Lol my mom had a rule that if we left our stuff on the floor too long it must be trash and she'd throw it away, we did it a few times and then figured it out haha. It made me mad as hell at the time but I was warned so
Rosemary Crafting no she didn't. I worked and took care of myself and her. Paid rent too. She came into my space on another floor (2 family my sister and I lived upstairs) and violated my property. Mine and my sisters. BTW that was over a decade ago dear.
Rosemary Crafting at the time I was. I still worked and took care of myself. Nobody should have their things thrown out, especially your kids. That's all they have. Yeah they should help out is why I said what the lady did wasn't cruel. What my mom did was.
When I was younger I got in trouble for throwing up on the floor(age11/I have acid reflex) My Step-Mother made me bag up all my clothes and keep them in the garage. Her reason being, that I was playing sick for attention. I couldn't understand why I was getting yelled at for being sick! I could only earn back a piece of clothing for every chore I did. It was absolutely terrible. Thank God, she is outta my life.
My door got taken off when i would slam it. Jokes on them. I just went and slammed another door and hung a cover over my door held up with push pins. They put my door back on and never took it again.
Yeah I was changing once, and he said I look like a trashy hooker because I was putting my bra on???? My dad is psychotic, confirmed by a doctor. Aye aye aye I need help
Buying the bags back is a little far, but putting everything into a bag isn't bad. My parents use to do this all the time, threatening to throw everything away
my parents would tell me to clean or it gets thrown away. when I was 5 and saw my Barbie get tossed in the trash I became a neat freak every sense. y'all know damn well no more shit got thrown away after that lol XD
Lakeisha Gray Hahaha! I thought I was the only one who didn't have a huge problem cleaning my room when I was a kid lol. Of course there was times, where it got a little unorganized. Just the threat alone of having my stuff donated or thrown out, was enough for me to get my ass in gear. LMAO! My mother kept a clean house and it wore off on me. I honestly didn't like having a messy room. Even as a young adult when I moved out on my own, I kept my apartment clean. Now that I'm in my mid 30's, I'm not as much as a clean freak as I used to be. I've struggled with Fibromyalgia and chronic pain for the last 20 years. As I get older, it makes cleaning harder and harder to do. But I still do what I can on my good days. So as someone commented below, Get them used to being organized and clean when they are young and this won't happen lol I'm proof of that! My little sister followed suit as well. It does work. :)
My question is why do parents (especially mothers) always feel the need to post about their children's punishments online? Why do you need a bunch of strangers and or friends telling you that you're a good parent and that your kids deserve it? Why is making your kids out to be rotten a cool thing? What goes on in my house doesn't leave the house unless someone is at danger. What do you get out if humiliating or belittling your children? You're not getting a gold medal, honey.
I help my mother out with paying bills and i have a job, i sometimes buy mt mother food, and yet she doesnt respect my belongings, take the things i pay for, and yet i cant do the same to her because shes my "mother"
Wait 25 dollars a bag? In my house you did the stuff you needed to do for FREE. So how much does this kid make for chores?! I have found in the 8 years being a nanny that when kids are being PAID to do things around the house - they don't do them as often then when they are taught from a young age it's something you just DO. They only do it if they need money for something and have only one way of getting it, they do the chores for the amount they want then don't do any until more is needed.
Isabela Sanchez As sh3ikh4 said, the money comes from the chores they are being paid to do. So yeah they pay the mom $25 but they get that money from the mother to begin with...
BasqueOblivion, perhaps it was extra chores like washing the cars, mowing the lawn, weeding the lawn, painting part of the house or deep cleaning something. I agree with you about chores being something you do because you are part of the family. I am sure that the teens worked for what they needed and not likely any more afterwards. I am laughing at the $25 a bag though! Hahaha...
I'm surprised she didn't get a visit by Child Protective Services. Also, why did she think it was so great that she posted it on Facebook anyways? If the worse thing her kid did was being messy then lucky her. I could understand if family was coming over or they were trying to sell their home, but really just let the room be and close the door if it bothers you so much.
I can't see why it's bad to teach children that actions have consequenses. They refuse to clean up and help out, why should they have all that free stuff that they didn't work for? Nobody is just going to hand them stuff they want when they grow up
Sammie Sapphire I'm 15 and I don't get why I see kids doing chores that's what my mom dad and maid are for people just need to Learn that is what a fucking maid is for I'm not cleaning that is nasty your parents and maid should clean not kids
Keep Digging well that's where the chores came in, I dont know how much per chore, but after they did chores they made money and that money went towards buying back their stuff
Literally I was moving from city to city and my dad said you can only take 1 bag of clothes and 1 bag of stuff. I left ALL my flipping stuff at my old house and never saw it again. I deeply hate this punishment
Nabranes TwistyPuzzler stole them? Are you stupid? Parents buy the toys. Therefore they can take them back. My god, so many entitled morons in the comment section.
Calliope May if the parents GIVE the toys to their kids, they don't own them anymore. But if they are just lending them the toys (and tell the kids as much), it works out. Babies for instance don't really own their toys, the parents just provide them the toys temporarily for the sake of the child's motoric development and more. Kids that are as old as teenagers usually definitely own some things of their own, but they need to have been taught already in kindergarten that ownership comes with responsibilities. A lot of parents fuck themselves over by trying to teach them responsible ownership much too late. It's a gradual thing they need to start learning at a very young age, including that the parents respect their responsible ownership but if you treat your things like trash in the common areas then others will treat them like trash too. There are however few brain conditions that will make it abnormal hard for a child to focus on what needs to be done, e.g. ADHD. But that means they need more responsibilities and help, not less. Kids with special circumstances need to be taught efficient coping mechanisms for their condition.
“You end up going in and cleaning it for them” no, you raise your child to listen to what you tell them. Also couldn’t they just open the bags and pour it all back onto the floor? Seems like she tried too hard
Everyone saying their mum threatened or did throw their stuff away if they didn't clean it up that is very different to this my mum did that too and it mostly non harmful but 25$ a bag?? That's such an asshole move that's so much of their money for all the stuff they already have more than 100$ you are practically forcing them to pay it aswell
ELAINE ok, but they have really important things in there. Band music CANNOT be replaced, the directors often don't make extra copies. And cleats are expensive. It isn't acceptable to let down an entire team (or band) because of a little thing like that.
Drove me nuts that if my brother washed his own dinner plate (not everyone else's) he would get money for "chores" yet i had to vacuum every room in the house, make my bed, my parents bed, my brothers bed, clean the bathrooms, wash the walls and windowsills, dust every little thing, poop scoop the yard, water the plants, fold laundry, etc.. on a daily basis!!! (who needs to do spring cleaning every single day!?) and i never once received a penny for chores. It was just expected. I never really bought into the whole "world is sexist" bit, but i can't think of any other reason as to why my brothers didn't have to clean and i did. Either i had to clean because i am female, or maybe they just hated me. I didn't get money until i was old enough to legally work (which was after leaving home) It still boggles my mind when kids have money. How does a child come to have money?
Shellby Barajas my dad and step mum don’t invade my privacy like that. And it is my room because when my mum passed away she left her house for me and my brothers.
so 25$ a bag and from counting and guessing i would conclude that there is 16 bags 16 x 25 = 400$ like i never in my life had 400 dollars if i did i would not spend it on those bags i would buy new clothes and shoes etc but i think this is a bit cruel she could lower the bag price to 5$ so that would be 80$ much more reasonable and also with the bags like make the kid cut the bags open then say you dont leave this room till you put every thing in the bags back to where it is suppose to be.
I can as a teenager tell you that all of us are VERY sensitive no matter how much we pretend we dont care. And an attack like this would make anyone anxious not teach anything. I would just build distance between me and my mother and lose respect and trust
Hannah Renee of course, believe me i know cause my parents are really strict but i don't always have time for certain things cause i have to learn for tests and stuff for school so yeah .....
Istvan Elekes If you still live with your parents, I am much older than you kid. Grow up and do what your parents say. They`re not there to be your friend.
Lmao. Geeze. This generation is so disrespectful to their parents. It's quite sad what kind of bull shit parents have to go through with their ignorant children.
Yenelly So true! I really didn't have a problem cleaning my room when I was a kid lol. Of course there was times, where it got a little unorganized. Just the threat alone of having my stuff donated or thrown out, was enough for me to get my ass in gear. LMAO! My mother kept a clean house and it wore off on me. I honestly didn't like having a messy room. Even as a young adult when I moved out on my own, I kept my apartment clean. Now that I'm in my mid 30's, I'm not as much as a clean freak as I used to be. I've struggled with Fibromyalgia and chronic pain for the last 20 years. As I get older, it makes cleaning harder and harder to do. But I still do what I can on my good days. So when you say get them used to being organized and clean when they are young and this won't happen lol I'm proof of that! My little sister followed suit as well. It does work. :)
Cj Johnson Absolutely agree! My 2 oldest boys were sooo helpful as young kids. Now that they're 11 & 14, they like to think they don't have to listen. Thankfully my 11yo likes to have a clean room, but my 14yo is a mess! And he used to be so meticulous about his room. All his books arranged on the shelf by height, toys in the toy box, laundry in the basket, etc. Now everything is everywhere. Ugh. Hoping he outgrows this phase of lazy before he gets out on his own.
I've bagged up my kids things but I've never charged money for them to get their stuff back. Just let them know if they don't want me to get rid of them then keep their room clean.
I did something similar, I did leave their clothes though. I removed her TV, all her toys. All she had was her bed, dresser and desk. I told her if she didn't keep her clothes picked up, her stuff would be gone that much longer. She even had the drawers out of the dresser. She didn't know what was clean or dirty!!
My mom had a rule where if we did not pick up our toys or anything she would put it in a bag and while we were in school she donated them and we were not able to get more toys.
Look how many bags there are. That's hundreds of dollars. There's no way she was giving them like 10 dollars for unloading the dishwater. It could easily take months to get their stuff back. She was keeping them from being able to do schoolwork and extracurriculars. And no, band and soccer aren't "privileges" that can be taken away for minor things. She's harming her kid's teams for something minor. If my parents too away my band music, I'm screwed. You don't have cleats for soccer? You're screwed. If you're going to sign your kids up for activities then you are making the commitment to make sure your kids are prepared for it. If they had done drugs or were failing several classes, then fine, pull them out of extracurriculars. But not for little things like this that actually won't impact their futures at all. And if they're busy kids, they don't have time to keep their room pristine. It doesn't really effect her if their rooms are dirty as long at they're not actually being slobs and leaving food/drinks in their room.
Drew G. Agreed, if she would lower the price I'd be fine but it's still jeopardizing grades and extracurriculars. My grandmother did this to me a day before the most important assessment of my semester, so I had no way to study and I didn't have a notebook that is required for taking the test, so I ended up failing my English class first semester.
this is what i do, i was told it was mean and going to far, i think if they care about their belongings and their room and lifestyle they would clean it up. but they dont. most days i let them live in their mess and i see them getting tired if and they bring their toys out into the other rooms that are clean and make a mess there as well because they cant stand being in their own room. so ive made it to where they can not play in any other room but their own if they dont like it than clean it. if they dont i threaten to bag it all up and keep it for myself or throw it away. it works but not for long, the next day it will be thrashed again and ill have to fight them on cleaning it up i will not do it anymore so either they do it or i toss it
TULIPS & LILIES its a good way to instill discipline and responsibility. Growing up in an African home, there wasn't negotiation. My mom didn't even have to speak. Just the "death" look was enough sometimes 😂😂😂😂 . Other times, the threat with a slipper in her hand worked magic ( even when she never intends to actually woop you bottom).
yes lol i am that kind of mom! i wish i had a mom that disciplined me that way i would have been less of a little brat. i dont want my kids to be like me as a kid even though i feel i did super well considering my up bringing. the slipper is more than just a slipper lol it has multi purposes ;)
Independent Sunset Why would you get scared of some piece of clothing? If you have to, just defend yourself. Also, don’t get scared by a look. If you try deepening your voice, it might help.
soccer and band and stuff like that are are extras yes but you can get penalized for not having things and these activities help with scholarships. She should have organized the bags, or left essentials for school and activities crucial to college apps. And there was at least 15 bags , the 25$ a bag thing is extremely cruel and with the stuff they needed in there being lost and scattered it could be months, and it could damage grades& reputation. They couldve chosen what they earned back & not for money!!! Do behaviors and chores. It would be a Month of chores before they got one bag back.absolutely unfair & could seriously hurt their future. Take stuff away like extra or treats until room is clean jeez ladu
Oakley SpiceyWeiner oh me my anxiety and severe ptsd from my mom taking my computer like i couldnt go on tumblr for a week and it gave me even more anxiety because theyre the only ones who understand me and my pansexuality mom how could you parents suck
My mom did this but put everything in the basement and although I knew my stuff was in there, she said I couldn't open the bag. Personally, I disagree with this method because it caused me much harm...particularly,because she put my stuffed animal friends(I was pretty much a mute for years) down in a dark place. Psychologically, I think this affected me. So no, I dont think this is right.
Al Al yeah, she should have taught them how to clean properly and to make time for cleaning, from their early childhood. This sort of publicity stunt just shows you care more about Likes than your kids.
This is awesome! I totally sorted my brother out when my Mum was laid up with shingles for two weeks! There's four years between my me & my brother & six years between me & my sister. I was in my early twenties at the time. While my Mum was ill, she couldn't move without being in agony! So I was pretty much running the house for the two weeks. My brother was used to my Mum getting fed up of waiting for him to do a chore & giving in & doing it herself. Not with me! I'd given my brother & sister one chore each for the day. My brother was to wash the breakfast & lunch dishes (there wasn't much from them) & my sister was to wash the dinner dishes (the same amount as the breakfast & lunch dishes combined). I kept reminding my brother during the day that he needed to wash the dishes & each time I just got "yeah in a bit". It got to 4pm & nearly time to prepare dinner. So I told him, if he didn't do them before dinner, he would have to do the dishes from all three meals. He was like "yeah, in a bit". He still didn't do them. So he ended up with the dishes from all three meals! My sister bless her asked if I wanted her to just do them & I was not gonna let her take his chores & consequences. So I asked her to dry the dishes so he had room on the draining board to do them all. She did, bless her heart. And I kid you not, for the rest of the two weeks of my Mum being laid up, he never put his chore off again! I just wish my Mum had carried it on afterwards!
My parents did this to my sister and I when we were kids. We refused to clean up within the hour we were given so my mom put all our things that were on the floor into plastic bags and hid them in the closet. We were able to get back one toy each everyday.
My mom did this once but it wasn't $25 per bag. However, after this punishment she never had problems with my cleaning up my room again. It was very effective.
As a 14 year old girl in her freshman year of high school, it is very frustrating seeing people clapping for this woman's act and laughing at the people who believed it was wrong my parents have done this multiple times when i would have barley any mess at all. I can say for myself at least it is physiologically damaging me it shows no respect for our stuff and yes i get it, "it's the parents house and it's under there roof so everything belongs to them in technical terms" but if you would really like your kids to learn this isn't the way. Letting them get fed up with themselves is effective because it makes them realize it's a problem when they start having issues with it. When they are fine in their room THEIR LIVING ENVIRONMENT that the other people in the house don't have any need going into, then let them be fine until they feel need for a lifestyle change because i can say first hand when the parents have the problem and deal with it in this way it makes the parents look like the neurotic unsatisfied neat greek which ultimately leads to other bad actions worse then leaving a damn tissue or sock on your floor. I will not tell one parent how to parent but i hope this gives you insight on how your kid may be feeling as well as me when their punishment is this.
Sam Hyde Well maybe she should of done something else. But it’s also not that hard to clean your room and it’s not that hard to keep it clean. It’s not hard to listen and respect your mom. Trust me when you become a mom (if you become one) your answer MIGHT be different. My sister thought the same thing you did when she was a teenager. But then her answer changed when she became a mom.
I would have just raised hell in the house until I got my stuff back. I'd keep everyone up all night and anything my parents left out would be put in bags and they can buy their shit back to.
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their inability to follow their mothers rules and clean their room the first time asked is what would have caused them to fail. Their own actions did that. I bet next time they will do as they are told.
If my mom did that I wouldn't of done anything and forced her to bear the social consequences of me wearing the clothes on my back tell she got a call from my teacher expressing her concern over my lack of clean clothes and my lack of school work and my laptop and everything no way in hell i would let her do shit like that
Too many parents are quick to scream the abuse card when ever they see something done that isn't the norm. It's stupid. Imagen if that did happen what THAT would do to them and the kids. Likely a lot worse than just having their items bagged.
Ashley Smith apparently the kids cleaning their rooms was too much for them. People sometimes really need to shut up and stop claiming everything is abusive.
I just see this now. I have done that to my daughter the first time was 1996 I did that 10 more times before she went on her own. This is not child abuse. Glad she said it's not abuse.
"When you live with people, you need to help out" Amen to that!!! And her children are old enough to help out. She is preparing them for adulthood and parenthood.
Our mom bagged our clothes that were out of place up too. She told us that for every article clothing we washed, dried, folded/put on a hanger, and put away properly, we would get 1 item back of her choosing. We never neglected to put our clean clothes away properly again.
I agree with this mother. I had one sibling of whom our big brother threatened to bag it all as trash,so she cleaned up. I warned my son,but it was constant and not as bad. He was told I payed the bills so all of the rooms were mine,so for him to remain having a room he had to clean it up. He did,but it hurt me to remind him. He finally got it together and is now an organized adult. My girls didn't give me that grief,they loved our cleaning song, "Everything in its place and a place for everything",then getting to go out.
cruel? neglect? bad parenting? these would come from the same ppl who would see and let REAL child abuse and neglect happen.. And from the same ppl who let their children run over them. Be a parent and not a friend.
In my opinion this is dumb af so I get it if she’s takeing like takeing there electronics and any toys they might own etc but she took all there stuff for school which will most likely bring there grades down so in my opinion it’s not a terrible thing to do but you can obviously tell she has no common sense
My parents could care less about my room, as long as I have good grades and help out. Plus I'll be 18 soon so they're already giving me some freedom and letting me make my own decisions (since I'm not stupid and they trust me lol)
Just saying if they need clothes or things like instruments or cleats and they need those They are going to get in Troy me at school. If you show up without your things you need your going to get kicked off and then hey mom you got mad I couldn't aford this so I got kicked off my team
When I was little if our Dad (I have 3 younger brothers) told us to clean up our stuff, if it wasn't clean by the weekend he'd pile up all of our stuff (everything but clothes) so toys, art supplies, etc. We had five maybe ten minutes to pickup and find a place for what we wanted to keep. What we weren't able to get to in time would be put into trash bags and either thrown out or donated. The dumb thing is that it took this happening maybe three times before we fully learned to clean up when we are told to.
Why don't the parents help the kids? Is it too much asked or is their relationship really that bad? Are the parents too tired to spend some time with their kids?
My dad did that when I was little but he made me think he threw them away. He put all my toys in the garage and left my room with just my desk, bed, and dresser. A year went by and I eventually got the picture and I got my stuff back. I don't agree with pay for the bags back and I don't agree with posting your punishment online to amuse your friends. Especially since the kids were older.
You know I don't think that is cruel at all it is a neat idea because in the real world you have to work for what you have also I know I would feel quite accomplished once I bought a bag back and be excited to do it also
It’s no that mad. My mum packed my shit up for a whole summer once and put it in the attic. All I had was a bed. When I got it back there’d been a wasps nest up there...loads of dead wasps all over my stuff.
bek nuth no it doesn’t. If a laptop charger is keeping them for doing their school work than they are too lazy get a library card. Libraries have computers, internet and books. They could also stay after school and use the computer at the school.
Yeah there's nothing cruel about this. I think the coddling and avoidance of discipline that's happening with our youth today is the cruelest thing we could do, because it's setting our kids up for a rude awakening in the real world, and not preparing them for real life.
Tori Cervini the issue with this discipline is that I feel like it actually has the opposite effect. I understand the intent, but it isn't effective. Again every child is different and we can't all assume that a single disciplining method would work for every child.
I have done this for years!! Exept mine are not highschool age they are 9 and they don't have money so they earn a piece at a time back with chores and how stupid that someone thought this was bad this was Genius lol we parents need all the help we can get in a non-cruel way!!!
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My mom always threw shit away... there was no buying it back 💀 lmao.
sameeee
Kayla Cherri same when I was and shared a room younger she would come up and help us clean but would throw stuff away lol
Lol my mom had a rule that if we left our stuff on the floor too long it must be trash and she'd throw it away, we did it a few times and then figured it out haha. It made me mad as hell at the time but I was warned so
Emy Anderson my mom as well.
my mom did the same
Lol. Finally somebody with the same name as me
Lol what a dumb bitch. Throwing away money her or and her husband earned.
Emy Anderson SAME!! My parents did that and they did throw it out. I used to get so scared of losing toys that my floor would be clean.
My mom threw out stuff away, now that was cruel
except for the fact that she pretty much legally owns all of your stuff, maybe you just should have kept your room clean
Rosemary Crafting no she didn't. I worked and took care of myself and her. Paid rent too. She came into my space on another floor (2 family my sister and I lived upstairs) and violated my property. Mine and my sisters. BTW that was over a decade ago dear.
Rosemary Crafting it's illegal to throw someone's things off the property let along, throwing it away. She could've been sued if I wanted to do so.
im assuming you are a minor?
Rosemary Crafting at the time I was. I still worked and took care of myself. Nobody should have their things thrown out, especially your kids. That's all they have. Yeah they should help out is why I said what the lady did wasn't cruel. What my mom did was.
25$ a bag? Heck, I'd just buy new stuff!
PandaPants she did say it had to be money they earned from doing chores so I’d think they got at least $5 a day or more if they did all their chores.
PandaPants I don’t even have a dollar I’m poor af
Bella Chloe I barely have a penny lmao...
When I was younger I got in trouble for throwing up on the floor(age11/I have acid reflex) My Step-Mother made me bag up all my clothes and keep them in the garage. Her reason being, that I was playing sick for attention. I couldn't understand why I was getting yelled at for being sick! I could only earn back a piece of clothing for every chore I did. It was absolutely terrible. Thank God, she is outta my life.
Taehyung's Confidence my dad that same thing to me!!!!!!
Ill take shit that never happened for 500
Sam Hyde you're lucky you have never encountered that horrible people, then.
when I was 17 my dad took off my door when I didn't do my chores, definitely was the worst punishment I ever had lol
My door got taken off when i would slam it. Jokes on them. I just went and slammed another door and hung a cover over my door held up with push pins. They put my door back on and never took it again.
Hey Lucas fucking hate when my dad does that.
Yeah I was changing once, and he said I look like a trashy hooker because I was putting my bra on???? My dad is psychotic, confirmed by a doctor. Aye aye aye I need help
My door got taken off because I didn't clean my room too
Hey me too!
Buying the bags back is a little far, but putting everything into a bag isn't bad. My parents use to do this all the time, threatening to throw everything away
keekermojo yeah like a dollar would have been reasonable but 25 per bag is ridiculous
my parents would tell me to clean or it gets thrown away. when I was 5 and saw my Barbie get tossed in the trash I became a neat freak every sense. y'all know damn well no more shit got thrown away after that lol XD
It's a good thing that I'm just naturally a neat freak....most of the time
Lmfao wow rip barbie
FoxinKarmilla rip barbie XD
Lakeisha Gray oh hell nah! Not Barbie! I wouldn't be fucking off after that either! Barbie was my shit!
Lakeisha Gray Hahaha! I thought I was the only one who didn't have a huge problem cleaning my room when I was a kid lol. Of course there was times, where it got a little unorganized. Just the threat alone of having my stuff donated or thrown out, was enough for me to get my ass in gear. LMAO! My mother kept a clean house and it wore off on me. I honestly didn't like having a messy room. Even as a young adult when I moved out on my own, I kept my apartment clean. Now that I'm in my mid 30's, I'm not as much as a clean freak as I used to be. I've struggled with Fibromyalgia and chronic pain for the last 20 years. As I get older, it makes cleaning harder and harder to do. But I still do what I can on my good days. So as someone commented below, Get them used to being organized and clean when they are young and this won't happen lol I'm proof of that! My little sister followed suit as well. It does work. :)
My question is why do parents (especially mothers) always feel the need to post about their children's punishments online? Why do you need a bunch of strangers and or friends telling you that you're a good parent and that your kids deserve it? Why is making your kids out to be rotten a cool thing?
What goes on in my house doesn't leave the house unless someone is at danger. What do you get out if humiliating or belittling your children? You're not getting a gold medal, honey.
My mom did this to me all of the time and I did it to my daughter and it didn't work she didn't care
Loni Ponce Then keep doing it until she cares. If her phone 'happens' to be left on her nightstand or floor, put it in a bag.
DisbandedMean54 b we already take her phone away she doesn't have a problem w keeping her room clean anymore
LazyWinter sick fuck
Loncey86 you neglect your child I don't know how you sleep at night
Sacc Bleu you don't have kids do you? That is not neglect. It's called discipline.
The thing is if they did this, then the children should be allowed to do the same to the parents. Parents have things laying around all the time too
joesr31 Parents raise the kids and make the rules though?? Children can't do jack shit to their parents they don't pay the rent or buy them food
I help my mother out with paying bills and i have a job, i sometimes buy mt mother food, and yet she doesnt respect my belongings, take the things i pay for, and yet i cant do the same to her because shes my "mother"
just because she birthed me i guess i always need to submit to her???????? i didn't ask to be born.
That's 1 over infinity but for some reason that 1 beats all. Like that makes sense...
Hope Cant Focus None of us asked to be born. But your mum spent at least a bit of money on you, and raised you correctly. Just suck it up.
Wait 25 dollars a bag? In my house you did the stuff you needed to do for FREE. So how much does this kid make for chores?! I have found in the 8 years being a nanny that when kids are being PAID to do things around the house - they don't do them as often then when they are taught from a young age it's something you just DO. They only do it if they need money for something and have only one way of getting it, they do the chores for the amount they want then don't do any until more is needed.
you got it backwards the kids had to pay the mom $25 dollars a bag to get their stuff back
Yeah but they get the money to pay mom from doing chores, no?
Isabela Sanchez As sh3ikh4 said, the money comes from the chores they are being paid to do. So yeah they pay the mom $25 but they get that money from the mother to begin with...
BasqueOblivion, perhaps it was extra chores like washing the cars, mowing the lawn, weeding the lawn, painting part of the house or deep cleaning something. I agree with you about chores being something you do because you are part of the family. I am sure that the teens worked for what they needed and not likely any more afterwards. I am laughing at the $25 a bag though! Hahaha...
She did it to her kids...I think the kids should do it back in return.
It's important to be able to differentiate between laziness and depression.
I'm surprised she didn't get a visit by Child Protective Services. Also, why did she think it was so great that she posted it on Facebook anyways? If the worse thing her kid did was being messy then lucky her. I could understand if family was coming over or they were trying to sell their home, but really just let the room be and close the door if it bothers you so much.
I can't see why it's bad to teach children that actions have consequenses. They refuse to clean up and help out, why should they have all that free stuff that they didn't work for? Nobody is just going to hand them stuff they want when they grow up
something like this would extremely fuck with my anxiety and make me trust my parents even less than I already do
I don't think this is cruel. Do as you're told, be clean. NOT that hard. My mom told me she would throw my stuff away and it worked.
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Haha Same my dad threw away 300$ worth of Make up and not including hair extensions and clothes i was crying but I learned my lesson
Sammie Sapphire Yea shes a good mom, my would have done the same
Sammie Sapphire I'm 15 and I don't get why I see kids doing chores that's what my mom dad and maid are for people just need to Learn that is what a fucking maid is for I'm not cleaning that is nasty your parents and maid should clean not kids
Tbh tho you can get your kid in trouble if there is school work in there.
wait wtf I know your problem with the room thing why don't you make them 1 hour is 1 bag back not a 25 bucks
Keep Digging well that's where the chores came in, I dont know how much per chore, but after they did chores they made money and that money went towards buying back their stuff
Literally I was moving from city to city and my dad said you can only take 1 bag of clothes and 1 bag of stuff. I left ALL my flipping stuff at my old house and never saw it again. I deeply hate this punishment
My mom did this when I didn't want to clean up my toys but she didn't let me get it back she just donated all of my toys 😂😂😂
Better than throwing them away. Like wtf. THROWING THEM AWAY? Donate the shit! Kids need them!
So she basically stole them from you & gave them to someone else.
Nabranes TwistyPuzzler stole them? Are you stupid? Parents buy the toys. Therefore they can take them back. My god, so many entitled morons in the comment section.
Calliope May if the parents GIVE the toys to their kids, they don't own them anymore. But if they are just lending them the toys (and tell the kids as much), it works out. Babies for instance don't really own their toys, the parents just provide them the toys temporarily for the sake of the child's motoric development and more. Kids that are as old as teenagers usually definitely own some things of their own, but they need to have been taught already in kindergarten that ownership comes with responsibilities. A lot of parents fuck themselves over by trying to teach them responsible ownership much too late. It's a gradual thing they need to start learning at a very young age, including that the parents respect their responsible ownership but if you treat your things like trash in the common areas then others will treat them like trash too. There are however few brain conditions that will make it abnormal hard for a child to focus on what needs to be done, e.g. ADHD. But that means they need more responsibilities and help, not less. Kids with special circumstances need to be taught efficient coping mechanisms for their condition.
“You end up going in and cleaning it for them” no, you raise your child to listen to what you tell them. Also couldn’t they just open the bags and pour it all back onto the floor? Seems like she tried too hard
Everyone saying their mum threatened or did throw their stuff away if they didn't clean it up that is very different to this my mum did that too and it mostly non harmful but 25$ a bag?? That's such an asshole move that's so much of their money for all the stuff they already have more than 100$ you are practically forcing them to pay it aswell
Then they should pick up their stuff. Problem solved.
ELAINE ok, but they have really important things in there. Band music CANNOT be replaced, the directors often don't make extra copies. And cleats are expensive. It isn't acceptable to let down an entire team (or band) because of a little thing like that.
Morgan Keller Well if they needed this stuff so bad, why was it on the ground in the first place?
Hannah 3 because they were USING it and just didn’t put it away, obviously. They wouldn’t take it out if they weren’t using it.
They could’ve just cleaned their rooms.
$25 a bag is the extreme part.
How long would it take them to get it back?
If I punished my child, I'd take them to see the emoji movie.
FunnyDancingCupcake :3 that’s not a punishment lol it was a good movie
Lil Crazy lol what
Drove me nuts that if my brother washed his own dinner plate (not everyone else's) he would get money for "chores" yet i had to vacuum every room in the house, make my bed, my parents bed, my brothers bed, clean the bathrooms, wash the walls and windowsills, dust every little thing, poop scoop the yard, water the plants, fold laundry, etc.. on a daily basis!!! (who needs to do spring cleaning every single day!?) and i never once received a penny for chores. It was just expected. I never really bought into the whole "world is sexist" bit, but i can't think of any other reason as to why my brothers didn't have to clean and i did. Either i had to clean because i am female, or maybe they just hated me. I didn't get money until i was old enough to legally work (which was after leaving home) It still boggles my mind when kids have money. How does a child come to have money?
NymphetaminexXxGrrrl From birthdays and Christmas. Sometimes pocket money.
This is why I lock my room lol
infinity 2 guess what kid your parent's can and will remove your door if need be its not your room till you pay rent.
Shellby Barajas my dad and step mum don’t invade my privacy like that. And it is my room because when my mum passed away she left her house for me and my brothers.
Shellby Barajas
Welp somebody thought wrong.
My parents took my door off when I did that
Lil Crazy Then just bother them by showing your private parts to them when you change.
It's not abuse to discipline an children to teach them how to be responsible and respectful.Its tough love without being violent and crude.
It'll only be child abuse if they didn't give them any food or drinks
I don't believe in tough love
so 25$ a bag and from counting and guessing i would conclude that there is 16 bags 16 x 25 = 400$ like i never in my life had 400 dollars if i did i would not spend it on those bags i would buy new clothes and shoes etc but i think this is a bit cruel she could lower the bag price to 5$ so that would be 80$ much more reasonable and also with the bags like make the kid cut the bags open then say you dont leave this room till you put every thing in the bags back to where it is suppose to be.
Abstraxxt but its the mom paying them, its her that worked for and provides for them
she isn't the only mom who thought if this.
I can as a teenager tell you that all of us are VERY sensitive no matter how much we pretend we dont care. And an attack like this would make anyone anxious not teach anything. I would just build distance between me and my mother and lose respect and trust
There is absolutely nothing wrong with teaching your kids discipline and rules.
Hannah Renee of course, believe me i know cause my parents are really strict but i don't always have time for certain things cause i have to learn for tests and stuff for school so yeah .....
Hannah Renee and how old are you? 7? only kids say "boo hoo" 😂😂😂
Istvan Elekes If you still live with your parents, I am much older than you kid. Grow up and do what your parents say. They`re not there to be your friend.
Ozan Ozildiz ur right bro 👍
Lmao. Geeze. This generation is so disrespectful to their parents. It's quite sad what kind of bull shit parents have to go through with their ignorant children.
Get them used to being organized and clean since they are toddlers and this won't happen lol
Not true. Kids will almost always test their limits & this is just one way that some choose to test them.
Yenelly So true! I really didn't have a problem cleaning my room when I was a kid lol. Of course there was times, where it got a little unorganized. Just the threat alone of having my stuff donated or thrown out, was enough for me to get my ass in gear. LMAO! My mother kept a clean house and it wore off on me. I honestly didn't like having a messy room. Even as a young adult when I moved out on my own, I kept my apartment clean. Now that I'm in my mid 30's, I'm not as much as a clean freak as I used to be. I've struggled with Fibromyalgia and chronic pain for the last 20 years. As I get older, it makes cleaning harder and harder to do. But I still do what I can on my good days. So when you say get them used to being organized and clean when they are young and this won't happen lol I'm proof of that! My little sister followed suit as well. It does work. :)
I was a little shit as a kid, now I just like to help
Cj Johnson Absolutely agree! My 2 oldest boys were sooo helpful as young kids. Now that they're 11 & 14, they like to think they don't have to listen. Thankfully my 11yo likes to have a clean room, but my 14yo is a mess! And he used to be so meticulous about his room. All his books arranged on the shelf by height, toys in the toy box, laundry in the basket, etc. Now everything is everywhere. Ugh. Hoping he outgrows this phase of lazy before he gets out on his own.
Not cruel, if she just chucked it all, that'd be cruel.
Chise Hatori Yeah, but she basically stole $300 from them.
Nabranes TwistyPuzzler its her money wtf can you listen?
I've bagged up my kids things but I've never charged money for them to get their stuff back. Just let them know if they don't want me to get rid of them then keep their room clean.
This makes me wanna cry. If my mom did this to me I'd have no hope getting my stuff back
Poor punishment
They stuck together to FIGHT their mother. Definitely not the mom of the year
Having them pay for their stuff was stupid
This lady’s outrageous! Buying the stuff back is too strict! I feel so bad for the children!
I did something similar, I did leave their clothes though. I removed her TV, all her toys. All she had was her bed, dresser and desk. I told her if she didn't keep her clothes picked up, her stuff would be gone that much longer. She even had the drawers out of the dresser. She didn't know what was clean or dirty!!
My mom had a rule where if we did not pick up our toys or anything she would put it in a bag and while we were in school she donated them and we were not able to get more toys.
Look how many bags there are. That's hundreds of dollars. There's no way she was giving them like 10 dollars for unloading the dishwater. It could easily take months to get their stuff back. She was keeping them from being able to do schoolwork and extracurriculars. And no, band and soccer aren't "privileges" that can be taken away for minor things. She's harming her kid's teams for something minor. If my parents too away my band music, I'm screwed. You don't have cleats for soccer? You're screwed. If you're going to sign your kids up for activities then you are making the commitment to make sure your kids are prepared for it. If they had done drugs or were failing several classes, then fine, pull them out of extracurriculars. But not for little things like this that actually won't impact their futures at all. And if they're busy kids, they don't have time to keep their room pristine. It doesn't really effect her if their rooms are dirty as long at they're not actually being slobs and leaving food/drinks in their room.
Drew G. Agreed, if she would lower the price I'd be fine but it's still jeopardizing grades and extracurriculars. My grandmother did this to me a day before the most important assessment of my semester, so I had no way to study and I didn't have a notebook that is required for taking the test, so I ended up failing my English class first semester.
well if they cleaned their rooms the first couple of times that she asked they wouldn't have had to buy back their things .
I was thinking the EXACT same thing
Matt Deleon that's awful! :/
Matt Deleon they should clean their room when their mother asked them for the first time
Wow.......this is just.......wow...smh
this is what i do, i was told it was mean and going to far, i think if they care about their belongings and their room and lifestyle they would clean it up. but they dont. most days i let them live in their mess and i see them getting tired if and they bring their toys out into the other rooms that are clean and make a mess there as well because they cant stand being in their own room. so ive made it to where they can not play in any other room but their own if they dont like it than clean it. if they dont i threaten to bag it all up and keep it for myself or throw it away. it works but not for long, the next day it will be thrashed again and ill have to fight them on cleaning it up i will not do it anymore so either they do it or i toss it
TULIPS & LILIES its a good way to instill discipline and responsibility. Growing up in an African home, there wasn't negotiation. My mom didn't even have to speak. Just the "death" look was enough sometimes 😂😂😂😂 . Other times, the threat with a slipper in her hand worked magic ( even when she never intends to actually woop you bottom).
yes lol i am that kind of mom! i wish i had a mom that disciplined me that way i would have been less of a little brat. i dont want my kids to be like me as a kid even though i feel i did super well considering my up bringing. the slipper is more than just a slipper lol it has multi purposes ;)
Independent Sunset lol
Who throws out plastic, and especially ELECTRICTRONICS!!! THAT’S E-WASTE!!!!!
Independent Sunset Why would you get scared of some piece of clothing? If you have to, just defend yourself. Also, don’t get scared by a look. If you try deepening your voice, it might help.
okay , paying for a bag is too extreme
soccer and band and stuff like that are are extras yes but you can get penalized for not having things and these activities help with scholarships. She should have organized the bags, or left essentials for school and activities crucial to college apps. And there was at least 15 bags , the 25$ a bag thing is extremely cruel and with the stuff they needed in there being lost and scattered it could be months, and it could damage grades& reputation. They couldve chosen what they earned back & not for money!!! Do behaviors and chores. It would be a Month of chores before they got one bag back.absolutely unfair & could seriously hurt their future. Take stuff away like extra or treats until room is clean jeez ladu
Kirsten Kendrick Well maybe they shouldn’t leave that stuff on the ground.
Or maybe they should have clean their room
My mom always threatened to do this to me but never followed through.
This is what gives your kids anxiety
Oakley SpiceyWeiner lmao no
autumn passmore cool?
autumn passmore hell yea it dose
Oakley SpiceyWeiner oh me my anxiety and severe ptsd from my mom taking my computer like i couldnt go on tumblr for a week and it gave me even more anxiety because theyre the only ones who understand me and my pansexuality mom how could you parents suck
Sam Hyde ...that's not....I hope you never have children.
My mom did this but put everything in the basement and although I knew my stuff was in there, she said I couldn't open the bag. Personally, I disagree with this method because it caused me much harm...particularly,because she put my stuffed animal friends(I was pretty much a mute for years) down in a dark place. Psychologically, I think this affected me. So no, I dont think this is right.
Al Al yeah, she should have taught them how to clean properly and to make time for cleaning, from their early childhood. This sort of publicity stunt just shows you care more about Likes than your kids.
Can't say I agree with this
This is awesome! I totally sorted my brother out when my Mum was laid up with shingles for two weeks! There's four years between my me & my brother & six years between me & my sister. I was in my early twenties at the time. While my Mum was ill, she couldn't move without being in agony! So I was pretty much running the house for the two weeks. My brother was used to my Mum getting fed up of waiting for him to do a chore & giving in & doing it herself. Not with me! I'd given my brother & sister one chore each for the day. My brother was to wash the breakfast & lunch dishes (there wasn't much from them) & my sister was to wash the dinner dishes (the same amount as the breakfast & lunch dishes combined). I kept reminding my brother during the day that he needed to wash the dishes & each time I just got "yeah in a bit". It got to 4pm & nearly time to prepare dinner. So I told him, if he didn't do them before dinner, he would have to do the dishes from all three meals. He was like "yeah, in a bit". He still didn't do them. So he ended up with the dishes from all three meals! My sister bless her asked if I wanted her to just do them & I was not gonna let her take his chores & consequences. So I asked her to dry the dishes so he had room on the draining board to do them all. She did, bless her heart. And I kid you not, for the rest of the two weeks of my Mum being laid up, he never put his chore off again! I just wish my Mum had carried it on afterwards!
My mom used to come in my room and threw all my shit into the hallway and then make me clean it up.
My mum did this worked really well, I mean I was pissed at the time, but now now I really greatful. I have had a clean room for the last three years.
My dad had a rule that if something was on the ground it went in the trash
My parents did this to my sister and I when we were kids. We refused to clean up within the hour we were given so my mom put all our things that were on the floor into plastic bags and hid them in the closet. We were able to get back one toy each everyday.
This is brilliant!!!
My mom never made me clean my room, yet now I’m older and my room is the cleanest and most organized room in the house.
Hey, I LOOOOOOOVE this mum. Can I borrow her?
I use to do this with my kids. Told them once.
If I picked it up, it was being donated or trashed.
No second warnings.
I feel like my son would not even notice half his stuff was missing but wait till he gets older!
My mom did this once but it wasn't $25 per bag. However, after this punishment she never had problems with my cleaning up my room again. It was very effective.
As a 14 year old girl in her freshman year of high school, it is very frustrating seeing people clapping for this woman's act and laughing at the people who believed it was wrong my parents have done this multiple times when i would have barley any mess at all. I can say for myself at least it is physiologically damaging me it shows no respect for our stuff and yes i get it, "it's the parents house and it's under there roof so everything belongs to them in technical terms" but if you would really like your kids to learn this isn't the way. Letting them get fed up with themselves is effective because it makes them realize it's a problem when they start having issues with it. When they are fine in their room THEIR LIVING ENVIRONMENT that the other people in the house don't have any need going into, then let them be fine until they feel need for a lifestyle change because i can say first hand when the parents have the problem and deal with it in this way it makes the parents look like the neurotic unsatisfied neat greek which ultimately leads to other bad actions worse then leaving a damn tissue or sock on your floor. I will not tell one parent how to parent but i hope this gives you insight on how your kid may be feeling as well as me when their punishment is this.
Parents suck and r lane
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True.
Sam Hyde Well maybe she should of done something else. But it’s also not that hard to clean your room and it’s not that hard to keep it clean. It’s not hard to listen and respect your mom. Trust me when you become a mom (if you become one) your answer MIGHT be different. My sister thought the same thing you did when she was a teenager. But then her answer changed when she became a mom.
Also your story is different from hers. Her son had a messy room and you didn’t, there is a difference.
Sam Hyde I really hope you’re kidding about what you said about parents.
I would have just raised hell in the house until I got my stuff back. I'd keep everyone up all night and anything my parents left out would be put in bags and they can buy their shit back to.
Video synopsis: My children don't respect me because I assumingely treat them as less thans, so I wasted plastic, money, and time to make them hate me even more
And what would you have done to remedy the situation? Let them just never take responsibility for picking up after themselves?
And possibly bagged up home work and school supplies and caused them to fail high school
their inability to follow their mothers rules and clean their room the first time asked is what would have caused them to fail. Their own actions did that. I bet next time they will do as they are told.
Maybe just don't clean up after them. Easy unless you're a control freak.
If you have a trashy room, you WILL fail school. Believe me, my room is neat. ;D Strong correlation.
If my mom did that I wouldn't of done anything and forced her to bear the social consequences of me wearing the clothes on my back tell she got a call from my teacher expressing her concern over my lack of clean clothes and my lack of school work and my laptop and everything no way in hell i would let her do shit like that
Too many parents are quick to scream the abuse card when ever they see something done that isn't the norm. It's stupid. Imagen if that did happen what THAT would do to them and the kids. Likely a lot worse than just having their items bagged.
IronBlockGames parents are abusing their power!
QuidnerPlayz Uh...no. It's called discipline, have you ever heard of it?
Ashley Smith apparently the kids cleaning their rooms was too much for them. People sometimes really need to shut up and stop claiming everything is abusive.
i think its messed up to make the 25 dollars for a bag
My mama did this once. Except I didn't have to pay her
I just see this now. I have done that to my daughter the first time was 1996 I did that 10 more times before she went on her own. This is not child abuse. Glad she said it's not abuse.
That mom is killing it at parenting!!!!!
THAT WAS CRUEL CRUEL CRUEL
"When you live with people, you need to help out" Amen to that!!! And her children are old enough to help out. She is preparing them for adulthood and parenthood.
rebecca60172 Yeah, but it’s their room.
Our mom bagged our clothes that were out of place up too. She told us that for every article clothing we washed, dried, folded/put on a hanger, and put away properly, we would get 1 item back of her choosing. We never neglected to put our clean clothes away properly again.
Time to sell drugs so that your children can buy their stuff back
I agree with this mother. I had one sibling of whom our big brother threatened to bag it all as trash,so she cleaned up. I warned my son,but it was constant and not as bad. He was told I payed the bills so all of the rooms were mine,so for him to remain having a room he had to clean it up. He did,but it hurt me to remind him. He finally got it together and is now an organized adult. My girls didn't give me that grief,they loved our cleaning song, "Everything in its place and a place for everything",then getting to go out.
cruel? neglect? bad parenting? these would come from the same ppl who would see and let REAL child abuse and neglect happen.. And from the same ppl who let their children run over them. Be a parent and not a friend.
I would hate it if she was my mom
In my opinion this is dumb af so I get it if she’s takeing like takeing there electronics and any toys they might own etc but she took all there stuff for school which will most likely bring there grades down so in my opinion it’s not a terrible thing to do but you can obviously tell she has no common sense
$25! How much allowance do they get!? I would have been working for months for 1 bag!
My parents could care less about my room, as long as I have good grades and help out. Plus I'll be 18 soon so they're already giving me some freedom and letting me make my own decisions (since I'm not stupid and they trust me lol)
My mom did that, except she donated all of it to goodwill and I was 9, not a teenager.
Am I the only one sick of kid shaming?
It's not kid shaming. It's good parenting.
This mum is a wonderful parent. The kids will listen next time she tells them to clean their rooms. Simple
Hahaha. "Kid shaming"? That's a first. It's called parenting. It's how you limit the number of self absorbed assholes in the world.
Meg L kid shaming? Please tell me you're joking
You must not be a parent lmao
Way to go mom! I’ve definitely throw away things when my kids need me to “help” them clean.
I would've just taken the bags back. I don't care. I never clean my room anyways
Chelsae Lin Get off the internet and go read a book.
I really want to press charges on every doctor in the us
Just saying if they need clothes or things like instruments or cleats and they need those They are going to get in Troy me at school. If you show up without your things you need your going to get kicked off and then hey mom you got mad I couldn't aford this so I got kicked off my team
Ive done this many years ago. It was great! You go mom!
Not Cruel at all
When I was little if our Dad (I have 3 younger brothers) told us to clean up our stuff, if it wasn't clean by the weekend he'd pile up all of our stuff (everything but clothes) so toys, art supplies, etc. We had five maybe ten minutes to pickup and find a place for what we wanted to keep. What we weren't able to get to in time would be put into trash bags and either thrown out or donated. The dumb thing is that it took this happening maybe three times before we fully learned to clean up when we are told to.
that's harsh.........
Why don't the parents help the kids? Is it too much asked or is their relationship really that bad? Are the parents too tired to spend some time with their kids?
Reeta Tassberg she is helping them. She teaching them how to take care of themselves. Cleaning up their room is part of it.
my mom does this!:-)but not buying it back!
G mail yea
My dad did that when I was little but he made me think he threw them away. He put all my toys in the garage and left my room with just my desk, bed, and dresser. A year went by and I eventually got the picture and I got my stuff back. I don't agree with pay for the bags back and I don't agree with posting your punishment online to amuse your friends. Especially since the kids were older.
You know I don't think that is cruel at all it is a neat idea because in the real world you have to work for what you have also I know I would feel quite accomplished once I bought a bag back and be excited to do it also
It’s no that mad. My mum packed my shit up for a whole summer once and put it in the attic. All I had was a bed. When I got it back there’d been a wasps nest up there...loads of dead wasps all over my stuff.
You can’t steal something from your child if it’s for school.
Nabranes TwistyPuzzler yes I totally agree. Taking the laptop charger stops her child’s learning. That is not being a good parent
bek nuth And the band music.
bek nuth no it doesn’t. If a laptop charger is keeping them for doing their school work than they are too lazy get a library card. Libraries have computers, internet and books. They could also stay after school and use the computer at the school.
Whitney Pyant No. And also how would they do their work at home? And what about band things & sports?
I better clean my room before my mom finds this video
Yeah there's nothing cruel about this. I think the coddling and avoidance of discipline that's happening with our youth today is the cruelest thing we could do, because it's setting our kids up for a rude awakening in the real world, and not preparing them for real life.
Tori Cervini the issue with this discipline is that I feel like it actually has the opposite effect. I understand the intent, but it isn't effective. Again every child is different and we can't all assume that a single disciplining method would work for every child.
Tori Cervini there's discipline and there's abuse. There are far too many parents that don't know the difference.
If someone moves all your stuff into trash bags in the ~real world~ you can sue them.
I have done this for years!! Exept mine are not highschool age they are 9 and they don't have money so they earn a piece at a time back with chores and how stupid that someone thought this was bad this was Genius lol we parents need all the help we can get in a non-cruel way!!!