Becoming You in Your Own Horsemanship

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  • Опубликовано: 5 июн 2021
  • When working/training your horses, the importance of not getting locked in or stuck on the methods and ways of one particular approach.
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  • @lthorsemanship8150
    @lthorsemanship8150 3 года назад +28

    Something can always be learned from anyone, even if it's what not to do.

  • @katrinathompson6339
    @katrinathompson6339 2 года назад +8

    So Encouraging. 💜 I literally just got back from the barn wondering if I made the right decisions this morning (which included canceling a lesson) because my "feel" said my mare was just not tuned in even after our groundwork today. After she worked off her anxieties, calmed down and seemed focus my gut said "end on a good note and call it a day". I returned her to the pasture. Thank you Sir for sharing your wisdom. This video helped a developing horseman feel confident in her decisions. 😊

  • @gerrycoleman7290
    @gerrycoleman7290 3 года назад +17

    I have gotten pieces of information from dozens of great horseman sources, and I created my own style. The one thing that helped me the most is learning the horse's language (body language) and becoming an effective communicator with the horse. I have progressed to experiences 'one mind' with some of the horses. A great experience.

  • @karenatha7890
    @karenatha7890 2 года назад +4

    Please keep on making videos. I'm just someone who used to live for riding and just being with horses. They're very special animals in their sensitivity and intelligence. It's so wonderful to build a good relationship with a horse. They'll look after you just like you do them. Gotta be caring and gentle. Everything needs that.

  • @gerrycoleman7290
    @gerrycoleman7290 3 года назад +11

    Good advice: Take the time it takes so it takes less time. Go into that 'tool box' of experiences and pull out what you need to get the job done all the while thinking of what is in the best interests of the horse.

    • @priscillawilliams7142
      @priscillawilliams7142 2 года назад +1

      Great to hear the words, of a teacher I have learned allot from, good job. Savvy

  • @Jules-fh4rf
    @Jules-fh4rf 2 года назад +1

    Some of the best advice I try to remember is "slow down" when things go amiss. An old examiner told me this during a certification- I was on the clock, running out of time and getting frantic. Sounds counterintuitive but slowing down saved me. I've found this philosophy helps with most everything life throws at you. Wise words, Dwayne.

  • @sidilicious11
    @sidilicious11 2 года назад +1

    Coming back into horses as an adult I was stumped by a very challenging mare. I found Pat Parelli and devoured his info for years which was a huge help for me. I was ready for more and found Alexandra Kurland and clicker training. Then my next horse presented me with a whole new set of challenges, and this time I had RUclips and so many wonderful famous and unknown trainers to watch. What I can’t find on RUclips I figure out on my own. I’ve loved horse since I was born, and still learn new stuff from them and with them every day.

  • @rowan54
    @rowan54 3 года назад +8

    Yes stay with exploring the philosophy, its much more interesting and helpful

  • @Trapezius8oblique
    @Trapezius8oblique 2 года назад +1

    Wise words. Ryan Rose, Caroline Rider, Warwick Schiller, are really good. Some talk about catching, working horses in paddocks.

  • @AndyTheCornbread
    @AndyTheCornbread 3 года назад +3

    I've known Warwick for a number of years now and I can say without a doubt I have learned the most from him, but I have learned a ton from others you mentioned as well. I have trained everything from jumpers to dressage to working cow horses, to buggy horses and I have found that no matter what I am doing Warwick's "principles of training" get the job done. How I apply those principles varies from horse to horse but at the root of it all the principles that work for me are the ones he describes in his "principles of training" videos.

  • @whitneynickerson8018
    @whitneynickerson8018 2 года назад +4

    I really appreciate all of your videos. I’ve learned so much from you in such a short time; I didn’t grow up in this lifestyle and although I’ve immersed myself into this culture, there’s so much I’ve never been taught. Thank you and your wife for the work you put into these videos!

  • @MrGrxxx123
    @MrGrxxx123 2 года назад

    Horsemanship is a science & art

  • @jackgrayson832
    @jackgrayson832 3 года назад +1

    I am way old... learned to work and train animals with my dad and uncles... had dogs and horses all my young life... the philosophy you talk about is all one needs, learn from an animal what is required to make a working team... sounds to me like you had to learn all this on your own... glad you did... working on grand and great grate grand children now... hop some of it sticks... good luck...

  • @garystow1868
    @garystow1868 3 года назад +3

    The horsemen you've named are going influences. The one you didn't name can remain nameless, not a fan either. Very wise words. Having the courage to try in great. From Horseheads, Ny.

  • @Wingman115
    @Wingman115 3 года назад +1

    Hi I’m Jon. Just wanted to say. Great channel and content. I’m 55 years old and agree that these skills and talks need to be documented on video. Been on RUclips 15 years. If there is anything I can do to help you with the channel feel free to reach out.

  • @deanjenkins4716
    @deanjenkins4716 3 года назад +2

    This I can 💯 percent in total agreement with everything you said in this video! We all can learn bites and pieces from all the called Professional trainers! Time is ALWAYS on your side if people rush through training horses they will get hurt or the horse well! Sometimes with certain horses it's best just to back off when they don't understand what you are trying to teach them! As a person that cares lives horses it's your responsibility to figure out away to teach them in a way that The horse that is being trained understands

  • @horsecrazypeep101
    @horsecrazypeep101 2 года назад

    Aawww! I don’t like Clint Anderson and Parelli because they don’t encourage the most humane horseman ship methods (and their techniques can be abusive when placed in the wrong hands )
    Meanwhile I’d rather listen to horsemen like you and Rick Gore. I observe that horses love you to death. I loved that mare video you did. While the mare was irritated, she was going to sleep underneath you. I could tell she trusted you.
    Your personality is magnificent too and so calming. I wish I could pack up my things and work on your farm for the rest of my life.
    In my book, the worst / incompetent people somehow find themselves popular while good, honest men (like you ) have to work a bit harder.
    You’re great and I’m so happy you found a way to connect with your dream . Hopefully in 7 years I’ll be able to connect with my dream one day . ☺️

  • @guitarplayer5611
    @guitarplayer5611 2 года назад +1

    Great video!

  • @troyspain7073
    @troyspain7073 2 года назад

    Damn now I want apple butter! Power of suggestion! Keep it up!

  • @Peyton.Hagarty
    @Peyton.Hagarty Год назад

    I needed this video. I’ve been getting into riding a ton. And my mom had tickets to Clinton Andersons walk about tour. I learned a ton from it but my girlfriend who’s much more experienced than I am was telling me about why she wasn’t a fan of him and why she doesn’t like him, I couldn’t understand it very well at the time until I processed all the information for myself. But my family is all about Clinton Anderson. So I was at a cross roads on how I should go about learning to train my own horse and the fundamentals/training/groundwork. Thank you Dwane for helping me understand what my patient girlfriend was trying to explain to me. Take in what I like and be aware of what I don’t, learn as much as you can from who you can but you don’t have to only think there’s a certain way of doing things. Listen to who you like. Learn what you don’t, And Become your own trainer.

  • @369whitehorse2
    @369whitehorse2 3 года назад +2

    I can tell you I trained one horse when I was a teenager she was an older mare she was the best my auntie had some donkeys and I used to ride after them I just let them run where ever I just rode after them thru the rocks thru the brush and the mare I named salena got really good at herding what ever you get behind she had Cruz control she knew her job and was not lazy nothing got away from her she had the speed to keep up with wild horses and she was very cowey but I have roped her leg riding her and she bucked but I never feel off her I gave her to my grandpa cuz I was leaving the reservation and I never seen her again I herd all kinds of different things what happened to her I wish I still had some of her offspring I came back to rez about ten years ago we have horses but nothing like her my step dad has roping horses but there always limping I agree with the other video about short stocky horses

  • @a.a.5366
    @a.a.5366 Год назад

    I know I'm just catching up on your videos, but keep the philosophy coming! The applications span outside of your noble profession. Life lessons...

  • @brucelee142
    @brucelee142 2 года назад

    That was a great talk Dwayne.I learnt a lot about horsemanship when I reeducated and sold horses for my living.In sourcing these sale horses I came across a lot of unheard of people who had done exactly what you said in your presentation.They became their own horsepeople because they didnt have anything else .I believe they had a genuine desire to connect at the deepest level with these horses.When this happens the horse resonates with this desire and energy and actually teaches us what communication works in the horse world.I have learnt more from a housewife with a pony in the backyard than all the other learning.I too resonate with Warwick and Pat.Its the resonating on that deeper level that the horse truly understands.From their comes trust, respect and fun for both horse and person.These beautiful animals are not put in our lives for our ego.They are put here for our soul.

  • @bradcoulson9494
    @bradcoulson9494 2 года назад

    That video is just what I needed to hear. Thank you!

  • @shelleycooper4890
    @shelleycooper4890 2 года назад +2

    I love this, it has taken me so long to ask what can I do with this horse today where I am. Instead of thinking of all the things I can't do. You might be interested in Elsa Sinclair's work, she trained a mustang with no tools, no halter lead rope, whips, round pens or even fences. I can't do everything she does, cause like you say I am not her. But it sure has shown me how much you can do with very little. Thanks for your wisdom, they should put you on Warwick Schiller's podcast!.

    • @hhlagen
      @hhlagen 2 года назад

      Wouldn’t that be so cool? Warwick and Dwayne hanging out talking horses. I’d have to say these 2 guys have turned my whole head around on how I hang with my horse now.
      Always good food for thought from both

  • @elainesgroi1709
    @elainesgroi1709 2 года назад

    So true and so well said! Appreciate your videos and common sense!

  • @dancallister8314
    @dancallister8314 3 года назад

    Really enjoy your channel! Keep up the great content and wisdom you share. God Bless!👍🤠

  • @samfletcher1617
    @samfletcher1617 2 года назад

    Well said. As you alluded to, something else that a lot of us don't have is the big fancy set-ups that a lot of these famous trainers have. Figuring out how to do it well with what'cha got is an important part of discovering yourself.

  • @priscillawilliams7142
    @priscillawilliams7142 2 года назад

    Hey DeWayne, I am so glad that you shared your ability to go to the school of self tought.
    I understand what you are saying, and appreciate
    How hard it is, you have a natural love for horses.
    Soft hands make a soft horses. Your naming all
    the horse trainers that I have also found information from. I hope that filly works out for you.
    Thanks again for sharing, I enjoy your videos.

  • @nancyb6618
    @nancyb6618 2 года назад

    I love your videos! They're sure reminding me about what's important. I'm going to a Buck Brannaman clinic with my horse in a couple weeks. I've audited a few. For some reason I'm unable to get my horse to load in a trailer. I've been working really hard to get this working. Trying different horsemen's approach. I'm not giving up. But it makes me feel better to hear what you were talking about!
    Thank you!

  • @randysmith5802
    @randysmith5802 3 года назад

    Very well put!

  • @jpthrift9210
    @jpthrift9210 2 года назад

    I sure agree with all of this information whether your training dogs or horses, because I’ve trained both. I have done the same thing over the last 20 years ( longer with dogs). I have learned bits and pieces (no pun intended) from every trainer I have laid eyes on. Good or bad it’s always more info in my tool bag.
    Dewayne I thoroughly enjoy your videos and I am trying to watch them all even though a lot of this content isn’t new to me, it’s good stuff and I like listening to you apply the philosophy to your experiences. Keep up the videos. Happy trails from Jawga.

  • @Alex-horsman
    @Alex-horsman 2 года назад

    I fully agree with you, I do as you advised and came to this myself too. Thanks! :)

  • @craig5477
    @craig5477 2 года назад +1

    Dewayne, I listen to you specifically because you don’t push a dogma. I never heard you say this is the way you do it & it’s the only way. Teaching any philosophy takes more insight than pushing dogma. I can tell by the comments left here that generally speaking you’ve got a group of like minded individuals. We don’t do everything the same but we all belong to the same club.

  • @edeneverson2226
    @edeneverson2226 2 года назад

    Oh wow, this is so timely for me!

  • @lauraalbertson7821
    @lauraalbertson7821 2 года назад

    Wow one of the best talks ever ! I have listened to those trainers too . And like then ones you do . I will have a 4 mos old Colt in October. Your wisdom was so encouraging! 💜🐴💜 ps. What cool land you have .

  • @joelhamilton6720
    @joelhamilton6720 2 года назад

    Awesome wisdom
    Thank you sir

  • @TheKadecan
    @TheKadecan 2 года назад

    Great video and I so agree! God bless

  • @Kenneth-bf1gn
    @Kenneth-bf1gn 3 года назад

    Well said. Thanks

  • @rotaylor2237
    @rotaylor2237 2 года назад

    I have truly been thankful to find your videos and listen to you as a horseman an a Christian Dwayne. As the misfit in my family, horseman and odd one out no one understands my drive or passion for this life style. Let alone the fact I want to do what you do and I’m a woman. Is there any encouragement you could offer? Any help for someone that’s been riding for 24 years and wants to be where you are? Because my mom claims because I am not a man I’m incapable of this life. I built a fence for my horses practically by myself and work hard to take care of everything, plus train my own animals. Anything you could offer I would appreciate and prayer for the decisions I make. Thank you. God bless.

    • @DryCreekWranglerSchool
      @DryCreekWranglerSchool  2 года назад

      Being a misfit is not all together a bad thing. What one has to do is simply define for them selves what their dream is, determine logically and realistically if their dream is worthwhile, and then pursue it. And never quit. I have been trying to get to where I am right now for over 20 years, and I’m just now starting to see it happen.

  • @wesleycollins4314
    @wesleycollins4314 3 года назад

    I worked one two summers on a ranch and still follow the values I learned while there at 15 I’m now 43 and a professional driver and have trained or helped train a few horses in my life what I’ve found about the studying and learning. it works no matter what career you follow. The nameless “ horseman” anyone with any sense won’t follow him just goes against everything I’ve experienced or learned

  • @robbymcintosh9069
    @robbymcintosh9069 3 года назад

    I've been blessed with a horse that's way more intelligent than I am. I learned to "read his behavior" and after that he taught me all about himself. We weren't in a big hurry to get know each other and it has really paid off. God's peace to all, be good to your horse!

  • @rustyshahan935
    @rustyshahan935 3 года назад

    I just recently ran across your channel. Really good philosophy sir.

  • @goodolboy-xv6mn
    @goodolboy-xv6mn 2 года назад +5

    Love your stuff, the guy Im sold on is Clinton Anderson (Frustration begins where knowledge ends. )

  • @petrairene
    @petrairene 2 года назад +1

    Warwick Schiller is the best !

  • @charlesschnepp5358
    @charlesschnepp5358 2 года назад

    am really enjoying you grew up in kansas and nebraska learning how to Ride,Shoot and tell the Truth thats another video for u to do TheCowboy Way

  • @davidjensen4793
    @davidjensen4793 2 года назад

    And never run out of "TRY"!

  • @roberthambly9926
    @roberthambly9926 2 года назад

    Thanks this helped me a lot;

  • @eugenebentley4055
    @eugenebentley4055 2 года назад

    I appreciate your viewpoint. Knowledge is power, but God as made us all individuals, we each have to apply that knowledge in our own fashion. Thank you for your insights. Keep up the good work.

  • @laneh1968
    @laneh1968 3 года назад

    That’s pretty nice looking country up there.

  • @liamrooney5133
    @liamrooney5133 2 года назад

    Well said.

  • @jgndev
    @jgndev 3 года назад

    Good comments, agreed.

  • @marylynnblack9258
    @marylynnblack9258 2 года назад

    I really like your videos and find that what you say is true in my experiences with horses. I certainly agree with taking some from a number of trainers and doing what fits you. A good word. I find that the BIBLE teaches principles to deal with other people and with horses. God bless you and thank you.

  • @robertwood7792
    @robertwood7792 2 года назад

    I'm a modern languages school teacher. When I want the students to get their heads around a new grammar point I give them 2 or 3 ways of remembering it and tell them 'pick what works for you'. Only that way will it stay in their long term memory.

  • @nedguy9220
    @nedguy9220 2 года назад

    so true

  • @Desertdweller1965
    @Desertdweller1965 3 года назад

    I started 20 years ago. I had people tell me stuff like “bite their ear, hobble them, then they won’t fight.”
    Then I was handed a video of Pat. At the time he was too influenced bu his nutty wife.
    I then found an Aussie (when he was skinny) “it’s just business mate” he connected the dots from where I was at to where I wanted to be.
    I’m currently working with a harshly worked 18 mare for my GF. They both are doing well.
    This narrative is my feelings that I can’t articulate.

  • @jth1195
    @jth1195 3 года назад

    As always , very good advice. You are a thinker. I have seen people with little horse experience , put a horse in a round pen and work him to death, because C.A. said he had to make an inside turn. Whaaaat?

  • @tracykimsey7145
    @tracykimsey7145 3 года назад +1

    I agree that you have to take these trainers knowledge and find your own ways that work. That being said I don't believe in some who uses a step by step method to train. Every horse is different and have to be trained different, so you always have to be able to see the needs of the horse.

  • @101DogSpots
    @101DogSpots 2 года назад

    Glad to see you not handicapping yourself with a round pen. But you don't need to work pressure/release either. I work 40 acres, no cross fencing, all voluntary engagement. I fixed more than a few meatmarket and "neurotic" horses that way. Time is your friend--take it :)

  • @lorinn7314
    @lorinn7314 2 года назад

    Patience is also the philosophy.

  • @louise27574
    @louise27574 2 года назад

    Dang -where did you come from? Love this !

  • @bojanmilkovic3843
    @bojanmilkovic3843 2 года назад

    The guy you donat wanna mention, could it be MR Clinton Anderson? I like that guy. I like you absolut 👍

  • @Themozartthug
    @Themozartthug 3 года назад +1

    How do you over come confidence, we have just bought a head shy horse and she has really knocked my confidence......my other half has owned horses for years so she's not botherd but I have only been doing it for 3 months and she's a big mare that jolts her head alot

    • @judithbeers7598
      @judithbeers7598 2 года назад

      Mozart, read what you can about horses that throw their head around, then learn to use a good tie down (matingale). You'll do fine, don't give up and be consistent with that horse. Gets something going that works for this horse, then don't be changing it up.

  • @charlesschnepp5358
    @charlesschnepp5358 2 года назад

    u r right have fun make bsure ur horse has fun bring him to family bbq turn him loose watch make sure he stays with party watch

  • @devinstacy680
    @devinstacy680 Год назад

    I’d love to come join the school and help out

  • @lorinn7314
    @lorinn7314 2 года назад

    This is true. Think out of the box, modify. Time is an issue.

  • @gerrycoleman7290
    @gerrycoleman7290 3 года назад

    Craig is pretty good.

  • @katherinepoletto7875
    @katherinepoletto7875 2 года назад

    Pressure and Release.Warrick does it.k.

  • @maxcorder2211
    @maxcorder2211 2 года назад +1

    Everyone can be useful, even if it’s only to be a bad example.

  • @javiergaracia1116
    @javiergaracia1116 2 года назад

    I study after everyone. You remind me if Virgil.

  • @rickgunier8314
    @rickgunier8314 3 года назад

    I would like to visit with you if possible cuz I'm interested in packing, I have been at this sort of stuff for several years grew up on a ranch worked on ranches. And I'm ready to start another chapter in my life. We have a lot of the same philosophies.

    • @DryCreekWranglerSchool
      @DryCreekWranglerSchool  3 года назад

      Rick, you’re welcome to email me any time at drycreekwrangler@gmail.com. I’m happy to help

  • @gagegibson879
    @gagegibson879 2 года назад

    I don't know sh!t from shinola about horses but this is how I learned to do with hounds you take what you can from others then you have to do you

  • @robertmeyers1557
    @robertmeyers1557 2 года назад

    Dewayne Bob from Butler Pa here have been leaning a lot from you thank you. So I am a hunter from the east I have an upcoming elk hunt with spotted horse ranch Jackson hole Wyoming . Hunted with them 2017 I have maybe 50 hours in the saddle newbie at best I do 5 hr trial rides at home to practice I don’t know what I don’t know can you please help me to be a good client . Gators with lace up boots?. How can I help I am 69 years old and pretty good shape. The ridding out their is for real. Thanks again. Non smoker but my Uncle loved Punch cigars

  • @myronschabe
    @myronschabe 2 года назад

    Really good video but just to balance things out Caroline Resnick and Stacey Westfall are very accomplished trainers, as well, and very good to throw into this mix of learning from different sources: (also because women will often be able to relate to other women's approaches easier as well as be inspired ).

  • @carlosrodriguez5900
    @carlosrodriguez5900 3 года назад

    What is the cigar brand? Looks like a maduro leaf. Thanks again.

    • @DryCreekWranglerSchool
      @DryCreekWranglerSchool  3 года назад +1

      I believe that particular cigar is a Charter Oak Grande, and I believe it is a Maduro... I have both in that brand, Maduro and Connecticut Shade

  • @javiergaracia1116
    @javiergaracia1116 2 года назад

    Actually train seven days a week from foal born twice daily to yearling. Hirses trained on command. But Moe importantly nit trainning but More like learning. And become one of them daily. We are a Family. It's after horae racing that it gets frustrated. Because I have to retrain them how to be them again not a product. How not to winse every time I raise my arm. How to just be horses and hang out. How to work how to be friends.

  • @fsusarge
    @fsusarge 2 года назад

    I would ride with you anytime, pard...anywhere.

  • @vernonsunna7756
    @vernonsunna7756 2 года назад

    Howdy Cowboy
    How often should I deworm a horse?
    How many days apart?

    • @DryCreekWranglerSchool
      @DryCreekWranglerSchool  2 года назад

      I de-worm my horses 4 times a year, at the start of each season change. An important note on that is to make sure that you rotate the type of wormer medicine that you use. If you use ivermectin every time, the worms will develop an immunity.

  • @charlesschnepp5358
    @charlesschnepp5358 2 года назад

    no round pen right on

  • @MrGrxxx123
    @MrGrxxx123 2 года назад

    Charter oak cigar?

  • @brianandglendaharkin9457
    @brianandglendaharkin9457 Год назад

    👍🏻🇦🇺💯

  • @thomasrichardson1191
    @thomasrichardson1191 3 года назад

    Thank you. I've been saying this for years and most people just don't get it.

  • @margaretporkolab7166
    @margaretporkolab7166 2 года назад

    This must have been a good video by judging the comments. Wish I could have heard it.

  • @dougjackson9206
    @dougjackson9206 2 года назад

    Must be Clinton Anderson

  • @stephensmithsbarsmustangra4
    @stephensmithsbarsmustangra4 2 года назад

    Clinton Anderson. Lol 😂

  • @katherinepoletto7875
    @katherinepoletto7875 2 года назад

    Dwayne Try Rick Goré out of Texas.He shoes his own takes care of his own shows you How To.he has No Round Pen.Warwick is ok but showy and Pat is too too Showy.
    You are much more Rick Goré.A Decent Man who loves his horses.he has a RUclips channel and slows down like you do.You'd probably become Best Buds.Just check him out.Cant hurt.i go to him 1st then look for you.you will find him.thanx for being honest and being You.kat,ct.

  • @marshallholley7213
    @marshallholley7213 2 года назад

    All you Yahoos that don't like Monty Roberts are missing the best of it

  • @markchoate9021
    @markchoate9021 3 года назад

    Well damn...... I knew you loved horses and guns, and now I see you like a good cigar, too. Are we kin???

  • @71wjoe
    @71wjoe 3 года назад

    That`s the truth . All the people running around telling you gatta do it like so and so should hear that .
    You need time . Keep on packing .

  • @XxSOTCxXxQSxXxCLANxX
    @XxSOTCxXxQSxXxCLANxX 3 года назад

    What if someone were to want to learn under you, someone willing to work for two meals a day and a place to pitch a tent at that

    • @DryCreekWranglerSchool
      @DryCreekWranglerSchool  3 года назад +1

      Tanner, I’m not in a position to be able to do something like that at this time, as I am currently just a hired hand living in a ranch house provided by my boss. However, it is my goal to change that one day in the not too distant future, and if you would would like to stay in touch, things may open up at a later date. I appreciate the interest. In the mean time, keep learning all you can everywhere you can. Nothing learned is ever a waste

    • @karenrouth2056
      @karenrouth2056 6 месяцев назад

      Your response here brought a big happy smile… look at you both now! Truly wonderful… the natural Flow of Life! I’ve just been wandering around and rewatching some early videos, it’s really fun to do haha!
      Happy, healthy and successful 2024 to you and lovely Momma Deanna from south east rural Italy!

  • @Blinks46
    @Blinks46 2 года назад

    I love you videos but the sound is bad can’t hear you

    • @DryCreekWranglerSchool
      @DryCreekWranglerSchool  2 года назад

      This video was before I got the new mic. They should all be better from now on