@@TrashRocksTheWorld I am 68. Ten years ago I found out I had autism!. Had a troubled childhood and found it difficult to make friends!. Understanding what’s different about ourselves is not a cure, however as you stated it explains why we are different.
Paul is so hysterically funny in this, love the part where he pulls Denise up for saying “one of the funniest comedians” ha ha - no actually it’s THE funniest comedian thank you very much
I fully agree that these labels are being handed out like sweets when it could actually be a symptom of something else, say trauma, the amount of people who all have major trauma and have been properly diagnosed with ADHD and Autism is no coincidence.
That's a hatefully ignorant, deceptive, deeply irresponsible and harmful thing to say. Being diagnosed much later in life and still being expected to meet neurotypical milestones of life is inherently 'major trauma' - you're missing the mark to have noticed the connection between them and dismiss the fact they cooccur. It took me 6 months of solid personal research to even apply for the extra 4 years to get my ADHD diagnosis and having just got my autistic diagnosis a lot of that process was proving the traits that weren't just autistic crossovers, and presenting a convincing argument to my doctor which took me 6 months to sort because my ADHD was debilitating me that much. My degree was a thousand times easier to get... and I actually learnt more during my own study than you'd learn for a degree. All that and further 7+ months and counting to access medication. The assessment is too rigorous if you spoke to any one of us before making and sharing your assumptions you'd realise that - it's staggeringly arrogant to the point of being hostile to think you don't just know more about the conditions than both trained professionals and people with a lifetime of experience. We don't fight so hard to get the diagnosis so ignorant people can invalidate our identity and the mountain we've had to climb to get it recognised. You need to learn the 2 meanings of the word 'trend' the only trend is more understanding of the conditions including the fact they don't only happen in white male children. That's the polar opposite of the truth.
As a late diagnosed autistic (67) and currently awaiting confirmation of ADHD, I can honestly say that within the neurodivergent community, we struggle to get diagnosed. Diagnoses aren't handed out, the process is very rigorous and often overwhelming. I've recently also finally been diagnosed with CPTSD and can confidently attribute my trauma response to the fact that I perceive the world differently because of my neurobiology. I don't think I was misdiagnosed with depression and anxiety as they are a consequence of living with undiagnosed neurodivergence. There are many co-occuring conditions.
As someone who both is neurodivergent and assesses people for ADHD I don’t agree. The process for diagnosing is robust, requires persistent and pervasive symptoms, difficulties significantly over and above the developmental norm, resulting in impact in two or more areas of life and not already explained by an existing condition.
@kirstiegorman7451 I'm not sure why your point disproves mine. Your talking about a process of diagnosing, I'm talking about these diagnoses being a symptom of other things, different point completely.
it isn’t though. While people can have an existing diagnosis of something and then be diagnosed with ADHD I have to be sure that their trauma, mood or anxiety disorder etc is not already explaining the difficulties. If there is already an explanation then I don’t diagnose with ADHD. So no I would not diagnose ADHD if their difficulties are caused by something else
Some nasty comments on here.....prefer bob? Nobody knows anyone. How people come across isnt necessary how they are! Great couple!!!! Wish you great happiness. Stay being you! This country is immensely proud of your contribution to British comedy!!! 👏 👏 👏 wishing you both well!
@@AdelePeters-e9o agree Bob would be nothing on their fishing programme without Paul and vice versa but..... No wonder Paul lives seperate from Mrs Conkbayir she's rather on the side of been crackers 😂
Definitely a Drag Race version of Nana Moussaka. To be frank, there doesn't seem to be an awful lot to define them or identify them as much of a couple.
Not in The Amish community ..? Are you joking ? Have you ever seen interviews with people who have escaped The Amish ? Just because the Catholics had less divorces doesn’t equate to happy marriages …just people trapped . There is of course ADHD in Amish community, as well as many undiagnosed conditions , and huge numbers of people with depression stemming from restrictive lifestyles . Just because you didn’t see people with wheelchairs in 70s didn’t mean people had no disabilities or accidents, they were simply kept out of sight .
Paul’s face , it looks like he’s thinking blah blah blah,,I can imagine he isn’t very pleasant to live with,, much prefer bob mortimer when watching gone fishing,,,
Paul is an absolute diamond, what a wonderful human.
I was diagnosed with ADHD at the age of 62, which explained a lot of my childhood and life in general.
Was finding out a relief?.
@@andrewparfrement8583 Yes it was.
@@TrashRocksTheWorld I am 68. Ten years ago I found out I had autism!. Had a troubled childhood and found it difficult to make friends!.
Understanding what’s different about ourselves is not a cure, however as you stated it explains why we are different.
Paul is so hysterically funny in this, love the part where he pulls Denise up for saying “one of the funniest comedians” ha ha - no actually it’s THE funniest comedian thank you very much
He is a genius comedian
He's a backstabber. Just ask Graham Linehan.
Is it just me or does she look like nana mouskouri lol
Yeah, I see it 😂
@@So-and-So-em8fx😂😂😂
Oh yes.. 😅
Deffo 😎
Yes!
These two are probably more authentic as a couple than most.
Love Paul Whitehouse, so fast and so clever. Good luck to Mine.
I fully agree that these labels are being handed out like sweets when it could actually be a symptom of something else, say trauma, the amount of people who all have major trauma and have been properly diagnosed with ADHD and Autism is no coincidence.
That's a hatefully ignorant, deceptive, deeply irresponsible and harmful thing to say. Being diagnosed much later in life and still being expected to meet neurotypical milestones of life is inherently 'major trauma' - you're missing the mark to have noticed the connection between them and dismiss the fact they cooccur. It took me 6 months of solid personal research to even apply for the extra 4 years to get my ADHD diagnosis and having just got my autistic diagnosis a lot of that process was proving the traits that weren't just autistic crossovers, and presenting a convincing argument to my doctor which took me 6 months to sort because my ADHD was debilitating me that much. My degree was a thousand times easier to get... and I actually learnt more during my own study than you'd learn for a degree. All that and further 7+ months and counting to access medication. The assessment is too rigorous if you spoke to any one of us before making and sharing your assumptions you'd realise that - it's staggeringly arrogant to the point of being hostile to think you don't just know more about the conditions than both trained professionals and people with a lifetime of experience. We don't fight so hard to get the diagnosis so ignorant people can invalidate our identity and the mountain we've had to climb to get it recognised. You need to learn the 2 meanings of the word 'trend' the only trend is more understanding of the conditions including the fact they don't only happen in white male children. That's the polar opposite of the truth.
As a late diagnosed autistic (67) and currently awaiting confirmation of ADHD, I can honestly say that within the neurodivergent community, we struggle to get diagnosed. Diagnoses aren't handed out, the process is very rigorous and often overwhelming.
I've recently also finally been diagnosed with CPTSD and can confidently attribute my trauma response to the fact that I perceive the world differently because of my neurobiology.
I don't think I was misdiagnosed with depression and anxiety as they are a consequence of living with undiagnosed neurodivergence.
There are many co-occuring conditions.
As someone who both is neurodivergent and assesses people for ADHD I don’t agree.
The process for diagnosing is robust, requires persistent and pervasive symptoms, difficulties significantly over and above the developmental norm, resulting in impact in two or more areas of life and not already explained by an existing condition.
@kirstiegorman7451 I'm not sure why your point disproves mine. Your talking about a process of diagnosing, I'm talking about these diagnoses being a symptom of other things, different point completely.
it isn’t though. While people can have an existing diagnosis of something and then be diagnosed with ADHD I have to be sure that their trauma, mood or anxiety disorder etc is not already explaining the difficulties. If there is already an explanation then I don’t diagnose with ADHD.
So no I would not diagnose ADHD if their difficulties are caused by something else
What you doing on there Paul? 🤣
There's no words for her
Denise doesn’t know how to allow the guests to tell their stories, she is forever controlling.
Brave Brave man
Which one
Paul is brilliant interview spoiled by the toffee woman
What's a toffee woman..lol
@@MickBrown-fc4si Welch ‘s toffees
That's funny. Isn't DW sooooo up herself 😂
Some nasty comments on here.....prefer bob? Nobody knows anyone. How people come across isnt necessary how they are! Great couple!!!! Wish you great happiness. Stay being you! This country is immensely proud of your contribution to British comedy!!! 👏 👏 👏 wishing you both well!
@@AdelePeters-e9o agree Bob would be nothing on their fishing programme without Paul and vice versa but..... No wonder Paul lives seperate from Mrs Conkbayir she's rather on the side of been crackers 😂
You know nothing - if only you knew
Knew what exactly? I'm confused 😕
I agree totally with you , people can be so vile , it’s truly pathetic isn’t it.
You deserve better Paul! 😜
Youre right she does.
I know right!!
Mine - Turkish or Turkish Cypriot plus Nana Mouskuri!
Paul hasjust announced that he has volunteered for the first manned mission to Mars 👍
Not how i'd have pictured his Mrs.
A Lot of men go fishing,there’s always a reason 😂
Total chaos. Odd.
She is from another planet 🥴
Definitely a Drag Race version of Nana Moussaka. To be frank, there doesn't seem to be an awful lot to define them or identify them as much of a couple.
This doesn't seem like a marriage made in heaven...
They are not married, and not even living under the same roof strangely enough 😉
@twwoody813 apparently they are married with a daughter but live in separate houses
Is there such a thing as a normal person..😅
labels labels labels....
Diagnoses. They save lives.
Yeah mate, all Woke.
No wonder Paul is always fishing
Bit rude... 😂
Best comment... and very true !
😂
Once they diagnose everybody with ADHD will people without it need medication?
Yeah probably
No wonder he goes fishing
Blimey
Looks like something off Mad Max.
Denise has had elocution
Mine is probably his handler.
I suffer with ABC,s. Don't know my alphabet. 😂
Oh look, Denise W making herself the centre of attention.
Not like her at all 🤔🙂🤔
No wonder he's always joking, trying to keep her happy
None of these conditions in the amish community I wonder why ?
Not in The Amish community ..? Are you joking ? Have you ever seen interviews with people who have escaped The Amish ? Just because the Catholics had less divorces doesn’t equate to happy marriages …just people trapped . There is of course ADHD in Amish community, as well as many undiagnosed conditions , and huge numbers of people with depression stemming from restrictive lifestyles . Just because you didn’t see people with wheelchairs in 70s didn’t mean people had no disabilities or accidents, they were simply kept out of sight .
@@pollywells3603 surely that's a different discussion
Did she sing the White rose of Athens?😂
What a mess..
They are not close
I thought it was Corey Feldman
Hank Marvin look a like.
Paul.... brilliant.
Ted.... excellent 👍👍👍
Dr of Philosophy; what a load of old nonsense!🤣🤣🤣
I can’t watch this absolute nonsense
Hey, I have tattoos.
Alway a label ..more money for big phama..
Some really horrible people in the comments here. What's wrong with you?! 😢
So that's what happened to Skrillex.
Comments from “men” here are pretty vile .. sort yourselves out it’s pathetic.
Love her tattoo
Vandalism
He or she 🤔
Nana Maskouri was a bloke too.
Paul’s face , it looks like he’s thinking blah blah blah,,I can imagine he isn’t very pleasant to live with,, much prefer bob mortimer when watching gone fishing,,,
I'm not sure she's easy to live with
Paul is great.. what’s wrong with his face 😂
I think he’s trying to cope with gaggle of women
There wouldn't be a programme if there wasn't Paul in it, and Bob mortimer would most certainly disagree
@@emmacardall8152 didn’t say anything about him not being in the program or about bob not agreeing,, i just find paul miserable and sometimes rude,,,
Crazy woman.
Thanks for demonstrating your ignorance and lack of compassion
@@joygibbons5482 Would you have her?
When did they get married?!
Why I wonder - he said he wouldn’t ever get married again…
See Paul's misses is ready for Halloween!!!!!!
She is stylish and you can't spell lol
@@ryanholio paul being a man of comedy would probably find the humour in my comment,will I get detention?
@@soundhead6971 I reckon he'd think you were having a dig but heyho
@@ryanholio I'm only having a laugh! I love Paul his great!
@@soundhead6971 yes but at his wife's expense. People with ADHD suffer from being sensitive to criticism and funny little digs. No worries
That's a bloke.