The Narcissistic Breakup

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  • Опубликовано: 24 дек 2022
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Комментарии • 51

  • @edgreen8140
    @edgreen8140 Год назад +19

    Don't react. Control your emotions. You know they want a reaction.

  • @Libbylou77krtc
    @Libbylou77krtc Год назад +18

    He Intentionally started a fight between Us so I'd be forced to want to Break Up with him. So he didn't have to do the breaking up part.

  • @cathy_clarinet
    @cathy_clarinet Год назад +4

    This is almost exactly how the Narc operated. You could be literally writing about that situation

  • @Ashforoc
    @Ashforoc Год назад +4

    Oh my god! My ex literally dumped me over the phone, then didn't allow me to pick up my stuff from our appartment while she was there so she wouldn't have to see me. And then months later, she actually called me up "to see how I was doing" all the while telling me about how she met someone new and it's going great and she's in love.
    So much of this has rung true. I'm in the process of seeking help and finding myself again and this is really resonating with me. Thank you for putting me on/helping me to stay on the path to self-knowing, -healing and -growing.

    • @RawMotivations
      @RawMotivations  Год назад

      Thank you for sharing, tough journey you have there. hope all is well...Your recovery and healing matters! Here's an app to track your progress, talk to your community and focus on your healing! You can try downladng the NARC App at narcapp.com/

  • @CC-br9qg
    @CC-br9qg Год назад +1

    this is literally what happened to me word for word

  • @jamigiuffre2978
    @jamigiuffre2978 Год назад

    My ex got to the point where he HATED me for holding on to the relationship. He would get physically abusive and tell me he wanted me to leave, so he could find someone who REALLY loved him. 🤯🙁

  • @Libbylou77krtc
    @Libbylou77krtc Год назад +2

    Yes, my X did that he said, I was too sensitive. He was using his methadone clinic as his place to look for New supplies & I mean new supplies more than one.

  • @pootietang9596
    @pootietang9596 Год назад +4

    🤔.. That's exactly what happened to me 100%

    • @RawMotivations
      @RawMotivations  Год назад +1

      Hope you find some healing or way to heal!

  • @blackpeach5
    @blackpeach5 Год назад

    this is exactly what my husband has done n still tries.

  • @blancamendoza2784
    @blancamendoza2784 Год назад +1

    He told me that he loves my company that's why he doesn't want me to go.

  • @rebekahsumer7980
    @rebekahsumer7980 Год назад

    He just ghosted without reason and between normal comunication. ))

  • @ajdeb5758
    @ajdeb5758 Год назад

    Seeing and hearing this, im so glad that I did the breakup myself, resisted the hoovering and the tears and went no contact. It was because I knew what was going on after finding Raw Motivations on youtube who actually described my now ex and the relationship.

  • @hoomansbagira5790
    @hoomansbagira5790 Год назад

    When he tells you a woman from the past contacted him at night hahaha

  • @desireortiz4836
    @desireortiz4836 Год назад +2

    Ben,Merry Christmas to you,Kayla and gorgeous Sophia,God bless you all beautiful family.Feliz Navidad🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤🎄🎄🐕🐕🎅🎅🎅and thank you for all you that you have done,for all of us.Thank you Ben,Keep it up with your great advances and great content.

  • @rebekahjette6304
    @rebekahjette6304 Год назад +1

    Thank you Ben, for the gift of all your videos this year! Merry Christmas to you and your family!🕊️

  • @lovelysunflower5782
    @lovelysunflower5782 Год назад +4

    Thank you for this. All of this happened to me and i was very draining and crazy. I’m so glad God brought me out. Thank you for this especially on the holidays. Merry Christmas.

    • @RawMotivations
      @RawMotivations  Год назад

      Happy to help! Hope you find some healing, holidays can be lonely and talking to friends/community can make you feel better! Wish you the best

  • @angelakeely5859
    @angelakeely5859 Год назад +2

    I was told I was "paranoid", even though they were actually the paranoid one,go figure😏

  • @Kimp1975
    @Kimp1975 Год назад

    Yesss, so true. Thank you and Merry Christmas to you and your family!!!

  • @rockybalboa4593
    @rockybalboa4593 Год назад +1

    Yup!!! Mine was so close to discard but would then suddenly go dead silent and stop responding to the argument via text. I would keep texting and I was angry so of course it would make me look crazy. Occasionally he would lie and then respond later claiming he was on a conference call but I just know by intuition it was all BS and lies. Then he’d say “well I obviously can’t change your mind so I won’t even try.” Ultimately I got discarded via text. He said my ranting while he went silent was the “final nail in the coffin”. He had someone else lined up the whole time.

    • @RawMotivations
      @RawMotivations  Год назад

      hope this video helps ruclips.net/video/-H9jxBQQ9tA/видео.html

    • @rockybalboa4593
      @rockybalboa4593 Год назад +1

      @@RawMotivations Thank you! I personally do believe it was a final discard for me because I blatantly called him out and told him what he was with plenty of evidence and he made it clear he no longer wants me in his life - probably because I’m a threat and the shame would be too great to endure. He’s deleted all his online profiles and is very much avoiding going anywhere where he may run into me in public. The injury and fear of exposure may even cause him to move. Who knows? He knows I have proof of many abusive things he both did and said to me.

  • @rinapandya3069
    @rinapandya3069 Год назад

    I went no contact for a week and went back and he already went on a dating website and then said you dumped me so to avoid the pain he needed to meet other women. I was thinking how can you do that. But again it was my fault. I then called him out on his narcissistic behaviour which he partly agreed but then raged when I said he said he was entitled he accused me of gaslighting and then blocked me and went no contact. Got no closure 😪.

  • @lonesmoedove74smith97
    @lonesmoedove74smith97 Год назад +2

    Told all the time I was overreacting and crazy all the time. Or I was way too jealous. And the cheating was my fault for not giving him enough attention. I started having anxiety again.

    • @RawMotivations
      @RawMotivations  Год назад

      Narcs tend to do that - Narcissists Make You Feel Crazy
      ruclips.net/video/Wd2UG_21Zy0/видео.html

  • @blancamendoza2784
    @blancamendoza2784 Год назад +1

    Yes he tells me I'm to emotionally, and jelouse.when I ask him if y find somebody , I'm happy for u.i hope what you find I wish u the best .

    • @RawMotivations
      @RawMotivations  Год назад

      What happens when you leave a narcissist? What is happening on the other side? What to expect?
      ruclips.net/video/nZiYTERUyOE/видео.html

  • @mzgreeneyez9048
    @mzgreeneyez9048 Год назад +1

    Exactly 💯

  • @V8RSWGN
    @V8RSWGN Год назад

    I wish I had known more about narcissism and controlling your reactions. My ex broke me down time and time again until I finally reacted. She had already been smearing me behind my back so she used my explosive reaction as the final nail in the coffin to show everyone how "crazy" I was

    • @RawMotivations
      @RawMotivations  Год назад

      Theres a lot who also feels the same, you are not alone in this journey . Hope you are feeling or doing better....hope this video helps Narcissists Smear Campaign | Three Reasons Why They Smear and What To Do About It ruclips.net/video/uBvlCddqgSs/видео.html

  • @Mothermochi
    @Mothermochi Год назад

    Lol mine told me:
    That he was bisexual.
    He told me about multiple friends propositioning him for sex
    Caught him sending photos to men
    Found out a about a pole dancer he was chatting with.
    Found out about a bunch of women he was grooming while I was pregnant.
    I didn’t react. Tried to understand what was going on with him until
    He kept pushing me in other ways until I broke under the pressure. then he could blame me for how awful our relationship was.

  • @Reubin2878
    @Reubin2878 Год назад +2

    😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @pauladuncanadams1750
    @pauladuncanadams1750 Год назад

    Yep. Psychopath. That's my ex. Almost exactly what happened. Except I never said a word about it. He's with me. Then, he starts talking about someone else. Then, he SAYS he's with someone else and we're through. Then, he's back like nothing happened. What an @zz!

  • @mzgreeneyez9048
    @mzgreeneyez9048 Год назад

    Exactly 💯