The Nanny Affair Pt. 1 | FULL EPISODE | Dr. Phil
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- Опубликовано: 4 фев 2025
- Affairs, fights, lies & dark secrets have divided family & friends. Brandon, a handsome, charming firefighter, has an ugly secret. One year into his marriage to Amy, he was caught cheating with their teenage nanny. Yet Brandon filed for divorce? Pt. 1 (From Dr. Phil Season 6)
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Stop having kids and farming them out to nannies fgs
thank you
Brilliant! She wants to marry him if he's a completely different person. How about marrying a completely different person?
Good idea.
This 👆
Very logical.👍
You’re gonna have to stop being realistic 😂
Ha, very good and very true.
I’m 62 and just left my husband of 40 years. He is Brandon’s twin. Run run run! As fast as you can. Brandon is using narcissistic tactics to weasel his way out of his behavior.
He will not change.
All he is doing is deflecting, gas lighting, and blame shifting.
I wish I had left when I first caught him 30 years ago.
Good for you !!🎉❤ Sending positive and healing vibes
Good for you
I'm sorry to stayed so long. But now your gone im happy for you
Glad you’re out!!!!
You are incredibly strong ❤
The face of a liar. He's pushing blame to be others and deflecting issues onto others.
When you order your Tom Cruise from Temu.
😅😅😅 that's great
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Or one of the Menendez brothers.😂
Best comment
Omg! 😂😂😂
This dude is a straight up narcissist…
Deflection, word salad, gaslighting, and lying
The cognitive dissonance he’s applying is real. Best friend sees right through him. And he hates it.
Yep
@@thelmadickinson6811🎯🎯🎯🎯👌👌💗
He's one mini skirt away from a divorce
Mmm a balanced diet!😂
If anyone watching this hasn't had the experience of having a narcissist in their life, just watch. The gas lighting, the accusations, the mental abuse, the outright lies, etc are all classic behaviors. Watch and learn.
Been there!
Done that!
Got the t-shirt!
Once a cheater always a cheater, they split up then they reconcile and for a few month everything is great, cause they are in their honeymoon stage, and after that the same cycle starts again and it gets worse each time. I'm speaking from experience. It took me 13 years to get out of a cheating, lying and abusive relationship.... and divorce and healing was the best thing that ever happend to me.
Glad you're out and healing❤
I'm going through it, no contact 2 weeks. I'm reflecting and moving on! It hurts, but I deserve better!! You do too❤
Same 🎉
💯
Sounds to me so far there are too many people with their nose in the marriage business to start with.
I got out of a 20 year relationship with a narcissist when he broke my neck in 2 places. RUN!
It’s adorable how he gets cornered and he starts hurling insults. What a child.
When he started attacking his wife and her best friend, his true colors started showing. His mask slipped, and his wife would be a fool to believe that he's changed.
I agree!
Totally agree. Also it showed how truly idiotic he is since he kept saying “collaborate” their stories but meant to say corroborate 😳
Mask slipped 2 minutes in
I think he is might be a psychopath
He literally called her friend hideous like so rude and mean and unnecessary
I could not be friends with someone with such little self respect and dignity. To heartbreaking.
I’ll be there for my best friend no matter what 🙏🏼
I agree. I would not allow myself to be a part of that drama.
Then you're not a friend worth having. People have ow points, some lower than others. You can distance yourself from drama but still show that person love.
THAT's what Narscissts do! They steal the self respect and dignity of the person who is manipulated by them and have them second guessing themselves. That's when they need a real trusted friend the most.
@laurenb6160 forget what the commenter down below talking mess about you not being a friend worth having. continuing to be friends with someone who gets their life threatened and cheated on with teenage girls and is a predator and I DO believe he made a pass at her friend, says that commenter likes drama and toxic mess. Her friend was her biggest advocate and even went to Court to speak on her behalf to get her away from this cheating crazy person. As for any other smart woman we won't be doing that. We prefer peace and we would be friends with our friend again AFTER she dumps the trash.🤷🏽♀️
Dudes a HUGE LIAR. Get rid of him.
He's not going to change! Run!!
Um… the ONLY advice that should be given to this “couple” is to SPLIT UP FOR GOOD. To accept him back is the weakest thing that this woman can do. She’s afraid to be alone, and she hasn’t met anyone better, so she’s willing to settle for a guy like that. She needs to get herself her own VERY good doctor.
🎯💯
He knows what to say to manipulate her while tearing her down. He won’t let her go easily. He knows he can cheat and do whatever he wants. He doesn’t want her to leave because he doesn’t want to pay child support and alimony and not have any control over her. I don’t know how old this show is but I hope she got some self esteem and got away from him safely.
I was also thinking that HE couldn’t find anyone to be with him so that’s why he came back, he’s a creep and it’s likely that other people won’t tolerate his behaviour and his wife is too weak to hold him accountable
💯💯agreed
Love your comment, EXACTLY CORRECT 🎉
This guy is a crime waiting to happen. Run girl, take the kids and run
Right! I was looking at him thinking “yep we are going to see his trial in Court TV one day
EXACTLY!!
5 minutes in and I already know his defensive deflecting attitude shows that he is not changed.
And never will
I'd really like an update on this
He's a raypist!
@@p0pos309 I try to never say never.
I use to be someone ppl would say that about. But God.....
A narcissist doesn't suddenly care about how others feel
Your right. Nor do they live in reality.
Nope, they think they are perfect so they never change.
Nope, never😞
Excellent 👌 point.
Unless he/she has something in mind to destroy the other person eventually
Best case scenario, he's a serial cheater, worst case he's a grapist! Why would anyone want to stay with that 🤮
Lose, lose situation. He constantly deflected. The fact the nanny was very young gave me the creeps!
Because she is scared to support herself. Sometimes you stay because you think you need them
@@katybenson4172"ScArEd To SuPpOrT hErSeLf"?? If they divorced then she would literally be in the same boat because she would receive alimony and child support so I don't buy that excuse
@@aimee6580 He drugged her and took it from there. Why would she want such a creep?
@@Naturegurl124 Her parents pay them between $3000.00 to $6000.00 a month because he does not support his family. He is a looser that she should lose.
BRING ON the NANNIES! I’d love to hear their version of events!
Yes, yes, yes
"he's very convincable and believing" dear gosh she's not the brightest and he knows that and is taking advantage of her kindness and good heart. So sad
I actually said convincable out loud and had a giggle! 😂
I ran out of sympathy very quickly. She is bringing up her children to see his behaviour as perfectly acceptable. That is on her.
@@Momz0rsame. Lol
I gave mine a chance after similar circumstances 27 years ago. I wish I hadn’t. He said he changed but all he did is learn to hide it even better. 40 years of marriage this year and I’m finally getting a divorce because I caught him again.
I'm so sorry you went through this
I am glad you are getting yourself out of a nasty situation. The same happened to me after a 15 year relationship. He cheated once before we married and I made the mistake of taking him back. I did try to dump him but his persistence worked to my my detriment. He cheated again and made sure to say that If I hung on tight he would come crawling back. He got me to use my charge card to buy alot of furniture , new ACs, stereo equipment before I knew he was cheating. I called movers while he was at work and took everything I bought with a few extra items to make up for the interest I would pay. We had no kids which made it easier becase I didn't need to deal with him.
I'm sorry 🫂
Sorry but you will be so much happier loving and respecting yourself ❤
I'm so sorry, Jill. You deserve better. Get everything you can from him in the divorce and go live your life.
He chose everyday to waste your time and your youth because he only cares about himself. Treat him with the same level of concern now that it's over and get yourself a good settlement. No feeling sorry for him.
Why the heck would this woman want to get back together with a predator? Like he literally hooked up with a teenager who was the nanny!
18 is legal age. But it sure sounds like rape.
@@eleonora6980 Yeah but we don’t know if this happened while the nanny was underage or not though. Still though it’s huge red flag
@jackieb.2642 that's true. We don't know or if the other nanny's were
@jackieb.2642 i see you edited your comment to remove "child" and just have "predator". I completely agree now haha. He is definitely a predator!
@ And it matters to you that I edited my comment why? I mean no offense but you don’t need to put down others or try to rub their mistakes in their face to make yourself feel better
The era when middle class families could afford a nanny 😒
Good point!
The era when there was still a middle class 😶
Thanks to Obama/Biden! 🙄
Right?!
This was a way back! I can tell by the chunky hilights. 😅
Edit: hilights in the ladies' hair, that is....lol
@@shonna4545.... chunky highlights ???
Lady love your children enough to get out away from this liar and cheater!
As someone that has friends who constantly complain about their significant other, it really drives you crazy.
Drug abuse, adultery, teen nanny’s! Who is taking care of these poor kids? They shouldn’t be married or have kids! Ugh
All other things to the side, this guy has the creepiest smirk I have seen in a long time. Probably since the Dahmer documentaries. My opinion.
Agreed
He reminds me a lot of a young Jack Nicholson (in this case, maybe The Shining). Even his voice and the famous "Kubrick Stare" (26:56)
I agree!
Just by the way this guy talks to her friend would be enough to make me RUN. Woah, what a mean spirit... only thing he cares about is having the last lash.
His aggressive nature is disgusting. You don't hit, scream or swear at your woman no matter what. She should be very worried - and I think she is 💗
Brandon is a manchild. Messing with a teenage nanny is a deal breaker. She needs to run. My husband cheated on me with a crackwhore and i took my kids dogs furniture and moved into a apartment.
My husband and I have been married for 55 years. We are very blessed!
Congratulations?
That is awesome. What’s your secret for making it work?
♥♥♥
What in the world does that have to do with this situation at all? Are you drunk?
@@kymerwin8870she’s been with the same man for 55 years, ofc she’s drunk 😂
This dude has an answer for everything. Even the little comments and little diggs he throws out there is telling. 😮
He’s so childish and petty, lying so easily, what a drop kick.
He's what I call a "smooth talker". I've warned my daughters to watch out for that type, along with the charmers. Those are some no good is ever going to come from this type of men...
I call him a narcissist with a too high opinion of himself!
@LisaDonnelly-w1b exactly. He thinks so highly of himself he thinks he can talk his way around anything. Unfortunately he has a stupid wife who fills his ego and helps fuel his opinion of himself and his narrative he created in his head.
Yes, a smooth talking narcissist. If he does have “a very good doctor”, he’s just using what he learns from them to manipulate his wife. When his wife says “we’re destined to be together”, that sounds like it might be something he’s put in her ear. She needs to take a look around and ask herself why other women (numerous nannies and her best friend) don’t like being around when he’s there. Beyond that she has to ask herself why she wants to be with a serial cheater, groomer, rapist and abuser. No amount of smooth talking could make this man worth it to me. She has to get her own therapist and build her ego enough to realize that being alone is not as scary as being with this sort of man.
@@AL-bv7jt you are absolutely right! People like that aren't quite wired right, so they mimic what they perceive as the correct emotion at that moment. He is mimicing normal behavior because he himself doesn't have real emotions. It's dangerous.
Liar and a cheat!
He turns every situation from looking at him to look at someone else. He’s not taking ownership of anything. He. Has. Not. Changed.
He’s a dangerous, malignant narcissist. Red flag city 🚩
He sees a female counselor? Good lord
My thoughts exactly😅😅😅
Lmao I thought oh boy
How much do you want to bet he's sleeping with her
He's the type that will kill her! His abuse will creep back in and get worse! He won't change, look at his patterns! Hes immature & selfish and he needs to grow up! He said he wants the "American Dream" and thats what he is living now! He would say & fake act anything & everything to get out of having to live in his dad's barn which is just like guys up here that live in their dads basement! I had a physically violent & mental & emotional abusive ex-husband that still hasnt changed for 30 years! In our marriage he got the married teenage nanny pregnant & got our family home into forclosure! His alcohol & pot consumption & bad behavior has never changed!
Exactly he is roten to the core.
I read everything you said and totally agree with you but I can't get over the exclamation points it makes seem like a 10 year old typed this 😂
Everyone needs a best friend like that
Everything's "in the past" with a narcissist.
Yes everything except your faults which are mild in comparison
Yes!!!! Then they repeat the same exact cycle, and it's in the past. It never ends.
Red flags…he propositioned the best friend, then says he doesn’t find her attractive & says he told his wife he didn’t think best friend is pretty…those are exactly the ones you need to watch out for bc he wants you to think the one he desires is the last person on his mind.
What more does this lady need to leave this man? Even if he ONLY put a drug in a teenagers mouth I’d be gone for good. Doesn’t matter how much therapy how how much he’s “changed.” That along with everything else is insane. He needs to be locked up.
Her and her friend there are both on those same drugs every adult up there is a mess and I feel so sorry for those children!
He uses gaslighting and cognitive dissonance to confuse his victims. He’s a narcissist. He. Has. Not. Changed. He is hoovering and love bombing his wife. The best friend sees though it and Dr. Phil has questioned him in such a way that his mask is falling and he’s revealing his unchanged true self to his wife.
No matter how many times you try to give this creep the benefit of the doubt he just screws it up by opening his mouth.
Would love to see where they ended up 20yrs later....
We never find out the outcome!
Narcissistic blame shifting gaslighting causing confusion
Yes, my thoughts too.
Absolutely on point
‘Very convincible’ and ‘very believing’? I think she means ‘very convincing’ and ‘very believable’🤣
U.S. public school over the last couple of decades.
He is a jerk and she is an idiot by thinking he has changed.
If he had an Affair with a teenage nanny why isn’t he in jail?
She was 18
@ Thanks for clarifying, because after I heard the wife watched the husband put pills in her mouth, I assumed when Dr Phil said teenage girl, that she was under 18 would be more believable on why she allowed it, but that was not the case.
Because he is a white Male and a smooth talker…probably talked his way out the charges or knew the police. 😊
The husband is an idiot and the wife is not far behind. He is a liar for sure and he thinks he is really so clever.
@@teehee83that was pretty racist!
This guy is the definition of predator.
There's something really "off" about him. It's pretty scary how unable he is to understand his own behavior. That's normally how psychopaths etc are.. If she ever goes missing we know what happened to her.
Heidi is 1000% on point with her feelings on this dude. My ex husband acted the exact same way when I discovered his cheating. And as a victim of a narcissistic partner, I will say, go with your gut. If you have that nagging feeling, do some research.
The wife should stop dragging everybody into her problems and emotionally draining her friend and family onlt to go back
I had a friend just like her. She kicked her husband out and wanted a break, she cheated on him multiple times and tried justifying it by saying he abandoned her...then once she found out he moved on with someone else after a year she went bolistic and wanted him back. This is after she ran this man into the mud like crazy, even calling the kids school and removing him as an emergency contact etc. she would also always criticize my husband for no reason at all I assume because she was very unhappy. I drew boundaries multiple times and she wouldn't be respectful. One day I just decided to block her on everything. How could I expect her to be a friend when she betrays her own kids and husband. Take this tip, if someone is always unloading their emotional baggage onto you, they are Not your friend.
She needs to leave him. He needs to go😡
He’s not changed. He will go back to cheating once she takes him back.
He just wants to gain her trust again so he can start lying and cheating again.
He’s love bombing because he needs supply and he has no other to get what he needs so he’s settling for her. Until someone else comes along.
That young man is very very very very very very immature and she should not marry him again for her own sanity😮
A changed man😂😂😂
“I’ve changed and am more mature now.” Continues to use narcissistic tactics in the interview. 😆 Sure, Brandon. Ok. 👌🏻 😂
Praying for the children🙏
That's what I'm saying. They are the ultimate victims of their parents idiocy. Hope they are okay 😢
I love when the people call out the show for doctoring up scenes like him doing push ups. It’s so funny.
Its called a dramatzion.. to show thats what he does.
I'm disgusted to know this man is a fire fighter.
I was married to a firegighter, many of them have this same attitude. They think they can do what they like.
Many narcisists go for this kind of role in society because it enhances their grandiosity sense of self-inflated ego, so unfortunately.
Dear girl, run for your life!!
Omg the looks he gives her friend when shes talking is kinda scary 😮
Because she has his number and he doesn’t like it.
He hasn't changed, he's gotten more sneaky, crafty." Two wrongs don't make a right but what if she goes out and have "fun?"
why in the world would any wife/mother in this day and age, hire a young nanny. Hello!! Hire a good older lady who is retired who could be like a grad mother influence. Wise up honey!
I'm a woman in her mid fifties and I COMPLETELY AGREE! Working women, don't be so nieve and reckless. It's not fair to put a young, gorgeous woman who is practically living in your home in front of your husband in the place where his guard is completely down. And no, I in no way am excusing a father/husband cheating in this scenario. However, putting wise safeguards into your home takes temptations off the table. Roles reverse, if you have good-looking male lodger who deeply listens to a wife, satisfies her emotionsally, and also makes her laugh, it has a similar effect that having an 18 Yr old girl with a low cut top can have on a bloke! Let's be smart people.
Why would any women stay married to a man she couldn't trust around another women? Don't blame the young nanny who just wants to do her job.
Maria Shriver
She mentioned she had had shoulder surgery.
The bad thing is, I remember a case here where the 53 year-old woman was caught severely beating the couple's son. It's hard to trust ANYone in your home that isn't family.
Ugh. Narcissist. Run girl RUN.
He definitely still wants to sleep with the wife’s best friend
Absolutely!
I don't know about once and always. I cheated when I was in my late teens and twenties. I was a coward and selfish. I eventually realized that if I don't want to hurt anyone, then just don't do it. Easier said than done, of course, but we Always have a choice. I never cheated again. I hope I continue making the right choice.
You were young though and learning life as you go about living it,at least you realised you didn't want to be that person and gained knowledge an understanding from that mistake an it's helped you become who you are today,and you can also help someone else goin through or thinking of goin through with cheating as you no from experience.we make mistakes all throughout our lifetime I think they main thing is that you always learn from each mistake and hopefully the older ypu get the more an more time passes between mistakes
That's different because you weren't married and didn't own a house together and have 3 children and your didn't do it while your wife was on bed rest with a newborn and your didn't force it onto a girl. All of those things individually make it bad but the fact that he did all of that together and he is STILL making excuses is the problem. Not saying that cheating is ok any other time but there was a lot more at stake and a lot more people get hurt
Brandon should've had a lie detector....
The first step is accountability and he’s not even doing that!
She should have hired her mother as a nanny.
No she shouldn't have married that man!
@ that would have been prior to the Nanny hiring. Yes, bad choice for a husband.
She should be able to trust her husband
What makes you think her mother wants to cook clean and babysit all day? Tf 🤦
@ I know sarcasm is hard to spot in written text, should have been a little more obvious. My point was she likely made a bad decision when she chose to hire an 18 year old nanny who, I’m guessing, was probably quite attractive. Hiring a nanny that looked more like her mother would have been a better option.
He definitely has an m.o. with those pain killers. Yeah, the stripes he has are rarely changed. He’s extremely defensive, unapologetic at the crucial moment on this show…nah, he has not changed, period. What he has done to an 18 year old hired as a “Nanny”, drugging her with pain killers is a criminal offense! He’s not owning up to that at all, bottom line he has NOT hanged. Put this piece of trash to the curb permanently. He’s just trying to recoup his reputation, nothing more. He shows no signs of love for his wife, doesn’t even try to hold her hand. She needs to be re-sensitized to feelings of real love. I fear she has on a coat of armor for protection from all the abuse she has had to live through and doesn’t realize or remember what it’s like to have have a man sincerely love her for her. It would be so beautiful for her to heal from all the wrong and really appreciate herself and go on to live a really love filled life. I hope that happens for her and the wonderful children who deserve that kind of life also.
This guy is a real DH
Completely believe the nanny his eyes tell the truth almost a smug look. She knows he did this why stay you have kids how long before he turns on the kids
Imagine staying with someone who says that stuff to your best friend?
Just because other people may engage in the same types of behavior does not make it OK or justifiable for you to do the same
Classic sociopath. My aunt was one. Overmedicating me n stealing my whole college fund then asking how im doing to the rest of my family
The fact that this man says the Nanny was the one coming on to him the way he described it, tells me everything I need to know.
That's sociopath behaviour.
This guy really showed his true colours with the nasty low blow comments to the friend. He's totally made numerous passes at her
And you can tell he still wants her.
Narcissists don't have a soul, and he's a text book narcissist. His wife is trauma bonded to him
HE HAS NOT CHANGED !!! I DON'T BELIEVE HE WILL CHANGE, THIS TRULY LOOKS LIKE HIS PERSONALITY. 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 YOU WILL BE SORRY 🙏 😢😢😢❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Constant deflecting to Heidi. "Did you guys call me names? Yes. There has been name calling from everyone"
I don't like anyone in this triangle.
You saw how she looked down when she said he changed for the better. 😂 3:22
Poor kids😮 these people are just nuts!!! All of them should just move on for the sake of the children 🙄 😒 0
When is DR Phil do a 'where are they now?
He won't cause he don't change these people at all
He's done some updates. It believe the people on the show have to want to participate. Some don't want to participate.
My husband and I have been together for 18 years now. Not once have we ever called each other name's or put each other down in any way! He does not love her! When you love someone, the thought of hurting them hurts you!
I agree. My husband and I have been married 25 years. ❤
Cheaters never change. Period.
That wife is so gullible. He is a BIG FAT LIAR. Get it now?
Looks likke narcistic victim behavior
It is the atraction of the lovebommming with a low selfestime
As soon as she said "My husband changed for the better," she looked down. He's still cheating. She doesn't want to be a working single mom. She's happy to be "picked" 😢🙄
If this guy is as innocent as he says he is, then why would he want to be with a woman who is "conspiring" against him?
Narcissist 101
Why is the best friend living in the same house. She seems way too enmeshed in the situation. She should just keep her distance and continue being a supportive friend to her friend rather than giving ultimatums.
A true friend supports you period. Not just when they do what you want them to
@@tinman8805she's not part of their marriage!!!
She's not living in the house. She lived down the street and she would come over to help with the babies because she was in an accident and disabled for a while and needed help
Everyone needs a best friend like the redhead. She tells it how it is, she genuinely wants her friend to be happy & treated well, & she will check her friends bs at the door AND the ex husband!!
Both the ex wife and ex husband are stuttering and circling around their answers. Big flag they aren’t giving the full answer
This guy is ice cold. Run
Narcissists are worse than demons 😈 😢😢😢
They are the same just a different kind of demon
Brandon probably cheated on her the whole time
When they were doing the interviews at the beginning of the show, I could see it by the smirk on his face that he would definitely do it again. Js
😂Man?! Love is definitely blind here!
Why is the wife still with this jerk 😂
Poor lady actually thinks her husband is going to change. It’s so sad when a woman just wants her partner to be committed and loving, but he’s not capable. I was there once, happy I didn’t waste much time trying to find out if he was gonna change. After I left him, it was obvious that he has no hope. So sad 😢