How Bluey Shows the Fear of Losing Your Parents Perfectly (Grandad Deep Dive)
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Heya Buddies, today we will be reviewing and analyzing the Bluey Episode Grandad and how the studio perfectly showcases the fear of losing your parents. We will be also exploring the themes desperation, death and the importance of taking care of your health. Bluey season 3 Disney Plus Review analysis
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00:00 Introduction
03:55 Refusing to Take Care of Yourself
05:50 Creator's Inspiration & Loss
06:40 How to Watch Australian Only Bluey Episodes
07:47 Chilli's Special Connection with Grandad
10:08 Chilli's Desperation & Hardships
12:20 The Perfect Ending
14:03 Easter Eggs
16:36 The Beautiful Purpose of the Episode 
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This is an episode that with each passing year gets more and more personal for me due to my own father so it felt really special to just express some feelings that I’ve been holding in for a bit. I was surprised to learn how many special connections this episode has to the creators when doing research, it makes the episode feel even more special than it already is and I hope you buddies enjoyed 💙
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Grandad
Chilly dad
I'll check this out.
The part of this episode that makes me saddest, is when my parents are gone my life will either be exactly the same as it's been for decades, or significantly improved through an abuser being gone. I love shows like Bluey and Bob's Burgers because the family truly love each other.
Unfortunately, I understand this feeling a lot. When my dad died my life improved significantly… wish it hadn’t had to be that way, but you learn to start to accept it. I hope you’re well enough, pal.
Same tbh, it´s going to be a long time for me before that happens but, the idea, after everything that´s happened, i love them and they love me, but they messed up in such ways that i just can´t figure out how to react or handle such a thing, should i be happy, should i be sad, will i feel free?, it´s such an alien concept.
Sorry to butt in this was just eating up at me as i watched this and i guess your comment just gave me a relatable outlet.
I still have both my parents today and the first time I watched Grandad, my heart sunk when Chilli said, "I still need him." I almost cried, because we never know when that day comes, and it is inevitable. It's hard to accept it, but we need to. One step at a time...
Chilly is a great mom
I remember hearing a Bastardised version of a quote from a comedian... something to the, "One is Never an Adult until both figures are gone."
I don't know you... but I exist for any possible inquiries of advice or help
Bro it made me actually cry
One small but really potent easter egg is the last few notes of the banjo at the end of the episode, which are the last notes of "You are my sunshine", but are missing a few notes because that song is still under copyright, but the words that line up with those notes are "don't take my sunshine away," which is Chilli's entire motivation this episode.
I was trying not to cry but the last sentence of your comment made me.😢
I'm 21, my dad is 73 and I feel this fear of losing him since my youngest years because he's older than all my friends parents.
Awwwww! :03
About the grandparents acting more affectionate, apparently my grandpa would throw fish heads at my dad and uncle and barely show emotion, but when i was born and had to go in for surgery that was the first time he cried and he would sit and watch micky mouse with me.
Awww I love this so much 😊💙
Although upsetting he acted that way with your family members I’m happy he was able to show his tender side with you 💙
@Pugly he is still alive and I still go see him I try to have fun and he also did have some fun times with my dad and uncle like taking them fishing and hunting but yeah my grandma says he really changed when he first met me.
From what I've gathered my nonna treated my dad a bit poorly. He doesn't like to answer her calls and whenever he tells us a story it's about him fondly recalling his dad, aunt, or grandma. When I first noticed this I found it hard to imagine because she is so, so sweet with us and always trying to get into contact. She'll visit this December :D
Mort saying “I learned it in the jungle” implies he was in Vietnam during the war
I'm surprised this little detail wasn't mentioned. Chilli's dad is named Mort, and while it's probably short for a name like Morton, the shortened version is the same as the Latin root word meaning death. It seems pretty appropriate when considering the themes of the episode.
How do Bluey writers not cry every time they write these episodes??
Who says they don’t 😭
I wonder aswell 😢
As a writer who writes some emotional and deeply personal things: they cry
Oh, they definitely do.
I've written stuff that has made me cry.
These episodes are written by one guy so that makes it even more incredible
I’m 24, just recently lost my dad from cancer and other complications. He was a smoker, and he drank a lot. Never ate healthy, never get enough sleep, and never took a day off. I didn’t think I would lose one of my parents so young, and now I’m terrified of losing my mom before I get married or have kids. I wish he could’ve made it to see those things..
I just lost my grandfather a couple weeks ago. It’s taking me a lot of strength to not cry whenever I see a picture of him. I had a lot of great times with him, but I wish I could’ve had more. I wasn’t ready to say goodbye.
"I still need him" always makes me cry.
I love how gentle mort looks
This really hits deep… even though I grew up in a broken home, watching my mom drink all night and slowly drown in her mental health problems I still love her. She’s the only parent I have… I love her so much and I’m so afraid of losing her that I forgive her for the abuse, neglect, toxicity and abandonment. It hurts more than words can say but I still need her.
I only have 3 people left and they’re all so much older than me. My mom is one of them. When they’re gone I have no one left. But my mom… you only get one mom. My dad left me before I was born and I kinda see myself in her. As an adult I’ve fallen into the same self destructive habits and I share many of the same mental health symptoms… but I’m the only one who’s reached out for help. It hurts to watch her slowly fade away and pretend she’s fine. I just wish I could do or say something to get it through her head that she’s not going to be here for much longer if she doesn’t get help and I still need her. I fear the day her health takes a major fall with every ounce of heart and soul in my body…
I don't know how but that outro makes me laugh out load every time with Bingo just going "awww :("
The song that got us hyped for Penacony
When mort says, “It was yesterday,” that was his way of saying its in the past and it helped Chilli focus on the now.
More specifically, it's a reminder that the cherished years goes by very fast.
Growing up, I had a father, but he was no father at all. He was literal trash. Abusive, cruel, and immature. Made my time with him till I was about 19 a living hell. I still suffer from his past abuse to this day. However, my grampa was more of a real father than a grandfather to me and my siblings. He was always there to help, love, and protect me and those he cared. He loved to teach us new stuff and would tell us stories(sometimes more than once lol) and loved sweets, especially cookies when I made them.❤ He was also a man that could not stand to watch anyone harm others. He really wanted to fight the trash for all the harm he had caused to his only daughter and her children. He probably would’ve won since he was a tough old man that worked outside 17/6 and was built while the trash was like a weak twig. It was very hard on all of us when he died cause it meant that I lost a great man in my life that gave me real happiness than what that awful man could never give. Sure, I have a few uncles that I love and they would do anything to protect their families. But grampa was the only father figure i had and hope he’s up in heaven watching over us. And hopefully haunting the trash in his nightmares lol. I loved this episode, it was more a parent/child relationship, but i see it more as a grampa/grandaughter relationship to me.
I'm so sorry you went through all that! I hope you're in a better place now
💕💕take the hearts you prolly need it :(
Guess this is a fitting time to confess that I was watching this very episode at my dads place one weekend and I turned the volume up when it got to Chilli's "He should take care of himself for me because I still need him" hoping he'd take the hint (He only responded with doing a bad impression of their Aussie accents, lol) My dad is very much like Mort with his stubbornness but it's hard to ask him to take better care of himself because he gets very defensive, giving off an angry "You can't tell me what to do" remark. So I'm trying to find other ways to communicate my need for him to stop smoking and eat better, which is why I played that episode with him in the room, hoping he'd retain the message.
This episode hits harder for me now since I lost my dad last week on Wednesday morning at the age of 60 after being in the hospital for a month. He's had health issues for 5 years that forced him to retire along with type 2 diabetes. We tried so hard to get him to quit smoking so his health could improve a little and I admit I've yelled at him a few times whenever he'd relapse back into doing so and seeing him in pain and his growing attitude made it a bit hard to be around him. Despite all that, I still needed my dad here a lot longer and it's hard to accept he's never coming back. Nowadays, I follow what Bluey taught me in "The Show" episode, "I have a good cry, take a deep breath, get up and tell myself the show must go on" (I haven't seen the episode in a bit so I'm sorry if it's not the exact quote word for word).
I am sorry for your loss. Normally I don't comment, but your story is similar to mine - albeit mine went a different direction. My father had a heart attack, and then a secondary event a week later that would have killed him if his wife hadn't stayed home from work. She heard him drop his phone, went out to mock him and found him unresponsive. If not for her... He made an almost full recovery, only losing two weeks of memory around the heart attack - but those two weeks, he had quit smoking and cut back on drinking. With no memory of that, he went back to smoking, and his drinking even increased as he was reminded often of all the things he'd forgotten. He said some horrible things during recovery, and it felt like my sisters were getting back at him by reminding him. That's me not being generous to them.
Over the next couple years, his anger, guilt, all the emotions got worse. He gained weight, and he wasn't light to begin with, almost certainly developing diabetes, that killed his brother. The weight, diabetes, smoking, drinking - We were worried for his life.
And then my son, his first grandchild, was born.
My dad has quit smoking, cut back on drinking, hasn't really lost weight but is at least a little more conscious of it. I think my son saved his life the second time, gave him a reason to live as it were, and now my father has four more grand babies with a fifth on the way.
I don't mean to hijack your comment, and I really appreciate your story as much as I feel for your loss
@LordGrantius no need to be sorry! It's ok and i really appreciate this comment! ❤️ i hope your family is doing well/continues doing well in the future! 🫂
I didn't get to watch my mom grow old over the years, I watched her three year battle with cancer age her, mentally and physically. I miss her every day, I've missed her since the day she died, and I'll never stop missing her. It's been 17 years and I still feel the hurt of losing her.
This episode is one of a few I still can't watch, because hearing Chili say she still needs her dad breaks me in my very core.
I wish with whatever problems my mother had to face, didn't make her lose sight in looking more after herself. Last year was my first encounter with death after she passed away from an avalanche of health conditions. I've reflected enough to understand, love, and forgive her. Rest in peace mom. I'll keep loving you, and embrace the compassion you always wanted to show.
Damn, this episode hits. I am someone who has older than average parents. I grew up being EXTREMELY conscious of that. My grandparents died years ago. And I felt scared all the time cause all my friends had parents about a decade younger than mine. I related to Chilli a lot, how she was in the Grandad episode. It’s scary for me but I’m trying to get better at staying in the present and thinking about current time. But sometimes I feel kind of desperate and I can’t stop thinking about their age. Anticipatory grief is not very fun lol.
Yeah...
It does'nt make things any better when you also have existential dread...
When I first watch the episode Grandad, Grandad is more of a funny episode with Bingo and Bluey spending time and having fun with Grandad but this episode has a few emotional moments that really makes me feel. The reason why Chilli never gave up on chasing her father is because she was just worried about her father's health and she does not want to lose him.
While I was watching the episode grandad, I have a few thoughts I had in my mind:
The question "What happens if you never saw your parents again." always scares me. Sometimes, teenagers tend to take their own parents for granted and pretty much tend to snap or yell at their parents just because they don't want their parents' care. But when their parents die, they are the ones that they are going to regret because they never want to spend time with their parents.
Coming back to the episode, the whole reason why Chilli, along with Bingo and Bluey, is driving to see her father because she still cares for her father and spends time with her father, allowing the kids to spend time with Grandad. Overall, the time spent with loved ones is always a treasure.
That's it from me and hope you have a great day ahead! ;)
One could even draw connections to the episode "Exercise", so the kids are not only helping (in their unique way) Bandit with his exercise, but they are also one of the reasons he does it.
Love that you made this video, and your right it really is something we can all relate too. I feel this so much with my parents and cry every time I watch this episode
Ugh, hearing “I still need him” always makes me cry. I’m about to be 24 but I still feel like I need both my parents, and just thinking about how I’ll always need them but eventually the day will come and I’m not ready
Funny how you uploaded this on my dad's 74th birthday lol
Suffice to say, he and I rarely ever see eye to eye, He's been diagnosed with dementia for many years now and I can't stand to be around him anymore. He's ungrateful to everyone around him and I don't know how much more I can take it. But I do it because my mom has it worse than me and I have to be there for her when the going gets tough. If it weren't for her, I don't think I'd last as much as I did living with him the past few years. Looking back on this episode makes me jealous of how kind Mort is to his daughter despite his condition worsening over time. Truly a wonderful episode for both kids to laugh along with and adults to relate to, just what Bluey does best.
Once again, my condolences go out to your late mother.. 🙏❤️
I love the perseverance you have buddy, and I love the strength you and your mother have, just keep loving and things will work out in my eyes!
If he were here he’d just say shouldn’t it be up to me? No it shouldn’t
I have to say, this episode hits so differently for me now. I lost my grandfather back in December, days before Christmas. I have so many fond memories of my time with him, and it makes me cry when I hear Chilli say "I still need him."
2:47 genuinely got excited hearing the music, I might be mistaken but I believe it's Hole In The Bottom Of My Brain
but yeah, losing your parents is a scary thing and rewatching this episode makes me think about my parents, even if they're still both here
Man this one hits hard. As a daughter that's also lost a mom and now watching an aging dad. He's 74 and imagine him gone is still so though to come to terms with
As my parents get older every year i hate seeing it and i started crying when she said "because i still need him!" i wish i could spend more time with my parents in life because they're growing old so fast.
This reminds me of ny grandpa. He has heart problems and has had cancer twice. Even when he wasnt feeling his best he would still be sure to make his grandkids and great grandkids happy. I love him so much
Saw this episode while my dad was rushed to the ER for a heart attack and I was half way across the country with Covid and couldn’t come.
Bluey and bingos granddad reminds me so much of my granddad. I miss him so much. Had so many fun memories with him. We were even supposed to restore an old truck together, we never got around to it. But I’m going to restore the truck in his memory. I really miss my grandpa. He was the only grandpa I had left. My grandpa my dad side passed away before I was born. This episode means a lot more to me.
"no it was yesterday" makes me sob like a kid
I completely forgot I pointed out the LotR Easter Egg. It’s cool to see something I’ve said in a video.
This episode resonates with me not because of my parents, but because of my grandparents.
I’ve lost both my paternal grandparents and my maternal grandfather is in the decline and refuses to listen to anyone.
It’s hard sometimes thinking about how someday I’ll have no grandparents; and like in this episode, I try to cherish every moment with them
3 years ago, I had a scare with my father to the point where I could have lose him. Thankful he’s doing amazing.After that this episode hits harder. I don’t want to go into too much detail, but it was health related too.
I can't say I could relate to this specific grandparent x grandchild dynamic. My own relationship with my maternal grandparents was watching them shower my male cousins with love and attention, while I and my other female cousins were constantly judged for not measuring up. (Or being born male)
I could relate more to the parent x child portions as I actually experienced/saw these relationships.
Naku here! :>
The video does bring me to tears a little and the episode Grandad really did made me realize to appreciate all the sweet and fun moments that my parents did when I was a little girl.
You did a great on the deep dive of the episode and keep up the great work!💛
this episode hits hard. My mom was like that with her mom when her Dad passed away. Even with me and my siblings, always looking after our health.
I lost my mum a year before Bluey started airing, so whenever I've seen my dad be a bit careless, I worry immensely.
For one, he is not young, not helped by him being an older father when he had me and my sister.
Second thing being his father died before he hit 71, and it happened just over 30 years ago, 31 years in about 2 months time. So yeah, I never met my grandfather, and from what I've heard, he'd practically dote on his grandkids. Probably already did so with his oldest grandkids (2 of my cousins, and probably another cousin).
The fact he has been doing a lot more exercise as of late, in a bid to keep himself in check... it's helping a fair amount, yet I know full well I still need my dad. I'm still going to worry about him, and I do want him to take care of himself.
I truthfully don't know how I'm going to handle shit when he eventually dies. I'm terrified.
I love that you used that song in your outro, Honkai Star Rail did great with that one, got us hyped for part 1 of Penacony then tore our MCs hearts out
The funny thing is, Morts behavior is actually pretty normal for most older men. Most guys don’t WANT to be forced to “take it easy”- in addition, given that he was in the army, he probably rationalizes everything that happened THERE was worse then whimpy heart worms.
Sad thing is, this is also more then enough proof for why she’s so worried about Mort: he’s pretty much the “fun” grampa.
@@battybuddy Mort is a tough old Bloke! he has Years left in him yet!
@@simeonyves5940 yeah, Mort rocks. I sadly never knew my grandfather, and even though he wouldn’t have been like Mort (my mom always told me he would have loved me- but he would have kicked my ass) Morts relationship with his granddaughters makes me wish I had.
@@battybuddy I am truly sorry you never knew your grandfather.
I watched this and this hit me hard. I mean my bio parents are both heathy and fine, just that they aren't really my parents since they don't like it. However, my aunt did fall into a mom role for me. She still alive but the fact is that she ruining her own health and this why this video hit so hard for me. Like I am scared to live a life without her since she always stuck by my side and let me truly live.
Great work mate! I love the way you've explained everything in detail just perfectly. Can't wait to see more!
my dad quit smoking when my sister and i were kids, and he was smoke-free for 20 years. he did this because i watched my grandfather die slowly and painfully from smoking, and my grandmother developed severe COPD and emphysema from it. in 2013 my grandmother then died in pain and weak from smoking. had she not smoked, she would have lived another 10 years.
i’m 30 now, almost 31 and seriously thinking about having kids of my own. and my dad picked up smoking again. it hurts so much. i don’t understand why he doesn’t want to be there for me or my own kids. i don’t know why he’s repeating the same thing he tried so hard to avoid 20 years ago. maybe i stopped mattering as much now that i’m grown up.
i want my kids to have their own granddad, but i don’t know if that’ll happen now. and i know he would never listen to me no matter what i said. my parents never loved me as much as chili’s parents love her.
I've never seen the show but I can relate to the message in this episode. I had to face the concept of my mom's mortality a few years ago when she got her cancer diagnosis. She survived the disease but it's left her with a whole host of problems. Mom is in her early 50's but I worry about her because she smoked for decades and has heart issues. Our relationship hasn't always been the best but it's pretty good now and I'm scared to think of that ending.
Another absolute masterpiece of a video!
Thank you for All you let us see. As an aussie born in the states...and with having the loss of both parents I Thank You. With my approach/being exposed to Bluey, I must say the term "Bluey Tuber" makes me happy. I should love to offer my art your way. Thank you for existing.
So I’m only 20 but my dad passing away 5 years ago reminded me that your parents aren’t immortal and it’s left me with constant anxiety of my mum passing awh so this episode terrrified me but somehow comforted me at the same time 😂
Another great video buddy, keep rocking it
Watched this episode for the first time after my own grandad passed away and the way it made me sob 😭💕 loved this episode
This video is amazing! As always :D. Lov your vids Pugly❤
I cried throughout the episode.
I juat wanna say your videos brighten up my day, thank you for making them
Super smooth editing
I absolutely love the AJR edits you do at the start of every analysis video
I clicked on this video thinking i was ready. I'm a minute in and nope, not ready yet.
Hole In The Bottom Of My Brain! I love that song. just your local AJR fan back to listen to my favorite Bluey analysis video.
btw, keep up the great work my friend :)
I have to say, you have a really comforting face, it really fits your calming voice and I can see how you'd have a history of working with kids, you seem to have a really warm and positive vibe :}
You just made my freaking day buddy, thank you so much. I usually don’t hear that about my face so this meant a lot, thank you again 😊💙💙💙
Currently crying my eyes out reminds me of my grandpa and I still have my grandma and I love her so much but my grandpa was more special to me my grandma and grandpa are divorced but they're still special
This episode really hit home for me the first time I saw it. Although I live in the city/suburbs my mom grew up on a tobacco farm. I wouldn’t see my papa often but when we did he would take us hiking, camping, fishing, he even taught us riflery when we got older. I could slot me and my younger sister in this scenario so easily it was scary. It really made me appreciate what I have more than I already did.
I have these worries for my dad and my husband. They both ignore their health in favor of doing the things they want and idk what id do without them..i wish i could get through to them but they insist im stopping myself from living by being anxious about things that haven't happened.
Also i think the pumpkin seeds are meant to be a nod to grandpa having had heartworm. Raw pumpkin seeds are a cheap chemical free way to treat worms in dogs. The seeds have a compound that makes the worms let go of the intestinal walls so they can be excreted. Chili might be anxious about her kids getting sick like her dad, so she feeds them the seeds as a preventative measure but instead of saying its medicine she says it'll make them strong.
I find it interesting that the doctors orders are really accurate. I volunteer at an animal shelter, and dogs with heartworm aren’t allowed to do a lot of things. That includes running, playing extensively, long walks, or anything that increases heart rate. The medication makes it so the worms clump up, and to much rapid heart rate can cause a stroke or pulmonary embolism. Nice to see how accurate it all is!
I feel for chilli in this episode. My dad barely cares for himself and I actually had a similar talk with him and how I wish he'd take care of him. Unfortunately my dad seems to have brushed my concerns off and I'm hurting more. I am slightly jealous of chilli for getting through to her dad.
We tried to get it through to our dad too. A doctor even straight up told him last fall if he didnt start doing what he needed he was going to get bed bound and die. He was bed bound by january. And we lost him last month. Sometimes you cant make them care.
My dad hasn't been around much in my life, but I still love him, and I know he loves me. He's always putting pressure on himself cause he thinks he works better that way. I was on a trip to my hometown a couple of weeks ago, and he had a sudden stroke. I was so scared, and I felt so bad for him. I visited him in the hospital, and he kept crying and apologizing that he didn't do better by me. Thankfully, he's recovering, but man, it was really rough. And don't even get me started on my mom. I get emotional just thinking about losing her one day. And my stepdad smokes, so I worry for him as well. And my gramma, who turned 70 this year. We lost her husband unexpectedly a while back. I just love my family a lot. I don't want anything bad to happen to them. I worry for them. XP
On a more light hearted note, this episode is had a few adventure movie easter eggs with them hiding under the roots (lord of the rings) and the mud mask seemingly to be an homage to predator or Rambo
I lost my dad in November. It was... sudden but not unexpected. But he was such a loving grandpa. He suffered a stroke that made it very difficult to use his hands a lot. But, when he found out my daughter was born deaf he did his best to learn and use as much sign as he could. He got to spend 5 wonderful years with his granddaughter and 32 wonderful years with me and (33, 38 years with) my siblings. Miss you, pops. Keep on truckin' ☮️💟
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This made me cry because my grandpas time is probably almost over
I thankfully have both my parents but my mom just lost both her parents and my dad lost his mom in 2023 and it fills me with dread at the thought of losing my mom and dad one day
This episode was one of the ones that hit me really hard. That part at the end especially where it transitions to Showing Chilli with her dad as a kid. I am very very close with my grandparents. My grandmother passed away just under 9 years ago as of writing, and when this episode aired, my grandfather was in the hospital with a blood infection just after recovering from covid and came within inches of death (the infection left him wheelchair bound and in assisted living for the rest of his life). When that transition at the end happened, my mind immediately went back to when I was 5, going fishing with him and my dad, watching him make wood carvings, and so on that, now, is over. Times I cherish, but can never relive. The worry Chilli has for her father's wellbeing is the same I feel for my grandfather.
Thank You. Time to watch Bluey on the DVR, as i do not have other access
I still have both my parents but due to…life crap. I’m still highly dependent on my folks. If my parents were to either pass way now, I wouldn’t be able to handle it. I would NOT be able to continue. I would be beyond devastated.
I lost my grandmother on the 12th of January. She was like a second mother to me. This episode hits even harder now💔
this episode hits so hard as someone who has a massive fear of losing my parents, i love them so much and my dads super sick while my moms family has a history of passing in their 40-50s which shes in right now. im horrified of the thought of just losing one and i dont know how to cope. if anyone has advice pls share :(
I’m really sorry you’re going through this right now, I honesty feel like the best thing for you to do to cope is to actually talk to your parents about your feelings on this. Talk right to the source and express yourself to them 💙🫂
I think it not so strange because they would be pretty proud that they have grandchildren not only but because they so much like their parents so maybe they remind how they grow up their kids and that why they love so much since they remind them the memories they have with their children.
Seeing this hits me hard. I lost my father last year at the end of June... It's been hard because as Chilli says "I still need him"
Even though it talks about (answer is on the title) I wasn’t scared about losing them as they stick /w me for lots of years (13)
My grandma and mom met my newborn daughter today. As my mom held her for the first time my grandma had an overheating episode and almost passed out while outside, thankfully with my husband. It was terrifying thinking that just after meeting my baby I might lose my grandma. She was checked out by paramedics and seems to be okay now. She refused to go to the hospital. My mom and I were both very shaken up, which also scares me since my mom has heart failure. It’s just been a rough day reflecting on how much I love my family and don’t want to lose them. I want them to be in my daughter’s life. I want her to know them.
I’m 18 and my Dad is a little over 40. I just found out about a week ago that his life expectancy dropped to 2 years. 10 years with a liver transplant and healthy lifestyle. The doctor was amazed he wasn’t bedridden. This video popped up and I like Bluey videos so I clicked on it, but I didn’t realize just how hard it was gonna hit me when Chilli said “I still need him.” My little brother is only 12, and he hasn’t been told. I’m worried about how this is all going to affect him. I’m also worried, though, that my Dad won’t be able to walk me down the aisle, or that he might pass away during my first pregnancy. Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 8 years, and he knows, and I think he might propose to me soon… Honestly I don’t even care about what the ring looks like or how much it costs, I just want my Dad to be at our wedding. This episode hit REALLY close to home.
This episode really hits home for me. I’m currently watching my aging father smoke himself to death and the idea of losing him is terrifying.
Considering my grandpa is very stubborn, I’ve tried to get my mom to watch this episode, (since it is her dad,) and she never really is emotional to Bluey and never has the time to watch it, but because he is my only grandpa, (my dad’s dad died a long time ago) I want him to be healthy, but he hates resting and going to the doctors.
Also, I know this is random, but could I possibly post fan art on community page? I’m not allowed Instagram
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I need to watch more of Bluey, mostly because I'm curious if there's an episode about sudden loss. This one's about how parents grow old, but in real life, that's not always going to be correct. That's how we lost my mum two years ago, sudden. Abrupt. No chances for goodbye until we buried her. The difference between losing her and our nana (our great-grandma) was that, despite both being sudden and in their sleep, Nana's was going to be inevitable cos she was 88. Mum was supposed to be 45. We can grow up and think "she'll be right, it won't happen to us" and then it does, and we can't ever take it back.
I lost my dad at a young age and I only had one grandparent when I saw Granddad I started thinking about my mom and started tearing up thinking about the future
No need to read this Pugly, just a vent comment of emotions here.
I still need someone to tell me to take care of myself because I’ll forget to. This is so hard for me. Since I go to a very very dark place knowing I won’t be able to help them or myself entirely once they get older. Dementia runs on my fathers side. Schizophrenia and other mental ailments on my mothers side. I unfortunately have best of both worlds it seems and without proper treatment I’m heading towards homelessness in my future because I forget to care for myself if my parents were to need care themselves. Anyways, kind of a dark and sad reality check for me, this episode brought me to tears when Chili said that to her father. I’m so afraid I won’t be able to care for them and the family will crumble into a mental mess. Thankfully my parents are both healthy.. but the memory of them both when they say something to me and I realize that they already said the same thing truly breaks me… I have the same memory issues already as well. Good luck and hugs to others out there that do have it happening now and are family caregivers.
thanks for the emotional roller coaster and beautiful edited content as always❤
That must of taken a lot to get out buddy, I appreciate you taking the time to share a part of your life with me and I hope that everything goes okay for you and your family. I don’t even know what to fully say besides I’m sorry that your family experiences stuff like this, it’s really a hard thing in life that I wish didn’t exist. Sending you a hug 💙🫂
My Dad's gone. Almost two years ago. Lung cancer. I wish I could go all the way back in time and knock those goddamn cigarettes out of his hands. Because I still need him.
Yea I’m kinda going through the same thing becuase a year ago I got the worst news in my life it was bad I was crying for the most of the day in school until My math teacher gave me the best decision that I don’t regret at all but see a awesome lady you know you could talk too and she said the saying thing happen to her at my age and I’m glad I listened to him becuase I think I have ADHD and I couldn’t really focus on school work with or without being sad but I got a lot it ball in the end which made me smile because my grandma shares a special bond with pop it’s cartoon shows and big city greens so I’ll make to spend every single bit of time of left with her beucase I feel like I still need her too so we could play some board games color in books and just laugh the day away 😊🥹
i still may have both of my parents but this made me think about it. sure hope it doesn't happen any time soon
Rest in peace to Atlas VPN which i found out got closed on my birthday after checking the link
Part of me feels unsettled by Mort’s name; I don’t know if it was intentional, but Mort means death in Latin and French
Losing a loved one is extremely hard especially when they didn't take care of themselves like you hoped.
I think about losing my parents, especially since I've lost both grandfathers to cancers, and one of my grandmothers has dementia.
This episode shows us that Bluey can’t have gluten. In the episode Daddy Drop off we see Bandit putting a gluten free snack in a purple lunch box, the same purple lunch box that Bluey was eating out of in the car!
I think the thing that hurts me the most about this episode is that when I heard that main line that Chili said the first person that came to mind was my partner. I'm not going to go much into it at all but the thing is both me and my partner struggle with mental health and I'm scared of losing both them and/or myself to suicide because I just love and care for them that much that I do need them.
(I'm sorry if this bothers you or anything, but I'd appreciate if no one really replied to this comment. We're both doing fine and we will be okay)
Is the bluey youtuber bentendo? Because i think he actually likes blue mountains.
Wuh wait fanart Slugcat pfp what
I still have my mama
damn it now I have a block nose