I Was Physically Abused For 4 Years | BE REAL EP 1
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- Опубликовано: 15 окт 2024
- Welcome to our brand new talk show, BE REAL! Through this new series, we hope to connect with you on a deeper level. For our pilot episode, we will be talking about: Toxic Relationships. Comment down below to let us know if you guys have any other topics/problems you have or want us to share about…
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Hey Rachel, I hope you feel better, no one should have to go through something like that! 😡 Just remember that you have so many loved ones that will support you ❤️❤️
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poor rachel 😭, glad that the toxic relationship is over, hopefully time can heal your pain, and hope your next relationship will be better than the last one ☺
Thanks for giving a platform for Rachel and people of abuse. It give a place for people to share their stories. This topic is very and especially important as people need to know when they’re in a toxic relationship and how to get out of it.
Rachel deserves BETTER bf and have lovely long lasting relationships. She is very fortunated to have friend like Ben and Randy who listen to your story and her friend who managed to persuade her to get out of her toxic relationship. Be strong! Fighting!❤
When I listened to Rachel's story, I was so angry. Seriously though, that dude 🚩🚩 needs to seek some help. I really pity whoever gets to be with him in the future because if he stays this way, he really deserves nobody. Dear Rachel, you're a lovable and sweet person, a bright and beautiful young girl deserving only of love, just like every human being does. Please 🥺 never, ever let anybody treat you that way ever again. I'm thankful that you have a good circle of friends who will protect you.
Honestly, I can relate to Ben's story, except that it's my new office. I remember having to dye my hair back to black (it was just colored red for few days) cause my new office HR back then demanded so right after signing the contract (they never mentioned anything prior to that). I remember a friend was telling me, why would you work with a company who already made you so unhappy right from the start. Whereas for Randy's story, I also had a guy telling me off saying that I crave attention from the guys (his words, "you must be feeling like a princess since my guy friends are so fond of you) and that there's something wrong with me because I'm getting along well with my male colleagues. He also always made those back-handed compliments like "You'll look beautiful if you have longer hair", "you'll look better if you wear higher heels". These people always make us feel as though there's something wrong with us when it's really not, and it's their low self-esteem that needs to be worked on.
Having said all those, I believe it's up to us for self-love and to tell ourself when to stop when we see those red flags. People say love is blind, but I believe love must also be rational. I hope you guys, Rachel, Ben and Randy, only settle with someone that is green flag and well-deserving of your love. Hugs, hugs 🫂🫂🫂
omg those back-handed compliments
ain't got anything to do with gender but idk why guys served those often to me while i was growing up
it made me feel ugly and inadequate
@@1991LSY Ikr.. but we must tell ourselves it's not us, it's them. And if they can't accept us as we are, then we're not made for each other. Simply move on. I wish I could tell my younger self that. Anyway, agree with you that it has nothing to do with gender. I think it's because we are ladies (assuming you are too), so maybe that's why we receive these remarks from men. But maybe guys are on the receiving end of such comments too. Jiayou, jiayou ❤
that dude needs to get a good old pounding tbh..
Sorry to hear what you went through Rachel. Thankfully you've stepped out and over that phase. Stay strong, you're worthy of love and you deserve someone countless times better.
Sorry to hear about Rachel’s unpleasant relationship with her ex boyfriend, sending her loving hugs & words of encouragement. 😢
Thanks Rachel for having the courage to share your experiences. Jiayou you are doing a great job in BENRANAWAY!
This (be real )series is actually good idea. 😊😊 props to you guys😊
Hi Rachel, sorry to hear that you are experiencing this, you are truly amazing for pulling through it ! I thought you are a happy and cheerful girl, but I can't believe you have such darkness during your teenage years. If i were you, I would not be able to endure that person for 4 years😔😔
My heart aches for Rachel. Having a daughter myself (also named Rachel), I cant imagine what i will do if a guy treated her like tt. 😔
so excited for these series! usually you guys always joke around and show ur happy sides, so this series will definitely show quite a new side to this channel it'll be a little better if you guys face each other rather than just looking straight into the camera because it's a little weird for me to see yall keep talking to the camera 😂 but i totally understand because this is probably a work habit yall adopted over the years looking forward to more of these!!
Great series!! this is interesting and can connect further.
Thank you 🫶🏻🫶🏻
i hope u feel better,iam very proud u opened up
Thanks Rachel for sharing your story! I hope Ben & Randy can also share more about themselves & BE REAL as per the title and act as example & come out to live their truth! ❤❤❤
Courage to step out of the toxic relationship and it also takes courage to speak up on air like this. Sharing your experience. Kudos to you Rachel.
this series is so genuine.. thank u for opening up❤
Hope you like this new series!
Hi Rachel, you really deserve better. I am glad you are out of this toxic rs. Definitely someone better is out there for you. ❤
glad you pulled through Rachel 😭 that made me tear up & you deserve so much more!!! sending hugs & love to you guys!
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Rachel sorry to hear that, you don't deserve that kind of abuse.. but I'm glad that you're brave enough to share and show awareness. We all experienced that somehow, not everyone is as brave as you are to share! Thanks for this! I TOTALLY can relate to your sharings. Virtual hug 🤗
Hi Rachel, feel so much heart pain. Thanks for sharing, you are so brave, you deserve to have someone better who loves and cherishes you with all his heart. All the best.
Hi rachel, lucky u haf good friends to help u in yr darkest moment of yr life. Not only that, i think 你天生乐观，正面的性格也帮助你迅速走出阴影。你放心， 以你的聪明才智， 对人生的积极和高颜值的外表， 我相信你下一段感情会更好! 继续加油! 希望你能长久出现在benranaway!
Rachel, so glad you stepped out of such toxic relationships, you DESERVE someone who really love and care for you 💕
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Omg, I am also tearing after hearing to Rachel's story. Hope you will heal from all that. I know how you feel. Hugs.
Hi Rachel, u deserve better. Glad u are away from that toxic relationship.
Poor Rachel, I am glad that you had came out from that kind of relationship.
I hope that guy will get his own karma. Jiayou Rachel, you deserve a better one...
how much courage do you need, Rachel, stay strong and be brave to keep going so you will find someone who is worth for you.. keep in mind that people who loves you will not try to abused you!
After hearing Rachel’s story, i am just wondering that if her ex have abusive relationship with his parents growing up as well because from the way her ex treated her it sounded like how he was treating Rachel like a kid.
Nevertheless, So sorry that this had to be the first relationship that you went through and i hope that you will be able to move on from this and find someone who loves and treats you well deservingly….
Looking forward to this series! Love it that you guys are exploring real talk to connect with viewers as well as to share your experiences. Dear Rachel, I'm proud of you. You have done well and you deserve everything good only. All the best guys!
Amazing series！ will keep supporting ❤
Thank you!!!
Luckily, you are no longer in the abusive relationship. Dont let anyone bully or abuse you. You need to take care of yourself. If this person does love you more than himself, then it is not worth that u stay on. Hwaiting!
Hello Ben & Randy, I always feel inspired by you guys, keep up the great work. 😊
Hi Rachel, i am glad that you have stepped out of that relationship, u must be a very kind and innocent lady to endure all these nonsense from your ex. You will find a better guy who truly deserve you. Jiayou!
Hi Rachel I was really shock and really feel so bad for you to see you cry. May I ask if your parent knew what you had been through. Can I gave you a virtual hug. You are pretty and so good at what you are doing for this channel. When you help Miss Hippo Auntie shoot her videos. I can see that you are a really nice, helpful and sincere personality. You are worthy. You are pretty. You are smart and capable of doing now and you are really good at it. I really enjoyed watching you appearing in Ben and randy channel. You guys look so much like a family. Lastly I wanna say You definitely deserve a good fine gentleman that will treat you well and love you in the future. xoxo jia you oh! Rachel.
Hi awesome new episode! A heart to heart talk show about real personal issues etc. so loved it! ❤
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Feel sorry to hear that happening to rachel. When i was listen about Rachel’s abusive experience for 4 years! I feel wanna cry after I listen to what happened to you all. Hopefully get better relationships to Rachel and also Ben&Randy too. 加油 要找更好的, 我永远支持你们 I will support to you all😊
Thank you so much ❤️❤️
Thank you , I really learned something! Thank you for this wonderful lesson
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Hey Rachel, glad you are out of that toxic relationship, he's such an a**h*** . You don't deserve to be treated like that. Just remember there are alot of ppl who loves you.
Great series... Jia you
You’re such a sweet girl. I hope you find someone worthy. Thanks for sharing your story. No other girls should face the same.
Yes, for everyone as well 🙏🏻
Hey Rachel you deserve a better man and worth the wait if you wait patiently for the right man in times to come! I was like you too at your aged last for 3 years. Been single for 12 years after that toxic relationship because I was so trauma and took years to gain trust when any man wants to get to know me. My advice is have to love yourself and you will know when a real man loves you more than himself God bless you ❤❤❤
Thank you for sharing this with us ❤️
Wonderful and genuine sharing of experiences by Ben, Randy and Rachel. Very sorry to hear Rachel’s unpleasant & abusive experience! I hope nobody would have to go through this in life. Hope you feel much better now Rachel and we are very grateful of what you do together with Ben and Randy ❤❤
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no one deserve this shitty treatment especially from someone that supposedly love you. :( i hope all of yall will eventually find someone that can love you for you and may yall be loved wholeheartedly. you deserve that kind of love. ❤
omg poor Rachel I hope ur living the best life now 😭
Sending loves and hugs to you, Rachel.
Sometimes there is a quote "the bitter in past ,let it flow, more sweet is welcoming you in future".
I'm in toxic relationship in the past too, due to that i only can believe my ownself, every problem i hide it. Of course by making yourself busy and listen to music is my healing until now. Sometimes people said karma will get back to them but i think karma does not exist, because the one that make me like this is having good life and happy relationship changing new boyfriend, while i am still having trauma relationship until today only have 1 time relationship. Sometimes life does not fair, i also have suicide though last time, but suicide will never solve this problem, of course until today i keep going forward and stay strong by myself.
Great series!
omg damn sads :( no one deserves to be treated like that TT
sad stories 😭😭
this sounds like an episode of a podcast HAHAHA 🤩
Should we make it into a podcast? 🥹
@@BenRanAway yes!! 🙌🏼🙌🏼
Wow i always thought that bc you guys were famous, your SO/partners will be more appreciative of the fact that you chose to date them. Cant believe they are so abusive. My parents were like that to me (like ask me to stand and face the wall). Thats a big reason for why i would rather be single bc at least nobody can verbally or physically abuse me.
Do Q&A pls! Show your real self!
Jia you Rachel. You deserve a good guy to take care of you because you are such a lovely person ❤
Omggg I feel for yall siaaa, had someone who called me toxic but I did not know what happened... pursued and ask the person who still did not tell me why to this day HAHAHAHAHA
Good Series!🎉
Thank you so much! We hope you enjoyed this series! 💕
Nice video. Hope to see more challenge videos!
Hugs to you Rache. Luckily you seek help from your friends. Actually, you should make a police report to arrest him for abusing you. For those who are facing abusive relationships. Or having an abusive partner. Pls leave the place immediately and seek help fast from the police. Be safe everyone, no one should be abused or abuse anyone. 男人， 你的手是用来保护你的爱人和亲人的， 不是用来打人的。
I hope yall can do tourettes or mental health as i am going through mental health and tourettes and tourettes is VERY rare in singapore
Toxic relationships are very common anywhere in the world, I was in a toxic relationship with a North Indian guy for 5 months some years ago. 😨
I first comment yay hope you guys continue to make awesome videos
just wanna add that toxic relationships doesnt only apply to romance
for one, I have been in a toxic relationship with my family
in the past i weren't a toxic person but due to the circumstances i'm in and choose to remain in due to softheartedness i still ended up becoming a toxic person whenever i'm interacting with my immediate family members
And Rachel iw to give you a bear hug ❤
true! even with family members i do have toxic relationship with my own dad, and it was brought into my adult life as well
omg i have the same situation before as rachel. its really bad that it gaves me a trauma
Hope u feel better rachel
Hope Rachel will be better with Ben and Randy
Please take care Rachel 🙏
HI BENRANAWAY ITS FINALLY HERE
❤❤❤👍🙂Love This New Vlog🙏Rachel u deserve the best👍💕that EX is the biggest loser n I don't think he will ever find happiness he needs therapy!Thank goodness u are no longer with him🙂💪
I love how Rachel struggles to speak when wearing her braces!
if rachel is my daughter and i know my daughter is been beaten, that guy has guaranteed himself a lifetime wheelchair bound honor by me.
Please do something about this guy, do not allow him to do this to another girl, use your influence for good
she is so pretty and dont deserve THAT
not easy to talk about this in public, but kudos.....
Hugs for Rachel ❤
Auntie see u cry.. my heart aching liao😢😢 😭..poor gal.. auntie sayang.. how dare that idiot treated u in such nasty ways!! U are strong and not worthless..u are the sweetest gal in this group with Ben and Randy❤❤ how i wish i can give u a big big motherly hug now🥰🥰 U are very pretty and sweet! 加油 ok
Maybe can I suggest to put the helpline on the above information. Thank you.
I had a bad relationship too my bf will make me go and come back then tell me he miss me then when I am there he say he is busy after that he will text me crying saying that he miss me when I am mad at him he will do whatever to get me back with his single parent story then the cycle repeat . I love him very much but is really not worth it to love ppl like tht I felt so tired, disappointed,angry and crying most of the time
Thanks for sharing it with us 🫶🏻
The "be real" transition is slightly too much... very distracting for viewers. Just a suggestion perhaps to reduce the frequency?
That dude has some anger management shit
Can share toxic friendship and how to get over?
Hi Rachel, you deserve someone better and hope your life should be free without him. Jiayou :)
I am shock by Rachel's sharing. Can't believe got such thing. Assuming it is not storytelling.
Jiayou Rachel! 😣
Hope your okay now rachel
Was the relationship "Poxic" or toxic
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omg rachel 😢😢😢 U should have told ur parents or a teacher I hope karma gets that bastard ex of urs 🤬🤬🤬
Rachel u should be have broke up the abusive buy long time ago! This kind of violent guy is horrible.
Rachel need a lot of healing
but only the abusive part HAHA
i wan protect rach xmm from harm😢😢😡
No offense, but it's quite annoying when Rachel is trying to share her story but there's always a sudden cut off of the series title every now and then.
Rachel ❤
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17 years old was really young man and go overseas with bf. Hmmmmm
Rach is cute and chio larrrr
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我提她生气😡，不要给我看到那个男的，直接死在我的眼前。。。。。
Poxic. Hahahahahahah
Wow it's exactly what I thought - that u guys gonna have ur own talk show! This series looks pretty good since we can share stories and learn from each other.
For me, I used to meet a psychopath date. Luckily I interacted shortly with him because after our first date, I felt something is wrong with him since I was crying from being humiliated by him and decided to talk to a friend about it, so I didn't get into a toxic rs with him.. thank goodness.
But lately, I stepped out from being away from my verbal abusive parent, becos just like Rachel's case, my dad was scolding vulgarities at me for minor issues and he got worst recently. I figured I need to be away from him or else it would probably be the end of me. Life can be sad and hard, but it still has to go on. I'm always glad I can watch u guys videos as my happiness booster. 🥹
Pls keep going, Ben, Randy and Rachel. ❤🩷🧡
Thank you so much for the comment!
Helo
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Rachel look like 邻家女孩。Are you still single?
I mean you were so young back then, having bruises all over your face and body... your parents won't ask meh?? Still schooling some more and your friends don't care about you??