Psychology of Love In Islam | Yasmin Mogahid
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- Опубликовано: 6 сен 2024
- Love, trust and mutual respect are the bedrock of a solid marriage. It doesn’t come easy. It’s hard work & has to be nurtured daily. Don’t let mistrust creep into the equation. Don’t give your spouse reason to mistrust you. Once trust is broken, it will not be the same again.
When talking about marriage, Allah says your spouses are garments for you. A garment may not fit perfectly but either way, it covers imperfections, protects, and beautifies.
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A lot of people don’t understand she is only speaking to women because that’s mostly her crowd and she is a woman. Don’t forget women must obey their husband and respect their husbands because it goes both ways. Men have certain things they must fulfill in Islam. Where the woman must be loved and taken care of. Just because the wife obeys her husband doesn’t mean the husband must be abusive and aggressive. By the women giving men respect, their relationship gets better because she recognizes the sacrifice and hardship her husband goes through to make sure the family is safe and feed. A lot of women don’t show appreciation to the men that work, they only want more and more and more to the point the husband doesn’t feel enough. Also when she obeys him is in terms where his opinion matters because there are homes where the men don’t have a say in family I have seen that it is sad scene. So in short she is only speak to the women and not the men. In Islam men also have duties to fulfill as a husband, it goes both ways
Mashallah sister this is soooo true and the sad thing is..because alot of women nowadays also work they feel like now they are at the same level as men...that men should do their own things at home cus she is working and is too tired to fulfill any of the husbands rights. Yes....he can help where he can but the role of the husband and wife are different! Women need to realise this. Women arent told to go out and work but she chooses too for whatever reason...she still has her duties as wife...they shouldnt forget this
Our Prophet is teaching men and women on how to treat one another. The advise the Prophet gave men is usually about caring for their women and looking after them and showing them love. This is because this what women generally want. On the other hand, when he advised women, he usually told them to respect their husbands and give them some authority. And this is what usually men want. Both of these roles are different but complimentary. If a man cares and adores his wife, the wife will willing respect and admire her husband and vice versa
Allah knows best
So true sister. May Allah all of us, ameen.
No, we don't obey husbands which comes under shirk! Astaghfiullah Astaghfiullah Astaghfiullah
@@hoormalesinjannahforwomen2714 obey aslong as long as obeying him don‘t lead to sins and shirk ! Than you can even divorce ! But when he is righteous and what he wants from you doesn’t have sins or shirk in it or humiliates or hurt you physically than you should obey !!
Not only respect to men but also respect to women .....Islam teaches respect to every being
Unconditional respect. Is still earned. If someone treats you 'bad' or makes demands upon you that you aren't okay with, you are allowed to say no and leave them. Because they are not respecting you. They are mistreating you. They are not God.
You should not be made to be afraid by your partner. Or feel like you should obey or face being treated more poorly. Or fear reprisal for standing up to your initial mistreatment. Doing so is the 'Attitude' of SELF respect.
Agreed
Just like how a husband is required to provide resources and protection for their wives, a wife is required to provide respect and obedience to the husband.
She’s talking about healthy relationships with the foundation of mutual respect.
@@equityjustice2695 Nope! You choose to provide as you do. If you wanted a partner to provide with you. Find a wife that wants to work along side you. Or get her own Job. You are just as capable in raising children. After your wife does the labor. You can be obedient. Since obedience is important to you. That means you should be the obedient one. If a wife doesn't like that or doesn't find obedience important, than she simply doesn't have to be. It's freedom.
And of course it's strange to those who have been shackled for centuries....
Just don't demand that other people obey you... You don't get to do that simply because you go to work. Everyone works.
That just makes you sound like an abusive bastard. And noone to respect.
@@samiraghostin No, she isn't. She's talking about submitting and obeying husband's. Do that OR else, you are going to get more harsh treatment. That is NOT a healthy relationship.
The whole lecture should be posted as this makes it seem one sided and she goes on to give more explanation and understanding
As Salaam Alaikum. Heaven lying at the foot of Mother. Your Mother is your first teacher, so the woman must be respected and protected.
Mother is completely different from this topic. Mother had a husband too that she had to respect. Son only has one mother and that’s why we have to respect and care for the mothers.
@@stillhere7193 WRONG answers. The Prophet pbuh had Mother and every practicing Muslim, has Mother. So it does matter how you treat women. You teach a male, you teach a individual, but when educate the women, you educate your Ummah or nation. Same if they are mistreated.
@@savemyself100 what? The lecture is different from mother. Do you understand? She says how women are supposed to treat their husbands.
@@stillhere7193 Who going to teach her , not any man. This comes from another woman. Her mother.
@@savemyself100 well mother don’t teach her how to behave with a man
You receive what you give. It goes both ways. In the beginning of my marriage I was very submissive until he was disrespectful with me in his tone of voice or attitude. I had enough and started I to protect my heart ever since. I spoke with God about it and I don’t feel guilty for protecting my heart and standing up for myself. I will not let him still my joy. Shalom 🙏🏻👑🕊🔥🙌🏻🧕🏻
She's saying the same not to love but to respect and you gotta earn my respect that means men have to earn respect by their behavior and how he treats his wife, love isn't enough for anyone please listen it again.
Thank you
May ALLAH bless you with more ease.
Ameen
She's speaking generally. She can't address all cases. Please let the video speak for itself as a general guideline
This is actually something I’ve recently come to realize that I thought I understood but really didn’t. I don’t really know what respect is, so I’ve been trying to learn what it is so I can respect my future husband. Another thing is I used to think respect and love were the same, but they really aren’t. She’s spot on.
Also every one understand and talk about their RIGHTS but have NO FOCUS on OBLIGATIONS when we are responsible and ANSWERABLE for our Duties and Obligations 🙏
Allah said: (2:256) famously declares "There is no compulsion (forcing) in religion... You take about sunnah, start with your fard also Muslim brothers ignore the sunnah of fasting on mondays and Thursdays, they ignore the sunnah of praying 2 Rakats before fair, they forget that Tahajjud is a sunnah. The only sunnah they remember is to marry 4 wives... as Muslims we must fear Allah swt and not change the deen to suit our needs, unless we want Allah punishment to come upon us,
two or three or four. But if you fear that you will not be just, then one [marry only] from Quran...
And you will never be able to be equal just between wives, even if you should strive [to do so]. From quran from Quran...
Allah said
Verily, Allah orders justice and good conduct and giving to relatives and he forbids immorality and bad conduct and transgression. He admonishes you that perhaps you will be reminded.
Surat An-Nahl 16:90
And Allah says
O you who believe, be persistently standing firm for Allah as witnesses in justice, and do not let the hatred of a people prevent you from being just. Be just, for that is nearer to righteousness. Fear Allah, for Allah is aware of what you do.
Surat Al-Ma’idah 5:8
“A man who has two wives and who is completely inclined to one and who ignores the other emerges with one side of his body paralysed in the Day of Judgment.” (Hadith; Ibn Majah, Nikah, 47; Mishkat al-masabih, 2/196)
A woman does not consent to share her husband with another woman under normal circumstances, and no woman would like to marry a married man unless she has to.
It is a necessity of belief that polygamy is right. However, to believe it does not necessarily mean for a woman to consent to the second wife and approve it.
No believer father would like his son-in-law to marry a second, third or fourth woman along with his daughter. The jealous nature of the woman and the affection of the father for his daughter disapproves this. As a matter of fact, the daughter of our beloved Prophet, Sayyidah Fatima, objected to her husband, Ali’s marrying of a second woman. If it weren’t permissible to object, Sayyidah Fatima, who was brought up by our Prophet, would not have objected. The Messenger of Allah would have warned her and ordered her to consent to her husband’s wish. However, it did not take place like that. On the contrary, the Messenger of Allah, who saw that his daughter was worried, asked Ali to give up his wish and told him that if he did not give it up, he could marry another woman after divorcing Sayyidah Fatima. He did not consent to Ali’s second marriage to depress his daughter.
By considering that act of the Messenger of Allah, it can be stated that Muslim daughters and fathers may object to the second marriage of their husband or son-in-law.
@@Hellfire.Jahannam. It's fardh to obey your husband
@@AC-mp7cx have a nice time in hellfire ameen
Seriously if anyone treated me badly or even poorly they will have no respect what so ever
Exactly! Like idk why she’s encouraging toxic relationship in our society
@@sammim2466 I think she had an idea and she chose the wrong words to present it. I am a Muslim so mainly I know the idea but she spoke all the wrong words
@@ayshaelsibai6159 i really don't know what is wrong in her words.
Can u pls point me out.
@@Adnan_Khan__111 if some treated you badly do you treat them with respect?
It is the exact same for women. Let us say a husband did something bad or said something bad and he did not mean it the wife in this situation will be patient. If this treatment or words are repeated the first thing that is going to happen is that the wife will hate that husband. There is nothing which is called unconditional respect except from a child to their parents and there is nothing called unconditional love except from parents to children. Respect is earned never given for granted
It’s true no one does true good and rises to their highest ability,no one feels motivated from being belittled,dismissed or disrespected quite the contrary
Yes. When you respect you get treated well, if not, more and more harsh treatments. Thats correct.
Yes, true. But if the husband does not deserve respect, then the wife should either leave or give him a second chance. Allah is her Witness. So, she should be very honest with this. One can never respect an abusing husband, leave alone love him. And love comes only with respect also in the equation.
I’m a woman. Nothing wrong with earning someone’s respect. And I don’t love unconditionally. If you are a bully, abusive or mean, even your mother won’t respect you. The sister should limit her commentary to her own experience and strict analysis of Quran. Not her take on how women throughout the entire world feel.
I’d disagree it just sounds bad the way she worded it. Your husband should not earn your respect but he should always be respected because that is necessary and natural. You should inherently respect your partner as should he respect you. The only difference is men they crave respect more then anything else from their partner even more then love. If you ever get in an argument and you say something disrespectful it’s like you stabbed him. Women give the most pin point accurate soul crunching insults. A men feels disrespected in his own house can not be man anymore and can not a raise a family properly. I imagine her comments are not directed towards abusive men because most husbands are not abusive those cases are very highlighted and talked about a lot but it’s not the case for the majority of marriages. If your husband is abusive mean or anything obviously try to talk it out talk to sheikh, family, work it out I am obviously talking about smaller stuff if he beats you up every night get divorced immediately. Obviously respect is a two way street but there are things men crave more then women and things women crave more then men.
@@somerandomguy3037 honest query here, so youre saying men dont want love as much? So in a relationship, we should give more respect and less love to the man? He will like that more?
This is a genuine question
@@naz905-l7 To be honest if I were to choose between a women who respect me and doesn't love me or a women who love me and doesn't respect me, I'll choose the latter.
@@salim6728 so you'd choose disrespect over love?
@@vintagebae7258 I choose respect over love
Men love respect and women want love
So in short it should be told to someone before a relationship
Not in an abusive relationship.
Respect for another human being regardless their gender and the situation is a very basic feature of a Muslim
So both are requested to respect one another
No we want respect too
Alhamdullilah so true.
Also to add,
Islam doesn't encourage abusive behaviors from the male side. People in the comments going on like Islam is saying u to be submissive even during abuse. That's not the case.
First of all, a righteous male person is asked to be loving, caring n respectful in our religion. Islam is the religion which came to Arabia n stopped female child from being buried alive. Islam is the religion which stated about widow remarriage. Islam states rights of the women.
The Prophet SAW has left behind examples of treating the wife, playing with her is sunnah, cooking with her helping her is sunnah, talking romantically to her, there's a lot more.
Anger of any way is disliked both coming from male n from female. Looking with love into your spouses eye will cause Allah to look at the couple with mercy.
There's a surah in the Quran surah Nisa which means the women.
Mostly Islam is teaching the male side to be respectful, loving, caring n protective n the female half to be understanding n respectful.
N if u look into the phychology that is what is needed, like the speaker mentioned😁.
The Qur’aan enjoins good treatment of one's wife: she is to be honoured and treated kindly, even when one no longer feels love in one's heart towards her. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“and live with them honourably. If you dislike them, it may be that you dislike a thing and Allaah brings through it a great deal of good”
She has to be kind. You are saying like she can do anything bad to her husband and the husband can't dislike her.
Ideally the women respect their husbands and the husbands respect the wifes. They both have patience with each other and away grateful pf one another. They don't step over the rights of the other or oppress one another.
Kindly see the whole vid she addresses everything there and she told the womans her husband rights cause her main audience are womans.
SEE THE WHOLE VIDEO💙🕊️
Where can I find the whole video?
But male muftis focus on the same topics of women despite the audience being full of men.
I don’t understand what this sister is saying. I’m currently in a marriage where I don’t respect my husband, because he is abusive to me and our child. We are in a situation of being homeless as he doesn’t like with us because his daughter molested our son for years and we couldn’t stop her so I left. We have been living separately for seven years as he was awarded full custody of her. He tells me he doesn’t care what his family does to our son as long as they don’t break his bones. His family is non Muslim and they hate me and have done horrible things to our son. He wants his family to do with our son as they want. How can I respect this man. He has used his hands to try to take my eyes out my head, put pillow over my face to suffocate me, hold me down for intimacy, snatch my hijab off in front of family members he knew I have to cover in-front of. I have left many times and he has found his way back. Now our child is his new toy. He does things to him I can’t fix. It hurts typing this. I want our child to be ok, he is only 10 he has been choked out, threaten, head smashed into the stove, hit in the face and have been told that he better never bring up what his sister has done to him. I have reported all of this and in America that’s fine they care nothing for the safety of the kids. I can’t just walk always without being there for our son. But how again am I supposed to respect this man.
may ALLAH help you this is totally not acceptable sister islam doesn’t condone any kind of harm to wife children etc.
This sister is confused and will destroy many lives with her one-sided distorted Islamic teaching. Many male Muslim scholars have given better guidance to Muslim women on this topic than this lost woman.
God doesn’t expect women to stay in abusive relationships and let everyone walk all over your self respect. A Muslim woman should know her worth and respect herself enough to know when to step out of a toxic abusive situation. On top of this situation, you are also responsible for your son’s well-being and akhirat, which are much bigger things and you’d be held accountable for it if you do not take a stand.
May God give guidance to this lost woman before she leads more women astray.
@@Peace-ys6nt So I don’t Condone the abuse that I dealt with. i’m not just sitting waiting on abuse. I work and live separately but this husband of mine seems to not understand boundaries or fear of Allah. If I get any of my family involved someone is going to die. I just feel stuck, sometimes I feel like running with my child. I have fought this guy off many times you guys have no idea what I’ve been through. I have even went as far as a TPO. But once it expires he comes back and round and the courts say he has to hurt you again and we have to see how bad it is. Now he wants our son and the courts almost took him during COVID. He told me if I drop the divorce he wouldn’t pursue taking Our son. So I dropped the divorce. I living by myself trying to make it with the grace of Allah.
Sister is he a Muslim? Has he reverted? If not ,your marriage is invalid...just to note.
@@sg9889 I do agree with some of what you say,but she obviously is not referring to an abusive man.What she's saying is for woman not to retaliate the same toward a man that is treating her harsh...not necessarily abusive.Her husband is a professional psychologist and a specialist in marriage relationships by the way.She is teaching a very important point to note that Allah commands woman to Respect their husbands,and to respect them unconditionally.Itsceasier that way to maintain a harmonious relationship.The point of discussion or topic is unconditional respect of a woman toward her husband that is harsh with her,not necessarily referring to an abusive man.The other thing from a psychology perspective is that abuse and harshness from a husband toward his wife or in any relationship also can have a component of low self esteem on the man's part,so with that comes a feeling of no self respect too at times .So what she's saying is to continue in respect,cause it can heal the cracks in some marriages.
It's difficult to assimilate her talks at times,because she approaches everything from a psychological point of view,and those theories can conflict with the teachings of our Deen.
I respect every one 💯 🙌🏻 ❤🙏🏻🤗
My sister is spot on, we ladies really are like that
Peace mercy and blessings of almighty Allah on all of you
Asalamalikum,
Allahumma salli ala Muhammadin nabiyyil ummi wa Ala alihi wa ashabihi wa barik wa sallim. Best hour to make dua is: Friday@Asr prayer. 🕋🕌
Ya Allah bless her so knowledgable
Ppl here are just saying words that they hear. But let me write my own thoughts.
So, as we know "Women should respect/obey their husbands"
it means let your ego down and be happy what he do for you, treat him with sweetness and kindness. He will give the same amount of kindness. This is respecting. It also made him. see how much effort you do and would gladly help you out in your work.
As for obeying, when you are wrong which women are in some cases e.g doing something wrong like sin and he stops you, listen to him.
As we all know women are less tolerant than men, but when men let out their anger they become aggressive.
A woman has a great power. If she knows how to handle her emotions, than she would be the queen of her house but if she doesn't she would always be the slave as she thinks she is.
side note: I'm not talking about toxic men and women.
“women are less tolerant” the fact that women are being treated like crap and them still putting up with it dosen't prove your point
Hmm. Interesting concept. More in depth follow up needs to happen to see the cause and result.
Alhamdulillah!
You earned my respect
Masha Allah excellent reminder ❤
There is no unconditional love in a relationship
Yeah in the west bc everything is about sex there nowadays
Its hard to explain how unconditional love of husband and wife is
I guess like friends but more
Husband and wife have both unconditional and conditional love
@@ahmadbugshan9603 love is either conditional or unconditional. Can't be both at the same time
This is a very interesting insight. I never thought about and on hindsight it seems to make a lot of sense.
Unconditional respect ? Hell no. And that comes from a Muslim woman. You don’t OWE respect to someone who doesn’t respect you, and avoiding speaking up when you are offended or disrespected won’t stop the « harsh behavior » but literally encourage it. Respect has conditions and one of them is for it to be mutual.
Sorry but when the Prophet said obey your husband, he didn't say obey your husband if he does xyz. If you're married to him you have to.
And no one is excusing abuse
Exactly
@@AC-mp7cx “no one is excusing abuse” yes but everyone are neglecting it and no one's voicing for the victims. You can't talk about one side and neglect the other. It goes both ways. Nobody should live a toxic life.
Exactly. Silence only encourages bad behavior.
@@AC-mp7cx and so,who cares, how can someone who doesn't respect others demand respect,in which world,do you think we are fools and you are the only wise one,of course she should still provide for your wife even though she is extremely disrespectful,lies and cheats on you, afterall you treatment of her isn't dependant on her actions
I love her and respect her for the sake of Allah SWT
Ma shaa Allah. Very well explained.
اللهم صل و سلم و بارك على سيدنا محمد و على آله و صحبه أجمعين
Beautifully explained
I love hijab and Allah and islam ❤😊
There is sooooo much wisdom in the guidance that women should respect and obey their husbands.
It is literally only the first step, that is given to women and not men. If women follow this guidance, they are able to build up their husband, making him feel secure and strong and able to take care of his family and any challenges that come along the way. If the woman waits on the man to earn her respect, the man will never pass the test... she will keep waiting and he will never learn to grow into a capable and "respectable" man. Women LITERALLY teach their husbands how to be proper husbands by "obeying and respecting" them. Husband will learn to (if he doesn't already) obey and respect the wife.
On the other hand, the duty of being "kind and loving" towards his wife is given to men. Ex: feeding your wife from your own hand is an act of worship. Now... tell me, how is this not the most loving and respectful act that a man can do for his mate??
It's like a chain... something missing in between..chain breaks....rasool s a.... said how everyone should play their respective roles....
Why do I feel like most of the people commenting here aren't Muslims or don't know even the basic Hadiths of Prophet Muhammad (pbuh)....I mean,we Muslims very well know how much our Prophet had ordered men to be kind, respectful and fair with their wives..also Allah has ordered the same thing to men too... obviously when a men's doing all those then he becomes a husband who deserves the respect of their wives...now some are gonna say well if men become such ideal husbands then women would automatically respect them...No..that doesn't happen always.. women easily get agitated and start disrespecting...even our Prophet (pbuh) had experienced a bit of harshness from his wives too.
Respect and obey your husband as long as HE obeys Allah.
If your husband treats you badly, he is NOT obeying Allah.
There's no such thing as unconditional respect for people who DO NOT obey Allah's law.
Masha Allah yasmin nice accent.
اللھم صل علٰی محمد و علٰی آل محمد کما صلیت علٰی ابراھیم و علٰی آل ابراھیم انک حمید مجید ۔
اللھم بارک علٰی محمد و علٰی آل محمد کما بارکت علٰی ابراھیم و علٰی آل ابراھیم انک حمید مجید
Jazak Allahu khaira
MashaAllah sister. Allah bless you
What’s the problem in disrespecting someone who treats me bad? I don’t get it
Some men are very abusive, they do not deserve respect because even if you kill yourself serving them and loving them, it won’t matter. Islam doesn’t say you have to stay with someone who abuses you. Nothing is good enough for an abuser. But if you married a man who is just selfish and immature, he might be able to change his ways and showing respect and compassion can go a long way. Not if he’s a narcissist though, there is almost 0% hope for a narc to change.
@@hadilayyad6147 the only way to get respect is by making it obvious that you will not be disrespected. Thinking he “might” change and allowing him to treat me disrespectfully will just make it worse.
@@ma_iii Of course, I’m not saying you should respect him by tolerating more disrespect and/or toxic behavior. In my situation, it doesn’t matter if I ‘put my foot down’ and tell him I won’t allow him to disrespect me, it just doesn’t work. My husband is a covert narcissist and he will do what he wants whenever he wants and I always have to check my behavior to make sure I don’t blow my top off. I don’t want to give him the satisfaction and I don’t want to give him more fuel to act like the victim and make me seem unstable and overreactive. I respect myself and I know I deserve better than my husband but unfortunately I can’t leave so I’m allowing myself to be disrespected by default. May Allah curse these men. May Allah grant us and others who suffer from bad spouses ease.
@@hadilayyad6147 well, treat him the same way he treats you. If he says anything be like I thought this is the criteria of how we treat other since you do it too. Act like you think his behaviour is normal and you also behave the same way. Let him get mad while acting so oblivious and unbothered.
@@ma_iii I have been doing this but some days it’s too much to handle. I stopped asking what he would like for dinner and what he wants to do etc I barely interact with him, just for necessities
Respect> love
Trust> love
Yess Zainab first love Zaid unconditionally and then she did to profet
MashaAllah wise words from this sister
It's not a advice or recommendation but a order and commend .
I can’t believe she said that Subhanna’Allah. Your husband should respect you. Its 2 way street
Respect ❤
Judging by todays Muslims sisters orientation this will fall on deaf ears. The rot isn’t too far gone yet Inshaa Allah this message will reach
Does the treatment of Muslim women fall deff in the ears of Muslim men?
If someone trieds you bad don't respect them. When someone tries you bad they don't respect you as a person, you don't tried bad someone you respect.
INSHA ALLAH ,, dear brothers and sisters assalam o alaikum kindly write ALLAH PAK and Hazrat Muhammad (S.A.W) names correctly and capital JAZAK ALLAH ♥️🥰💯
Theres a difference between ‘obeying’ and ‘respecting’
Subhan'Allah ❤️ ❤️ ❤️
Same advise goes to men as well.
SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam*
Disrespect translates to sins to me. So in any case why would you want to disrespect another? May Allah open our hearts to guidance. Aameen.
Thanks n jazakallahu khaira
Dear sister, I dont know if you will read this comment. You have teached me something that I have never heard anyone talk about before. This is such specific but yet so highly appreciated knowledge to me. You are amazing thank you. You just breaked down the rulings and understood the code. A code that i will upload to my system today.
Respect your husband even if he has some faults. Faults do not include abuse. If he's a good person, he'll change because of you. If he's not, he won't. Time to leave.
Being disrespectful will NEVER solve anything.
Have a respectful conversation and assess if you want to stay or leave. That's how simple it is.
If you be disrespectful, he'll get worse, not better and well, that's not what we want, is it?
What a naivety in her speech and examples of the commands of Allaah..SubhanAllah
Respect is always earned...period ...
I am respecting no human without them deserving it....
No race gender discriminations
Jazakallah khayr
Asalam alikum wr wb
Amazing video but plzz remove the background music..its not allowed
Jazak allah o khair 😊
God bless the sister and her children
“Let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.” Ephesians 5: 33
Christianity teaches the truth and is superior.
Insha’Allah ❤
Meanwhile respect is quite easy to be done my men.
I always remember that we men always make the nodding sign to each other and most of the nodding I gave were in fact out of respect
U jst spoke my heart out ❤️🩹👌
Jazakallahu khair
Obviously you both have to respect each other he has to be worth it, and a woman has to be worth it too , but if he is treating her bad why would she even stay with him
Subhanallah Jajakallah mashallah
Alhamdulillah good work
I don't really know unconditional love. If I look at the western world so many people try to convince me that women won't love unconditionally and if I experience the western culture I have a hard time to not believe it. I tried to be a better person but that just backfired for me. I know that you can't generalize but I'm not quite sure if Allah subhana wa ta'ala has written for me to be loved by a spouse. It just doesn't feel that way.
Masallah may Allah grant me a wife lwith Iman like her
Masallah
Sallallahu alayhi wasallam 💖
You are right
أشهد أن لا إله إلا الله وحده لا شريك له و أشهد أن محمداً عبده و رسوله
Responsable men and women the same
alhumduliallah for this video
♥️صلى الله عليه وسلم❤️لله❤️ صدق الله ♥️عظیم رب العرش الکریم
اللهم آمين آمين يارب العالمين. 💝Ameen 💝Ajmaeen
Respect is more important than Love esp for Men. We Respect them unconditionally. At same time,we hope they'll correct their flaws so we can Respect them even more
Allahuakbar♥️🇵🇸
Well u said half of the guidance Islam doesn’t command us to stay in toxic relationship yes we respect men and obey in a frame of respect mercy compassion
So men owe us respect too that’s not a synonym that if man treat you badly you should be silent and respect him that’s terrible
Dear if man treat you badly and disrespectful to you and you continue to respect and obey him that’s green light for him to continue treating you like that ( he is a human being ) if you don’t stand up for yourself no one will do don’t cry at the end when you found yourself lost and destroyed coz of toxic relationship !!
Anyway don’t take on one side only as general rule and if you didn’t deal with a man that treat you bad don’t ask women to accept that coz you are really harming them !
Ma Sha Allah
May Allah forgive our sins
Both should be respected. Man and women
Right
اللهم صلي و سلم على نبينا محمد ❤❤❤
To be honest, Men expect great amount of respect, if he earns it, your the lucky Queen 👑💖
Nah respect is really earned
Need to listen to the full lecture, because if someone is”treating me bad” how do you respect that? Why should I tolerate that? Why would a men treat the wife bad in the first place?
Masya Allah ❤
to ppl who think she is asking women to be submissive and respect husband regardless of him being bad, that's not so. her point is that do your bit. if the husband still is a jerk then you take steps that seem right to you.
Sallallahu alayhi wasallam sallallahu alayhi wa wa sallam
A lot of us would have fall under the category of munafiqun had we lived at the time of prophet sw. When it comes to issues like these, our attitude doesn't remain as sami'na w'ata'na. Our attitude becomes like the previous people who used to say sami'na wa'asaina.
Be careful brothers and sisters. People will go out of their house and come back in the evening after losing iman but they will not realize. When you see Allah and His messenger sw spoken about something you shut your mouth and say I hear and I obey. This is iman. You don't come up with ifs and buts.
Well said
Subhan Allah❤️