Harassment From "Dude Only" Soap Community, and also lather tests.

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  • Опубликовано: 5 окт 2024
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Комментарии • 211

  • @MrsSoapAndClay
    @MrsSoapAndClay  5 месяцев назад +25

    You know what else is doing the MOST? That sea moss! Lather tests are 🔥

    • @barefootmama1985
      @barefootmama1985 5 месяцев назад +1

      ❤amazing lather! Take that sea moss! You're awesome, as usual!
      I appreciate you so, so much! Sorry that the heman woman haters club thought that they were super cool and harassed you. But, not sorry that they found out how not cool they are! I love that you stand your ground and speak up. Also, I absolutely love the soft block 😂that is so funny! If he would have actually watched the weeks' content, he would have known what the recipe was lol! You're very appreciated and super generous with recipes. The entitlement sucks!

    • @terrymanning9261
      @terrymanning9261 5 месяцев назад

      Love it I will have to give it a try

    • @MrsSoapAndClay
      @MrsSoapAndClay  5 месяцев назад +3

      @barefootmama1985 love the lather! Hate the Jim of it all. 😂

    • @barefootmama1985
      @barefootmama1985 5 месяцев назад

      😂YEEESSSS!!

    • @RisaL-13
      @RisaL-13 5 месяцев назад

      So glad you finally were able to finally see the lather! It's amazing!!

  • @virginiaschott4482
    @virginiaschott4482 5 месяцев назад +32

    God I love you. You developed your recipe, it's your propriety information for your business.

    • @MrsSoapAndClay
      @MrsSoapAndClay  5 месяцев назад +7

      Look at that - rational, logical, and accurate. Wish Do it All Jim could have delivered any of those things. 😂

    • @virginiaschott4482
      @virginiaschott4482 5 месяцев назад +5

      @@MrsSoapAndClay When you reach my age, all you got left is logical or crazy thinking,

    • @GrandmaMiMZiSays
      @GrandmaMiMZiSays 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@virginiaschott4482 - isn't Mrs Soap, the most? She's amazing, and I absolutely love her in so many ways.. I would not be where I'm at, doing the things I'm doing, without her and her advice... And as for mr dude, there's absolutely not a single place in any Soap space on the interwebs, where, a Brand New anything, would instantly be given recipes. There's no way, no matter what you say or how you ask, Nice or not, where, you would be instantly given anything but some seriously stronge tongue lashings of etiquette and manners, and recipe formulas are intellectual products, Born of time, effort, energy, research and development. And my only other comment on this, I noticed his name, and discussing this with hubbster, as he was watching with me, we're both wondering if he's such a do it all, Why or WHY - ? Couldn't he just do it himself?

    • @thebrowninghomestead5557
      @thebrowninghomestead5557 5 месяцев назад +2

      ABSOLUTELY!

    • @donnamalone4852
      @donnamalone4852 5 месяцев назад

      Agree!

  • @sharonnickerson9756
    @sharonnickerson9756 5 месяцев назад +24

    I love that you have a voice and can call attention to mean people. I started soaping a few months ago...A welcome distraction after my son was injured (complicated issue) and it made national news. The cruelty changed me. I wish i had a voice....on another note, I use ocean water with citric acid in my soap. My hubby is a lobster fisherman and just brought me home lemon weed. It smells exactly like lemon! Im excited to try it :)

    • @MrsSoapAndClay
      @MrsSoapAndClay  5 месяцев назад +4

      Lemon weed?!? That sounds so fun! You’ll have to let us know how it goes.
      Also, I’m sorry to hear about your son. I hope you’re all healing. 💜

    • @MsAubrey
      @MsAubrey 5 месяцев назад +2

      I second what Mrs. said!

  • @heathermoreland6015
    @heathermoreland6015 2 месяца назад +2

    Mrs. Soap and Clay thanks for keeping our community safe for learning and gaining new understanding. I had no idea there were so many trolls that you had to face, thanks again for taking the time to protect our community you created. I love this channel and have learned so much thank you. 😊

  • @dorriwaldera3081
    @dorriwaldera3081 10 дней назад

    As a new Soaper, I found your channel, and take notes when they apply to what I want to do! I find it amazing how you call out those that are harassing you.. wishing you the best, I will keep watching and learning!

  • @melodeeallen2022
    @melodeeallen2022 5 месяцев назад +5

    Your response was epic! I giggled through the whole video. Misogyny in soap making wasn’t on my 2024 bingo card…🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @dennism.6147
    @dennism.6147 5 месяцев назад +18

    I am a "male" soaper and I approve of this message! BTW can I get that banana peel soap recipe? 😂😂 Just kidding.

  • @Carolyn-d5p
    @Carolyn-d5p 4 месяца назад +1

    Love your videos, ive learnt so much more. Your a brilliant teacher and i must say jealousy must be an awful thing to suffer from. Love from Carolyn in the uk 😊

  • @organicswelove
    @organicswelove 5 месяцев назад

    0:28 Thank you so much for all your love and energy you so graciously give to me and don’t ever stop. 🙏🏻. Becoming an instant widow, I found you and now 3 1/2 years later, I have my own cute little local soap company! You make a huuuge difference….don’t ever forget that!! ❤

  • @schellsc
    @schellsc 5 месяцев назад +1

    I think the blue one and the last orange one are my favorites. I loooove the foamy bubbly lather!

    • @MrsSoapAndClay
      @MrsSoapAndClay  5 месяцев назад +2

      Same with the foamy lather I’m a sucker for it.

  • @soapsbylela1201
    @soapsbylela1201 5 месяцев назад +1

    I watched the whole things in lye series. I now put rose petals in a lot of my lye solutions. I love your videos to learn and then use your information to create my own things. I love that you aren't afraid to ruin a soap just to show us what can happen. You're amazing and all the discord family is extra amazing.

  • @felicascriven3672
    @felicascriven3672 5 месяцев назад +3

    drop the mic gurl!! You do you and know you are loved...LOVED! (cause it's important ;~) Thank you for your content, I have learned so much from you and adore your style..works for me...

  • @GigaCahd967
    @GigaCahd967 5 месяцев назад +11

    Excellent response , we have too many entitled people in this world. I love your channel and because of your channel I learned to make soap without it turning into a big mess. Thank you again.

    • @MrsSoapAndClay
      @MrsSoapAndClay  5 месяцев назад +4

      Thank you for being part of the community! 💜

  • @laurenmccrory6896
    @laurenmccrory6896 5 месяцев назад

    OMG I love this channel! You're the best! You're smart, witty, insightful, and one hell of a soap making teacher!

  • @dianehedricks7860
    @dianehedricks7860 5 месяцев назад +9

    Yasssssssss! Beautiful lathers!!!! I’m glad you liked the inclusion of sea moss!!! I’m so sorry you had to deal with that drama that was ridiculous!😢

  • @Krisg1616
    @Krisg1616 5 месяцев назад +5

    I so appreciate your willingness to share your knowledge. Your teachings of why and how to formulate my own. As a brand new soap maker with a sister who makes soap, she told me to figure out what I wanted. I had to figure out my recipe and then she would come to my house and show me how to make it. That is all the information she gave me. Each time I talked with her she would ask me if I had it figured out yet. In hindsight I’m glad she did that, though at the time I was just frustrated as other soap makers I was watching didn’t teach how to do this, and I had never made soap before, let alone come up with my own recipe. That’s how I found you. It was your video on how to use soap calc and what a balanced bar of soap looks like, and all the information you gave there that I was finally able to formulate my very first recipe. I made my first batch of soap three weeks ago. I did all the things as a first time soap maker that I have since learned is recommended to wait. I used tea for half of my liquid, another one of your videos, and oat milk for the other half. I divided the soap batter in half and added clay to it, and used the handle of a spoon to do a swirl. I used a 4” mold and I don’t quite understand the CPOP process as of yet, and so I put it in my bread proofer to keep warm. I even made lotion bars from your formulation video. I appreciate the videos that you do share recipes in, as I have been learning from these. Combining these with your formulation videos, gives me a confidence and knowledge in moving forward I would never of had otherwise. By the way my soap turn out great, and so did the lotion bars. Thank you! (I didn’t call my sister to come help me make my very first batch, I just went for it, she loves four hours away:)

    • @MrsSoapAndClay
      @MrsSoapAndClay  5 месяцев назад +2

      I’m so proud of you! All that work for a gorgeous first batch. Well done!

    • @Krisg1616
      @Krisg1616 5 месяцев назад

      Thank you!

  • @roxaneevans1187
    @roxaneevans1187 5 месяцев назад +3

    😂 you kill me, love how you handled that guy. I also made sea moss with old sea moss that is why I had the chunky stuff too. I have hope though since yours all worked well I have hope mine will too. I cannot test them now since they are packed because we are moving across country and so have to wait til I get there. They have only been curing about 3 weeks so Im now excited about them. I also want to thank you for all your in depth details you go into on all your stuff, I have learned so much. Most of all my son thinks your beard oil is Gold. He has the big beard and he just loves that stuff. So thank you again. You rock.

    • @MrsSoapAndClay
      @MrsSoapAndClay  5 месяцев назад +2

      I bet you’re gonna love the lather! Good luck on the move! 💜

  • @Badonkudonk
    @Badonkudonk 5 месяцев назад

    I love your videos! You have helped me to learn more, along with many other soapers, on my journey of soap making. Yes, I appreciate using recipes from others, but I also like the idea of creating my own recipes. Thank you!

  • @Sylvain.20
    @Sylvain.20 5 месяцев назад +2

    Dude soaper here. This is my first comment to your channel and I wanted to say thank you ! I've been following you since I don't know maybe two years, and it took me some time to fully enjoy your channel due to the sciency side of it. I have to learn each new technical term and process it and translate with my french brain. But lately I found myself watching much more your videos, I love that you experiment all of these things, to me you already give a lot. Unfortunately, some persons are only takers. They take and they take, and when you put some limit you are the mean person. And to relate to the subject, in almost four years of soapmaking I have never felt the need to beg some soap recipe as I am able to formulate one myself, that's the base of soap making, isn't it ? What's the point to know exactly what oils you use? If one wants to put some f**king banana peel to soap, do your random recipe and put the f**king banana peel in it. Et voilà, you are a big boy you made your banana soap and can be proud of it. And if someone absolutely wants to beg, why not first say hello and thank you ? Oh I forgot we are in 2024, respect is dead ! The fact that some random dude is bashing another person over a soap recipe is beyond ridiculous and it says it all about that DoItAllwhatever....
    I stopped posting on Facebook soap groups almost two years ago because you know, toxic people are everywhere.
    But that guy attitude is over the top drama queen level.
    Dude, we people didn't came out your belly, that fact is proof that you are NOT our mother. So the world doesn't owe you anything, go figure out some soap recipe, please.
    But I digress. Anyway, love your channel. Merci 😊

    • @Sylvain.20
      @Sylvain.20 5 месяцев назад

      Two more things:
      1- Hello ! (I forgot)
      2- I love your banana soap video, it's on my to-do list.

    • @MrsSoapAndClay
      @MrsSoapAndClay  5 месяцев назад +1

      Hello! You’ve had a fun soap journey so far! Glad you’re enjoying the creation process and learning the science along the way. 💜

  • @TheLemonLily
    @TheLemonLily 5 месяцев назад +1

    i appreciate all the information you provide us for FREE, especially with all the tests you do to show us the results of the experiments you do. you do what's more important than just share a recipe. you explain how the ingredients work so that we are empowered to formulate our own work of art. ironically, you share SO many recipes with us i have no idea what this dude is complaining about. also... i haven't seen ANY "female soap maker drama" at all, the community is so helpful towards each other and we always support each other to help reach our goals. thank you ms soap and clay for everything you do for us and spoiling us with videos every day... i've never seen any content creators so dedicated!

  • @antoninaioane3045
    @antoninaioane3045 5 месяцев назад

    You handled it really well ❤. I'm a quiet follower but I love the way you teach, it encourages an individual to ask more questions and research more which is the best way to learn but you are still a source of loads of important information. Thank you.

  • @terioesterle8551
    @terioesterle8551 5 месяцев назад +7

    Always amazed how much great information you share! You are amazing.

  • @annettebarnes6525
    @annettebarnes6525 5 месяцев назад

    Absolutely love you!! Thank you for all that you do and all the knowledge you share with us.

  • @happybrushchely7170
    @happybrushchely7170 5 месяцев назад +5

    ❤ I am so blessed to have you all as a community. You have been a great mentor. It is because of you I took the jump at my age to do something I really enjoy. So thank you. Love you❤

  • @mooncalf191
    @mooncalf191 5 месяцев назад +1

    I just got done making some banana soap. I got the idea from you but I formulated my own recipe. It's great soap and I really appreciate your videos. Thank you for being accepting to all kinds of soapy people.

  • @cfedosoff
    @cfedosoff 5 месяцев назад

    You've taught me so much about soaping and I love your channel! Thank you for all your contributions to the soaping community...it's just too bad it comes with the jealousy of lye heavy trolls with small suds energy

    • @MrsSoapAndClay
      @MrsSoapAndClay  5 месяцев назад

      I see what you did there. Nicely done.

  • @Anfal.Creations
    @Anfal.Creations 5 месяцев назад +4

    He is calling you a Karen as its a name for anyone who is highly entitled and mean.. its a metaphorical name.. however just ignore the comment it really reflects that he is one.. love your content and love the science you engage in the soap process.. i have personally learned a lot from you and i highly appreciate the effort.. plus what is the fun in copying someone's recipe? Just make your own and learn from your mistakes and have fun with it. Thats what i love about soap making.. cheers and take care 💕

    • @MrsSoapAndClay
      @MrsSoapAndClay  5 месяцев назад +2

      Hey! I know he is, the lack of punctuation made it funny though because he ultimately did not achieve his intended goal. 😂 Thanks for being part of the community!

    • @shopwildvenus
      @shopwildvenus 5 месяцев назад

      It's such a misogynistic comment though, that this kind of person could be a Karen and therefore just women can be reduced in this way. Awful term, I never use it and I loved that Chantine didn't play into this. ❤️

  • @Mothermoonartisansoap
    @Mothermoonartisansoap 5 месяцев назад +7

    Go girl

  • @saundrabechner8147
    @saundrabechner8147 5 месяцев назад

    I love your channel. It's so informative. I enjoy learning from you

  • @soakitin-artisansoap8317
    @soakitin-artisansoap8317 5 месяцев назад

    I made a 25 lb seamoss soap with pureed seamoss I added to my oils and it came out perfect; no specks. I did add water to the seamoss to get that creaminess needed to the puree. It's key. Thrilled you kept with it and tried many ways to determine which method is most effective.

  • @salemthorup9536
    @salemthorup9536 Месяц назад

    I've always felt like you're incredibly generous with recipes. It's what has kept me coming back. Mad respect for what you provide on your channel. I know I'm grateful for your work. Maybe I'll meet you some day. And give you a big hug.... but only if you're on with hugs.

  • @serinamagick7192
    @serinamagick7192 5 месяцев назад

    Love how you handled that guy. It sounds like he is just envious, and has no life of his own he feels like he has to harass women soap makers. Love the lather tests... ❤❤❤

    • @MrsSoapAndClay
      @MrsSoapAndClay  5 месяцев назад

      I think he must like harassing women, period. He seems pretty one note.

  • @adhd_alchemy
    @adhd_alchemy 5 месяцев назад +1

    She said! What she said! Love every bit of this...and the soap too 🥰

  • @BlackPony599
    @BlackPony599 5 месяцев назад +6

    ❤️"That's a hard no from me,.. dog" ❤️ everything you said in this vid!! Thank you for being so real Mrs Soap&Clay you spanked him so elegantly perfect!! I needed this today ❤you😂

    • @soapsbylela1201
      @soapsbylela1201 5 месяцев назад

      I cracked up when she said that 😂

  • @danielt4449
    @danielt4449 5 месяцев назад +4

    great lather. guess the pay off was worth some of the hoops you had to go through LOL. too bad some people are so miserable they have to try and make everybody else miserable too. Glad you don't let it get to you.

    • @MrsSoapAndClay
      @MrsSoapAndClay  5 месяцев назад +1

      The Do It All Jim stuff was fun, but that lather was even better! So pleasantly surprised.

  • @NinaHernandez-qb3rb
    @NinaHernandez-qb3rb 5 месяцев назад

    I've become a great soapmaker because of your videos and experiments, and it's been a fun process. Go ahead, girl!

  • @kattaylor9294
    @kattaylor9294 5 месяцев назад +3

    Jim is an asshat and you handled him perfectly. His poor little male ego. Love our male soapers in OUR community. Other communities are WILD. I'm buying some seamoss for sure. Just gotta make sure its not expired 😂 Love you Mrs! Fir all tou do. You make siapmakinf fun and fill me in on all the ehys. Cuz I gotra know the whys and have enabled me to come uo with my own recipes. You do you and F all the rest. Love you so much!❤

  • @KimberlyLevell
    @KimberlyLevell 5 месяцев назад

    Thank you for this! I appreciate you and all of your knowledge. You are inspiring!

  • @redrooster7371
    @redrooster7371 5 месяцев назад

    Thank you for keeping this a safe and fun place for the soapmaking community. It can take a lot of energy to defend what you created from ungrateful people who have no contributions of their own to make. And thank you for standing up against misogyny publicly - I know this can attract even more harassment and you could have chosen to just not make this a topic at all but you did. I hope this will inspire other female creators to not just swallow this kind of harassment and will ultimately make YT a better place.

  • @reginacorbett7444
    @reginacorbett7444 5 месяцев назад

    You are AMAZING and a great teacher!

  • @darnettabrown1166
    @darnettabrown1166 5 месяцев назад +4

    Go girl. Me girl soaper too lol. Love you girl keep up ALL OF YOUR GREAT WORK. You help and inspire me soooo much. Blessings sis

  • @thepearlygoatsoapery9512
    @thepearlygoatsoapery9512 5 месяцев назад

    You go girl! I know you have shared countless recipes. Anyone that expects every recipe every time is just not really aware of how much work has gone into your formulations. 10 yrs @70 I have no time for the drama!

  • @soapsonstone740
    @soapsonstone740 5 месяцев назад

    Just here, lurking, giggling and loving my Soapys energy! 💜💜

    • @MrsSoapAndClay
      @MrsSoapAndClay  5 месяцев назад

      Love your face and think about you daily! 💜💜💜

  • @norawalsh5471
    @norawalsh5471 5 месяцев назад

    The lather on all of them are amazing! Excellent job! I'm having a hard time deciding which one is my favorite. 😅 As for Jim and his drama... wow... he needs to get over himself... Thank you for all that you do, it's greatly appreciated as always! 🙏❤️

  • @thenerdyleopard4893
    @thenerdyleopard4893 5 месяцев назад

    You handled this beautifully! Thank you for being you!

  • @CandaceJensen-iq7vx
    @CandaceJensen-iq7vx 5 месяцев назад

    So hey, I haven’t let you know lately just how much I really appreciate you. I’m not able at the moment to join the community but I look forward to when I can, but I just wanted you to know I really love how giving and willing you are to share your knowledge with us. It’s so hard to imagine the hate coming from those guys. They don’t know you at all and they don’t deserve to with what they chose to do. Thank you for everything you do for all of us!❤️

  • @schellsc
    @schellsc 5 месяцев назад +4

    Hee Hee I knew the lather would be great 🎉

    • @MrsSoapAndClay
      @MrsSoapAndClay  5 месяцев назад +2

      All of you sitting back going, just wait she’s gonna have to eat her words. 😂

    • @MsAubrey
      @MsAubrey 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@MrsSoapAndClaynah. I had no idea. 😂

  • @dinosaurgang666
    @dinosaurgang666 5 месяцев назад +1

    "I'm glad you realized your comments are not worth my time"
    "I don't come to your bridge and tell you how to troll" 💀 Ma'am I'm wheezing.
    Soapy brings the sass, the receipts, and the reminder the love you bring is the love you receive. 💕

    • @MrsSoapAndClay
      @MrsSoapAndClay  5 месяцев назад +1

      Too true, you get what you put in. Love that this dude used karma in one of his comments. Using words he doesn’t understand smh

  • @debbiesaulnier3101
    @debbiesaulnier3101 5 месяцев назад

    You are amazing person! Love that you keep the drama out! 😅

  • @helenb9971
    @helenb9971 5 месяцев назад +1

    If people want free recipes there are loads out there. My take from these test videos is to see the effect something has and if you're interested you can try adding it to your own soap. If you truly like soap making then part of the fun is testing it out for yourself anyway. Learning the different properties and deciding if that's something you want to add. It's part of the reason I'm still only a hobby maker. In the UK we need to have a set recipe that is tested if we want to sell but I enjoy trying out different things too much to want to make the same recipe all the time. I think as well that when you get to a certain point you can look at ingredients and know what someone is adding to their soap if you felt like trying out something different. It's absolutely entitled to demand the amounts but it also serves no purpose in the long run, people want and need different things from soap. I'm currently looking into canola oil more due to the increase in olive oil and the video you did a few months ago was very helpful!

  • @shannongray151
    @shannongray151 5 месяцев назад

    I love the look of the bubble on those soaps I am still learning to soap in fact I just did my first cold processed soap this week. I have been doing hot processed and enjoying that. I appreciate all the information and tips you give during your videos THANK YOU for all you do. I will let you know how the bubble is on my first soap in a few weeks.

  • @B24CPN
    @B24CPN 5 месяцев назад

    People online are so rude and mean. It doesn’t compute with me. Everything you said is spot on. You’re great, we love you. You can do whatever you want! Isn’t it great we live in this beautiful country. Sending love.

  • @Mothermoonartisansoap
    @Mothermoonartisansoap 5 месяцев назад +3

    I'm pleasantly surprised... Do you still smell the sea moss in these bars?

    • @MrsSoapAndClay
      @MrsSoapAndClay  5 месяцев назад +3

      Oop good question - no sea moss smell, even in the unscented bars. Which is a relief!

    • @Mothermoonartisansoap
      @Mothermoonartisansoap 5 месяцев назад +1

      ​@MrsSoapAndClay that is great news

  • @soapwol
    @soapwol 5 месяцев назад +1

    HEY JIM! I know you're looking at these comments, I need you to know that we are seeing all your posts and we are definitely laughing at you. Toodles!

  • @jankates1274
    @jankates1274 5 месяцев назад

    I’m so sorry you had to deal with this Jim rubbish. I’m also glad you are strong enough to call it out. Thank you xx

  • @adelewasylyk2079
    @adelewasylyk2079 5 месяцев назад

    You are amazing ❤thank you for all your shared knowledge I always look forward to your videos

  • @sarahgirlsoaps
    @sarahgirlsoaps 5 месяцев назад

    I love this!! I love how you narrate this. Magical

  • @sshacklett907
    @sshacklett907 5 месяцев назад

    You rock! You share so much information, why anyone would think you owe them more (or anything) is ludicrous. You described Do It All Jim as entitled, I’d say he’s lazy. He’s also lazy. He couldn’t Google banana soap?

    • @MrsSoapAndClay
      @MrsSoapAndClay  5 месяцев назад +1

      I totally felt like the little red hen with the “I made the soap filmed the soap etc” bit and would call him lazy but he has certainly spent a TON of time on harassing me, so he’s got a work ethic. Just needs to be placed on something productive. 😂

  • @stephaniewilson4120
    @stephaniewilson4120 5 месяцев назад

    Your doing all the right things just keep being you and all is great! I actually lived with a JIM once and it was the worst years of my life I’m glad I moved on but since there was 3 little girls involved it continues even not being with him and that’s a struggle everyday to this day.

  • @ShayonceLove
    @ShayonceLove 5 месяцев назад

    My first video I seen of yours was making soap shreds into whip. I really liked your personality and cussing 😂 also liked how you put the recipe in the video but you have to watch the video THROUGH to actually get it. Very smart anyways they can F off keep moving forward beautiful new subscriber.

  • @sarahpaxton3793
    @sarahpaxton3793 5 месяцев назад +6

    There's drama within us female soapers? Hmm... never knew. I only experienced support and growth. This dude is a joke.

    • @MrsSoapAndClay
      @MrsSoapAndClay  5 месяцев назад +1

      This dude is just the worst person I’ve ever experienced on the internet.

    • @MsAubrey
      @MsAubrey 5 месяцев назад

      @@MrsSoapAndClaythen don’t go to Reddit and check their soap groups. 😂

  • @valerieramos8317
    @valerieramos8317 5 месяцев назад

    Oh no I keep missing the new ingredients! But it’s ok imma catch up and try it all!! Thank you Mrs for being exactly who you are! In the words of the great theologian Taylor Swift “haters going to hate”

  • @melanieschafer1297
    @melanieschafer1297 5 месяцев назад +5

    People are NOT respectful. Not sure why people think they are entitled to your recipes. You are typically very generous with your recipes. Love your attitude!

  • @nathangeorge6563
    @nathangeorge6563 5 месяцев назад

    Love this video. I can't believe they would be so petty over a soap 😂 keep doing what your doing because your killing it. Love the soaps you made 😊 looking forward to your next video.

  • @NiSt1975
    @NiSt1975 5 месяцев назад +2

    Okay as the creator of the dude group I apologize for any harassment you may have felt. I do not tolerate any harassment you may have experienced. I will be handling this situation personally. The whole purpose of my group was to provide a safe space for males to create and share ideas without harassment and getting talked down to. I would like for you to reach out to me personally and we can talk about this further. Once again I apologize on behalf of my group.

    • @MrsSoapAndClay
      @MrsSoapAndClay  5 месяцев назад +2

      Hey! I appreciate you taking the time to address the situation in your community. From what I’ve heard from members of the group, you all come up with some wild experiments and that’s my favorite cup of tea. Misogynistic shit posting that resulted in multiple members of your community harassing me? Hard pass. Glad you’re cleaning it up. Thanks for letting me know!

  • @learning2no
    @learning2no 5 месяцев назад

    Thank you for sharing your experience, knowledge, lots of your recipes, and thoughts with us. Most importantly thank you for not being a victim to this entitled jim person. You rock. Your sea moss soaps are fabulous. Love the lather. I look forward to tomorrow’s adventure. Thank you for sharing your channel.

  • @lasumrell
    @lasumrell 5 месяцев назад +1

    Jim is a PAB. Anyway, I LOVE the bars. They look beautiful and the lather is so luxe. I suppose I'm going to have to open my bag of sea moss now.

    • @MrsSoapAndClay
      @MrsSoapAndClay  5 месяцев назад

      Ok but it smells bad you’ve been warned. 😂

  • @noahkling4018
    @noahkling4018 3 месяца назад

    I get the same harassment. I stopped selling on eBay because of this.

  • @sherrymartindale8582
    @sherrymartindale8582 4 месяца назад

    🙌🏻 This! SO MUCH THIS!!! 🎉

  • @cactaceae123
    @cactaceae123 5 месяцев назад +3

    funny, i am in that soap group and, yeah, there are definitely a bunch of "dudes" there with all sorts of issues like the world is too woke for them. but, even funnier, the guy you mention posted about how rude you were to him earlier today and posted the same screen shot, and now here i am watching you talk about him. lol. love it. i answered his question that he asked you and he didn't even thank me. figures.

    • @MrsSoapAndClay
      @MrsSoapAndClay  5 месяцев назад +1

      Ha! He posted again? This guy is so extra. 😂

    • @cactaceae123
      @cactaceae123 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@MrsSoapAndClay yeah, and i told him how that he messed with the wrong one and that you soaped the floor with him. got a few likes and a friend request for that. lol. but one "dude" came to his defense. so, yeah, seeing how that plays out before i decide to stay in or leave the group.

    • @MrsSoapAndClay
      @MrsSoapAndClay  5 месяцев назад +1

      Yeah that’s a good call. I like the idea of a place for the dudes to hang out, and if the group as a whole is less toxic than what is being displayed through Big Jim, then there’s a benefit to the group’s existence. I’ve heard there’s all kinds of fun experiments over there, which is right up my alley.

  • @krystaljarvis4137
    @krystaljarvis4137 5 месяцев назад

    I think you're amazing and appreciate how you break everything down. Seeing the why is important. Experimenting is fun! Thank you for everything you do because you are a light in the community! No one is entitled to your knowledge and yet you give a lot!

  • @catherinewilson4754
    @catherinewilson4754 5 месяцев назад

    Good for you on calling out bullying (PRICKS)

  • @shopwildvenus
    @shopwildvenus 5 месяцев назад

    Love your attitude! The misogyny that was all over every single message from that incel absolutely deserves to be called out. I'm not usually here for the drama but I'll admit it, I've got the popcorn. Now for the seamoss! What a labour ... I've definitely turned down the seamoss gel company who've asked me to develop a seamoss soap. I certainly haven't got this kind of patience.

    • @MrsSoapAndClay
      @MrsSoapAndClay  5 месяцев назад

      Yeah I generally let the drama and “haters” take themselves out, but when it crosses a line into full blown harassment? Oh I’m addressing it. 😂 The seamoss was annoying until I got some that actually worked, so it was definitely a test of patience.

  • @Twistedtree7
    @Twistedtree7 5 месяцев назад +1

    Yay! I knew you were going to be blown away by the lather and the feel of these bars! Sea Moss Good! Do it all Jim… not so much! ❤ Sorry you have to deal with this crap. You’re amazing and share so much knowledge with us all. I was disgusted and fully entertained at the same time. You make me laugh!

    • @MrsSoapAndClay
      @MrsSoapAndClay  5 месяцев назад

      Disgust and entertainment - basically describes my journey with sea moss gel. 😂

  • @sarahgirlsoaps
    @sarahgirlsoaps 5 месяцев назад

    Wait, way less drama. Okay. Sounds like they follow their mission statement

  • @Faithsoapandcharity
    @Faithsoapandcharity 5 месяцев назад

    That lip color is AMAZING on you!

  • @ninaroediger-kt2vy
    @ninaroediger-kt2vy 5 месяцев назад

    Very well said, girl!

  • @sarahgirlsoaps
    @sarahgirlsoaps 5 месяцев назад

    I just did a video and mentioned that topic. Not expecting others to give you recipes for free.

  • @khatch62
    @khatch62 5 месяцев назад

    This Karen has learned to laugh this kind of garbage off. I love all of the experiments and have learned so much from you. Love the rebellious attitude.

  • @motherdragon4
    @motherdragon4 2 месяца назад

    That’s nuts. What is wrong with people?

  • @lisawalker7923
    @lisawalker7923 5 месяцев назад

    Honey pay that person No mind and keep doing what you are doing.

  • @vanessarudick7707
    @vanessarudick7707 5 месяцев назад

    What nerve…. I hate rudeness. I know you are outraged, keep your chin up….and thanks for shutting that guy up. Funny that what he did was much worse than anything you could have ever imagined.

  • @traceyparker1407
    @traceyparker1407 5 месяцев назад

    Hey, I made a 30% laurel berry oil semi Aleppo soap. I added several additions like coconut cream, sodium lactate, tussah silk, kaolin clay & castor oil. Decreased "slime effect" & best lather EVER!! Shampoo, shave & all over soap use. My hair has NEVER felt so fabulous!! A must try!! ❤❤❤

    • @MrsSoapAndClay
      @MrsSoapAndClay  5 месяцев назад +1

      That sounds like a dreamy recipe! Definitely a labor of love with that one, every ingredient carefully selected. Nicely done!

    • @traceyparker1407
      @traceyparker1407 5 месяцев назад

      ​@MrsSoapAndClay Hey, I have wondered?? Have you heard the "Aleppo" soap is supposed to cure for over 9 months? I weigh my soaps & when they stop losing weight, I call them good. I have set aside a batch of my semi Aleppo soap for the 9 month cure to see any difference. What do you think about this time frame for curing? 🤔

    • @MrsSoapAndClay
      @MrsSoapAndClay  5 месяцев назад +1

      Yeah, so I started this Aleppo soap testing thing and never finished it on the channel. The Aleppo soap I made sat for 6 months before it stopped losing weight. I did use my standard 2.4x water so I could have cut down some cure time if I had used a water reduction.

  • @monicabrand9857
    @monicabrand9857 5 месяцев назад +2

    1st time commenter here..had to because this was gold. Best line: “I didn’t come to your space under the bridge” 😂😂 So funny! I basically binged watched you this year learning how to make soap … so thanks for all your knowledge! You’re one of my go to soap people.

  • @nudiebarsoapco916
    @nudiebarsoapco916 5 месяцев назад

    Well done!! A perfectly delivered call out! This is my favorite video of yours so far, and I haven't even seen the soap yet!!

  • @peterinbrat
    @peterinbrat 5 месяцев назад

    I've never heard of guys making small batch soap, except for Dr Bronner...

  • @discokaren
    @discokaren 5 месяцев назад +2

    It's absolutely wild to me that you can share SO MUCH valuable information (seriously, I've learned tons about soaping from you!) and Jim can't be bothered to just sit down and watch the video. I'm so glad you didn't give him what he wants. Lazy, entitled Jim doesn't, in fact, do it all.
    Also I'm Karen. Not 'a' Karen 😂😂😂😂

  • @terrymanning9261
    @terrymanning9261 5 месяцев назад +3

    You go girl. You do not have to give anything you do not want to. If someone wants to be a soaper they can research it themself. I have done a lot of research before I made my fist soap and came up with what I wanted. Love your videos.

  • @marlenellewellyn9987
    @marlenellewellyn9987 5 месяцев назад +1

    There are mean people everywhere! I agree in how you handled it, not welcome on your channel or in your life. The world would be a better place without them. Thank you for being you and keeping the same format of your channel. I’ve only been soaping for just over a year and have learned so much from your knowledge.

  • @traceyparker1407
    @traceyparker1407 5 месяцев назад

    By the way, I adore your channel ❤️ ♥️ ❤!! Jim was out of line!! 😢

  • @toddloribroussard6225
    @toddloribroussard6225 2 месяца назад

    @chantel..............he's totally threatened by you!! Your science background, your creativity, your deep dives of WHY it's all a thing with EVERYTHING you give us. Love you oodles and hey Jim "thank you for sharing!!" Chantel is the REAL DEAL! Maybe if you watched her long enough, you'd figure out how to create your own recipe. EVERYTHING she gives all of her sudsers is a GIFT and.....................if you approached appropriately ASKING for help, she'd be the first to give it. Deuce's "Dude"

  • @LisaBurton-d1t
    @LisaBurton-d1t 5 месяцев назад

    I’ve watched you for years and have learned a lot. Recipe development being the most important. Copying a recipe doesn’t teach me anything. Sorry you had to put up with the dude diaper I mean soaper.

  • @javabeanme
    @javabeanme 5 месяцев назад +1

    You are Top Notch! That is all.

  • @peepla7
    @peepla7 5 месяцев назад +1

    None of my videos have my recipes on it. I say it contains ..... But I don't give amounts. Some of my recipes are proprietary.

  • @kathleenhawkins4025
    @kathleenhawkins4025 Месяц назад

    Some guys are just A$$es. I am sorry that you had to experience that. My husband watched your video and he thinks those guys have a problem, yes they probably don't like females and they have other problems as well. I just want to let you know that I have been watching your videos for a few years. You have inspired me to even tile my bathroom and then my kitchen backsplash. I am a soap maker too. I sell to local markets in my area. I attend a few shows a year and I love making good stuff. Your videos just are so real and so inspiring. I don't really enjoy watching men make soap. I enjoy Brambleberry, MO Soap, ER Soap, Holly, Sarah, Ophelia, so many great makers. Oh yea the Thermal Mermaid is amazing too. I have to say that Soap and Clay is one of the best. Keep your head up and just know that you really put this Jim guy in his place.

  • @wendyfarar6808
    @wendyfarar6808 5 месяцев назад

    Ignore the haters. I love your channel and I love the way you teach. I have never expected a video with a written recipe, I mean it's nice but absolutely not expected. I think you did awesome in your responses.

  • @RedPillPlease
    @RedPillPlease 5 месяцев назад +4

    Love the Little Rascals He Man club clip. As a guy and a new sudser, I appreciate the tips I pick up watching you. Thanks and sorry for Jim!

  • @MsAubrey
    @MsAubrey 5 месяцев назад +1

    But what if I don’t want to be productive? 😂

    • @MrsSoapAndClay
      @MrsSoapAndClay  5 месяцев назад +1

      Productivity is so lame. Grab a drink and enjoy Friday.

    • @MsAubrey
      @MsAubrey 5 месяцев назад

      @@MrsSoapAndClayI just had some coffee… it’s already like 9:30. It’s almost time for bed. 😂

  • @nancyblake7425
    @nancyblake7425 5 месяцев назад

    Hahahahahhaahha ❤️❤️❤️ I just can't get enough of your personality!!! From day one of your channel, you are one good thing that came out of covid!!!

  • @jamiegardella1251
    @jamiegardella1251 5 месяцев назад

    Ok so WTH?? if you dont like how pages are run...SCROLL ON.. life is too short to have to deal with such BLATANT disrespect