@@malinadsouza4854 I don't think making more money will solve the problem. Because there is no definition of more money. How much is more? This planet has sufficient resources for everyone needs and but not for anybody's greed.
@@HarshvardhanPariharI got you. Saving he is good making money is good. But you should know where to stop. Having time to what you like and to earn for less with it and be satisfied is privilege. This can only happen if your previous generation has saved some money. So that they take care of their basic needs or health care. So that you can leave a life like the way you want. To work in job which you don't like just to survive is sick. Money gives the power to choose. I'm a mother I can't quit my job and stay with my child because we are not stable I have my parents and in laws to be taken care. If I quit now. My son will face more burden
If you are in the middle class bracket, it is tough. Children are lovely but expensive to raise. Plus surely you want them to have better life than you. In today’s age, parenthood doesn’t stop when they are 18/21. Most parents these days set their up for life ( buying them a house etc) in addition to school/college education. Plus vacations and experiences..
First important point they missed, every child must aware and feel satisfied for what they got.. it should be imbibed in their mind to feel satisfied for what they got and know value for each thing they use..it's very important
For any birthdays or celebrations, instead of accepting gifts, we put a donation box for a charity and strictly tell people to not buy gifts and instead contribute to a cause/charity we choose. It has taken a 3-5 years for people to finally accept and not buy gifts. Initially some people forcefully gifted. Now about 80% of attendees accept our wish and choose to donate. Gifting has its place but is also leading to a wasteful spending and poor quality toys being circulated. When going to other people's events, I buy them a charity voucher that they use to give to charity or split into charities of their choice. People have also started accepting that now. Look for charity giving options in your country.
What a riveting relatable discussion. As a mom of a 2 year old , only a few minutes into the discussion and I can relate to so much and am learning so much
Two of the most iconic personality in one frame, addressing topic which is much needed but less discussed. Very helpful. Thankful to the platform. Keep it up! 👍
Nice to see that such topics are being discussed. It's very necessary for the current times. With the voice of celebrities putting to a right cause by doing such podcasts, people and slowly authorities should think about it and bring the right change soon enough to embrace the rapidly evolving world. Nice to see ur work Madhavan Sir. Good work, Good human being.
I always shop for things like daily wear shoes or chappals and utensils, sabji etc from local market at our Village which is close to Mumbai. The prices there for same things are cheap and all local sellers get the money
"She is the daughter of an IFS officer, and if she isn’t happy with a childhood spent living in different countries, enjoying unique experiences, then it's hard to imagine who could have had a better one! The key is to do the right things at the right time."
00:04 Radhika Gupta reflects on childhood challenges and modern parenting pressures. 02:06 Pressure of parenting decisions and financial stability before having children. 06:06 Planning for a child's future involves financial and educational considerations from birth. 08:14 Parenting involves significant financial planning and responsibility from conception. 12:04 Challenges of modern parenting and the financial burden of raising children. 13:49 Parenting requires balancing costs and ensuring comprehensive child development. 17:37 Effective parenting requires planning for a child's emotional and material needs. 19:28 Cultivating gratitude and balance in children's upbringing is essential. 23:05 Planning for children with special needs requires early financial strategies. 24:53 Planning for childcare costs is crucial for families transitioning to single incomes. 28:29 Engage children in activities for a balanced upbringing. 30:04 Ranked top investments for children's future planning. 33:46 Parents should prioritize smart investments for children's education. 35:27 Investing in children requires both financial planning and time commitment. Crafted by Merlin AI.
One suggestion i have is to please make the video's into a youtube chapters for all the podcasts, it will also allow viewers to actually engage more with the right chapter of podcast that feels more relevance.
Life itni bhi serious nhi hai jitni hum lete hain…koi bacha mar nhi jayega bina fancy birthday party ke…sarkari school hai aur aspatal bhi…mai khud sarkari se padhi hu…aur teacher hu…har ek ka bhagwan kuchh na kuchh kar hi deta hai
Good initiative and talk but please make it more lively. You are very true about the cost but not everything has to be seen as a transactional value. We definitely need to be mindful but can't do calculation for every step in the life.
It’s not about our fertility being lower than Europeans. If anything, our fertility is still higher. Indian society is a lot more family centric. So if an Indian couple cannot conceive, they are under pressure to go for IVF. Western culture is a lot open to childfree people than Indian.
They do not work 9 to 9 like Indians do. The work hours and eating outside takes toll on Indian girls. And they get too tired and stressed to conceive.
Has the Caesarian rate increased because of the woman having complications during the birth or is it business by hospitals where the doc says there is lower chances of normal delivery ?? I think this should come out
Birthday celebrations and return gift system sucks...there is a lot of peer pressure among children when most of them do parties running into 20-30k. There is humungous pressure to do the same and invite others . And kids wanting to wear branded stuff😮
Plenty of m ivf issues can be resolved , by making diet and lifestyle changes.. but you won’t find any doctors recommending this , coz it’s a money making business model. carb heavy foods, lack of exercise , exposure to toxins, deficiencies in Vitamin D, B12, omega 3 and Stress are the primary contributory factors in fertility problems.. I heard someplace that education fees are the fastest rising in India atm….
3 different world (Rich, middle class and Poor) 3 different experience of life ........ people with 2 drivers talk about how things are expensive and can the same driver afford to have the same conversation?
My mai had an idf procedure for her pregnancy as her husband's side threatened her if she did not bear him a child he will marry another woman . For all you know he must have had problems as he was a drunkard.
Her statements are contradicting. One she says every parent strives to give their kids more than they received and then talk about high prices of crocs and denial of few things to her kid. And,Madhavan's looks into camera in middle of conversations are distracting and putting off the experience of podcast!
Whole episode is became expensive expensive…I can afford but normal people can’t afford … If you want to discuss how to plan exactly …what plans to put money in…at least tell how much percentage we can put in each scheme …SIP..tell how u guys planned..then do a podcast …otherwise please don’t do …what’s the outcome of this episode …I can say is PLAN BETTER…that we all also know nothing new…
Watched it with a lot of expectations, two very talented people in their field! But alas, it’s boring and feels like two privileged people ranting about their problems… having to hire a second driver, catered birthday parties… are we still talking about middle class here?
They're sharing their own experiences. Mostly upper middle class and upper class families will be able to relate to this. What's noteworthy here is how the general middle class wants the upper class life, get their kids into schools attended by kids of upper class families, and struggle to give their kids the same lifestyle. It resonated with me personally since I attended such a school, and I struggled emotionally since I felt I didn't belong- the host and guest did talk about the feeling of alienation.
@ agreed! But I felt the intention was to give tips/ ideas about financial planning. Didn’t see much of it too… and high class/ upper class people don’t need TV shows! They have people managing that for them!
Then they shouldn’t try to sell the program with that! Click baiting! Honestly most people will only watch it for getting some useful info from it. I don’t think anybody is interested in their personal life. Iam not against their riches or success! Good for them, but when you mention financial planning in your thumbnail.. and you have reputed CEO of a mutual funds firm on program, I don’t want to hear about her trouble organising a birthday party. No one is asking to spell out trade secrets. The problems they listed we all know… I will appreciate if they actually pointed in the direction of solutions.
@@Rue747 then they shouldn’t mention it in thumbnail! No one is asking to spell out trade secrets, the least they can do is give possible solutions. Problems we are all very much aware! No need to give info about that!
Too generic . I thought the conversation would be in depth about how do you create a corpus etc . But unfortunately it was more like 2 parents complaining about expenses
If these 2 rich person feels that every thing expensive, then think about common man, what they are going through.
Not about expensive they think it is not worth it.😊 And also we need to make more money
@@malinadsouza4854 I don't think making more money will solve the problem. Because there is no definition of more money. How much is more? This planet has sufficient resources for everyone needs and but not for anybody's greed.
@@HarshvardhanPariharI got you. Saving he is good making money is good. But you should know where to stop. Having time to what you like and to earn for less with it and be satisfied is privilege. This can only happen if your previous generation has saved some money. So that they take care of their basic needs or health care. So that you can leave a life like the way you want. To work in job which you don't like just to survive is sick. Money gives the power to choose. I'm a mother I can't quit my job and stay with my child because we are not stable I have my parents and in laws to be taken care. If I quit now. My son will face more burden
@@shaminipushparaj5382 I totally agree with you.
If you are in the middle class bracket, it is tough. Children are lovely but expensive to raise. Plus surely you want them to have better life than you. In today’s age, parenthood doesn’t stop when they are 18/21. Most parents these days set their up for life ( buying them a house etc) in addition to school/college education. Plus vacations and experiences..
First important point they missed, every child must aware and feel satisfied for what they got.. it should be imbibed in their mind to feel satisfied for what they got and know value for each thing they use..it's very important
Loved the way Madhavan and Radhika discussed. true wisdom of nuggets on parenting and child upbringing.
Maddy! You are so humble and grounded, I’m very sure you are a wonderful father too. The guest is super precise. That’s a great interview!
For any birthdays or celebrations, instead of accepting gifts, we put a donation box for a charity and strictly tell people to not buy gifts and instead contribute to a cause/charity we choose. It has taken a 3-5 years for people to finally accept and not buy gifts. Initially some people forcefully gifted. Now about 80% of attendees accept our wish and choose to donate. Gifting has its place but is also leading to a wasteful spending and poor quality toys being circulated.
When going to other people's events, I buy them a charity voucher that they use to give to charity or split into charities of their choice. People have also started accepting that now. Look for charity giving options in your country.
What a riveting relatable discussion. As a mom of a 2 year old , only a few minutes into the discussion and I can relate to so much and am learning so much
Two of the most iconic personality in one frame, addressing topic which is much needed but less discussed. Very helpful. Thankful to the platform. Keep it up! 👍
Nice to see that such topics are being discussed. It's very necessary for the current times. With the voice of celebrities putting to a right cause by doing such podcasts, people and slowly authorities should think about it and bring the right change soon enough to embrace the rapidly evolving world. Nice to see ur work Madhavan Sir. Good work, Good human being.
They are not common majority.Dont listen to their rubbish.
I always shop for things like daily wear shoes or chappals and utensils, sabji etc from local market at our Village which is close to Mumbai. The prices there for same things are cheap and all local sellers get the money
I’m so happy that this podcast also spoke about kids on spectrum
This discussion is credibly helpful. Thank you
Madhwan makes a good interviewer
"She is the daughter of an IFS officer, and if she isn’t happy with a childhood spent living in different countries, enjoying unique experiences, then it's hard to imagine who could have had a better one! The key is to do the right things at the right time."
Omg....people love to find fault
Its always so amazing to listen to maddy !
00:04 Radhika Gupta reflects on childhood challenges and modern parenting pressures.
02:06 Pressure of parenting decisions and financial stability before having children.
06:06 Planning for a child's future involves financial and educational considerations from birth.
08:14 Parenting involves significant financial planning and responsibility from conception.
12:04 Challenges of modern parenting and the financial burden of raising children.
13:49 Parenting requires balancing costs and ensuring comprehensive child development.
17:37 Effective parenting requires planning for a child's emotional and material needs.
19:28 Cultivating gratitude and balance in children's upbringing is essential.
23:05 Planning for children with special needs requires early financial strategies.
24:53 Planning for childcare costs is crucial for families transitioning to single incomes.
28:29 Engage children in activities for a balanced upbringing.
30:04 Ranked top investments for children's future planning.
33:46 Parents should prioritize smart investments for children's education.
35:27 Investing in children requires both financial planning and time commitment.
Crafted by Merlin AI.
After listening to this conversation my already limited desire to have children seems to fade away😂
😂
Don’t plan have them .. is what they are saying 😂.. they have planned yet they are cribing
Madhavan talking into the camera looks very off in the middle of the conversation
Yeah, felt the same
yup just came to write the same
i love the production quality. Man tis soo good
Wow. She is inspiring 🤩🤩🤩🤩And Madhavan always no. 1
Age 0-5. Why isn’t anyone talking about diaper expenses? I have a card running an emi only for baby diapers! 😂
True
Bhaiya kids should not be kept in diaper for such long . After 2 there should be no or one diaper a day situation
Use cloth diaper
Such a grounded discussion.
Excellent episode
No takeaways but for new parents or planning to have at least they shown what it all takes
One suggestion i have is to please make the video's into a youtube chapters for all the podcasts, it will also allow viewers to actually engage more with the right chapter of podcast that feels more relevance.
Life itni bhi serious nhi hai jitni hum lete hain…koi bacha mar nhi jayega bina fancy birthday party ke…sarkari school hai aur aspatal bhi…mai khud sarkari se padhi hu…aur teacher hu…har ek ka bhagwan kuchh na kuchh kar hi deta hai
Wow such a lovely discussion..
Education fees are main concern then external expenses parenting is really becoming a matter of concern for future generations
Good discussion. Informative. Would love to hear more about this. This video needs a lot of circulation
Appreciate you bothering to put out of this content. This is what people need to know about things that truly matter!
Too good R Madhavan
Good initiative and talk but please make it more lively. You are very true about the cost but not everything has to be seen as a transactional value. We definitely need to be mindful but can't do calculation for every step in the life.
Strange but True that IVF is high in India and low in places like London and Europe. What are we eating that they don't
Nothing different...we are forced to believe that we can't conceive naturally...
It’s not about our fertility being lower than Europeans. If anything, our fertility is still higher. Indian society is a lot more family centric. So if an Indian couple cannot conceive, they are under pressure to go for IVF. Western culture is a lot open to childfree people than Indian.
Indians are more obsessed in having a child..period.
Lifestyle and diet we have when we are teens is taking troll
They do not work 9 to 9 like Indians do. The work hours and eating outside takes toll on Indian girls. And they get too tired and stressed to conceive.
The struggles were good and children were normal.
Birthday parties are parents overindulgence.Does a1,2 or 3 year old child demands??
Brilliant video.
It very very useful! Sharing with all my friends
Very good conversation.
Good takeaways ❤
God nless uou.
CEO Rejecting crocs because it costs 2-3k is just alarming 😮 i should be buying lidcap chappal for my salary
Amazing episode! 🔥
Has the Caesarian rate increased because of the woman having complications during the birth or is it business by hospitals where the doc says there is lower chances of normal delivery ?? I think this should come out
Birthday celebrations and return gift system sucks...there is a lot of peer pressure among children when most of them do parties running into 20-30k. There is humungous pressure to do the same and invite others . And kids wanting to wear branded stuff😮
Slowly trend is creeping up and numbers don’t lie as much as we achieve PPP birth rate declines.Hope India does get over with these worrying signs.
Episode for south Bombay people
A few idiots.
Medicine cost for IVF is very high..
Plenty of m ivf issues can be resolved , by making diet and lifestyle changes..
but you won’t find any doctors recommending this , coz it’s a money making business model.
carb heavy foods, lack of exercise , exposure to toxins, deficiencies in Vitamin D, B12, omega 3 and Stress are the primary contributory factors in fertility problems..
I heard someplace that education fees are the fastest rising in India atm….
Damn! I have 2 😮
3 different world (Rich, middle class and Poor)
3 different experience of life
........ people with 2 drivers talk about how things are expensive and can the same driver afford to have the same conversation?
Ofcourse pure wise talk but reality is poor has more children and rich has less children....😊😂😂
5 min of worthy stuff scattered among 30 mins of bragging
You guys didn't mention the diaper expenses 😂
My mai had an idf procedure for her pregnancy as her husband's side threatened her if she did not bear him a child he will marry another woman . For all you know he must have had problems as he was a drunkard.
🙏
Maddy is not mad
Education is very expensive
These people who have balance sheet will become nepotistic and when talented kids from ordinary background rise what will be their mind set
Her statements are contradicting. One she says every parent strives to give their kids more than they received and then talk about high prices of crocs and denial of few things to her kid. And,Madhavan's looks into camera in middle of conversations are distracting and putting off the experience of podcast!
BORING! No takeaways. If they find childcare expensive then imagine what it must be for their drivers and other help.
Whole episode is became expensive expensive…I can afford but normal people can’t afford …
If you want to discuss how to plan exactly …what plans to put money in…at least tell how much percentage we can put in each scheme …SIP..tell how u guys planned..then do a podcast …otherwise please don’t do …what’s the outcome of this episode …I can say is PLAN BETTER…that we all also know nothing new…
I am so happy I am not raising my kids in India!
Sorry,you ard in a worse situation.
Nothing new in this conversation
😊What rubbish.You are talking 20 years back.No one talks about girl child's marriag.Its 50 50.
Boring
Watched it with a lot of expectations, two very talented people in their field! But alas, it’s boring and feels like two privileged people ranting about their problems… having to hire a second driver, catered birthday parties… are we still talking about middle class here?
They're sharing their own experiences. Mostly upper middle class and upper class families will be able to relate to this. What's noteworthy here is how the general middle class wants the upper class life, get their kids into schools attended by kids of upper class families, and struggle to give their kids the same lifestyle. It resonated with me personally since I attended such a school, and I struggled emotionally since I felt I didn't belong- the host and guest did talk about the feeling of alienation.
@ agreed! But I felt the intention was to give tips/ ideas about financial planning. Didn’t see much of it too… and high class/ upper class people don’t need TV shows! They have people managing that for them!
@@aparnatangirala687 Financial planning was just one aspect of the video I think. Nobody will give you free info on that right? Lol
Then they shouldn’t try to sell the program with that! Click baiting! Honestly most people will only watch it for getting some useful info from it. I don’t think anybody is interested in their personal life.
Iam not against their riches or success! Good for them, but when you mention financial planning in your thumbnail.. and you have reputed CEO of a mutual funds firm on program, I don’t want to hear about her trouble organising a birthday party. No one is asking to spell out trade secrets. The problems they listed we all know… I will appreciate if they actually pointed in the direction of solutions.
@@Rue747 then they shouldn’t mention it in thumbnail! No one is asking to spell out trade secrets, the least they can do is give possible solutions. Problems we are all very much aware! No need to give info about that!
Too generic . I thought the conversation would be in depth about how do you create a corpus etc . But unfortunately it was more like 2 parents complaining about expenses
Yes from a better podcaster....
Good discussion. Informative. Would love to hear more about this. This video needs a lot of circulation