Self Transition Ft. Dr. Iyanla Vanzant

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  • Опубликовано: 6 июн 2024
  • On this session of Counsel Culture, Nick welcomes back the world-renowned Rev. Dr. Iyanla Vanzant. The two waste no time taking on a typically taboo topic in the Black community, suicide. With much compassion and sensitivity, the Rev. Dr. points to key contributing factors of suicide and focuses primarily on its effect on black men.
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  • @Luceeeeeeeeeeeeee
    @Luceeeeeeeeeeeeee 26 дней назад +62

    We need Iyanla to have her own show again. The end.

  • @alyshafox4738
    @alyshafox4738 27 дней назад +52

    I love the way that Nick is very receptive to new information when he knows a person true intention ❤ this is a mark of high intelligence

    • @MonicaLovelyGant
      @MonicaLovelyGant 27 дней назад +1

      Amen 🙏🏾 ❤

    • @MonicaLovelyGant
      @MonicaLovelyGant 27 дней назад +1

      JESUS ISN'T ON A CROSS! HE ROSE AND HAS THE KEYS TO HEAVEN AND HELL! YESHUA IS ALIVE AND ACTIVE... 🙏🏾

    • @Halonablack
      @Halonablack 25 дней назад +1

      Indeed.

  • @aaronbrutus2654
    @aaronbrutus2654 27 дней назад +29

    "Do you want to die or do you want to stop hurting?" Damn...

    • @jessicacoleman182
      @jessicacoleman182 26 дней назад +4

      I encountered a pysch professional at a pysch hospital and she would start out the suicide conversation with that statement. People don't wanna die they just wanna stop hurting. And it opened my eyes so much

  • @ItsNini007
    @ItsNini007 26 дней назад +14

    PLEASE HAVE the beautiful, talented, innovative Dr. Iyanla Vanzant back...FREQUENTLY.
    Sincerely,
    A truly inspired psychology student.

  • @germainesanders768
    @germainesanders768 25 дней назад +19

    Greetings. My son was vegan, a personal trainer, mentor, and a massage therapist. No children and have never been in trouble with the law. He took his life in August of 2023. He was only 27 and was born on Mother's Day. There's not a day that passes when I don't think of him or cry.

    • @danieldhardman5388
      @danieldhardman5388 24 дня назад +5

      I'm so sorry for the loss of your son. I honestly don't know if I could function if I lost one of my children. I hope you find someone who can help you cope w the pain and grief you're dealing with. ❤

    • @iammeallday
      @iammeallday 9 дней назад

      This brought tears to my eyes...deepest sympathy and love to you.... he seemed to love and appreciate health I hope that inspires you to invest in the health of healing

  • @paulamiddlebrooks7875
    @paulamiddlebrooks7875 26 дней назад +12

    Nick is soooo comfortable,,authentic and free when he's in Rev Iyanla"s presence...beautiful.

  • @nikkisjeans
    @nikkisjeans 27 дней назад +19

    "I don't know which emotion to take seriously" 🤯🤯

  • @erikajones6405
    @erikajones6405 27 дней назад +17

    I know that this conversation was for men, but I NEEDED to hear this today! Keep’’em coming!!!❤❤❤

  • @alyshafox4738
    @alyshafox4738 27 дней назад +21

    Iyanlas wisdom is so divine!

  • @XcellTheArtist-1of1
    @XcellTheArtist-1of1 27 дней назад +14

    Iyanla is a blessing to the Culture

  • @Buzzedup.
    @Buzzedup. 11 дней назад +2

    Man this was like a live counseling session they way she got him saying "I" and owning it

  • @jamilahthealchemist
    @jamilahthealchemist 27 дней назад +10

    this is such a good convo! no one talks about how men, especially black men don't feel like they have an outlet to talk about the things that they go through!

  • @sparr5132
    @sparr5132 16 дней назад

    I love that Nick did more listening and not talking. The information she gave deserved to be heard!

  • @lovexceptional
    @lovexceptional 27 дней назад +5

    Wishing Nick the best in his endeavor to find self again and rise out of depression 💗

  • @fearlesslycurly
    @fearlesslycurly 20 дней назад +1

    I am a mother of boys and these conversations are so important! After watching this I'm goning to respond to my sons differently when they cry now...

  • @stephanurkel7567
    @stephanurkel7567 26 дней назад +4

    9:30 - "You have to be inauthentic" hit home. The code switch is so real. And I've seen people code switch long enough that it becomes them. I stay rooted in my culture and just pray that's enough for it never to become me. This show, these talks, are essential

    • @danieldhardman5388
      @danieldhardman5388 24 дня назад +1

      Man, did it ever. Inauthenticity leads to self-contempt (self-loathing) which leads to confusion which leads to distrust of our own selves. And all we ever hear from women is that we're all liars who only want one thing.

  • @dakotac180
    @dakotac180 26 дней назад +2

    I truly love Iyanla, she's the only sane elder we have of doing proper healing and creating understanding. So many gems dropped and balance shown here.

  • @JasJoiner
    @JasJoiner 26 дней назад +3

    I'm So proud of Nick for him making this platform I wish my husband was watching fr I love my black King n they deserve to have a safe space good on you.❤❤❤❤

  • @eugeniaroberts2268
    @eugeniaroberts2268 27 дней назад +5

    20:51 The doctor's name is Jill Bolte Taylor and her book is My Stroke of Insight:A Brain Scientist's Personal Journey.

  • @elizabetheaton5060
    @elizabetheaton5060 25 дней назад +2

    She made Yeshua a mere thought and not a person who took our guilt and shame in exchange for His healing and peace. It is NOT found within us, in us without Christ is dark and confused.

  • @tiffanyRN504
    @tiffanyRN504 25 дней назад +2

    There's men out here doing great work for other men. That timeline is truly based on what is put in that search bar. Dr. Jay Barnett is pouring into the young men. It's so beautiful. You should look him up! Keep doing your work, Nick *hugs*

  • @shambramulder4082
    @shambramulder4082 24 дня назад +2

    As a mental health provider, I will say it's all spiritual at the end of the day. This world is full of trauma experiences and evil that you have to have a spiritual compass to survive/thrive. A mental health provider simply helps you process and talk (challenge your cognitive distortions) about it with an objective, empathetic, and skilled person who provides a confidential safe space.

  • @ruthmolaquewaweru8715
    @ruthmolaquewaweru8715 25 дней назад +4

    😢😢😢😢 This episode makes me want to go hug man 😢😢😢

  • @Halonablack
    @Halonablack 25 дней назад +3

    I love these spaces for men.

  • @sdubb78
    @sdubb78 27 дней назад +4

    This was amazing, men need to hear this.

  • @tamiasmith5883
    @tamiasmith5883 27 дней назад +5

    Hey 👋 Nick cannon I love you ❤️

  • @the.g00d.knight
    @the.g00d.knight 27 дней назад +3

    I loved this. Nick is amazing. I love that he said yes to this assignment. I love mama Iyanla too!

  • @user-wv3th8rz1r
    @user-wv3th8rz1r 26 дней назад +2

    Come on with that stand in that you got power. I FOREVER WILL LOVE IYANLA❤

  • @shannonpatrice8358
    @shannonpatrice8358 10 дней назад

    Knowing there's a higher frequency doesn't mean you're operating in it... speaking from me and to me...

  • @Moreelifee9
    @Moreelifee9 9 дней назад

    Amazing , amazing video bring her back please!

  • @cljerjr31
    @cljerjr31 21 день назад

    this one was in the top 5% of the show. she dropped straight fire. how many things do you have to balance in your life - career, marriage, bills etc. take time for you and be grateful to be alive! If you need help, seek it especially if you are a veteran.

  • @hechoseme2023
    @hechoseme2023 22 дня назад

    This is such a great platform! Nick this is when they say you are being your own case study. Thank you for your transparency!

  • @Asia-fp1uf
    @Asia-fp1uf 27 дней назад +3

    She's beautiful

  • @SupaBlessedAries
    @SupaBlessedAries 23 дня назад

    Wowwww Nick he gets by disassociating when he talks about pain or truama he keeps saying we or they but Iyanla is catching him Everytime and making sure he claims it I pray that he will start claiming his feelings after this so he can really heal and get even more understanding ❤

  • @akane-lb9vl
    @akane-lb9vl 27 дней назад +2

    This hit home for me!!! Nick keep it coming my guy

  • @shannonpatrice8358
    @shannonpatrice8358 10 дней назад

    Mam... the God of your understanding hit my confused spirit too hard ❤❤❤❤😭

  • @LoveDr256
    @LoveDr256 27 дней назад +2

    Peace family ... #Needed Iyanla is always refreshing through trial and tribulation with the truth and practical application to understand... - Thanks for the book recommendation too...

  • @iammeallday
    @iammeallday 24 дня назад

    Yes!!!!!!!! More of this conversation ❤❤❤❤❤ thank you Nick!!

  • @kaydagoddessmusicllc3772
    @kaydagoddessmusicllc3772 26 дней назад +1

    Nick your always working ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

  • @danieldhardman5388
    @danieldhardman5388 25 дней назад

    When looking for a therapist, always consult with/interview more than two bc you are literally hiring an employee. Who hires the first person they meet?

  • @misslovemusic6625
    @misslovemusic6625 27 дней назад +3

    Blessings

  • @UnseenHeroesPodcast
    @UnseenHeroesPodcast 26 дней назад +1

    Love you both! ❤

  • @KingSimonPresents
    @KingSimonPresents 26 дней назад +1

    Great healing information

  • @chefstaceydougan6802
    @chefstaceydougan6802 21 день назад

    This was such a beautiful and necessary conversation. ❤

  • @Bdphonorat
    @Bdphonorat 27 дней назад +3

    Iyanla 🙌

  • @JasonABenefield
    @JasonABenefield 24 дня назад

    This is great and I do this kind of work all the time with people. I especially do this work with men. I’m here and ready to work.

  • @danieldhardman5388
    @danieldhardman5388 25 дней назад

    It's amazing how quickly she zeroed in on the reality of (AA) male suicide, "men are demeaned, diminished, devalued..." As she says, everybody knows how many children Nick has but almost no one knows that three times as many (AA) men die from suicide every year than (AA) women, that Black men are suffering. It truly is depravity.

  • @tamaramonk1847
    @tamaramonk1847 23 дня назад +1

    It’s so sad. I pray Nick comes to see through Jesus we have a Heavenly Father who loves us and is our safe place.

  • @tamiasmith5883
    @tamiasmith5883 27 дней назад +2

    I love y’all 😊

  • @SecretsofTarot777
    @SecretsofTarot777 23 дня назад

    Great episode!!!

  • @show691time
    @show691time 26 дней назад +2

    💪🏾💯🔥💥

  • @terryann885
    @terryann885 24 дня назад

    Jesus is the answer 🙌

  • @preciselogic
    @preciselogic 26 дней назад +1

    🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @Deg733
    @Deg733 24 дня назад +2

    Gods of your understanding what?Our merciful GOD the ONE & ONLY not female nor male black nor white or any other race!!

  • @builtlikeablessing3699
    @builtlikeablessing3699 14 дней назад

    Love Iyanlas! However, it was a very hard watch on Nick’s part. I felt like she was having a convo with her teenage nephew.

  • @arnetrahughes2277
    @arnetrahughes2277 23 дня назад

    I would love for you to address what the onslaught of babies was about because that wasn't an accident. What was the psychology behind this. No judgement!

  • @afuawarner
    @afuawarner 24 дня назад

    Is he a host or a client? The real work has to be done outside of the public's eyes and not on this platform. Nick is a brave soldier in trying to balance the two. Well done. But he needs his own private space to be helped to heal, off camera. It takes a minimum of 3 Months therapy/ counselling to recover from 1 year of trauma and even then, all isn't resolved. In this instance there is need for ongoing work, support and strategies to help this brave black man to navigate through the generational trauma he is victim of. Money doesn't solve everything. Remember that.

  • @flashsanders1331
    @flashsanders1331 10 дней назад

    Think of Ian on the surface the son with everything.

  • @chevonnechapman9256
    @chevonnechapman9256 26 дней назад +1

    The God of my own understanding. Why I never heard it like that before? That’s a bad woman

  • @user-xh8qt3ez5s
    @user-xh8qt3ez5s 24 дня назад

    Sincerely ask God to guide you.... And he will.
    Say "god guide me" and see what happens

  • @riellerenee697
    @riellerenee697 25 дней назад

    Just drop it in order or the whole clip like why you keep posting clips weeks at a time tryna be mysterious . Knock it off

  • @AT-zl6dk
    @AT-zl6dk 27 дней назад

    🤍🤍🤍

  • @trustlfspr0ces328
    @trustlfspr0ces328 27 дней назад

    His heart wanted to cry but held it together to keep the conversation moving forward. I love that people who don’t have access to therapy, counseling, or feel heard by someone close are able to digest for themselves a little bit of healing ❤️‍🩹