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Nice summary - JustOdy! One of the main reasons why women lose attraction for a man is because, attraction is like a plant. If you don’t keep watering it, it dies. Getting a woman attracted to you, that’s the easy part - now keeping her attracted, that’s a whole new ball game. One of the most powerful ways to keep the attraction going is by learning - how to “build a deep emotional connection” with a woman. Once you have learned that, you won’t have to worry about her leaving you - she’ll be chasing you instead. Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
So true bro. Once I learned to find the things I was doing wrong was the day the script was flipped. The less attention I give them the more they chase. I love it
“Play games to get her gonna have to play games to keep her. “ perfect way to end this video. We really gotta go for girls that dont need you to play games but respects you on your purpose and everything thing else fit just said initially. Not after you prove yourself but initially.
Just coming from the gym bruh..who gives a fvck if she pulls back..my side piece started pulling back these days talk about she has exams coming up and all that BS i told her to hit me up when she wants to literally get dug out and I just put her on ice and don’t communicate with her Im hitting the gym consistently and making money staying on my grind any woman that comes my way I smash and pass no time for this shawtys
Facts upon facts. Starting to fck with these 17 min videos. Fit man you always keeping it real and no cap I'm at a point where you and I think alike. Boys keep it simple and have that mamba mentality and be goal focus. A female loves attention but a female can't resist a man who has ambition as well. Be on your purpose!
These days anybody can get a degree if they are determined enough. Gone are the days when you had to be above average to get degrees even in engineering
Nah, tbh it’s not too surprising he’s got one. Also there are a bunch of amazing YT resources that can help you IF YOU take advantage of them. He’s obviously a hyper determined high achieving individual. Him having an engineering degree fits that. Glad he’s a fellow engineer.
Went through this this weekend. Lol if I was a bum broke ugly and dusty she wouldn’t play any games. Because I’m glowing, handsome, own business, smart, good job, nice car, I have to beg her majesty to like me 😂😂 foh
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Fitx, everything you just said in this video, is so true. I'm dealing with this too . I found this video helpful. Thank you ! I'mma follow your advice👌🏽
This actually happened to me recently. I met this cute girl in my class in school and she looked at me a lot and was a bit shy around me, so I approached her since I thought she was really attractive and seemed nice. We walked together to her bus and later talked while she was waiting for her bus. She seemed pretty interested in me cuz she was saying "we" and "you will see later" to me in the conversation. When her bus came she stood up and gave me a hug. The next 2 days, we went to the bus together and we both hugged each other at the end. I thought things were going well and I was planning to ask her out after a few days because I wanted to get to know her a bit first. But the next Monday we both sat and waited for the bus together again, when she suddenly just walked away to talk to her friends instead in the middle of the conversation. I thought this was weird, but I didn't chase her. When we boarded the bus, I asked if she got hot before (it was actually quite hot where we were sitting) just to get her to say something. She just replied with a "yes, it's so hot outside today". On the bus she just sat with her friends and didn't pay any attention to me at all. She actually didn't even get off at her usual stop. In school the next day, she ignored me and didn't even look at me. I did not give her attention either to show her that I'm not desperate for her attention. I think she might have done this because I didn't really tease or compliment her that much (I didn't find an appropriate time to do so, and I was pretty dumb because I was afraid she might think I'm weird, even though I clearly saw how interested she was). I would like you guys feedback if this was my fault because I didn't show enough interest in her (I always held eye-contact with her when she was talking and always listened to her, sat close to her. I however did not touch her in intimate ways. I really wanted and probably should have, but I didn't get any good opportunity to do so and was afraid of rejection) or if she just lost interest when she started to get to know me.
@@akeemclinton4845 Mate, don't read the lower part of that comment. I now know why she pulled away. It was because I never asked her out after talking for 3 days and because I sat shoulder to shoulder with her close to her friends so she probably felt pressured. Also, after a month or so, she looked to be even more attracted to me and gave me lots of looks and puppy eyes when making eye-contact. I reached out a week later, but f:ed up quite badly because I showed way too much interest over text and asked her out in a not so confident way. The moral of my story is: Don't care too much about her pulling away since that will make you even more emotionally invested in her and that will lead you to make so many unnecessary mistakes with her if she actually comes back around like I did. Also, the main reason you think she pulled away is probably not the real reason it happened. I was overthinking alot and came to the conclusion that I showed too little interest... I just wasn't man enough to ask her out earlier and was too close for her comfort too early on.
All that regaining her interest after she lose interest is a complete waste of time to be honest. The last time I checked you can't please these girls bro so it's completely up to them if they're interested or not.
I agree bro... If a girl isn't interested in me i'm not going to waste my time trying to get her be interested in me, when there's billions of women im this world 💯
He’s honestly just pumping out videos at this point. All these red pill channels have a 1 year timetable of good content then it’s just bs money making gimmicks. Swear I’ve seen this same vid posted 100x
The most important lesson is exactly : Prioritize yourself and move on when the pulling back starts. Prioritizing yourself is the best way to level up, but is just one of the steps. First, you. Second, you. Third, look at yourself in the mirror, is there something to improve ? Go do it !!! Forth, Think about your day, is your life where you it to be ? Go do it !!! After these steps... you will be approached by more quality women ( that still test you .... ) Remember that girl that started to pull back ? You are now out of her league. Thank you
There’s some girls that I KNOW I’d be the best guy they’d ever get with and they still try to play games witty me and I just sit there and laugh. Ight more time for me to level up
Probably best not to waste your time. I mean the points are good but honestly there’s better things to put your energy into. Spend your time working on your finances and health. Heck if you haven’t got at least 6 months worth of emergency funds saved aside from your regular savings you need to forget about women for now. There’s always a new chick rolling out the factory line anyway.
Great tips! One of the main reasons why women lose attraction for a man is because, attraction is like a plant. If you don’t keep watering it, it dies. Getting a woman attracted to you, that’s the easy part - now keeping her attracted, that’s a whole new ball game. One of the most powerful ways to keep the attraction going is by learning - how to “build a deep emotional connection” with a woman. Once you have learned that, you won’t have to worry about her leaving you - she’ll be chasing you instead. Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
It be funny. This girl came to my show, added me on IG. We hung out after my show, she eyed me the whole night. I approached and got the date and number. We had the date and made out. Was supposed to meet up but now she ain’t textin back. Unfollowed her and removed her. I’m not with the games
Gosh I had this. Banged this lass 8yrs younger than me (couple of times). She got back with an ex I think. Some things I defo messed up i.e. too available, too nice. Don't make the same mistakes again fellas. Put it down to experience. Shit still hurts.
I was feeling this woman and she was feeling me to, till I started giving her too much attention... Now she acting a fool. Fellas! Don't give women too much attention. Put yourself first and focus on you instead
Having your fitness on point is important but not crucial. Women are way less visual than we are, so you being fit will definitely help, but in and of itself it doesn't do much more than get your foot in the door. If you're still acting beta she doesn't care how ripped you look. Women care about how they FEEL about you. The way I re-attracted my woman was by being asked to join a band; I sing and play guitar. So when my woman saw me on stage and getting tons of interest from other women, she went from being a disinterested maybe 5/10 on the attraction scale to sucking the soul out of me the moment we got home after the gig. Women are insanely competitive; and learning to play an instrument (be sensible guys, learn the guitar/piano/sax etc; no girl is going to drop her panties for a bloke playing the euphonium or flute) is the best way I've ever know at not just attracting women, but keeping them attracted, because your musical skills constantly attract new women
This is way too common on my side, what I found out is that it is all the same common reason "I'm not invested" I actually don't know how to show that tbh
YOUR WORDS ARE VERY HELPFUL. I WILL ALWAYS LIKE COMMENT AND SUBSCRIBE TO YOUR CHANNEL AND I WATCH YOUR VIDEOS FROM BEGINNING TO END AND I HIT THE NOTIFICATION BUTTON ALSO.
One woman freindzoned me after 5 months, I put her in ENDZONE . I told her that I dont care if it is your wedding day or your funeral day . She cried then she always seems to show up whenever I talk to other girls.
What if you have previously been watching her stories and then all of a sudden stop ? Surely they will suspect that you are trying to pull a fast one ?
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THINGS TO EXPECT FROM FITX IN THIS VIDEO; Lets go boys..
1: Sit and reflect about what you did wrong.
2: Mute but don't unfollow
3: Be cordial but short in person.
4: Level the heck up kings.
5: Move on bruh.
😂🤣😂
Nice summary - JustOdy!
One of the main reasons why women lose attraction for a man is because, attraction is like a plant.
If you don’t keep watering it, it dies. Getting a woman attracted to you, that’s the easy part - now keeping her attracted, that’s a whole new ball game.
One of the most powerful ways to keep the attraction going is by learning - how to “build a deep emotional connection” with a woman.
Once you have learned that, you won’t have to worry about her leaving you - she’ll be chasing you instead.
Anyway, that’s my two cents.
-Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
@@carlosverde-datingtips7001 great write up, big ups bruh👌🏽
@@justody1 thanks! I appreciate you - bruh.
@@carlosverde-datingtips7001 🤜🏽🤛🏽
Level up and when she comes back you won’t even want her 💯
💯💯
On god
This is very true. When she knows that you feel lucky to be with her is when she loses interest because you’re not a catch anymore!! Excellent vid💯
#4 & #5 most important. Prioritize you first and move on at the first sign of games/disrespect. You’ll save so much time and energy
So true bro. Once I learned to find the things I was doing wrong was the day the script was flipped. The less attention I give them the more they chase. I love it
He is telling the truth when you don't give a fuck what they think you will get them
If a women losses interest move on fellas, there's plenty of women out here.
Not really.
@@GuidetteExpert yes there is get out the house!
Exactly what I was thinking.
@@runout1013 lol not that men would be with.
@@GuidetteExpert No move on simple
Lessons quite assimilated, "You play games to get her, you play games to keep her".
Thanks fitxfearless! You are a blessing to men..
“Play games to get her gonna have to play games to keep her. “ perfect way to end this video. We really gotta go for girls that dont need you to play games but respects you on your purpose and everything thing else fit just said initially. Not after you prove yourself but initially.
unlikely. 95% of females r like this in todays society subconciously
Just coming from the gym bruh..who gives a fvck if she pulls back..my side piece started pulling back these days talk about she has exams coming up and all that BS i told her to hit me up when she wants to literally get dug out and I just put her on ice and don’t communicate with her
Im hitting the gym consistently and making money staying on my grind any woman that comes my way I smash and pass no time for this shawtys
Facts upon facts. Starting to fck with these 17 min videos. Fit man you always keeping it real and no cap I'm at a point where you and I think alike. Boys keep it simple and have that mamba mentality and be goal focus. A female loves attention but a female can't resist a man who has ambition as well. Be on your purpose!
Let her pull back man who cares ⁉️ just focus on money 💰 and pursue your purpose which for me is music and making beats 🎧
My N***a✌✌
💪🏽💪🏽✅✅💯
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She's never yours it's just your turn
It's pretty cool to hear that FitX has an engineer degree, because listening to him speak I wouldn't have ever guessed. Good job 👍
These days anybody can get a degree if they are determined enough. Gone are the days when you had to be above average to get degrees even in engineering
Nah, tbh it’s not too surprising he’s got one. Also there are a bunch of amazing YT resources that can help you IF YOU take advantage of them.
He’s obviously a hyper determined high achieving individual. Him having an engineering degree fits that. Glad he’s a fellow engineer.
@@sarkie3927 Whose to say he's an average brother?? He put in the work and earned his. Fall back with the back handed hating comments
Went through this this weekend. Lol if I was a bum broke ugly and dusty she wouldn’t play any games. Because I’m glowing, handsome, own business, smart, good job, nice car, I have to beg her majesty to like me 😂😂 foh
Focus on the routine and consistency and never focus on the one girl
I feel like these are things every man know deep inside of him but we all need someone who tells us like this man do
on gawd bro
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I feel Like I have an older brother teaching me a lot of wisdom which I never had in reality
Yes. Look at yourself first. Sometimes you won't like what you find. How to incorporate this into married life is the true challenge.
Yea it's alot more difficult once they have the meat hooks sunk into you.
Just focus on tryna better yourself n look good for other women and yo wife will try to get u back 😂
BiG Facts “If you play games to get her you going to have too play games to keep her.”
Fitx, everything you just said in this video, is so true. I'm dealing with this too . I found this video helpful. Thank you ! I'mma follow your advice👌🏽
I’m also Colombian as well. I’m from Bogota. Keep it up fitx🔥
I literally love everything about fitx
This actually happened to me recently. I met this cute girl in my class in school and she looked at me a lot and was a bit shy around me, so I approached her since I thought she was really attractive and seemed nice. We walked together to her bus and later talked while she was waiting for her bus. She seemed pretty interested in me cuz she was saying "we" and "you will see later" to me in the conversation. When her bus came she stood up and gave me a hug.
The next 2 days, we went to the bus together and we both hugged each other at the end. I thought things were going well and I was planning to ask her out after a few days because I wanted to get to know her a bit first. But the next Monday we both sat and waited for the bus together again, when she suddenly just walked away to talk to her friends instead in the middle of the conversation. I thought this was weird, but I didn't chase her. When we boarded the bus, I asked if she got hot before (it was actually quite hot where we were sitting) just to get her to say something. She just replied with a "yes, it's so hot outside today". On the bus she just sat with her friends and didn't pay any attention to me at all. She actually didn't even get off at her usual stop.
In school the next day, she ignored me and didn't even look at me. I did not give her attention either to show her that I'm not desperate for her attention.
I think she might have done this because I didn't really tease or compliment her that much (I didn't find an appropriate time to do so, and I was pretty dumb because I was afraid she might think I'm weird, even though I clearly saw how interested she was).
I would like you guys feedback if this was my fault because I didn't show enough interest in her (I always held eye-contact with her when she was talking and always listened to her, sat close to her. I however did not touch her in intimate ways. I really wanted and probably should have, but I didn't get any good opportunity to do so and was afraid of rejection) or if she just lost interest when she started to get to know me.
I'm kinda going through the same thing bro SMH thus is so confusing sometimez
@@akeemclinton4845 Mate, don't read the lower part of that comment. I now know why she pulled away. It was because I never asked her out after talking for 3 days and because I sat shoulder to shoulder with her close to her friends so she probably felt pressured.
Also, after a month or so, she looked to be even more attracted to me and gave me lots of looks and puppy eyes when making eye-contact.
I reached out a week later, but f:ed up quite badly because I showed way too much interest over text and asked her out in a not so confident way.
The moral of my story is: Don't care too much about her pulling away since that will make you even more emotionally invested in her and that will lead you to make so many unnecessary mistakes with her if she actually comes back around like I did.
Also, the main reason you think she pulled away is probably not the real reason it happened. I was overthinking alot and came to the conclusion that I showed too little interest... I just wasn't man enough to ask her out earlier and was too close for her comfort too early on.
Nothing to learn here. Just mirror her and focus on yourself like you should be anyway 💯
level up fa sho! Stay focused on your health and business goals
You won’t believe me FitX this shit happened to me just today. The girl I was dating for 2 months started pulling up mind games.
every single girl does it, at some point
“You play games to get her. You play games to keep her.”
Purpose driven. Good advice young man. I appreciate it.
My mistake was giving her too much attention and she disrespected that. now I’m not gonna give any of my attention
What ended up happening?
Fuck all these games I have a life to build and a life to live
Too much validation is bad, but seducing her and appreciating her is Necessary,
If we are just too Aloof, she will feel unapreciated.
Just leave them and turn your attention where its wanted. Usually does the trick
When you level up you will get the last laugh 💯💯
Our big brother fitx👍🏾 thank you man!
Great video. Just leveling up and focusing on yourself helps us all around.
Fammmmm Ngl….this is facts!!! My main chick…has completely broken her back for me and it was all based on distance and masculinity.
All that regaining her interest after she lose interest is a complete waste of time to be honest. The last time I checked you can't please these girls bro so it's completely up to them if they're interested or not.
I agree bro... If a girl isn't interested in me i'm not going to waste my time trying to get her be interested in me, when there's billions of women im this world 💯
He’s honestly just pumping out videos at this point. All these red pill channels have a 1 year timetable of good content then it’s just bs money making gimmicks. Swear I’ve seen this same vid posted 100x
@@Jdot2tact 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@shawnwilliams2381 exactly. We have better things to do.
@@Jdot2tact yeah that's what I noticed too. The videos seems repetitive sometimes.
FITX! Thanks for all your time, efforts and service brother. 🙏🏼
Pull away and go on, the rain comes and goes.
Yes sir I'm going through this exacting right now. I was too nice and too available And yes I validated her way too much
Man you right about that moving on that’s the best part
FitX got me wanting to hit the gym right now.
Good video man, definelty got this situation going on in my life
I haven't given free validation in about 4 years
The most important lesson is exactly : Prioritize yourself and move on when the pulling back starts.
Prioritizing yourself is the best way to level up, but is just one of the steps.
First, you.
Second, you.
Third, look at yourself in the mirror, is there something to improve ? Go do it !!!
Forth, Think about your day, is your life where you it to be ? Go do it !!!
After these steps... you will be approached by more quality women ( that still test you .... )
Remember that girl that started to pull back ?
You are now out of her league.
Thank you
These videos make sense when you are in the hunt. Everything you are saying is hitting me like a brick!
Girls are backwards
Seen acouple of your Videos but this one made me subscribe keep up the work Brotha 💪🏽😎
Lots of good info but especially #5. Gotta know when to cut your losses and walk away.
There’s some girls that I KNOW I’d be the best guy they’d ever get with and they still try to play games witty me and I just sit there and laugh. Ight more time for me to level up
Naaah FitX the GOAT fr💯
Love you boys!
Probably best not to waste your time. I mean the points are good but honestly there’s better things to put your energy into. Spend your time working on your finances and health. Heck if you haven’t got at least 6 months worth of emergency funds saved aside from your regular savings you need to forget about women for now. There’s always a new chick rolling out the factory line anyway.
“Factory line” indeed.😂😂😂
Preach
Love it bro! Awesome inspiring info champ!👊🏽👑
yo i really like your videos ,you've help me so much
Great tips! One of the main reasons why women lose attraction for a man is because, attraction is like a plant.
If you don’t keep watering it, it dies. Getting a woman attracted to you, that’s the easy part - now keeping her attracted, that’s a whole new ball game.
One of the most powerful ways to keep the attraction going is by learning - how to “build a deep emotional connection” with a woman.
Once you have learned that, you won’t have to worry about her leaving you - she’ll be chasing you instead.
Anyway, that’s my two cents.
-Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
Thank you FITX,Your videos have made me become a better man mentally and physically
Yoo Fix God bless you i use to unfollow and unfriend but today you leveled me up
Excellent Fearless
Well said brother!
Bruhhh this fcking video gives power ⚡️⚡️
Real talk 💯💪🏾
I'm new here but my man I love your contents. Big up my man. God bless you. From Nigeria..
YOU FORGOT TO TELL HER STAY BLESSED
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂
What's your max on bench just out of curiosity, ever considered fitness content as well?
That would be great fitx fearless 👍🏾💯
No, don't loose the focus
U can imagine how much through his stingers😁😁😉😉he grinds more than you think💓
They say things happen for a reason I'm that reason why things are happening.
"If you play games to get her, you gon play games to keep her"💯
Man all this tricks to get women aint worth it, just focus on youre self and goals…
Just move on. They always come back, and if they don’t. Who gives a shit
No wonder she didn't block me yet .😂 thx fitx. She playing games.
Fitx is the greatest
If she lose her interest another guy showing interest in her
9:28 that was stephiscold! Dude's funny af
Great advice
It be funny. This girl came to my show, added me on IG. We hung out after my show, she eyed me the whole night. I approached and got the date and number. We had the date and made out. Was supposed to meet up but now she ain’t textin back. Unfollowed her and removed her. I’m not with the games
I gotta be honest this is helping my life Bruh
Bro great vid I been through dis last semester in college I do everything he said and 💩 like dis kept happening
Gosh I had this. Banged this lass 8yrs younger than me (couple of times). She got back with an ex I think. Some things I defo messed up i.e. too available, too nice. Don't make the same mistakes again fellas. Put it down to experience. Shit still hurts.
Plan failed she won’t stop coming over 😂 good looks G
I don’t even notice if she loses interest cos I’m on to the next lol
I was feeling this woman and she was feeling me to, till I started giving her too much attention... Now she acting a fool. Fellas! Don't give women too much attention. Put yourself first and focus on you instead
5:38 this guy never aged at all 😂
All that sounds like a ton work.
there's no choice bros, you must be all high value men
Or cut all women off 🧊🥶
I agree with everything except the mute but don’t unfollow because if any girl causing me any type of issues or stress I’m blocking simple
I wouldn't even follow in the first place because it makes you seem like a fan just have it on the side
Lol you’re screwing up a lot of opportunities then AND looking butthurt
Don't chase them, replace them
Having your fitness on point is important but not crucial. Women are way less visual than we are, so you being fit will definitely help, but in and of itself it doesn't do much more than get your foot in the door. If you're still acting beta she doesn't care how ripped you look. Women care about how they FEEL about you. The way I re-attracted my woman was by being asked to join a band; I sing and play guitar. So when my woman saw me on stage and getting tons of interest from other women, she went from being a disinterested maybe 5/10 on the attraction scale to sucking the soul out of me the moment we got home after the gig. Women are insanely competitive; and learning to play an instrument (be sensible guys, learn the guitar/piano/sax etc; no girl is going to drop her panties for a bloke playing the euphonium or flute) is the best way I've ever know at not just attracting women, but keeping them attracted, because your musical skills constantly attract new women
They think they be🥁🥁🥁🥁er than me. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
This is way too common on my side, what I found out is that it is all the same common reason "I'm not invested" I actually don't know how to show that tbh
Why would you want to reattract her let her go it's her loss
What should you do if she blocks you out of nowhere
Keep it pushing. That's all you really can do tbh
Really sad lately, you got me right
Hey brother, could you do a video on your diet ??
Straight up
Lol bro speaking facts. Especially city broads!
Just realized that my brother is from La.
YOUR WORDS ARE VERY HELPFUL. I WILL ALWAYS LIKE COMMENT AND SUBSCRIBE TO YOUR CHANNEL AND I WATCH YOUR VIDEOS FROM BEGINNING TO END AND I HIT THE NOTIFICATION BUTTON ALSO.
One woman freindzoned me after 5 months, I put her in ENDZONE . I told her that I dont care if it is your wedding day or your funeral day . She cried then she always seems to show up whenever I talk to other girls.
Keep the Likes up ppl 👍👍👍
Damn. I feel called out.
What if you have previously been watching her stories and then all of a sudden stop ? Surely they will suspect that you are trying to pull a fast one ?