You MUST Understand This About Gender Roles
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- Опубликовано: 2 май 2024
- In today's day, the biblical and historical perspective on gender roles is often frowned upon, with skeptics and modern-day atheists deeming it as out-of-touch and oppressive. This raises the question, if God made us, and He created us with and for a purpose, doesn't that mean when he establishes gender that it's with the utmost intention? Watch as Ray Comfort, EZ Zwayne, Mark Spence, and Oscar Navarro dive into what God means by "Wives, submit to your husbands, as to the Lord."
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Wondering when you will speak out against house speaker Johnson. Don't be fearful and speak out boldly
Well women also have their own free will- not sure its ALL down to the man 🤔
Ray,
i'm very thankful for your labour and video's of it. It has moved me (a dutch men) to where i am today (from a life without God (not even my parents believe) to sundayschool teacher and searching the scriptures day and night)!!! 🕊️❤️😇
I'm just wondering about some things. I have converted to Christ after years of searching the scriptures. Yet, i do not understand fully what the follow up thing is...
For we are saved of course for a cause. Not to just stay alive until we die. I just don't know completly what it is. I know it has something to do with the kingdom of God. I mean Jesus spoke about it all the time. I just don't understand it and cannot find anybody to explain it to me.
Can you recommend something or somewhere to learn? And is there a reason why you do not speak about the kingdom in your evangelisme?
She is a reflection of this society. By the time men marry them, they are already infected
The word B.I.B.L.E..
Bibical. Gospel Of LORD Christ Jesus.
Instruction's.
Before.
Leaving.
Earth. Egypt!
Blessing's from Australia. Amen.
As someone who has tried both ways, I can confirm beyond a shadow of a doubt that submitting to my husband and allowing him to lead, whilst submitting to Christ simultaneously, has made an amazing difference in my life and marriage. My husband has become a better father (who definitely shows me he loves me as Christ loves the church) he has returned to Christ wholeheartedly, our children are better, we both put eachother first now, it has literally changed our lives in unimaginable ways. God is so good, and His ways are perfect. 🙏😆
I can only repeat your last sentence.
"God is so good and His ways are perfect".
Nothing more beautiful than a feminine woman by who's side a man can be a man. God bless you lady
I 100% agree. I have the same experience and it makes me happy to submit to my husband now.
Good work!
God bless you ma’m 🤍.
Amen brother I remember washing my wife's feet when she got really sick and had seizures and couldn't take care of herself and I was happy to help because of LOVE through all my struggles in life God has shown me how true and faithful he is 🙏💝📖
God bless you for supporting her during her difficult times ❤️🙏🏽🙏🏽
Thank you! The Lord has taught me alot ever since I was saved I'm far from perfect but He is working on me, now that I just had surgery my wife is taking care of me thank God 🙏💝📖😌 I have had a cyst that formed in 2018 and been a thorn in my butt for all these years and hope to heal and be able to be a better man for God and my family 😃
@@SMNR777 amen I pray God continues to heal you and cover you and your family. I pray He keeps his hand over you all and resting in His peace in the name of Jesus! I love hearing about a beautiful marriage like this, may God bless you both truly 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️
I hope that girl understands that she may go to Heaven and that is based off of God’s work and not her own. I’m thankful for Living Waters.
Yes. We go to heaven because of Lord God Jesus' works and our faith in Lord Jesus. Amen! 🙏♥️🙏😊♥️🙏♥️🙏
Pardon me for asking. Where in the Bible does it say we go to heaven??? 😅
@@jpix96 2 Corinthians 5:8 We are confident, I say, and willing rather to be absent from the body, and to be present with the Lord.
@@jpix96 The Bible does not legitimately teach that going to Heaven is the Christian's reward. Christ Himself stated in Jhn 3:13 that NOBODY except Himself was ever going to Heaven, but it doesn't stop adherents of traditional Christianity from misquoting pet passages. Dan. 7, Rev. 1, Rev. 5, Rev. 2, and Matt. 5 all teach that Christians will rule this world with Christ when He returns. Heaven is coming here, not the other way around.
@@theeternalsbeliever1779
This is why i even asked the question. I'm getting quite troubled in my soul. It seems like everyone is completely insane...
And i just don't want to be one of them. Yet, i don't know how to keep beeïng sane all alone. It seems like no one even knows Jesus is way more than just a sacrifice...
And i don't know how to convince anybody of it... Everybody seems to drink some sort of poison. Not just those who never read. Also those who do...
Any tips how to keep on going??? 😅
May God bless this precious young lady.
She was so sweet and kind. Her future husband will be blessed with a great wife, I truly believe.
The problem in a lot of marriages is the man or woman wants to be served instead of serve. They want to be loved, but don't want to love first. Selfishness is the root of most problems in any relationship. How many people who became chronically ill lost all their friends for example? They wanted the love of that person and the help, they wanted to receive, but when push came to shove, they did not want to give love (back).
Love your neighbour as yourself, do that and you will love yourself more because of it and others will love you more too.
I have been thinking of love as unconditional self sacrifice (as that is certainly what Jesus did), so you make such a great point here. If it's unconditional, choose to serve, even if the other hasn't. Focus on what you can do for others and let God take care of everything else. I am not going to pretend I am good at this, but I can confirm from personal experience that God has failed never to have my back when i was focusing on serving others.
@@viperstriker4728 Amen.
Your last line is meant to read "God has never FAILED to have my back".
One of the best ways to understand submission is to understand that the family is not purposeless. Submission feels unimportant on a team thats going nowhere, has no goals, and accomplishes nothing. The husband sets that vision for the home. The primary purpose of the home is to raise children, and to be producers not consumers. The husband may set other goals too.
Very good point. Submission comes when your actually working on something larger than yourself.
😂 do people actually think the word "submit" means "to not answer back"? That's insane
She just hasn't been taught, and was out on the spot with the question. Not insane just wrong.
@@michaellautermilch9185 the problem is that it might mean that alot of people think that. I agree it's not a big deal if we are coachable
Do not laugh at others lack of knowledge.
KJV
MATTHEW 7
1 Judge not, that ye be not judged.
2 For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again.
3 And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother's eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye?
4 Or how wilt thou say to thy brother, Let me pull out the mote out of thine eye; and, behold, a beam is in thine own eye?
5 Thou hypocrite, first cast out the beam out of thine own eye; and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote out of thy brother's eye.
@@edelweiss12764 I won't laugh at you for your ignorance. Most people who are ignorant, are willfully and stubbornly ignorant. It's very rare that they simply innocently just don't know, it's more likely that people change things to what pleases them. Thanks for the reminder to judge cautiously and righteously.
@@johnnyceagleswhat do you think submit means
We were married over 46 years are Christian we are respected each other and we follow the Biblical Regulations for husband and wife and we do our best to express Love to Each Other Love is the answer to all!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤Peace to All ✌💯💖💕
Respect each other? Where in the bible did it say that?
@@joetheboy04 Romans 12:10
“Love each other with genuine affection, and take delight in honoring each other.” This verse encourages us to show genuine affection and honor to one another. Respect is demonstrated through our love and consideration for others, valuing them as valuable individuals created in the image of God.
Men need to be the authority in the household. For me, I was to teach the family through bible study and prayer. My wife made sure I followed through on this, which was awesome!
If your wife needs to make sure your follow through then she has the authority
@@DennisBonich I still hold authority, as I remind her of her duties as well.
@@michaelmadsen-yq5kw your the man, she shouldnt tell you what to do, you should now your own duty as a man, this is what is wrong in today society, a man is like a kid.
@@DennisBonichwow such a huge Ego.. .why do men cries when women tells them what to do??🤡🤡🤡
@@DennisBonich well we need to build each other up and correct one another it doesn’t mean you have authority if you remind someone of something
So true we all mess up because we don't read bible God's word and follow Our Lord Jesus Christ.
To any women offended by this, read the rest of the verse. It mentions Men should treat the church as Jesus does for his bride. Meaning giving his life. Not bad in comparison right? Haha😂
Amen!!
You know what… that is a great point lbvs. I am not the best at submitting to my husband. But this is a good eye opener as to why I should be.
As a woman I know the part for men is even more difficult but the problem is no one harps on the man to love his wife like Christ did for the church by dying for her.
Even my Nigerian with a large population of Christians ,society pays little heed to that…it is only the part of submitting Every one talks about thereby creating a huge imbalance in expectations.
The most ridiculous part is American black men going on and on about submissive women considering that they abhor marriage,are not even Christians to begin with,have kids out of wedlock the most yet want women who are not their wives to submit to them..
@@ngoziokafor5682u right especially the third paragraph. They want the women to submit to them but they have not submitted to God and the woman hasn’t either. They want a blind person to follow them but they themselves are blind too. Smh
@@ngoziokafor5682 Very good point as well.
That passage begins with, "submit to one another," and then goes on to explain how it looks in a family.
Correct, it starts with telling people into the church to submit on to another. Then it goes on to address wife to husband and references back to the submission in the church, which should tell us a lot about what submission actually means in this verse. As the video pointed out, women are not slaves, and we can see that as we obviously aren't suppose to act as slaves to everyone else in the church.
The truth is not always accepted gladly. Thank you for speaking truth!
Will living waters podcast have a video format now? I will pay !
I’m pretty sure they already have a video format because they’ve mentioned it on the podcast but I don’t see it on any of the platforms only audio.
You would waste money on that?
My guess is it'll be on living waters tv
“God is doing a work in our kids. He has called us to lead in the work that HE is doing, not what WE are doing.”
Thank you. I needed to hear that in this crazy teenager and young adult season of parenting. 🙏🏽
1 Peter 3:4 KJV - But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price.
Jesus Is King!
0:25 “The wife has changed on your watch.”
A fine attempt to guilt a husband who has seen his wife become aggressively combative, totally masculinized, and boorishly disrespectful as a result of being influenced by feminism in the workplace (she’s a nurse) and on social media.
When a woman arrives at a place where she is no longer willing to submit to God, it is without question that she will be even more unsubmissive when an added layer of subordination - her husband - is added.
What a lot of Christians fail to realize is that a “modern woman” - who demands supremacy within the family structure - has opted out of God’s design. Offering to “love her back into the fold” only registers as perceived weakness to the feminist mind, whose concept of relationships is in terms as a power dynamic.
This insubordination wasn’t evident when we married 35 years ago. It was acquired. How bad is it now? For example, when I was concerned that her belief system had wandered dangerously close to being “works based”, her reply was simply: “Well, when I stand before God, I’ll handle it”, she said with arms crossed defiantly.
Bottom line: a woman who will not submit to God, will neither submit to a husband.
don't divorce, pray for her continuously until you see some change. God hates divorce.
@@BornAgainCarnivore Agreed. Marriage is treated so cavalierly today, when in fact it’s a Covenant made with God, concerning two people. It cannot be rescinded except by death.
Sadly, our marriage has mirrored the marriage of her parents, to a point: rampant emasculation , the evaporation of any and all forms of intimacy (including kissing) - which she finds distasteful.
All of this I believe was due to her being the victim of sexual abuse by the father. SMH
But the bottom line is that life is short; eternity is long; I choose to maintain an eternal
Perspective and honor my covenant before the Lord
@@Jaco3688find a person that ypu bring out the best in each other and helps you grow and develop as a person. No need for anyone to submit
@@Jaco3688
Why are you going to the internet to speak ill of your wife?
@@Don-Scrima Because you don’t know her.
The wife should want to submit to her husband if her husband is submitting to Christ right right
@@Number-sq5vm Men are responsible for their own disobedience, and women are responsible for their disobedience. God didn't tell us to submit only when we're being loved properly. Follow God, obey Him. There is never a reason to regret that choice.
God bless Living Waters.
God bless her, may she find the peace and freedom in Christ. The Bible is truly His love of His truth left for us. Praise our Lord Jesus Christ 🙌🙏🏽✝️🧎🏽♀️❤️
Excellent video on a very controversial issue!
Thanks for making this video Ray Comfort and Living Waters!
Phenomenal job on the thumbnail you guys! In today’s world, the better that is, the more people will watch and people need truth!
The one who jumps up and confronts the burglar with the gun is the head of the house
Thank you guys, this message is highly need it in our days :)
Wow, what a video!
I pray and hope that the young and old women who are lost and are anxious in their life today may be able to see this video-to help them in their needs, especially to married ones.
Imo submitting goes both ways, marriage is having you're other half, best friend, loved one who wants whats best for you, as you want what's best for them. Its called true love, and not everyone marries into that, hence why theres so much divorce.
I've been reading Martha Peace's book The Excellent Wife. She really explains what a biblical marriage looks like. Can't wait for the T.V. show.
Thank you, I am going to look for that ❤
In one of her videos, martha peace says that her husband and his male friends surrounded her and pressured her into writing a book when she didn't want to write a book. Do you think men should behave like that towards their wife?
In the past, men forbade women from writing books but now they are getting their male friends to surround their wives and pressure them into writing books. Why are women allowed to write books now? Do you think these men should get church disciplined for getting a woman to write a book?
@trss8674 First. It is not a sin for a woman to write a book. Second. In her acknowledgments, her first paragraph reads " I believe that the Lord gave me a desire to write this book. Then he gave me people to help me. One of those people is my husband, Stanford. I had been talking about writing a book for quite a while. He told me to stop talking about, it prioritize my life, and write the book! Since he wasn't asking me to sin, I had to do it. Stanford didn't just tell me to write, it he helped me. He is my computer person and my comforter when I am discouraged. He loves me and believes from the beginning that God wanted me to persevere in this project. He was wonderful throughout the process".
Maybe you misunderstood her or she was joking and you took it seriously.
@@mindonthespirit1543 you're welcome 😊
Where in the Bible does it say it's not a sin for a woman to write a book?
This is my second time looking at this video. I am a single lady who right now is not seeing anyone. It make me see what l did in my past marriage. God bless 🙌
When your married you need to remember 1st Corinthians chp 13 the love chp. Love is kind. Love doesnt keep a record of wrongs. You have to forgive. I've been married soon May 5th of this yr for 24 yrs. If my husband gets grouchy because he feels bad, I pray God convict him and then later he apologizes. Sometiimes he forgets the attitude he had earlier. Love covers a multitude of sins. He covers me with love too.
I really love this channel and all these amazing GODLY men❤ KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK! God help me to speak 🗣️ your truth to all people❤
It's humility...amen.
Really enjoyed this one. A topic widely ignored.
My husband wanted me until I got sick and fat off the meds I had to take to get better, he left me for the neighbor and broke up our family and now our grown children are all messed up. So am I.
Your husband has failed. God will never leave you though.
I’m so sorry. Praying for you.
Let the truth prevail.
It’s very easy to understand. People just don’t want the truth. The man is the head of the house. That’s the way he ordained it.
Thank you living waters! Now i just need to find a women worth marrying that sees marriage this way!
God is going to help you, but remember when you meet her make sure she can keep her character within a extended period of time. Anyone can fake for a little bit. Pray and watch your character.
@@AmberKing-dm1up thank you for the thoughtful response. I will! God bless you and yours!
I get so emotional watching this. I have allowed myself to be non existent tbh with relationships that were wrong and sinful. I took the worldly version of submission to the extreme and allowed myself to be abused. The Lord is having to completely rebuild me it feels like. I'm so grieved in this area. I am married but separated and currently living in a very abusive relationship spiritually & mentally. I haven't been rainbows and sunshine for sure but I took the brunt of everything while trying to seek the Lord in a lukewarm state. My eyes have been opened and I'm turning from all sin and back to the Lord. Very sobering, very humbling. That's true. I want to take care of my children. I don't know anything else. I'm seeking the Lord and I need full restoration in my home. I need a miracle rn.
I want to go home and I want to go home. 😢
Im sorry to tell you but if your husband didnt cheat on you then you are living in adultery, your marriage last until death, you can only be divorced if he is cheating on you but not remarry again:
Mat 5:32 But I say to you that everyone who divorces his wife, except on the ground of sexual immorality, makes her commit adultery, and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery.
@@DennisBonichPaul also said that a believer is to stay with an unbeliever unless they want to go, then let them. Please remember this sister is going through a very hard time and needs love and encouragement from the body of Christ ❤
Praying for you, I know what your feeling and just keep leaning on the Lord. He sees you and He cares very much, He will help you through this time, when you are weak He is strong ❤
Love you, hang in there, the Lord will work it all out for His glory and for your good!
@@jamiemoreno1723 she is living in adultery most likely if he didnt cheat, im not gonna sugarcoat it, enough is enough, we need to stand up for righteousness, or we are done.
❤ I relate myself to brother oscar. I have the right points to say but doesn't feel like listening due to lack of humbleness. On contrary, the way ray & mark... speak makes us to listen. Humbleness penetrates...❤❤❤
This streaming service is going to be epic!
Well said. A quiet and gentle spirit just means don't be contentious. It doesn't mean you can't have any spunk or opinions of your own.
Wow I felt that how your wife telling you she trust your position, I can feel how that would make you instantly think hard about your thoughts
This was good thank You Lord 🙏🏽
Who did the editing? Its pretty good.
Mutual submission is feminist ideology not biblical. The word submission used in bible is a term of submission in military context. It means to “put under” the authority of husband. It’s not reciprocal.
Lovely lady, Godly woman!
The more we listen to God, our father… And love HIM… And do what HE says… Not just hear what HE says… The more we experience, the fullness of joy and the abundant life, and the easy yolk of Jesus Christ, and we enter into HIS rest! Lovely lovely lovely!
GOD made everything and it was good, but humans had made it into the sewer it is now; all I hear is self-preservation and me, me, me, me. What a sad reality we all live in
Where does it say everything was good?
@@MayhemInTheEast Genesis 1:31
For really good teaching on Biblical Patriarchy i recommend Doug Wilson, Joel Webbon, and Michael Foster for starters.
0:32 I finally have a face to the voice....I've watched so many videos of Ray talking to people but this is the first time I've saw him😊
👍❤😇🙏GREAT VIDEO guys 👍
Amen 🙏🏾❤️😀👍🏾love this video, if I knew this before my marriage broke up, maybe we'd still be together.
Love your wives with action's of unconditional love and honor as Jesus loved the church.
The Word of God is powerful and able to convict. It’s His kindness that leads us to repentance.
so good
Thanks for this.
Regarding the Christ-like love as well, I think we had a shadow of that in Hosea, with what he was commanded to do in seeking out and marrying Gomer.
That strikes me as a shadow of the love Christ has for us, and the love that men ought to strive (by God's strength) to emulate.
Awesome
Because of feminism, I tried to force myself into roles I wasn’t comfortable in. I tried to force myself to become a career woman, but I’m just not. Doing this has caused severe depression and even made me suicidal and self-harming. But today, a few years later, now that I read the Bible and have pondered what submission means, it makes so much sense to me! I feel so much less pressure, like I don’t have to try so hard anymore. I prefer to be indoors(I’m an introvert with social anxiety)and the idea of taking care of children and educating them is very appealing to me. The role of a mother isn’t about sitting home and doing nothing, it’s a very intelligent role that not only requires extreme emotional maturity, but education, scheduling, making sure the kids have enough food, etc. It is a very hard job, but I’m determined to fulfill that role in the future!
As a former wife, I totally agree with all of you. I just wanted to add, that most Christian women who are truly loved by their husbands and their needs are met, will do everything within their ability to please their husbands and make them happy, and believe the same with the husbands, that if they are truly loved, appreciated and respected, that they would do everything within their power and means to please their wives. It works both ways. I do agree that after discussions and opposite opinions, that the final decision is to be decided by the husband for the benefit of the home. None of us are perfect and sometimes wives must allow bad decisions to occur and still be supportive and encouraging towards husbands. There is one particular thing with women that men must accept and that is that the decor and furnishings inside the home must be agreeable to the wife in order for her to be happy within the financial budget, of course. Men need to allow their wives the arrangements of furniture, bedding, linens, kitchenware, bath accessories, wall fixtures, drapes, curtains. A wife takes pride in the appearance of her home and without that, she’s not happy. It’s something inside of us that can’t be quashed. Some of us are immaculate, perfectionists, messy, sloppy in the home, so men, choose your brides accordingly to what you prefer unless you can deal with whatever. Also, women absolutely hate picking up after their husbands and kiddos, just as men hate their wives being slobs. Most husbands will find this out very quickly. My husband hated my shoes left by the front door because my shoes were the first thing to come off because of my aching feet. I had to learn to put them away. We both had our things organized and kept in place, so our home was kept clean and everything in proper place. We never had to pick up after each other, accept for my work shoes. It was annoying to him, so I obliged him. Anyway, that’s all I wanted to add. You all sound like very good husbands and very loved and respected by your wives and it’s a great wonderful blessing to have that. God bless you all, your wives, and families, and this ministry. ✝️📖⛪️🙏😇👍
I’m Talking to brother in Christ who goes to a Methodist church with a female pastor. I know it’s not a real church but how do I go about telling my friend he shouldn’t be going to a church run by a women. It goes against God and what the Bible says. How’s this so hard to understand?
Show him 1 Timothy 2 and ask him if he believes the Bible. If he defends going, clarify with a question, "So you don't want to obey God's Word?" Just leave him there
Here's what I think as a man at 41 whose never been married but in the right situation I'd like to be; The bible says that wives are to submit to their husbands, to me that's a big responsibility as it should be. The bible also says (1 Peter 3-7) that I am to honor my wife.
Sidebar: My formal first name is Timothy, which broken down means "Time of Thee", in other words to honor God. If I want to try and live up to my own name, I've got a lot of honoring to do. Good thing I'm saved by Grace and not by my own works!
So the idea that some women will have to submit to me I do not take lightly, I in turn have to honor her. The beauty of a marriage is in it'a design. I can't just get my way all the time, I have to make decisions that benefit my wife, even if those decision make things difficult for me, basically I have to subdue my ego, I can't just go with my opinion like a secular man can.
I personally would enjoy having an exclusive friend and helper in life (that's part of what a spouse is).
Through faith
@@IronSharpensIron127 thanks, I forgot to put that in. ;)
@@mach1205 he is a wonderful God
@@IronSharpensIron127
Psalms 9:1-2 CSB
[1] I will thank the Lord with all my heart; I will declare all your wondrous works. [2] I will rejoice and boast about you; I will sing about your name, Most High.
@@mach1205 I'm sitting here watching hummingbirds. The fool says in his heart there is no God
The way a woman shows her love for her man is by respecting him
Absolutely
Could you please do more videos addressing this? Particularly on how God does not favor men over women. And that He does love them as much as He does men?
This is a huge struggle for many women and there isn't much out there to combat it. 🙏🏻
Womem have gotten a sad image of what it means to submit.
*"Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God.*
*Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.*
*For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.*
*Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.*
*Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;*
*That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word,*
*That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish.*
*So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.*
*For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church:*
*For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones.*
*For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh."*
There is a reason the Lord made it this way.❤
Amen!!!
No way, howd yall get Minecraft Steve on your show?! 2:18
Where did you get "unconditional" love from, between a husband and wife?
I see Ray chose to ignore the claim that dead people are visiting her.
Leave that to later. Focus on sin conviction first.
Ray has 55 years of experience avoiding getting distracted by red herrings and making sure to get to the law and Gospel
Excellent catch i agree there is a time and place @deanpd3402
Familiar spirits
@@AmberKing-dm1up exactly my point yes familiar spirits
I would love to have been a stay at home mom. This world has made that difficult. Every time we turn away from the ways the Lord has set in place for us, we ruin what He wanted for us.
Her humble heart is what Jesus wants of us ❤ just like all of us, may she repent and abide in Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior through the power of the HolySpirit. In Jesus' name. Amen 🕊
Amen
Oh good, im not a quiet spirit😅
Lol 😂
God wants you to be... the Bible (in the book of Proverbs) paints prostitutes/whores as loud boisterous and manly. Read it more fully in Proverbs 5, 6 & 7: "And behold, the woman meets him, dressed as a prostitute, wily of heart. She is LOUD and wayward; her feet do not stay at home; now in the street, now in the market, and at every corner she lies in wait. She seizes him and kisses him, and with bold face she says to him, “I had to offer sacrifices, and today I have paid my vows; so now I have come out to meet you, to seek you eagerly, and I have found you. I have spread my couch with coverings, colored linens from Egyptian linen; I have perfumed my bed with myrrh, aloes, and cinnamon. Come, let us take our fill of love till morning; let us delight ourselves with love. For my husband is not at home; he has gone on a long journey; he took a bag of money with him; at full moon he will come home.”
This is confirmation for me to be a “soon-to-be” wife 🙏🙌🏼
Ma'am, future bride, show this video to your husband and discuss it BEFORE you marry. Tell him this is the kind of marriage you want to, if it is. And get down to "brass tacks" before you make it legal. Be on the same page in your beliefs and wants.
May your marriage be rich and last your lifetimes, joyfully.
@@americanpatriot7247 thank you.✨🙂
@@americanpatriot7247 marriage is not a legal thing, it is a covenant. No paperwork needed
@@IronSharpensIron127a covenant is partly a contract so you are mistaken. It is more than a contract but it is not less
@IronSharpensIron127 Well, if you don't live in society, then you are 100%.
Unfortunately, if you have a "wife and kids" without marriage, then it makes it hard on them to be beneficiaries to anything you would have upon your death or dissolution of your marriage.
If you love someone enough to live with them and say you have made a covenant to be their spouse, what is the disrespect you show by not doing that for your "spouse and kids" from that union??
Also, there has always been witnesses to 'vows' said and actions taken, like dowrys, for marriages from time immemorial.
A man goes 100% of the way, not partially, and his duty and love of them should cause a man to want to protect them in every way. Have a good one, friend.
The young lady reminds me of Esau, not able to find a place of repentance even though she seeks it with tears.
And too prideful to take off on Sunday
Comic, you don’t understand her situation, its possible she works on Sunday to support herself to go to school during the week.
@@cosmictreason2242 1Co 13:1 Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, and have not charity, I am become as sounding brass, or a tinkling cymbal.
@@cosmictreason2242 1Co 13:2 And though I have the gift of prophecy, and understand all mysteries, and all knowledge; and though I have all faith, so that I could remove mountains, and have not charity, I am nothing.
@@KakutoKishi "even a fool is thought wise when he keeps silent"
I've always been single. I don't date and never have. I'm not a "shopper." God knows who my husband is. I'm just waiting and letting Him lead me.
You're not pursuing excellence so that you will become what a good man wants, so he will choose you?
@@cosmictreason2242 what do you mean by that?
@@kendallbeckloff3110 what are you doing to become more attractive to a man
@@cosmictreason2242 I didn’t say anything about becoming more attractive at all. I’m just not that kind of woman who goes around looking for the right guy. That’s what I meant by “shopper.”
@@kendallbeckloff3110 ok well there's a big difference between trying to flirt or show off versus being the best you can be so you get noticed. If you are not doing the latter, buy cat food
As a Bible believing Christian who has been with my wife for 23 years, she has no problem submitting to me as she sees me submitting to Christ daily.
Advice to women, do not follow nor submit to a man who does not first follow and submit to The Lord.
Why would a christain women be with a non christain guy in the first place? She's gotta know it ain't gonna go well.
@@dustygatrell-ru7tg Truth!
I love this! The absolute best place in the world to be is content in the will of the Father. Jesus knew ❤
5:15
“For the living know that they shall die: but the dead know not any thing, neither have they any more a reward; for the memory of them is forgotten.” Ecclesiastes 9:5
Please do not think your loved ones are contacting you from beyond the grave, the Bible is very clear about this.
Ephésiens 5.21
Before the 1900s, in most societies, only boys got an education. Girls were taught how to cook, sew, clean and tend to children.
Knowledge is power.
That's why the woman was subordinate, because she lacked knowledge beyond being a housewife and mother.
With an educated wife, the husband now has an equally knowledgeable Partner. Each one should have the freedom to exercise their own strengths. Like an organization, there are separations of job duties and the one asdigned to do certain jobs is the one with the talent, knowledge and strength best suited to perform the duties of the job.
A marriage, a family, is an organization. It is good for the CEO/President/Principal to have an Advisor/Vice President/Vice Principal.
Loved the first few seconds. I hate the notion that submission means some kind of puritanical decency and religious solemnity. The most truly submissive wives I have ever met are the most vibrant, the funniest, the most affectionate, and the most joyful women I've ever met. Why? Because they find their fulfillment in the reason God put them here. "Man was not made for woman, but woman for man." Like the video says - God's way works.
Amen 🙏🏻❤️
I have met submissive women who were funny, affectionate and somewhat joyful but were not vibrant as they were belittled, berated and ridiculed by their husband -causing a great deal of embarrassment around others and a deep sadness. It seems that many women who see this dynamic get a bad impression of submission.
I have stopped going to women only bible studies because it's depressing listening to the wives in the group talk about how sad they are because of the things their husbands are making them submit to. They are not funny, vibrant and affectionate. They are sad and in pain.
@@mindonthespirit1543 I agree. Many women see husbands mistreat their wives and then teach submission. That kind tyrannical, hypocritical behavior is certainly a turn off.
@@trss8674 Im very sorry to hear that. Unfortunately, that is the result of abusive, tyrannical husbands who are not godly themselves, don't embrace scrutiny from other men, and subsequently don't love their wives like Christ loved the church at all. Men have ceased to be biblical men, which always results in oppressed women. I don't associate with men like that or go to churches where they get away with it, so the wives I know are full of life. Singing, dancing, and laughing are hallmarks of their homes and their fellowship. This is what should be normal, but strong men need to make other men strong before it can.
We both have a say in every major decision. She says her opinion, and share mine, then we come to terms on the what we will do. But ultimately I have the final say as the head. She respect my lead .
Oh my goodness! You said that a woman is the mirror image of her husband? Wow! When I first married my husband 12 years ago, by the way I'm a Christian as of 5 years ago and he is not. So of course I have changed but before I became a Christian a Christian I was very strong mouth and strong-headed I guess, I could do it myself, I could do it myself I don't need anybody's help. The other night my husband told me that he's afraid of me. I was absolutely shocked and hurt by that comment and I said are you serious and he said yes sometimes I'm afraid of you. He knows I would never physically injure him LOL he just triggers me sometimes with ignorant Behavior unless he has started it and then I'm a fighter! It's a strange thing about it is when we were first married for years I was afraid of him because of his anger issues! So I agree with your statement can I change my husband's watch and then he looks at me he's looking at himself. So we are both afraid of each other that's just stupid and I told him we will be working on that and he agrees!
Ecclesiastes 7:26
2 Chronicles 12:14
No husband can lead a family unless his family knows how to follow. No husband is worthy enough to be the leader. A man can only lead by faith, not by right. No man loves his wife enough that he will deserve to be followed. Noah’s wife was an amazing woman.
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They will now turn it into something else and say that they are supposed to submit to one another, as they probably believe there is no meaning of submit, as both must submit, equal in their mind.
Yes, we are to submit to one another, yet we are not equal in submission in the Lord. In the Lord is key, why? Because everyone under God is given the part He wills and He wills that the man is the Head of the woman, and if married, in the home head of the wife, but if you do not submit to His will then you are not in Jesus, under Jesus but put yourself beside Him and must be humbled.
Just as in the beginning, when God cast Adam and Eve out of His Rest, the Garden.
*Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives;*
*While they behold your chaste conversation coupled with fear.*
*Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel;*
*But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price.*
❤ That last part is my favorite in this regard.
This is the most important discussion of this current time
My husband takes good care of things but is also a narcissist and does embarrassing things. Weird double minded situation
The feminist movement was successful in destroying the concept of submission. Regarding the Scripture it also succeeded in making 1 Corinthians 11:1-16 obsolete-the movement hated the head covering symbolism of submission. 😢 I would love to see the church go contrary to culture and bring the head covering back! If God’s word says it, that should settle it.
I love you guys but I did notice you left out first Peter 3:7 mentioning that the woman is the weaker vessel.... and bottom line is we're built different for different roles and it's okay to say submission is obedience
An exhortation by Peter also addresses that “Husbands, in the same way, treat your wives with consideration as a delicate (weak) vessel, and with honor as fellow heirs of the gracious gift of life, so that your prayers will not be hindered.“
1 Peter 3:7
as a Christian.
I've had a lot of nihilistic feelings and thinking for a long time, and it's worse because i'm Autistic. And since I'm autistic, the way my life has been. The way my life has been.
For most of my short life. Has almost felt like a Jail And even when I had My job. I just always felt like my life was meaningless, and it was doing nothing that my life.
He's just wasting away, achieving nothing, being nothing, and being stuck where I live.
I often feel Julius, Caesar. Because he When he read about the conquest of alexander the great He cried Because everything he had done in life was nothing compared alexander and his short life Alexander did something to get himself remembered forever And caesar realized At that point in his life. He would be forgotten and never remembered. And from those feelings gave birth for Caesar's desire for conquest. And to be like alexander
I have often Pleaded with God for years. Or just strictly told him I hate my life But I wish I could live in the past. Live a different life in be like that was great, conquerors and generals and warriors of the past.
I'm a history nerd and I love conquest I could fit more into the past Then I would in the modern world
I am not ignorant what I say because I'm a historynerd and I know how people lived I've I know more about history than people know about their own languages.
I have just wanted a life that had more meaning and had more things for me to do And and not have a life that turns to dust
I just know I could have done more if I was given a chance In a different Point in history I just know There were so many lives I could have lived.
( And please for everything holy Do don't say I need to accept Jesus into my heart or become born again. It gets so tiring Hearing that
I know my salvation Thank you very much)
God puts us here for a purpose, and ultimately I don't know that we will see our purpose until we go back to Him and see it unfold. But I figure you know that, so I won't go on about it.
Did you know that Alexander fulfilled the second half of the prophecy in Ezekiel 26 starting in verse 7, that Nebuchadnezzar would start by attacking the mainland city, and that "many nations" will come up against the city, as the ocean brings forth its waves? Nebuchadnezzar rides in the streets of the mainland city, but doesn't get anything for spoil because the people of Tyre withdrew to their island fortress. They used the same tactic against Alexander, but he threw the old mainland city which Nebuchadnezzar has destroyed three hundred years previously, into the water and built a temporary causeway for his army to mount a siege against their fortified island fortress, and Alexander unknowingly fulfilled in detail the prophecy in Ezekiel that says, "She shall be in the midst of the sea a place for the spreading of nets, for I have spoken, declares the Lord God."
You love history; so do I! Most people don't know how and when Bible prophecy was fulfilled in history, you and I might just be created with a love of history to share these details that we pick up with people who will benefit from them and grow in their faith.
I don't know for certain, only time and communion with God will let you know for certain the plans that He has for you, but I know that they are good.
This is my observation. You are very self-centered and focused. You are dissatisfied and ungrateful for the blessing God has provided for you. You see your desire for wanting to be great and important as a strength, but it is your weakness. It's a very Worldly mindset. A Biblical mindset is he that wants to be great among the believers let him be the least and serve others. I have wanted my own greatness. Through the years, I have gotten where I love serving others in my life. I don't always but I get it now.
Ask God to give you meaning in your life. Ask Him to open up His word to you
Most things in my life are in blessings to have Because they truly aren't. Because If you look at the modern world and all its things. You have to ask if it's so great.Why are most people depressed My generation generation z is doomed Because of the sins of Past generations
All the things in this modern life I do not want that is way I'm thinking about joining the military and then becoming a mercenary and joining a Mercenary company That life is more of a thrill
And as some people say it makes a man out of you Not mentioned your strong powerful And you can learn to Lead and survive When most people in this world can't live without their stuff
And someone like me that knows geopolitics.I know a lot of places in this world Are not going to be peaceful much longer
I just wanted to say that I can relate somewhat to your feelings. I'm a longtime Christian. Also on the spectrum. Also battling feelings of meaningless and wondering if I would have been better situated in a different place in the historical timeline.
Do you suffer from depression because you sound like it. I'm getting help from a counselor and there is no shame in talking to someone about your thoughts.
Alexander the Great lived a notable life but it's important to maintain an eternal perspective. It's true that he conquered much of the known world, but he also lived before the gospel of Christ was fulfilled so he missed out on hearing the greatest story that would ever be told. A person can have the most meaningful and successful life on secular terms and miss the mark in God's eyes. At the end of the day what matters is that we are living to please God.
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God created Eve to be Adam's helper. Interestingly, that word, helper, is also used to describe God.
we Obey the bible, thats whats Christians do, we dont need to sit and explain to justify yourself to those rebellious types
A great discussion... Guys!!! Very insightful and sensitive in the right, Christ-like way. Bravo!! I hope you include Ephesians 5:20, where Paul wrote "Submit to one another out oof reverence to Christ......." Here's my own slant or translation and perspective on that verse: We as husbands, and wives..... and even as single adults who are hoping to be successfully married some day, which is to Spiritually Discern who has the most Godly idea or response to whatever situation or problem is at hand and which needs to be solved. If the man appears to have the most Godly idea or response.... then it's up to both the husband and wife, or even the dating couple on a trajectory towards marriage, to go with that Godly solution. Equally, if it appears that the wife or woman's idea or response is closer to and a more Godly solution and frame of reference, then both people should ask The Holy Spirit to go with the woman's idea or response. It's a delicate "Dance" but if approached with Jesus-like love and humility and mature discernment, I believe that the best ideas and responses will rise to the surface and be recognized by both people. In a family setting, where growing and mature children are involved, they too can begin discerning God and Christ's and The Holy spirit's solution and attitude, but to live and practice this Godly "Mind and Heart-set," does require patience and unconditional love. 1 Corinthians 13:1-13 offers a tremendous "template" which can be gently and wisely applied in these situations. It isn't easy, but the required effort is definitely worthwhile..... Cheers, Ted Schempp, Nashville
What is the name of this podcast episode? I can’t find it on the living waters podcast on apple podcasts.
I believe it's episode #133.