HI GUYSS!! My boyfriend and I would make it a point to wait for each other so that we can watch your new videos together every week because we find the content very relatable!! Our favourite videos are the ones about relationships like staying attractive for your partner and also dealing with stagnant relationship as it provides a different perspective.
“Hiding 5 figure debt from my wife” video was my favourite!! Really appreciated that yall shared these. It is indeed difficult to reveal your debts to your SO and I’m very glad that y’all shared something so personal to us viewers! After watching this video, my bf and I did indeed talk abt our finances more and are on our journey to become more financial literate. :))
"it broke my heart..." is my favourite video, because you share about your differences and understanding towards each other. Thank you for sharing the reality of love
Happy new year to Jon and Pat! My fav video is the "Our SECRET to a happy 15 year relationship!!! " I feel that both of you are serious and honest to each other. My partner and I always watch your videos together and it hit us
I liked the Hiding 5 figure debt video the best! Because it was very genuine and honest - it's rare to see this on RUclips. And really great advice and valuable knowledge as well that you gave. Apart from the practical advice about what to do if we really find ourselves in that situation (hopefully not), I really loved to see the interaction and communication between you both. I'm newly married and it teaches me how a strong relationship and couple really looks like. And even in the face of troubles, not to judge and to stand by each other - that is so hard to do but you guys really demonstrated it. It's easy to see you guys really love each other and I hope to be able to emulate in my relationship too! Happy New Year! All the best for this channel!
don't really have a specific favourite video but i think all the videos that talk about ur relationship journey (how yall got together, proposal etc) are my favourite! i think it's so inspiring and encouraging to watch two people who constantly choose each other despite challenges!
My favourite video was the Q&A one! Really shows the different couple dynamic that every couple has, and there isn’t a need to compare. Understanding both of your thought processes helped in understanding my relationship with my partner too! 👍🏼 Loved it! 😊
Hi John, hi Pat, Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts, reflections, and your relationship journey with us. Understand it takes a great deal of courage and vulnerability to open up!! Am really grateful to you 2 for being transparent, for being a catalyst for positive change, not just for me but probably for everyone else that watch your videos. Have a great celebration for 2024 and HAPPY NEW YEAR TO YOU AND EVERYONE HERE 💕 Thank you!
My favourite one would be the "If we don't put in the effort, then we should break up" video as it shows the raw-ness of the content, reminds people about how a relationship is not just attraction but it comes with intentionality, effort and your utmost best to give unconditional love. I really enjoyed the open-ness u guys have as well. Hope that 2024 will be a better year for both of you and cheers to more content in this channel as well.
Always a joy to watch your vids. Although I had spend Christmas alone, and now a new year alone. Its just part of life. Always be happy and take each day as it comes. Looking to your next and more fun vids.
Pls pls pls keep doing this channel! It’s very entertaining and this is so real! I luv the SIA episode! Luv!! It’s soo honest and real! And so much empathy and love! Happy new year! 快乐最重要
My favourite video is this video because even though it is almost 30mins long, the time passed by so quickly. Your videos are comforting to watch every weekend and it's a good rewind for me before starting the new week :) Thank you for sharing with us on your life and happy new year!! 🎊
Hi John and Pat! I really enjoyed the video on your honest sharing on how you got into debt and how you are managing finance now. Shows how much you are working together as a team and being there with one another as husband and wife. Thanks for always being so honest and inspiring in your videos! I really enjoy all of them
i like the video where yall fought and filmed the aftermath of it. I liked it cause you all are just very direct and real with yall feelings real enough to film these kinds of things down which is why I like watching your videos so much. And i feel like yall are hen brother the people so watch yall like fun like that. Stay happy, healthy and real cheers to 2024
Hi Pat and John! My favourite video is actually this video. What i really love is the very deep and vulnerable sharing about your lives, which this episode really shares a lot. I first chanced upon both of you was from Pat’s sharing about her fertility journey on blogs which really resonated with me. It is a hard topic and most ppl find it hard to even share with close friends or family. Really appreciate both for your heartfelt sharing! Wishing you both the best in 2024!
Saw this video as the very first video I watched from your channel. Felt the happiness between you guys through the phone screen. Even happier when I see you guys giving away my favourite kind of meal.. omakase❤ May your channel blossom in the new year!
Hi John and Pat, Started watching your videos after "our relationship got stagnant" and have been watching ever since. it is very refreshing to see content creator putting out content about their struggles instead of "only the good stuff" Keep up the good work!
Hey John&Pat, really liking the videos putting out by you guys so far! Favourite video has to be the finances video, really helpful while I am on my personal finance journey. Appreciate the honesty and candidness in every video as always :)
Happy holidays John and Pat! Been following you guys for a while and I was super excited when you guys decided to start your own channel! My favourite video has got to be “why I proposed to my husband”. Got to see John serenade Pat for the proposal, a little bit cringe but so sweet and damn a lot of effort. Cried tgt with Pat cos so touched by John’s effort. Relate to you guys a lot esp on the having kids topic. Tough and sensitive subject to share on, but it helped my husband to navigate, discuss and accept the fact that not everyone is fated to be blessed with kid(s).
Here for the give away. Favourite ep has to be the one on finances. It’s such an underrated aspect of a relationship and for you guys to be this transparent about how things can be dealt with as a couple was fantastic and I benefitted so much. Cheers
Hi John and Pat, thanks for all the heartwarming videos about your remarkable relationship! My personal favourite video is the one where yall talk about the secret to your 15 year relationship, the things you shared really helped bring clarity to my thought process about my own relationship as I take it to the next level of adulting. Many blessings and hope to see more content from you!
loved all the hearty conversations & videos you guys have! if i had to choose, the Q&A video was my fav. i truly look forward to watching your videos - they’re a source of respite and inspiration. happy 2024!!!
I really liked the video on how you guys got into debt and how you two, as a couple go through. It’s not glamorous and it’s tough times! So it’s so inspirational to watch, not because how to deal with cc card debt, it’s how you accept and embrace each other’s flaw. I think it is a beautiful thing. Thank you John and Pat for 2023! Love your videos and will continue to watch in 2024!!!😊
Enjoy the Q&A: “remarrying if the other one dies” because it is a very real topic. And I can sense the real love you both have for each other. Inspiring ☺️☺️
Hi Jon and Pat! My favourite video from your channel is the one where you both talk about the importance of managing one's finance and the challenges you both faced in trying to get out of debt. It really resonated with me as growing up I had family members who fell into debt, and this caused some strain in our family relations. Thank you both for sharing so candidly and giving your advice! Looking forward to more videos from you both and happy 2024!!🥳
Happy 2024 JohnPatX!! Love your content!! My fav episode is the one about staying attractive for one another because it is a timely reminder for every couple that staying attractive is also an effort and respect that we must still show in a rs!
Hey John and Pat! Thank you for putting out your vulnerable selfs and being great role models for many couples out there. I’ve been following your journey for years, and have always looked up to John through TDK for his perspectives on life, parenting & relationships. Your recent couple channel was a great blessing to my 5-year long relationship, as it showed us that love is not enough, and that successful relationships take a lot of work, accommodating & tough conversations. I particularly LOVE your recent video on couple finances (and the Google Docs you shared), as it helped us worked through some tough differences on finances, and how those could be a result of our upbringing. Thank you for all that you do, and I look forward to journeying with the both of you into 2024. 🥰
Happy New Year John and Pat~!!! My favorite video is actually the one that talked about financial issues, because I could relate to it so much... When you were talking about bankruptcy stuff and the people coming and pasting bright stickers on every single furniture, I remember the plastic wrap that came after and me asking my mum why they were wrapping up our sofa, and where were we going to sit to watch TV (Think I was in lower primary back then XD).. That memory made me super grateful for how I turn out now, and I could appreciate how stable my little family is, just by not being in debt. Thanks for being so forthcoming with all the good, bad and funny stories, and more importantly, actually crucial information~~!
Hi John & Pat, Thanks for sharing your very personal thoughts and relationship journey! My most favourite video would be the one where you and Pat randomly drove to JB and shared about your Bali "experience", which was also they very first video I watched on your channel! LOL! I even watched that together with my wife and totally gave us a new perspective, and ever since then, we have been watching your videos. Kudos for the nice content again, no BS! Happy 2024!
I like the “it broke my heart episode” - especially when y’all were so real with the daily happenings in your life (eg quarreling over lunch) . I guess it shows that life is as it is and we are all humans with emotions and you dont just show the highlights in your relationship!!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Hello John & Pat, not a consumer of the daily ketchup here but I began watching this channel by watching the reno tour, and then got more interested in your love story which was the next video you posted!! In general I love all your videos, but especially the ones where you guys are vulnerable in sharing. Like 'Our relationship got stagnant'. But at the same time I love watching you guys interact as a couple like the QNA episode. Happy 2024!!
hey john and pat! thank you for being the big sister and brother of the creative space in sg and also for young couples seeking advice :) falling into the demographic of being both a creator and also part of a young couple, i really look up to you guys and always look forward to the content you two put out! my favourite is the one where you guys celebrated your anniversary and talked about how you navigated or prevented a relationship from being stagnant. it gave me a glimpse of what it may be like in my own relationship in future and how we can navigate it! have a blessed 2024 🤍
I really like the video when you discussed your financial journey. So much ups and downs but u remained supportive of each other. It is also nice to know that we are not alone in those down times. Most people go through them but try to hide. Thank you for the great sharing and inspiring us to keep going. May 2024 be even better for you both!
I really enjoy your channel content. Other channels don’t intrigue as much as this and TDK. I really should bring my wife to this place after seeing the vouch of quality and seeing the chef prepare. I think the best video this far is the one on the financial situation cause that resonated a lot with me and my wife. Thank God we’re debt free now and looking to keep it that way. Life did make a huge turn for the better for us ever since then. 2023 was an awesome year for me for me because first, I went debt free, second, I got a newborn child by accident and finally, invested in new business venture with my partners and taking the first steps of being an entrepreneur (my dream job since poly days). Thanks John and Pat, Belated Merry Xmas and Happy 2024 New Year.
My favorite video was the one where you guys shared about your experience with debt and going through it as a couple. It was nice to see both of your take on the situation as it's something that I had personally struggled with in my current relationship.
Happy new year to you guys! The best video that you have done (so far) is the finances one. Please continue to create more content in the years ahead :D
Hello! Have been watching your videos since the first launch and i love how up close and personal the life is! Hope to see more upcoming videos about you guys!
Hi Pat, I feel you’re the older sister I never had 🥹 I appreciate you being so honest & open with your experiences, and I love listening to you sharing them. John as well, I watched since the After Hours days, and I never realised how much you went through and how interesting your POV was. I hope you guys continue making more videos!!!!❤ I really enjoyed watching the video where both of you shared your struggles with financials & your tips etc. Happy New Year!!
ahhh i love yall so much & its so hard to pick a favourite video 🥹 but i think my fav would be the couples finance video... yall r so real (& honestly v helpful) when it comes to sharing tough topics esp for couples & i rly admire yall for that!
My Favourite video from you guys is the financial discussion episode! It's very realistic and you guys were so open and vulnerable in sharing difficulties from your partnership together which was very heartwarming. Thank you for going the extra mile and providing google docs resources too! Really appreciate it (: Your content is something that my partner and I use for discussion & to watch for fun! So I really enjoy ALL the videos
Nuru massage has to be the favourite video, hands down. Sharing intimate and non mainstream content is what really makes this special and unique amongst all other channels available.
Merry X'mas! my fave video is your second video with the haunted house story. Always nice to hear about supernatural happenings from a "credible" first hand encounter.
FAV VID IS THE OUR RS GOT STAGNANT ❤️❤️❤️ love love love the dynamics and all the things that yall so openly share! me and my boyf watches ur contents tgt and we pick up things to adopt into our rs as well whenever we find applicable! just wanted to say a big thank u for all the advice and quality content given in 2023 both here and in TDK and quoting from the double date video w ryan and cherylene abt how if anyth happens to the both of u guys they wouldnt believe in love anym and i truly agree I HOPE THIS DOESNT BRING ANY UNNECESSARY STRESS TO YALL its just how much we look up to ur rs! wishing the both of u a great great 2024 🎉
Hi John and Pat, love how you both are sharing life experiences in helping everyone to walk less of a bad path and even providing advices on how we can walk out of it and stuff really feel like there is always something to takeaway from every video!
Hi Pat and John! My fav episode is "it broke my heart..." because I also realised how important communication is through my own experience and each person's style of comm or way to feel loved can be so different we might think what we want is what they want as well. I loved how you guys went through it and hold healthy conversations like this. Love u guys!
The it broke my heart... episode was my favourite but not being cheesy i do feel like yall are getting better at doing this and it just feels really good to watch. hope yall are gonna stay happy doing this and do what yall want and love to do
Happy new year John & Pat!Chanced upon the video that you shared about how you met and your relationship over the years and I’ve been following the channel ever since! Super can relate to the video since my wife and I have been together since schooling days too. Can’t wait to see what else you have in store for 2024. Wishing you and your families all the best! Cheers!
I love your channel. It's very organic and personal. There's hardly any issues with how you guys deliver your true self. Having fun and sharing your disappointments and adventures is what I truly appreciate.
HI JOHN AND PAT!! thanks for the generous giveaway. i really enjoyed the video where yall talked about staying attractive for your partner. so easy to fall into the mode of just being comfortable and thinking its no longer important to look good for them. enjoy the candid sharing by yall and while im typically not much of a person who likes watching people talk, your channel somehow hits different. happy new year!
Heyy, I am grateful I have chanced upon your channel through my girlfriend and because of her we always watch your videos together and also caught up on those I have missed from the start. I think my favourite video has to be the QnA because its the realest thing I have seen a couple on youtube do, sharing about life experiences, how to conduct ourselves and being the best for one another, which we and especially I can learn a lot from. Thanks for making real content where you are open to share with so many peopole your own relationship where people can learn from and not sugar coat your lives together. Blessed New Year and heres to a great 2024!
Never had doubts about the quality of your clogs because I really enjoyed the productions of the other talk show that John hosts. Appreciate the work you both put in to churn out contents to entertain/ educate us :) hard to pick a fav, enjoyed them thoroughly and looking forward to more to come !
Hello, Really love the contents you have showed us and sharing your journey with us! :) One of the videos that I like is when John is talking about the debt that he has as I can understand it may not be so easy to talk/share the issue with your loved ones or anyone! Continue to do more videos to share about your journey! :)
Hi internet parents. Always appreciate the realness of you since real talk. Favourite video would be the 5 figure debt! My family was stuck in a cycle of debt for a long time, including now, even though it is not of my own action. Thank you for being so open to share!!
I’ve forgotten about Kenny Rogers! I love their biscuits! I found your channel today, i love that you guys are so candid, its so refreshing! Plus Pat is so beautiful warm and just great lady. U are a lucky guy!
happy new year John and Pat! thank you for creating this channel and sharing such raw and insightful thoughts with all of us. my partner and i watch every video and are looking forward to what's in store in 2024! OUR FAVOURITE VIDEO is definitely the QnA on remarrying because Pat's reaction (folding arms & pouting) had us in stitches and still gets us everytime we watch it again. wishing you guys all the happiness and a blessed 2024!!
Not in Singapore but just want to comment on how much I love your channel and glad you guys are slowing down the uploads to once a fortnight next year :) love you both!!!
Hi John & Pat, Happy 2024 to you two! My favourite video is about the couples finance as it was something similar to what my wife and I went through before, which is relatable. Thank you guys for being so open and honest about your relationship. Looking forward to more videos!
Hi John and Pat, your 15th-anniversary episode resonated deeply, showcasing the enduring love, commitment, and unwavering support that have been the pillars of your relationship. Your story is a beacon of hope, a reminder that true love is nurtured through dedication and choosing each other daily. Here's to the beautiful journey you've shared and to many more years filled with love, joy, and cherished moments. Thank you for inspiring us all! 🌟💕
Hi John and Pat. Thanks for sharing about your lives. I liked the video about credit card debt. It had many practical tips for people who might end up in a similar situation. Happy new year!
Hi John and Pat, my favourite video so far is Pat's SQ journey. Cus my wife is also in SQ and I can totally understand what Pat went through. AND JOHN WE SAME COURSE SAME YEAR IN TP 🤙🏻🤓
hallo pat and john!!!! my favourite video is the one where you talk about how you escaped the friend zone!! it was so enjoyable to watch the old clips of your relationship and it really put a smile on my face because it was so cute hahahahha i find almost everything about this channel very relatable and seeing other people’s comments saying the same makes me feel less alone! ❤
Hi John and Pat, my favorite video is "I quit 1 week before my bond ended...(it was that bad)", because you guys were really vulnerable and talked about the importance of mental health, and making sure that you are in a good space mentally. It's nice to know everyone struggles through various situations and come out with lots of lessons. A happy new year to both of you!!!!
Hi John, hi Pat, Thank you so much for the time yall have put into each video. I know it must be tough to share these personal thoughts to everyone and i comment that bravery. Of all the videos, i liked the "How to get out of the friend zone" the most. As the video shown how yall didint started this beautiful relationship without a few hiccups along the way.
Hi John and Pat! the video i enjoyed the most was the one that you guys talked about you financial debt and how yall pull through it. It was very touching to hear and made alot of your audience know the improtance of financial literacy. Thank you for all your videos and I wish you guys all the best for 2024!
I really enjoy all your videos because you keep it honest and real! My favourite episode is the one about putting in effort in our relationship and not being complacent
Hey Pat/John, I rly enjoy all your videos truly, thanks for the fresh content always! Fav has to be the nuru massage. Thanks for all the videos, hoping for more in 2024!
Hi!! Stumbled upon your channel and really like the realness of your videos, as well as the vibes and really insightful advices. My favourite video is the "If we don't put in the effort, then we should break up" video, because it really acts as a reminder that in a relationship, we must constantly remind ourselves to put in effort and not take things for granted. All the best for your channel!! Hope to see more videos sharing great and real advices :)
Hi John and Pat!!! I love the video that you talked about your journey with your finances and how you’ve involved each other and help each other through the tough times. It shows me how to support my future partner in this tough and difficult but important area in the relationship!!
hey john and pat ◡̈ fav video is defo the Q&A! love that you both are so real and genuine in your videos; and so open to sharing the struggles you guys deal with. have always admired how you guys are so lovey dovey despite being together for so long, which seems pretty rare these days. a lot of takeaways even for someone who’s in the early stages of a relationship but battling through some tough fights. thank you soooo much ♡
My favourite episode got to be the episode about Nuri Massage! 💆♀️ tbh don’t have to stress about delivering informational content!! I really do love vlogs or videos about both of your daily life- which makes it really authentic ! 😊
Love the authenticity of you both, thanks for sharing the realities of couple life. I love this video which summarised your 2023 recap. Looking forward to even more contents in 2024! While you have both came to terms not having a baby, I wish that miracles will happen magically ❤
I loved all the videos so far because they are all so raw and honest and there’s always 1 or 2 things to learn but my favourite video has got to be Pat’s experience as a crew because I totally resonated with it and I quit before my bond ended too 😝 It was a big risk to take but one worth taking for my mental health :)
I enjoyed the video 'Hiding 5-FIGURE DEBT from my wife' because this is a actually an real issue some couples out there faces and it is not spoken frequently about because some may feel that it is an embarrassing thing to share with others. It is really encouraging to hear about how your stayed with each other through thick and thin, trying to help each other deal with the problem instead of fighting and breaking up with each other which may seem like an easier option. Looking forward to your new videos in 2024! Cheers
Hi guys. I deeply enjoyed your video about your finances. I feel most couples don't discuss openly about money matters and I believe the video encouraged more couples to talk about money 😊
Hi John & Pat!! my favourite episode from yall would be the Q&A episode where both of you answered questions regarding your relationship and shared with us more about your relationship. I watched it with my SO and it prompted us to also discuss on the same questions & helped us be more vulnerable , open with each other & learn things about each other that we otherwise wouldn't think about. I think your answers and the experiences that yall shared were also very refreshing to hear & very relatable esp the part about different religions HAHAH :))
Hello John and Pat! Happy 2024🎉 I have been following John since After Hours and I was so excited when I find out that you guys have your own channel (about time!!). My favourite video is Pat’s ex-SIA stewardess experience. My dream job is to be a cabin crew so I love watching videos on this topic. I often see many stories on the upsides of this job but the grass is not always greener on the other side, so listening to Pat’s experience was really interesting and eye-opening. I appreciate Pat’s transparency on how the job affected her mental health, and I admire her courage to leave the job before her bond ended and putting herself first. Excited for what’s to come on this channel! Have a blessed new year HUAT AH!
To Pat and John, Thank you so much for taking the time and effort to make such raw and quality content. I really look up to you guys, watching your videos makes me feel less alone. I always look forward to watching! Im sure it is the same for many others. “Internet parents” is a good way to put it. Happy new year! ❤
Hi John and Pat! Not gonna pick any video because I enjoyed every single one of them!! Much appreciated for being so real, learnt so much from you guys through the sharing! No matter the frequency of the uploads, I will still be here watching every single of them so please don’t tire yourself out or risk hurting your relationship to push out videos every 2 weeks. Cheers and HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!!
Hi guys! Really enjoy watching your channel with my husband, thanks for sharing so openly from finances, intimacy to a whole other range of things! The video on debt and how you guys overcame it was especially enlightening on how you handle challenges as a couple.
Your videos have become a go-to source of inspiration and knowledge for me. Especially your content about relationships. I personally am in an 8 years of ongoing relationship with my now husband of 7 months, I could definitely relate both of your perspectives. Thank you and keep up the fantastic work! Have a great weekend and a very happy new year ahead🎉
Merry Christmas, John and Pat!! Thank you for giving us fans a chance to just show our appreciation for y'all taking the time to share your lives. My favourite episode has to be regarding how y'all shared about the stagnation in y'alls relationship. I related so much to it because I'm exactly like john that needs his space and my partner is like pat. Seeing y'all talk about compromise and the importance of talking it out made me feel like I wasn't alone and what it takes to have a sustainable loving relationship. Even if I don't win the giveaway, I'm so grateful that this channel started. I am slightly sad about the fortnightly posting, but happy that y'all are taking more time to just be together and live life. Much love, you two! ❤️✨
My favourite episode is the “Our relationship got stagnant” . I had a fight with my fiancé just before this episode was out and when I watch that it was so relatable and I sent the video to him to tell him couples all have their ups and downs.. both of us are loyal viewers since that episode.. Thanks for creating this channel! 🎉
Hi John and Pat, i really loved your train of thoughts (especially on todays video when you mentioned about the trade off about having or not having kids, and if you do not how would you want to live your life). I think this train of thought was really good as it shows us that there is always pros and cons, and not to follow with societal norms. The video on the 5 digit debt and also how you incorporated the worksheet that both of you went for before you both got married left me with very deep impression as money is always a very sensitive topic to talk about. HAHAH. Always a joy to be watching your videos as it brings alot of insights and is very relatable to what we are going through. Appreciate both of you sharing all these thoughts on screen as it requires alot of vulnerability to put yourself out there where many people are watching. Keep rocking!!! Both of you are such an inspiration esp thru the videos we can tell a lot about your values and character. 😊
My favourite video is the one on Couples Finance!! As a student entering the working world I think it’s something to think about soon, but apart from that it’s also really heartwarming to see y’all be so upfront with each other, and not giving up even at each other’s lowest points ❤
THANK YOU EVERYONE for all the love in the comment section!!!!
HI GUYSS!! My boyfriend and I would make it a point to wait for each other so that we can watch your new videos together every week because we find the content very relatable!! Our favourite videos are the ones about relationships like staying attractive for your partner and also dealing with stagnant relationship as it provides a different perspective.
“Hiding 5 figure debt from my wife” video was my favourite!! Really appreciated that yall shared these. It is indeed difficult to reveal your debts to your SO and I’m very glad that y’all shared something so personal to us viewers! After watching this video, my bf and I did indeed talk abt our finances more and are on our journey to become more financial literate. :))
Yes I fully agree. Don't be too fixated on having kids as most importantly, you guys still have each other.
"it broke my heart..." is my favourite video, because you share about your differences and understanding towards each other.
Thank you for sharing the reality of love
Happy new year to Jon and Pat!
My fav video is the "Our SECRET to a happy 15 year relationship!!! " I feel that both of you are serious and honest to each other. My partner and I always watch your videos together and it hit us
I liked the Hiding 5 figure debt video the best! Because it was very genuine and honest - it's rare to see this on RUclips. And really great advice and valuable knowledge as well that you gave. Apart from the practical advice about what to do if we really find ourselves in that situation (hopefully not), I really loved to see the interaction and communication between you both. I'm newly married and it teaches me how a strong relationship and couple really looks like. And even in the face of troubles, not to judge and to stand by each other - that is so hard to do but you guys really demonstrated it. It's easy to see you guys really love each other and I hope to be able to emulate in my relationship too! Happy New Year! All the best for this channel!
don't really have a specific favourite video but i think all the videos that talk about ur relationship journey (how yall got together, proposal etc) are my favourite! i think it's so inspiring and encouraging to watch two people who constantly choose each other despite challenges!
hi John and pat! my favourite video is this video ((OMAKASE GIVEAWAY!) as its featuring my favourite Omakase too! Have a happy new yr!
My favorite is the house tour. I looking at nicely renovated homes. Thank you for sharing so much of your lives with us.
My fave video is the one about finance and credit card debts! It’s my fave because it’s very real, honest, and relevant topic.
My favourite video was the Q&A one! Really shows the different couple dynamic that every couple has, and there isn’t a need to compare. Understanding both of your thought processes helped in understanding my relationship with my partner too! 👍🏼 Loved it! 😊
Hi John, hi Pat,
Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts, reflections, and your relationship journey with us. Understand it takes a great deal of courage and vulnerability to open up!!
Am really grateful to you 2 for being transparent, for being a catalyst for positive change, not just for me but probably for everyone else that watch your videos.
Have a great celebration for 2024 and HAPPY NEW YEAR TO YOU AND EVERYONE HERE 💕
Thank you!
My favourite one would be the "If we don't put in the effort, then we should break up" video as it shows the raw-ness of the content, reminds people about how a relationship is not just attraction but it comes with intentionality, effort and your utmost best to give unconditional love. I really enjoyed the open-ness u guys have as well. Hope that 2024 will be a better year for both of you and cheers to more content in this channel as well.
Always a joy to watch your vids. Although I had spend Christmas alone, and now a new year alone. Its just part of life. Always be happy and take each day as it comes. Looking to your next and more fun vids.
Pls pls pls keep doing this channel! It’s very entertaining and this is so real!
I luv the SIA episode! Luv!! It’s soo honest and real! And so much empathy and love!
Happy new year! 快乐最重要
My favourite video is this video because even though it is almost 30mins long, the time passed by so quickly. Your videos are comforting to watch every weekend and it's a good rewind for me before starting the new week :) Thank you for sharing with us on your life and happy new year!! 🎊
Hi John and Pat! I really enjoyed the video on your honest sharing on how you got into debt and how you are managing finance now. Shows how much you are working together as a team and being there with one another as husband and wife. Thanks for always being so honest and inspiring in your videos! I really enjoy all of them
i like the video where yall fought and filmed the aftermath of it. I liked it cause you all are just very direct and real with yall feelings real enough to film these kinds of things down which is why I like watching your videos so much. And i feel like yall are hen brother the people so watch yall like fun like that. Stay happy, healthy and real cheers to 2024
Hi Pat and John! My favourite video is actually this video. What i really love is the very deep and vulnerable sharing about your lives, which this episode really shares a lot. I first chanced upon both of you was from Pat’s sharing about her fertility journey on blogs which really resonated with me. It is a hard topic and most ppl find it hard to even share with close friends or family. Really appreciate both for your heartfelt sharing! Wishing you both the best in 2024!
Saw this video as the very first video I watched from your channel. Felt the happiness between you guys through the phone screen. Even happier when I see you guys giving away my favourite kind of meal.. omakase❤ May your channel blossom in the new year!
Hi John and Pat,
Started watching your videos after "our relationship got stagnant" and have been watching ever since. it is very refreshing to see content creator putting out content about their struggles instead of "only the good stuff"
Keep up the good work!
Hey John&Pat, really liking the videos putting out by you guys so far! Favourite video has to be the finances video, really helpful while I am on my personal finance journey. Appreciate the honesty and candidness in every video as always :)
Happy holidays John and Pat! Been following you guys for a while and I was super excited when you guys decided to start your own channel! My favourite video has got to be “why I proposed to my husband”. Got to see John serenade Pat for the proposal, a little bit cringe but so sweet and damn a lot of effort. Cried tgt with Pat cos so touched by John’s effort.
Relate to you guys a lot esp on the having kids topic. Tough and sensitive subject to share on, but it helped my husband to navigate, discuss and accept the fact that not everyone is fated to be blessed with kid(s).
Here for the give away. Favourite ep has to be the one on finances. It’s such an underrated aspect of a relationship and for you guys to be this transparent about how things can be dealt with as a couple was fantastic and I benefitted so much. Cheers
Hi John and Pat, thanks for all the heartwarming videos about your remarkable relationship! My personal favourite video is the one where yall talk about the secret to your 15 year relationship, the things you shared really helped bring clarity to my thought process about my own relationship as I take it to the next level of adulting. Many blessings and hope to see more content from you!
loved all the hearty conversations & videos you guys have! if i had to choose, the Q&A video was my fav. i truly look forward to watching your videos - they’re a source of respite and inspiration. happy 2024!!!
I really liked the video on how you guys got into debt and how you two, as a couple go through. It’s not glamorous and it’s tough times! So it’s so inspirational to watch, not because how to deal with cc card debt, it’s how you accept and embrace each other’s flaw. I think it is a beautiful thing. Thank you John and Pat for 2023! Love your videos and will continue to watch in 2024!!!😊
Definitely second video of the channel ❤ huge fan of horror so that video is pure comedic HAHA
Enjoy the Q&A: “remarrying if the other one dies” because it is a very real topic. And I can sense the real love you both have for each other. Inspiring ☺️☺️
Hi Jon and Pat! My favourite video from your channel is the one where you both talk about the importance of managing one's finance and the challenges you both faced in trying to get out of debt. It really resonated with me as growing up I had family members who fell into debt, and this caused some strain in our family relations. Thank you both for sharing so candidly and giving your advice! Looking forward to more videos from you both and happy 2024!!🥳
Fav video is how i got out of friend zone that hook me to watch every other episode on this channel!
Happy 2024 JohnPatX!! Love your content!! My fav episode is the one about staying attractive for one another because it is a timely reminder for every couple that staying attractive is also an effort and respect that we must still show in a rs!
Always look forward to watching your videos, double date vlog was really entertaining, hope we can more of those.
Hey John and Pat! Thank you for putting out your vulnerable selfs and being great role models for many couples out there.
I’ve been following your journey for years, and have always looked up to John through TDK for his perspectives on life, parenting & relationships.
Your recent couple channel was a great blessing to my 5-year long relationship, as it showed us that love is not enough, and that successful relationships take a lot of work, accommodating & tough conversations.
I particularly LOVE your recent video on couple finances (and the Google Docs you shared), as it helped us worked through some tough differences on finances, and how those could be a result of our upbringing.
Thank you for all that you do, and I look forward to journeying with the both of you into 2024. 🥰
Happy New Year John and Pat~!!! My favorite video is actually the one that talked about financial issues, because I could relate to it so much... When you were talking about bankruptcy stuff and the people coming and pasting bright stickers on every single furniture, I remember the plastic wrap that came after and me asking my mum why they were wrapping up our sofa, and where were we going to sit to watch TV (Think I was in lower primary back then XD).. That memory made me super grateful for how I turn out now, and I could appreciate how stable my little family is, just by not being in debt.
Thanks for being so forthcoming with all the good, bad and funny stories, and more importantly, actually crucial information~~!
Hi John & Pat,
Thanks for sharing your very personal thoughts and relationship journey!
My most favourite video would be the one where you and Pat randomly drove to JB and shared about your Bali "experience", which was also they very first video I watched on your channel! LOL! I even watched that together with my wife and totally gave us a new perspective, and ever since then, we have been watching your videos.
Kudos for the nice content again, no BS! Happy 2024!
I like the “it broke my heart episode” - especially when y’all were so real with the daily happenings in your life (eg quarreling over lunch) . I guess it shows that life is as it is and we are all humans with emotions and you dont just show the highlights in your relationship!!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Hello John & Pat,
not a consumer of the daily ketchup here but I began watching this channel by watching the reno tour, and then got more interested in your love story which was the next video you posted!! In general I love all your videos, but especially the ones where you guys are vulnerable in sharing. Like 'Our relationship got stagnant'. But at the same time I love watching you guys interact as a couple like the QNA episode.
Happy 2024!!
hey john and pat! thank you for being the big sister and brother of the creative space in sg and also for young couples seeking advice :) falling into the demographic of being both a creator and also part of a young couple, i really look up to you guys and always look forward to the content you two put out! my favourite is the one where you guys celebrated your anniversary and talked about how you navigated or prevented a relationship from being stagnant. it gave me a glimpse of what it may be like in my own relationship in future and how we can navigate it! have a blessed 2024 🤍
I really like the video when you discussed your financial journey. So much ups and downs but u remained supportive of each other. It is also nice to know that we are not alone in those down times. Most people go through them but try to hide. Thank you for the great sharing and inspiring us to keep going. May 2024 be even better for you both!
I really enjoy your channel content. Other channels don’t intrigue as much as this and TDK. I really should bring my wife to this place after seeing the vouch of quality and seeing the chef prepare. I think the best video this far is the one on the financial situation cause that resonated a lot with me and my wife. Thank God we’re debt free now and looking to keep it that way. Life did make a huge turn for the better for us ever since then. 2023 was an awesome year for me for me because first, I went debt free, second, I got a newborn child by accident and finally, invested in new business venture with my partners and taking the first steps of being an entrepreneur (my dream job since poly days).
Thanks John and Pat, Belated Merry Xmas and Happy 2024 New Year.
My favorite video was the one where you guys shared about your experience with debt and going through it as a couple. It was nice to see both of your take on the situation as it's something that I had personally struggled with in my current relationship.
Happy new year to you guys! The best video that you have done (so far) is the finances one.
Please continue to create more content in the years ahead :D
Hello! Have been watching your videos since the first launch and i love how up close and personal the life is!
Hope to see more upcoming videos about you guys!
Hi Pat, I feel you’re the older sister I never had 🥹 I appreciate you being so honest & open with your experiences, and I love listening to you sharing them. John as well, I watched since the After Hours days, and I never realised how much you went through and how interesting your POV was. I hope you guys continue making more videos!!!!❤ I really enjoyed watching the video where both of you shared your struggles with financials & your tips etc. Happy New Year!!
ahhh i love yall so much & its so hard to pick a favourite video 🥹 but i think my fav would be the couples finance video... yall r so real (& honestly v helpful) when it comes to sharing tough topics esp for couples & i rly admire yall for that!
My Favourite video from you guys is the financial discussion episode! It's very realistic and you guys were so open and vulnerable in sharing difficulties from your partnership together which was very heartwarming. Thank you for going the extra mile and providing google docs resources too! Really appreciate it (: Your content is something that my partner and I use for discussion & to watch for fun! So I really enjoy ALL the videos
Nuru massage has to be the favourite video, hands down. Sharing intimate and non mainstream content is what really makes this special and unique amongst all other channels available.
Fav video is still the channel's first video! Very relatable 😂 and it shows that persistence and perseverance wins the race in the end! 🤣
Merry X'mas! my fave video is your second video with the haunted house story. Always nice to hear about supernatural happenings from a "credible" first hand encounter.
FAV VID IS THE OUR RS GOT STAGNANT ❤️❤️❤️ love love love the dynamics and all the things that yall so openly share! me and my boyf watches ur contents tgt and we pick up things to adopt into our rs as well whenever we find applicable! just wanted to say a big thank u for all the advice and quality content given in 2023 both here and in TDK and quoting from the double date video w ryan and cherylene abt how if anyth happens to the both of u guys they wouldnt believe in love anym and i truly agree I HOPE THIS DOESNT BRING ANY UNNECESSARY STRESS TO YALL its just how much we look up to ur rs! wishing the both of u a great great 2024 🎉
Hi John and Pat, love how you both are sharing life experiences in helping everyone to walk less of a bad path and even providing advices on how we can walk out of it and stuff really feel like there is always something to takeaway from every video!
Hi Pat and John! My fav episode is "it broke my heart..." because I also realised how important communication is through my own experience and each person's style of comm or way to feel loved can be so different we might think what we want is what they want as well. I loved how you guys went through it and hold healthy conversations like this. Love u guys!
The it broke my heart... episode was my favourite but not being cheesy i do feel like yall are getting better at doing this and it just feels really good to watch. hope yall are gonna stay happy doing this and do what yall want and love to do
Subscribed since the start!!! Video liked 👍🏻 I like the video where John proposed to Pat!! It was very toughing & memorable 🥰💖
Happy new year John & Pat!Chanced upon the video that you shared about how you met and your relationship over the years and I’ve been following the channel ever since! Super can relate to the video since my wife and I have been together since schooling days too.
Can’t wait to see what else you have in store for 2024. Wishing you and your families all the best! Cheers!
I love your channel. It's very organic and personal. There's hardly any issues with how you guys deliver your true self. Having fun and sharing your disappointments and adventures is what I truly appreciate.
HI JOHN AND PAT!!
thanks for the generous giveaway. i really enjoyed the video where yall talked about staying attractive for your partner. so easy to fall into the mode of just being comfortable and thinking its no longer important to look good for them. enjoy the candid sharing by yall and while im typically not much of a person who likes watching people talk, your channel somehow hits different. happy new year!
Heyy, I am grateful I have chanced upon your channel through my girlfriend and because of her we always watch your videos together and also caught up on those I have missed from the start.
I think my favourite video has to be the QnA because its the realest thing I have seen a couple on youtube do, sharing about life experiences, how to conduct ourselves and being the best for one another, which we and especially I can learn a lot from. Thanks for making real content where you are open to share with so many peopole your own relationship where people can learn from and not sugar coat your lives together.
Blessed New Year and heres to a great 2024!
Never had doubts about the quality of your clogs because I really enjoyed the productions of the other talk show that John hosts. Appreciate the work you both put in to churn out contents to entertain/ educate us :) hard to pick a fav, enjoyed them thoroughly and looking forward to more to come !
Hello,
Really love the contents you have showed us and sharing your journey with us! :) One of the videos that I like is when John is talking about the debt that he has as I can understand it may not be so easy to talk/share the issue with your loved ones or anyone! Continue to do more videos to share about your journey! :)
Hi internet parents. Always appreciate the realness of you since real talk. Favourite video would be the 5 figure debt! My family was stuck in a cycle of debt for a long time, including now, even though it is not of my own action.
Thank you for being so open to share!!
Hello! Cut to the chase - I love the raw and honest content/views you both present. Fav epi so far - finances and debt. Happy 2024!
Love the couple channel - loving Pat's ❤energy & laughter!! Happy to see a couple that is being true with one another.
the fav video is the episode about debt. cause wadafug, tea and drama and redemption arc.
I’ve forgotten about Kenny Rogers! I love their biscuits! I found your channel today, i love that you guys are so candid, its so refreshing! Plus Pat is so beautiful warm and just great lady. U are a lucky guy!
happy new year John and Pat! thank you for creating this channel and sharing such raw and insightful thoughts with all of us. my partner and i watch every video and are looking forward to what's in store in 2024! OUR FAVOURITE VIDEO is definitely the QnA on remarrying because Pat's reaction (folding arms & pouting) had us in stitches and still gets us everytime we watch it again.
wishing you guys all the happiness and a blessed 2024!!
Not in Singapore but just want to comment on how much I love your channel and glad you guys are slowing down the uploads to once a fortnight next year :) love you both!!!
Hi John & Pat,
Happy 2024 to you two!
My favourite video is about the couples finance as it was something similar to what my wife and I went through before, which is relatable. Thank you guys for being so open and honest about your relationship.
Looking forward to more videos!
Hi John and Pat, your 15th-anniversary episode resonated deeply, showcasing the enduring love, commitment, and unwavering support that have been the pillars of your relationship. Your story is a beacon of hope, a reminder that true love is nurtured through dedication and choosing each other daily. Here's to the beautiful journey you've shared and to many more years filled with love, joy, and cherished moments. Thank you for inspiring us all! 🌟💕
Hi John and Pat. Thanks for sharing about your lives. I liked the video about credit card debt. It had many practical tips for people who might end up in a similar situation. Happy new year!
hi John and pat! my favourite video is the proposal video hehe. Have a happy new year:)
I enjoyed this episode the best. Covers the entire highlights for 2023!!
Hi John and Pat, my favourite video so far is Pat's SQ journey. Cus my wife is also in SQ and I can totally understand what Pat went through. AND JOHN WE SAME COURSE SAME YEAR IN TP 🤙🏻🤓
hallo pat and john!!!! my favourite video is the one where you talk about how you escaped the friend zone!! it was so enjoyable to watch the old clips of your relationship and it really put a smile on my face because it was so cute hahahahha i find almost everything about this channel very relatable and seeing other people’s comments saying the same makes me feel less alone! ❤
Hi John and Pat, my favorite video is "I quit 1 week before my bond ended...(it was that bad)", because you guys were really vulnerable and talked about the importance of mental health, and making sure that you are in a good space mentally. It's nice to know everyone struggles through various situations and come out with lots of lessons. A happy new year to both of you!!!!
Hi John, hi Pat,
Thank you so much for the time yall have put into each video. I know it must be tough to share these personal thoughts to everyone and i comment that bravery. Of all the videos, i liked the "How to get out of the friend zone" the most. As the video shown how yall didint started this beautiful relationship without a few hiccups along the way.
Hi John and Pat! the video i enjoyed the most was the one that you guys talked about you financial debt and how yall pull through it. It was very touching to hear and made alot of your audience know the improtance of financial literacy. Thank you for all your videos and I wish you guys all the best for 2024!
I really enjoy all your videos because you keep it honest and real! My favourite episode is the one about putting in effort in our relationship and not being complacent
Hey Pat/John, I rly enjoy all your videos truly, thanks for the fresh content always! Fav has to be the nuru massage. Thanks for all the videos, hoping for more in 2024!
Hi!! Stumbled upon your channel and really like the realness of your videos, as well as the vibes and really insightful advices. My favourite video is the "If we don't put in the effort, then we should break up" video, because it really acts as a reminder that in a relationship, we must constantly remind ourselves to put in effort and not take things for granted. All the best for your channel!! Hope to see more videos sharing great and real advices :)
My fav video is “ one month after moving in” I love seeing you guys cook and the banter between you guys are so entertaining and fun to watch 🫶🏼
Hi John and Pat!!! I love the video that you talked about your journey with your finances and how you’ve involved each other and help each other through the tough times. It shows me how to support my future partner in this tough and difficult but important area in the relationship!!
hey john and pat ◡̈ fav video is defo the Q&A! love that you both are so real and genuine in your videos; and so open to sharing the struggles you guys deal with. have always admired how you guys are so lovey dovey despite being together for so long, which seems pretty rare these days. a lot of takeaways even for someone who’s in the early stages of a relationship but battling through some tough fights. thank you soooo much ♡
My favourite episode got to be the episode about Nuri Massage! 💆♀️ tbh don’t have to stress about delivering informational content!! I really do love vlogs or videos about both of your daily life- which makes it really authentic ! 😊
Love the authenticity of you both, thanks for sharing the realities of couple life. I love this video which summarised your 2023 recap. Looking forward to even more contents in 2024! While you have both came to terms not having a baby, I wish that miracles will happen magically ❤
I loved all the videos so far because they are all so raw and honest and there’s always 1 or 2 things to learn but my favourite video has got to be Pat’s experience as a crew because I totally resonated with it and I quit before my bond ended too 😝 It was a big risk to take but one worth taking for my mental health :)
I enjoyed the video 'Hiding 5-FIGURE DEBT from my wife' because this is a actually an real issue some couples out there faces and it is not spoken frequently about because some may feel that it is an embarrassing thing to share with others. It is really encouraging to hear about how your stayed with each other through thick and thin, trying to help each other deal with the problem instead of fighting and breaking up with each other which may seem like an easier option.
Looking forward to your new videos in 2024! Cheers
Hi guys. I deeply enjoyed your video about your finances. I feel most couples don't discuss openly about money matters and I believe the video encouraged more couples to talk about money 😊
Hi John & Pat!! my favourite episode from yall would be the Q&A episode where both of you answered questions regarding your relationship and shared with us more about your relationship. I watched it with my SO and it prompted us to also discuss on the same questions & helped us be more vulnerable , open with each other & learn things about each other that we otherwise wouldn't think about. I think your answers and the experiences that yall shared were also very refreshing to hear & very relatable esp the part about different religions HAHAH :))
Hello John and Pat! Happy 2024🎉 I have been following John since After Hours and I was so excited when I find out that you guys have your own channel (about time!!). My favourite video is Pat’s ex-SIA stewardess experience. My dream job is to be a cabin crew so I love watching videos on this topic. I often see many stories on the upsides of this job but the grass is not always greener on the other side, so listening to Pat’s experience was really interesting and eye-opening. I appreciate Pat’s transparency on how the job affected her mental health, and I admire her courage to leave the job before her bond ended and putting herself first. Excited for what’s to come on this channel! Have a blessed new year HUAT AH!
To Pat and John,
Thank you so much for taking the time and effort to make such raw and quality content. I really look up to you guys, watching your videos makes me feel less alone. I always look forward to watching! Im sure it is the same for many others. “Internet parents” is a good way to put it. Happy new year! ❤
Hi John and Pat! Not gonna pick any video because I enjoyed every single one of them!! Much appreciated for being so real, learnt so much from you guys through the sharing! No matter the frequency of the uploads, I will still be here watching every single of them so please don’t tire yourself out or risk hurting your relationship to push out videos every 2 weeks. Cheers and HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!!
Hi guys! Really enjoy watching your channel with my husband, thanks for sharing so openly from finances, intimacy to a whole other range of things! The video on debt and how you guys overcame it was especially enlightening on how you handle challenges as a couple.
Your videos have become a go-to source of inspiration and knowledge for me. Especially your content about relationships. I personally am in an 8 years of ongoing relationship with my now husband of 7 months, I could definitely relate both of your perspectives. Thank you and keep up the fantastic work! Have a great weekend and a very happy new year ahead🎉
Merry Christmas, John and Pat!! Thank you for giving us fans a chance to just show our appreciation for y'all taking the time to share your lives.
My favourite episode has to be regarding how y'all shared about the stagnation in y'alls relationship. I related so much to it because I'm exactly like john that needs his space and my partner is like pat. Seeing y'all talk about compromise and the importance of talking it out made me feel like I wasn't alone and what it takes to have a sustainable loving relationship.
Even if I don't win the giveaway, I'm so grateful that this channel started. I am slightly sad about the fortnightly posting, but happy that y'all are taking more time to just be together and live life. Much love, you two! ❤️✨
My favourite episode is the “Our relationship got stagnant” . I had a fight with my fiancé just before this episode was out and when I watch that it was so relatable and I sent the video to him to tell him couples all have their ups and downs.. both of us are loyal viewers since that episode.. Thanks for creating this channel! 🎉
Hi John and Pat, i really loved your train of thoughts (especially on todays video when you mentioned about the trade off about having or not having kids, and if you do not how would you want to live your life). I think this train of thought was really good as it shows us that there is always pros and cons, and not to follow with societal norms.
The video on the 5 digit debt and also how you incorporated the worksheet that both of you went for before you both got married left me with very deep impression as money is always a very sensitive topic to talk about. HAHAH. Always a joy to be watching your videos as it brings alot of insights and is very relatable to what we are going through.
Appreciate both of you sharing all these thoughts on screen as it requires alot of vulnerability to put yourself out there where many people are watching.
Keep rocking!!! Both of you are such an inspiration esp thru the videos we can tell a lot about your values and character. 😊
My favourite video is the one on Couples Finance!! As a student entering the working world I think it’s something to think about soon, but apart from that it’s also really heartwarming to see y’all be so upfront with each other, and not giving up even at each other’s lowest points ❤