there's one guy liked me since sec2 until now but I'm like you damm annoying 😂 but was thinking tat he will continue to wait but who knows he got into relationship and I'm like ..... Not gonna find him anymore 😂
Hope to see more funniest video this video ok lah at least listening stories
Hi Ben Randy ❤️
Hello! 💕
Is Randy okay? Take care
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Wah randy story legit sad sia
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Jiayou Randy 🙇👍
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4th! Hope I could bump into you all some day! 💙😅
We definitely will! 🙏🏻
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This guy has a childish mindset definitely cannot succeed in relationship 👎
Oops I’m like Ben 😛
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HELLO❤❤❤😊
Hello!!! ❤️❤️
This video is not as funny because is not about eating nor is about cheap vs expensive things
getting blocked is the worst feeling ever = you are forced to accept it and move on, your world just shuts off and you are all left blank-ed, but big pat for all who had made it through!!🤍see? it isnt that hard right?🤗
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