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  • Опубликовано: 17 окт 2024

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  • @elaineclaire7063
    @elaineclaire7063 Год назад +113

    You both make me believe that love still exists, I really enjoy both of your chemistry and how you both are really open and honest with one another. I been following your love story ever since Jon posted on his youtube channel, and seeing how far y'all both come really makes me happy for you both, y'all deserve each other. Please hold marriage counselling course, i confirm will sign up 🤣🤣🤣

    • @richardkanna5093
      @richardkanna5093 Год назад

      lol, more like the girl just trying to settle for her last options...
      no wonder singlish girls are sluts...this is a fact....
      if any singlish girls reading this, yes it is you, youre a slut. this is a fact

    • @JOHNPATCROSS
      @JOHNPATCROSS  Год назад +9

      Awwww you’re so sweet! But we don’t post when we fight la. 😂
      Maybe with this channel we will. Haha

  • @nevets1209
    @nevets1209 Год назад +87

    i have always liked John's POV in TDK and now that you started vlogging with your wife, i am always looking forward to watch your stories. you two are so cool even after 15 years of togetherness. i feel giddy about your love story. 🥰🥰🥰💌💌💌

  • @RaphJonathanTan
    @RaphJonathanTan Год назад +70

    such a couple goals. friend turned boyfriend turned husband. so much to learn from your journey and relationship advices. was just wondering how u guys met when i watched your previous 2 videos, not sure if your story's been shared before. then your third video cured my curiosity. been following john since real talk and other similar cameos. keep it up, great content like this ones! God bless both of you

    • @richardkanna5093
      @richardkanna5093 Год назад

      lol, more like the girl just trying to settle for her last options...
      no wonder singlish girls are sluts...this is a fact....
      if any singlish girls reading this, yes it is you, youre a slut. this is a fact

  • @thestaringenclave
    @thestaringenclave Год назад +36

    Oh wow. John is such a romantic. Great advice at the end "Move on and live your best life... If there is a chance to get out of the friendzone, she's probably still stay in your life."

  • @chickennutpie
    @chickennutpie Год назад +33

    This was such a fun watch! Really like how this was shot in the car, like a friend giving you life updates) :') And your openness to share so much is what really sets y'all apart from other couples who are sharing their lives on this online space. Keep up the great work y'all!!

  • @8777RL
    @8777RL 7 месяцев назад +1

    Very sweet couple you two...I'm 52 and your vid brings me back to my younger days and i am glad true love still happens! Wish you both everlasting bliss! ❤🎉

  • @straypenne
    @straypenne Год назад +9

    pat’s expression when john was recounting his life story is so funny y’all damn cute

  • @hhspore
    @hhspore Год назад +12

    You two are just so cute. And the giggling as you recall your secondary/poly days is just adorable. Your synergy is so unique and special. So lucky to find your soul mate in each other. Signing off aunty H ( I think I shd b around your mum's age. ) Why am I watching your videos? ....because I watch the daily ketchup too.

  • @tansiwei2344
    @tansiwei2344 Год назад +14

    HOW CAN WE NOT LIKE IT!!!! Smiling throughout the video because you guys are too cute❤ love yall

    • @JOHNPATCROSS
      @JOHNPATCROSS  Год назад +1

      And this comment made us smile too! ♥️

  • @JoanneMelissa
    @JoanneMelissa Год назад +6

    You guys are so sincere and down to earth!! I watched from start till the end 😊thanks for taking the time to film/ edit !! God bless you both!

  • @yieldm232
    @yieldm232 Год назад +26

    Your videos are so entertaining to watch! It's great to see Pat ❤

  • @hello13456
    @hello13456 Год назад +23

    i love this couple so much, such wholesome vibes and a real good role model couple for many. keep the videos coming please❤❤

  • @marcang4403
    @marcang4403 Год назад +7

    So sweeet genuine!!! So rare to hear other girl’s view!! Enjoy ur vlog… also I like the Singaporean English.. sooo 真

  • @Zoids-bf6op
    @Zoids-bf6op 9 месяцев назад

    i actually watch the whole thing. it was really entertaining to listen to both perspective with the same energy. Can especially relate to Johnathan on this one!

  • @lordndrew
    @lordndrew 10 месяцев назад +1

    First time watching this channel and this couple. Very interesting and real. It’s a good watch. Subscribed.

  • @ValarieTay
    @ValarieTay Год назад +5

    Hahahaha congrats to the both of you! It's not easy maintaining a relationship but you both make it look fun! I love your relationship vibes! Here's to many many many more anniversaries and milestones together!

  • @kyrakamiel1794
    @kyrakamiel1794 10 месяцев назад

    What a wonderful story❤️
    Thought the rose petals strewn pathway was such a romantic touch.💕💕

  • @winniehuang3923
    @winniehuang3923 Год назад +3

    Wow brought me back to my youth dating days… I made my hubby watch this with me… we were also best friends back then…

  • @junotan5912
    @junotan5912 Год назад +8

    i enjoyed so much listening to the love story of yall!So cute and entertaining!

  • @kiwanaboy
    @kiwanaboy Год назад +3

    The 2008 flashback sweet sia ❤❤

  • @emailant
    @emailant Год назад +2

    heartwarming story. really nice to watch and so happy for you and chris and friends too. most of all, great advice. 👍

    • @JOHNPATCROSS
      @JOHNPATCROSS  Год назад

      Aww thanks for the lovely comment. next episode drops on Sunday!

  • @thecheekies
    @thecheekies Год назад +1

    Mr. & I watched this grinning from start to end. Made us reminisce loads.. 😊

  • @arjunsasangan9342
    @arjunsasangan9342 Год назад +3

    Great videoooo it sounded like an episode of a drama and thats amazing that yall are so wholesome

  • @MrRazorteeth
    @MrRazorteeth Год назад +3

    Can make this into a movie liao... so touching

  • @stevenycs79
    @stevenycs79 Год назад +12

    very sweet and genuine contents guyz~ luving it .. keep it up

  • @leeli5441
    @leeli5441 Год назад +3

    Wah the 2 of you are soooo cuteeee together. Love uuuu. This is my first time watching your videos. John is very good in tdk anyways, have subscribed!

  • @helahola
    @helahola Год назад +5

    great story. if comparing their advice, i personally like john's advice more. it just sounds more practical. pat's advice about "be there for the girl/guy" will turn that guy in her friendzone into a convenient tool man and she will never realize his value at all. pat's hk trip leaving john is the key so i'll agree on john's advice more.

    • @JOHNPATCROSS
      @JOHNPATCROSS  Год назад +2

      Hello! I also don’t know which kind of advice I gave. Hahahahah! But John stuck around worked for me. He caught my heart 😂 but yes, please follow his instead. Hahahaha!
      - Pat

  • @PEPramudita
    @PEPramudita Год назад +7

    OMG.. both of you are so sweet leh. I’m shipping the both of you now 👍🏻

  • @joshua01
    @joshua01 Год назад +8

    Love the content! 🫶 yall r so cute sia

  • @Ahsonloh1213
    @Ahsonloh1213 Год назад +19

    Really enjoyed the storytelling of your relationship journey! Made me feel like I'm part of it as well hahaha

  • @darrenyeoh126
    @darrenyeoh126 Год назад +4

    chris is the steve 😂

  • @sonnykhoo7236
    @sonnykhoo7236 Год назад +1

    😂😂😂 I just chanced upon your channel and I laughed my head off🫢 Excellent content. Real and fun👍😁 By the way I’m 60 over years old a Malaysian in PJ. My eldest is probably your age😁

  • @EIJIHS
    @EIJIHS Год назад +3

    WOO!! MCR ROCKS !!! Eh John, wtf the GF stage so grand then proposal how !! Kns damn spoil market AHHAHAHAH !

    • @JOHNPATCROSS
      @JOHNPATCROSS  Год назад +1

      Thats why I was very stressed for the proposal! That story is coming up soon!

  • @sltan7235
    @sltan7235 Год назад +3

    Sticky rose petals the best bit

  • @trishuang8377
    @trishuang8377 Год назад +4

    Lol! My first date with my hub was also at Esplanade! I too thought of it as a normal dinner with a poly friend but he considered it as a date 😏 Those memories of courtship... Cheers to our 15years anni - u n John together since 17/18yo, me n my hub together as a wedded couple 💗 🥂

  • @LumpyLoveElla
    @LumpyLoveElla Год назад +5

    My hubby and I also did the supermarket sushi when we were in poly. 😂

    • @JOHNPATCROSS
      @JOHNPATCROSS  Год назад

      Bobian. It was the only move if you couldn't afford to eat the the restaurant.
      - John

  • @shaohwa4948
    @shaohwa4948 Год назад +2

    Love your stories 😀, continue to slayy

  • @MrTakoyaki1992
    @MrTakoyaki1992 Год назад +2

    You all must Sing" We'll Caaarry On"!!!

  • @ImMochiAlyyyyy
    @ImMochiAlyyyyy Год назад +3

    Officially my fav couple lehhhhh ❤❤❤

  • @ginayaplaiyoong
    @ginayaplaiyoong Год назад +6

    So cute lah, your love story!

  • @shufangina
    @shufangina Год назад +1

    Couple goals! Your stories are super cute 😍😍😍

  • @coreylow620
    @coreylow620 11 месяцев назад +1

    i swear john really look great being meatier

  • @jaytan7201
    @jaytan7201 10 месяцев назад +1

    Village bicycle... 😂😂😂

  • @MsLilac88
    @MsLilac88 Год назад +1

    I just dropped by your channel, I watched your video on the daily ketchup podcast about your fertility journey. 😊 Happy 15 years aninversary. 💜

  • @20pointer
    @20pointer Год назад +4

    will you ever share about the fall out with dew and co?

    • @JOHNPATCROSS
      @JOHNPATCROSS  Год назад +1

      No Co bro. I'm good friends with the rest. Maybe one day. I haven't out of respect for some of the people involved. But i hope you understand. But maybe one day.

    • @20pointer
      @20pointer Год назад

      Thanks for being honest@@JOHNPATCROSS

  • @HiMagicDonuts
    @HiMagicDonuts Год назад +4

    loved your vid!! 🫶🏻🫶🏻

  • @_cherylkim
    @_cherylkim Год назад +3

    Omg love your videos!!!!!

  • @starshine9836
    @starshine9836 Год назад +3

    Got 夫妻像. You guys look alike at certain angles!

    • @JOHNPATCROSS
      @JOHNPATCROSS  Год назад +1

      Hello! I think so too eh! 🤭
      - Pat

  • @harriertan1595
    @harriertan1595 Год назад

    Hahahaha funny how you guys got together on my 2nd birthday (18oct) 17:27

  • @dango1705
    @dango1705 Год назад +2

    "u bitch" was very personal😂😂😂

  • @pandulani
    @pandulani Год назад

    So cute, all the best for a happy long wedded life!

  • @leeli5441
    @leeli5441 Год назад +2

    Pat is soo adorable! Thank you for sharing with us and letting us into your lives
    Btw what lip color is pat using

    • @JOHNPATCROSS
      @JOHNPATCROSS  Год назад +1

      It's one of the nude shades from Fenty. I'm sorry the lipstick doesn't say.
      - Pat

  • @derektan6561
    @derektan6561 Год назад +3

    it is actually quite dangerous to shoot this while driving. it only take secs to lose focus.

    • @EricK-mj7kr
      @EricK-mj7kr Год назад +1

      Not really. Some can handle both pretty well. I like to chit chat while driving or sometimes we'll play movies for the kids, on long drives to malaysia and it keeps me awake and alert. I do have friends who can't hold a dialogue without getting nervous while driving though.

  • @yeetusbelitus6709
    @yeetusbelitus6709 Год назад +3

    eh jon dam spoil market sia wl leh

  • @learninvestearnsave
    @learninvestearnsave Год назад

    bro's 17 year old hairstyle is like chao ah beng LOL. Nice video though. Thanks for sharing

    • @JOHNPATCROSS
      @JOHNPATCROSS  Год назад +1

      Really liked it back then Sia. 😂

  • @whyh
    @whyh Год назад

    If you are in the friend zone, move on. She's just being selfish, but you don't have to sick around to be used.
    You don't have to hate her either. Just move on.

  • @lynnlee76
    @lynnlee76 Год назад +3

    That is so sweet

  • @Purmeiwansuay
    @Purmeiwansuay Год назад +3

    knn this siao eh romantic sia

  • @angelicasubil-fitnessNwellness
    @angelicasubil-fitnessNwellness Год назад +1

    Ayooo so sweet la u both🤭🤭😍

  • @jessical7083
    @jessical7083 11 месяцев назад +1

    Wah. I didnt know Pat is also a playa. She looks so innocent 😅. I know in another show John said he had sex with 1-2 girls before Pat and initial sex with Pat was like meant to be a one night stand or sonething 😮. So i knew John was promiscuous back then. But thought Pat wasnt for some reason haha😅, maybe she looks so angelic😂.

  • @a.alaynaa
    @a.alaynaa 11 месяцев назад

    this is so cute 😭😭

  • @ckloh3378
    @ckloh3378 Год назад

    She's a playa but doesn't know it 😂

  • @marcoyeo9387
    @marcoyeo9387 7 месяцев назад

    too cute

  • @fannyzen
    @fannyzen Год назад +1

    Really sweet

  • @Jonascookingjapan
    @Jonascookingjapan Год назад +2

    ❤❤❤

  • @brt525
    @brt525 Год назад +1

    👍👍👍👍

  • @joeylim261
    @joeylim261 Год назад +1

    so cute la🥰

  • @yeannetung
    @yeannetung Год назад +2

    MORE

  • @twogtheworldofgangnam9917
    @twogtheworldofgangnam9917 Год назад

  • @princessnuchu
    @princessnuchu Год назад +1

    Awwww

  • @n.laughpuff6653
    @n.laughpuff6653 Год назад

    Get piercings, go gym, earn money. Simple

  • @benwong2061
    @benwong2061 Год назад +1

    Algoooooooooooooooooo

  • @dillonazariahfoo7363
    @dillonazariahfoo7363 Год назад

    Walao cute asf ah

  • @misspepper07
    @misspepper07 Год назад +4

    7:49 *cue Awwwwwwwww* ♥️
    11:43 18:53

  • @yuxiang2806
    @yuxiang2806 Год назад

    And this is how I met your mother

  • @elilo5867
    @elilo5867 Год назад +2

    Why does it take so much effort to please a woman ? I would have just left once she said ,"no".

  • @dragon5064
    @dragon5064 Год назад

    .

  • @50left42
    @50left42 Год назад +1

    17:21 - "It's all worth it". This got me tearing a bit 🥲

  • @eeto_plays
    @eeto_plays Год назад