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  • Опубликовано: 7 сен 2024
  • Do you think couples NEED couple friends to function properly?
    We met up with one of our favourite couples to discuss over one of our favourite Zhichar place to discuss.
    If you enjoyed what you watch we hope you subscribe and leave us a comment!
    Much love,
    John & Pat
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    Our Socials:
    John - / johnathanchua
    Pat - / patrinathy
    Featuring:
    Ryan Tan - / ryanxgo
    Cherylene Chan - / cherylenechan
    Restaurant Details:
    GoodYear Seafood Village Tampines (Zi Char and Bak Kut Teh)
    15 Tampines Avenue
    Singapore 529788
    #johnpatcross

Комментарии • 123

  • @9Joule_
    @9Joule_ 11 месяцев назад +114

    Pat is such a fun ball of energy! Keep it up! She should appear more on TDK series to give her side of the story or perspectives!

  • @joan9178
    @joan9178 11 месяцев назад +57

    fell in love with this couple channel cause it’s so relatable!! couple goals 🥹💖

    • @JOHNPATCROSS
      @JOHNPATCROSS  11 месяцев назад +2

      Awww thank you! 🙏🏼🫶🏻

  • @mercuryjpg
    @mercuryjpg 11 месяцев назад +23

    i'm someone who thinks i won't get married till i die but if i were to ever have a partner, i'd want to have a connection so strong like that! wishing you guys well!

    • @JOHNPATCROSS
      @JOHNPATCROSS  11 месяцев назад +1

      Awwww we are honoured! Wishing you the best too!

  • @rachelwong7434
    @rachelwong7434 11 месяцев назад +13

    y’all are actually so entertaining to watch, can’t believe it took u both so long to start a couples channel, but that just means more experience to share! Love ur house tour video too. Didn’t realize I could look up to couples until now 😂

  • @manyue2003
    @manyue2003 11 месяцев назад +7

    Some ideas for future episodes since you ask for suggestions. I started with 2 but more came after I started typing.
    1. John success story - Relatively young, own media company and million dollar condo. I think it can inspire some people.
    2. Temptations - Since you been together for 15 years, there must be some temptations right? I do not know about Pat but John definitely meet many pretty girls through his work.
    3. Pat perspective about you guys going to Bangkok soapy massage - I heard John share on one episode of TDK and I remembered because not many wives/gf are so open minded and I never hear Pat side of the story so would be interesting.
    4. A lot of talk cock so maybe we can do some good stuff for society/charity like helping less fortunate, visiting an orphanage or old folks home ( I do not see any Singapore podcast doing this).
    I have more ideas so maybe John company should hire me and I am inexpensive :)

  • @LT-yx7fd
    @LT-yx7fd 11 месяцев назад +27

    Great vlog! Such an important topic that’s not talked about enough. Being with other couple friends help clock our own toxic behaviours and yes good to see how lucky we are too sometimes :’)

    • @JOHNPATCROSS
      @JOHNPATCROSS  11 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you! John and I find it very important to have common friends. Let us know what are some other important topics we can talk about k! 🙏🏼

  • @LumpyLoveElla
    @LumpyLoveElla 11 месяцев назад +13

    I also like Pat's energy! Make me wanna watch your channel every time there is a new video.

  • @Jay-ru2cw
    @Jay-ru2cw 11 месяцев назад +12

    Love the genuine responses from both couples. Would love to see more of such videos of what both of you do to strengthen your relationship

  • @RaphJonathanTan
    @RaphJonathanTan 11 месяцев назад +7

    John and Pat arent the only role model / couple goals to Ryan and Cherlyene but also to many more, me included, tho i dont have a gf yet hahaha but i am taking notes man, one day. Maybe for content ideas, like relationship advices, how do you both resolve conflicts, how to deal with differences in personality or living habits, what are some of the biggest fights y'all had, smth like that. and maybe some thoughts on your religious background and how being religious actually helps/contributes your relationship. i think its quite an insightful learning from the both of you so far. keep it up!! #johnpatcross

    • @JOHNPATCROSS
      @JOHNPATCROSS  11 месяцев назад

      Hello! Awww 🥹 Thank you so much for your support and for all the suggested topics! Will definitely cover them in some episodes.
      - Pat

  • @ValarieTay
    @ValarieTay 11 месяцев назад +12

    I look at the way Pat looks at John like ALL the time... with love in her eyes. John why you don't look at Pat the same way ah!!! 🤣

    • @JOHNPATCROSS
      @JOHNPATCROSS  11 месяцев назад +22

      Eh you don’t stir ah 😂. My eyes very small very hard to emote.

    • @ValarieTay
      @ValarieTay 11 месяцев назад

      🤣🤣🤣🤣@@JOHNPATCROSS

  • @chickennutpie
    @chickennutpie 11 месяцев назад +10

    Love how the convo went so deep so fast!

    • @JOHNPATCROSS
      @JOHNPATCROSS  11 месяцев назад +1

      John do be like that. 😄

  • @joan9178
    @joan9178 11 месяцев назад +16

    would love to hear about how you guys keep your relationship exciting even after being together for so long through major life changes like ns/uni/work!!!

    • @JOHNPATCROSS
      @JOHNPATCROSS  11 месяцев назад +3

      Hello! We’ll probably cover them in different episodes. Let us know which one should we talk about first! :)

    • @joan9178
      @joan9178 11 месяцев назад +3

      i’d say either school/work!! because that’s when either partner gets to mix around with the opposite gender and jealousy may tend to arise (but from watching your other videos you guys seem to have a really healthy relationship that trusts the other person a lot!!)

  • @joeyyyiqi
    @joeyyyiqi 11 месяцев назад +10

    Would love to see the both of you taking a personality test tgt and discussing the results! Or perhaps sharing your MBTI etc

  • @misspepper07
    @misspepper07 11 месяцев назад +11

    2:35 John’s Chinese good enough to question if jie jian = stylistic 😂
    8:25 Pat’s instant acting! 红星大奖 🎉

  • @beno94
    @beno94 11 месяцев назад +6

    Can all grow together! Never stop reflecting and learning!

  • @xiaopang254
    @xiaopang254 11 месяцев назад +6

    Learned a lot of different perspectives in this video haha. I think when we are emotional, we stayed in this recursive mind box. You will probably be stuck with that one thing in your mind and nothing else to weigh. I guess when you start to talk to others, you get more opinions and have something to weigh against your thoughts.

    • @JOHNPATCROSS
      @JOHNPATCROSS  11 месяцев назад +2

      I agree! Friends can help to open our minds to other possibilities/solutions that we might not have thought of.
      - Pat

  • @wong339
    @wong339 11 месяцев назад +5

    Love the conclusion by John. Always enjoyed your perspective in TDK as well!

    • @JOHNPATCROSS
      @JOHNPATCROSS  11 месяцев назад

      Awww thank you! ♥️
      - john

  • @predwade
    @predwade 11 месяцев назад +3

    Enjoyed all the videos so far. Love to see more couple dates. It’s fun to watch pat also not that jon is any less entertaining. Keep up the good and fun energy on the channel.

  • @thestaringenclave
    @thestaringenclave 11 месяцев назад +10

    Hmm.. I wonder if it's healthy to put so much of your relationship on social media. But I have to say it has been rather entertaining thus far.

    • @JOHNPATCROSS
      @JOHNPATCROSS  11 месяцев назад +4

      While we did contemplate on starting this channel, we also wanted to share our learnings from our journey. Hopefully it will only reflect positively on our relationship! 🤞🏻
      - Pat

  • @helenpang2970
    @helenpang2970 11 месяцев назад +2

    Subscribing to this channel led me to the older vlogs by John eg NZ campervan road trip 4 year ago which I really like too coz of the beautiful scenery and the funny banter between 2 lovely couple ☺

  • @joeylim261
    @joeylim261 11 месяцев назад +13

    love this kind of vlogs🥰 though chaotic😂

    • @JOHNPATCROSS
      @JOHNPATCROSS  11 месяцев назад +1

      Yayyy! Thank you! 🫶🏻

  • @xiaoves
    @xiaoves 11 месяцев назад +2

    It's so true that couple friend help you to reassess if you are the best self for your spouse!!

  • @ay_c2819
    @ay_c2819 11 месяцев назад +6

    It would be really cool if you position this channel to feature life as a DINK (double income no kids) couple in SG! 🎉There’s not enough representation of having a childfree life in SG and many of us face social pressure to have kids.

    • @JOHNPATCROSS
      @JOHNPATCROSS  11 месяцев назад +1

      We still trying to figure out if its a good choice tbh. Check back in 20 years!

  • @alui5362
    @alui5362 11 месяцев назад +3

    yup, having a support system is so important

  • @beakiara5390
    @beakiara5390 11 месяцев назад +9

    just wanna say y’all are my fav catholic couple that i look up too!! Cant wait to see more content from y’all 🫶🏻

    • @JOHNPATCROSS
      @JOHNPATCROSS  11 месяцев назад +1

      Awww! Pressure sia catholic couple 😂 But thank you!

  • @SilentYumii
    @SilentYumii 11 месяцев назад +4

    Very entertaining and wholesome vlog! Really hope this channel grows! ❤

  • @elaineclaire7063
    @elaineclaire7063 11 месяцев назад +4

    The only time i don't feel like a lightbulb in a relationship - i appreciate this channel, it makes me question if i want a relationship - cause i am still single hahahah.

    • @JOHNPATCROSS
      @JOHNPATCROSS  11 месяцев назад +2

      🥹🥹🥹 no rush in making a decision k. Take your time.
      - Pat

    • @elaineclaire7063
      @elaineclaire7063 11 месяцев назад

      Thanks Pat! you're one strong gurl btw,
      oh ya single but not ready to mingle * 🙊🤣

  • @limjinwei6859
    @limjinwei6859 11 месяцев назад +6

    more content like this. v authenteic and valuable leh!

  • @iamelijahvawgora
    @iamelijahvawgora 11 месяцев назад +3

    U guys are the best couple on RUclips. Can you guys Talk about your Poly life! ❤

    • @JOHNPATCROSS
      @JOHNPATCROSS  11 месяцев назад

      Awww thank you! Yes okay! We’ll slot it in soon k. 🫶🏻

  • @iamthebell
    @iamthebell 11 месяцев назад +5

    I live in the Punggol area too haha. I saw yall at the pasar malam queuing for tutu kueh 🤩🤩

    • @JOHNPATCROSS
      @JOHNPATCROSS  11 месяцев назад

      Hello!! 👋🏻👋🏻👋🏻

  • @hiraganas
    @hiraganas 11 месяцев назад +3

    The ghost stuff from Ep1 was a bit clickbaity/scared me because I didn't know the video going to be quite dark 😂 I think this type of wholesome couple content very nice and heartwarming ❤

    • @JOHNPATCROSS
      @JOHNPATCROSS  11 месяцев назад +1

      Hahahaha! Paiseh if we scared you. We also scared. Hopefully that’s the last of those kind of sharing 🙏🏼

    • @hiraganas
      @hiraganas 11 месяцев назад

      @@JOHNPATCROSS yes! Hope so too! I watched it in my new house at like 3 am while my husband was sleeping then I was frozen on the sofa and had to call him to come and get me 😂 hope your house okay already after the prayers!

  • @shermicide
    @shermicide 9 месяцев назад

    Have spammed a few of your videos recently and really like it! The content is so relevant (have sent to some of my friends who may find the video relevant as well) and I love the energy between John and Pat.
    Ps: @Pat, you are extra pretty whenever you smile! Your dimples are so adorable.
    Regarding the feeling sleepy around your partner point, I AGREE. There were a few times when I was out with my husband, and I was so sleepy that I just had to take a nap there and then. So I have napped at parks, and even at cloud forest before. LOL.
    For future videos, I will be interested to have a video about how you guys bring up difficult conversations/topics with each other :) Thanks!

  • @emailant
    @emailant 11 месяцев назад +2

    Lovely couple..
    Don’t stress your personal love life for the sake of online engagement or whatever. What you have is sacred. (Just saying don’t stress la).
    If I can give one idea for content, just share your outings ideas I guess for other couples in SG. Some people do say Singapore boring.. Nothing to do kind of thing. 🤷‍♂️

  • @markchua4947
    @markchua4947 10 месяцев назад +1

    Great relationship content can be a valuable resource for individuals seeking to enhance their understanding of romantic partnerships, friendships, and family dynamics. It often includes insights on effective communication, empathy, conflict resolution, and maintaining a healthy balance between personal growth and shared experiences. By exploring these topics, people can build stronger, more fulfilling relationships and create a positive impact on their lives and those around them. This is what I’m absorbing from your channel!

  • @honghui90
    @honghui90 11 месяцев назад +5

    would be nice to see more of you 4 double dates vlog!

    • @JOHNPATCROSS
      @JOHNPATCROSS  11 месяцев назад +1

      I’m sure there will be more of this!

  • @MsLilac88
    @MsLilac88 11 месяцев назад +2

    Hello John & Patricia, hope you guys are doing fine, I love watching your videos. 😊 I really feel inspired by you guys. You guys are a match made in heaven. 💜

  • @ImMochiAlyyyyy
    @ImMochiAlyyyyy 11 месяцев назад +2

    when I grow up, I wanna be like Pat 😍 Sucha snacc Huhuhu ❤❤❤❤ agree on your view for having couple friends to keep yourself in check. I also won’t believe in love anymore if *touch wood* you 2 (in the future) are no longer a couple

  • @redwings1974
    @redwings1974 11 месяцев назад +3

    Maybe can discuss on some government initiatives on family bonding. Or how to guide, teach the next generation to be better people.

    • @JOHNPATCROSS
      @JOHNPATCROSS  11 месяцев назад +1

      Waaa I don’t know if we are on this level leh. Hahah! But we try okay. If we do, please watch 😁
      - Pat

  • @v33cation
    @v33cation 11 месяцев назад +2

    Wah, such a reminder that we need couple friends. I always think our partner is our world hahahaha

  • @stevenycs79
    @stevenycs79 11 месяцев назад +2

    Good content. Very real and organic as always. Keep it up u two. #bestcouple 😂

    • @JOHNPATCROSS
      @JOHNPATCROSS  11 месяцев назад

      Thank you so much! Appreciate the encouragement! 🫶🏻

  • @calidearooi2313
    @calidearooi2313 11 месяцев назад +2

    Do more couple videos ! Relatable 😅😊

  • @tilarmeister
    @tilarmeister 11 месяцев назад +3

    Ryan and John are my favourite SG content creators!

  • @hominglee2086
    @hominglee2086 11 месяцев назад +1

    and yall ask each other like really chim questions which like need to think hard before answering then vlog both couple's reaction and answers

  • @FullOFaults
    @FullOFaults 11 месяцев назад

    I don't usually watch these sort of videos, but i really like the contents! Subscribed and hope to see more uploads!

  • @clementgeh8891
    @clementgeh8891 11 месяцев назад +1

    The sleepy part yes .. I agree

  • @arjunsasangan9342
    @arjunsasangan9342 11 месяцев назад +4

    quite insightful thissss but whoa never thought of couple friends in those ways. would you say that they would need to be friends already? cause if not its abit hard to clique sometimes?

    • @JOHNPATCROSS
      @JOHNPATCROSS  11 месяцев назад +1

      Yes I think need to be friends already kind luh. If not the conversation will be a bit awkward and cannot be ourselves when we hang.
      - Pat

  • @jonathanwong327
    @jonathanwong327 9 месяцев назад

    I think one thing you can talk about is how both of you deal with conflict behind closed doors. For example, something John/Pat said in public. Question to Pat or John would you react at that moment or would you deal with it at home or in the car.

  • @joleneyeo3028
    @joleneyeo3028 10 месяцев назад

    Wholesome couple content! I love your videos!!

  • @angrenee-vh8lc
    @angrenee-vh8lc 11 месяцев назад +1

    ♥️the positive vibes 👍 Good Year Zhi char Assam fish head is shiokest 👍

  • @keshewnutz4146
    @keshewnutz4146 11 месяцев назад

    wahh i rly hope yall one day do like daily vlogs or smt 🔥

  • @abcxyz1242
    @abcxyz1242 11 месяцев назад +1

    Very refreshing video. Thks.

  • @Reversedpi
    @Reversedpi 11 месяцев назад

    Good to know they added “real” parking lots!

  • @adluv55
    @adluv55 11 месяцев назад

    Love the dynamic between both you you!❤

  • @myverbalwords
    @myverbalwords 6 месяцев назад +4

    Love the content but annoying to see Ryan

  • @epiphadipity
    @epiphadipity 11 месяцев назад +1

    RYAN NEVER HEAR THE GOLDEN SUN SONG??? Isnt it a popular nursery song last time HAHAHAHAHAH

    • @JOHNPATCROSS
      @JOHNPATCROSS  11 месяцев назад +2

      I also only learnt it from Pat. Our pre-school cheap one.
      - John

  • @RaithAng92
    @RaithAng92 11 месяцев назад +2

    I think bringing other couples that you two are close with to discuss further about potential parenthood or your takes on whether bringing a child into the world today with the global economy + political drama would be a good or bad thing.
    Note; I watched the daily ketchup videos already.

    • @RaithAng92
      @RaithAng92 11 месяцев назад +2

      Also, I love how the convos goes when John is around. Would love to go into a conversation with him.

  • @joshualee8151
    @joshualee8151 11 месяцев назад

    dont think John and Pat needs to work too hard on eachother... they balance eachother out from what i can tell.. and NGL Pat is funny AF

  • @gillianlu
    @gillianlu 11 месяцев назад +1

    I agree with the sleepy thing❤😂

  • @brt525
    @brt525 11 месяцев назад +3

    👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍

  • @MsLilac88
    @MsLilac88 11 месяцев назад

    Hope my husband & I can meet you guys someday. 😊

    • @JOHNPATCROSS
      @JOHNPATCROSS  11 месяцев назад +1

      Awww! We hope we'll bump into each other one day too!

    • @MsLilac88
      @MsLilac88 11 месяцев назад

      @@JOHNPATCROSSHope to bump into you guys someday. 😊

  • @overkillsingapore
    @overkillsingapore 11 месяцев назад +1

    NEXT UP: OUR BOSS' SEX LIFE!!!

    • @JOHNPATCROSS
      @JOHNPATCROSS  11 месяцев назад

      That no need video. Just caption enough.

  • @vivianang3741
    @vivianang3741 10 месяцев назад +1

    Commenting for algo

    • @JOHNPATCROSS
      @JOHNPATCROSS  10 месяцев назад +1

      Replying you for gratitude and more algo!

    • @vivianang3741
      @vivianang3741 10 месяцев назад

      @@JOHNPATCROSS omg so effort!!!! Sending you both external happiness and love!!!!

  • @royboon2128
    @royboon2128 11 месяцев назад +2

    but dont you think couple friend can go wrong as well

    • @JOHNPATCROSS
      @JOHNPATCROSS  10 месяцев назад

      Yeah. We’ve lost some before. But in those times, you also realise the constant that is always in your corner.

  • @animemachinex3
    @animemachinex3 11 месяцев назад

    cherylene is engaged?? :O

    • @JOHNPATCROSS
      @JOHNPATCROSS  11 месяцев назад +1

      Not yet. Her current proposal expectations too high. Ryan very stress. 😂

  • @ivanlimzg
    @ivanlimzg 11 месяцев назад +2

    I can't understand how people can stare at each other while talking. Super weird

    • @JOHNPATCROSS
      @JOHNPATCROSS  11 месяцев назад

      Hahaha! Not like stare luh. But still need to have a bit of eye contact ma.
      - Pat

    • @ivanlimzg
      @ivanlimzg 11 месяцев назад

      @@JOHNPATCROSS i mean, I cannot lah, v stressful leh😅

  • @benwong2061
    @benwong2061 11 месяцев назад +1

    Algooooooooooo

  • @AdenPhua
    @AdenPhua 11 месяцев назад +1

    Try ban leong wah hoe :)

    • @JOHNPATCROSS
      @JOHNPATCROSS  11 месяцев назад +1

      We’ve been there a few times! It’s nice too. But a bit far for us. 😅

    • @AdenPhua
      @AdenPhua 11 месяцев назад

      @@JOHNPATCROSS HAHAHA good food has no limits :)

  • @shawnngjunrui1966
    @shawnngjunrui1966 11 месяцев назад

    55555555

  • @andyhoo5358
    @andyhoo5358 11 месяцев назад

    John's camera seems to auto pan to boobs one.

  • @Cmi1267
    @Cmi1267 7 месяцев назад

    I hate Ryan