❤amazing lather! Take that sea moss! You're awesome, as usual! I appreciate you so, so much! Sorry that the heman woman haters club thought that they were super cool and harassed you. But, not sorry that they found out how not cool they are! I love that you stand your ground and speak up. Also, I absolutely love the soft block 😂that is so funny! If he would have actually watched the weeks' content, he would have known what the recipe was lol! You're very appreciated and super generous with recipes. The entitlement sucks!
Mrs. Soap and Clay thanks for keeping our community safe for learning and gaining new understanding. I had no idea there were so many trolls that you had to face, thanks again for taking the time to protect our community you created. I love this channel and have learned so much thank you. 😊
I love that you have a voice and can call attention to mean people. I started soaping a few months ago...A welcome distraction after my son was injured (complicated issue) and it made national news. The cruelty changed me. I wish i had a voice....on another note, I use ocean water with citric acid in my soap. My hubby is a lobster fisherman and just brought me home lemon weed. It smells exactly like lemon! Im excited to try it :)
@@virginiaschott4482 - isn't Mrs Soap, the most? She's amazing, and I absolutely love her in so many ways.. I would not be where I'm at, doing the things I'm doing, without her and her advice... And as for mr dude, there's absolutely not a single place in any Soap space on the interwebs, where, a Brand New anything, would instantly be given recipes. There's no way, no matter what you say or how you ask, Nice or not, where, you would be instantly given anything but some seriously stronge tongue lashings of etiquette and manners, and recipe formulas are intellectual products, Born of time, effort, energy, research and development. And my only other comment on this, I noticed his name, and discussing this with hubbster, as he was watching with me, we're both wondering if he's such a do it all, Why or WHY - ? Couldn't he just do it himself?
0:28 Thank you so much for all your love and energy you so graciously give to me and don’t ever stop. 🙏🏻. Becoming an instant widow, I found you and now 3 1/2 years later, I have my own cute little local soap company! You make a huuuge difference….don’t ever forget that!! ❤
As a new Soaper, I found your channel, and take notes when they apply to what I want to do! I find it amazing how you call out those that are harassing you.. wishing you the best, I will keep watching and learning!
Love your videos, ive learnt so much more. Your a brilliant teacher and i must say jealousy must be an awful thing to suffer from. Love from Carolyn in the uk 😊
I truly appreciate your straightforward and honest nature! You always tell it like it is, and I’ve learned so much from you. If I could afford it, I would have subscribed, but that’s life. Thank you for being my teacher. You are the best.
I love your videos! You have helped me to learn more, along with many other soapers, on my journey of soap making. Yes, I appreciate using recipes from others, but I also like the idea of creating my own recipes. Thank you!
Dude soaper here. This is my first comment to your channel and I wanted to say thank you ! I've been following you since I don't know maybe two years, and it took me some time to fully enjoy your channel due to the sciency side of it. I have to learn each new technical term and process it and translate with my french brain. But lately I found myself watching much more your videos, I love that you experiment all of these things, to me you already give a lot. Unfortunately, some persons are only takers. They take and they take, and when you put some limit you are the mean person. And to relate to the subject, in almost four years of soapmaking I have never felt the need to beg some soap recipe as I am able to formulate one myself, that's the base of soap making, isn't it ? What's the point to know exactly what oils you use? If one wants to put some f**king banana peel to soap, do your random recipe and put the f**king banana peel in it. Et voilà, you are a big boy you made your banana soap and can be proud of it. And if someone absolutely wants to beg, why not first say hello and thank you ? Oh I forgot we are in 2024, respect is dead ! The fact that some random dude is bashing another person over a soap recipe is beyond ridiculous and it says it all about that DoItAllwhatever.... I stopped posting on Facebook soap groups almost two years ago because you know, toxic people are everywhere. But that guy attitude is over the top drama queen level. Dude, we people didn't came out your belly, that fact is proof that you are NOT our mother. So the world doesn't owe you anything, go figure out some soap recipe, please. But I digress. Anyway, love your channel. Merci 😊
I just got done making some banana soap. I got the idea from you but I formulated my own recipe. It's great soap and I really appreciate your videos. Thank you for being accepting to all kinds of soapy people.
I made a 25 lb seamoss soap with pureed seamoss I added to my oils and it came out perfect; no specks. I did add water to the seamoss to get that creaminess needed to the puree. It's key. Thrilled you kept with it and tried many ways to determine which method is most effective.
You handled it really well ❤. I'm a quiet follower but I love the way you teach, it encourages an individual to ask more questions and research more which is the best way to learn but you are still a source of loads of important information. Thank you.
I watched the whole things in lye series. I now put rose petals in a lot of my lye solutions. I love your videos to learn and then use your information to create my own things. I love that you aren't afraid to ruin a soap just to show us what can happen. You're amazing and all the discord family is extra amazing.
Okay as the creator of the dude group I apologize for any harassment you may have felt. I do not tolerate any harassment you may have experienced. I will be handling this situation personally. The whole purpose of my group was to provide a safe space for males to create and share ideas without harassment and getting talked down to. I would like for you to reach out to me personally and we can talk about this further. Once again I apologize on behalf of my group.
Hey! I appreciate you taking the time to address the situation in your community. From what I’ve heard from members of the group, you all come up with some wild experiments and that’s my favorite cup of tea. Misogynistic shit posting that resulted in multiple members of your community harassing me? Hard pass. Glad you’re cleaning it up. Thanks for letting me know!
drop the mic gurl!! You do you and know you are loved...LOVED! (cause it's important ;~) Thank you for your content, I have learned so much from you and adore your style..works for me...
You've taught me so much about soaping and I love your channel! Thank you for all your contributions to the soaping community...it's just too bad it comes with the jealousy of lye heavy trolls with small suds energy
i appreciate all the information you provide us for FREE, especially with all the tests you do to show us the results of the experiments you do. you do what's more important than just share a recipe. you explain how the ingredients work so that we are empowered to formulate our own work of art. ironically, you share SO many recipes with us i have no idea what this dude is complaining about. also... i haven't seen ANY "female soap maker drama" at all, the community is so helpful towards each other and we always support each other to help reach our goals. thank you ms soap and clay for everything you do for us and spoiling us with videos every day... i've never seen any content creators so dedicated!
If people want free recipes there are loads out there. My take from these test videos is to see the effect something has and if you're interested you can try adding it to your own soap. If you truly like soap making then part of the fun is testing it out for yourself anyway. Learning the different properties and deciding if that's something you want to add. It's part of the reason I'm still only a hobby maker. In the UK we need to have a set recipe that is tested if we want to sell but I enjoy trying out different things too much to want to make the same recipe all the time. I think as well that when you get to a certain point you can look at ingredients and know what someone is adding to their soap if you felt like trying out something different. It's absolutely entitled to demand the amounts but it also serves no purpose in the long run, people want and need different things from soap. I'm currently looking into canola oil more due to the increase in olive oil and the video you did a few months ago was very helpful!
You go girl! I know you have shared countless recipes. Anyone that expects every recipe every time is just not really aware of how much work has gone into your formulations. 10 yrs @70 I have no time for the drama!
😂 you kill me, love how you handled that guy. I also made sea moss with old sea moss that is why I had the chunky stuff too. I have hope though since yours all worked well I have hope mine will too. I cannot test them now since they are packed because we are moving across country and so have to wait til I get there. They have only been curing about 3 weeks so Im now excited about them. I also want to thank you for all your in depth details you go into on all your stuff, I have learned so much. Most of all my son thinks your beard oil is Gold. He has the big beard and he just loves that stuff. So thank you again. You rock.
Excellent response , we have too many entitled people in this world. I love your channel and because of your channel I learned to make soap without it turning into a big mess. Thank you again.
Your doing all the right things just keep being you and all is great! I actually lived with a JIM once and it was the worst years of my life I’m glad I moved on but since there was 3 little girls involved it continues even not being with him and that’s a struggle everyday to this day.
He is calling you a Karen as its a name for anyone who is highly entitled and mean.. its a metaphorical name.. however just ignore the comment it really reflects that he is one.. love your content and love the science you engage in the soap process.. i have personally learned a lot from you and i highly appreciate the effort.. plus what is the fun in copying someone's recipe? Just make your own and learn from your mistakes and have fun with it. Thats what i love about soap making.. cheers and take care 💕
Hey! I know he is, the lack of punctuation made it funny though because he ultimately did not achieve his intended goal. 😂 Thanks for being part of the community!
It's such a misogynistic comment though, that this kind of person could be a Karen and therefore just women can be reduced in this way. Awful term, I never use it and I loved that Chantine didn't play into this. ❤️
I love the look of the bubble on those soaps I am still learning to soap in fact I just did my first cold processed soap this week. I have been doing hot processed and enjoying that. I appreciate all the information and tips you give during your videos THANK YOU for all you do. I will let you know how the bubble is on my first soap in a few weeks.
I've always felt like you're incredibly generous with recipes. It's what has kept me coming back. Mad respect for what you provide on your channel. I know I'm grateful for your work. Maybe I'll meet you some day. And give you a big hug.... but only if you're on with hugs.
Love this video. I can't believe they would be so petty over a soap 😂 keep doing what your doing because your killing it. Love the soaps you made 😊 looking forward to your next video.
great lather. guess the pay off was worth some of the hoops you had to go through LOL. too bad some people are so miserable they have to try and make everybody else miserable too. Glad you don't let it get to you.
Thank you for keeping this a safe and fun place for the soapmaking community. It can take a lot of energy to defend what you created from ungrateful people who have no contributions of their own to make. And thank you for standing up against misogyny publicly - I know this can attract even more harassment and you could have chosen to just not make this a topic at all but you did. I hope this will inspire other female creators to not just swallow this kind of harassment and will ultimately make YT a better place.
I so appreciate your willingness to share your knowledge. Your teachings of why and how to formulate my own. As a brand new soap maker with a sister who makes soap, she told me to figure out what I wanted. I had to figure out my recipe and then she would come to my house and show me how to make it. That is all the information she gave me. Each time I talked with her she would ask me if I had it figured out yet. In hindsight I’m glad she did that, though at the time I was just frustrated as other soap makers I was watching didn’t teach how to do this, and I had never made soap before, let alone come up with my own recipe. That’s how I found you. It was your video on how to use soap calc and what a balanced bar of soap looks like, and all the information you gave there that I was finally able to formulate my very first recipe. I made my first batch of soap three weeks ago. I did all the things as a first time soap maker that I have since learned is recommended to wait. I used tea for half of my liquid, another one of your videos, and oat milk for the other half. I divided the soap batter in half and added clay to it, and used the handle of a spoon to do a swirl. I used a 4” mold and I don’t quite understand the CPOP process as of yet, and so I put it in my bread proofer to keep warm. I even made lotion bars from your formulation video. I appreciate the videos that you do share recipes in, as I have been learning from these. Combining these with your formulation videos, gives me a confidence and knowledge in moving forward I would never of had otherwise. By the way my soap turn out great, and so did the lotion bars. Thank you! (I didn’t call my sister to come help me make my very first batch, I just went for it, she loves four hours away:)
So hey, I haven’t let you know lately just how much I really appreciate you. I’m not able at the moment to join the community but I look forward to when I can, but I just wanted you to know I really love how giving and willing you are to share your knowledge with us. It’s so hard to imagine the hate coming from those guys. They don’t know you at all and they don’t deserve to with what they chose to do. Thank you for everything you do for all of us!❤️
The lather on all of them are amazing! Excellent job! I'm having a hard time deciding which one is my favorite. 😅 As for Jim and his drama... wow... he needs to get over himself... Thank you for all that you do, it's greatly appreciated as always! 🙏❤️
Jim is an asshat and you handled him perfectly. His poor little male ego. Love our male soapers in OUR community. Other communities are WILD. I'm buying some seamoss for sure. Just gotta make sure its not expired 😂 Love you Mrs! Fir all tou do. You make siapmakinf fun and fill me in on all the ehys. Cuz I gotra know the whys and have enabled me to come uo with my own recipes. You do you and F all the rest. Love you so much!❤
Love how you handled that guy. It sounds like he is just envious, and has no life of his own he feels like he has to harass women soap makers. Love the lather tests... ❤❤❤
You rock! You share so much information, why anyone would think you owe them more (or anything) is ludicrous. You described Do It All Jim as entitled, I’d say he’s lazy. He’s also lazy. He couldn’t Google banana soap?
I totally felt like the little red hen with the “I made the soap filmed the soap etc” bit and would call him lazy but he has certainly spent a TON of time on harassing me, so he’s got a work ethic. Just needs to be placed on something productive. 😂
It's absolutely wild to me that you can share SO MUCH valuable information (seriously, I've learned tons about soaping from you!) and Jim can't be bothered to just sit down and watch the video. I'm so glad you didn't give him what he wants. Lazy, entitled Jim doesn't, in fact, do it all. Also I'm Karen. Not 'a' Karen 😂😂😂😂
This Karen has learned to laugh this kind of garbage off. I love all of the experiments and have learned so much from you. Love the rebellious attitude.
People online are so rude and mean. It doesn’t compute with me. Everything you said is spot on. You’re great, we love you. You can do whatever you want! Isn’t it great we live in this beautiful country. Sending love.
"I'm glad you realized your comments are not worth my time" "I don't come to your bridge and tell you how to troll" 💀 Ma'am I'm wheezing. Soapy brings the sass, the receipts, and the reminder the love you bring is the love you receive. 💕
Ignore the haters. I love your channel and I love the way you teach. I have never expected a video with a written recipe, I mean it's nice but absolutely not expected. I think you did awesome in your responses.
Thank you for sharing your experience, knowledge, lots of your recipes, and thoughts with us. Most importantly thank you for not being a victim to this entitled jim person. You rock. Your sea moss soaps are fabulous. Love the lather. I look forward to tomorrow’s adventure. Thank you for sharing your channel.
Yay! I knew you were going to be blown away by the lather and the feel of these bars! Sea Moss Good! Do it all Jim… not so much! ❤ Sorry you have to deal with this crap. You’re amazing and share so much knowledge with us all. I was disgusted and fully entertained at the same time. You make me laugh!
Hmm… maybe I need to check the small piece of soap I have left from the batch I did with sea moss. I gave away the batch, but kept a small piece and it’s buried somewhere.
People are NOT respectful. Not sure why people think they are entitled to your recipes. You are typically very generous with your recipes. Love your attitude!
Oh no I keep missing the new ingredients! But it’s ok imma catch up and try it all!! Thank you Mrs for being exactly who you are! In the words of the great theologian Taylor Swift “haters going to hate”
My first video I seen of yours was making soap shreds into whip. I really liked your personality and cussing 😂 also liked how you put the recipe in the video but you have to watch the video THROUGH to actually get it. Very smart anyways they can F off keep moving forward beautiful new subscriber.
Hey, I made a 30% laurel berry oil semi Aleppo soap. I added several additions like coconut cream, sodium lactate, tussah silk, kaolin clay & castor oil. Decreased "slime effect" & best lather EVER!! Shampoo, shave & all over soap use. My hair has NEVER felt so fabulous!! A must try!! ❤❤❤
@MrsSoapAndClay Hey, I have wondered?? Have you heard the "Aleppo" soap is supposed to cure for over 9 months? I weigh my soaps & when they stop losing weight, I call them good. I have set aside a batch of my semi Aleppo soap for the 9 month cure to see any difference. What do you think about this time frame for curing? 🤔
Yeah, so I started this Aleppo soap testing thing and never finished it on the channel. The Aleppo soap I made sat for 6 months before it stopped losing weight. I did use my standard 2.4x water so I could have cut down some cure time if I had used a water reduction.
What nerve…. I hate rudeness. I know you are outraged, keep your chin up….and thanks for shutting that guy up. Funny that what he did was much worse than anything you could have ever imagined.
@chantel..............he's totally threatened by you!! Your science background, your creativity, your deep dives of WHY it's all a thing with EVERYTHING you give us. Love you oodles and hey Jim "thank you for sharing!!" Chantel is the REAL DEAL! Maybe if you watched her long enough, you'd figure out how to create your own recipe. EVERYTHING she gives all of her sudsers is a GIFT and.....................if you approached appropriately ASKING for help, she'd be the first to give it. Deuce's "Dude"
Love your attitude! The misogyny that was all over every single message from that incel absolutely deserves to be called out. I'm not usually here for the drama but I'll admit it, I've got the popcorn. Now for the seamoss! What a labour ... I've definitely turned down the seamoss gel company who've asked me to develop a seamoss soap. I certainly haven't got this kind of patience.
Yeah I generally let the drama and “haters” take themselves out, but when it crosses a line into full blown harassment? Oh I’m addressing it. 😂 The seamoss was annoying until I got some that actually worked, so it was definitely a test of patience.
Some guys are just A$$es. I am sorry that you had to experience that. My husband watched your video and he thinks those guys have a problem, yes they probably don't like females and they have other problems as well. I just want to let you know that I have been watching your videos for a few years. You have inspired me to even tile my bathroom and then my kitchen backsplash. I am a soap maker too. I sell to local markets in my area. I attend a few shows a year and I love making good stuff. Your videos just are so real and so inspiring. I don't really enjoy watching men make soap. I enjoy Brambleberry, MO Soap, ER Soap, Holly, Sarah, Ophelia, so many great makers. Oh yea the Thermal Mermaid is amazing too. I have to say that Soap and Clay is one of the best. Keep your head up and just know that you really put this Jim guy in his place.
❤ I am so blessed to have you all as a community. You have been a great mentor. It is because of you I took the jump at my age to do something I really enjoy. So thank you. Love you❤
I’ve watched you for years and have learned a lot. Recipe development being the most important. Copying a recipe doesn’t teach me anything. Sorry you had to put up with the dude diaper I mean soaper.
You go girl. You do not have to give anything you do not want to. If someone wants to be a soaper they can research it themself. I have done a lot of research before I made my fist soap and came up with what I wanted. Love your videos.
There are mean people everywhere! I agree in how you handled it, not welcome on your channel or in your life. The world would be a better place without them. Thank you for being you and keeping the same format of your channel. I’ve only been soaping for just over a year and have learned so much from your knowledge.
Hmmm....I don't know about giving him a platform, you know? Now he knows he got under your skin enough for you to make a video. If this person is harrassing you with more than that one comment then, turn it over to the FBI for a cyber-bullying thing. There's a ton of questions in my head like, is he dangerous? Do you know him? Shiver.... 1st- BE CAREFUL and SAFE. Second.....let it go and be your own sweet self. This person doesn't deserve one moment of your thought process. Don't give him that. Much love and I hope your day gets better.
Harassment isn’t something I let go. This video was made after all information was given to my attorney and he was notified of legal action should it continue. The video was made as a bigger teaching moment, as well as to clean up any other Do It Alls lurking in the community.
You know what else is doing the MOST? That sea moss! Lather tests are 🔥
❤amazing lather! Take that sea moss! You're awesome, as usual!
I appreciate you so, so much! Sorry that the heman woman haters club thought that they were super cool and harassed you. But, not sorry that they found out how not cool they are! I love that you stand your ground and speak up. Also, I absolutely love the soft block 😂that is so funny! If he would have actually watched the weeks' content, he would have known what the recipe was lol! You're very appreciated and super generous with recipes. The entitlement sucks!
Love it I will have to give it a try
@barefootmama1985 love the lather! Hate the Jim of it all. 😂
😂YEEESSSS!!
So glad you finally were able to finally see the lather! It's amazing!!
Mrs. Soap and Clay thanks for keeping our community safe for learning and gaining new understanding. I had no idea there were so many trolls that you had to face, thanks again for taking the time to protect our community you created. I love this channel and have learned so much thank you. 😊
I love that you have a voice and can call attention to mean people. I started soaping a few months ago...A welcome distraction after my son was injured (complicated issue) and it made national news. The cruelty changed me. I wish i had a voice....on another note, I use ocean water with citric acid in my soap. My hubby is a lobster fisherman and just brought me home lemon weed. It smells exactly like lemon! Im excited to try it :)
Lemon weed?!? That sounds so fun! You’ll have to let us know how it goes.
Also, I’m sorry to hear about your son. I hope you’re all healing. 💜
I second what Mrs. said!
God I love you. You developed your recipe, it's your propriety information for your business.
Look at that - rational, logical, and accurate. Wish Do it All Jim could have delivered any of those things. 😂
@@MrsSoapAndClay When you reach my age, all you got left is logical or crazy thinking,
@@virginiaschott4482 - isn't Mrs Soap, the most? She's amazing, and I absolutely love her in so many ways.. I would not be where I'm at, doing the things I'm doing, without her and her advice... And as for mr dude, there's absolutely not a single place in any Soap space on the interwebs, where, a Brand New anything, would instantly be given recipes. There's no way, no matter what you say or how you ask, Nice or not, where, you would be instantly given anything but some seriously stronge tongue lashings of etiquette and manners, and recipe formulas are intellectual products, Born of time, effort, energy, research and development. And my only other comment on this, I noticed his name, and discussing this with hubbster, as he was watching with me, we're both wondering if he's such a do it all, Why or WHY - ? Couldn't he just do it himself?
ABSOLUTELY!
Agree!
0:28 Thank you so much for all your love and energy you so graciously give to me and don’t ever stop. 🙏🏻. Becoming an instant widow, I found you and now 3 1/2 years later, I have my own cute little local soap company! You make a huuuge difference….don’t ever forget that!! ❤
As a new Soaper, I found your channel, and take notes when they apply to what I want to do! I find it amazing how you call out those that are harassing you.. wishing you the best, I will keep watching and learning!
Love your videos, ive learnt so much more. Your a brilliant teacher and i must say jealousy must be an awful thing to suffer from. Love from Carolyn in the uk 😊
I truly appreciate your straightforward and honest nature! You always tell it like it is, and I’ve learned so much from you. If I could afford it, I would have subscribed, but that’s life. Thank you for being my teacher. You are the best.
OMG I love this channel! You're the best! You're smart, witty, insightful, and one hell of a soap making teacher!
I am a "male" soaper and I approve of this message! BTW can I get that banana peel soap recipe? 😂😂 Just kidding.
😂😂😂
Awesome and we love having male soapmakers in all groups!
I love your videos! You have helped me to learn more, along with many other soapers, on my journey of soap making. Yes, I appreciate using recipes from others, but I also like the idea of creating my own recipes. Thank you!
Dude soaper here. This is my first comment to your channel and I wanted to say thank you ! I've been following you since I don't know maybe two years, and it took me some time to fully enjoy your channel due to the sciency side of it. I have to learn each new technical term and process it and translate with my french brain. But lately I found myself watching much more your videos, I love that you experiment all of these things, to me you already give a lot. Unfortunately, some persons are only takers. They take and they take, and when you put some limit you are the mean person. And to relate to the subject, in almost four years of soapmaking I have never felt the need to beg some soap recipe as I am able to formulate one myself, that's the base of soap making, isn't it ? What's the point to know exactly what oils you use? If one wants to put some f**king banana peel to soap, do your random recipe and put the f**king banana peel in it. Et voilà, you are a big boy you made your banana soap and can be proud of it. And if someone absolutely wants to beg, why not first say hello and thank you ? Oh I forgot we are in 2024, respect is dead ! The fact that some random dude is bashing another person over a soap recipe is beyond ridiculous and it says it all about that DoItAllwhatever....
I stopped posting on Facebook soap groups almost two years ago because you know, toxic people are everywhere.
But that guy attitude is over the top drama queen level.
Dude, we people didn't came out your belly, that fact is proof that you are NOT our mother. So the world doesn't owe you anything, go figure out some soap recipe, please.
But I digress. Anyway, love your channel. Merci 😊
Two more things:
1- Hello ! (I forgot)
2- I love your banana soap video, it's on my to-do list.
Hello! You’ve had a fun soap journey so far! Glad you’re enjoying the creation process and learning the science along the way. 💜
I just got done making some banana soap. I got the idea from you but I formulated my own recipe. It's great soap and I really appreciate your videos. Thank you for being accepting to all kinds of soapy people.
I made a 25 lb seamoss soap with pureed seamoss I added to my oils and it came out perfect; no specks. I did add water to the seamoss to get that creaminess needed to the puree. It's key. Thrilled you kept with it and tried many ways to determine which method is most effective.
You handled it really well ❤. I'm a quiet follower but I love the way you teach, it encourages an individual to ask more questions and research more which is the best way to learn but you are still a source of loads of important information. Thank you.
I watched the whole things in lye series. I now put rose petals in a lot of my lye solutions. I love your videos to learn and then use your information to create my own things. I love that you aren't afraid to ruin a soap just to show us what can happen. You're amazing and all the discord family is extra amazing.
Okay as the creator of the dude group I apologize for any harassment you may have felt. I do not tolerate any harassment you may have experienced. I will be handling this situation personally. The whole purpose of my group was to provide a safe space for males to create and share ideas without harassment and getting talked down to. I would like for you to reach out to me personally and we can talk about this further. Once again I apologize on behalf of my group.
Hey! I appreciate you taking the time to address the situation in your community. From what I’ve heard from members of the group, you all come up with some wild experiments and that’s my favorite cup of tea. Misogynistic shit posting that resulted in multiple members of your community harassing me? Hard pass. Glad you’re cleaning it up. Thanks for letting me know!
drop the mic gurl!! You do you and know you are loved...LOVED! (cause it's important ;~) Thank you for your content, I have learned so much from you and adore your style..works for me...
Love you back!
You've taught me so much about soaping and I love your channel! Thank you for all your contributions to the soaping community...it's just too bad it comes with the jealousy of lye heavy trolls with small suds energy
I see what you did there. Nicely done.
Absolutely love you!! Thank you for all that you do and all the knowledge you share with us.
i appreciate all the information you provide us for FREE, especially with all the tests you do to show us the results of the experiments you do. you do what's more important than just share a recipe. you explain how the ingredients work so that we are empowered to formulate our own work of art. ironically, you share SO many recipes with us i have no idea what this dude is complaining about. also... i haven't seen ANY "female soap maker drama" at all, the community is so helpful towards each other and we always support each other to help reach our goals. thank you ms soap and clay for everything you do for us and spoiling us with videos every day... i've never seen any content creators so dedicated!
If people want free recipes there are loads out there. My take from these test videos is to see the effect something has and if you're interested you can try adding it to your own soap. If you truly like soap making then part of the fun is testing it out for yourself anyway. Learning the different properties and deciding if that's something you want to add. It's part of the reason I'm still only a hobby maker. In the UK we need to have a set recipe that is tested if we want to sell but I enjoy trying out different things too much to want to make the same recipe all the time. I think as well that when you get to a certain point you can look at ingredients and know what someone is adding to their soap if you felt like trying out something different. It's absolutely entitled to demand the amounts but it also serves no purpose in the long run, people want and need different things from soap. I'm currently looking into canola oil more due to the increase in olive oil and the video you did a few months ago was very helpful!
I think the blue one and the last orange one are my favorites. I loooove the foamy bubbly lather!
Same with the foamy lather I’m a sucker for it.
You go girl! I know you have shared countless recipes. Anyone that expects every recipe every time is just not really aware of how much work has gone into your formulations. 10 yrs @70 I have no time for the drama!
😂 you kill me, love how you handled that guy. I also made sea moss with old sea moss that is why I had the chunky stuff too. I have hope though since yours all worked well I have hope mine will too. I cannot test them now since they are packed because we are moving across country and so have to wait til I get there. They have only been curing about 3 weeks so Im now excited about them. I also want to thank you for all your in depth details you go into on all your stuff, I have learned so much. Most of all my son thinks your beard oil is Gold. He has the big beard and he just loves that stuff. So thank you again. You rock.
I bet you’re gonna love the lather! Good luck on the move! 💜
Excellent response , we have too many entitled people in this world. I love your channel and because of your channel I learned to make soap without it turning into a big mess. Thank you again.
Thank you for being part of the community! 💜
Thank you for this! I appreciate you and all of your knowledge. You are inspiring!
Your doing all the right things just keep being you and all is great! I actually lived with a JIM once and it was the worst years of my life I’m glad I moved on but since there was 3 little girls involved it continues even not being with him and that’s a struggle everyday to this day.
He is calling you a Karen as its a name for anyone who is highly entitled and mean.. its a metaphorical name.. however just ignore the comment it really reflects that he is one.. love your content and love the science you engage in the soap process.. i have personally learned a lot from you and i highly appreciate the effort.. plus what is the fun in copying someone's recipe? Just make your own and learn from your mistakes and have fun with it. Thats what i love about soap making.. cheers and take care 💕
Hey! I know he is, the lack of punctuation made it funny though because he ultimately did not achieve his intended goal. 😂 Thanks for being part of the community!
It's such a misogynistic comment though, that this kind of person could be a Karen and therefore just women can be reduced in this way. Awful term, I never use it and I loved that Chantine didn't play into this. ❤️
I love your channel. It's so informative. I enjoy learning from you
I love the look of the bubble on those soaps I am still learning to soap in fact I just did my first cold processed soap this week. I have been doing hot processed and enjoying that. I appreciate all the information and tips you give during your videos THANK YOU for all you do. I will let you know how the bubble is on my first soap in a few weeks.
I've become a great soapmaker because of your videos and experiments, and it's been a fun process. Go ahead, girl!
I've always felt like you're incredibly generous with recipes. It's what has kept me coming back. Mad respect for what you provide on your channel. I know I'm grateful for your work. Maybe I'll meet you some day. And give you a big hug.... but only if you're on with hugs.
Your response was epic! I giggled through the whole video. Misogyny in soap making wasn’t on my 2024 bingo card…🤦🏾♀️
Same.
Love this video. I can't believe they would be so petty over a soap 😂 keep doing what your doing because your killing it. Love the soaps you made 😊 looking forward to your next video.
great lather. guess the pay off was worth some of the hoops you had to go through LOL. too bad some people are so miserable they have to try and make everybody else miserable too. Glad you don't let it get to you.
The Do It All Jim stuff was fun, but that lather was even better! So pleasantly surprised.
I'm pleasantly surprised... Do you still smell the sea moss in these bars?
Oop good question - no sea moss smell, even in the unscented bars. Which is a relief!
@MrsSoapAndClay that is great news
There's drama within us female soapers? Hmm... never knew. I only experienced support and growth. This dude is a joke.
This dude is just the worst person I’ve ever experienced on the internet.
@@MrsSoapAndClaythen don’t go to Reddit and check their soap groups. 😂
You are AMAZING and a great teacher!
Thank you for keeping this a safe and fun place for the soapmaking community. It can take a lot of energy to defend what you created from ungrateful people who have no contributions of their own to make. And thank you for standing up against misogyny publicly - I know this can attract even more harassment and you could have chosen to just not make this a topic at all but you did. I hope this will inspire other female creators to not just swallow this kind of harassment and will ultimately make YT a better place.
I get the same harassment. I stopped selling on eBay because of this.
I so appreciate your willingness to share your knowledge. Your teachings of why and how to formulate my own. As a brand new soap maker with a sister who makes soap, she told me to figure out what I wanted. I had to figure out my recipe and then she would come to my house and show me how to make it. That is all the information she gave me. Each time I talked with her she would ask me if I had it figured out yet. In hindsight I’m glad she did that, though at the time I was just frustrated as other soap makers I was watching didn’t teach how to do this, and I had never made soap before, let alone come up with my own recipe. That’s how I found you. It was your video on how to use soap calc and what a balanced bar of soap looks like, and all the information you gave there that I was finally able to formulate my very first recipe. I made my first batch of soap three weeks ago. I did all the things as a first time soap maker that I have since learned is recommended to wait. I used tea for half of my liquid, another one of your videos, and oat milk for the other half. I divided the soap batter in half and added clay to it, and used the handle of a spoon to do a swirl. I used a 4” mold and I don’t quite understand the CPOP process as of yet, and so I put it in my bread proofer to keep warm. I even made lotion bars from your formulation video. I appreciate the videos that you do share recipes in, as I have been learning from these. Combining these with your formulation videos, gives me a confidence and knowledge in moving forward I would never of had otherwise. By the way my soap turn out great, and so did the lotion bars. Thank you! (I didn’t call my sister to come help me make my very first batch, I just went for it, she loves four hours away:)
I’m so proud of you! All that work for a gorgeous first batch. Well done!
Thank you!
I’m so sorry you had to deal with this Jim rubbish. I’m also glad you are strong enough to call it out. Thank you xx
So hey, I haven’t let you know lately just how much I really appreciate you. I’m not able at the moment to join the community but I look forward to when I can, but I just wanted you to know I really love how giving and willing you are to share your knowledge with us. It’s so hard to imagine the hate coming from those guys. They don’t know you at all and they don’t deserve to with what they chose to do. Thank you for everything you do for all of us!❤️
You handled this beautifully! Thank you for being you!
The lather on all of them are amazing! Excellent job! I'm having a hard time deciding which one is my favorite. 😅 As for Jim and his drama... wow... he needs to get over himself... Thank you for all that you do, it's greatly appreciated as always! 🙏❤️
You are amazing person! Love that you keep the drama out! 😅
Yasssssssss! Beautiful lathers!!!! I’m glad you liked the inclusion of sea moss!!! I’m so sorry you had to deal with that drama that was ridiculous!😢
She said! What she said! Love every bit of this...and the soap too 🥰
Jim is an asshat and you handled him perfectly. His poor little male ego. Love our male soapers in OUR community. Other communities are WILD. I'm buying some seamoss for sure. Just gotta make sure its not expired 😂 Love you Mrs! Fir all tou do. You make siapmakinf fun and fill me in on all the ehys. Cuz I gotra know the whys and have enabled me to come uo with my own recipes. You do you and F all the rest. Love you so much!❤
Love how you handled that guy. It sounds like he is just envious, and has no life of his own he feels like he has to harass women soap makers. Love the lather tests... ❤❤❤
I think he must like harassing women, period. He seems pretty one note.
HEY JIM! I know you're looking at these comments, I need you to know that we are seeing all your posts and we are definitely laughing at you. Toodles!
You rock! You share so much information, why anyone would think you owe them more (or anything) is ludicrous. You described Do It All Jim as entitled, I’d say he’s lazy. He’s also lazy. He couldn’t Google banana soap?
I totally felt like the little red hen with the “I made the soap filmed the soap etc” bit and would call him lazy but he has certainly spent a TON of time on harassing me, so he’s got a work ethic. Just needs to be placed on something productive. 😂
You are amazing ❤thank you for all your shared knowledge I always look forward to your videos
It's absolutely wild to me that you can share SO MUCH valuable information (seriously, I've learned tons about soaping from you!) and Jim can't be bothered to just sit down and watch the video. I'm so glad you didn't give him what he wants. Lazy, entitled Jim doesn't, in fact, do it all.
Also I'm Karen. Not 'a' Karen 😂😂😂😂
People are so entitled, then offended so easily when they dont get the answer/response they think they are gonna get.
This Karen has learned to laugh this kind of garbage off. I love all of the experiments and have learned so much from you. Love the rebellious attitude.
People online are so rude and mean. It doesn’t compute with me. Everything you said is spot on. You’re great, we love you. You can do whatever you want! Isn’t it great we live in this beautiful country. Sending love.
Oh I adore you. Sometimes people need to be put in their place. All the drama I have heard is from some male soapers.
Just here, lurking, giggling and loving my Soapys energy! 💜💜
Love your face and think about you daily! 💜💜💜
"I'm glad you realized your comments are not worth my time"
"I don't come to your bridge and tell you how to troll" 💀 Ma'am I'm wheezing.
Soapy brings the sass, the receipts, and the reminder the love you bring is the love you receive. 💕
Too true, you get what you put in. Love that this dude used karma in one of his comments. Using words he doesn’t understand smh
Ignore the haters. I love your channel and I love the way you teach. I have never expected a video with a written recipe, I mean it's nice but absolutely not expected. I think you did awesome in your responses.
Always amazed how much great information you share! You are amazing.
But what if I don’t want to be productive? 😂
Productivity is so lame. Grab a drink and enjoy Friday.
@@MrsSoapAndClayI just had some coffee… it’s already like 9:30. It’s almost time for bed. 😂
Go girl. Me girl soaper too lol. Love you girl keep up ALL OF YOUR GREAT WORK. You help and inspire me soooo much. Blessings sis
Is the lather worth the stench (referring to sea moss and Jim drama)?
Jim is a PAB. Anyway, I LOVE the bars. They look beautiful and the lather is so luxe. I suppose I'm going to have to open my bag of sea moss now.
Ok but it smells bad you’ve been warned. 😂
Go girl
Hahahahahhaahha ❤️❤️❤️ I just can't get enough of your personality!!! From day one of your channel, you are one good thing that came out of covid!!!
Wait, way less drama. Okay. Sounds like they follow their mission statement
Hee Hee I knew the lather would be great 🎉
All of you sitting back going, just wait she’s gonna have to eat her words. 😂
@@MrsSoapAndClaynah. I had no idea. 😂
Thank you for sharing your experience, knowledge, lots of your recipes, and thoughts with us. Most importantly thank you for not being a victim to this entitled jim person. You rock. Your sea moss soaps are fabulous. Love the lather. I look forward to tomorrow’s adventure. Thank you for sharing your channel.
Ok so WTH?? if you dont like how pages are run...SCROLL ON.. life is too short to have to deal with such BLATANT disrespect
Yay! I knew you were going to be blown away by the lather and the feel of these bars! Sea Moss Good! Do it all Jim… not so much! ❤ Sorry you have to deal with this crap. You’re amazing and share so much knowledge with us all. I was disgusted and fully entertained at the same time. You make me laugh!
Disgust and entertainment - basically describes my journey with sea moss gel. 😂
I just did a video and mentioned that topic. Not expecting others to give you recipes for free.
Hmm… maybe I need to check the small piece of soap I have left from the batch I did with sea moss. I gave away the batch, but kept a small piece and it’s buried somewhere.
Totally test it after it’s sat for a bit!
@@MrsSoapAndClay It’s been since February. I just have to find that piece of soap. 😂 Everything is just a disaster right now.
I've never heard of guys making small batch soap, except for Dr Bronner...
People are NOT respectful. Not sure why people think they are entitled to your recipes. You are typically very generous with your recipes. Love your attitude!
None of my videos have my recipes on it. I say it contains ..... But I don't give amounts. Some of my recipes are proprietary.
This is what I’m saying!
So in other words Lil Boy Jim was mad he couldn't steal your recipe and take it to his group.
Oh no I keep missing the new ingredients! But it’s ok imma catch up and try it all!! Thank you Mrs for being exactly who you are! In the words of the great theologian Taylor Swift “haters going to hate”
That’s nuts. What is wrong with people?
My first video I seen of yours was making soap shreds into whip. I really liked your personality and cussing 😂 also liked how you put the recipe in the video but you have to watch the video THROUGH to actually get it. Very smart anyways they can F off keep moving forward beautiful new subscriber.
Hey, I made a 30% laurel berry oil semi Aleppo soap. I added several additions like coconut cream, sodium lactate, tussah silk, kaolin clay & castor oil. Decreased "slime effect" & best lather EVER!! Shampoo, shave & all over soap use. My hair has NEVER felt so fabulous!! A must try!! ❤❤❤
That sounds like a dreamy recipe! Definitely a labor of love with that one, every ingredient carefully selected. Nicely done!
@MrsSoapAndClay Hey, I have wondered?? Have you heard the "Aleppo" soap is supposed to cure for over 9 months? I weigh my soaps & when they stop losing weight, I call them good. I have set aside a batch of my semi Aleppo soap for the 9 month cure to see any difference. What do you think about this time frame for curing? 🤔
Yeah, so I started this Aleppo soap testing thing and never finished it on the channel. The Aleppo soap I made sat for 6 months before it stopped losing weight. I did use my standard 2.4x water so I could have cut down some cure time if I had used a water reduction.
What nerve…. I hate rudeness. I know you are outraged, keep your chin up….and thanks for shutting that guy up. Funny that what he did was much worse than anything you could have ever imagined.
Good for you on calling out bullying (PRICKS)
@chantel..............he's totally threatened by you!! Your science background, your creativity, your deep dives of WHY it's all a thing with EVERYTHING you give us. Love you oodles and hey Jim "thank you for sharing!!" Chantel is the REAL DEAL! Maybe if you watched her long enough, you'd figure out how to create your own recipe. EVERYTHING she gives all of her sudsers is a GIFT and.....................if you approached appropriately ASKING for help, she'd be the first to give it. Deuce's "Dude"
Honey pay that person No mind and keep doing what you are doing.
By the way, I adore your channel ❤️ ♥️ ❤!! Jim was out of line!! 😢
That lip color is AMAZING on you!
Love your attitude! The misogyny that was all over every single message from that incel absolutely deserves to be called out. I'm not usually here for the drama but I'll admit it, I've got the popcorn. Now for the seamoss! What a labour ... I've definitely turned down the seamoss gel company who've asked me to develop a seamoss soap. I certainly haven't got this kind of patience.
Yeah I generally let the drama and “haters” take themselves out, but when it crosses a line into full blown harassment? Oh I’m addressing it. 😂 The seamoss was annoying until I got some that actually worked, so it was definitely a test of patience.
Some guys are just A$$es. I am sorry that you had to experience that. My husband watched your video and he thinks those guys have a problem, yes they probably don't like females and they have other problems as well. I just want to let you know that I have been watching your videos for a few years. You have inspired me to even tile my bathroom and then my kitchen backsplash. I am a soap maker too. I sell to local markets in my area. I attend a few shows a year and I love making good stuff. Your videos just are so real and so inspiring. I don't really enjoy watching men make soap. I enjoy Brambleberry, MO Soap, ER Soap, Holly, Sarah, Ophelia, so many great makers. Oh yea the Thermal Mermaid is amazing too. I have to say that Soap and Clay is one of the best. Keep your head up and just know that you really put this Jim guy in his place.
❤ I am so blessed to have you all as a community. You have been a great mentor. It is because of you I took the jump at my age to do something I really enjoy. So thank you. Love you❤
Love you!
I’ve watched you for years and have learned a lot. Recipe development being the most important. Copying a recipe doesn’t teach me anything. Sorry you had to put up with the dude diaper I mean soaper.
You go girl. You do not have to give anything you do not want to. If someone wants to be a soaper they can research it themself. I have done a lot of research before I made my fist soap and came up with what I wanted. Love your videos.
One person from that group doesn't represent all of us
So true! As I pointed out in the video.
You are Top Notch! That is all.
No YOU!
There are mean people everywhere! I agree in how you handled it, not welcome on your channel or in your life. The world would be a better place without them. Thank you for being you and keeping the same format of your channel. I’ve only been soaping for just over a year and have learned so much from your knowledge.
🙌🏻 This! SO MUCH THIS!!! 🎉
Hmmm....I don't know about giving him a platform, you know? Now he knows he got under your skin enough for you to make a video. If this person is harrassing you with more than that one comment then, turn it over to the FBI for a cyber-bullying thing. There's a ton of questions in my head like, is he dangerous? Do you know him? Shiver.... 1st- BE CAREFUL and SAFE. Second.....let it go and be your own sweet self. This person doesn't deserve one moment of your thought process. Don't give him that. Much love and I hope your day gets better.
Harassment isn’t something I let go. This video was made after all information was given to my attorney and he was notified of legal action should it continue. The video was made as a bigger teaching moment, as well as to clean up any other Do It Alls lurking in the community.