Pierre’s mother is talking about the girl eating in a strange way and drinking too much all while she has both arms on the table and talking with food in her mouth and washing it all down with wine.
I don't know if the mother in law is from Canada or Europe, but in France, like most Europe, it's good manners to have both arms/hands on the table. Her table manners, shown in the video, aren't perfect from my point of view but normal for European standards...
I didn't know this, that's so different from the US cuz I was always taught "get your elbows off the table!!" growing up. I always wondered why it was especially when using fork&knife while eating...? @@ElsebelseElsbeth
It's not quirks, it's narcissism. She is old enough to be a better person, a better human and chooses to be a manipulative and controlling one instead.
My exes mother ALWAYS spoke in Spanish when I was around,so I got DuoLingo..and learnt fast that I was being bitched about....I'm happily single now Pierre has NO backbone
My SILs are Spanish speakers and when they speak I could care less what they say I am the ice queen LOL The only opinions that count in my house are mine
@@hazzaplayz808 I’m afraid so. You just can’t make him into something he is not. But I honestly think if he manned up and laid down laws and set his mother straight that she would have no choice but to go by his rules if she wanted to see her son. Does the couple have children?
Same my in laws spoke Spanish in my face all the time but only when it was convenient for them but yet I was not allowed to speak French to our children so they could learn more than English. I thought being with someone bilingual would make it easier to teach our children but nope I was never allowed to speak French even when talking to my family overseas I would end up switching to English because he would butt in in a way that it’d make my mother and I switch to English
She is a GORGEOUS sweet girl. They have been so cruel to her. I don’t think that HE is worthy of HER. The MOM does not want to share her son with. ANYONE!!! SHE wants to be his # 1 and ONLY. This is a sad dysfunctional family. Fox bless you Amanda and good luck❤🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
They are all in DENIAL: the son is in DENIAL, says "mom's little quirks" referring to her meddling and meanness! The mother has zero accountability (so denies any wrong doing) and the DIL is in DENIAL of having an addiction that needs to be addressed. The couple does not have a strong foundation so the MIL has so much room to wiggle and do harm.
She needs to file for divorce. She is married to a mama's boy and he will always be a mama's boy. To preserve her own sanity and esteem, she needs to leave and never look back.
Bc she has manipulated her son his entire life. He has been CONDITIONED to do xyz to gain his Moms approval. She uses money, cars, houses, etc to bribe and control him.
@ But the wife is searching for happiness, not materialism. It has not helped the son to be a puppet. His moral integrity and manhood have fallen by the wayside.
To speak French in front of your wife is down right rude. The mother should not have a key to their home, especially when she goes in the house when they are not there. She is a meddling so and so. Did anyone notice and husband are smiling about the issue but poor Amanda is very saddened. Kick his arse to the kerb and find another man who isn't mommy's boy.
Amanda's answer is clear. Even now, as this pathetic child (who is 38) sits in front of Dr Phil, he still says he's "torn" between his mommy and his wife. OMG he's a 38 yr old man!!!! Sorry Amanda, you need to RUN, not walk
Poor Amanda she look like she could cry while that old hag and her spineless husband sat there and laugh at her expense. Run honey its not worth it. If I was this girl's mother I would wipe the floor with that old hag.
I have a Greek mother in law, she used to speak Greek to her son but I did the same thing, learned Greek on DuoLingo. Now I can explain to her about her son's bad behaviour.
That mother in law is a nasty controlling freak. She is using money to make him her puppet. I would never ever put up with a man who is such a mammas boy.
She’s controlling, certainly. Amanda is not bullied by her, at all. The son wants the perks his mother gives him to keep him under her control. Was his mother ever married to his father? I understand why the father divorced this woman, is she was ever married. Perhaps she was a single mother, maybe she got artificially inseminated because she didn’t want a relationship and marriage with a man she couldn’t control. Pierre is a worm and the mother makes me 🤮.
It's really rude to speak in another language when everyone at the table has a common lingua franca. You can tell she's defeated and thank god she doesn't have kids with him, a clean break. I think she heard what Phil was saying between the lines. If the universe has any justice, he'll marry up and the new wife's family will look down on him and his mom.
I'm so glad I grew up poor and free to make my own life. My trailer park mom used to say, "do what I tell you or I'll cut you out of the will!" And I was like, "LOL oh no, please don't, that 50 bucks was really going to get me out of a jam"
I tried to rent off my MIL 🤦♀️ i just gave birth to our son and she tried to control everything and I just moved to another house , I wasn't having my son being in that kind of environment . My partner and I have a great relationship and parent excellence together. I'm glad he understood the situation and spoke up when needed
Pierre would marry his mom if it was legal. He should helping and supporting his wife rather than worrying about what money he is getting from his mom. The last couple are just insane. They do not deserve that child and both need serious serious counseling.
The crazy thing is, once this guy gets the help he needs, he's going to HATE his mom! She took the love of a son and destroyed it with her narcissism. The wife is actually looking at YEARS of therapy for him if she stays. I won't be suprised if the mother wanted to replace the bride! I've heard that happen, too, with these types. Gross! This is one of those things where I am torn between disgust and pity.
Aside from all things presented, I felt so sorry for the way the husband and mil seemed to laugh at Amanda. I sincerely hope she gets out of this relationship.
She wants to go iut with him on Valentine's day w/o his wife. Mom is sick but didn't pick it up in her psychiatry/psychology studies. They need to get their own home and car or just let Pierre ride off in to the sunset with mommy.
Mother-in-law does not need the keys to the house. I was married to Frenchman too, and his parents were exactly like this. The French have a superior already complex.
Fact is: Amanda and Pierre don‘t seem to be a good fit and Pierre‘s mother is horrible but Amanda is an alcoholic and I understand why a mother protects her son. Still…Pierre is not really a man, he is a little boy who hasn‘t grown up yet. No real man would put his mother first, no matter how close they are. His mother isn‘t really wrong though, you don‘t want to have an alcoholic in your kids‘ life.
I used to have a mother in law from Georgia I was from CT...oh boy the control. I divorced him after 9 yrs and wouldn't you know years later we talked and she said I was the best for her son and she actually apologized....I accepted it and kept moving forward.
Dr phil u should have also made a strong point about the father taking equal responsibilities at home and take steps to show much he loves the mother of his child, the fact that he does things that provoke her shows he doesn't value this relationship n care for her enough There's always reasons for a women to get angry, i agree she needs to control it but how about stopping the cause!!!
My mother in law was beautiful. I adored her. She loved on us girls because we loved her sons. She was a beautiful Nanna too. I miss her very much. She was honest to a tea but so loving even when we needed a butt kick, she did it in love. I hope i leave the same fondness to those who have come into our family. Its a priveledge to have relationship that is good and full❤
The first wife needs to leave her husband is an idiot and immature and his mother knows what she’s doing I say girl Run !!!! leave him to his mother husband a spoiled little man
Pierre is not a real or mature man. He doesn't want to stand on his own 2 feet completely supporting himself & his wife, nor off his mother's teet. And how old is this episode? Because all of the stuff that his mom has bought (so called "luxuries") are very old and not good quality.
That French mother needs to get her own life and leave her smug arrogance behind. Grow up Pierre, give your mother back her apron stings and make a life with the wife you chose.
She will not listen to Dr.Phil she will not show accountability for her awful behavior … All these adults will not put the child first none of them … Disgusting !
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Pierre’s mother is talking about the girl eating in a strange way and drinking too much all while she has both arms on the table and talking with food in her mouth and washing it all down with wine.
No room to talk about table manners does she!
I don't know if the mother in law is from Canada or Europe, but in France, like most Europe, it's good manners to have both arms/hands on the table.
Her table manners, shown in the video, aren't perfect from my point of view but normal for European standards...
I didn't know this, that's so different from the US cuz I was always taught "get your elbows off the table!!" growing up. I always wondered why it was especially when using fork&knife while eating...? @@ElsebelseElsbeth
@@ElsebelseElsbeth The woman is from Quebec, a french province of Canada. Listen to her carefully, her french has a strong accent from Montréal.
My thoughts exactly
Amanda is suffering while everyone is smiling and laughing. This is heartbreaking.
Leave the guy. He is a whimp. Can't even stand up for his wife and his own married life. He is a coward, a weakling, and an idiot
Totally agree !
She needs to run and run fast from this situation.
SHE's the coward if she leaves! GOD JUSTIFIES THIS FOREVER! Romans 8:28, Genesis 50:20, etc.
The moment he called her trailer trash shows how he actually feels
@SantanaCampbell your imaginary sky friend has no say. If there was an all powerful god her husband would have a backbone.
It's not quirks, it's narcissism. She is old enough to be a better person, a better human and chooses to be a manipulative and controlling one instead.
100% agree. SHE IS EVIL NARCISSIST. MONSTER without empathy.....run and run fast from them
I would not tolerate a woman like that, nor her weak little mommy’s boy.
@@crochet8172 well they can move any time they want the free place to live
pierre is a terrible person for belittling his wife like that. she should run from him and his crazy mother
Pierre and his mother deserve each other. Get away from them.
I agree. LEAVE HIM!
Leave this man and his family; Run!
That little baby is absorbing all of this hostility. You are creating a spirit of fear and rage in this child!
Worst husband ever. He’s just smiling the whole time!
The way she laughed when she found out that she'd been recorded was just creepy.
My exes mother ALWAYS spoke in Spanish when I was around,so I got DuoLingo..and learnt fast that I was being bitched about....I'm happily single now
Pierre has NO backbone
My SILs are Spanish speakers and when they speak I could care less what they say I am the ice queen LOL The only opinions that count in my house are mine
and bilingual, which is a great skill 👏 👌
Duolingo is where I learned to read Spanish and know what the words meant but I can't speak it.
@@hazzaplayz808 I’m afraid so. You just can’t make him into something he is not. But I honestly think if he manned up and laid down laws and set his mother straight that she would have no choice but to go by his rules if she wanted to see her son. Does the couple have children?
Same my in laws spoke Spanish in my face all the time but only when it was convenient for them but yet I was not allowed to speak French to our children so they could learn more than English. I thought being with someone bilingual would make it easier to teach our children but nope I was never allowed to speak French even when talking to my family overseas I would end up switching to English because he would butt in in a way that it’d make my mother and I switch to English
She is a GORGEOUS sweet girl.
They have been so cruel to her.
I don’t think that HE is worthy of HER.
The MOM does not want to share her son with. ANYONE!!! SHE wants to be his # 1 and ONLY.
This is a sad dysfunctional family.
Fox bless you Amanda and good luck❤🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
When a mother wants to take her married son out for Valentine’s Day-without his wife-you know she has significant issues
RUN AMANDA.... RUN!!!
Take hold of your life and thrive.
That mother is not going to change.
Can't run. Does not have money and accomodation 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@marcianomcmahon9484 I found out the hard way that you need a lot less than you think to run. You only have to be willing to give up comfort.
Take Dr Phil's help and advice and leave these toxic people ASAP
The moms grin after the dinner video. She was proud of what she saw
They are all in DENIAL: the son is in DENIAL, says "mom's little quirks" referring to her meddling and meanness! The mother has zero accountability (so denies any wrong doing) and the DIL is in DENIAL of having an addiction that needs to be addressed. The couple does not have a strong foundation so the MIL has so much room to wiggle and do harm.
She needs to file for divorce. She is married to a mama's boy and he will always be a mama's boy. To preserve her own sanity and esteem, she needs to leave and never look back.
He will do any thing for money,even agree with his mom.
Yes, I can’t see him giving up the materialism.
She should do the same to her hubby and drain Mom's bank account lmao
Bc she has manipulated her son his entire life. He has been CONDITIONED to do xyz to gain his Moms approval. She uses money, cars, houses, etc to bribe and control him.
@ But the wife is searching for happiness, not materialism. It has not helped the son to be a puppet. His moral integrity and manhood have fallen by the wayside.
He is like his EVIL NARCISSIST MOTHER HUNGRY FOR $$$$$. .....in their evil mind money is to have power and control. They are evil.
I hope she divorced this horrible wimp
me too omg this was infuriating to watch
I blame the husband. He needs to man up.
To speak French in front of your wife is down right rude. The mother should not have a key to their home, especially when she goes in the house when they are not there. She is a meddling so and so. Did anyone notice and husband are smiling about the issue but poor Amanda is very saddened. Kick his arse to the kerb and find another man who isn't mommy's boy.
Curb….
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Amanda's answer is clear. Even now, as this pathetic child (who is 38) sits in front of Dr Phil, he still says he's "torn" between his mommy and his wife. OMG he's a 38 yr old man!!!! Sorry Amanda, you need to RUN, not walk
It's ok to help your kids financially if you can, and wish to, but that help should come absolutely unconditionally
Poor Amanda she look like she could cry while that old hag and her spineless husband sat there and laugh at her expense. Run honey its not worth it. If I was this girl's mother I would wipe the floor with that old hag.
Yes!!!! 👏🏻
Amanda looks so beat down, depressed, lost and abused. If things don't change fast I would be moving on in a hurry.
I have a Greek mother in law, she used to speak Greek to her son but I did the same thing, learned Greek on DuoLingo. Now I can explain to her about her son's bad behaviour.
That mother in law is a nasty controlling freak. She is using money to make him her puppet. I would never ever put up with a man who is such a mammas boy.
That mom is a bully
OMG that woman i would rather live in a tent with or without my husband she's a big bully😮
She’s controlling, certainly. Amanda is not bullied by her, at all. The son wants the perks his mother gives him to keep him under her control. Was his mother ever married to his father? I understand why the father divorced this woman, is she was ever married. Perhaps she was a single mother, maybe she got artificially inseminated because she didn’t want a relationship and marriage with a man she couldn’t control. Pierre is a worm and the mother makes me 🤮.
It's really rude to speak in another language when everyone at the table has a common lingua franca. You can tell she's defeated and thank god she doesn't have kids with him, a clean break. I think she heard what Phil was saying between the lines. If the universe has any justice, he'll marry up and the new wife's family will look down on him and his mom.
The second case is so sad because there is a BABY in the middle of a very immature father a an exhausted angry mother. Poor child 😢
It broke my heart to see that little baby just watching his parents fight. He could’ve been seriously hurt😢
What a whimp and what a whitch! Leave them!
I'm so glad I grew up poor and free to make my own life. My trailer park mom used to say, "do what I tell you or I'll cut you out of the will!" And I was like, "LOL oh no, please don't, that 50 bucks was really going to get me out of a jam"
He’s 38 and mom pays the mortgage?😅
What sort of man lets his mother buy everything for him?! What a wuss! He is so disloyal to his wife. I feel so sorry for her.
Looks like mom can suck back the wine pretty good,she one to talk.
That mother in law is disgusting and so is her spoiled rotten son.
Run away from that man. He is a coward to his mom.
I tried to rent off my MIL 🤦♀️ i just gave birth to our son and she tried to control everything and I just moved to another house , I wasn't having my son being in that kind of environment . My partner and I have a great relationship and parent excellence together. I'm glad he understood the situation and spoke up when needed
peirre is so whipped the cream is jealous
Pierre would marry his mom if it was legal. He should helping and supporting his wife rather than worrying about what money he is getting from his mom. The last couple are just insane. They do not deserve that child and both need serious serious counseling.
If your mother in-law is a problem it is 100% the husband/son who is the problem. Leave him!!
Amanda is being bullied by MIL & husband. Beautiful girl, you deserve better
2nd boy needs to get a job! PERIOD!
follow up please?
The crazy thing is, once this guy gets the help he needs, he's going to HATE his mom! She took the love of a son and destroyed it with her narcissism. The wife is actually looking at YEARS of therapy for him if she stays. I won't be suprised if the mother wanted to replace the bride! I've heard that happen, too, with these types. Gross! This is one of those things where I am torn between disgust and pity.
Leave that mama's boy with his mother wife
Pierre is a momma’s boy and his mother is toxic and judgmental AF. She needs to run. When you get married, your spouse comes first - not your mommy.
The son thinks it's funny. He's not right either.
Aside from all things presented, I felt so sorry for the way the husband and mil seemed to laugh at Amanda. I sincerely hope she gets out of this relationship.
SHE IS TOO GOD FOR HIM.. HE DOESNT DESERVE HER. HE IS A USELESS GUY
Let’s just call it what it is. Enmeshment/emotional incest, it’s gross.
😢 Pierre is still a toddler, that is a spoiled brat. Amanda if she does drink n smoke too much, it is a stressed, depressed reaction.
Also... for a women who has experience in psychology... she doesn't recognize enmeshment👀
I can’t handle his bangs 😂
Mama's boy
He is a moocher who is still breastfeeding. Mom has emotional problems and wants to breastfeed. Girl-RUN-you deserve better!!!!
Weak man
Thank goodness this man’s wife finally found a man who can offer her some compassion. Way to go D😊r Phil
He loves things more than he loves his wife. He will leave her or push her out when it gets down to nitty gritty.
Mother in law need too be seen not heard what's wrong with this husband mom want too be his wife
She wants to go iut with him on Valentine's day w/o his wife. Mom is sick but didn't pick it up in her psychiatry/psychology studies. They need to get their own home and car or just let Pierre ride off in to the sunset with mommy.
I think Amanda ended up leaving Pierre, and good for her. He's a wimp and his mom sucks.
He's too old to be a mama's boy and the mother should let her son grow up and have his own life
Mom is sucking down the wine!
Amanda can do better. What a nightmare 😮 She should pack up and find a real man.
Run kid. Do not look back.
Norman Bates and mommy vibes.
Mom is vindictive walk away from him
Why don’t they move into their own house? Their mother in law owns and pays for their house?
If it's a tough choice, Lady run
Mother-in-law does not need the keys to the house. I was married to Frenchman too, and his parents were exactly like this. The French have a superior already complex.
What a little punk! I hope she is not with him now!
Fact is: Amanda and Pierre don‘t seem to be a good fit and Pierre‘s mother is horrible but Amanda is an alcoholic and I understand why a mother protects her son. Still…Pierre is not really a man, he is a little boy who hasn‘t grown up yet. No real man would put his mother first, no matter how close they are. His mother isn‘t really wrong though, you don‘t want to have an alcoholic in your kids‘ life.
Amanda, RUN
I used to have a mother in law from Georgia I was from CT...oh boy the control. I divorced him after 9 yrs and wouldn't you know years later we talked and she said I was the best for her son and she actually apologized....I accepted it and kept moving forward.
Dr phil u should have also made a strong point about the father taking equal responsibilities at home and take steps to show much he loves the mother of his child, the fact that he does things that provoke her shows he doesn't value this relationship n care for her enough
There's always reasons for a women to get angry, i agree she needs to control it but how about stopping the cause!!!
Run get a Divorce and take Mommies money while you do!
My mother in law was beautiful. I adored her. She loved on us girls because we loved her sons. She was a beautiful Nanna too. I miss her very much.
She was honest to a tea but so loving even when we needed a butt kick, she did it in love.
I hope i leave the same fondness to those who have come into our family. Its a priveledge to have relationship that is good and full❤
That’s problem for parents to have home for children and expect them to show respect. It’s also wrong for kid to depend on parents material.
Dump him, no respect for the marriage. You're supposed to honor your spouse. Go be with mommy.
Let your light 🕯️ shine praise God praying for everyone Everyday God bless you all....
I hope all the Goddesses bless you too Steve 🙏
If he said it would be difficult to choose to me, his choice would have already been made.
RUN FROM THIS LOSER!!!!!
The first wife needs to leave her husband is an idiot and immature and his mother knows what she’s doing I say girl Run !!!! leave him to his mother husband a spoiled little man
Pierre is not a real or mature man. He doesn't want to stand on his own 2 feet completely supporting himself & his wife, nor off his mother's teet. And how old is this episode? Because all of the stuff that his mom has bought (so called "luxuries") are very old and not good quality.
I would be downloading a translation app for sure
Put a notice on you door “NO” entrance to Mother- in Law
Unless my husband is at home??
Momma's money is more important than his wife obviously momma's little baby BOY
He’s a weak weasel. The mother is actually the crazy drunk.
That French mother needs to get her own life and leave her smug arrogance behind. Grow up Pierre, give your mother back her apron stings and make a life with the wife you chose.
How embarrassing. I can’t imagine having my husband and mother in law speak about me like this ever… but especially on National tv.
The second wife is terrible
Control freak - and Peter-Pan-Pierre needs to grow up!
I dont have energy to deal with this kind of drama. The wife needs to leave
The mother in law is overbearing. But move!!! Get your own house!!
She will not listen to Dr.Phil she will not show accountability for her awful behavior … All these adults will not put the child first none of them … Disgusting !
She needs counseling because of the damn mother-in-law
Guy is a Mama's boy in the worst way. Why is he living in his mother's home??
So fabulous! I hope you bought that little Dior bag. It is so cute. You are right. The kislux is handbag heaven.
Just leave him. Let him stay with this mother.
#1. Little boy grow up and be a husband. #2. First impression, she’s a bully because she has a job, he don’t.