My son had a relationship with a woman in Iran. They talked everyday for 6 years! They talked face to face so both knew the other was real. Two years ago he went to Turkey and spent a month together. She went back to Iran and he came back to America. Last year they met again and this time got married. Now the battle to bring her to America. She never asked for money and I do believe they love each other madly. I speak with her often and have grown to love her too. I thank God it all turned out and it wasn’t a scam.
that's so funny it reminds me of a movie idea I wish they'd do where the guy IS actually all those things scammers say and he gets into accidents and needs $$ for real and she keeps tellign him no you're a scammer 😁
Lmfao when your're older or been thruogh somethings you"ll realize how another person looks dress or lives is not yours to like love you live yours don't look at them 😂.🤷
1st woman is gorgeous, articulate, and inwardly beautiful. I hope she's doing well today. I know these videos are really old. But she's really something.
My father was an Air Force fighter pilot and then flew for American Airlines until retirement. I have been around pilots my entire life, and I can promise one would never ask anyone to borrow money. Nor would they need to. Pilots go through vigorous personality testing for the military, as well as the airlines. They are honest and honorable men and women.
You can't be serious. People from all walks of life and professions have been proven corrupt....judges, cops, lawyers, priests, pastors, doctors, nurses, scientists, teachers, etc. And you actually believe pilots are the exception?
The premise is similar to how movies can make you cry or commercials can make you happy - people use words and phrases to take down your guard and make you feel important and those are things people can get attached to and even become obsessed with. In fact oftentimes the the person's own Illusions Cloud what's really happening because there is so little authentic input that they have to fill it in with their fantasies. if you ever start a celebrity looked hot, for instance, and you wanted to meet them so bad did you ever think about whether or not they brush their teeth before kissing or what kind of cologne they wear, if they have nice feet or if they have some weird ticks or pet peeves? All those things don't get addressed and someone's fantasy usually.
Deb doesn't realise people just try to be nice when they say 35 😂 also I think an "old" rock & roll grandma is a lot cooler than a young inexperienced woman. If she is a good professional, exactly 0 people will care about her age. It's a no brainer
She seems lovely, you're lovely Debbie But, yeah, I think young people always takeoff several years as they're afraid of guessing too high (old) I know it s hard in our society.
Older confident woman are way cooler ! Sure of who they are and that normally intrigues younger people ! They will share info much easier than with a young "hip" person. My experience in any case.😅
@@patriciadossantos5901 that's what I said. I know I have stories from the 80 s and more that the kids love. She's is selling herself short. Rather than them saying damn you you great for 52, she gets snickers behind her back, like yea right. Why do people lie? Every year is a blessing. Own it.
@@trishlarocca I'm 61 now but when I was in my late 30s, 40,s through my mid 50s I always dated much younger guys! It was awesome, and yes not to brag but I'm definitely cool ( live music and music in general have always been my favorite things, still go to as many shows as I can, jam band groups mostly) I can totally hang! In fact my 4 brothers tried to make a rule that I couldn't date someone younger than my youngest brother but, yeah, that rule never stuck lol. The younger guys are cool and good looking lol. Of course being in my 60s not so much anymore but had a really good run 😅
@@caitlyngraham8480 I feel this. Lol. My daughter said I can't date guys younger than her.. 😂 (she's 38, I'm 56) I wouldn't change my life experience for anything or anyone.
That's what I thought, however she did meet him & Dr Phil's team establish he was 10yrs older than he'd told her & discrepancies in other things she said she'd believed true.
Now it's gonna be 3 years since I connected with this random man from Brazil on the internet. I'm a female from Europe. I've met him in a very vulnerable time in my life so it wasn't hard for me to find him believable right away. After 2 MONTHS talking he offered to meet irl. If he asked me to take a plane there, I would've blocked him, but he wanted to come to me, so I thought he must be for real.. Well I was lucky he actually WAS, and now I've been living in Brazil for the past year (legally of course) with a future wedding in mind~ Life is crazy sometimes, especially on the internet. BE SAFE and I wish you luck.
If you "meet" someone online who asks you for money then block them. I met someone online, we actually started dating, then I found out he lived with his girl friend! I couldn't get away fast enough. I ended being very upset, but he never asked me for money!
TO SEE SUCH A BEAUTIFUL WOMAN ALMOST MAKING A FOOL OF HERSELF BY HIS MANIPULATION IS SOOOOO NAUTIOS.. WALK AWAY TALL.. YOU'RE TOO GOOD FOR THE VAST MAJORITY OF MEN.. LOVE YOURSELF !!!!!!!!!
The fact that Dr. Phil has been able to make as many episodes on this very subject, is absolutely disgraceful. How do these people fall into these obvious traps/scams??!!?? If you can’t visible communicate face to face online or any other way, that doesn’t eventually lead to meeting physically, then PLEASE don’t send a dime!!!!
Wow, the regional differences are so interesting. Here in L.A., from Malibu to the Hollywood Hills, there are multitudes of celebrities and music/rocker icons. Age or what a promoter’s family looks like wouldn’t matter. Promoter’s look hip, cool and edgy because they actually are, all of the time. This woman thinks that her hair, earrings and shirts create a cool rocker vibe, but in L.A. she’d still look like a middle-aged Mom/Grandma. Which is absolutely fantastic for where she lives and who her clients are. She needs to celebrate all aspects of being a woman, bring her business game to that part of her life, and honor who she is.
Lol, I'll be 50 in 2 months. I sometimes try to dress nice, but within my age. I get called Miss Jennifer by EVERYONE at work. I remember my sister crying about being called Miss and her name, she was hysterical. I see it as yeah, I'm getting old and probably look older than I am. I've been through some things in my years, and I welcome every grey hair and every wrinkle. Miss is a term of endearment toward older folks where I'm from and I don't like getting old, but I accept it.
If it sounds too good to be true, it probably is. She was looking for a prize. She probably needed this lesson in a bad way. She's lucky it was only $5,000.
For the first woman, don't ever send money to someone you haven't at least video chatted with. If they keep giving excuses why they can't, it's obviously a scam. Having said that, Kerrylee seems like a very nice lady. She did not deserve to be scammed like that. I don't get how people can do that to other people. For the second lady, my first thought was that she doesn't look 35. But honestly, I would think more people would think it's cool if a grandma is in the rock band business rather than not. She could set the example that just because you're a grandma, it doesn't mean you can't have fun. That would have been my thought process. Also, if you feel the need to hide your kids, grandkids, and husband from your clients, then they probably shouldn't be your clients in the first place. 🤷♀️
Mmmh there are so many apps nowadays that u can use the fake pics to video call n do the talking n movements with what ur saying....example is deep fake ...
Dr. Phil, you're so funny sometimes 🤣 The, "Is Robin home? Dr P-"uh, sorry, she's sleeping "🤣 And then the look on Robyn's face. Thanks ( for the giggles ), I need that🤭😎
I think maybe I know why the "quasi -wife" said "we always say we're sleeping." When u are a female at home alone and a strange man comes knocking at ur door asking for ur husband, saying he's asleep is a way to explain why he isn't coming to the door but also not say "I'm a female home alone." Just a thought lol
Deb dresses like a 50 year old. She has the hairstyle of a 50 year old...and 50 year olds often dye their hair. And nobody has said hip for 40 years! She's fooling nobody so I'm not sure why she thinks she'll lose her business.
None of these people, women meet are factory workers, office workers or garbage collectors....they are all pilots, army officers or rich professionals 😂😂😂
@@karolynmoore7143I doubt that. Modern sting operations have been fully fledged in the 1970s. And I am certain that it was used way way way before that to catch cheating spouses, war criminals etc
@@nikkid4890 yea no, I was just referring to this episode specifically.. as in it’s just not as cut and dry as they do episodes now.. they didn’t do as much “homework” bk then as they do now days. And now they have a lot more in the way of online research to search through and it’s just much different now than it was bk between 2005-2008.. cause that’s what Dr. Phil was sayin is that this dude had her on the hook for 30 some months.. and that they had initially started contact in 05. So this was I imagine filmed in like 08-09.. they have just gotten better about the way they approach cyber security and dating online episodes as they were bk then. 🤷🏻♀️ that’s all I was sayin..
Why would that woman be ashamed of her age?? Some of the best music was happening and she lived through it, so weird and she should be proud to have lived through all those music talents, rock, rap, disco, euro, metal, ect
I’m 52. My generation is badass. Miss “I’m 35” is an embarrassment. I would have those “band kids” listening to the vinyl records I proudly bought in middle school.
Online dating should work just to make the initial contact not to develop the whole relationship without meeting the person. Some red flags: excuses for not showing him/herself on camera, asking for money, early love showering. The last two are red flags in person and otherwise.
It's refreshing when a person being catfished knows they f'ed up and were dumb. It hurts seeing all of those people being catfished who believes the lies until the very last moment, and sometimes way further, when all the proof has come out.
I think people are being mean about Deb’s looks, just because she lied. She does look much younger than 52 but has painted herself into a horrible corner.
@@renb6133 she doesn't look"much younger" than 50. She looks about right. Imagine the stories that she could tell if she was honest. I met this band back in the day, and so on...She'd be a wealth of information and lore to them. She is letting herself and her experience go out the window by trying to act "hip". No one says hip, except people who think they are..🤣 Id rather hear about her band she knew in the 80s and 90s etc than feed her ego, js. (And I'm 56) Use your knowledge people! Age is a blessing!!!
@@cottoncandyflaps4347 no she doesn't look 40. She looks her age. Do y'all know anyone my age?? Just saying. We aren't gen z, we aren't aging like milk. Gen x is aging very well, that's all.
The second lady is somewhat prejudiced against younger people I think. She seems to think they are incapable of dealing with anyone who is older than they are. That's sad. I'm 67 and I get along with people of all ages.!!
Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.
Al is full of fertilizer and he's spreading it all over i bet this isn't the only women he gave a con job too. I can't believe how stupid some women are. 😮
Change your photos out?!!! You should be so very proud of your children, grandchildren and husband. It must be devastating to your family that you rid yourself of them so easily! Dang it - grow up!! Seriously you are attractive but do not look 35!!! You have a good man in your husband! Bless him!
It's the hairstyle that ages her in my opinion, change that and you'll shave some years off. And if you think cussing is what makes you "not sound like a grandma" you haven't met mine!
She looks nowhere near 60; her skin is great and her face is unlined due to the fact she's on the curvy side. However, what's she been doing is self-deluding and stupid. I hope things worked out for her after this public confession.
The first lady should take Al to one of the tv court shows. He won't have to actually pay her back, the tv show will pay her if he just comes on the show and she "wins" her case before the tv judge
For i am not ashamed of the gospel of Jesus Christ for it is the power of God unto salvation to every one that believeth praise God praying for everyone Everyday God bless you all...
I am 34 minutes into this and I’ll bet you before it’s even revealed is from Nigeria. Why are women sending anybody money without verifying who you’re sending it to please smarten up
I'm sorry but 35? She's a very lucky woman. IMO..end the marriage and let her be who she wants to be. One day it'll dawn on her and then it may be too late.
I met my love online. He is 280 lbs, bald, walks with a cane...he's my perfect, perfect gorgeous man. Im short chunky gray haired and in love. If you think you rate a 10, you better be a 10. This lady is lovely but sbout as sharp as a bowling ball.
I met my love online as well. 8 months now in person a week after talking we had time for coffee that turned in lunch....it can happen. Not once asked me for money. We are the same age and economic standings. Both chubby and hes also a hard worker. Love him so much. My family all loves him for me.
When a "catfish" asks you for money, respond sweetly, "Oh my goodness, what a coincidence, I was just going to ask you the same thing. lol"
Great reply.
She's pathetic, she'll fall for it again and again
😂😂
I’ve done it! He just came clean instead lol
He's in the service....he makes $$$$$$. Never need your $$$$$.it's public record his salary!!!!
My son had a relationship with a woman in Iran. They talked everyday for 6 years! They talked face to face so both knew the other was real. Two years ago he went to Turkey and spent a month together. She went back to Iran and he came back to America. Last year they met again and this time got married. Now the battle to bring her to America. She never asked for money and I do believe they love each other madly. I speak with her often and have grown to love her too. I thank God it all turned out and it wasn’t a scam.
that's so funny it reminds me of a movie idea I wish they'd do where the guy IS actually all those things scammers say and he gets into accidents and needs $$ for real and she keeps tellign him no you're a scammer 😁
@@cheery-hex great idea!!
Beautiful story hope it turns out great much love 😊
Why would he put himself through that?
They should apply to be on 90 Day Fiancé 😊
DR Phil is why I DO NOT trust online suitors, nor do I entertain long distance relationships where we do not meet.
DP is famously honest and I’m here for it! 35 is a STRETCH!!!
Dog years?😅
She looks her age, people who tell you they look younger aren’t happy with themselves.
She looks good for her age, I’ll give her that. But honey, you do not look 35.
wasn't this years ago though? some 35 year olds looked around that 20 years ago
@@cheery-hexNo 35 yo looks 55.
@@cheery-hex not sure when this aired, but when I was younger everyone in their 20s and 30s looked old to me 😂
The First Lady looked younger than her and she was confirmed to be in her 50s
Those hands look 70
Nobody thinks that Deb is 35, more like 55.
If Deb is 35, & I'm 33..... Oh 🤬🤬 I'm going to age FASTTTT.
🫨😱🫥😶🌫️🤦😵😫
yes I agree that she is about 55
If Deb is 35, then I’ve got a bridge in Brooklyn I’d like to sell you!!!
@@alwaysthesleepless1 Me too
If she us 35, then I am a baby! Bc, I am 38, and I do not look 35, and definitely do not look 55! I get 28/30 all the time.
No way does she look 35! Absolutely not in a million years! 50ish yes
This video is old. She probably is 50 now as you watch it
Nobody at age "35" would dare wear their hair like that!!
made me laugh...but it WAS a thing back when they filmed this...god help us..(I'm old, so I'm guilty..hahah)
@@choochoo9506 exactly
this is more 50’s/ gramma style.
Lmfao when your're older or been thruogh somethings you"ll realize how another person looks dress or lives is not yours to like love you live yours don't look at them 😂.🤷
Riiight!!!
1st woman is gorgeous, articulate, and inwardly beautiful. I hope she's doing well today. I know these videos are really old. But she's really something.
Foolish
Those “bands” are definitely laughing at her!😂
My father was an Air Force fighter pilot and then flew for American Airlines until retirement. I have been around pilots my entire life, and I can promise one would never ask anyone to borrow money. Nor would they need to. Pilots go through vigorous personality testing for the military, as well as the airlines. They are honest and honorable men and women.
You can't be serious. People from all walks of life and professions have been proven corrupt....judges, cops, lawyers, priests, pastors, doctors, nurses, scientists, teachers, etc. And you actually believe pilots are the exception?
I've never understood online "dating" nor how people can get so emotionally involved with people they've never met!
Some people fall in love with people for who they are on the inside.
It’s easier than face to face. The fantasy can be enabled!
The premise is similar to how movies can make you cry or commercials can make you happy - people use words and phrases to take down your guard and make you feel important and those are things people can get attached to and even become obsessed with. In fact oftentimes the the person's own Illusions Cloud what's really happening because there is so little authentic input that they have to fill it in with their fantasies. if you ever start a celebrity looked hot, for instance, and you wanted to meet them so bad did you ever think about whether or not they brush their teeth before kissing or what kind of cologne they wear, if they have nice feet or if they have some weird ticks or pet peeves? All those things don't get addressed and someone's fantasy usually.
Insude what? They havent even seen the outside 😂😂😂😂😂@anneshirley9560
Insude what? They havent even seen the outside 😂😂😂😂😂@anneshirley9560
Deb doesn't realise people just try to be nice when they say 35 😂 also I think an "old" rock & roll grandma is a lot cooler than a young inexperienced woman. If she is a good professional, exactly 0 people will care about her age. It's a no brainer
She seems lovely, you're lovely Debbie
But, yeah, I think young people always takeoff several years as they're afraid of guessing too high (old)
I know it s hard in our society.
Older confident woman are way cooler ! Sure of who they are and that normally intrigues younger people ! They will share info much easier than with a young "hip" person. My experience in any case.😅
@@patriciadossantos5901 that's what I said. I know I have stories from the 80 s and more that the kids love. She's is selling herself short. Rather than them saying damn you you great for 52, she gets snickers behind her back, like yea right. Why do people lie? Every year is a blessing. Own it.
@@trishlarocca I'm 61 now but when I was in my late 30s, 40,s through my mid 50s I always dated much younger guys! It was awesome, and yes not to brag but I'm definitely cool ( live music and music in general have always been my favorite things, still go to as many shows as I can, jam band groups mostly) I can totally hang! In fact my 4 brothers tried to make a rule that I couldn't date someone younger than my youngest brother but, yeah, that rule never stuck lol. The younger guys are cool and good looking lol. Of course being in my 60s not so much anymore but had a really good run 😅
@@caitlyngraham8480 I feel this. Lol. My daughter said I can't date guys younger than her.. 😂 (she's 38, I'm 56) I wouldn't change my life experience for anything or anyone.
Plot twist- his “wife” is really Al
Maybe now but back then impossible
That’s what I thought
Exactly. That’s what I was going to write as well.
Al can be any gender etc.
That's what I thought, however she did meet him & Dr Phil's team establish he was 10yrs older than he'd told her & discrepancies in other things she said she'd believed true.
Now it's gonna be 3 years since I connected with this random man from Brazil on the internet. I'm a female from Europe. I've met him in a very vulnerable time in my life so it wasn't hard for me to find him believable right away. After 2 MONTHS talking he offered to meet irl. If he asked me to take a plane there, I would've blocked him, but he wanted to come to me, so I thought he must be for real.. Well I was lucky he actually WAS, and now I've been living in Brazil for the past year (legally of course) with a future wedding in mind~ Life is crazy sometimes, especially on the internet. BE SAFE and I wish you luck.
That's great! I live in São Paulo!
If they don't video with you they are a scammed.
This is an episode from 2005. Video calls weren't that standard.
Unfortunately, with AI, they can even do that now.
If you "meet" someone online who asks you for money then block them. I met someone online, we actually started dating, then I found out he lived with his girl friend! I couldn't get away fast enough. I ended being very upset, but he never asked me for money!
@@alwaysthesleepless1 These " types" are everywhere!
Granny needs therapy. She doesn’t like being old but literally no one else cares I’m sure!
TO SEE SUCH A BEAUTIFUL WOMAN ALMOST MAKING A FOOL OF HERSELF BY HIS MANIPULATION IS SOOOOO NAUTIOS..
WALK AWAY TALL..
YOU'RE TOO GOOD FOR THE VAST MAJORITY OF MEN..
LOVE YOURSELF !!!!!!!!!
Nauseous 😉
and "Al' is watching the show at home hahahaha
😂😂
The fact that Dr. Phil has been able to make as many episodes on this very subject, is absolutely disgraceful. How do these people fall into these obvious traps/scams??!!?? If you can’t visible communicate face to face online or any other way, that doesn’t eventually lead to meeting physically, then PLEASE don’t send a dime!!!!
It’s epic to see that this woman isn’t in denial and making excuses and gaslighting herself.
Wow, the regional differences are so interesting. Here in L.A., from Malibu to the Hollywood Hills, there are multitudes of celebrities and music/rocker icons. Age or what a promoter’s family looks like wouldn’t matter. Promoter’s look hip, cool and edgy because they actually are, all of the time. This woman thinks that her hair, earrings and shirts create a cool rocker vibe, but in L.A. she’d still look like a middle-aged Mom/Grandma. Which is absolutely fantastic for where she lives and who her clients are. She needs to celebrate all aspects of being a woman, bring her business game to that part of her life, and honor who she is.
Lol, I'll be 50 in 2 months. I sometimes try to dress nice, but within my age. I get called Miss Jennifer by EVERYONE at work. I remember my sister crying about being called Miss and her name, she was hysterical. I see it as yeah, I'm getting old and probably look older than I am. I've been through some things in my years, and I welcome every grey hair and every wrinkle. Miss is a term of endearment toward older folks where I'm from and I don't like getting old, but I accept it.
Botox and fillers 😅 if you want to look younger u can
28:41 "I hate hypocrites I hate liars" THE AUDACITY! LADY! That's what you've been doing EVERY SINGLE DAY FOR YEARS
Oh noooo, when will these ladies learn. AFRICA SCREAMING OUT LOUD!!!!!!
Africa😂😂😂
If it sounds too good to be true, it probably is. She was looking for a prize. She probably needed this lesson in a bad way. She's lucky it was only $5,000.
I'm proud to be a grandma of 16, and great to 3 now at 63- going on 64 this new year!
YOU'RE NOT GOING TO GET YOUR MONEY BACK LADY ACCEPT YOUR LOSS AND MOVE ON
For the first woman, don't ever send money to someone you haven't at least video chatted with. If they keep giving excuses why they can't, it's obviously a scam. Having said that, Kerrylee seems like a very nice lady. She did not deserve to be scammed like that. I don't get how people can do that to other people.
For the second lady, my first thought was that she doesn't look 35. But honestly, I would think more people would think it's cool if a grandma is in the rock band business rather than not. She could set the example that just because you're a grandma, it doesn't mean you can't have fun. That would have been my thought process. Also, if you feel the need to hide your kids, grandkids, and husband from your clients, then they probably shouldn't be your clients in the first place. 🤷♀️
Mmmh there are so many apps nowadays that u can use the fake pics to video call n do the talking n movements with what ur saying....example is deep fake ...
Deb, Deb, Deb, Deb… do they believe you? I mean girl, you don’t look 35.
65
Not evev close to 35.😂
Sue him in small claims or civil court
It's not worth it......she should just take the "L" and go.....
@@tiffanyrichards9288 If he owns the house it sure is worth it, or the court could order it as restitution after he is convicted for fraud.
Most people don`t even know who they are. They are too busy copying others.
Excellent point 👉
I can't believe these men and women open their hearts to total strangers!!! This is so frustrating!!!!
Deb. No. Just. No. At least DP pointed it out 😂😂😂😂😂
They know where Al is so why not sue him in civil court?
Exactly, I'd take the rat bastard to court she knows where he lives, he probably doesn't have a pot to pee in or a window to toss it out of. 😅
No one ever knows someone. People are deep
Dr. Phil, you're so funny sometimes 🤣
The, "Is Robin home?
Dr P-"uh, sorry, she's sleeping "🤣
And then the look on Robyn's face.
Thanks ( for the giggles ), I need that🤭😎
Deb, Deb. Deb! You in no way look 35. I do not care what you wear. Kids or no kids. Dogs or no dogs. You are 55 all the way.
The last lady, LOL!!! She looks all of 55. 😅
I think maybe I know why the "quasi -wife" said "we always say we're sleeping." When u are a female at home alone and a strange man comes knocking at ur door asking for ur husband, saying he's asleep is a way to explain why he isn't coming to the door but also not say "I'm a female home alone." Just a thought lol
Deb dresses like a 50 year old. She has the hairstyle of a 50 year old...and 50 year olds often dye their hair. And nobody has said hip for 40 years! She's fooling nobody so I'm not sure why she thinks she'll lose her business.
None of these people, women meet are factory workers, office workers or garbage collectors....they are all pilots, army officers or rich professionals 😂😂😂
That teased hair is so old fashioned.
This had to be about 20 years ago. I wonder what Deb’s up to these days? Maybe now she’s pretending to be a 52-year-old housewife.
"The bands come over?" What does that even mean?There is really something wrong with some women's minds.
Why didnt the PI investigate first so they catch Al first instead of going with her the first time?
I think maybe cause this is an older episode and I have feeling they have just gotten much better at their homework and strategy over the years.
@@karolynmoore7143I doubt that. Modern sting operations have been fully fledged in the 1970s. And I am certain that it was used way way way before that to catch cheating spouses, war criminals etc
@@nikkid4890 yea no, I was just referring to this episode specifically.. as in it’s just not as cut and dry as they do episodes now.. they didn’t do as much “homework” bk then as they do now days. And now they have a lot more in the way of online research to search through and it’s just much different now than it was bk between 2005-2008.. cause that’s what Dr. Phil was sayin is that this dude had her on the hook for 30 some months.. and that they had initially started contact in 05. So this was I imagine filmed in like 08-09.. they have just gotten better about the way they approach cyber security and dating online episodes as they were bk then. 🤷🏻♀️ that’s all I was sayin..
I think many people who commented think this is from 2024. So funny
@@pambutler998 yea that’s what I was thinkin lol
Her leaving the gifts is so stupid! That’s just a reward for what they did. The wife is in on it too probably.
Anytime a person asks for money anytime say NO you have nothing nothing it can ruin lives
Her hairstyle in itself is ageing.
Lolllll Deb tells ppl she’s 35??? The word deluded comes to mind. Lolllll😅
Deb: dont know who she's trying to fool maybe only herself. Old Flossy!
Why would that woman be ashamed of her age?? Some of the best music was happening and she lived through it, so weird and she should be proud to have lived through all those music talents, rock, rap, disco, euro, metal, ect
I’m 52.
My generation is badass.
Miss “I’m 35” is an embarrassment.
I would have those “band kids” listening to the vinyl records I proudly bought in middle school.
35??? Ha ha ha ha. She looks her age and not 35.
Online dating should work just to make the initial contact not to develop the whole relationship without meeting the person. Some red flags: excuses for not showing him/herself on camera, asking for money, early love showering. The last two are red flags in person and otherwise.
It's refreshing when a person being catfished knows they f'ed up and were dumb.
It hurts seeing all of those people being catfished who believes the lies until the very last moment, and sometimes way further, when all the proof has come out.
No one thinks that lady is 35….
I think people are being mean about Deb’s looks, just because she lied. She does look much younger than 52 but has painted herself into a horrible corner.
She does look younger yes maybe about 40 which is still good
@@renb6133 she doesn't look"much younger" than 50. She looks about right. Imagine the stories that she could tell if she was honest. I met this band back in the day, and so on...She'd be a wealth of information and lore to them. She is letting herself and her experience go out the window by trying to act "hip". No one says hip, except people who think they are..🤣 Id rather hear about her band she knew in the 80s and 90s etc than feed her ego, js. (And I'm 56) Use your knowledge people! Age is a blessing!!!
She looks her age
@@cottoncandyflaps4347 no she doesn't look 40. She looks her age. Do y'all know anyone my age?? Just saying. We aren't gen z, we aren't aging like milk. Gen x is aging very well, that's all.
@@trishlarocca I’m gen X myself I’m 44.
30 year Olds don't say they look "hip" lmfao more like she needs a hip replacement.
I guarantee the band members are laughing at her behind her back.
The first woman’s mouth movements are annoying.
Right? I was looking if someone else saw that too 😚
She mentions later she needs reconstructive surgery on her jaw.
She needs jaw surgery.Dont be nasty
Infatuation and fakeness, like her age😂
And what you say is nasty,if you don't know it,for sure.
I feel sorry for the trees wasted in this garbage.
Deb is a freaking sociopath. Very selfish 😡
Oh Deb, u DO look ur REAL age. Saying ur in ur 30's when u go out, wow!!!!!! Wake up.
That woman does not look 35 at all.
The second lady is somewhat prejudiced against younger people I think. She seems to think they are incapable of dealing with anyone who is older than they are. That's sad. I'm 67 and I get along with people of all ages.!!
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"Do I sound like Al?" 😂
Al is married or intimate with that “roommate” and they’re both in the scam together lol
Al is full of fertilizer and he's spreading it all over i bet this isn't the only women he gave a con job too. I can't believe how stupid some women are. 😮
Al is the woman.
Wonder if the woman who wouldn’t answer the door is ‘him’…… or is she a money mule ??
That first woman is still in denial.
People have 3 personalities
One for their family
One for their friends
One for church 🙃
That's why you don't get involved with people online hopefully lady you learned your lesson
Change your photos out?!!! You should be so very proud of your children, grandchildren and husband. It must be devastating to your family that you rid yourself of them so easily! Dang it - grow up!! Seriously you are attractive but do not look 35!!! You have a good man in your husband! Bless him!
I agree 100% ♥️
lol that first woman, she lost me when she threw the gifts at him hahaha, what the?? 😂
DUH Stupid people should not be allowed online.
Deb, she has an identity issue. Hope she finds her true self one day
When someone asks me how old I think they are I always guess 10 years younger than what I think. It's the polite thing to do.
Dr Phil should cut her a check for 5000$ and get her to never answer his calls
The second woman is revolting.
First woman needs to let go. The guy could become dangerous. The second woman is delusional and isn't hip. Her clothes and earrings are basic.
Sorry Deb, not only do you not look 35, you don’t look 45…as a 52 year old myself, you look at least 60. Hip earrings or not.
@audreym3777. You said exactly what I was thinking
no she doesn't. without that haircut and maybe the weight her face looks younger than she is
Her hairstyle is not what a younger woman would wear. Nor is her makeup. I'm 68. I have no issue being my age. I'm comfortable with myself.
It's the hairstyle that ages her in my opinion, change that and you'll shave some years off. And if you think cussing is what makes you "not sound like a grandma" you haven't met mine!
She looks nowhere near 60; her skin is great and her face is unlined due to the fact she's on the curvy side. However, what's she been doing is self-deluding and stupid. I hope things worked out for her after this public confession.
Sorry Deb ; grew up !! Pay attention to your husband , what are you doing 😢 Deb no class
The first lady should take Al to one of the tv court shows. He won't have to actually pay her back, the tv show will pay her if he just comes on the show and she "wins" her case before the tv judge
Anyone could have walked by that house and taken pictures to use online.They could have been harassing completely clueless poeple😂
35?? More like 65! A 35 year old woman does not rat her hair.😂😂 She catfished him!!
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I am 34 minutes into this and I’ll bet you before it’s even revealed is from Nigeria. Why are women sending anybody money without verifying who you’re sending it to please smarten up
They do it to men as well.
They brainwash them. It's crazy, they are taking millions from Americans.
Emotionally needy women do some really dumb things!!
He's from Florida.
She met him.
This Deb is so ungrateful for the wonderful family she's got... so sad and dumb.
I'm sorry but 35? She's a very lucky woman. IMO..end the marriage and let her be who she wants to be. One day it'll dawn on her and then it may be too late.
Those guys in the bands are being polite about her age. They know she’s not 35.
And Robin could pass for 35 wayyyyy before this woman
Robin was lovely before surgery.
Erm...has Deb heard of the Rolling Stones?? They haven't quit or been told to stop working in the industry.
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He never got the box? I wonder why
34:10 I love how they reminded us that she’s 52, AGAIN lol.
You can tell someone is a fashion mavin when they tell you their clothes/accessories are, "hip."
I met my love online. He is 280 lbs, bald, walks with a cane...he's my perfect, perfect gorgeous man. Im short chunky gray haired and in love. If you think you rate a 10, you better be a 10. This lady is lovely but sbout as sharp as a bowling ball.
I met my love online as well. 8 months now in person a week after talking we had time for coffee that turned in lunch....it can happen. Not once asked me for money.
We are the same age and economic standings. Both chubby and hes also a hard worker. Love him so much. My family all loves him for me.
I cannot believe you didn't tuck you tail and walk away.
Highly doubfull that someone in the army never get a change to come home. Solders do get leave.
Gotta be pretty dumb to just send someone money like that..