8 Best Psychological Negotiation Tactics and Strategies - How to Haggle

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  • Опубликовано: 18 ноя 2024

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  • @andrewbeattieRAB
    @andrewbeattieRAB 6 лет назад +296

    WARNING; The salesman (cars) may ask very seemingly innocently right off the bat “how much do you want to spend?” Though it seems innocent enough, it is a trick. He now knows how much you’re willing to spend and can hold the line at that amount or more because you’ve already said you’re willing to pay that amount. Instead answer “as little as possible.” It seems obvious now that I have pointed this out. Not so obvious when you walk in and he asks you this off-the-cuff.

    • @shhhh4572
      @shhhh4572 5 лет назад +8

      It was mentioned in the video, just name an annoying price but not low enough to make it offencive

    • @spraypainting1982
      @spraypainting1982 4 года назад +10

      If your budget is $10k don't ask to test drive a $40k car lol

    • @lman22
      @lman22 3 года назад +5

      Never reveal your budget

    • @motorclubofamerica8999
      @motorclubofamerica8999 2 года назад

      Great point!

    • @suresh-dv7he
      @suresh-dv7he 2 года назад +2

      I would say "money is not the problem".
      I want value for money.
      Show me what you got.
      Give me your best deal.
      I will take note of that and come back after my survey to buy from you.
      That will put the sales person under pressure.

  • @VinayakGarg31
    @VinayakGarg31 8 лет назад +189

    Another tip I have found works well is to use the word "Help" towards the end of negotiation - Help me out here/ You would be really helping me here make my dream to own this car come true etc. People just love knowing that they have helped someone.

    • @PracticalPsychologyTips
      @PracticalPsychologyTips  8 лет назад +15

      +Vinayak Garg Hey! This is a great tip! Thanks for your thoughts, I'll upvote so others can see! :D

    • @vtn08
      @vtn08 8 лет назад +27

      It also can be counter tip. "Help" might be a sign you are desperate to buy that product especially in the case of a negotiation which gives the seller more indication it is worth more to you than other people would buy it for and would be unwilling to reduce the price for you.

    • @vincehennigan3036
      @vincehennigan3036 6 лет назад +1

      Wow...a used car salesperson would REALLY like to meet you. That's IDIOTIC.

    • @xenon6947
      @xenon6947 4 года назад +1

      I saw these in helps in zomato and swiggy

    • @JuancoPRoFlow
      @JuancoPRoFlow 3 года назад +4

      You can help yourself to deez nuttz, is what I would tell you.

  • @giantwilburson9462
    @giantwilburson9462 7 лет назад +679

    tried this on my drug dealer. didnt work and now its 25 for a gram

  • @alexknight1687
    @alexknight1687 6 лет назад +35

    Your get out of jail card should be "I got to go to another dealership to see if they will agree on my price" . Works most of the time unless your really trying to lowball them.

  • @LordTylere
    @LordTylere 8 лет назад +36

    I'm great at haggling. I use most of these tricks. I also point out stuff I don't like about the item even when I do like them and always offer to pay in cash! If you feel safe show the seller Cash and most of the time they are willing to take it.

  • @chadchad6531
    @chadchad6531 4 года назад +19

    - You need a value that makes the seller and you happy
    - Find a fair price and substract 10-30%
    - Build rapport
    - Nu. 1 thing to do is; ask their name and use it - !!!
    - Talk about anything just talk and make them like you-not to short to not break the ice but not to long to don't know why you're here
    - Find things you have a common interest in
    - Have some good time and form a friendship
    - Wait
    - Persistence is key
    - Don't even say the price in the first 5 minutes
    - Let him teach you
    (doesn't apply for every salesmen: prepare for the worst scenarios and learn as much as you can about the product to avoid scams)
    - Play dumb
    - Stand your ground
    - Get to know the person, why they sell it-their motive
    - If they need e.g. 50$ (alternate factor)-that's the lowest price
    - If they steamroll the product, they may hide something
    - Quick deals can lead to buyers remorse
    - Numbers
    - Never give your price floor (highest or lowest you're willing to pay)
    - Try to say a price for the first time that's almost annoying but not offensive
    - Try 80% off-may seem like a scam and they'll likely say no; but if you say a higher you will be wondering what was the lowest price
    - Low enough to say no but not offensive
    - Silence is important!
    - After you asked for a price, make sure not to say anything else until they talk
    - Don't be scared by silence in negotiating
    - They'll probably think for a couple of seconds-'ll be uncomfortable but resist the urge
    - Body language
    - Smile
    - Toes pointed towards them
    - Remove object between you
    - Shake hands after you said hello and after the deal is done
    - Get out of jail card
    - Have a permanent, immediate reason to leave
    - Like kids, wife, doc etc.
    - Some may will ask for the lowest price you are willing to pay
    - Say "As little as possible"

  • @ionowhatmynamesouldb
    @ionowhatmynamesouldb 5 лет назад +108

    "...not low enough that it's offensive." ... *proceeds to offer 80% off their price*
    what ... ?

    • @rexrudor
      @rexrudor 4 года назад +3

      exactly

    • @kittenmimi5326
      @kittenmimi5326 4 года назад +2

      Well for stores where you can and or supposed to haggle they tend to jack up the price so much to catch unsuspecting people who can't haggle for shit... so yeah. In that case, what he suggests is fine

    • @JOE-qh8rr
      @JOE-qh8rr 2 года назад +2

      My mom just asks for 90% discount 🤣

  • @lavayuki
    @lavayuki 7 лет назад +40

    As there's no haggling at all where I'm from, I really suck at haggling when I go to markets abroad. My mum is an expert at it though, she was slashing prices all over China Town, Italy and all our trips to Asia.

    • @rohankishibe8259
      @rohankishibe8259 2 года назад +1

      Ohh boy, I'd like to see you in middle eastern markets 🤣🤣

    • @lavayuki
      @lavayuki 2 года назад

      @@rohankishibe8259 I have others haggle for me, I never do that stuff myself

    • @melissakeerthana3465
      @melissakeerthana3465 2 года назад

      Mums are so good at bargain I'm watching this as I was impressed by her the other day

  • @andrewbeattieRAB
    @andrewbeattieRAB 6 лет назад +80

    1) For big items, go at the end of a quarter when the salesman is more interested in moving units rather than price.
    2) Allow a few days before the quarter’s so you can WALK away. The ability to walk is the most powerful position to be in. Go elsewhere to buy. Always act like you are about to walk.
    3) Before hand, RESEARCH. Consumer Reports, Google, ask competitors about why their product is better- one helluva eye opener!
    Gives Q’s to push back on the salesman.
    4) when you walk in announce that you are there to BUY that day. They will happily take seriously.
    5) NEVER NEVER NEVER fall for the question: “about how did you want to spend per month?? Say “as LITTLE as possible.” If you give an actual number, you are FUCKED. They will get it out of you. They do it for a living.
    6) Practice on saleman over and over before you buy. It gets fun.
    7) Enjoy

  • @FinanceMatters
    @FinanceMatters 3 года назад +13

    From my experience, I find that the moment you show the customer that you are really a serious shopper they are more likely to be under your influence when you haggle.

  • @meganb.2249
    @meganb.2249 6 лет назад +3

    2:07 That gives me an idea to try asking for peoples' names BEFORE I give them my own. I never thought about it this way and want to try it. Thank you, my 3rd favorite RUclips channel of all-time! :)

  • @nou-ci4tt
    @nou-ci4tt 6 лет назад +34

    My dad once got this cute purse for me when I was younger, the original price for it was $65 and he reduced it to $25 it did take a long time though, but it was only done to entertain/teach me, usually we don't have trouble paying

  • @apprenticestudy
    @apprenticestudy 4 года назад +8

    Nice video. Minor point - you say "bartering" a few times. You mean bargaining. Bartering is when you exchange one item for another, without using money.

  • @Joel-oe7ud
    @Joel-oe7ud 4 года назад +25

    Thanos : I have the infinity gauntlet which will make you the strongest being in the universe.
    Rick: The best I can do is two dollars

  • @stephentaylor6726
    @stephentaylor6726 8 лет назад

    Good advice. I'm looking at buying a used boat soon and this video is extremely helpful going into it. Thanks for making these.

  • @babbybailey
    @babbybailey Год назад +2

    This was really helpful, and precise. Learned alot from comments, too.

  • @iant720
    @iant720 8 лет назад +34

    My buddy: let go check out this truck! He wants 2k but idk. It's kinda rusty. I'm going to be like Richard Rawlings and offer $1,300... get there look at truck... yeah I'm going to haggle.... So.. price is 2k. My buddy: Okay! Deal! Lolol face palm

  • @7KINDUSTRY
    @7KINDUSTRY 7 лет назад +1

    In human relationship this is true. In the city: worked hard to get anything, change location and results. the amount of work you have to put in for what you get/ need

  • @lolman838
    @lolman838 4 года назад +1

    So in all...
    1) research the product, price and go lower then that
    2) use their name and give them ur name
    3) small talk to break ice
    4) act like u don’t know anything so they teach u about the product
    5) see why they r selling
    6) ur first offer is annoyingly low but not offensively low
    7) don’t break the silence
    8) smile, toes pointed to them, eye contact, shake hands before and after the deal

  • @MileyonDisney
    @MileyonDisney 8 лет назад +5

    Another great, very helpful video. I should get a lot of benefit out of this one for sure. You sure do crank these things out. I made a couple short videos with Videoscribe and it took me days.

  • @ierfan300
    @ierfan300 4 года назад +13

    Me: Hey what's your name?
    Seller: John
    Me: Hye John! Well my name is-
    Seller: Just get to the point....

    • @kpp28
      @kpp28 3 года назад +2

      Walk away

  • @Sassygamergal
    @Sassygamergal 7 лет назад +7

    bartering is when you trade an object for another object ex. a shirt for some shoes

  • @QueXLcior
    @QueXLcior 3 года назад +7

    This is a touchy subject to me because skilled negotiators tend to be the same ones that take advantage of people in an unethical, unfair way.

    • @theflyingnegro5063
      @theflyingnegro5063 2 года назад +2

      Well businesses or people usually aren't selling the product at the price its worth, they mark it up to a price that will get them a reasonable profit, without most customers complaining. You're already being taken advantage of in a way, but you see it as ethical because it's standard.

    • @austinhead6333
      @austinhead6333 Год назад

      It's a trade and both sides have the option to decline the offer.

  • @thedeadend5621
    @thedeadend5621 3 года назад +3

    Just got an item worth about £450 for £70, thanks!!!

  • @tanmaybhardwaj2094
    @tanmaybhardwaj2094 4 года назад

    This guy teaching me life

  • @notilluminati8204
    @notilluminati8204 Год назад

    Im a salesman and been for 4 years. Some costumers knows how to negotiate and some costumers are “the tip provider” in this comment section. Annoying, disrespectful and time wasting. Negotiation depends on situation and not that every thing you read here you can implement on every situation. Its all about outsmarting the seller

  • @Grant_Gold
    @Grant_Gold 5 лет назад +14

    I went to a county fair ( I love county fairs ) and saw a benchmade mini grip for 120 bucks. With these skills I got it to 60 and the best part is I cgecked it and its a real benchmade.
    Lol

    • @surajkarki207
      @surajkarki207 3 года назад

      it's a real luck to get it at half the price since at fairs they don't even care if you would not be liking to pay even 110 bucks. They have ample sales and won't even bother letting anyone bargain and expect you to pay as much as other are readily paying.

  • @ccdj35
    @ccdj35 5 лет назад +6

    When I was in the US, haggling was one of the challenging issues of mine. When I asked people could you make a discount they didn't understand me. Then I was continuing like Could you off the price please? Is this the last price etc... How can you ask someone to reduce the price I still don't know. Someone answer, please.

    • @klettersteig599
      @klettersteig599 4 года назад +3

      I think the phrases you’re looking for are something like “can you come down on the price” or “will you accept (x-amount of money) instead”

  • @gamingmax9455
    @gamingmax9455 3 года назад +1

    So informative. Iam amazed, keep up the good work!

  • @mbogomahad3125
    @mbogomahad3125 Год назад

    Great video

  • @edi9892
    @edi9892 8 лет назад +1

    Why not give a ceiling? I've seen one haggling like this and he did an awesome job.

  • @thelevelswithbronia-financ6304
    @thelevelswithbronia-financ6304 4 года назад

    Wow this is real gold. Awesome tips.

  • @burak9993
    @burak9993 3 года назад

    Helpful for the first class

  • @FiveDrexler
    @FiveDrexler 8 месяцев назад +1

    0:11 Haggling is getting a better price. Bartering is trading without cash, service for service, good for goods, etc. Maybe you meant Bargaining.

  • @skylineracer329
    @skylineracer329 6 лет назад +5

    Bartering is not haggling. And “costed” isn’t a word

    • @reptilesgamers00
      @reptilesgamers00 5 лет назад

      I never new that. huh

    • @TheAwkwardGuy
      @TheAwkwardGuy 4 года назад

      Uh costed is a word though?
      And yeah, bartering is for trading either goods or services FOR goods or services. Haggling is when you try to lower the price.

    • @alexparker2384
      @alexparker2384 4 года назад

      It costed me 3 brain cells to understand you

  • @thesp1r1twalk3r
    @thesp1r1twalk3r 2 года назад

    Wonderful thank you

  • @daysandwords
    @daysandwords 6 лет назад +2

    If you're going to use idiomatic expressions, look up what they mean and how to say them first.

    • @shannonsloan7246
      @shannonsloan7246 4 года назад

      You went out of your way to type this. Meaning it took a deliberate effort for you to be a rude person that day (a year ago) I hope you have gained some wisdom since then.

  • @rickylafleur9601
    @rickylafleur9601 3 года назад +3

    Just say “you’re breaking my balls man” every few sentences.

  • @Mamahustles
    @Mamahustles 2 года назад +2

    Sorry to point this out, but that’s not the definition of “bartering”, maybe you’re thinking of the word “bargaining”? bartering is specifically a cashless exchange where you only swap goods, not money.

  • @Teodoroviski
    @Teodoroviski 6 лет назад +6

    Translating the video: "how to manipulate people". The problem is : often times I know exactly how the person is trying to manipulate me and I think: "how can this person be so stupid to the point of thinking that I am stupid enough to buy into it?"

  • @kindledummy1104
    @kindledummy1104 6 лет назад +1

    Another GREAT book on business psychology is a piece titled The Hatchet Man's Playbook.

  • @mgabrielpetcu2731
    @mgabrielpetcu2731 3 года назад

    Loved it

  • @tensegamer1539
    @tensegamer1539 5 лет назад

    Awesome video man awesome

  • @jayc222
    @jayc222 5 лет назад +2

    I love that Seattle accent 😎

  • @Bigbaldcaucasianman
    @Bigbaldcaucasianman Год назад

    I have a question about this. I am saving up for a new drum kit, it’s quite pricy but would it be appropriate to negotiate a lower price before I have the money and lock that price in as I already have a conversation via email with a nice guy who works there. Thanks

  •  4 года назад +2

    "-That's a nice car...how's the kids?"
    "-Wait...didn't the police say you aren't supposed to be near schools?"

  • @TherealTHAWEEZL
    @TherealTHAWEEZL 8 лет назад +1

    bar·ter
    ˈbärdər/
    verb
    gerund or present participle: bartering
    exchange (goods or services) for other goods or services without using money.

  • @claranencu6969
    @claranencu6969 7 лет назад +1

    Great. Thank you

  • @kevinbacon5544
    @kevinbacon5544 7 лет назад +1

    this is amazing video

    • @veky3459
      @veky3459 4 года назад

      ayo, electro wizard

  • @DB_Cooper.
    @DB_Cooper. 8 лет назад +4

    Dude. Bartering/haggling = not the same. Exchange of goods for mutual benefit vs. doing ones best to get the best deal.

  • @Richchr2
    @Richchr2 3 года назад

    Thank you 🙏🏽

  • @lKingRichardl
    @lKingRichardl 7 лет назад +2

    I wish it were this easy for luxury watches

  • @chrisfarrell6461
    @chrisfarrell6461 5 лет назад

    Thanks! Good stuff!

  • @boyanlilov2531
    @boyanlilov2531 4 года назад

    Nice!

  • @duncanrobertson9324
    @duncanrobertson9324 8 лет назад

    What about anti haggling? Like when you go buy a car from the dealer and they're battering with you and you have to reverse batter? Do you use the same things or different tactics?

  • @stealer525
    @stealer525 4 года назад +3

    Barganing EXP: +10
    Level Up!
    You now are Level 5!

  • @АлександрХлус-р2й
    @АлександрХлус-р2й 3 года назад

    good video ochen' informativno!!!

  • @tanuverma7357
    @tanuverma7357 4 года назад

    Helpful

  • @curiosityscenes3098
    @curiosityscenes3098 3 года назад

    Try to going to built a conversation and create friends environment but never lose your ultimate motive behind the friendly conversation

  • @crispybacon1029
    @crispybacon1029 3 года назад

    Now how would this apply in an online manner.

  • @thriftcrate8487
    @thriftcrate8487 4 года назад

    I'm about to barter wish me luck with these tips

  • @danielmace406
    @danielmace406 6 лет назад

    So like pawn stars... Offer half of the asking price (regardless of the actual value) and stay firm.

  • @timgersh6787
    @timgersh6787 8 лет назад

    well heres the thing in down in South America its almost expected that you haggle but up in places like America and Canada then its a rare thing to do

  • @ThatGuy-yf7pj
    @ThatGuy-yf7pj 8 лет назад

    oh this is on buying not selling... well still got some useful tips.

  • @destinylife467
    @destinylife467 6 лет назад +2

    You forgot to mention that book name admin.
    Tell me the name of this book where I can get details of your valuable knowledge.
    I subscribed and liked your video. :)

  • @TheCriticalChris
    @TheCriticalChris Год назад

    Isn’t “bartering” where instead of paying for goods or services with money, you pay for those goods or services by trading other goods or services?

  • @de0509
    @de0509 8 лет назад +1

    Oh well. Guess Im really really not the kind of guy who does business. Id either vote no with my money, or buy at the exact offered price. Not that Im rich or anything. I just feel that things would regress to the optimum anyway so by not buying a thing you think is a tad overpriced, is the better way to drive it lower

  • @alexhernandez7752
    @alexhernandez7752 8 лет назад +2

    I'm glad I've found your videos they are super interesting and they really make me think ✊ keep going man this channel is going to be huge !! your videos are amazing😫👏👏👌👌 sincerely newbie subscriber cx love the chanel ^_^

  • @sanpoudel997
    @sanpoudel997 3 года назад

    Great ❤️

  • @deluxe6924
    @deluxe6924 3 года назад +1

    Its funny to me that some of my friends can just go in a store and buy shoes for like 40% less and get a free shirt or something and when i try to do the same they are just like i can do 5% less

  • @jonathanb3255
    @jonathanb3255 6 лет назад +1

    Was looking into buying a used Infiniti G37, and then it said "V6 330 HP" in the video.... how did they know?!?!

  • @Pika-ps3rf
    @Pika-ps3rf 4 года назад

    Silence is louder than words sometime

  • @b0z0
    @b0z0 4 года назад

    Who else is here before buying something on Craigslist

  • @fmjjjjn7510
    @fmjjjjn7510 3 года назад +1

    The building rapport part put me in a very uncomfortable position. It feels like I’m getting into their business and I don’t want to

    • @labellabeach631
      @labellabeach631 Год назад

      That’s when you just talk about the weather, but it is still important to break the ice and build a business relationship, even if you’re never going to see them again.

  • @jm-nv5bl
    @jm-nv5bl 3 года назад

    Car boot sales are the best places to learn

  • @walnuthillfarms7579
    @walnuthillfarms7579 6 лет назад +4

    Don’t say how much you have

  • @noonecaresm8641
    @noonecaresm8641 6 лет назад +2

    **Bargaining Skill increased**

  • @tba3679
    @tba3679 Год назад

    Cool, hopefully in the last 7 years someone learnt to reduce the background music sound

  • @chrish7583
    @chrish7583 4 года назад

    How would I go about doing this over Facebook? I am interred in an item that someone is selling, but I don’t know what I would say to them when messaging them about it.

    • @labellabeach631
      @labellabeach631 Год назад

      I’m in the middle of doing that right now super easy just don’t come off desperate but if you really want it, shoot them a time that you would like to go see it then if they’re super eager, you’ll have room to haggle if they act like they could care less than its some thing they really probably want to just stand firm on since they don’t have a rush to selling it. Be careful there’s so many scammers out on there. Make sure they have a high percentage selling rating .

  • @benjacobs2560
    @benjacobs2560 5 лет назад

    It‘s easy to haggle for stuff that isn’t important like clothes or fruit in a farmers market. Who cares about a shirt or bag of apples? Even haggling over a car is pretty easy because they‘re so abundant. What‘s difficult is when you really need something and your desperate. That’s when it’s difficult to wait or make a really low offer that might offend somebody. Haggling over clothes is a joke, you can just walk away without any repercussions. That’s more about wether or not your willing to look like a cheap skate. Haggling with your boss over pay or haggling with an employee or contractor you really need is straight up hard.

  • @jamiehurricane
    @jamiehurricane 7 лет назад

    That's not what bartering is. It means swapping things without money.
    Dictionary says: "exchange (goods or services) for other goods or services without using money."

  • @ellllllo77
    @ellllllo77 5 лет назад +1

    asked his name, ended up in a 20 minute debate on why we never should have went boots on the ground in Iraq

  • @curiosityscenes3098
    @curiosityscenes3098 3 года назад +1

    Give them respect and they will give a better price in return

  • @xBloodXGusherx
    @xBloodXGusherx 5 лет назад +1

    Lol I thought Rick was gonna be teaching this.

  • @joeyalfaro2323
    @joeyalfaro2323 3 года назад

    Don't but pick flows just discount price in your head. Example you see scratch ding what ever adjust offer accordingly. Every flipper knows exactly what issues item has. I do full disclosure could careless if you buy

  • @imagesbyraphael
    @imagesbyraphael 4 года назад +1

    I thought bartering was simply trading goods/services for goods/services instead of cash, not trying to get a better price...?

  • @BelgianGurista
    @BelgianGurista 5 месяцев назад

    Did you catch the game last night?
    Is it still hot out there?
    Do you like hot fudge sundays?
    Alright.

  • @Red-cr8sj
    @Red-cr8sj 4 года назад

    yes now I will trade somthing for my friends LEGO general Grievous

  • @surajkarki207
    @surajkarki207 3 года назад

    What if I go about buying a less common item? Say a sofa set. Should I act like I don't know a thing about it? What would be their response if I depict myself to not know what kind of sofa there are nor their corresponding prices? I think I might have hard time negotiating.

  • @TrueSpeak-TS
    @TrueSpeak-TS 2 года назад

    1:35 yea I don't think just using their name will "win them over" as mentioned in Dale Carnegie's book ehh??? Perhaps not🤔🤔

  • @timgersh6787
    @timgersh6787 8 лет назад

    well what i do with this is if the deal is bad i just say i need a smoke but oh i forgot them at home and im out then the next day i go again

  • @adfinemrising
    @adfinemrising 3 года назад

    i know a person that uses my in a conversation EVERY CHANCE THEY GET.. and the thing is i've heard and read about this using a person's name tactic. and not gonna lie, i wanna smack the head off that whoever that person who is over using my name. because i know for a fact that they are out for MANIPULATION and THAT does not sit well with me.
    my point is.. be natural AND DON'T BE FAKE. and even asking for "how are you" when i very well know for a fact that they are just there just because they need something. if i see that kind of person in my business, i'll tell them to go to hell and go fake someone else!

  • @Bigd843
    @Bigd843 Год назад

    I tried this at Taco Bell I was told to leave, so I went up on the price and the cops showed up to help me haggle.

  • @david1731048
    @david1731048 3 года назад

    "Shake hands"
    That hasn't aged well.

  • @SinAndreww
    @SinAndreww 7 лет назад +2

    SPEECH 100

  • @spikyparkour
    @spikyparkour 6 лет назад

    Im just going to a pawn shop trying to buy some stuff i want to buy a xbox 360 because i want to play a game that there is only on 360 and a controller and a game for 40$ if i cant make them lower it will be 80$ ill trll how it went when im done

  • @mrdiamondm4931
    @mrdiamondm4931 3 года назад

    Person: 10 000
    Rick: I'll give 1 000

  • @towhidsowrov8872
    @towhidsowrov8872 5 лет назад

    voice is just owesum

  • @arianalbert5687
    @arianalbert5687 7 лет назад

    this negotiation is for kids right

  • @Paul-iq8bu
    @Paul-iq8bu 8 лет назад +2

    I'm naturally great at it.