I was made redundant 10 years ago and felt the anxiety of loss off income and future. I took 2 months off and renovated the home. I was burnt out and the universe made me take time off. A chance encounter led to contract work 9-3 5 days a week.worked solidly ever since. When one door closes another opens.
I have a feeling I'll be laid off or pressured to leave my job early next year due to chronic health issues. I just bought a campervan after dreaming about it for 8+ years. If that happens, I'm taking a month to rest, get out into nature, and post to my RUclips channel. That's my gift to myself - self-care and time to do what I really want to do before starting to look for 100% remote work to keep paying the bills. I love that you're talking about the shift in your thinking and how you're going to focus on doing something you love in this time you've been gifted!
Sorry to hear that you're having health issues. Hope things get better for you in 2025 and good luck for your YT channel! 🙌 I'm definitely taking this time to focus on my channel 😃
@hi.its.catherine Hi Catherine, just wow! Thank you so much for your support and kind generosity! It's a wonderful surprise and I truly appreciate you! ♥♥
I watched a video with Dr Wayne Dyer who was doing a seminar, when one person said they had been laid off from their job. Wayne said "wonderful" The person asked how do you mean wonderful? Now you have the opportunity to do something you've always wanted to do. NOW is the time! If we look upon what happens with anger and despair, we will attract more stuff to be angry with and despair about! So yes, attracting what you want may come in a way you never expected. But you are a positive person Shirley. Now you have the time you wished for to do the thing you love. Do what you Love. Love what you do.
@@MsBlueRyans Have you watched his film called "The Shift" It's a very simple film that shows how we get caught up in life, and how we can learn to see things differently. One of his quotes i love is " When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change". He had a way of putting things that we could all understand.
You seem like a natural with your videos. I'm 54 also. Your videos are positive and encouraging. Sharing experiences is healthy for you and others going through the same don't feel isolated. When a window closes, a door opens.
I'm so sorry, I hope you're kids can help you manage finances as I did to my mom, she was alone with two of us daughters...when I hear someone loses job it's like the baddest news I can hear, honestly.. Bless you and hope you will find better job soon
I find that this "dark" time of year can be perfect for internal "soul" work. Less multi-tasking and distraction can give more time for concentrated focus, and I find that the tone of rest of the year (the doing time) is often set by my thoughts and intentional work now. As I grow older (I'm your age and alone as well), I find that much of this work is about figuring out what ways of thinking and being no longer serve me, and working out the steps that I need to take to make changes that are more sustainable and meaningful for me now. I wish you the best for this window of time that the universe has given you!
@capucinemaneckjee5276 this season is definitely a time for soul work and reflection. Even more so for this coming year. Thank you for your support. Wishing you the very best for 2025! ♥
You probably hear this alot, but I am a believer that things happen for a reason. My layoff happened just as my in-law’s health began to decline, so I had the time to help my husband with his parents. Then I started a RUclips channel as a creative outlet. I know you will make the most of this time and your channel will grow.
@AgingOnYourTerms through experience, I agree that things happen for a reason. Your in laws were very lucky to have you help look after them 😍 Tbh I'm really enjoying making the most of this time and focusing on this channel.
I’m amazed at your ability to embrace this. I’ve just listened to your video. Was away for awhile this year end and new year. Wishing you well and a very Blessed New Year. We are absolutely strong mothers even in our 50s 💚 - Nikki
Hi Nikki. I don't really have much choice, but it's an opportunity to work on my channel ☺ I hope you enjoyed your time away. Wishing you a blessed 2025 too 💜
ikr, I got laid off at june, ever since then.I implemented a strict budgeting strategy to track expenses and set clear limits, while also focusing on a smart investment approach. In just six months, my investments grew by over $80,000, boosting my savings and financial confidence. This combined strategy has set me on track to achieve my long-term financial goals.
ikr, I got laid off at june, ever since then.I implemented a strict budgeting strategy to track expenses and set clear limits, while also focusing on a smart investment approach. In just six months, my investments grew by over $80,000, boosting my savings and financial confidence. This combined strategy has set me on track to achieve my long-term financial goals.
ikr, I got laid off at june, ever since then.I implemented a strict budgeting strategy to track expenses and set clear limits, while also focusing on a smart investment approach. In just six months, my investments grew by over $80,000, boosting my savings and financial confidence. This combined strategy has set me on track to achieve my long-term financial goals.
When I started working again I set up a bonus saving account. Got it to 3 months wage then I automatically put in the minimum $100/month to keep the bonus interest. This became my emergency only fund. I no longer stress about unexpected bills ie washing machine failing, emergency car repair bill, or last March a replacement second hand car. It now sits at just under 5 months wage. Being 57 in January , if I get made redundant, I know I have a back up.
Uugh, Shirley! I'm sorry to hear about your job but I'm so impressed with your outlook on life and how you plan on working around and through your current situation. Isn't it crazy how sometimes life has to hit us with curveballs in order to motivate us to change? Thank you for sharing this awesome video. You are touching more people than you know. Positive vibes and cheers for a successful, happy, healthy, and abundant new year! I'm looking forward to seeing your accomplishments!
Thank you so much for your support. Life definitely knows how to throw curve balls, but I've also learnt that challenging times are opportunities for growth. Thank you so much for your positive vibes. Wishing you a happy, healthy and prosperous new year too! ♥
I look forward to your videos. Seeing this time as an opportunity and start creating is such an awesome mindset! I love that you work out, get rid of that stress! You got this! Much love ❤
Wow, what an exciting opportunity! Exercising was the perfect way to release the trauma of the shocking news. No wonder you have such a healthy mindset now and you’re able to do what needs to be done. I look forward to more videos. I’m still not feeling great but I turned on the camera and did my first Live while doing food prep today. I’m learning little by little. 😅
@wildeevolution thank you for your support ☺ I've definitely learnt how to manage stress over the years. Well done for doing a live when you're not feeling 100%! I watched one of your shorts yesterday (the one with the chicken/egg) and you've definitely got lots to share! 😍
Sending hugs and wishes for a successful 2025 on yoube. We often create by default don't we? My creating got me housebound in pain for the past two years after getting totally fed up with those around me needing to visit, be looked after, have me visit, join in social events (I am such an introvert abd it all drains me). So, my big challenge? Well, I can't entertain, feed, look after, go to events or celebrations and even visits are really hard because of the pain. I am working through letting that 'default mode' get negated. I think it is my cowardly self who just finds it easier to run away rather than keep explaining all the time.
Don't we just! I'm so sorry to hear about the challenges you're going through too. Thank you for your support and I hope things look up for you too. Wishing you a happy, healthy and prosperous 2025! 💜
At 58 year of age I also realized that I need to create a plan for my future. I am a public school teacher in the U.S. I have one more year after this before I can retire with a small pension. I have always wanted to live in and teach in another country and am trying to budget my money so I can make this transition in 2026. I realize I need to be pro active re; my health and my budget. I am lucky to have a job with good insurance and I do enjoy my students. I need to make changes and I have finally realized that I can. I enjoy your videos very much!
Keep getting outdoors and walking/hiking and being in the sun (yes, i realize England isn't necessarily known for having a lot of sunny days) 😊 Keep moving forward. You're doing great
I tend to think that it is more just a coincidence than anything more , I hope that you soon get back to work or maybe find something to bring some money in , I hope you have a happy and prosperous new year .
Hello Shirley I’m so sorry to hear your news but at least you have the mindset to keep going forward was it just you who was laid off or was there others as well’ I’m a great believer when one door closes another door opens perhaps something better is waiting for you and if you were due time off and this caused you the issue you could speak to Citazin advise or Acas you can find their number on google they are both free advice thank you for sharing your video God bless you 🕊️🙏🏻🌻
Thank you for your support. There were three of us and thankfully it's only temporary. But a couple of months wage loss is a lot, specially at this time of year.
this is the first video i have seen from you, it came up on my recommended. I admire you and trust that you will do wonderful things. sending all my very best wishes, and I will subscribe : )
Gosh, that was a bit of a blow for you. But, it does seem that now you’ve got your head around it, you can see the opportunities before you. I have no doubt you’ll succeed ! The universe conspires in all sorts of ways to get us out of our comfort zone. Wishing you all the best lovely. Diane x
@faery_realm Hi Diane, thank you for your support. I'm definitely using this time wisely. How are you, hope you're well and that you've had a good Christmas ♥
@ I hope that the time you have now will bring all that you need to grow your channel. I hope you do the same with mine next year. I’m doing a lot better and looking forward to 2025 and moving back to where my family and friends are. Happy New Year lovely xxxx
@ I didn’t like my job and because it was salary I felt like I was barely making enough money. I kept praying for more money and more opportunities and I got laid off on 12/6. I knew it was my own manifestation but not being clear with the universe, lol. Believe it or not I’m less stressed and able to plan for a better future.
I am so sorry. I really despise capitalism. I love how you are powering through. I just found your channel. Best wishes for managing this hard time. Looking forward to seeing more here.
@@SoulCareOver50 Thanks for sending me a message and I hope you will have a talk with me once again Happy New Year to You in Jesus Name sign The Evangelist Drummerman David Lee Penn
sorry - - - but have you got a plan for a permanent layoff ? - - if you are this stressed with 1 month off - - what if the job lays you off permanently? this happens to so many people - - - have you considered making a plan for that sort of situation? oppp.... just realized you are a medical professional - - - likely never a permanent layoff profession... kudos to you for selecting a great secure profession !!!!
I was made redundant 10 years ago and felt the anxiety of loss off income and future. I took 2 months off and renovated the home. I was burnt out and the universe made me take time off. A chance encounter led to contract work 9-3 5 days a week.worked solidly ever since. When one door closes another opens.
@ChilliPepper-n2b The universe has definitely got a way of making us do things we NEED to do. Thank you for sharing 😍
I hope you enjoy this video where I share how I'm making used of the time since being laid-off at Christmas.
I have a feeling I'll be laid off or pressured to leave my job early next year due to chronic health issues. I just bought a campervan after dreaming about it for 8+ years. If that happens, I'm taking a month to rest, get out into nature, and post to my RUclips channel. That's my gift to myself - self-care and time to do what I really want to do before starting to look for 100% remote work to keep paying the bills. I love that you're talking about the shift in your thinking and how you're going to focus on doing something you love in this time you've been gifted!
Sorry to hear that you're having health issues. Hope things get better for you in 2025 and good luck for your YT channel! 🙌 I'm definitely taking this time to focus on my channel 😃
Your perspective in this is really uplifting. Good luck!
@hi.its.catherine Hi Catherine, just wow! Thank you so much for your support and kind generosity! It's a wonderful surprise and I truly appreciate you! ♥♥
I watched a video with Dr Wayne Dyer who was doing a seminar, when one person said they had been laid off from their job. Wayne said "wonderful" The person asked how do you mean wonderful? Now you have the opportunity to do something you've always wanted to do. NOW is the time! If we look upon what happens with anger and despair, we will attract more stuff to be angry with and despair about! So yes, attracting what you want may come in a way you never expected. But you are a positive person Shirley. Now you have the time you wished for to do the thing you love. Do what you Love. Love what you do.
love your comment about Dr Wayne Dyer..I miss his presence from this world.
@@MsBlueRyans Have you watched his film called "The Shift" It's a very simple film that shows how we get caught up in life, and how we can learn to see things differently. One of his quotes i love is " When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change". He had a way of putting things that we could all understand.
@@robertdavies9594 ..yep watched it way back in 2009. I have been a fan of his since his first book, Your erroneous zones.
Loved that reminder that no one is coming to you. You have to save yourself. Thank you!
Thank you. I've learnt we can only depend on ourselves 😍
You seem like a natural with your videos. I'm 54 also. Your videos are positive and encouraging. Sharing experiences is healthy for you and others going through the same don't feel isolated. When a window closes, a door opens.
Thanks!
Thank you so much for your support and kind generosity. Wishing you a happy, healthy and prosperous New Year! ♥
“Only you can make the changes in your life” is such a powerful statement. Thank you for sharing and please know you are worth all the effort. 🙏🏽👏🏽💯
So sorry to hear about this. These are trying times already. Best of luck to this channel!
Thank you. It was definitely not great news, but it's given me time to focus on this channel ☺
I'm so sorry, I hope you're kids can help you manage finances as I did to my mom, she was alone with two of us daughters...when I hear someone loses job it's like the baddest news I can hear, honestly.. Bless you and hope you will find better job soon
Thank you for your kind words. Your mum is very lucky to your support. We just have to cope as best we can for now 💜
You got this Shirley! Try not to stress and use this time to make videos, try to enjoy yourself!! 🥰❤🌸
Hi Dana, thank you. I'm definitely using this time to make videos. Hope you had a good Christmas and wishing you the very best for 2025! 🤗♥
One step at a time. Take care❣️
I find that this "dark" time of year can be perfect for internal "soul" work. Less multi-tasking and distraction can give more time for concentrated focus, and I find that the tone of rest of the year (the doing time) is often set by my thoughts and intentional work now. As I grow older (I'm your age and alone as well), I find that much of this work is about figuring out what ways of thinking and being no longer serve me, and working out the steps that I need to take to make changes that are more sustainable and meaningful for me now. I wish you the best for this window of time that the universe has given you!
@capucinemaneckjee5276 this season is definitely a time for soul work and reflection. Even more so for this coming year. Thank you for your support. Wishing you the very best for 2025! ♥
You probably hear this alot, but I am a believer that things happen for a reason.
My layoff happened just as my in-law’s health began to decline, so I had the time to help my husband with his parents. Then I started a RUclips channel as a creative outlet.
I know you will make the most of this time and your channel will grow.
@AgingOnYourTerms through experience, I agree that things happen for a reason. Your in laws were very lucky to have you help look after them 😍 Tbh I'm really enjoying making the most of this time and focusing on this channel.
I’m amazed at your ability to embrace this. I’ve just listened to your video. Was away for awhile this year end and new year. Wishing you well and a very Blessed New Year. We are absolutely strong mothers even in our 50s 💚 - Nikki
Hi Nikki. I don't really have much choice, but it's an opportunity to work on my channel ☺ I hope you enjoyed your time away. Wishing you a blessed 2025 too 💜
Thanks
Thank you so much for your support and generosity. I truly appreciate you 😍
Congratulations , you mentioned that you havn’t been having time off. The universe has decided for you . New opportunities will open up for you. Hugs
Thank you. Hugs back to you 🤗💜
My heart is with you.
Everything will be ok.
9-5 is a complete waste of time!
ikr, I got laid off at june, ever since then.I implemented a strict budgeting strategy to track expenses and set clear limits, while also focusing on a smart investment approach. In just six months, my investments grew by over $80,000, boosting my savings and financial confidence. This combined strategy has set me on track to achieve my long-term financial goals.
ikr, I got laid off at june, ever since then.I implemented a strict budgeting strategy to track expenses and set clear limits, while also focusing on a smart investment approach. In just six months, my investments grew by over $80,000, boosting my savings and financial confidence. This combined strategy has set me on track to achieve my long-term financial goals.
@Florencewalter-o4s Totally!
ikr, I got laid off at june, ever since then.I implemented a strict budgeting strategy to track expenses and set clear limits, while also focusing on a smart investment approach. In just six months, my investments grew by over $80,000, boosting my savings and financial confidence. This combined strategy has set me on track to achieve my long-term financial goals.
So done with 9-5, its Depressing! How did you manage to save up so much so quickly?
It will get better for all of us. I have faith. A change is gonna come. Stay strong and safe.
You look really great and confident. That's encouraging.😃
thank you for sharing. hang in there. we're all rooting for you.
Thank you for your support 😍
Thank you for this video. You give me hope and I wish you success with your channel and with your life 🎉
When I started working again I set up a bonus saving account. Got it to 3 months wage then I automatically put in the minimum $100/month to keep the bonus interest. This became my emergency only fund. I no longer stress about unexpected bills ie washing machine failing, emergency car repair bill, or last March a replacement second hand car. It now sits at just under 5 months wage. Being 57 in January , if I get made redundant, I know I have a back up.
That's amazing! 😍 I definitely need to start something similar!
Uugh, Shirley! I'm sorry to hear about your job but I'm so impressed with your outlook on life and how you plan on working around and through your current situation. Isn't it crazy how sometimes life has to hit us with curveballs in order to motivate us to change? Thank you for sharing this awesome video. You are touching more people than you know. Positive vibes and cheers for a successful, happy, healthy, and abundant new year! I'm looking forward to seeing your accomplishments!
Thank you so much for your support. Life definitely knows how to throw curve balls, but I've also learnt that challenging times are opportunities for growth. Thank you so much for your positive vibes. Wishing you a happy, healthy and prosperous new year too! ♥
@SoulCareOver50 Thank you! I'm going to try to follow your lead. I love your perspective!
I look forward to your videos. Seeing this time as an opportunity and start creating is such an awesome mindset! I love that you work out, get rid of that stress! You got this! Much love ❤
Wow, what an exciting opportunity! Exercising was the perfect way to release the trauma of the shocking news. No wonder you have such a healthy mindset now and you’re able to do what needs to be done. I look forward to more videos.
I’m still not feeling great but I turned on the camera and did my first Live while doing food prep today. I’m learning little by little. 😅
@wildeevolution thank you for your support ☺ I've definitely learnt how to manage stress over the years.
Well done for doing a live when you're not feeling 100%! I watched one of your shorts yesterday (the one with the chicken/egg) and you've definitely got lots to share! 😍
Sending hugs and wishes for a successful 2025 on yoube.
We often create by default don't we? My creating got me housebound in pain for the past two years after getting totally fed up with those around me needing to visit, be looked after, have me visit, join in social events (I am such an introvert abd it all drains me). So, my big challenge? Well, I can't entertain, feed, look after, go to events or celebrations and even visits are really hard because of the pain. I am working through letting that 'default mode' get negated. I think it is my cowardly self who just finds it easier to run away rather than keep explaining all the time.
Don't we just! I'm so sorry to hear about the challenges you're going through too. Thank you for your support and I hope things look up for you too. Wishing you a happy, healthy and prosperous 2025! 💜
@@SoulCareOver50 thank you. We can do this xxx
RUclips sent up this video to me. New subscriber to support your good work. Take care. Hope all goes well on your RUclipsr creator journey.
At 58 year of age I also realized that I need to create a plan for my future. I am a public school teacher in the U.S. I have one more year after this before I can retire with a small pension. I have always wanted to live in and teach in another country and am trying to budget my money so I can make this transition in 2026. I realize I need to be pro active re; my health and my budget. I am lucky to have a job with good insurance and I do enjoy my students. I need to make changes and I have finally realized that I can. I enjoy your videos very much!
Anne, i'd say my wish for you is 100% good health FRONT AND CENTER . You'll be aight , you are making good plans. what subject are you teaching.
What ever you set your mind to do ,you will do it .cheering you on 😊
Now ❤. Thank you for the message I NEEDED to hear.
You're welcome, I'm glad it helps you in some way 💜
Keep getting outdoors and walking/hiking and being in the sun (yes, i realize England isn't necessarily known for having a lot of sunny days) 😊
Keep moving forward.
You're doing great
@johncee8084 Thank you. This channel and staying fit/healthy is my motivation to move forward ☺
You are so lovely! Keep going, you’re on the right path. I wish you an amazing 2025 🎉😊
Lucky for you the RUclips algorithm is being generous to these type of POV videos in 2025. Good luck!
Thank you ☺ I think there's a trend towards 'authenticity' on YT at the moment.
I tend to think that it is more just a coincidence than anything more , I hope that you soon get back to work or maybe find something to bring some money in , I hope you have a happy and prosperous new year .
You've got this! Thank you for this content, and for sharing your story so authentically & vulnerably. 👏
Welcome to your new beginning!!! ❤
Thank you 😍
Hello Shirley I’m so sorry to hear your news but at least you have the mindset to keep going forward was it just you who was laid off or was there others as well’ I’m a great believer when one door closes another door opens perhaps something better is waiting for you and if you were due time off and this caused you the issue you could speak to Citazin advise or Acas you can find their number on google they are both free advice thank you for sharing your video God bless you 🕊️🙏🏻🌻
Thank you for your support. There were three of us and thankfully it's only temporary. But a couple of months wage loss is a lot, specially at this time of year.
@ it sure is Shirley
this is the first video i have seen from you, it came up on my recommended. I admire you and trust that you will do wonderful things. sending all my very best wishes, and I will subscribe : )
@lucydoran2470 thank you for watching and subscribing, I appreciate your support 💜
Onward to getting to be better creators in the New Year ❤
Yes indeed! 🙌😍
Gosh, that was a bit of a blow for you. But, it does seem that now you’ve got your head around it, you can see the opportunities before you. I have no doubt you’ll succeed ! The universe conspires in all sorts of ways to get us out of our comfort zone. Wishing you all the best lovely. Diane x
@faery_realm Hi Diane, thank you for your support. I'm definitely using this time wisely. How are you, hope you're well and that you've had a good Christmas ♥
@ I hope that the time you have now will bring all that you need to grow your channel. I hope you do the same with mine next year. I’m doing a lot better and looking forward to 2025 and moving back to where my family and friends are. Happy New Year lovely xxxx
❤ sending you positive energy ✨️
Thank you so much! ♥
Omgoodness!!! 😮 oh my friend 💕
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@ I watched the entire video. Such big shifts. I believe in you ❤️
@@ElleRenoCoaching thank you for watching and for your support ❤
@ ❤️💕
The universe granted my wish too!!
what?
@LibraLeo325 really, what did the universe grant you?
@ I didn’t like my job and because it was salary I felt like I was barely making enough money. I kept praying for more money and more opportunities and I got laid off on 12/6. I knew it was my own manifestation but not being clear with the universe, lol. Believe it or not I’m less stressed and able to plan for a better future.
Hugs from Virginia. ☺
Thank you, hugs back to you 🤗💜
I am so sorry. I really despise capitalism. I love how you are powering through. I just found your channel. Best wishes for managing this hard time. Looking forward to seeing more here.
I hope your 2025 is amazing.
Thank you so much. Wishing you the best for 2025 too! 💜
This happened to me just these last couple days. I wanted a few more days off. So it happened, but only because I got sick!
Get well soon! 💜
@ Thank you!
Someone said to me: "God works in mysterious ways!" Me: "Oh dear, I hope it's not too mysterious!"
I know right! 😂
@@SoulCareOver50 😄
I always thought Because what you say
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@@SoulCareOver50 Thanks for sending me a message and I hope you will have a talk with me once again Happy New Year to You in Jesus Name sign The Evangelist Drummerman David Lee Penn
You inspired me 👍😀
Glad to hear it! ☺
super cute beanie ❤
Thank you, I love it too! 😍
I understand, but I was sacked after a week!
Thank you! Wishing you the best for 2025! 💜
You can do this 💪 I know you can do this and so does the Universe 💪💪 Just be your brilliant self! ❤
Thank you so much! ♥
the universe?
sorry - - - but have you got a plan for a permanent layoff ? - - if you are this stressed with 1 month off - - what if the job lays you off permanently?
this happens to so many people - - - have you considered making a plan for that sort of situation?
oppp.... just realized you are a medical professional - - - likely never a permanent layoff profession... kudos to you for selecting a great secure profession !!!!
You don't unemployment for layoff? That's usually the case
You are eligible to collect unemployment if unemployed due to a layoff not performance based. 🤓
@BiKEnBiTES I work part-time
you are so beautiful wow
Thank you ☺
You are so lovely! Keep going, you’re on the right path. I wish you an amazing 2025 🎉😊