What I love about Ryan Reynolds is when he tells a joke he continues with the most straight face in existence and continues telling the joke while everyone’s laughing
yeah... that's a different element though he keeps a straight face but uses obvious exaggeration at the points that are supposed to be punch lines, as a way of giving you a heads up to say "Laugh now"
I still remember RRenolds portayal of Buffalo Bill (from Silence of the lambs) with his teste tuck. I think the movie was Buying the Cow. That is my first memory of him. This teste tuck cannot be unseen!😱 Be afraid, be very afraid!
To simplify it further, whenever there is awkwardness in a conversation you can try adding over the top silliness. You can't do it every time but for minor things it does help smooth things over.
I like to call it out with a "That went better in my head..." type of comment. I've been told that I excel with dry, deadpan humor so I guess I've naturally ran with it. So maybe find a tactic that best suits your personality?
I love this video so much because I see people do this unintentionally all the time. Family members, adults, kids, everyone follows these tips in some form or another all the time. It's great advice.
@goldmember-db4pb But any so called "loser" or unattractive person can become popular by getting fit, good grooming and clothes, and learning to be humorous and socially confident. It takes work and time, but achievable for anyone. There are many celebrities not traditionally attractive who built careers by self improvement and are now admired (Steve Buschemi, Rebel Wilson, Whoopi Goldberg, Chris Farley, Danny DeVIto, etc).
When I was a junior in college, my teacher gave us this assignment. While I was working on the assignment, she asked me how I was doing. I said "I am doing well. How are you doing?"
Watching Van Helsing in the theatre was one of my favorite movie experiences. my friend and I heckled it all the way through, and afterward the couple behind us caught up to us to thank us for saving the movie for them, and we invited them out for pizza. ah the good ol' days.
Sounds like a boring conversation just clicking at each other... But I don't believe you anyway. A dolphin can't click because it doesn't have fingers! Everyone knows that!
What are useful social skills that can be picked up quickly? By default, respect people. Cough, but cover your mouth with forearm, not palm. A smile at strangers is not bad; it's humility. Silence is the loudest display of anger; rest is immaturity. Most people find unnecessary touching uncomfortable, remember that. Interruption is impatience. Great people respect disagreement. When you speak in a group, try and look at everyone at least once. If you are not comfortable looking in eyes, look at the face at least. When someone speaks, nod to make them comfortable, even if you don't agree. If you don't know what to speak, listen to people and understand what they want to listen. Don't be rigid on your opinions. However your interaction was, leave with positivity. A smile, and a positive statement of appreciation works well. Never ask uncomfortable details from people in public. Interact more with nervous people to make them comfortable and to leave a positive impact on them. If your palms sweat, keep two handkerchiefs in your pocket, always wipe before shaking hands. If someone is sitting on your side, don't fold your leg in a way that your shoe faces that person. Keep your used utensils yourself in the sink or bin; this makes you subconsciously look responsible and humble. Be a pleasant person, don't spit out negativity in front of people, however bad you feel inside. Be sure before quoting facts; wrong facts put your image down.
One of my favorite self-deprecating jokes was when an old Missouri farmer had forgot my name,he apologized by saying "my memory is about as short as my peter"
I'm _awful_ with remembering names, and one trick I accidentally discovered several years ago was to say something like "I want to call you [insert random name] but I know that's wrong, you just remind me of someone I knew named that."
I HATE when i do the number one and the people doesn't play along. Actually, some act like they are way smarter than you because then don't get it's a joke! These days I got robbed and after the shock was gone, I went to tell some people, I was like "I don't know if the guy had a gun, but i didn't want him to find out that I'm actually immortal". and the people was like "You aren't immortal, you moron! There's not such a thing". Yes, Karen! I know i'm not immortal! I just have super speed!
One time I was approached by a would-be mugger. Fortunately I had just bought a book on kung fu, which actually turned out to be a book on Kama sutra. Let me tell ya, was THAT mugger surprised.
thank you man for this video ,i learned how to be the attractive one in the group, how to keep the converstion interesting and got to know that my existence is at its end since i have to watch a video on how to be humourous
I loved it too when I first saw it, but I guess I was young. Watched again recently and I saw it wasn't so great. But not that bad as to mention it when someone talks about it, it was still ok, just not as great as I remembered it.
These videos always remind me of a scene in the cartoon "Home Movies" where brennen is preparing for a fight and thinks of all the moves he's going to do to the bully and then the fight happens and he gets immediately evicerated and says "fighting is so much faster than i thought it was... I thought it'd be a thing where i could reason every move..." these videos for me are exactly that... like I don't have time to be like "i'm going to do a number 5 from the killer jokes video." Anyway, good advice if you can apply it 😜
Silliness is the best form of humor. A perfect example: Use the term "Conscience stricken" in a sentence.- "Don't conscience stricken before they hatch."
This is literally the perfect sales pitch, tell people what to do but not how to do it. "Be funny." Okay, how? "Well I'm glad you asked, for the low low price of dollars, we'll show you how" I ain't even mad, it's truly genius.
i’ve had to learn that, especially working in the food service industry man some people have not one humorous bone in their body and can’t even give you any small reaction to make things less awkward smh
@@blackwidow17 yeah same, started to think I’m too childish but really there’s just ton of people who’s plain boring or uptight. It took me a while too to understand that
I have a sub group of friends at work and we have a bit of a dark humor. Once in a while one of us would report going out with their "normal" friends and said something supposedly funny and nobody got it. It's also fine being the weirdo to some (or most) people.
here i am with, amazing friends, nicest people in the world who are very supportive and adore me, and adhd watching this for no apparent reason just cos i misclicked it after it landed on my for you page.
What are the most powerful quotes you have ever come across? Stay genuine, tables will turn. In life you are presented with two choices “evolve or repeat”. If you get that gut feeling that something isn’t right about a person or situation, trust it. Be ready to lose anyone anytime. Apologize when you’re wrong. Stop looking for quotes that support your stupidity. Commitment isn’t scary, wasting years of your life is. Anything you lose by speaking your truth isn’t a loss. It’s an alignment. The less you say, the more your words will matter. Your life isn’t yours if you always care what others think. Working on yourself, by yourself, for yourself. UPvote if you feel relatable with any of these lines.
These are great quotes - are you the creator of all of them? Or did you borrow from other sources? A few really hit deep for me: "Your life isn’t yours if you always care what others think" - fantastic insight! "Be ready to lose anyone anytime." - good reminder about impermanence! "Commitment isn’t scary, wasting years of your life is." - so true; in fact, commitment is liberating! Thank you!
But your audience (family and friends?) has to be smart enough to catch your joke. The world has become so boring and literal that often the simplest ironic joke goes over their heads.
After watching this insightful video, I felt like an AI learning about humor. The celebrities that pulled it off makes it looked so easy and natural which then put me in an awkward mood feeling I have rusty cogs in my humor part of the brain. My father-in-law once said if you have to explain the joke then it's not worth telling it. Maybe I'm autistic and just realizing it for the first time.
You forgot the most important part: find the ways that make you feel good being your true self. that is not only enjoyable by others, it really makes you comfortable with you. And that is fun, and you will be easy and that attracts the right benevolent people that like you for being you. and friends will be like family and all that stuff. just dont fake stuff. remember: if you dont lie you will never have to remember alternate versions of your reality, which is complicated enough. go out there, be you, stop taking everything seriously. you cant outperform life, all of us die in the end. enjoy the ride.
This is a conversation that I actually had my last semester of college. Professor: Would anyone like to hear me explain what gerrymandering is? Me: Sure, I love to learn. Professor: Learning taking place in a classroom? What is wrong with you? Me: I have ADHD and High functioning autism. I have been told that I talk really loudly in public. I fart significantly more often than the average person. Professor: It was a rhetorical question. Me: That's another thing. I fail to understand when a question that I am being asked is rhetorical.
I tell people in the gym, "If you want to look bigger, stand next to me". Another one is: "when I take my wife to the beauty parlor, the owner tells me to leave through the back door".
What did you learn too late in life? If you don’t try, you will never know. If you don’t ask, you will never get an answer. *If you never ask, the answer will always be no!* Nobody truly cares about you, so you can do whatever you want (as long as it’s not illegal). _Aside from your family and best friends, nobody else will care about what you do with your life so you don’t have to worry about what other people will think about what you do._ Time moves fast, don’t waste your time too much or you will regret it in the future. A hard worker usually beats a talented person(unless the talented person also works hard). Working hard is not enough, also work smart and work consistently. The hardest things to get in life are usually the most worth it. Enjoy every day and don
A lot of the videos on this channel are useful in every day life, but I have to say that this one is very Americanised. If I tried these "jokes" where I'm from, people would look at me like I've dribbled on them or something...
Yup. I'm from a culture when people don't respect boundaries -- self-deprecating humor will actually decrease your social status and in extreme cases may make people gang up on you with their jokes.
During my ninth month of pregnancy, I had trouble sleeping, so I spent all my time nesting. Even after I gave birth, I still nested quite a bit. I asked my mom when the nesting stops. She said that she will let me know if she ever stops nesting.
I used to use jokes and specific conversational topics as impromptu IQ tests for screening dates. ("Do you read? No, not Can you..... DO you?). One very telling favorite: Q: What did they find when they tore down the Berlin wall? A: The 1962 Polish 'Hide and Seek' Champion.
Another form of humor I find good is when someone says something obvious I change my voice and go "What??? No way.." Or if they told me that I have to do something obvious I go "I do?!"
@@scillyautomatic You can have this one… A young man from Juarez Mexico is trying to get American citizenship. In El Paso, he is told that if he can use these three colors…pink, yellow, and green…in a sentence, he will be granted immediate citizenship. The young man ponders for a moment, then confidently says, “in my casa, when I hear da telephone go green green, I pink it up and say yellow.”
I actually do much of this without thinking. Jokes come naturally to me, and half the time it's at my own expense. "Obviously I can't be trusted alone with it." - an inside joke about me breaking things. "I'll bring what you need in 2 hours." - currently referencing me taking two hours to bring a coworker something. The ones that are not inside jokes, I do on the fly. Most of the time it's at my own expense anyways, sometimes it's at their own expense. 9 times out of 10, it lands with a lasting impact. Anything really good, everyone just continues to reference it days or even weeks later. I also do a lot of encouragement, which are not so much tiny jokes, but tiny jabs. "Why don't you?" followed by... "Don't worry about it, just do it." Something a bit extreme, but that notion gets into their head and they usually remember something like that. Of course, all through context.
When someone makes the comment that people never change I sincerely and strenuously object. "That's just not true." I begin. "My relationship with my mom was absolutely horrible but like four years ago she changed and our relationship was transformed overnight. As bad as it was before - it's that good now. Yup, ever since she died..."
If you rely on a formula for interacting with people, it will become very noticeable, especially once people really get to know you. Be your own person. Tell your own jokes. Attempting to hide your worry about meeting new people or whether or not you're likeable never ends well. Don't put on faces, or you'll only be surrounded by people who put on faces.
So, in short: 1: say things that exaggerate or are absurd, so it's obvious they're jokes; or, 2: use funny teasing (using the above); 3: for best results, tease yourself; 4: Vary the use of one and two (and three) so you're not boring/predictable.
I always wondered why I had people around me so easily, some friends asked how I did it. but now I understand! your video is very nice, I understood what I do naturally without even noticing it. I do all of these, its part of my personnality. it would feel weird to fake it tho. im not sure about learning human behaviour and trying to mimick them. its seems immoral in some way (hope my english wasnt that bad, 3rd language actually)
I am an introvert who has overcome shyness to bullying, to cultural repression forced on males (as a non-westerner) with regard to dating. I share this lesson in humility especially with regard to game. Your jokes could be the most funniest yet they will never impress people who are disingenuous and refuse to see the efforts of others.
You are too serious and gloomy to be funny. It is not on other people to find humor where it does not exist. If you want them to laugh at your jokes you have to present something worthy of a laugh.
Just a question. Why is it that when ever I tried to make people laugh I often feel that the people that I am trying to amuse often don't bother to even listen or try to understand that I am joking .Giving me the feeling that I am boring and that nobody sees me as funny and I am not interesting
If you really wanna get their attention…just waive Agunn in the air. Now that you have a captive audience…begin your joke telling. Everyone inJail will love your story of how you made people pissINtheir pants due to fear…um, I mean, laughter.
What do you do when this happens unintentionally? Like, it just comes naturally in conversation, and the person who becomes obsessed with you happens to be married?
All these jokes boil down to ways to surprise people. If you surprise people, then you're unpredictable and mysterious. If people have you figured out, you're boring. So again, you can't just surprise people the same way all the time. You have to hit them in the face with a frying pan about once a year. Every day is too often.
What is worse than receiving a test message from your boyfriend that says "I want to break up"? Receiving a test message five minutes later that says "Sorry wrong number."
I got a laff at church when i walked in the kitchen and they had a bunch of corn cobs on the counter i said " i haven't seen this much corn since the opening scene of Hee Haw."
What makes someone charismatic? A well groomed appearance makes the first impression. Remember Fashion has always been a Trillion dollar industry for a reason. Good sense of Humor that makes you likeable to many. It can Lighten up the tense situation often and often its a good laughter we all hanker for in life Warm gestures always make you likeable. Smile, hug, greet. Your body language should be full of energy and positivity. Speak your heart and mind in the language of the audience . The way they want to listen. Its an art. Make your words more relatable to them Celebrate life with others in happy times and in crisis stand up with people . Both are important . sharing emotions build great bonds Watch good interviews, Ted talks, listen to good podcasts , read good books. Do it regularly. Developing a good persona is a continuous process. So keep adding and keep learning patiently.
6:21 😂Van Helsing was Awesome… for me who saw as a rollercoaster ride send up to the old monster movies. But yeah if you’re not there for the action movie revamp like the mummy you’re not going to have fun as it both acknowledges the tropes and plays with them as rides the edge between parody and sincere love of the genre. Princess Bride does this too. Not sure what Van Helsing needed to get more love like it did 🤔
Person hosting the party: I cooked way more food than was necessary. I do not want it to go to waste. Therefore, everyone here has to bring home a tupeerware container. Me: There doesn't have to be anything in it, but you have to bring home a tupperware container.
What to do when life gets tough? Forgive yourself for your past mistakes. Rather than overthinking, reflect on what to do. Find a solution as quick as possible. Never compare yourself to others. They are also fighting a silent battle. Surround yourself with your loved ones to prevent loneliness and solitude. Forgiving people in silence & never speaking to them again is a form of self care, Focus on the quality of your circle rather than the number of people in it, If you find yourself terrified in the face of challenges , stop & reframe your mind , You must adapt to the ever changing tides of life, Notice the words you speak in your head to yourself. Be aware of your low quality & negative thoughts, Journaling is the antidote to cluttered mind, Pretending to be someone else is disrespecting yourself. Be unique & be who you really are , Pay attention to your body. It can protect you from physical, mental & emotional harm, Have patience . Be willing. Be able to change, Be vulnerable. Emotions should be shared, not feared. Have boundaries but build trust first, Just Chill.!!
Tell your joke to Jimmy Fallon for a 100% success rate
Fallon: "hahahahhahhhhhhhaaaaaahhhhaaaaaaaa"
Jimmy Fallon always has me feeling like I missed the joke because nothing is ever that funny 😂
I love how giddy he is. 😂
@@siantelove😂😂😂
Fallon's a gimp. Most unfunny fake guy I ever seen
as an alien trying to disguise myself as a human person, thank you, this is very helpful
Nailed it bro
Good one lad
No worries Elon
You need to try harder Zuckerberg.
Dr. Vanderspeigle!!
What I love about Ryan Reynolds is when he tells a joke he continues with the most straight face in existence and continues telling the joke while everyone’s laughing
yeah... that's a different element though
he keeps a straight face but uses obvious exaggeration at the points that are supposed to be punch lines, as a way of giving you a heads up to say "Laugh now"
that's what i want to do but if i don't smile my face looks more serious than Tommy Shelby and literally no one laughs that's why i have to Smile
His patter has got old
I still remember RRenolds portayal of Buffalo Bill (from Silence of the lambs) with his teste tuck. I think the movie was Buying the Cow. That is my first memory of him. This teste tuck cannot be unseen!😱 Be afraid, be very afraid!
i know that problem 😏@@_izro_
Ryan Reynolds: **Breathes**
Jimmy Fallon: "Hahahahahahahaha"
**taps table to clarify he's dying from laughter**
To simplify it further, whenever there is awkwardness in a conversation you can try adding over the top silliness. You can't do it every time but for minor things it does help smooth things over.
I like to call it out with a "That went better in my head..." type of comment. I've been told that I excel with dry, deadpan humor so I guess I've naturally ran with it. So maybe find a tactic that best suits your personality?
Or you could go dark. After awkward pause tell them how many bodies you buried in the woods
@@Amins88 Yeah, it has to suit your personality.
@@Amins88 what if its the awkward silence that suits my personality 😂
@@tgkmervin5998 Then embrace the hell out of it. Play chicken to see who breaks the silence first!
I love this video so much because I see people do this unintentionally all the time. Family members, adults, kids, everyone follows these tips in some form or another all the time. It's great advice.
Helps if you are a movie star.
You are talking to AI.
no, it is not. you should be genuine, not be cracking jokes in a forced way like this video implies.
"People don't judge you for having imperfections, they judge you on how you perceive your imperfections."
Exactly.
pple of twitter/instagram: Hold my beer.
I was gonna say this quote was fantastic
female way of thinking
@@RR-et6zp can you explain lmao
No, I just judge your simp perfections.
Sincerity is the key. Once you learn how to fake sincerity you are all set to go.
lol this was a good joke, well done :)
@goldmember-db4pb But any so called "loser" or unattractive person can become popular by getting fit, good grooming and clothes, and learning to be humorous and socially confident. It takes work and time, but achievable for anyone. There are many celebrities not traditionally attractive who built careers by self improvement and are now admired (Steve Buschemi, Rebel Wilson, Whoopi Goldberg, Chris Farley, Danny DeVIto, etc).
@@kmlgraph LOL achievable for anyone, that is a great joke
@@cajampait is
@@nowherenearby9461 Great that you agree with me.
Blazer joke was a primo level fake out. I was completely not ready. Plus, the physical comedy "here you go!!"
I nearly woke up my wife at that one.
lmao same but now I need to know which brands or whatever were they?!
When I was a junior in college, my teacher gave us this assignment. While I was working on the assignment, she asked me how I was doing. I said "I am doing well. How are you doing?"
😂
That's a level of charisma that I want
Were you able to give her the D?
She wanted your D, you didnt have to say anything
oh my god, you so shagged her!!!
Watching Van Helsing in the theatre was one of my favorite movie experiences. my friend and I heckled it all the way through, and afterward the couple behind us caught up to us to thank us for saving the movie for them, and we invited them out for pizza.
ah the good ol' days.
Then had an orgy.
That sounds glorious
That's fabulous.. I was on the set of Van Helsing in Prague.. and it didn't look good then !!
I tried this in a conversation with a dolphin earlier. We just clicked.
Noyce! 😄
Sounds like a boring conversation just clicking at each other... But I don't believe you anyway. A dolphin can't click because it doesn't have fingers! Everyone knows that!
@@weplaywax Damn! Of course! I didn't think of that! lol.
@@latashastrahan4297I see what you did there 😄
Dear Introverts,
We unite again.
Sincerely,
Fellow Introvert.
🫡
Unlearning the introvert
Said by a true introvert
The fellow introvert part settled it for me.
this is the max word limit for a introv
Careful about self deprecating humor, it gives mean bystanders the green light to start deprecating you
Except that people can tell when it's intentionaly mean, which just makes them look bad.
when you're ready to self-deprecate, bystanders who 'assault' you are usually the weakest one. Oh you'll surely notice it fast...
What are useful social skills that can be picked up quickly?
By default, respect people.
Cough, but cover your mouth with forearm, not palm.
A smile at strangers is not bad; it's humility.
Silence is the loudest display of anger; rest is immaturity.
Most people find unnecessary touching uncomfortable, remember that.
Interruption is impatience.
Great people respect disagreement.
When you speak in a group, try and look at everyone at least once.
If you are not comfortable looking in eyes, look at the face at least.
When someone speaks, nod to make them comfortable, even if you don't agree.
If you don't know what to speak, listen to people and understand what they want to listen.
Don't be rigid on your opinions.
However your interaction was, leave with positivity. A smile, and a positive statement of appreciation works well.
Never ask uncomfortable details from people in public.
Interact more with nervous people to make them comfortable and to leave a positive impact on them.
If your palms sweat, keep two handkerchiefs in your pocket, always wipe before shaking hands.
If someone is sitting on your side, don't fold your leg in a way that your shoe faces that person.
Keep your used utensils yourself in the sink or bin; this makes you subconsciously look responsible and humble.
Be a pleasant person, don't spit out negativity in front of people, however bad you feel inside.
Be sure before quoting facts; wrong facts put your image down.
This is a good list honestly
Great list. Are you British? I've never seen "spit" used that way
Thank you very little.
Brilliant
@@astro6393 thanks
I will never not smile from that gin joke its so well thought out and put together.
One of my favorite self-deprecating jokes was when an old Missouri farmer had forgot my name,he apologized by saying "my memory is about as short as my peter"
I'm _awful_ with remembering names, and one trick I accidentally discovered several years ago was to say something like "I want to call you [insert random name] but I know that's wrong, you just remind me of someone I knew named that."
@@Dargonhuman or that could be used as an approach to befriend a new person
@@Enztun Assuming you want new friends...
I HATE when i do the number one and the people doesn't play along. Actually, some act like they are way smarter than you because then don't get it's a joke! These days I got robbed and after the shock was gone, I went to tell some people, I was like "I don't know if the guy had a gun, but i didn't want him to find out that I'm actually immortal". and the people was like "You aren't immortal, you moron! There's not such a thing". Yes, Karen! I know i'm not immortal! I just have super speed!
That's a good one, actually!
Don't worry, your secret's safe with me...
No you moron, you dont have super speed💀
One time I was approached by a would-be mugger. Fortunately I had just bought a book on kung fu, which actually turned out to be a book on Kama sutra.
Let me tell ya,
was THAT mugger surprised.
@@jimdoak3658please pay your child support sir 😂
No fe
That Theo Von clip is one of my favourite things ever. That one and the one about eating a Vietnamese guy. 😂
"Exhibit A"
thank you man for this video ,i learned how to be the attractive one in the group, how to keep the converstion interesting and got to know that my existence is at its end since i have to watch a video on how to be humourous
Its funny, you can make this video 10 times and I will watch every time. No regrets
Van helsing is such a good movie. One of my favorites. I don't know how it got such low reviews
Yeah dude, I've never met anyone who didn't like it. Awesome movie
It's the best Tarzan movie ever.
@@danfors1333 😂
I loved it too when I first saw it, but I guess I was young. Watched again recently and I saw it wasn't so great. But not that bad as to mention it when someone talks about it, it was still ok, just not as great as I remembered it.
Stranger standing in front of Walmart: Have you found Jesus?
Me: I didn't even know he was lost.
0:40 he later got the ironman role in the mandalorian sequel ...
Bro I LOVE the Van Helsing movie, I did not know it got terrible reviews! WHAT!? D:
These videos always remind me of a scene in the cartoon "Home Movies" where brennen is preparing for a fight and thinks of all the moves he's going to do to the bully and then the fight happens and he gets immediately evicerated and says "fighting is so much faster than i thought it was... I thought it'd be a thing where i could reason every move..." these videos for me are exactly that... like I don't have time to be like "i'm going to do a number 5 from the killer jokes video."
Anyway, good advice if you can apply it 😜
Silliness is the best form of humor. A perfect example:
Use the term "Conscience stricken" in a sentence.-
"Don't conscience stricken before they hatch."
loki finally got his solo show which is now saving the MCU (totally off the topic but m a part of the loki fan base)
as a skinwalker who took the body of some randome dude i just clawwed the life out of him, this was very helpful thx.
This is literally the perfect sales pitch, tell people what to do but not how to do it. "Be funny." Okay, how? "Well I'm glad you asked, for the low low price of dollars, we'll show you how" I ain't even mad, it's truly genius.
Really though.... Lol and it's like several several thousands of dollars lol
The people who actually wonna learn, just the way I was helped, was to truly try to understand what made the impact, what action .
They never used to advertise their course until they studied Aaron Marino and realized how well of a salesmen he is.
@@crissyc9831 Several hundreds, looks like, but far too expensive for what it is.
Sometimes it’s not you who’s not funny, it’s the people around you who simply don’t appreciate the jokes.
i’ve had to learn that, especially working in the food service industry man some people have not one humorous bone in their body and can’t even give you any small reaction to make things less awkward smh
@@blackwidow17 yeah same, started to think I’m too childish but really there’s just ton of people who’s plain boring or uptight. It took me a while too to understand that
I have a sub group of friends at work and we have a bit of a dark humor. Once in a while one of us would report going out with their "normal" friends and said something supposedly funny and nobody got it. It's also fine being the weirdo to some (or most) people.
@@dariatnk999 exactly i kinda feel bad for them because how boring is that💀🥱
here i am with, amazing friends, nicest people in the world who are very supportive and adore me, and adhd watching this for no apparent reason just cos i misclicked it after it landed on my for you page.
“People don’t judge you for your imperfections, they judge you on how you perceive your imperfections.”
Thats good to remember.
What are the most powerful quotes you have ever come across?
Stay genuine, tables will turn.
In life you are presented with two choices “evolve or repeat”.
If you get that gut feeling that something isn’t right about a person or situation, trust it.
Be ready to lose anyone anytime.
Apologize when you’re wrong. Stop looking for quotes that support your stupidity.
Commitment isn’t scary, wasting years of your life is.
Anything you lose by speaking your truth isn’t a loss. It’s an alignment.
The less you say, the more your words will matter.
Your life isn’t yours if you always care what others think.
Working on yourself, by yourself, for yourself.
UPvote if you feel relatable with any of these lines.
I can't see likes or dislikes, but I'll give you a like
These are great quotes - are you the creator of all of them? Or did you borrow from other sources?
A few really hit deep for me:
"Your life isn’t yours if you always care what others think" - fantastic insight! "Be ready to lose anyone anytime." - good reminder about impermanence! "Commitment isn’t scary, wasting years of your life is." - so true; in fact, commitment is liberating! Thank you!
@@krystalharris79 The important thing is to help.
@@Arakko-i7h Absolutely! Be helpful and kind. Our world needs more of this attitude!❤
@@krystalharris79 🤝🤝🤝
But your audience (family and friends?) has to be smart enough to catch your joke. The world has become so boring and literal that often the simplest ironic joke goes over their heads.
if you joke long enough, or know them long enough you should know what joke not-to-do around them isn't it ?
This was so satisfying to watch.
I'm going to start to do this on my podcast and in some shorts, thanks for the trick
My father always used to say that it's a compliment to be teased!
After watching this insightful video, I felt like an AI learning about humor. The celebrities that pulled it off makes it looked so easy and natural which then put me in an awkward mood feeling I have rusty cogs in my humor part of the brain. My father-in-law once said if you have to explain the joke then it's not worth telling it. Maybe I'm autistic and just realizing it for the first time.
Having explained all of this, I doubt you have begun to realize you are not funny.
Bro. I freaking love Van Helsing. What!?
Bad movies can be enjoyable. Like the room. Just wanted point this out 10 months later.
You forgot the most important part: find the ways that make you feel good being your true self. that is not only enjoyable by others, it really makes you comfortable with you. And that is fun, and you will be easy and that attracts the right benevolent people that like you for being you. and friends will be like family and all that stuff. just dont fake stuff. remember: if you dont lie you will never have to remember alternate versions of your reality, which is complicated enough. go out there, be you, stop taking everything seriously. you cant outperform life, all of us die in the end. enjoy the ride.
This is a conversation that I actually had my last semester of college.
Professor: Would anyone like to hear me explain what gerrymandering is?
Me: Sure, I love to learn.
Professor: Learning taking place in a classroom? What is wrong with you?
Me: I have ADHD and High functioning autism. I have been told that I talk really loudly in public. I fart significantly more often than the average person.
Professor: It was a rhetorical question.
Me: That's another thing. I fail to understand when a question that I am being asked is rhetorical.
I tell people in the gym, "If you want to look bigger, stand next to me". Another one is: "when I take my wife to the beauty parlor, the owner tells me to leave through the back door".
“Do you know what this is?”
Checks notes
“No I do not…. You’re supposed to laugh now”
Why did charisma on command stop? this used to be my daily dose of improving my social skills
Being Nonchalant for most if these is surprisingly important
Thank you very much!
Jokes that hit hard and laughter so hard that tears can’t help but flow
What did you learn too late in life?
If you don’t try, you will never know.
If you don’t ask, you will never get an answer.
*If you never ask, the answer will always be no!*
Nobody truly cares about you, so you can do whatever you want (as long as it’s not illegal).
_Aside from your family and best friends, nobody else will care about what you do with your life so you don’t have to worry about what other people will think about what you do._
Time moves fast, don’t waste your time too much or you will regret it in the future.
A hard worker usually beats a talented person(unless the talented person also works hard).
Working hard is not enough, also work smart and work consistently.
The hardest things to get in life are usually the most worth it.
Enjoy every day and don
Are you a bot
The fact that nobody talks about the book whispers of manifestation on borlest speaks volumes about how people are stuck in a trance
A lot of the videos on this channel are useful in every day life, but I have to say that this one is very Americanised. If I tried these "jokes" where I'm from, people would look at me like I've dribbled on them or something...
Yup. I'm from a culture when people don't respect boundaries -- self-deprecating humor will actually decrease your social status and in extreme cases may make people gang up on you with their jokes.
I'm sorry to hear about your situation, guys.
Detroit is the worst! 😢
What sort of joking is common where you are?
During my ninth month of pregnancy, I had trouble sleeping, so I spent all my time nesting. Even after I gave birth, I still nested quite a bit.
I asked my mom when the nesting stops.
She said that she will let me know if she ever stops nesting.
I used to use jokes and specific conversational topics as impromptu IQ tests for screening dates. ("Do you read? No, not Can you..... DO you?).
One very telling favorite:
Q: What did they find when they tore down the Berlin wall?
A: The 1962 Polish 'Hide and Seek' Champion.
Another form of humor I find good is when someone says something obvious I change my voice and go "What??? No way.." Or if they told me that I have to do something obvious I go "I do?!"
I have about 2 rock solid jokes I can go to. I seriously need more.
@TheLovelyEnigma Why? Have you none of your own?
@TheLovelyEnigma Well, you ask someone for their best go-to's and you offer nothing in return... you're going to get some pushback.
@@scillyautomaticdamn that was actually a really good one lol
@@scillyautomatic
You can have this one…
A young man from Juarez Mexico is trying to get American citizenship.
In El Paso, he is told that if he can use these three colors…pink, yellow, and green…in a sentence, he will be granted immediate citizenship.
The young man ponders for a moment, then confidently says, “in my casa, when I hear da telephone go green green, I pink it up and say yellow.”
Dont know why people need this? This is so easy comes to me naturally. I don't have any trouble making people laugh. What can I say, my life's a joke.
I actually do much of this without thinking. Jokes come naturally to me, and half the time it's at my own expense. "Obviously I can't be trusted alone with it." - an inside joke about me breaking things. "I'll bring what you need in 2 hours." - currently referencing me taking two hours to bring a coworker something.
The ones that are not inside jokes, I do on the fly. Most of the time it's at my own expense anyways, sometimes it's at their own expense. 9 times out of 10, it lands with a lasting impact. Anything really good, everyone just continues to reference it days or even weeks later. I also do a lot of encouragement, which are not so much tiny jokes, but tiny jabs. "Why don't you?" followed by... "Don't worry about it, just do it." Something a bit extreme, but that notion gets into their head and they usually remember something like that. Of course, all through context.
Dude, you are so funny.
@6:09 "Van Helsing" is great, I've never got the hate, I love it!
Apparently more than 50% of people who weren't critics liked it sooo...
When someone makes the comment that people never change I sincerely and strenuously object. "That's just not true." I begin. "My relationship with my mom was absolutely horrible but like four years ago she changed and our relationship was transformed overnight. As bad as it was before - it's that good now. Yup, ever since she died..."
I understand she was not a nice person, but you did not need to kill her, though.
Dude just described my sense of humor😅
OK, tell us a joke then, instead of teasing us!
If you rely on a formula for interacting with people, it will become very noticeable, especially once people really get to know you. Be your own person. Tell your own jokes. Attempting to hide your worry about meeting new people or whether or not you're likeable never ends well. Don't put on faces, or you'll only be surrounded by people who put on faces.
So, in short:
1: say things that exaggerate or are absurd, so it's obvious they're jokes; or,
2: use funny teasing (using the above);
3: for best results, tease yourself;
4: Vary the use of one and two (and three) so you're not boring/predictable.
I always wondered why I had people around me so easily, some friends asked how I did it.
but now I understand!
your video is very nice, I understood what I do naturally without even noticing it. I do all of these, its part of my personnality.
it would feel weird to fake it tho. im not sure about learning human behaviour and trying to mimick them. its seems immoral in some way
(hope my english wasnt that bad, 3rd language actually)
your english is great! really cool that you're trilingual
@@fiberoeatsfiber thank you! I just wish my ideas are understood. So I feel insecure about my others languages sometimes.
beautiful video. Helpful and made me laugh, thank you
I am very humble, because I have so much to be humble about...
I am an introvert who has overcome shyness to bullying, to cultural repression forced on males (as a non-westerner) with regard to dating. I share this lesson in humility especially with regard to game. Your jokes could be the most funniest yet they will never impress people who are disingenuous and refuse to see the efforts of others.
You are too serious and gloomy to be funny. It is not on other people to find humor where it does not exist. If you want them to laugh at your jokes you have to present something worthy of a laugh.
Only mistake of this video is using James Corden as an example of how to be funny
Just a question. Why is it that when ever I tried to make people laugh I often feel that the people that I am trying to amuse often don't bother to even listen or try to understand that I am joking .Giving me the feeling that I am boring and that nobody sees me as funny and I am not interesting
It's probably just about when you say the joke. Yes I'm very punctual replying to this.
If you really wanna get their attention…just waive Agunn in the air.
Now that you have a captive audience…begin your joke telling.
Everyone inJail will love your story of how you made people pissINtheir pants due to fear…um, I mean, laughter.
this video gives off the vibes of "How to Win Friends and Influence People"
You must announce your place in the family of things. - Mary Jane Elizabeth Oliver
"You're kind of the opposite of her. She's old but looks young while you're old but look young. I'm just kidding. You look old, too."
Okay So Ryan Reynolds knows everything
This is so great im creative but this metod makes it easie to put in practise
Thanks for explaining how comedy works ….. < p a u s e > …… NAAAAAAAHT!!
What do you do when this happens unintentionally? Like, it just comes naturally in conversation, and the person who becomes obsessed with you happens to be married?
"Laugh at Yourself" is basically the answer
Best, never fail way to get people to be obsessed with you is look like Brad Pitt. Works every time
I quoted it slightly wrong but it’s still good.
Ryan Reynolds and Vince Vaughn need a movie together.
It would be Witty Banter at its finest.
Dot: very creative so ABSOLUTELY continue with it. Beautiful painting ‼️👏💐🎨🖼🖌️❣️
These helps for potential RUclips ideas
Bro!! I love Van Helsing, that movie is great 😢
"People don't judge you for having imperfections, they judge you on how you perceive your imperfections."
incredible breakdown!
This is the best video that I came across today, like and subscribe for sure!!!! Where can I drop the donation to you???
All these jokes boil down to ways to surprise people. If you surprise people, then you're unpredictable and mysterious. If people have you figured out, you're boring. So again, you can't just surprise people the same way all the time. You have to hit them in the face with a frying pan about once a year. Every day is too often.
What is worse than receiving a test message from your boyfriend that says "I want to break up"?
Receiving a test message five minutes later that says "Sorry wrong number."
I got a laff at church when i walked in the kitchen and they had a bunch of corn cobs on the counter i said " i haven't seen this much corn since the opening scene of Hee Haw."
Tim Dillon's comedy is something that will grow you, mentally and spiritually.
He's not good on stage. Was great ranting pre covi with the help of Ben
What makes someone charismatic?
A well groomed appearance makes the first impression. Remember Fashion has always been a Trillion dollar industry for a reason.
Good sense of Humor that makes you likeable to many. It can Lighten up the tense situation often and often its a good laughter we all hanker for in life
Warm gestures always make you likeable. Smile, hug, greet. Your body language should be full of energy and positivity.
Speak your heart and mind in the language of the audience . The way they want to listen. Its an art. Make your words more relatable to them
Celebrate life with others in happy times and in crisis stand up with people . Both are important . sharing emotions build great bonds
Watch good interviews, Ted talks, listen to good podcasts , read good books. Do it regularly.
Developing a good persona is a continuous process. So keep adding and keep learning patiently.
bro just stole this from quora digest💀
Goshdangit you got me watching a freaking commercial and now I've gotta sign up.
Costs FAR too much.
After practicing these techniques people are now obsessed with me at my living with OCD support group. Well, its a start.
I was good at jokes, but now I will overthink it. And I liked Van Helsing.
I guess im naturally funny because i do a lot of these things unintentionally i didnt even know they were techniques 😂
That was a funny comment
The fact that I think watching more RUclips will help me socially…
One of the best video
6:21 😂Van Helsing was Awesome… for me who saw as a rollercoaster ride send up to the old monster movies. But yeah if you’re not there for the action movie revamp like the mummy you’re not going to have fun as it both acknowledges the tropes and plays with them as rides the edge between parody and sincere love of the genre. Princess Bride does this too. Not sure what Van Helsing needed to get more love like it did 🤔
Person hosting the party: I cooked way more food than was necessary. I do not want it to go to waste. Therefore, everyone here has to bring home a tupeerware container.
Me: There doesn't have to be anything in it, but you have to bring home a tupperware container.
What to do when life gets tough?
Forgive yourself for your past mistakes.
Rather than overthinking, reflect on what to do.
Find a solution as quick as possible.
Never compare yourself to others. They are also fighting a silent battle.
Surround yourself with your loved ones to prevent loneliness and solitude.
Forgiving people in silence & never speaking to them again is a form of self care,
Focus on the quality of your circle rather than the number of people in it,
If you find yourself terrified in the face of challenges , stop & reframe your mind ,
You must adapt to the ever changing tides of life,
Notice the words you speak in your head to yourself. Be aware of your low quality & negative thoughts,
Journaling is the antidote to cluttered mind,
Pretending to be someone else is disrespecting yourself. Be unique & be who you really are ,
Pay attention to your body. It can protect you from physical, mental & emotional harm,
Have patience . Be willing. Be able to change,
Be vulnerable. Emotions should be shared, not feared. Have boundaries but build trust first,
Just Chill.!!
"Prevent loneliness and solitude"- bad advice
This is great….for people who are 40 years old or older