11 Awkward Money Conversations (and How to Navigate Them)

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  • @melaniea4901
    @melaniea4901 Год назад +132

    My brother was a cosmetologist. He had a sign on his station that said “I’m sorry I have to charge my friends but my enemies don’t come to me!”. 😋

  • @MariaInIowa
    @MariaInIowa Год назад +40

    The department I used to work with had a gift fund. Totally voluntary to pay into it, usually $15 or $20 per person per year. Then any time someone retires, gets married, has a baby or has a serious illness, the Gift Fund sends a gift from the whole department. I love that.

  • @oliviafox6745
    @oliviafox6745 Год назад +14

    I don't ask for discounts from friends. We actually prefer to use qualified professionals who are friends or family to give them the business. A workman is worthy of his hire.

  • @sman9774
    @sman9774 Год назад +173

    On the topic of charging rent for an adult child living in the house: Yes, I actually did that for an adult child (in their 20s) who still lived at home and had a job. I wanted her to get used to paying such common costs. I didn't spend that collected rent money though, as I didn't need it. Those funds were put into a separate line and when my daughter moved to her first place, the money was returned and helped with the initial apartment costs like security deposit, some furnishings, etc.

    • @DB-bw5fz
      @DB-bw5fz Год назад +24

      That can go either way. I was lucky to be able to live at home for about 3 years after I landed my first job. My parents intended on charging me rent, but didn’t after they saw that I was already putting away roughly 80% of my take home pay to save up towards a down payment on a house. Their goal was the same as yours, to charge me rent to prepare me…but in the end I didn’t need the preparation. I already knew what rent costs, utilities etc…would be if I moved out. I feel that had they started charging me rent, even knowing that most, or all would be returned to me…that I might have chosen to move out sooner, potentially derailing some of my savings goals.
      I did end up renting for about a year prior to buying a house…but I had already saved up my down payment and didn’t need to touch it during that time.
      I would say it should looked at on a case by case basis. If your child is showing signs of not being money conscious…then charging rent may be necessary. If they are showing signs of extreme fiscal responsibility with clear goals they are working to achieve…then charging rent may be more of a detriment overall.

    • @ErikaMcNeill
      @ErikaMcNeill Год назад +3

      So cool for you to do that :)

    • @KC-dr3cg
      @KC-dr3cg Год назад +3

      It depends on your life circumstances, but even though I have very little money I wouldn't charge my child anything....

    • @crow-vz5lx
      @crow-vz5lx Год назад +5

      I like that. I've heard so many different things. I got kicked out .
      I think it's better to do it the way you did it. Gives your child time to acclimate to work, bills, etc. Also they can live in a safe, and encouraging environment at home, and not with their peers whom are word just starting.

    • @noemibravo3130
      @noemibravo3130 Год назад +2

      Wow nice! I wish my parents could’ve done that for me lol!
      I graduated from college and my parents charged me rent! Sometimes I wish they didn’t so that I could pay off my debt and save up.. but I knew they were struggling and how could I not help them. It was tough for me to accept but at the end I’m grateful I did

  • @markcroftocala
    @markcroftocala 4 месяца назад +9

    My dear Rachel. Love your show and the solid teaching you give. You say you read these comments so here goes. I only write because here are two worlds or circumstances you may be unaware of in the 2000's world. Maybe they don't apply any more but once upon a time they made a difference in my life.
    #1.) In the 1960's I was a 12 year old boy. I got my first paper route. I made $15 a week. I had to give Mom $5.00 a week for room and board (that's food and rent in today's terms). I had to save $5.00 a week. I had $5.00 a week for whatever I wanted. This is how my mom taught me that I needed to be responsible for myself. Out of my $5, I paid a contribution to the church, which was my choice and no pressure from mom. Certainly the church pushed tithing as all do but in my heart I wanted to give something. Generally I gave 50 cents a week. That left me $4.50 out of $15.00. Frankly, with the $4.50 I always had plenty of money. That was no doubt mostly because I learned a BIG lesson at 13 that most don't learn until 33 or never. I learned that you can't fix inner pain with external stuff. (How I learned that lesson is another story). Anyhow, Long story short, I used the $5 a week savings to help me in college. When I got married my mom gave me the money she had collected for rent back when I was a kid through that $5 a week payment. I had no idea she had saved that for me. That was a nice help in getting started. I'm only saying all this because I sensed that you felt children should be totally cared for by their parents and not have to pay rent or pay for their essential needs themselves. I see things a little differently and maybe you will see things a little differently too..
    #2 ) I was a 22 year old married soldier being discharged from the army after two years of service. I wanted to rent an apartment near one of only two schools in the country at that time that offered a Bachelor's degree as a "Media Specialist ". My wife wanted to get that degree. I had no credit in that state and they would not rent me an apartment. A young lady from our church co-signed an apartment rental agreement for us. She was nervous to do it but she took a risk. Without her taking that risk on our behalf we would not have been able to rent. Your objection to co-signing because of financial risk would have left this soldier without housing. Twenty years later a young friend of one of my children needed a cosigner for a small loan to bring his parents from India to this country. Because I had once been helped in this way I helped him. It did not put me in any real financial risk because if I ended up paying off his loan I wouldn't have missed a meal. But the principle was there. I was helped so I helped others. I agree with you. Cosigning is risky. BUT risk is part of life. If we can absorb the risk we need to seriously think about helping out others.
    Keep up the good podcasts and I offer this only as another perspective for your consideration. Thanks

  • @mike7933
    @mike7933 Год назад +14

    I had a mentor tell me once, always pay for your friends services in full price, because once they use your services eventually you don’t have to feel guilty about charging them full price.

  • @kylavincent865
    @kylavincent865 3 месяца назад +2

    On the topic of charging rent:
    When I was a kid my parents always told us kids that after 18, you are working, you pay rent.
    When my sister moved in with my family, we let her have 6 months free and then charged her $400 a month. It’s very cheap for where we live and it gave her a chance to get settled from getting out of an awful situation. Before she moved in my husband and I came up with a plan and told her together what we expected.

  • @barbaras676
    @barbaras676 Год назад +5

    My ex insisted that our son, when he joined the service at 19, give “the household” most of his paycheck while he was in Boot Camp and A school. I was LIVID and divorced him a few years later. That was the tip of the iceberg 😡

    • @kayw1771
      @kayw1771 Год назад +2

      That’s vile! Especially since you make the least amount while you’re in boot. I had a couple grand saved from my old job before joining and my mother actually took over my car payment while I was in bootcamp since I wouldn’t be able to set up the auto pay with my new banking they offered us while in boot. Being able to hold on to my money through boot camp and mom helping out on my car for a couple months set me up to have a nice little nest egg. So grateful for that opportunity. I would have been absolutely gutted if my mother would have tried to charge me for a place I wasn’t using resources from. I don’t understand parents sometimes.

  • @summerdow7149
    @summerdow7149 Год назад +20

    Please do an episode about money with friendships such as Venmo etiquette, going out to eat with friends and splitting bills. I would love to see an all encompassing episode about these things!

  • @TinaC982
    @TinaC982 Год назад +52

    How has there not been an entire episode of SMHH dedicated to the money habits/mistakes of FRIENDS?? Sooo much material from that show! Come on Rach!

  • @Behappy-rf8gl
    @Behappy-rf8gl 3 месяца назад +2

    I had a family members husband ask me about my income in front of a lot of people. We were at a football event at their home. I was eating & minding my business when he yelled out across the room “ ‘A’, I looked on line and I saw you make about 24k a year. I don’t even know how you are eating.” The room of 30 or more people gets silent (you can only hear the music 🎶 in the background. Without looking up from my plate 🍽️ I yell back “well tonight I’m bombing off you”. Someone makes a joke and everyone goes back to the party and football game. Jokes on him. I make 95k a year and I know he only makes 50k because he has bragged about it. But I didn’t want to embarrass him in his house, so I took some vodka and extra food home because I’m poor. 😂

  • @Sfount
    @Sfount Год назад +17

    My husband is a state trooper in NY that has gotten some promotions and our neighbors just see him as a cop. They were talking about his job and one of the women asked what troopers make….. my husband said “ehhh a starting trooper can make around $90,000 with just a little overtime which many of them do”… our neighbors were in shock because they thought my husband made around $50,000. He said STARTING lol they would probably be pretty pissed if they knew he made made 70,000 more than that. When I heard her ask it was so cringy but my husband handled it like a champ by not giving her our own information lol

    • @gretalukoseviciute2058
      @gretalukoseviciute2058 4 месяца назад +1

      He didn’t give information.. why would he? When you are here for that 😂

    • @Behappy-rf8gl
      @Behappy-rf8gl 3 месяца назад

      I had a family members husband ask me about my income in front of a lot of people. We were at a football event at their home. I was eating & minding my business when he yelled out across the room “ ‘A’, I looked on line and I saw you make about 24k a year. I don’t even know how you are eating.” The room of 30 or more people gets silent (you can only hear the music 🎶 in the background. Without looking up from my plate 🍽️ I yell back “well tonight I’m bombing off you”. Someone makes a joke and everyone goes back to the party and football game. Jokes on him. I make 95k a year and I know he only makes 50k because he’s bragged about it. But I didn’t want to embarrass him in his house, so I took some vodka and extra food home because I’m poor. 😂

  • @elizabetha.9808
    @elizabetha.9808 Год назад +7

    My sister is a certified financial planner and gave me and my husband a free financial plan when she was fresh out of school, mainly to help her gain experience in her new career. But I wouldn’t ask her to do it for us today unless we were paying clients! It takes her hours to do one and costs north of $2,000.

  • @drummerhq2263
    @drummerhq2263 Год назад +6

    George is correct. You gotta bring it up to your parents.

  • @ashleybsn7622
    @ashleybsn7622 Год назад +6

    When I was a bartender, I had a regular that would sometimes call me by my name and sometimes call me by another name. I didn’t say anything for a while, but eventually I gently said “by the way, my name is Ashley”. He looked at me confused and said “I know”. Lol I said “I know you know but sometimes you call me Amber”. He immediately apologized saying “I’m so sorry, where did I get Amber from?” But he never called me Amber again after that. Lol

  • @Arazhul12
    @Arazhul12 5 месяцев назад +4

    I was once guiltshamed into contributing 25 dollars for a present for a collegue when I thought 5 would be appropriate. Then learned that the person who started the fund and talked everyone into it didn't contribute herself because she was the one buying the gift card. That was the last time I ever contributed to a shared gift. 😂

  • @cynthiawilliams737
    @cynthiawilliams737 4 месяца назад +3

    I have one big "irk" in life & that is going out with friends who are lousy tippers it is so humiliating I usually double tip to make up for their cheapness!!

  • @pamelab1063
    @pamelab1063 Год назад +7

    My cousin always shows up to family trips and when she gets there she starts knocking on family member's hotel room door asking if she can sleep in their room because she did not make a reservation and does not have any money. I completely ignore her.

  • @bethanyg153
    @bethanyg153 Год назад +8

    I’m not a stylist but I’d be like, “I don’t have a friend discount, but I love to trade services.”Get your taxes done, an electrical problem fixed, chiropractic adjustment, tree trimming, tutoring for your kid, or help setting up a website.

    • @olivias2836
      @olivias2836 Год назад +3

      Yep to this 100%. I own a salon & will barter service for service because it’s a fair exchange. Other than that I will not do friend discounts because part of being a stylist is all about networking and as a result many of us in the beauty industry have a lot of friends

    • @bethanyg153
      @bethanyg153 Год назад +4

      @@olivias2836 and both get something and the government gets squat! 😂😍

    • @bethanyg153
      @bethanyg153 Год назад +4

      I have a friend with a window cleaning business and he traded a lifetime of window cleaning with an orthodontist for braces for his 5 kids. Totally totally awesome!

  • @osumbrosie5314
    @osumbrosie5314 Год назад +25

    Rachel just sounds like a cool person to hang out with.

  • @GameUnCrafter
    @GameUnCrafter 9 месяцев назад +5

    For the dating thing, I know for the first 4-5 months I paid, but eventually she offered to pay or even surprise me by paying, which honestly made it more romantic at times.

    • @candy2325
      @candy2325 9 месяцев назад +1

      Me and my boyfriend are like that. I pick up the tab on fun activities sometimes

  • @tifftrout19
    @tifftrout19 Год назад +5

    I think it's important to talk to parents about money, because it can impact our lives later. For example, my mom and her spouse are awful with money. They have no savings, are constantly living paycheck to paycheck, and her spouse will cash out his 401k every couple of years to cover expenses. As my mom gets older and will need help with things in the future, that financial burden will be put on my spouse and I as I'm her only child.

  • @KathyKerr5352
    @KathyKerr5352 Год назад +5

    One of those questions, what would you do if your friends expect you to pay now that you are debt-free, is exactly why I don't want student loan forgiveness. Why should I pay more taxes when we paid for my husband's college degree and saved for 20 years for our kids to go to college?

  • @susanpodgorski33
    @susanpodgorski33 Год назад +9

    Best podcast available! It's a fun, informative conversation about money topics. I'm 67 and I get a laugh and learn about contemporary money news. The cocktails sound divine too. Join Rachael and George every week:)

  • @akamarista
    @akamarista Год назад +9

    Guys!!!! This show is now part of my Thursday routine 😂😂😂 Love how Rachel is a Friends fan!!!! Me toooo. I always have a Friends reference 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @andiclemenza6476
    @andiclemenza6476 Год назад +8

    I don’t think I’ve ever asked for a friends discount. I feel much better to support my friend’s business. If I can afford their pricing, I am willing to pay what it needs to

    • @erin2535
      @erin2535 Год назад

      Yes 🎉 I feel that way too! ❤

  • @laanierhae
    @laanierhae 4 дня назад

    The friend bill splitting thing is always interesting to me because I hear so many people complain about it.
    For my close friend group, if we can't get separate checks due to party size, we usually just split it evenly, or someone pays and we Venmo them an equal split. We see each other enough that it all evens out. There are also times when one of us will just pick up the full tab and say, "I've got this one."
    The real problem arises when someone who isn't part of that usual group (like a friend of a friend), and they want to itemize. I don't mind itemizing, but I hate the whole awkwardness at the table when the bill comes, like they're surprised that the check has to be paid.

  • @jackiecha1320
    @jackiecha1320 Год назад +2

    Money conversation should just come naturally in the relationship. I’m like “I gotta pay the bill”. He’s like, “oh what bill. Student loans? How much do you owe?”

  • @Bloquita5
    @Bloquita5 5 месяцев назад +1

    When I was living with my mom during my teens and then in my early 20’s, I never saw my mom budget, we did pay our bills but we almost never had money leftover to save. I would sit with her at the table with pen and paper and ask her about how much each bill was. It was my attempt to figure the income coming in and the cost of living as we shared the bills. She would get anxious and then get mad at me. She would tell me that no daughter of hers would tell her how to spend her money or what to do with her money. It was frustrating.

  • @Loveofdecorating
    @Loveofdecorating Год назад +3

    I have found that when I mention Dave Ramsey money anything, my relatives roll their eyes and blow me off… 😂… well… I usually rebuttal with “well he’s a millionaire who at one point in his life went bankrupt and we are still in debt… so there’s that” so I choose to listen 🎧 to him… I’m starting the baby steps …. Very interested in the outcome we get as a couple trying to seriously cut back in the near future!

  • @Matt_in_TEXAS
    @Matt_in_TEXAS Год назад +17

    Love this show and so happy it is video recorded! Great job y'all, keep up the GREAT work!!!

  • @tressalewis7004
    @tressalewis7004 Год назад +6

    When each of my three kids were dating, which eventually turned into engagements, I would ask them if they had talked to the partner about how many kids they hope to have, where they would live, who could handle finances… These are all important conversation to have pre-wedding! I do need to know the answers. I wanted them to have these questions in mind to talk about with their upcoming spouse…

    • @crow-vz5lx
      @crow-vz5lx Год назад +1

      Yeah. Not enough young people think to ask serious questions. Even older adults keep doing this. Looks fade... Bodies get soft. But if that person never contributed to the finances or doesn't save. Doesn't have a budget, does nothing for both your futures.... That's a sad existence

  • @thekezzey95
    @thekezzey95 Год назад +3

    My boss has the issue of introducing herself over and over again to people so she has changed her language to "It's nice to see you" instead of "it's nice to meet you." It has saved her many times. Lol

  • @heycourtney
    @heycourtney Год назад +4

    I tend to pay friends MORE than their rate if they do good work. I cannot stand when people are cheap for quality services.

  • @carollaw4507
    @carollaw4507 Год назад +11

    Friend discount response: do you feel obligated to use a friend (say photographer for your wedding) even if 1.they may not give a discount and it’s out of your price range, and/or 2. You found someone’s style that you liked better?! 😬
    Lost a friend over this…I didn’t want her touching my hair. She was cheaper, but I didn’t like what I saw come out of her chair. She felt like I wasn’t supporting her because I didn’t go to her.

    • @erin2535
      @erin2535 Год назад +1

      Their problem not yours. I say this as someone who's never had this problem tho (haha sorry - voice of inexperience). But if as a business person she's not open to feedback, it's her problem not yours. If as a friend she has an expectation that you don't want to fulfil, again it's her problem. But how you choose to feel about it, unfortunately that's something you have to work through. Easy for a stranger to say, I know!

  • @entrepreneurlife649
    @entrepreneurlife649 Год назад +3

    Talking to parents about finances is definitely tricky. One thing to remember is they've been around longer and probably have reasons they do what they do.
    My first approach is to seek to understand why they are doing what they do. Once they've explained why they are doing their actions, then if offering suggestions for a different method are appropriate, I'll offer it.

    • @erin2535
      @erin2535 Год назад +1

      Nicely said 👍

  • @heckyesitsjess84
    @heckyesitsjess84 Год назад +2

    I talk with friends about wages, but more so only with people in the field. It helps us know what we can/should ask for and/or lets us know we should find another place to work that's offering more. In my career it doesn't always pay to stay unless you're your own advocate and ask for what your worth.

    • @dummgelauft
      @dummgelauft 5 месяцев назад

      Correct. Once you are in a particular field for a few years, you more or less know the upper and lower limits of what people make in that particular field.

  • @therowdyz
    @therowdyz 8 месяцев назад +2

    Best episode yet!! Hilarious and so relatable to people on their financial journey! Having to learn to say no is important

  • @heckyesitsjess84
    @heckyesitsjess84 Год назад +2

    Yes! We are 100% going there with financial talk before marriage!

  • @KanaTron
    @KanaTron Год назад +2

    Where I work, I used to make it a point to learn the names of every new employee. I've always felt it was a sign of respect to pronounce someone's name correctly. I also work in a place where they expect you to speak when you enter a new area of the building. This was something I never knew until one day someone told me I was a very rude person for not speaking when I entered the room. To be fair, every time I would enter a room, people were already talking, having conversations. My mother always taught me that it was rude to interrupt people, therefore, I felt I was showing respect. As far as names, now, it's almost impossible to know everyone's name because the turnover rate is high and the HR department isn't consistent with the internal 'meet the new members' emails. I do have a strategy for remembering names, but it doesn't always work... If I meet someone and that person has the same name as someone in my personal life, I just associate them with the person I already know. It works well as long as I know someone with that name. lol

  • @Sharon-kr1ui
    @Sharon-kr1ui Год назад +5

    Hilarious that Rachael says advising her parents is not her monkey. She's a clever girl.

  • @jarred0301
    @jarred0301 3 месяца назад

    I'm very open about what I make with close friends. I think it sets a clearer understanding on where I am fiscally. It helps to avoid those awkward conversations and sets clearer expectations of my decision making on non vital spending. Once you know you know, and it doesn't effect how I feel about the person. It let's me understand where they are in life and not asking unrealistic things from them. If they are real friends you'll be happy for them making good money and if their not, it alows you to be considerate of their situation.

  • @jodirodriguez1255
    @jodirodriguez1255 2 месяца назад

    Great episode! Thanks for the tips on how to handle situations and I literally laughed out loud at George..."why am I Greg?!" at the end!! 😂😂😂

  • @R_Jon
    @R_Jon Год назад +2

    On the topic of sharing your income with a person who you’re dating…. They only spoke about philosophy and belief around money and debt levels. I make $1.4M/yr. I wouldn’t want to tell a girlfriend about that, out of fear that my money is what’s most important.

  • @pamelab1063
    @pamelab1063 Год назад +2

    When there are group gifts I say no thank you and I don't give an explinatiion. My family is not always happy with me but I don't care. If I have an emeergency they would not have money to help me. So I am very strict with my budget. I have been called a cheapskape.

  • @tduck828
    @tduck828 Год назад +1

    Love the show! Keep it coming!!

  • @JosephEllis-bw9ks
    @JosephEllis-bw9ks Год назад +5

    It depends on how many dates you are in, I was three days and when my wife took me out to a fancy brewery and paid for everything. I personally then felt pursued which told me that she was in to me. The guy should pay most of the time but I feel like women should pay or show some effort of pursuit in return.

  • @walmartman31
    @walmartman31 Год назад +3

    This continues to be the may favorite show from Ramsey!

  • @heckyesitsjess84
    @heckyesitsjess84 Год назад +1

    The splitting the bill when ppl ate way more.. Lmao hell no - the oinker shouldn't even be asking that 😂

  • @garret4466
    @garret4466 Год назад +2

    Glad you decided to start filming this skit!

  • @josephlck
    @josephlck Месяц назад

    I think a good general money policy is don't enter any money situation if you arent willing to deal with the worse case scenario. Ask a girl out? Cosign? Meal with friends? If you aren't okay with paying, Dont do it.

  • @elainebradley8213
    @elainebradley8213 3 месяца назад

    I find some children/adults are naturally savers or spenders. Recognizing that and approaching from that angle is important.

  • @src4409
    @src4409 Год назад +2

    Use the ramsey show as an excuse to not pay the bill😂. When someone says "you're debt free, you should pay", just say well you could follow the same plan and be sent free too, and not paying for everyone's bill is how I got here... so no. Or just say oh Dave ramsey says only to pay your own bills.

  • @leilacavender4066
    @leilacavender4066 Год назад +4

    Once I graduated from high school and was working a full time job and not going to college I paid rent to live at my parents. It was like $200 a month and I didn’t have to pay for food or utilities or anything but I enjoyed it because it felt like I had some independence and freedom and was more of an adult. Also that drink sounds only appropriate if you were having a Tom hanks movie marathon night lol.

    • @laanierhae
      @laanierhae 4 дня назад

      My mom charger the same during my summer transition after college to my full-time job out of state. I was working a very well paid summer teaching job, and myself and 4 siblings were all home. It was a packed house. It helped set some expectations for my upcoming move. My mom also gifted me her car, so I was happy to contribute that small amount.

  • @TheThreatenedSwan
    @TheThreatenedSwan 5 месяцев назад +1

    It's crazy the inconsistent ways Rachel appeals to tradition/etiquette. If you rsvp to the wedding and don't show up without extenuating circumstances, you deserve to get that bill.

  • @brianpulliam1100
    @brianpulliam1100 Год назад +1

    That has actually happened to me. Saw someone at Starbucks that I know I recognized. The person was a teacher assistant in one of my professional classes. Sometimes people look a little different in public than a formal setting.

  • @suziehappy29
    @suziehappy29 8 месяцев назад

    You guys are great. Keep up the important work.

  • @src4409
    @src4409 Год назад +2

    Absolutely charge rent! I don't rent to family and friends as a general rule... it's just not a good idea, but if you are trying to "help" someone... don't go into debt doing it.... the costs go up so you need to recoup that. No joke, I had to ask a girl my age I was renting a room to if she was eating the toilet paper... that's how much she was using. I provided it in the rent cost. So I had to start requiring her to buy her own.

  • @twadam5218
    @twadam5218 Год назад +2

    I love this podcast format. Rachel and "Greg" (Sorry George, lol) have a great chemistry on here.

  • @BeardedCarBuddy
    @BeardedCarBuddy Год назад

    Loving this show guys!

  • @allisonwarman1689
    @allisonwarman1689 Год назад

    Looking forward to this episode!

  • @nerdglider
    @nerdglider Год назад +1

    With the step dad situation it depends on who has more responsibility at home, is she gonna pay the electricity, water, trash, WiFi, homeowners insurance, hoa, taxes, repairs, if he’s paying all that, you gotta take those over and just charge him a portion of the mortgage which won’t be cheaper than just paying him to rent your house

  • @combat195
    @combat195 Год назад +2

    I love Sarah and Greg’s show.

  • @marinamiranda8392
    @marinamiranda8392 Год назад +6

    Hilarious episode. Greg cracks me up 😂

  • @dsmolks1
    @dsmolks1 Год назад

    SMHH compliments the Dr. John drought on Tue/Thur mornings ever so nicely😊

  • @IGCcore
    @IGCcore Год назад +6

    For guilty as charged: I've been consistently called "Mark" by a coworker that mumbles. I've corrected them in the past but they always call me by the wrong name. Now a bunch of their close coworkers have been calling me by the wrong name for almost 2 years 😂😂😂 No worries, I laugh it off internally and think of it as my alter ego. Besides, these are people I might see once a week. Just funny to share

    • @ghostbird92
      @ghostbird92 Год назад +1

      That might save your life one day like in those action movies. A bad guy will be looking for someone with your name and a coworker calls you by the wrong name. "Oh can't be him."

    • @IGCcore
      @IGCcore Год назад

      @@ghostbird92 little do they know, Mark is my evil alter ego

  • @sarj8164
    @sarj8164 Год назад +1

    Favorite Smart Money Happy Hour so far😊👍

  • @sstrongman1667
    @sstrongman1667 Год назад +1

    Your "friends" should pay you full price for the services you offer as a show of support. If you offer them a discount that is fine, but it baffles me that people expect it. I have paid a little over the price for products at a local store to support a friend rather than buying it from a chain store. Services are the same.

  • @bluebelle9572
    @bluebelle9572 Год назад +1

    Discount for friends depends on how many friends, how successful your business is. Are you doing free/cheap work to advertise or get experience? Or are you so successful you can afford to help a friend that’s in a difficult season. So many factors.

  • @laszlobauer5274
    @laszlobauer5274 Год назад +1

    I love this already

  • @St3f1
    @St3f1 4 месяца назад

    this was a really good episode thank you!

  • @ronnievengua9535
    @ronnievengua9535 Год назад +1

    Playing credit card roulette is a fun time when all parties involved know beforehand & each agree. One card per couple . . They know the stakes! 😊

  • @annab524
    @annab524 Год назад

    Love this show!

  • @abcchiropractic3808
    @abcchiropractic3808 8 месяцев назад

    STAYING debt free is key- if others expect me to pay because I've achieved my goal, I remind them that I continue to work to STAY here!

  • @dapperdeals
    @dapperdeals 11 месяцев назад

    I co-signed with a parent when I bought a car my last year in college (0% financing!) simply because without an income, they probably would not have allowed it. My parent paid for the car, and then once I had a job after I had graduated, I was the sole payer for the car as it was my car. I think it comes down to discipline and understanding the future payments when the decision to co-sign is made.

  • @margaretbehre6461
    @margaretbehre6461 5 месяцев назад

    I am a huge proponent of salary transparency especially with women to help protect ourselves.

  • @BrotherJLG
    @BrotherJLG Год назад +2

    I had to tell my family to stop treating me like an atm. They have a welfare mindset and I have worked hard to get where I am.
    Also, my now wife called by the wrong name when I was on the pursuit and I did not correct her. Someone else eventually corrected her instead.

  • @EricMoore-ze2rf
    @EricMoore-ze2rf Год назад

    This show is really a great show!

  • @russlea6383
    @russlea6383 8 месяцев назад

    Rachel, you are not a talker, you are simply passionate about your opinions.

  • @amy2284
    @amy2284 Год назад +4

    I agree with Rachel about the guy paying for date because women’s biggest need is security and that small act of taking care of a dinner date would be an indicator of beliefs.

  • @jackson5618
    @jackson5618 Год назад +1

    Whats always awkward is when a friend says “don’t worry about it, I got it!!“ then a month later asks you when you will be able to pay back your half. 😮

    • @genxx2724
      @genxx2724 Год назад +2

      I met a lady from church for a coffee and she wouldn’t let me pay. She said, “Let’s keep it simple.” I think that’s a good idea. Separate checks instead of taking turns treating.

  • @kristenchambers5618
    @kristenchambers5618 Год назад +1

    My MiL always assumes my husband and I will pick up her lunch/dinner bill if she meets us for a meal. It’s a pet peeve of mine.

  • @src4409
    @src4409 Год назад

    People will say "hey we need 90 days" and then that turns into a year and you have to be the bad guy when in fact they are.

  • @saeligutierrez8025
    @saeligutierrez8025 Год назад +2

    Agreed if it keep you up at night , and it’s family or friends then doesn’t hurt to bring it up or if you do finance just help them or ask them how can we help.

  • @src4409
    @src4409 Год назад

    "Im so sorry! I so wish I could because I love this idea, but (I need more notice/I just don't have even 10 extra dollars in my budget)." You can even go into why you're budgeting so strictly if you want, but it shouldn't be important at this point.

  • @sephorin6671
    @sephorin6671 9 месяцев назад

    I love that "Guilty as Charged" has become "Guilty Discharge" in the seeking bar.

  • @georgev2661
    @georgev2661 Год назад

    I really enjoyed this segment.

  • @stevebarbian5080
    @stevebarbian5080 4 месяца назад

    On conversations with parents about money... we've got to remember who Rachel's dad is. That would take some guts to try and tell Dave that he's doing something wrong.

  • @TheThreatenedSwan
    @TheThreatenedSwan 5 месяцев назад

    Always have her pay her part unless you're worried about the signaling consequences which are usually very significant 😅

  • @scotthumphreys4157
    @scotthumphreys4157 Год назад

    Most topics on here: Establish expectations, always and that takes the edge of most things. Dollars, length of time and gift vs loan.

  • @JohnM0rris
    @JohnM0rris Год назад +1

    Awesome episode. Very funny 😁 😂

  • @ronnievengua9535
    @ronnievengua9535 Год назад +2

    I had a bud that would make me feel guilty paying the bill when we hung out. I genuinely appreciated the time well spent, so as a good gesture I’d pay. After 2-3 times of him making side comments. . I stopped. No sense of feeling bad

  • @shantvincent782
    @shantvincent782 Год назад

    I think it is important to intervene when people are suffering, attempt to help (not be a SAVIOR). If they reject the help, OK. It is unloving to watch someone suffer and not make an attempt to help, even if the suffering is self-inflicted.

  • @KC-dr3cg
    @KC-dr3cg Год назад

    In my Metro neighborhood people talk about money quite often because we help each other get the best return on our modest savings and we compare appraisers when we are going through refinances etc... My neighbors in a rural part of the state never talk about money I'm really not sure why.. they would rather keep good financial information almost like it is contest

  • @dummgelauft
    @dummgelauft 5 месяцев назад

    I am ok with an adult child living at home, IF they are a fulltime student in a marketable program making good grades. (engineering, architecture, law, vet, medical, pharmacy, nursing etc), they get full access to the house and the food, no charge. They just need to earn their spending money.

  • @hayleyarredondo7850
    @hayleyarredondo7850 Год назад

    Lol love this duo

  • @ambergastineau1652
    @ambergastineau1652 Год назад

    I agree with Rachel saying it's not going to hold me back from getting the apps. Lol my husband and I are app people too

  • @candecarro
    @candecarro Год назад +1

    Almost every sentence of Rachel’s longer than four words has the word “like” sometimes multiple times.
    But it was a great episode!

  • @gabrielleglenn4307
    @gabrielleglenn4307 4 месяца назад

    The wedding situation: we had a buffet but still had to pay per head for the catering. I knew the stats on how many people usually show up to a wedding so even though we were expecting about 70-75ish I told the catering company 60 and I was pretty much on the nose lol about exactly 60 came

  • @jd_dumpsters
    @jd_dumpsters Год назад +1

    Love it! Great job all three. I love the ending Greg!!!