Married 59 yrs as of October 15th 2024….my best friend, my lover still, and happy everyday I wake up next to this man! I am blessed and so lucky to be loved! No longer beautiful in the face and I am loved wrinkles and all…. My red hair I was born with needs help to stay red….I walk a bit slower at 78 but I am so happy! ❤. I trusted him too….that is important!
My ex-wife dated the guy she cheated on me with during our divorce while we lived in the same house. It crushed me. Her cheating on me crushed me. I never cheated on her. That kind of behavior is sick and evil. These two need to divorce and be done. Cheaters are selfish people who don’t care who gets hurt as long as they’re happy. Once a cheater, always a cheater.
I’m an old lady and I’ve been married for over 40 years now. If we were living together and we broke up, and I had a new boyfriend in our house he would kill him for trespassing on our property. I am so sorry that she was so immature to bring another man to your house to be with her. That’s an insult to you and your relationship with her was clearly not worth the pain you would go through when you have children with her. Be happy that you dodged her and she will be someone’s else’s problem to deal with. ❤
Unless and until you’ve experienced this, you don’t know what you would do. I had the same attitude as you until my husband of 28 years admitted his affair. We tried counseling until I discovered his continued infidelity and then I divorced him. But I did try to save it.
@@pambutler998&&,what difference does it make how old,or how recent this show is? has things,&& society changed that freaking drastically in 15-20 years? is right STILL not RIGHT,&& wrong STILL not WRONG?🤔 catch me up...wtf did I miss?
I agree...move on...your always blaming so it won't come to anything good...with all the couples murdering his wife or her husband, leave while you are both alive...
I feel like a 9 year olds list shouldn’t be on Dr Phil as a child’s privacy right. The parents car air their dirty laundry, but I do feel a violation of a child’s right by actually listing all those things. They could have said that he’s having issues. Way to go parents and Dr Phil. You may not have put his picture on there but people in his hometown know who the family is.
right and it's perfectly fine for her to leave her husband and children on her birthdays every year and go off with a "friend" to reno or vegas to gamble? one of the most important days of person's life which should be spent with family? frankly I think it's her that has driven her husband to the affairs (either emotional or sexual affairs).
This sounds like my ex marriage. My husband drank and cheated left me for a woman of low moral standards also left his three children. He left us homeless and without any money . We were a broken family in every way. In time we got through it and life went on for us then aftertime he passed away from cancer. Years later I found out he has a daughter who is 10 months older than our youngest daughter that came as a great shock however drink was his problem and women. The best thing he ever did for us was to leave us it took time to realize this. They should be miles apart. .
She is no prize either- doesn’t spend time with kids, cook, or be there for him. And she takes off with another man every year and accepts money from him. Joke of a marriage. They deserve each other.
SHE SHOULD LEAVE THIS GUY , remember Dr. Phil's words, PAST BEHAVIOR S ARE FUTURE PREDICTORS! HE WILL CHEAT AGAIN, AND IF HE IS A DRINKER! FORGET IT! ITS TIME TO LEAVE.
Dr Phil cheated on his wife with a patient so...... Not every cheater just cheats until their genitals fall off, most grow out of that behavior at some point
This is not always true. I was young and foolish and was unfaithful to my ex wife. When my current partner asked me what my biggest regret in life was: without hesitation, I told her that it was being unfaithful to my ex. I felt so guilty that I went to my ex and confessed what I did and asked for forgiveness. And we were married for another 10 years, and I was faithful to her the entire time. I remarried and I was faithful to her until she left me and I will always be faithful to my current partner.
@@chadbloomfield3510 In that instance you took the high road and CHOSE to not do it again. The sad truth is that most people will make the same "mistakes" repeatedly. Our choices are our character. Not everyone chooses the high road, and most of the time you'll be disappointed waiting for people to improve themselves.
Dr Phil when you read the list from their 9 year old boy it makes me cry and to see her have nothing... She's so devoid of any emotion thank you for bringing it up.... of course this is why you are you and we love Dr Phil
After hearing those two sides, I understand what that means when somebody says: Those two deserve, each other. Those two people have a lousy marriage, from the very beginning, they had built a family based on lousy relationships, have a terrible impact on their children. As a result of their financial irresponsibility, they couldn't build financial stability, which might a ticking time bomb for agressivity. Two lousy people who live an awful life and victimize their children.
@@pambutler998wow,how nasty.The comment is still right,even though it’s an older show.I don’t know why people think it’s okay,to make nasty remarks about reasonable comments.
So she goes off to Reno or Vegas each year on her birthday with a "friend" (most likely with benefits) who incidentally showers her and her children with gifts and money, a day that she should be spending with her husband and children? maybe it's her that drives her husband to these affairs be they emotional or sexual affairs!
This marriage is done. Nothing Dr. Phil can do to fix this. The husband will never change and the wife has poor self esteem, she will continue to tolerate his abusive behavior.
I had two children with my alcoholic ex-husband when he deployed to Afghanistan. he was cheating on me while deployed with another soldier. The one soldier who slept with every man on the base. I stayed faithful our entire relationship. He got home I left with nothing but my two children and created a new life for us. He never wanted to see our children again. Meanwhile they got together had a kid and then he proceeded to beat her and strangle her nearly killing her. 12 years later My children have a great father and a great life in a loving home. He served prison time and I hear he's in recovery now but has still never reached out to speak to his children. I'll never be in another relationship where I am constantly lied to and cheated on. There are good men out there! I have one!
Children are not happy in a home full of distrust and suspicion. There is no staying together for the children. They are better off of the parents split
Omgosh y’all are giving ridiculous advice and I’ll guarantee you don’t know what you’re talking about!! You are VERY wrong….the kids will FOREVER hate being divorced! It is an entire lifetime of broken family events, painful memories, guilt, fear…the negative effect on ALL of the family goes on and on. There are MANY marriages that not only survive but thrive after addiction issues including infidelity are successfully addressed…. Quit being selfish both of you and work this out! Your problems, separately and together, are fixable if you will put your kids’ needs, and your spouses needs, above your own….your problems will follow you anyway…the grass is NOT greener and MOST divorced ppl will tell you that. Might as well work on the relationship you’ve already established and brought 4 kids into. Second bit of advice, put God first and He will never let you down and you will never regret it! At the end of your life you will be so happy and at peace that you did things His way instead of your own. You will have peace and purpose and deep satisfaction. You will KNOW that you were worthy role models to your kids. You will enjoy grandkids together and you will have a life with meaning to look back on. ❤❤
I don’t understand the comments only blaming the husband. Don’t get me wrong-he sucks. But so does the wife. Her own kids are saying she lives in her own delusional world. I am definitely side eyeing the male friend who she goes to Reno with every year. Yearly trips for her birthday without husband…moves right beside them when they move…loans out large amounts of cash..something is definitely going on there. They’re both trashy people.
We women tend to invest soooo much into someone , compromising, making huge efforts to understand, to give empathy, to support, that it soon gets to the point that we feel we’ve given too much to get out now, that all those years and years of effort will be wasted and we are terrified to start all over again with another!!! We are somehow waiting for , hoping for a return on that investment, that one day he will finally get it and all that effort will be finally worth it!!! 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
Absolutely 💯 and the MORE you give the MORE they take and it hurts I found out on Friday I was a burden it crushed me i was told I was a burden as a child and was treated as 1 not feed no medical treatment slept in a tent in the yard so hearing from my partner I'm a burden is crushing I think ALL the time about how I speak and do he doesn't I can't unhear those words😢
The way the mother said that they were left with only one home... the horror! To only own one home. How embarrassing to only own one home. She needs a reality check.
She was wrong to marry him. She knows he's no good. She came on Dr Phil for help and she doesn't want to listen. This guy will most likely cheat again. He's hiding a phone bill. He thinks he's doing nothing wrong.
My husband and I don't wear wedding rings for the past 25+ years and have been married 33 years. Each ring was lost at different times and we just never got new ones. A ring is sometimes a challenge for some women and men. If a man or woman is going to cheat...a ring on a finger isn't going to stop it.
I’ve been living this betrayal. Her marriage is over. Trust is gone, vows broken, lies, deceit, it’s over. He has zero integrity and extremely low character. There are no other alternative but to accept, heal and move on. It’s horror the trauma has been incredible but it’s over.
They are both as bad as each other. Selfish , immature. The family friend is in love with her and she know it. She doesn’t respect her husband is a cheater and addict, has low self esteem and needs to get help. Look at the damage to the children
He is not able to take responsibility for his actions. He has repeated the untrustworthy behavior! This will continue. Since you have kids, plan carefully and talk to a lawyer.
In Japan, a cracked pot, mended and then the cracks highlighted in gold, is worth more than before. I agree with you but what I said is a thing too. I guess only pots/glasses worth mending and mended well can survive, these two are just shattered tupperware. Not worth mending.
😳 Dammmm!!! I thought I have heard it all when they "uncovered" the husband's inappropriate behaviour..... but then the family "friend" of the wife appeared in the picture... giving money 💵.... going on trips to Vegas on your birthday with your male friend while being married??? The husband is guilty of inappropriate behavior, but seems the wife is in an "open" relationship??? Spending long hours at the "office" at home at night... Mmmm... communication with your "friend" but that is okay.... Get your bread 🍞... toast it... butter and jam on both sides.... Wife being in an open relationship with the family "friend" since they got married... open relationship meaning married, but involved with a family "but" says it is only a "friend" Mmm... family "friend" gives money to both, taking somebody's wife to Vegas on her birthday.....and gets nothing in return???? Mmmm... Wife just as guilty, maybe even more...??? Really messed up???!!!!
Toxic. Both having affairs. So unhealthy. Both justifying their choices. I hope they moved on and for the sake of the kids managed an amicable separation
I was never ever insecure until my husband cheated on me, and what a blow that was!! Now I question everything where are you going when are you coming back who are you taking to? It's just awful
Wife, be honest with yourself. You know the family friend is giving you money to be with you. It's written all over your face. Husband, I'm not sure you want to be faithful to your wife. Please be honest with yourself about this. Most important, please get your young son help. I have to believe that his school and police know of this list.
Urgent emergency please join me in prayer for all those affected families children animals massive hurricane in Florida Georgia power outages people being rescued they desperately need your prayers please pray for them God bless you all
Especially when it doesn’t sound like she needs him financially or anything like that it sounds like she would be absolutely fine without him. Like what’s making her stay ?!
They need to split. Children are far better off in a home free of distrust and suspicious. The children are already in a broken home. A divorce would repair the break.
These two need a divorce because he has had affairs and SHE goes off with a family friend who has given this couple more than $25K to Reno to gamble on HER BIRTHDAY??? You belong at HOME celebrating with your family on your birthday and you need to stop going off with this family friend. Both of them have acted stupidly and need a divorce. Submit the paperwork and get it done. They both tiptoe around the truth and try to make their transgressions less than they hurt the other. They are twits. Divorce and try to live more moral lives separately. Trust is extremely difficult to repair once it is broken. Everyone ought to remember that prior to getting married. If there are any trust issues prior to marriage, call off the wedding and do not marry, Attend pre-wedding counseling at the very least. Know any person long enough to see how they react to stress, hospitalizations and so on. Does the fiancee come to the hospital to support you? How do they react when they lose a job? What is their relationship with their parents? If they have a good relationship with at least one parent, that is good; it could mean the other parent is a jerk, addict, too controlling, etc. IOW, try to see the fiancee in all SORTS of situations prior to committing. Know the person long enough to check out all of these things. This is why short engagements are so dangerous. What's the rush? Take your time. Have at least 10K in the bank, do NOT go into debt to pay for a wedding, own your own car and have it paid off, have a steady job. Get a college degree prior to marriage because it is extremely difficult to get one when married and working. If the fiancee doesn't see the need for you to complete your education (in order to secure your financial and career future) that is a HUGE RED FLAG!!
If you don’t 100% love the person and all of their shortcomings as they are right this moment than it’s time to walk. Leveraging a future on change is a sure fire way to waste your life. People can change like the wind and then change right back once they get what they want. Neither of these people want to be together, they just want to win the argument. I’d also like to add that they have no business being concerned about the ramshackle marriage after discovery of the 9 year olds note.
Do the parents of the other little boy let their son have anything to do with their kid anymore? Does his school know? Is he still in school? Typical short thinking kid, he's going to buy her a diamond ring. With what?
Mon o man, his body language says it all, almost HANGING off the edge of that chair away from his wife 😢. Please just get help, both of you. Away from eachother.
Married 59 yrs as of October 15th 2024….my best friend, my lover still, and happy everyday I wake up next to this man! I am blessed and so lucky to be loved! No longer beautiful in the face and I am loved wrinkles and all…. My red hair I was born with needs help to stay red….I walk a bit slower at 78 but I am so happy! ❤. I trusted him too….that is important!
Heart melts…Enjoy every moment ❤
God bless both of you stay treasured ❤❤
@ Thank you for being kind! 💕
Beautiful and precious words to hear, words that can only come from the heart!
My ex-wife dated the guy she cheated on me with during our divorce while we lived in the same house. It crushed me. Her cheating on me crushed me. I never cheated on her. That kind of behavior is sick and evil. These two need to divorce and be done.
Cheaters are selfish people who don’t care who gets hurt as long as they’re happy. Once a cheater, always a cheater.
I’m an old lady and I’ve been married for over 40 years now. If we were living together and we broke up, and I had a new boyfriend in our house he would kill him for trespassing on our property. I am so sorry that she was so immature to bring another man to your house to be with her. That’s an insult to you and your relationship with her was clearly not worth the pain you would go through when you have children with her. Be happy that you dodged her and she will be someone’s else’s problem to deal with. ❤
Betrayal....the worst wound.
I wouldn't call it sick nor evil because it's not a murder, but yeah, it isn't ok.
@@brendajohnson8056 There's worse ones, believe me.
So sorry that happened to you!
If the trust is gone, then it is over. They need to divorce. I wouldn't stay with a man who has cheated/had an affair.
This show is at least 15 years old. Wake up
Unless and until you’ve experienced this, you don’t know what you would do. I had the same attitude as you until my husband of 28 years admitted his affair. We tried counseling until I discovered his continued infidelity and then I divorced him. But I did try to save it.
What's your point please?@pambutler998
@@pambutler998&&,what difference does it make how old,or how recent this show is? has things,&& society changed that freaking drastically in 15-20 years? is right STILL not RIGHT,&& wrong STILL not WRONG?🤔
catch me up...wtf did I miss?
Yep. No matter how hard she tries, she’ll never genuinely trust him again. Trust is a one time offer.
Neither one of them are a catch. They're both doing inappropriate things while married. MOVE ON !!!
For real they’re just wasting their own time
@@Chickenbean4and psychologically harming the children along the way.
I agree...move on...your always blaming so it won't come to anything good...with all the couples murdering his wife or her husband, leave while you are both alive...
They are BOTH CRAZY
This is Nuts
She is as guilty as he is
TRUST IS BROKEN 😡
I feel the little 9 year old boys list shouldn't be taken lightly 😢 he needs help asap 😢
Especially the “*ill” part
That's what I said. It's extremely concerning.
Desperately needs help.
I feel like a 9 year olds list shouldn’t be on Dr Phil as a child’s privacy right. The parents car air their dirty laundry, but I do feel a violation of a child’s right by actually listing all those things. They could have said that he’s having issues. Way to go parents and Dr Phil. You may not have put his picture on there but people in his hometown know who the family is.
Let him go, and don't look back, this will get worse, he's such a liar, the expression on his face says it all.
right and it's perfectly fine for her to leave her husband and children on her birthdays every year and go off with a "friend" to reno or vegas to gamble? one of the most important days of person's life which should be spent with family? frankly I think it's her that has driven her husband to the affairs (either emotional or sexual affairs).
This sounds like my ex marriage. My husband drank and cheated left me for a woman of low moral standards also left his three children. He left us homeless and without any money . We were a broken family in every way. In time we got through it and life went on for us then aftertime he passed away from cancer. Years later I found out he has a daughter who is 10 months older than our youngest daughter that came as a great shock however drink was his problem and women. The best thing he ever did for us was to leave us it took time to realize this. They should be miles apart.
.
Awful. So sorry for this horrific betrayal.
GIRL LEAVE HIM HE SEES NOTHING WRONG WITH HIS ACTIONS
What about her actions?
She is no prize either- doesn’t spend time with kids, cook, or be there for him. And she takes off with another man every year and accepts money from him. Joke of a marriage. They deserve each other.
SHE SHOULD LEAVE THIS GUY , remember Dr. Phil's words, PAST BEHAVIOR S ARE FUTURE PREDICTORS! HE WILL CHEAT AGAIN, AND IF HE IS A DRINKER! FORGET IT! ITS TIME TO LEAVE.
Dr Phil cheated on his wife with a patient so......
Not every cheater just cheats until their genitals fall off, most grow out of that behavior at some point
This is not always true. I was young and foolish and was unfaithful to my ex wife. When my current partner asked me what my biggest regret in life was: without hesitation, I told her that it was being unfaithful to my ex. I felt so guilty that I went to my ex and confessed what I did and asked for forgiveness. And we were married for another 10 years, and I was faithful to her the entire time. I remarried and I was faithful to her until she left me and I will always be faithful to my current partner.
@@chadbloomfield3510 In that instance you took the high road and CHOSE to not do it again. The sad truth is that most people will make the same "mistakes" repeatedly. Our choices are our character. Not everyone chooses the high road, and most of the time you'll be disappointed waiting for people to improve themselves.
Dr Phil when you read the list from their 9 year old boy it makes me cry and to see her have nothing... She's so devoid of any emotion thank you for bringing it up.... of course this is why you are you and we love Dr Phil
You "love" Dr Phil ? That's not normal...
💯
I can't believe they just glossed over the fact the 9 yr old had kill his own friend as number 1 on his to do list. That is extremely concerning.
I agree. Total red flag. That boy needs help asap.
Yes violence against humidity
I dont think they glossed over it. Thete is alot of editing in an hour TV show. Most likely didn't make it to production.
@@SusanNGann That's not something you just ignore or edit out.
After hearing those two sides, I understand what that means when somebody says: Those two deserve, each other. Those two people have a lousy marriage, from the very beginning, they had built a family based on lousy relationships, have a terrible impact on their children. As a result of their financial irresponsibility, they couldn't build financial stability, which might a ticking time bomb for agressivity. Two lousy people who live an awful life and victimize their children.
As judge Judy would say Sounds like they deserve each other
The child doesn’t.
Both of these ppl are very immature . DIVORCE
I wonder if the people who comment on here understand these show are many years old. Like 15 years old. Wake up!
@@pambutler998wow,how nasty.The comment is still right,even though it’s an older show.I don’t know why people think it’s okay,to make nasty remarks about reasonable comments.
Why don't you get off this platform and take a nap? Your comments are distracting, and add nothing. @pambutler998
@@eh-i1841 thank u
@@pambutler998 what does it matter how old a video is what does that have to do with anything?
So she goes off to Reno or Vegas each year on her birthday with a "friend" (most likely with benefits) who incidentally showers her and her children with gifts and money, a day that she should be spending with her husband and children? maybe it's her that drives her husband to these affairs be they emotional or sexual affairs!
This marriage is done. Nothing Dr. Phil can do to fix this. The husband will never change and the wife has poor self esteem, she will continue to tolerate his abusive behavior.
I had two children with my alcoholic ex-husband when he deployed to Afghanistan. he was cheating on me while deployed with another soldier. The one soldier who slept with every man on the base. I stayed faithful our entire relationship. He got home I left with nothing but my two children and created a new life for us. He never wanted to see our children again. Meanwhile they got together had a kid and then he proceeded to beat her and strangle her nearly killing her. 12 years later My children have a great father and a great life in a loving home. He served prison time and I hear he's in recovery now but has still never reached out to speak to his children. I'll never be in another relationship where I am constantly lied to and cheated on. There are good men out there! I have one!
They are both in the guilty and this marriage won’t work.
EXACTLY RIGHT 🙏👏
Omg. Just get a divorce. Mama, go live your best life. Husband, go have all the girlfriends you want. Everyone will be happier.
Children....????
@@hirainawhaanga6253 Children will be happier because parents are happy.
Children are not happy in a home full of distrust and suspicion. There is no staying together for the children. They are better off of the parents split
Omgosh y’all are giving ridiculous advice and I’ll guarantee you don’t know what you’re talking about!! You are VERY wrong….the kids will FOREVER hate being divorced! It is an entire lifetime of broken family events, painful memories, guilt, fear…the negative effect on ALL of the family goes on and on.
There are MANY marriages that not only survive but thrive after addiction issues including infidelity are successfully addressed….
Quit being selfish both of you and work this out! Your problems, separately and together, are fixable if you will put your kids’ needs, and your spouses needs, above your own….your problems will follow you anyway…the grass is NOT greener and MOST divorced ppl will tell you that. Might as well work on the relationship you’ve already established and brought 4 kids into.
Second bit of advice, put God first and He will never let you down and you will never regret it! At the end of your life you will be so happy and at peace that you did things His way instead of your own. You will have peace and purpose and deep satisfaction. You will KNOW that you were worthy role models to your kids. You will enjoy grandkids together and you will have a life with meaning to look back on. ❤❤
These people should NEVER have gotten married!
I don’t understand the comments only blaming the husband. Don’t get me wrong-he sucks. But so does the wife. Her own kids are saying she lives in her own delusional world. I am definitely side eyeing the male friend who she goes to Reno with every year. Yearly trips for her birthday without husband…moves right beside them when they move…loans out large amounts of cash..something is definitely going on there. They’re both trashy people.
😊0😊😊😊
We women tend to invest soooo much into someone , compromising, making huge efforts to understand, to give empathy, to support, that it soon gets to the point that we feel we’ve given too much to get out now, that all those years and years of effort will be wasted and we are terrified to start all over again with another!!! We are somehow waiting for , hoping for a return on that investment, that one day he will finally get it and all that effort will be finally worth it!!! 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
Absolutely 💯 and the MORE you give the MORE they take and it hurts I found out on Friday I was a burden it crushed me i was told I was a burden as a child and was treated as 1 not feed no medical treatment slept in a tent in the yard so hearing from my partner I'm a burden is crushing I think ALL the time about how I speak and do he doesn't I can't unhear those words😢
The way the mother said that they were left with only one home... the horror! To only own one home. How embarrassing to only own one home. She needs a reality check.
He is a selfish creep
Gaslighting her.
He can't hide his Narc. smirk
And what about her? Negletting her children, galavanting with a "friend", spending no time with her children.
Common sense is a flower 🌼 that doesn't grow in everyones garden.
" Commonsense is not that " common"😂
@@nadiabrstak5646 true! 🧡
She needs to get rid of him asap!
that’s really weird of you, to direct the blame at her.
@@grimhoneybee What?? Who’s blaming her?
FOR FIFTEEN YEARS YOU HAVE BEEN WHINING AND CRYING. YOU FILLED OUT DIVORCE PAPERS. SEND THEM TO YOUR LAWYER.
She was wrong to marry him. She knows he's no good. She came on Dr Phil for help and she doesn't want to listen. This guy will most likely cheat again. He's hiding a phone bill. He thinks he's doing nothing wrong.
Oh lord lady you’re having an affair too but he’s just been honest about it
She wasn’t having an affair. She just had a friend. He actually slept with the person.
He drank and she gambled with another man!! Whats the difference???
He was a family
Friend
The difference was she wasn’t sleeping with him. It was a friend!
He signed the divorce! Done!
He did?
She is listening to Dr Phil but she is already ignoring his advice
Sign the papers. And call it a day
Do not be deceived: “Bad company ruins good morals.”
I agree..she says she wants the marriage but doesn't act like a wife or a good mother. They need to divorce and get that little boy some help.
Define "wife or good mother."
@@mikewebber2637Exactly!
My husband and I sometimes don't wear our rings. Doesn't change the fact we are married in heart and soul.
My husband and I don't wear wedding rings for the past 25+ years and have been married 33 years. Each ring was lost at different times and we just never got new ones. A ring is sometimes a challenge for some women and men. If a man or woman is going to cheat...a ring on a finger isn't going to stop it.
Once a cheater, always a cheater.
Help the 9yr old Son, First, Please!
An affair is an affair...it doesn't matter if it's 6 months 6 weeks or 6 minutes... It's cheating... PERIOD!!!
Both of these people are untrustworthy
I’ve been living this betrayal. Her marriage is over. Trust is gone, vows broken, lies, deceit, it’s over. He has zero integrity and extremely low character. There are no other alternative but to accept, heal and move on. It’s horror the trauma has been incredible but it’s over.
To much has happend, the trust will never 100% restore. I think everyone would be more happy (eventually) if they get a divorce.
They are both as bad as each other. Selfish , immature. The family friend is in love with her and she know it. She doesn’t respect her husband is a cheater and addict, has low self esteem and needs to get help.
Look at the damage to the children
No
What on Earth has that 9 year old boy been exposed to! That would absolutely be my main concern!
How stupid is that wife sticking wit him!!!
Wow, what a mess. Divorce now. This guy will never be faithful for one.
He is not able to take responsibility for his actions. He has repeated the untrustworthy behavior! This will continue. Since you have kids, plan carefully and talk to a lawyer.
And what about her? Negletting her children, galavanting with a "friend", not spending any time with her children.
I'm standing up, and i'm at home 😂
If a glass have cracked,it might strong,but the cracked will be always there.
Just saying....
In Japan, a cracked pot, mended and then the cracks highlighted in gold, is worth more than before. I agree with you but what I said is a thing too. I guess only pots/glasses worth mending and mended well can survive, these two are just shattered tupperware. Not worth mending.
Blame is on both.. he plays. She plays. . Close the fire . You do not call this a marriage.
There is no repair. They're not. Immature. . Marriage is not a game. It comes with responsibilities. . Work never comes first. Family does..
Tell that to the boss. Sometimes work takes priority unless you just want a job at WalMart.
😳 Dammmm!!! I thought I have heard it all when they "uncovered" the husband's inappropriate behaviour..... but then the family "friend" of the wife appeared in the picture... giving money 💵.... going on trips to Vegas on your birthday with your male friend while being married??? The husband is guilty of inappropriate behavior, but seems the wife is in an "open" relationship??? Spending long hours at the "office" at home at night... Mmmm... communication with your "friend" but that is okay....
Get your bread 🍞... toast it... butter and jam on both sides....
Wife being in an open relationship with the family "friend" since they got married... open relationship meaning married, but involved with a family "but" says it is only a "friend"
Mmm... family "friend" gives money to both, taking somebody's wife to Vegas on her birthday.....and gets nothing in return???? Mmmm... Wife just as guilty, maybe even more...??? Really messed up???!!!!
Toxic. Both having affairs. So unhealthy. Both justifying their choices. I hope they moved on and for the sake of the kids managed an amicable separation
Trust can be rebuilt. But it requires accountability. Perseverance, and committment.
Trust can nevet be rebuild, ask me...
They say staying is worse than going through the divorce.
This show is at least 15 years old. Wake up!
@@pambutler998you have pointed this out several times. What is you point?!?
@@pambutler998you’ve posted the same comment here, multiple times. You’re like a broken record.
Wake up!
@@mombonamy7450she doesn’t have one.
I was never ever insecure until my husband cheated on me, and what a blow that was!! Now I question everything where are you going when are you coming back who are you taking to? It's just awful
Wife, be honest with yourself. You know the family friend is giving you money to be with you. It's written all over your face.
Husband, I'm not sure you want to be faithful to your wife. Please be honest with yourself about this. Most important, please get your young son help. I have to believe that his school and police know of this list.
Most people do not cheat for no reason. After hearing the questions to her, I can see why he cheated.
These two are both liars.
They neither are catch.
They both liars,
They both cheaters,
They are toxic.
Both are no good. They deserve each other!!!
She's going off with the neighbour on her birthday and taking money and already her first marriage didn't work
She's no better than him..😅
Two peas in a pod.
Urgent emergency please join me in prayer for all those affected families children animals massive hurricane in Florida Georgia power outages people being rescued they desperately need your prayers please pray for them God bless you all
Why this platform?
How does god allow this to happen only to be begged to stop it? That is what you believe in?
We need to ask God to give the families comfort and peace
Bad planning re engineers. Not God Almighty. He Doesn't make mistakes. I pray U come to know Him, and find peace on earth😊@kennygee3557
@WandaBouldon God has nothing to do with them at all its their own mistakes etc! Religion is not the going to fix their problems fgs seriously!
That young boy will be 25 now.I’m almost certain that his parents are not together.
Such a strange couple..pretty mixed up😮
Great episode. Shared with some people. ❤
Just leave each other , why go through with questions in your mind about affairs or marriage that trust is broken
What is she bothering with him for. He's cheated already. So has she!
Wohoo thank you producer team!! Yall work so hard
This show is fifteen years old .Snap out of it
Grow up….both of you.
I couldn't live miserable, ever in a relationship even with children.
She has issues as well. Not all his fault.
If this was me I’d post the papers. He can’t stop cheating. Be good too yourself and move on.🇬🇧
Both of them are very damaged people
Put yourself first
I could never go on with this man!! I am worth more then to never be able to trust my man 🙄
Their son needs urgent help...he is behaving like someone who is becoming a Sociopath...or worse....VERY troubling behaviour!!!!
So the cell phone bill was the big red flag for her?! Oh come on, you already knew he cheated...more than once! Why do these women stay? 🥴
Especially when it doesn’t sound like she needs him financially or anything like that it sounds like she would be absolutely fine without him. Like what’s making her stay ?!
He literally has done every single deal breaker thing you could ever do
She is hardly the Virgin Mary.
Birds of a feather, flocks together...
Man, come on, just get real people and move on.
The children in this family are to be considered above all else. Both of these parents are irresponsible and should get counseling immediately!
They need to split. Children are far better off in a home free of distrust and suspicious. The children are already in a broken home. A divorce would repair the break.
True...as Dr Phil said@@mikewebber2637
My husbands ring got stolen. He never wore a ring. BUT I TRUSTED HIM. Been married 45 years. Still love each other.
Both of these people don't need to be married.
These two need a divorce because he has had affairs and SHE goes off with a family friend who has given this couple more than $25K to Reno to gamble on HER BIRTHDAY??? You belong at HOME celebrating with your family on your birthday and you need to stop going off with this family friend. Both of them have acted stupidly and need a divorce. Submit the paperwork and get it done. They both tiptoe around the truth and try to make their transgressions less than they hurt the other. They are twits. Divorce and try to live more moral lives separately. Trust is extremely difficult to repair once it is broken. Everyone ought to remember that prior to getting married. If there are any trust issues prior to marriage, call off the wedding and do not marry, Attend pre-wedding counseling at the very least. Know any person long enough to see how they react to stress, hospitalizations and so on. Does the fiancee come to the hospital to support you? How do they react when they lose a job? What is their relationship with their parents? If they have a good relationship with at least one parent, that is good; it could mean the other parent is a jerk, addict, too controlling, etc. IOW, try to see the fiancee in all SORTS of situations prior to committing. Know the person long enough to check out all of these things. This is why short engagements are so dangerous. What's the rush? Take your time. Have at least 10K in the bank, do NOT go into debt to pay for a wedding, own your own car and have it paid off, have a steady job. Get a college degree prior to marriage because it is extremely difficult to get one when married and working. If the fiancee doesn't see the need for you to complete your education (in order to secure your financial and career future) that is a HUGE RED FLAG!!
Both cheating on each other but want to stay together? Lol. Folks skimming over her jaunt with her male friend. They're toxic.
It seems like both have problems. Big problems.
She is just as bad 😂
They don’t trust or respect each other and children have seen toxic relationship behaviours by BOTH partners - end it now!
If you don’t 100% love the person and all of their shortcomings as they are right this moment than it’s time to walk. Leveraging a future on change is a sure fire way to waste your life. People can change like the wind and then change right back once they get what they want. Neither of these people want to be together, they just want to win the argument. I’d also like to add that they have no business being concerned about the ramshackle marriage after discovery of the 9 year olds note.
This guy is not ever to be trusted again
Neither is she.
Woman. Woman. Leave married men alone . And if he admits to behaviours . Drop the guy 11:38
oof.....he's even hard to want.....that's a HARD PASS!!!!!🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢
Do the parents of the other little boy let their son have anything to do with their kid anymore? Does his school know? Is he still in school? Typical short thinking kid, he's going to buy her a diamond ring. With what?
Yeah.
Divorced in 991 worse than that and move on with your life and be happy.Really dump these narcissists in your tracks.
Grow up and divorce! Children come first. Make them happy 🙄
He has a wife and two affairs and i cant even get a text back.
Did you try smiling more?
Mon o man, his body language says it all, almost HANGING off the edge of that chair away from his wife 😢. Please just get help, both of you. Away from eachother.