How To Make Women Feel Great Around You

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  • @cinnamonflan1412
    @cinnamonflan1412 Год назад +5794

    He’s an example of not just talking to women you find attractive and want to date. Talk to all women and get practice at complimenting and teasing people without expecting anything back.

    • @qwertyuiopforkspoon
      @qwertyuiopforkspoon Год назад +218

      Flirt with the world!

    • @honkhonk5181
      @honkhonk5181 Год назад +24

      Can anyone see my above comment or am I shadow banned again?

    • @Asav_Edits
      @Asav_Edits Год назад +40

      @@honkhonk5181yes bro i dont see ur comment man unfortunate 😢

    • @r.gentleman
      @r.gentleman Год назад +51

      thats what all players did in their child/ teenage hood 🤦🏾‍♂️ only if i knew. its all bout vision yk but its never too late.

    • @ZOCCOK
      @ZOCCOK Год назад +1

      ​@@honkhonk5181 I have been shadow banned on Anomaly's channel and I feel you bro 🥲

  • @vaibhavkarne7259
    @vaibhavkarne7259 Год назад +1418

    Takeaway
    1. Approach without hesitation
    Have some ice breaker line ready
    2. If someone makes fun assume good intent, don't lose smile, playfuly tease them back
    3. Compliment in a way that is not creepy without expecting anything
    Practice complimenting
    4. Be honest in situation where lot of guys would lie
    5. Don't be desperate for romantic connection
    6. Have standards beyond be beauty
    For that have other things in life that you care about and have options by developing charisma

    • @rileydibling9883
      @rileydibling9883 11 месяцев назад +18

      Also using famous people as an example isn't completely transparent. As they are likely to have people already interested in speaking to them.....an average joe following these steps is way more likely to get shot down, before an interaction even really starts.

    • @fuzzypanda1684
      @fuzzypanda1684 10 месяцев назад +9

      There really should be a disclaimer saying that you can do all of this and still get no results.

    • @Anudorini-Talah
      @Anudorini-Talah 9 месяцев назад +1

      facts@@rileydibling9883

    • @stargirl1613
      @stargirl1613 7 месяцев назад +12

      All false. Be handsome or rich or both at the same time. Beautiful women or women out of your league won't settle for average men. That's the cold heart truth. If you're an average guy and you managed to get yourself a beautiful woman then consider yourself lucky

    • @yeimarsoto3196
      @yeimarsoto3196 5 месяцев назад +4

      3 and 1 are off especially 1. Do not have lines ready. Has to be off the cuff. Otherwise is disingenuous and women will notice.

  • @bigbonesbrian
    @bigbonesbrian Год назад +11352

    Pro tip: You don't actually have to replace "I'm Jack" with your name. More women will fall for you if they think you're Jack Harlow

    • @siniquezu
      @siniquezu Год назад +202

      I am Jack's sense of self worth

    • @honkhonk5181
      @honkhonk5181 Год назад +31

      What about not looking like him?

    • @swarnadeepjosh6591
      @swarnadeepjosh6591 Год назад +54

      @@siniquezu bro , i am Jack's love for witty fight club references

    • @latetodagame1892
      @latetodagame1892 Год назад +11

      Who's Jack?

    • @swarnadeepjosh6591
      @swarnadeepjosh6591 Год назад +6

      @@latetodagame1892 mc of fight club (actually is name is sabastian , but fans call him jack)

  • @Juss169
    @Juss169 Год назад +3705

    "To be attractive have standards that are beyond beauty". wish that was taught to all in school

    • @raiderxskull
      @raiderxskull Год назад +12

      So real

    • @jr2lx
      @jr2lx Год назад +24

      "Just something ugly people say"

    • @dahay6
      @dahay6 Год назад +8

      No, it shouldnt be thought because then it would be normal. And people don't want the same thing they want something new. Then we had to learn something else to stand out!

    • @bigjohnhansome5779
      @bigjohnhansome5779 Год назад +20

      B.S. Everyone pretends looks don't matter ... until they do.

    • @tigerdank5666
      @tigerdank5666 Год назад

      I think it is, it's just really against our nature.

  • @Rodri626
    @Rodri626 Год назад +232

    Love yourself first. Loving yourself gives you self confidence. And self confidence is the most attractive.

    • @R3ktCunnyz69
      @R3ktCunnyz69 5 месяцев назад

      Once you love and respect yourself, anyone else's love or respect becomes redundant & useless. Let no one in.

    • @JesussavesRepenttruly
      @JesussavesRepenttruly 4 месяца назад +2

      See your need for Jesus since He died for our sins and rose again, ask Him to change your life for His glory, pray for a godly wife and He will bless you if it’s in His will❤❤❤✝️✝️✝️💯💯💯💯

    • @szaman4180
      @szaman4180 18 дней назад +3

      ​@@JesussavesRepenttruly shush

  • @Freedom_is_essential1
    @Freedom_is_essential1 Год назад +629

    I believe an attractive quality is not being afraid to walk away if your being treated of lesser value. If someone is genuinely not respectful to you (man/ woman), make it clear that you wont tolerate it. That’s having standards.

    • @Mr_Kenneth
      @Mr_Kenneth Год назад +8

      Did that a few years ago. Girl was interested in my house- told her to get lost.

    • @fuzzypanda1684
      @fuzzypanda1684 10 месяцев назад +5

      It definitely helps in making you feeling better about yourself, but it does nothing to make her feel attracted. It's not like if she's disinterested, you casually walking away is going to intrigue her or make her think "omg, he's walking away?" and suddenly be interested in you. But yes, it's definitely better than sticking around awkwardly.

    • @Freedom_is_essential1
      @Freedom_is_essential1 10 месяцев назад +3

      @@fuzzypanda1684 - At the end of the day, not every girl is gonna like you. And walking away from a girl who is showing little interest in you at a bar, demonstrates that you hold yourself in high value. Why focus on someone that’s not interested when their could be many others that are. Easier said than done btw

  • @WilliamJonesChess
    @WilliamJonesChess Год назад +835

    Key moments
    fake defensiveness
    02:30 Smile. This shows you are unphased.
    Honest Compliment
    04:18 You know how to make a man smile. you just warmed my soul up.

    • @BananaRaid
      @BananaRaid Год назад +5

      Where are all the other ones

    • @OneFingerMan
      @OneFingerMan Год назад +27

      bro probably got smiled at and got a warming compliment while writing his comment and just left💀

    • @Becksnnc
      @Becksnnc Год назад +2

      @@BananaRaid HAHA he gave up

    • @DesolationNathan
      @DesolationNathan Год назад +4

      What if your teeth is jacked and hate your smile ?

    • @MrGhoulie
      @MrGhoulie Год назад +6

      Looks aren’t everything, let’s be real Jack Harlow is an average looking guy but his confidence helps, being 6’3 helps too

  • @Ziggle-ky9kv
    @Ziggle-ky9kv 7 месяцев назад +3976

    There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal

    • @vurra
      @vurra 7 месяцев назад +6

      Interesting, I'll look it up

    • @cheesesteakphilly
      @cheesesteakphilly 7 месяцев назад

      Is it on Amazon?
      The only ones I found on Amazon are “Casanova Secrets” and “Conversation Casanova”.
      And several others that are titled “The Playbook”

    • @Sup3rsistD3ad
      @Sup3rsistD3ad 6 месяцев назад +5

      Is there any rewiew of this book?

    • @ScatterbrainFilms-k8o
      @ScatterbrainFilms-k8o 6 месяцев назад +98

      The description alone reeks of BS

    • @mrx4814
      @mrx4814 6 месяцев назад

      @@ScatterbrainFilms-k8o if you have better recommendations do share?

  • @diddlybop
    @diddlybop Год назад +499

    The first one approach without hesitation is honestly very dependent on the context and how attractive you are. Not just physically but the care you've put into your appearance such as appearing clean, well dressed and respectful. By well dressed I dont mean dressing expensively, simply dressing thoughtfully. Those things will make a huge difference in how your approach is received whethwry you hesitate or not. Honestly if someone appears shy and uncertain it is not likely to make me like them less, as long as they get more comfortable once we talk.

    • @MoriacMumma7
      @MoriacMumma7 Год назад +22

      Very true. Its also showing interest in what the person is saying, beyond that first Hello. And remembering their name (something I had trouble doing). Linking something with that person's name helps ie. Jack with the curly hair, Sue with the big smile, Joe who likes red... it doesn't have to relate to their look, it can be anything, though remembering Sandeep with deep ocean near the sand didn't work, cause I tried to call him OceanBeach😳🥴(thankfully he saw the funny side too!😅)

    • @diddlybop
      @diddlybop Год назад +7

      @@MoriacMumma7 lol!! I struggle to remember names too, and without reminders like yours I would never remember any names 🤣

    • @Freedom_is_essential1
      @Freedom_is_essential1 Год назад +2

      The question is, how long are you willing to give them to become comfortable with you?

    • @diddlybop
      @diddlybop Год назад

      @@Freedom_is_essential1 depends on all the above mentioned things - and the context.

    • @arthurmcdaniel3943
      @arthurmcdaniel3943 Год назад +3

      Hesitation is the first killer of attraction. So despite of what you look like, go with a playful energy and just meet ppl

  • @queasyweasel
    @queasyweasel Год назад +161

    Totally stealing that "You just brought a smile to my face" line 😁 Shows that you're having a good time, while also subtly complimenting the person you're talking to, giving them some ownership of making you have a good time 😄

  • @大きな魚-g8b
    @大きな魚-g8b Год назад +54

    2:14 you have to actually understand that you're a human being and not every interaction with other people is meant for you to be attracted. in that interaction it is perfectly fine to be unattractive and tell those two women off. time and place for everything. sometimes i say gm. sometimes i walk past you without a word. that's life.

  • @Jakuboooooooooo
    @Jakuboooooooooo 9 месяцев назад +37

    Jack Harlow reminds me of my best friend w how charismatic and confident (yet humble) he is.

  • @ajatmitra9495
    @ajatmitra9495 Год назад +66

    Giving compliments is soo true. My friend who is very good with women gives compliment even to guys.

  • @SidneyJupiter
    @SidneyJupiter Год назад +2127

    Pro tip no 1. Introduce yourself as being Jack Harlow

    • @anteshell
      @anteshell Год назад +86

      Pro tip no 2. Look like Jack Harlow

    • @SidneyJupiter
      @SidneyJupiter Год назад +79

      @@anteshell pro tip no 3. Be Jack Harlow

    • @reversev9778
      @reversev9778 Год назад +50

      Pro tip no 4. Don’t be not Jack Harlow

    • @shiv_ring
      @shiv_ring Год назад +6

      nah, be yourself and don't try being somebody else, it's inauthentic

    • @anteshell
      @anteshell Год назад +28

      @@shiv_ring A special bonus tip just for you: Good sense of humour is attractive. Arguing against obvious jokes is not.

  • @subtleartofdisappointment5867
    @subtleartofdisappointment5867 11 месяцев назад +31

    I just wanted to say how much I love this channel. I don’t really struggle with socializing, but I still enjoy and get use out of these videos. I’m an introvert but I grew up in a very social environment. I love that these videos actually give good life advice and not just face-value charisma skills. I learned a few things and I didn’t even have to practice them, I just noticed that I started doing these things. Also, it’s nice to know about the things that I already do and say that make me charismatic. I often get compliments on how easy it is to talk to me, and these videos have just made it easier for me to understand how the way I behave comes across to other people. I’ve learned a lot about myself and the way I socialize, and it gave me confidence to know that I have a lot of natural charisma. The most valuable lessons have been those on dealing with combative people, or deal with insults. This channel is seriously gold.

    • @fuzzypanda1684
      @fuzzypanda1684 10 месяцев назад

      I mean, kinda. Everything in this video is very basic, 101 stuff that anyone who's taken even a cursory glance into the world of self-improvement or attracting women would already know. He's not saying anything that hasn't already been said many, many times before. Honestly, he's kinda the WatchMojo of self improvement channels.

    • @subtleartofdisappointment5867
      @subtleartofdisappointment5867 10 месяцев назад

      @@fuzzypanda1684 you’d be surprised how much people don’t know 😭

  • @TheEliminator1992
    @TheEliminator1992 6 дней назад +6

    Expert level tip:
    If you're ugly, none of this works. Take my word for it, been living it.

    • @atlas4281
      @atlas4281 Час назад

      Not with that attitude

  • @coinsinthecushion5800
    @coinsinthecushion5800 Год назад +127

    Finding a balance of confidence and approachability is paramount

  • @davidbruce5682
    @davidbruce5682 6 месяцев назад +8

    The best tip is that women enjoy the feelings of a conversation more that the facts of it which differs a lot from men to men conversations. Being fun, interested, interesting, confident and humourous is the goal rather than trying to appear nice, kind, strong, intelligent, competent, affluent etc... If you are all of these things they will show themselves anyway in time.

  • @tonguewarrior5020
    @tonguewarrior5020 8 месяцев назад +64

    "Doing right things and expecting nothing in return"
    That's such an ATTRACTIVE trait

  • @PinkMawile
    @PinkMawile Год назад +46

    I have to say, the push pull more than anything is huge. I know a lot of people think being nice means they'll get ignored. But it's not being nice that makes people lose interest, it's being boring. And a lot of people who get hung up about being considerate end up tying all the things that could be interesting behind their back.

  • @ThePhenom7
    @ThePhenom7 Год назад +252

    "If she likes and respects you, she'll make it easy for you" ⚡

    • @thegodofyoutube266
      @thegodofyoutube266 Год назад +4

      Lmao you never heard of a congruence test before have ya bud

    • @gyrgrls
      @gyrgrls Год назад +2

      Especially if you're congruent in a triangle...

    • @lavatr8322
      @lavatr8322 Год назад

      women are weird as fock.... normally im always an option

    • @davidmckesey7119
      @davidmckesey7119 Год назад +3

      Coach Corey Wayne. Don't take other peoples stuff man.

    • @LeftHimDead
      @LeftHimDead Год назад +1

      Wordd

  • @eimmanuell18
    @eimmanuell18 8 месяцев назад +8

    You just made Jack Harlow my favourite Artist right now😅😅

  • @Roan.bot.
    @Roan.bot. 11 месяцев назад +4

    1. Approach without hesitation
    2. Assume people who give you a hard time/ tease you have good intentions
    3.Use push/pull method
    4. Be honest
    5. Be desperate for romance // Dont obsess over beauty
    6. Have standards beyond beauty

  • @BRBallin1
    @BRBallin1 Год назад +84

    All this rizzonomics only works if you as a man have put in the work and can back yourself up through it. Be good at what you do best to the point where people are impressed by it. That way people know if they diss you, you’re unphased by it cuz your work speaks for itself

    • @fuzzypanda1684
      @fuzzypanda1684 10 месяцев назад

      And even then it can fail to work. You can walk up with a great physique, solid opener, and lots of confidence, but if the universe hates you, you're still not going to get anywhere.

    • @JimmyBoosterCrate
      @JimmyBoosterCrate 10 месяцев назад

      "Unbothered, unfazed, undaunted. Chess speaks for itself" -Hans Niemann

  • @natescilex
    @natescilex Год назад +53

    My notes:
    1) Approach without hestitation
    1) You get first impression
    2) Shows confidence
    3) Have opening lines
    "Hi, I'm [blank]"
    "Hey, I don't think I've met you yet, I'm [name]."
    1) Explains why your introducing yourself
    2) Implies you know a lot of people from the venue
    2) If someone is teasing you, assume they're being playful and take it positively
    1) Fake defensiveness, with a big smile
    2) Tease them back
    3) Use the push/pull method
    1) Spontaneous teasing and compliments
    2) Give a compliment that you would give regardless of if you were attracted to the person or not.
    1) "You know how to make a man smile."
    2) "You just warmed my soul up."
    3) Compliment pertaining to someone's physical nature regardless if they are attractive or not.
    4) Honesty in situations that most people would lie
    1) Answer even if it's not what the other person may like. It's attractive in itself
    You will stand out when you don't seem like you're trying hard to impress them
    5) Don't be desperate for a romantic connection
    1) Never instantly be all in. If you show interest in dating someone just because they're attractive, it makes you less attractive
    6) Have standards beyond beauty
    1) Have other things in your life that you care about more than romance

  • @Mysterr77
    @Mysterr77 2 месяца назад +1059

    it's kinda crazy how nobody's talking about the forbidden ebook called secrets of the elusive girl

  • @jacksonjack7838
    @jacksonjack7838 Год назад +167

    I would appreciate if you were to do how to have Charisma with someone youve known 10 years. You could help some old relationships get over some bumps.

    • @MoriacMumma7
      @MoriacMumma7 Год назад +5

      Are u looking for flirting tips? Or improving your character/reputation?😅

    • @richardbottom9843
      @richardbottom9843 Год назад +28

      bro move on from that girl

    • @goldengrill769
      @goldengrill769 Год назад +9

      Yes! Great topic, this channel is literally ONLY about first impressions and it gets boring. I stay subbed anyway because theres always some good new nugget of info.

    • @nestosauce
      @nestosauce Год назад +8

      Wrong channel for that buddy. Main thing you can do is to go away for some time then come back better and more fit. Look at other channel for that but honestly it would be easier with an entirely new girl.

    • @thestrainplays510
      @thestrainplays510 Год назад +4

      Bro she ain't the one trust 😭

  • @Arakko-i7h
    @Arakko-i7h Год назад +61

    30 Shocking psychological facts about attracting people
    1 People are more attracted to individuals who exhibit confidence and high self-esteem.
    2 Physical attractiveness plays a significant role in initial attraction, but personality traits and behavior ultimately determine long-term attraction.
    3 Similarity in interests and values increases the likelihood of attraction and compatibility.
    4 Familiarity breeds attraction, as people tend to feel more comfortable and drawn to individuals they have interacted with before.
    5 People are more attracted to those who demonstrate a sense of humor and the ability to make them laugh.
    6 Body language and nonverbal cues can have a significant impact on attraction, as individuals tend to be drawn to those who exhibit open and approachable body language.
    7 The mere-exposure effect suggests that individuals become more attracted to those they are repeatedly exposed to.
    8 The availability heuristic suggests that individuals are more attracted to those who are perceived as being scarce or hard to obtain.
    9 A person's scent can play a role in attraction, as certain pheromones may be perceived as attractive to others.
    10 Individuals tend to be attracted to those who share their level of physical and emotional intimacy.
    11 The reciprocity principle suggests that individuals tend to be attracted to those who show interest and attraction towards them.
    12 People tend to be attracted to those who exhibit kindness and empathy towards others.
    13 The halo effect suggests that individuals are more likely to be attracted to those who possess desirable qualities, even if they may lack in other areas.
    14 People tend to be attracted to those who are perceived as being successful and accomplished in their careers or personal lives.
    15 The similarity-attraction hypothesis suggests that individuals tend to be attracted to those who are similar to themselves in terms of demographics, personality, and values.
    16 Physical touch, such as holding hands or a gentle touch on the arm, can increase attraction and foster feelings of closeness and intimacy.
    17 People tend to be attracted to those who exhibit confidence and assertiveness in social situations.
    18 The balance theory suggests that individuals tend to be attracted to those who share their attitudes and beliefs, while avoiding those who hold conflicting views.
    19 Physical proximity can increase attraction, as individuals tend to be drawn to those who are in close proximity to them.
    20 People tend to be attracted to those who are attentive and responsive to their needs and emotions.
    21 Stare people in the eyes while talking with them, always cut to the point, and try to be the one who ends the conversation wherever possible.
    22 Physical touch, such as holding hands or a gentle touch on the arm, can increase attraction and foster feelings of closeness and intimacy.
    23 People tend to be attracted to those who exhibit confidence and assertiveness in social situations.
    24 The balance theory suggests that individuals tend to be attracted to those who share their attitudes and beliefs, while avoiding those who hold conflicting views.
    25 Physical proximity can increase attraction, as individuals tend to be drawn to those who are in close proximity to them.
    26 Never discuss your problems. If you must talk about yourself; use self deprecating humor or say modestly positive things.
    27 The mere-thought effect suggests that individuals may become more attracted to someone simply by thinking about them or being reminded of them.
    28 People tend to be attracted to those who are perceived as being trustworthy and reliable.
    29 The similarity-attraction effect suggests that individuals are more likely to be attracted to those who are similar to them in terms of physical appearance, personality, and interests.
    30 People tend to be attracted to those who exhibit a sense of passion and enthusiasm towards their hobbies and interests.eople tend to be attracted to those who ar

  • @hriv8093
    @hriv8093 Год назад +76

    Hello,
    Just wanted to say that I absolutely love your channel. The content is incredibly helpful in improving the attitude while communicating at different social events.
    Would you consider making another video on 'how to master small talk'? It's an area I'd love to improve, and your guidance would be beneficial.
    Have an amazing weekend

    • @murraymcgregor7829
      @murraymcgregor7829 Год назад +1

      Yes I would love a video on small talk, I find I can only get a conversation going if I ask someone what they have been passionate about lately. Some people love it and others get depressed if they have no passion.

  • @ahamoment773
    @ahamoment773 5 месяцев назад +2

    Confidence: Show confidence by approaching people without hesitation. Have an opening line prepared in case your mind goes blank.
    Example: Instead of circling around someone you want to talk to, walk up and introduce yourself with a friendly line such as "Hi, I don't think I've met you yet, I'm Jack."
    Positive attitude: If someone teases you, assume they are being playful and respond positively. Don't get defensive.
    Example: If someone playfully pokes fun at you, laugh it off and maybe even playfully tease them back.
    Push and Pull: Use a mix of compliments and teases to keep the conversation interesting and fun.
    Example: Compliment someone on something you genuinely like, then follow it up with a playful tease.
    Honesty: Be honest in your interactions. It's more attractive to be genuine than to try to be someone you're not.
    Example: If someone asks you what your type is, be honest about your preferences. Don't feel pressured to say what you think they want to hear.
    Standards: Have standards for who you date. Don't settle for someone just because they're attractive. Be attracted to someone's whole package, including their personality and interests.
    Example: Focus on finding someone who complements you and shares your values, instead of dating someone solely based on their looks.
    Options: Having a fulfilling life with friends, hobbies, and passions will make you more attractive. It shows that you are not dependent on a relationship for happiness.
    Example: Pursue your interests and develop your charisma. This will not only make you a more well-rounded person but will also make you more attractive to potential partners.

  • @TheMorkSkogen
    @TheMorkSkogen 5 месяцев назад +39

    Step 1: Be Jack Harlow

  • @lukajurica3232
    @lukajurica3232 8 месяцев назад +19

    03:38 bro skippin legs

  • @romainauberon9870
    @romainauberon9870 Месяц назад +644

    Success, wealth, great sense of fashion and style, confidence, fame... Women love that. And you can learn everything in the book called 'Casanova: Path To Success And Love'. Writer presents everything in a engaging manner, and he taught me how to be the best possible version of myself.

  • @stepbro1992
    @stepbro1992 11 месяцев назад +9

    This video is surprisingly good. Well done

  • @Im_Z_4747
    @Im_Z_4747 Год назад +10

    He's a 6 foot 3 famous rapper . That's important .

  • @HeisenbergFam
    @HeisenbergFam Год назад +214

    How to instantly become attractive & make people obsessed with you: be a millionaire

    • @censoreduser
      @censoreduser Год назад +7

      Girls to Zuck: hello there
      Also i swear i saw you before

    • @judylandry302
      @judylandry302 Год назад +6

      Do you mean Billionaire?

    • @jacksonjack7838
      @jacksonjack7838 Год назад +3

      Start Cooking

    • @potapotapotapotapotapota
      @potapotapotapotapotapota Год назад +1

      @@censoreduser no you didn't you haven't seen his comments anywhere on RUclips what are you on about how dare you lie I MEAN HOW DARE YOU you shouldn't even be on youtube what are you like 59? I think you should take a break from the internet you are having a bad day but if you take a break then you will cool your head off and I mean your head needs cooling you're like 86 degrees in hotter than a PC I think you need to go to Antarctica and go swim with the penguins I mean the penguins probably wouldn't want to be around you because you're such a liar they don't trust you I mean they look at you and they give you those eyes, those eyes that squint in ways you've never seen before I think those you need to take a good hard like at those eyes and wonder what you're doing in Antarctica like for real it's cold there and why are you in this situation you are in having to live in an igloo and sometimes being laid on by a penguin I think you need to take a good hard look at yourself like the penguins do you know what I'm saying no you don't becauseIthinkthatIknowbutyoudon'tandthat is why I think about you all the time

    • @censoreduser
      @censoreduser Год назад +1

      @@potapotapotapotapotapota lol 6 year old going on a rant, also yes I am actually that hot as I live in one of the hottest deserts on earth

  • @jay7166
    @jay7166 Год назад +96

    Finding this channel helped me realize why people like me so much. At the end of the day all it comes down to being a genuine person and treating folks how you would like to be treated. Also it’s important to know your audience.

    • @Imperialbbuilding
      @Imperialbbuilding Год назад +4

      Nice guys end up last.

    • @salfyoutube6592
      @salfyoutube6592 Год назад +22

      @@Imperialbbuilding there are dozens of reasons of why that comment is total BS. most common ones are below.
      Ask any woman how many nice guys have come and gone, ask why theyve come and gone... theyll probably tell you being nice to get recognized is not being nice, thats being transactional. no one likes someone who is being fake because they have something to gain. be nice for the sake of being nice. if youre anticpating something in return for your your kindness, that just sends major creeper vibe. word travels quick. acting like an incel dont help. And when you dont get what you were after, you post that comment. be genuine. if you have a sh*t attitude youll attract sh*t. dont be a simp. dont be a neckbeard. have confidence. exude confidence. if at first you dont succeed try and try again. work on yourself , youll get there. eat righ sleep right achieve and make new goals. people WILL notice. do not expect someone to invest their time if its clear you dont invest in yourself. there are 7.5 billion people in this world, get out there, learn at least one thing from every experience. build your confidence , amass your knowledge and experiences. we already know the definition of insanity, if nothing is working, maybe its time for a change.
      that all may come off as derogatory etc, its actually quite the opposite. what you put out in the world is what youll get back. the mirror effect. best of luck

    • @CandorHispanus
      @CandorHispanus Год назад +2

      ​@@salfyoutube6592 lmao triggered nice essay. "Just be confident bro"? Bet you're one of those r/relationships weirdos who is single and yet giving out platitudes as relationship advise that doesn't work most of the time

    • @salfyoutube6592
      @salfyoutube6592 Год назад +1

      @@CandorHispanusjust about everything that was written was already specified on this channel. nerd.

    • @nicholaswojtyna6788
      @nicholaswojtyna6788 Год назад +1

      @@salfyoutube6592 maybe, just maybe, you have to work on YOURSELF if you feel the need to post that kind of comment. Also nice guys =/= good guys, there's a reason that term is so specific.

  • @daiyansultan9538
    @daiyansultan9538 4 месяца назад +50

    0:12 imagine being her husband💀 divorce immediately

  • @felipezamarripa6421
    @felipezamarripa6421 6 часов назад +1

    Takeaways
    1. Jack Harlow is a smooth talker
    2. The narrator digs the smooth talking and is into him.

  • @Deiwulf
    @Deiwulf Год назад +150

    Don't have depression. Don't meet wrong people and don't be in wrong places, so you actually want to speak to anyone instead of despising them. Easy.

    • @Ruben-co6pz
      @Ruben-co6pz Год назад +44

      Haha, "don't have depression", so that's what I was missing. Thank you!

    • @orrhousecreative
      @orrhousecreative Год назад +16

      You're placing your life into an outer locus of control my brother, it's when we let those things we can't control slip on by, focusing on what we can do-when we focus on what We. Can. Do.
      The whole world can seem against you, it really can-it's when you keep standing back up and doing what you can, regardless of how many times you're brought back to your knees, that's when we realize we are more than just the obstacles we face, we are the one overcoming those obstacles, a d learning while we do so.
      Keep it up brother, we all fall down. Getting back up is hard, so damn hard, and it can feel like nobody understands. If nobody else is there to witness or validate your strength, or your progress-let yourself be witness enough, validate your own progress to yourself.
      Much love, I wish you the best on your journey friend.

    • @TMCoachJonathan
      @TMCoachJonathan Год назад +3

      Listen to Andrew tate interviews. You need a kick in the pants from a loving father figure

    • @vividchilling2492
      @vividchilling2492 Год назад

      @@Ruben-co6pz lmfao

    • @ryancrawford8042
      @ryancrawford8042 Год назад

      ​@@TMCoachJonathanhe makes my brain hurt

  • @DhruvParmar-gm4ke
    @DhruvParmar-gm4ke 5 месяцев назад +6

    Ultimate tip : *BE F***ING RICH*

  • @Sirdixoncider
    @Sirdixoncider 7 дней назад +3

    Instructions unclear. I am now an international rap star named Jack

  • @Slow_gixxerr
    @Slow_gixxerr Год назад +31

    I’ve been wanting a breakdown on Jack Harlow for a while, thank you! His charisma is off the charts

    • @copp3rflam3
      @copp3rflam3 Год назад +3

      his name is 'Jack Harlow', his name has rizz

  • @user-em6ie2be7x
    @user-em6ie2be7x Год назад +71

    These Habits can help but a Woman will find what she likes about you regardless. I've seen Woman who like The Strong, Slient Type, to The Muscular Jock, heck I was a Loner in school and even I got a Love Letter. My best advice Try your best.

    • @sudhakar7889
      @sudhakar7889 Год назад +9

      You seemed to contradicted yourself in the last sentence.

    • @user-em6ie2be7x
      @user-em6ie2be7x Год назад +4

      ​​@@sudhakar7889 Not sure how I can't write all the types women are into I can just tell you what I was back in school, the girl liked Loners. Try your best is a general term anyone can use.

    • @MoriacMumma7
      @MoriacMumma7 Год назад +1

      ​@@user-em6ie2be7x yeah, I didn't see a contradiction either. Best to be/present your best version of you. Nobody likes to be lied to & a lot of women want something other/more than looks imo (though that helps). (Looks/money aren't top on my list. Top 10, but lower top 10😉😅)

    • @lavatr8322
      @lavatr8322 Год назад

      Are you a loner but Rich?

    • @Lone_Coyote
      @Lone_Coyote Год назад +1

      Maybe, just maybe, that love letter was a joke from a dude or something. I hope not.

  • @TazTatz-sl3cd
    @TazTatz-sl3cd 4 месяца назад +1

    So what i got from this was focus on yourself and be confident

  • @yesh1751
    @yesh1751 10 месяцев назад +5

    Your videos really stand out man!

  • @PatrikKoscak28
    @PatrikKoscak28 5 месяцев назад +1

    I am a rizz god after this video, after reading sun tzu the art of war and watching this video I became a girl magnet! Truly wonderful advice out here thank you so much

    • @JolinHard
      @JolinHard 5 месяцев назад

      Post videos

  • @alexwoodhead6471
    @alexwoodhead6471 Год назад +2

    Never clicked an ad, sponsor or anything close... Genuinely considering charisma university 😂

  • @Lord_Brandon
    @Lord_Brandon Год назад +1

    “Hi, I don’t know you, but I sure as hell would like to.” - Been my go to for a long time but I’m in a relationship now so I’m not using it anymore 🤝

  • @MomoLomner
    @MomoLomner Год назад +25

    Jack is such a awesome guy and a real legend💯

  • @legan_R
    @legan_R 5 месяцев назад +1

    Harlow’s so good he had a video with a million views dedicated to his craft 😭

  • @Domzdream
    @Domzdream Год назад +34

    Of course it's easier said than done. Especially when someone presses that anger button intensely. Always try to respond with humour, cockiness, playfulness. When you lash out with anger, you've lost the 'battle'. Try again next time. It's practice afterall.

    • @murraymcgregor7829
      @murraymcgregor7829 Год назад

      Yes lashing out at people will just harm your future prospects within the particular scene as you will see them again and they might even be in a position to decide whether you get hired or not.

  • @Airsaber
    @Airsaber 24 дня назад +1

    Would be nice to also see a "how to make men feel great around you" video, as well as more breakdowns of charismatic female celebrities. :)

  • @leoray1234
    @leoray1234 Год назад +5

    Lesson: be nice, be playful, never be desperate.

  • @mademoisellecupcake4047
    @mademoisellecupcake4047 Год назад +3

    7:30 the next sentences were soooo truuuue 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼

  • @johnb6850
    @johnb6850 6 месяцев назад +10

    This is a good example of how it’s easy to be charismatic as a rich goofy looking rapper, walk up to a regular girl on 6th street and you’ll get clowned saying hi. Save your 600 bucks

  • @devanshusingh1928
    @devanshusingh1928 5 дней назад

    The best conversation skills are becoming rich and famous.

  • @magneticmenclub
    @magneticmenclub Год назад +17

    Love #2 and "Fake defensiveness" always my go to strategy

  • @frequentlycynical642
    @frequentlycynical642 29 дней назад

    You can often get away with either complimenting or asking about something she's wearing. "That's a very unusual necklace. Is there a story behind it?" It also informs her that you have looked at her chest. Complimenting/asking about something that isn't her body, yet of her, is very safe. Not creepy.
    You can practice this low level charisma every day in many places. The girl in the checkout line, "That's a pretty/unusual name." I told my hot female boss today, "That's a happy fabric!", what her dress pattern was. Absolutely safe, but made her feel a little bit good and I got another practice in.
    Don't go into a social situation w/o a plan. Do you know how much thought and planning my spontaneous comments take?

  • @dharshansenthilkumar9492
    @dharshansenthilkumar9492 Год назад +53

    Why is this generation pedestalizing women so much. Why do I need to make other women obsessed with me? Are they like something God or what? We must stay focused brothers.

    • @ThePhenom7
      @ThePhenom7 Год назад +18

      Fr, the amount of smps nowadays is 1nsane
      And it's highly due to social media most especially tik tok 💀

    • @torachan23
      @torachan23 Год назад +5

      Because since birth, this generation has been told that women are wonderful and perfect and "the future is female". Everything needs to be geared to how a woman feels, how something benefits women, how something negatively effects women, etc.
      Women are the sole focus in the world today.

    • @asnoopy
      @asnoopy Год назад

      Yea the word obsesse sounds like too much and toxic, but they probably want more clicks 💰

    • @mariokotlar303
      @mariokotlar303 Год назад +3

      Why do you think this generation does it more than any previous one?

    • @kazandibi.
      @kazandibi. Год назад +3

      @@mariokotlar303 Because most of us raised by our mothers not mascular fathers

  • @pathos7527
    @pathos7527 Месяц назад

    Good idea is to practice compliments on those you have no interest in being with but see redeeming features in. Easy way to get used to doing it, and taking that pressure off of hoping for some beneficial result for you makes it more fun and can help you relax when you are doing that with someone you ARE into.

    • @lepidoptera9337
      @lepidoptera9337 Месяц назад

      I am an incontinent old man but I am very much into Kate Upton. You think I can make it work if I am really relaxed? (Did you get it? :-))

  • @jascrandom9855
    @jascrandom9855 Год назад +18

    You guys should do videos for women too.

    • @petkofuchalski9809
      @petkofuchalski9809 Год назад

      the principle i literally the same, but this advise may not work, depending on what type of men you want to attract.

    • @mr.drinkhiswater
      @mr.drinkhiswater Год назад +5

      Not to be too damsel in distress, but if you like someone, ask for some help or an opinion on something. Men are always trynna help women. Even if you’re smarter than the person, lower the ego and approach. I’ve done this exact thing with women and have found years of success.

  • @Evanz111
    @Evanz111 4 месяца назад +1

    POV: You ended up here searching for the “Rizz for Rizz” song and this was the top result

  • @djtdawg87
    @djtdawg87 Год назад +24

    Hey guys can y'all please, please do a video on James Spader's character of Raymond “Red” Reddington from The Blacklist, i mean not only is he a total badass but he's also super smart and confident and doesn't care what others think of him at all, he would be great to do a video on i think.

    • @djtdawg87
      @djtdawg87 Год назад +1

      @@ericgaston5763 I know. He's a pretty cool dude.

    • @delronmackay1473
      @delronmackay1473 Год назад +2

      yess i love him

  • @TrailMixEnjoyer31
    @TrailMixEnjoyer31 11 дней назад +1

    thanks for the tips! i bet ill be able to get sophia to go to the schoo dance with me with your help. thank you greatly

  • @waterdog1853
    @waterdog1853 Год назад +3

    Be authentic. Because if you are and you know you are, eventually authenticity will find you. Because it is you.

  • @musicalvibes1932
    @musicalvibes1932 11 месяцев назад

    fellas presence of the mind is the only key! just dont overanalyze what you are going to say, what she’ll think of you, just start meditating and be present fully in the moment and you shall see magic

  • @ShyamkrishnanNair
    @ShyamkrishnanNair 23 дня назад

    Absolutely agree! Jack Harlow's authentic style is refreshing and makes flirting seem effortless. I remember feeling hesitant to approach someone I was interested in, but realizing that assuming good intent can completely change the dynamic. Humor can be tricky-sometimes we worry if we're coming off too strong or if our jokes will be well-received.
    After joining the Sense of Humor Improvement Program by Habit10x, I learned that humor is a great way to connect and be honest. Embrace your unique style, and you'll naturally attract the right people!

  • @andyyoo8018
    @andyyoo8018 Год назад +12

    love your videos, keep up the good work

  • @shaheenhasan9567
    @shaheenhasan9567 12 дней назад

    One thing u need is money,,,thats the 1st thing what makes u most attractive...Good luck pals..have a nice day and keep improving...💪

  • @russellrizzo6673
    @russellrizzo6673 Год назад +2

    never clicked a video so fast when I saw the Jackman

  • @sonnysantana5454
    @sonnysantana5454 2 дня назад

    only 2' approaches that ive been using since the mid 70's 1' soft and direct and the 2'nd indirect and funny women love humor and a quick wit , and as the great richard Pryor used to say if you can get to laugh you can get them to bed and it works

  • @jeff-chest-cheffmaster8159
    @jeff-chest-cheffmaster8159 Год назад +10

    Talk to women like they were your best friend, that will kill all the insecure and akward dynamics

  • @reivelt3715
    @reivelt3715 26 дней назад

    I guess this is why my male coworker say that i am a "womanizer".
    In their eyes, talking like this is too flirty. Or things like that
    I am married, so i dont plan to unnecessarily get close to other women, but talking to them this way make them much more comfortable (i live and work in an industry that is dominated by men)

  • @thebelt24
    @thebelt24 Год назад +16

    “Nobody is shaken’”
    That’s quite possibly the worst way to handle someone poking fun at you. Taking it seriously, despite it being with positivity. She’s JOKING, she knows it’s not real. He just comes off as defensive because he needs people to know it was a joke.
    A better response would be to flip the frame on her “Robert Downey Jr. is standing right behind you” or drop your ego and play into it “I thought you had to shake when you shook hands” another goodie is simply exaggerating the situation “I’ve never shaked hands with a woman before”
    Needing to address something someone says about you, says more about you than what was said.

    • @gymboy2119
      @gymboy2119 Год назад

      Man shut up… 😂 💀

    • @Latinblood59
      @Latinblood59 Год назад +16

      He was joking back with her. You can tell by his tone of voice and how he looked at the camera while saying it and walks off with a smile/ smirk

    • @jackmayor3574
      @jackmayor3574 Год назад

      He didn't take it seriously though? He was joking back, he knew he was on camera.

  • @beboysub
    @beboysub 5 месяцев назад +2

    yes I am

  • @MegaMan-bs3oy
    @MegaMan-bs3oy 3 месяца назад +4

    Step 1 be a celeb

  • @Kurbante
    @Kurbante 6 месяцев назад

    These are good tips, also remember to not care. What I mean by that is leave the ego, fear , what ifs , and most importantly never fake an opinion just to appear similar .

  • @GarethReecewood
    @GarethReecewood Год назад +13

    Problem with this channel is it only uses wealthy celebrities as examples. Those people can literally say anything and women/men will fawn over them.

    • @lavatr8322
      @lavatr8322 Год назад

      YEP

    • @machupikachu1085
      @machupikachu1085 Год назад

      Do you honestly think most people would watch the channel more if he used nobodies for examples?

    • @GarethReecewood
      @GarethReecewood Год назад +2

      @@machupikachu1085 No, but it would be more realistic.

    • @lynic-0091
      @lynic-0091 Год назад +1

      @@machupikachu1085 Uhm, that would make the channel a thousand times better.

    • @machupikachu1085
      @machupikachu1085 Год назад

      @@lynic-0091 uhm, no it wouldn't, actually. They use success stories because they are just that - success stories. These individuals got famous BECAUSE they have these traits, not in spite of them. Rarely do others want to shower lavish attention and praise on myopic, socially awkward people with no charm.
      Their success is verifiable. Additionally, there is more video footage of these people that shows said charisma time and again.
      If COC used regular people, most the naysayers (like you) would comment that 'no one knows who these people are', 'this site is fake', or 'if they are so charming, why aren't they famous or more successful??'
      Lastly, if you truly believe that using people know one's ever heard of is a far better idea, why do YOU start that channel here on RUclips? It's a slam-dunk, multi-million dollar idea, right? Right??
      We both know why you won't.
      Cheers!

  • @darthtater6543
    @darthtater6543 Месяц назад

    Confidence and Looks/Style go hand in hand. They have to have something they feel attracted to you. If you look like Freddy Krueger they won’t want to be around you.

  • @AndyYeetus
    @AndyYeetus 8 месяцев назад +20

    As a guy who gets no bicthes this is useful

  • @adityaadi2116
    @adityaadi2116 3 месяца назад

    The most important thing of all:
    BE ATTRACTIVE...

  • @dongdabitu3894
    @dongdabitu3894 20 дней назад

    If you have the ability to love,love yourself first

  • @Itadori6
    @Itadori6 Год назад +18

    How to master the art of rizz :
    - Be Tall
    - Be Handsome

    • @sofitocyn100
      @sofitocyn100 Год назад +6

      He isn't even that attractive. I mean there is nothing that gorgeous in his physique. But his personality makes you feel like he is the most perfect man. So magnetic

  • @angelbeii_
    @angelbeii_ Год назад +1

    Jack Harlow is smooth af

  • @tbotiOG
    @tbotiOG 5 месяцев назад +5

    So Easy Peezy, be insanely good looking, 6ft or taller, in great shape, extremely successful with millions in the bank and it should be that easy, gotcha😉

    • @jaiobi3490
      @jaiobi3490 28 дней назад +1

      There’s plenty of guys who have those things you mentioned who can’t flirt with women to save their lives. All they depend on is the fact that they are rich and or famous. Women don’t like that. There are short guys and unattractive guys out there with hefty amounts of confidence and charisma that get women. Stop making excuses and go for it, you’ll be surprised and what you’ll be able to do. In life not just with women.

  • @NickCooper74
    @NickCooper74 Месяц назад +2

    Step one: be tall and handsome

  • @StupidUsername1243
    @StupidUsername1243 Год назад +8

    Didn't watch the video but I'm sure the summary is about being confident and being genuine

  • @mvp2x382
    @mvp2x382 6 месяцев назад

    Bruh that girl in the beginning talking bout "Don't tempt me i'm a married woman but i'll leave him" is diabolical behaviour, shows how people put celebrities way too high in this society.

  • @NotZubair
    @NotZubair 15 дней назад +3

    Instructions unclear, i got slapped.

  • @yourLocalTroll33
    @yourLocalTroll33 5 месяцев назад

    Nothing can beat a simple “hello”

  • @shortstuff780
    @shortstuff780 Год назад +5

    never heard of this man, but he seems chill. awkward a bit, but chill

  • @slimluka2947
    @slimluka2947 5 месяцев назад +2

    jus be unique intresting n humourous with the words u say n everyone will love u

  • @MajorasMaskMailman
    @MajorasMaskMailman Год назад +5

    This is the best charisma breakdown in a long time!

  • @motorbreath22
    @motorbreath22 4 месяца назад +1

    Be tall, be famous..
    Be attractive, don't be unattractive.

  • @dre9088
    @dre9088 Год назад +4

    Just be yourself

    • @Yeomannn
      @Yeomannn 27 дней назад

      Myself isn't good

    • @dre9088
      @dre9088 27 дней назад

      ​@@YeomannnI said that a year ago and god damn I agree

  • @Dw89527
    @Dw89527 4 месяца назад +2

    Why is bro glazing jack harlow

  • @vigneshdhanasekaran2853
    @vigneshdhanasekaran2853 Год назад +3

    Oh man. Ur a geniusss

  • @user-Alexanderm
    @user-Alexanderm 3 месяца назад +1

    6'2, blue eyes and good looking

  • @helloryantanaka
    @helloryantanaka Год назад +3

    Great video as usual.