I live in Virginia, although I was born in Ohio. About 10 years ago a group of New Amish bought up farms in the neighborhood. They ask me many times to take them somewhere. We a have had many rewarding conversations. One of them even quipped that God had placed me here to help welcome them to the area. When my father passed, they came with food, etc. Couldn't ask for better neighbors. Thank you for sharing. I am so sorry for your heartache. You and your family are certainly in my prayers.🙏
I grew up in Virginia and was raised as a Mennonite, new order, electric, cars all of that. Anyway, all of the Amish and all of the Mennonites were very welcoming and kind, no matter which orders they were in. Honestly, I think I enjoyed the wooden Amish and Mennonite toys more than the modern toys.
@@alvindueck2104 It normally isn't. However, somewhere on my Grandfather's side of the family they left Germany escaping the Catholic persecution of the Amish and Mennonites. Over the generations and marriages out of the Mennonite community and different order changes, they just stayed Mennonite. We didn't dress like you would think Mennonites would dress, we wore regular clothes. Grandma would wear her Kapp though. Last January my Grandmother passed, Grandaddy passed in 1983 in a farm accident. But I went to Virginia last summer to visit their graves at the same Mennonite church I grew up in. The memories flooded me ! I went to one of my uncle's houses after that and he showed me three albums of pictures, birth certificates, and other important documents. Now that was a trip! My great-grandmother was born in Saskatchewan.
I’m in ny and there’s a amish farm down the road from me and the kids my age (17-19) probably know 90 percent of my bloodline and some of them work with me and my dad at his construction company and they are all nice and talkative, not sure if they are Mennonite’s,old/new order but some amish would talk to you and won’t be completely silent and some amish will have the personality of a stone wall. They even taught me some Pennsylvanian Dutch and were mindblown when we got them McDonald’s and energy drinks that they asked for themselves 😂
I had to grow up as a Southern Baptist. In TN. I'm always trying to do the right, but I'm cursed with a near photographic memory. I have seen luck and skill, but no divine intervention moment. Still though 10 commandments and the golden rule, that's just common sense. I hope it gets better. ❤️
If all scripture is inspired of God, then 1 Cor. 5:11-13 and 2 John 1:10-11 points to not allowing anyone deemed evil in your midst...not even saying a greeting to them. How far to take it is more or less determined to what degree they've sinned.
Ahhhh yes. Faith is difficult in this crazy world. But, then again, the Bible is full of crazy stories. Nothing is too big for God. I wish I had links easily available but look up David Gibbs “doing the impossible” there are stories that are too crazy to believe, but often that’s how God works. He makes sure you know it was Him.
@@eliyoder491 hey.. Has your mom ever met you son? I’m just wondering if he’s allowed to visit her and if so does he have to wear on his clothing or can he wear worldly clothing?
@@Lauretta.LaurettaEli I believe has mentioned that he has taken his son and wife to visit his mom and they didn't have to wear Amish clothes because they had never been Amish.
I’ve lived in Pennsylvania and visited the Amish farms and people. They are a religious people and not a cult. Say what you will. I see you feel the need to criticize so sad!
@@dianedobson1104 sad you feel the need to criticize me criticizing the people who treat there own so badly. Go live that life style sence it it so great.
That must have hurt. I'm so sorry. I live in the thought that God is Love. Everything I do is based in thus. I hope that more people could live in love instead of judgment.
Eli, we (non Amish) have similar family problems and disputes with siblings at times that lead to never seeing one another again as well. It doesn't solve your dilemma, but adds insight hopefully to let you know you are not alone in experiencing that kind of pain and disappointment.....
@@spencerbergquist781 like I told Eli, it doesn't solve the problem but at least you know you're not alone, and that it's nothing personal. Families these days just don't have the same loyalty and values the way it used to be and all WE can do is do our best not to be the one causing problems or holding a grudge to try to set an example for the others in our family. Happy New Year bud
I can see that this whole situation has affected you alot emotionally, losing a sister in death is one thing, but to lose one that's still alive and breathing with a family, and forced to see them manipulated has to be the worst thing ever.
I have 8 sisters. We grew up in an idyllic setting, and always sang together. We were a close, happy family! Now 5 are Married to Bishops and preachers, I am ex Amish, and yeah my heart is sad when ever I remember or see them. We are still the same people, but the religious system has completely come between us. Oddly enough, I am an active church goer/ missionary, etc, so they make efforts to invite and include us sometimes…….but it’s just sad. They are brainwashed, their husbands act afraid of me, and with good reason. (Because I want to kick some sense into their heads.) like Eli, I study God’s Word, so my in laws never dare bring up the subject. All in all, it’s not the way God wants us to be around each other, of that I am certain!
Same happened with my sister in the Jehovah's Witnesses. When she was first learning about it, they warned her over and over again that she will lose her family and her family will go against her but not to worry, because they are now her family. She became so obsessed with the religion, that we told her that we would love to visit with her, but every time she comes over, she brings her Bible and preaches to us. If she could leave the Bible home and just have a normal conversation without bringing up scripture, then everything would be good. She then reminded us that they warned her this would happen.... I told her, "no, she is making the decision to leave us, because we require a sister to visit with, not a preacher"
It is not painful for everyone, just most. I realized a long time ago that it is better to get rid of toxic hoomans out of my life. They do more harm than good, especially when they refuse to even admit they have problems let alone even get help for those problems. Family is not what a person is born into in this life. Family is whom we choose to be family. That is how I have viewed things for a very long time. I have a great family, family that many have abandoned. I make sure they are well taken care of, have food, water and shelter as well as toys. That is not even including two of my own furry children. I will always love and cherish my entire family.
It's also pretty damn amazing that someone who has gone through the things you have, are just as respectful of your mothers religion. Just as you would want yours to be respected. You truly have overcome your passed and have truly forgiven them. You are an amazing example of a good person. Your son is fortunate to have such a great role model on what a real man is. He is very lucky.
Yes! It is beautiful to see a real, quality man or woman. It is not in being perfect. It is, IMO, about a desire to be a person of balanced and loving I tent. His mother is not (again, just in my view), is missing out on the pride that she should feel. It is sad that the ingrained separates her from a bigger joy.
You are an amazing person Eli. You can love your birth family and respect their wishes even though you know that they are misguided. Blessings to you and your wife and son .
You sound like the perfect big brother and she is really throwing away a gem by shunning you. I will pray for your families. Thank you for sharing this!
I appreciate that you are so aware to realize that your sister is simply rejecting you out of fear because she dose not know any better. She has good intentions. all she wants to do is what she believes is the right thing. I’m also glad that you found your truth and found happiness
❤😢 Heartbreaking. Praying your Amish family sees the spirit of Christ in you. Praying that your words softened Wilma's heart and a seed was planted to set she and her husband free.
@@adamguzzo94 Exactly. There are many families of any kind of religion, and non-religious, with similar experiences for all kinds of different reasons, causes, etc.
I am a born again Christian and raised Catholic and I still struggle with this and been saved for 23 years next month. This helps seeing someone who went to so much to learn to forgive more.
You are awesome! I too, was raised in a Cult (LDS) and I am now a Christian. Everything you are saying is 100% true. It's mind blowing and upsetting as I have family members that are still in the church and it's upsetting how brainwashed they are against Christians but claim they believe in Jesus. It's sad.. take care and God bless.
@shannon Cassar I think someone has sadly misled you. I am LDS, I am not part of a cult, and I am Christian, so I will pray for you. You are taking away from this kind man's post talking about a different subject.
@@PresleysMom I am a Christian and I was born in to the LDS religion. Please, research your church. It's a cult. All you have to do is read the history of the church and you will see all the wrongs. Joseph Smith was a thief who stole from the rich by saying he could find buried treasure on their property by looking through his "seeing stones". Thank you for praying for me. Open your eyes and you will start to see. I am not taking away from this man's post as I know what it's like growing up in a cult much like he was. Take care...may God bless you always.
My G-G Grandma was a Mennonite, very religious and followed all the rules, but even though she took her religion very seriously and lived in their conmunity, she still let her children come and visit, and they were definitely a wild bunch even though they didn't follow the scripture and were definitely living in sin out in the civilian world😂 she said besides God, family is always the second most important thing in life
@@daDurvis no I'm not living in sin, but as a mother I could/would never turn my back on any of my children nor my family, no matter what a book or priest tries to tell me, my children and my family are my heart and if they want to live a different way than me, than so be it, because in the end your going to look back and regret pushing them out of your life and not having them around. Just because someone doesn't agree or wants to follow a certain religion, doesn't mean they're bad people and going to hell... I have family who are very religious and follow the book closely, but they have never shunned me, they may not agree with everything i do but they don't judge me because only God can. FYI, I'm very happy within, maybe you should look in the mirror before trying to judge me😀 Bless your heart and have a nice day! 😘
I’m in southern Ohio and I’ll never ever forget being 16 and my dads friends brought two Amish boys to one of there car shows and some older Amish men showed up screaming at those boys and tried dragging them back to the buggy’s. There family threw them out over nothing and they ended up living with my dads friend for a couple years until they got on there feet. But those boys were wild back then to say the least we all always got into trouble lol They have there own business building homes for 15 years now and still succeeding without there mean ass parents help in anyway
This is so sad. I was not raised Amish...was raised very 'English'. However I was married to a malignant narcissist who was excessively controlling etc. (It was quite difficult getting away.) I wonder if her husband made her do this. She was already raised to be very submissive. I hope she and her family find freedom in Christ.
I am so sorry that you're facing this type of aversion and suffering. I'm not Amish. My family are mostly Christian, Baptists, Episcopalian and whatnot. I knew about Christianity but when I was 15, I had a near death experience and it changed me for the rest of my life. My own family is mostly gone now (I'm 58) and the few that are left, don't want anything to do with me, I"m just too different. However, without knowing my history, my fiance's (husband now) family gave me a seat at their tables. They loved and accepted me, even though they consider me a heathen. I'm a practicing Buddhist because it makes me less of a selfish, grasping person and teaches me how to better love others. Rejection from the people you love is always going to hurt to a degree. But don't let it stop you from finding people who love and accept you as you are. You are a creation of The Ineffable, just like everyone else. You are worthy of love and acceptance. Being able to take the Bible thump hit and thump right back is certainly a bonus. Love and light to you, brother.
You did a wonderful job staying positive and respecting her boundaries, but also educating her and giving her something to really contemplate. You did what you could. She will really regret it someday if not already.
I know that had to be heartbreaking. I'll keep your sister in my prayers and pray that God will open her eyes to the truth. My family (Bylers) were Amish but got out several generations ago. I'm so glad that they did. So many people these days romanticize the Amish. Thank you for shining a light on what is really happening.
@@pamelameckley5040 I'm sure we are distantly related! The Bylers in the US all descend from the same man, Jacob Byler, who came to the US from Switzerland in the 1730's.
I can't imagine how difficult it is for you. They aren't rejecting you. They are rejecting our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. God bless you for your witness to them.
I feel sorry for you that you and, your brother have lost your sister. And I feel sorry for her that she is so insecure in her beliefs and parenting and community that she can't risk to expose her children to “outside life". I'm an atheist myself but when I see people who are happy and content in their beliefs, without feeling the need to force their views on others to create an environment that allows them to escape their own questions and doubts, I really like it. I've watched a few of your videos and I think we could discuss for hours about religion, respectfully, and you would not be afraid of my point of view that any religion is another part of philosophy. I could not weaken your beliefs, because they come from within and aren't fed to you from the outside anymore. You have found your very own way and you live and you feel it. I hope your sister gets to that point, too, and I'm very sure that you and your brother will open your door for her and invite her back into your life, if she wants to return.
I am so sorry that you experienced this kind of treatment from your family. I'm not Amish, but my family were German Lutheran farmers and they idolize the Amish. I too have experienced what you're going through and trust me, either they simply don't care or they're far too terrified to go against the status quo. The women especially, have never lead an independent life, they're way too scared to go against the church and the family. I was adopted and moved away at 18, the first chance I got, so I was secretly tolerated, but my name was drug through the mud, when they thought I couldn't hear. I've learned the best mindset is to just let go, people will be who they want to be and it's no reflection on us. I know it's difficult to let go and let them be, but it's what's best for your peace of mind. Don't set your self up, for a broken heart my friend. You deserve better.
You amaze me Eli, your understanding of scripture and ability to communicate it with such love is awesome! Keep up the good work! I will try to find the words to pray, for you and your mission.
This man has no idea he's probably doing something that will change the world not even knowing. This man is going to make history sir you are nothing short of amazing and you will be absolutely unconditionally loved by God . ❤️ AND WHAT YOU THINK ABOUT YOUR SISTER, IS 100% TRUE. DONT LET ANYONE TELL YOU OTHERWISE. YOUR CORRECT HERE. IM SO HAPPY FOR YOU. I LOVE YOUR CONTENT AND YOUR BEAUTIFUL SOUL SHINES RIGHT THROUGH YOUR EYES AND YOU CAN EVEN HEAR IT IN YOUR VOICE. THANK YOU FOR HELPING THESE POOR CONFUSED PEOPLE, THEY NEED IT. BADLY .
@@eliyoder491 ❤️ And the same to yours , it makes me so happy you found love through a beautiful loving woman and your so happy. It's just beautiful (I'm also freaking out inside screaming to my 18 year old son who watches your content with me oh My gosh ELI GAVE ME A HEART AND A RESPONSE I FEEL LIKE I JUST MET A CELEBRITY!!!!! I started watching bc my brothers lived in littiz and Manheim pa so I always saw the Amish. NOW I'm just happy to actually "meet" you lol 😆 I'm rambling I'm sorry I'm excited 😊 🤗 🤪
Just a reminder: God loved Eli absolutely and completely before Eli knew Him. And God loves Eli's mother and sister in the same way. God never loves us more and He never loves os less. Many people can't seem to understand that they can't do something to increase God's love nor cause His love to fail. It is complete, endless and unchanging.
Even though it’s painful, sharing this as part of your testimony is important for healing, forgiveness, and teaching others about true Christianity. Thank you.
Found you a couple weeks ago on TikTok. This is the first video I have seen. You have a gift for telling your family stories. I believe you deserve a lot of credit, some of us have suffered due to family's mental issues and not fared as well as you. Keep giving meaning to your experiences. I will follow you from now on, best wishes, marylou❤
I can tell in your tone visiting your sister was hurtful. We can love our family but we do not have to like them. As you stated she is ingrained to believe how she does through the years of conditioning. At least your mother left some room there even if the door is half open. You're still healing Eli. Embrace your family you have. Healing comes from love and understanding.
I’m so sorry Eli. This must have hurt so much. Your ability to be loving - and your grace to understand the limits your sister is living with, even in the face of real ongoing hurt - is radical. That is the kind of costly love that inspires. Thank you for sharing.
I live in Ohio, not far from Kenton. We purchased a home from the Amish when they moved to a larger Amish Community. I find that shunning is just so harsh, it is so heartbreaking. It leaves a wound that never heals and it benefits no one.
I live near Marlette and have given my friends who are Amish a ride with their chickens or such that they buy at the stockyards! The Amish here are very friendly and welcoming! I just live in Yale and I am a Pastor
Marlette Michigan is where my sister Clara and her husband, David Lambright live and they are very welcoming when we come to visit and they allowed me to sit at the same table and even eat with them and I really wish my Amish community would learn from their love that they display in Marlette Michigan
@@eliyoder491 that’s great. I grew up in Elkhart, IN. My ex brother in law was Amish and my grandparents were Mennonite and wore some very simple clothing. Grandma wore a bonnet. I don’t remember much but dad could understand Pennsylvania Dutch.
I never knew about the Amish until now. The ones I've met have been very pleasant, and the former Amish I have met have been wonderful, kind, strong Christians like you. Thank you for telling the world about both the Amish and Jesus.
I’m sorry for your headache brother. It never ceases to amaze me how anyone can shun their own family over things such as religion, politics, or social issues. You and your family are in my prayers. I pray that The Lord touches your mother’s and sister’s hearts, and they come to know the love of Jesus and can come to understand how to show that love in return.
I agree with u wholeheartedly, in general, and with the spirit u meant to!! That’s the ultimate Ideal! Yet, the Real life can bring in situations that are very, very difficult to deal with! Sometimes it can be even a matter of life and death, such as during Wars, persecution, etc! Historically, People got arrested for certain political or religious views, or being of the wrong religion, ethnicity, nationality, etc! Even the sympathizers or those that help them, get imprisoned or executed! The Amish and the Mennonites had suffered much persecution when they had to leave Europe as Refugees to save own lives! Those that followed Jesus in the Bible, surely brought a family division and conflict within their Families! Lots of pain for both sides! It is great when the families are on the same page, can help each other! What if they are not on the same page?? When people are at polar opposites , whether politically, religious, social, cultural, etc, it can be very, very difficult to navigate within the Family! I’m dealing with this right now myself and I’m at total loss how to navigate this! Of course, one or both can decide not to talk about it, ignore the polarization and concentrate on the familial ties! It can still present a serious moral or ethical dilemma, depending on the issues! Strong emotions are aroused whenever the topic is touched on! Each side is convinced they are on the right side!!Even when u know that the certain family members are deluded and had accepted the disinformation or bias fed to them, too often neither side is able to move forward to peace or an agreement!! Just like in this ex-Amish video!
Cults tear apart so many families! I’m so sorry you’re going through this, I hope she changes her mind and comes to her senses! I think you’re right that her husband and his family has really pushed that decision. What fascinates me about the Amish is they aren’t like a lot of other cults where they join as adults or they have equal exposure to everything else. I think a lot of people, especially women and children, doing know anything else because they’ve never been exposed to it
They are also extremely insulated and one of the😮 reasons they’re dangerous. The Amish aren’t involved with the police, imagine how horrific it can get without real consequences.
Shalom from the Ohio Valley 🙏 Im so sorry your sister is losing such a beautiful relationship with a brother like you. Thank you for sharing your story, im so glad JESUS is your King and your Brother.
This is the first video of yours that I watched. I live in a community populated by Amish, Mennonites and English. First I’m sorry that you have “lost” your family. To me Family is so important - good, bad or indifferent. Recently my niece married a a young man who was born and raised in a Mennonite family but left. We have gone to several family function where his family also attended and I find it very refreshing how they still show love, kindness and caring to him even though he does not participate in their religion. I wish your family would do the same for you.
But why wouldn't they show love and kindness? Why do you find it in any way extraordinary? Christianity is all about love and yet I find that quality far more in atheists than in theists of all denominations.
The forgiveness and love you have for your Amish people is phenomenal. I, too, was raised in a cult & it's not easy to forgive, but it is possible with God's grace. Thank you for being so honest. You're a brave man!!
Your sister's love being conditional makes me sad. 😢. I'm so sorry. Bless your heart for the way you keep trying to have a relationship with your family.
Oh my, Eli. That must be so hard - your family turning their backs on you. Keep on keeping on. You have a whole group of spiritual brothers and sisters all around the world - Christians. Watching from Poland (American missionary).
My family’s not Amish but they are in a cult in their own way. I’m very happy that my sister allows me to see my nieces even though they have said similar things about my leaving their cult. Much respect to you Eli, that’s a rough position to be in, I’m not a praying man but I do hope she softens her heart and comes to her humanity in her feelings towards you and your brother.
I was raised similar to you my friend, but not amish, however when things heated up, with my dad, I’d had enough and joined Uncle Sam’s lustrous U.S. Army!! After 3 long years, and serving in a country overseas, which was a cesspool at best I came back home a changed man! My relationship with my father, may he Rest in Peace, did a total turnaround in my favor! When I found out that the Amish were exempt from serving this great country I honestly could not stand to even look at them! I grew up in Butler, Ohio and was very close to where several Amish settlements were. I appreciate your videos and support you 110%!
I am Atheist despite being raised in a extremist religion. I too consider my families religion to be a cult. It is rare that I find a religious person I would consider holy, however you sir are one of those special people who represent all that is good and holy. Perhaps if I had someone like you in my life I would have found my faith growing up. Thank you for being the awesome sauce that is you. Sincerely thank you.
@@alethealenning3809 Having faith isn't a switch either, yet plenty of people lose faith. Some find it, others lose it. So yeah, you could still find faith if you wanted to. Believing in science has nothing to do with faith.
@@janitorial-engineer2286 Who said anything about science? I certainly made none. My lack of faith in a nonexistent God has absolutely nothing to do with science. You don’t think I would love to be able to believe in an all powerful being that has a plan for me? It isn’t a choice for me. That’s not my reality.
@@alethealenning3809 Well considering the typical atheist believes more in science than a God is where I got that from. I felt the exact same way for 15+ years. The "reality" is your exposure to faith has been negative. Find good exposure to it within yourself and others who have good intentions. You'll see a difference. Or you could just keep arguing. I was just giving my two cents, take it or leave it.
Dude I've watched a lot of your videos especially the ones about you and your father and honestly I think you're carrying on your father's Spirit after he left us. You seem to both be free-spirited guys who just want to live your lives and while it's a shame that your father is no longer with us I would definitely say you're doing your father proud I'm sure he's looking down on you from heaven saying "that's my boy" . You don't let anyone tell you what to do although you're more than reasonable to work a compromise, honestly your father would be really proud if I base it off what I've heard you say about him like your hilarious story about the dirt bike which cracks me up everytime I hear it.
The pain in your face when you talk about being loved to your sister, i felt that. Im not religious but i feel the same way about English/Christians as you do with the amish. How can anyone expect someone to willing come to them when they dont convey love, respect, or compassion just conformation? Not all but many, i just want to say it takes a lot to put yourself out there/ your past and painful experiences, thanks for sharing and i wish you peace always.
I am sorry for your loss of family. I am in a similar situation with my siblings over my mother’s death (congestive heart failure.) They wanted her material possessions but for more than two weeks, and myself having a heart attack, never helped with the work and refused to even help with her cremation expenses. They wanted money and material goods only and her “estate” was of no real value! I offered many things to them as well as offering to transport it at my expense. I miss them but have no room in my life for such callous, lying and thoughtless people. It’s rather sad but they will have to answer for their actions eventually. It is not my place to judge them but I do still pray for both of them.
And after everything this man has been through he is still a man that loves his mother and sister and is trying to save them this my friends is a great Man Godspeed Mr Yoder
I am glad your sister in Michigan was able to bring you in to the house & love on you . To be shuned only works if you have been loved . I am glad the Amish in Burton Ohio are not like the ones you grew up with . We all need to pray for them
I'll tell ya right now, I am not a religious person, but I was raised Christian. And I do know the love of Christ knows no bounds. Those who put limits upon that love has misunderstood. Love those who do not. And keep making that point. Thank you for reaching out. That's the best love you can show
I am so very glad that you found the the Love and Forgiveness of our Heavenly Father and I am praying for the restoration of your family to you by the Grace of God and His Loving Forgiveness 🙏🕊️❣️
I know you're putting up a strong front and you have comfort in your new faith, I also know the pain it brings to be rejected by family for no good reason other than essentially he/she said... I pray for your comfort, ease of mind and Jesus to touch the hearts of those whom have been manipulated by the perversion of the word of God by man.
I am impressed that you can face your own sibling who isn't being christ-like & rejecting you while keeping a smile on your face. The things that divide our families today is a big challenge. Sending you blessings and prayers as move forward with a happy spirit. 😊
The Amish have always intrigued me. I see so much respect, so much humanity, but then I watch how they treat others and learn they are no better than the rest of the world. I for one am not perfect, it it is not my place to judge others for things they do, they is left for the day of judgement. I do like your explanation of love and respect as far as the 2 different Amish communities. How one tries to judge and shun where upon the other is respectful and inviting. For being the first video of yours I have seen, I learned a lot.
I hear the pain in your voice when you tell these stories. Keep doing what you’re doing and when it’s all said and done you will see who holds the door of heaven open for you or your Amish family. I am glad you’re happy.
God bless you. Jesus said “For whosoever shall do the will of my Father which is in heaven, the same is my brother, and sister, and mother. ”. Thank you for sharing as it helps me understand better the Amish community. You are right about love, accepting those with different beliefs into our homes. I pray GOD will open her eyes and heart.
Amen brother. It breaks my heart when I hear just how brainwashed some of the amish cults are but it's encouraging to hear your story and I will definitely add your sister and family in my prayers for their eyes and hearts to be opened to the truth of Jesus. God bless you brother. ❤️🙏
I am so sorry you have to deal with such a horrible situation. You seem so kind and full of love. I pray your family sees truth and can one day be reunited.
I’m so sorry. It’s so hard having to walk away from family at their wishes or against. Knowing there are outside forces forming this opinion doesn’t make it hurt less. I hope you can find peace, and I hope she opens her eyes.
Its difficult to loose a sibling in this way, I have no experience with amish but can relate in losing my young sister over religious/ideology reasons. Sry for this unfortunate situation. Thanks for sharing.
My dad and mom both left their amish upbringing in their late teens. I have many amish cousins and have never felt this judgement or rejection. I've known of these amish communities that shun, and pray those chains can be broken before it's too late. It's the bishop who has the control over his local group and whatever he says goes. Thanks for your video and thoughts. I think you're right on!
I just couldn’t imagine rejecting my sister’s that way! My heart hurts for you! I know you’ve been dealing with this for years and you understand why she reacted in that manner but she’s still your sister and because of that I know it hurts! I pray God will use you to reach your family before it’s too late! God bless you for the work that you do!
Eli, Im so sorry this must be heartbreaking because she is your sister and you love her.. deep down I think she loves you too. I hope one day she will see the light and let you back into her life. Because family is so important but im sure you know that already. Your son is lucky he has you for a father because you have taught him to be loving and caring and we need more of that in the world.
If anybody has given themselves ‘over to the Devil,’ it’s not you. I just recently found your site, and love how you are teaching about God’s love for us.
I'm so sorry that your family treats you this way.
I live in Virginia, although I was born in Ohio. About 10 years ago a group of New Amish bought up farms in the neighborhood. They ask me many times to take them somewhere. We a have had many rewarding conversations. One of them even quipped that God had placed me here to help welcome them to the area. When my father passed, they came with food, etc. Couldn't ask for better neighbors. Thank you for sharing. I am so sorry for your heartache. You and your family are certainly in my prayers.🙏
I grew up in Virginia and was raised as a Mennonite, new order, electric, cars all of that. Anyway, all of the Amish and all of the Mennonites were very welcoming and kind, no matter which orders they were in. Honestly, I think I enjoyed the wooden Amish and Mennonite toys more than the modern toys.
@Tony Hyden
Didn't know Hyden is a Mennonite name. I's raised Mennonite up in Manitoba, Canada. Never heard of that one before.
@@alvindueck2104 It normally isn't. However, somewhere on my Grandfather's side of the family they left Germany escaping the Catholic persecution of the Amish and Mennonites. Over the generations and marriages out of the Mennonite community and different order changes, they just stayed Mennonite. We didn't dress like you would think Mennonites would dress, we wore regular clothes. Grandma would wear her Kapp though. Last January my Grandmother passed, Grandaddy passed in 1983 in a farm accident. But I went to Virginia last summer to visit their graves at the same Mennonite church I grew up in. The memories flooded me ! I went to one of my uncle's houses after that and he showed me three albums of pictures, birth certificates, and other important documents. Now that was a trip! My great-grandmother was born in Saskatchewan.
@alvindueck2104 that's because we are Dutch Mennonite and most of the US Mennonites are Swiss Mennonite. Hence, hardly any if the names overlap.
I’m in ny and there’s a amish farm down the road from me and the kids my age (17-19) probably know 90 percent of my bloodline and some of them work with me and my dad at his construction company and they are all nice and talkative, not sure if they are Mennonite’s,old/new order but some amish would talk to you and won’t be completely silent and some amish will have the personality of a stone wall. They even taught me some Pennsylvanian Dutch and were mindblown when we got them McDonald’s and energy drinks that they asked for themselves 😂
“I can use the Bible against any religious cult” love that
I've witnessed friends being shunned.😢 Family should always be family, no matter what!
I had to grow up as a Southern Baptist. In TN. I'm always trying to do the right, but I'm cursed with a near photographic memory. I have seen luck and skill, but no divine intervention moment. Still though 10 commandments and the golden rule, that's just common sense. I hope it gets better. ❤️
Shunning is something that Jesus Christ would definitely condemn.
If all scripture is inspired of God, then 1 Cor. 5:11-13 and 2 John 1:10-11 points to not allowing anyone deemed evil in your midst...not even saying a greeting to them. How far to take it is more or less determined to what degree they've sinned.
I am not a man of faith. You sir are slowly making a change in that. You are doing the Lord's work and are saving lives!
Ahhhh yes. Faith is difficult in this crazy world. But, then again, the Bible is full of crazy stories. Nothing is too big for God. I wish I had links easily available but look up David Gibbs “doing the impossible” there are stories that are too crazy to believe, but often that’s how God works. He makes sure you know it was Him.
That's awesome brother! Faith in God is way better than havimg faith there is no God. Just keep your eyes and heart open and you will see God
Don't fall for it.
Save yourself while you can.
Imaginary friends are for children.
Embrace reality.
@@KorokHaze93 Keep writing Jesus' birth year on those checks.
@@Robmancan1987 🤣🤣🤣
Keep believing in fairy tales
Your son is a spitting image of you Eli. Those family photos are just great with the matching shirts and all lol.
Thank you
Right!he looks just like him at first i thought he had oic of him self as a kid up lol
@@eliyoder491 hey.. Has your mom ever met you son? I’m just wondering if he’s allowed to visit her and if so does he have to wear on his clothing or can he wear worldly clothing?
@@eliyoder491I'm sorry for your loss
@@Lauretta.LaurettaEli I believe has mentioned that he has taken his son and wife to visit his mom and they didn't have to wear Amish clothes because they had never been Amish.
She's afraid her kids will leave the cult. Hopefully they'll figure it out and leave to. Keep up the good work.
Amish is not a cult.
I live literally about 10 miles from Marlette. Maybe one of your cousins or siblings built our garage. Maybe, who knows.
@@dianedobson1104 they way certain ones live is definitely cult like. Stupid woman
I’ve lived in Pennsylvania and visited the Amish farms and people. They are a religious people and not a cult. Say what you will. I see you feel the need to criticize so sad!
@@dianedobson1104 sad you feel the need to criticize me criticizing the people who treat there own so badly. Go live that life style sence it it so great.
I’m a Mennonite and so much of what your saying applies to my people . I’m so thankful of the liberty I have in Christ
The reason that is, is the Amish derived from the Mennonites.
That must have hurt. I'm so sorry. I live in the thought that God is Love. Everything I do is based in thus. I hope that more people could live in love instead of judgment.
My parents grew up old colony Mennonite too, luckily for me, my grandparents got excommunicated for putting rubber tires on there tractor
Yep. Religion is the doctrines of man. We're free from the bondage of religion.
Can you tell about the Mennonites?
Eli, we (non Amish) have similar family problems and disputes with siblings at times that lead to never seeing one another again as well. It doesn't solve your dilemma, but adds insight hopefully to let you know you are not alone in experiencing that kind of pain and disappointment.....
Happens to all siblings over all issues
You just described my family. lol
@@spencerbergquist781 like I told Eli, it doesn't solve the problem but at least you know you're not alone, and that it's nothing personal. Families these days just don't have the same loyalty and values the way it used to be and all WE can do is do our best not to be the one causing problems or holding a grudge to try to set an example for the others in our family. Happy New Year bud
Ya , that family crap will make you weak. The Amish don't have a corner on the market.
"Let he who has ears hear."
I can see that this whole situation has affected you alot emotionally, losing a sister in death is one thing, but to lose one that's still alive and breathing with a family, and forced to see them manipulated has to be the worst thing ever.
Yes. It has to be painful.
No matter what religion this is happening to many parents and loved ones. We are being alienated. Sad. We need to keep praying.
I have 8 sisters. We grew up in an idyllic setting, and always sang together. We were a close, happy family!
Now 5 are Married to Bishops and preachers, I am ex Amish, and yeah my heart is sad when ever I remember or see them.
We are still the same people, but the religious system has completely come between us.
Oddly enough, I am an active church goer/ missionary, etc, so they make efforts to invite and include us sometimes…….but it’s just sad. They are brainwashed, their husbands act afraid of me, and with good reason. (Because I want to kick some sense into their heads.) like Eli, I study God’s Word, so my in laws never dare bring up the subject.
All in all, it’s not the way God wants us to be around each other, of that I am certain!
Same happened with my sister in the Jehovah's Witnesses. When she was first learning about it, they warned her over and over again that she will lose her family and her family will go against her but not to worry, because they are now her family. She became so obsessed with the religion, that we told her that we would love to visit with her, but every time she comes over, she brings her Bible and preaches to us. If she could leave the Bible home and just have a normal conversation without bringing up scripture, then everything would be good. She then reminded us that they warned her this would happen.... I told her, "no, she is making the decision to leave us, because we require a sister to visit with, not a preacher"
It is not painful for everyone, just most. I realized a long time ago that it is better to get rid of toxic hoomans out of my life. They do more harm than good, especially when they refuse to even admit they have problems let alone even get help for those problems. Family is not what a person is born into in this life. Family is whom we choose to be family. That is how I have viewed things for a very long time. I have a great family, family that many have abandoned. I make sure they are well taken care of, have food, water and shelter as well as toys. That is not even including two of my own furry children. I will always love and cherish my entire family.
It's also pretty damn amazing that someone who has gone through the things you have, are just as respectful of your mothers religion. Just as you would want yours to be respected. You truly have overcome your passed and have truly forgiven them. You are an amazing example of a good person. Your son is fortunate to have such a great role model on what a real man is. He is very lucky.
Yes! It is beautiful to see a real, quality man or woman.
It is not in being perfect.
It is, IMO, about a desire to be a person of balanced and loving I tent.
His mother is not (again, just in my view), is missing out on the pride that she should feel. It is sad that the ingrained separates her from a bigger joy.
You can make me laugh and also cry. Keep it up, love to you
You are an amazing person Eli. You can love your birth family and respect their wishes even though you know that they are misguided. Blessings to you and your wife and son .
You sound like the perfect big brother and she is really throwing away a gem by shunning you. I will pray for your families. Thank you for sharing this!
I appreciate that you are so aware to realize that your sister is simply rejecting you out of fear because she dose not know any better. She has good intentions. all she wants to do is what she believes is the right thing. I’m also glad that you found your truth and found happiness
❤😢 Heartbreaking. Praying your Amish family sees the spirit of Christ in you. Praying that your words softened Wilma's heart and a seed was planted to set she and her husband free.
How sad their love is "conditional". 😢 How gracious and loving of you to continue to reach out to your family💞🙏
I'm not Amish and my families the same way.
@@adamguzzo94 Sin is sin....😕
@@adamguzzo94 Exactly. There are many families of any kind of religion, and non-religious, with similar experiences for all kinds of different reasons, causes, etc.
The unexamined life is not a life! Always afraid of what is different.
The love you still show to the people that hurt you , is amazing ! You are a good man doing as Jesus taught .
I am a born again Christian and raised Catholic and I still struggle with this and been saved for 23 years next month. This helps seeing someone who went to so much to learn to forgive more.
He is living out the actions that Lord Jesus wants us to live.
He left. He's shunned.
@@bassmangotdbluz3547 That's your opinion
@@bassmangotdbluz3547 what's that have to do with the comment?
You are awesome! I too, was raised in a Cult (LDS) and I am now a Christian. Everything you are saying is 100% true. It's mind blowing and upsetting as I have family members that are still in the church and it's upsetting how brainwashed they are against Christians but claim they believe in Jesus. It's sad.. take care and God bless.
They need our prayers.
Fellow ex-mormon here as well! Hi! So glad to see another former LDS now Christian.
@shannon Cassar I think someone has sadly misled you. I am LDS, I am not part of a cult, and I am Christian, so I will pray for you. You are taking away from this kind man's post talking about a different subject.
@@PresleysMom I am a Christian and I was born in to the LDS religion. Please, research your church. It's a cult. All you have to do is read the history of the church and you will see all the wrongs. Joseph Smith was a thief who stole from the rich by saying he could find buried treasure on their property by looking through his "seeing stones". Thank you for praying for me. Open your eyes and you will start to see. I am not taking away from this man's post as I know what it's like growing up in a cult much like he was. Take care...may God bless you always.
@@WDWJP30 God bless.
My family is NOT Amish, and still shuns me, so it's a behavior that happens in a lot of so-called "loving" families.
My G-G Grandma was a Mennonite, very religious and followed all the rules, but even though she took her religion very seriously and lived in their conmunity, she still let her children come and visit, and they were definitely a wild bunch even though they didn't follow the scripture and were definitely living in sin out in the civilian world😂 she said besides God, family is always the second most important thing in life
I feel your living in even more sin being within
@@daDurvis no I'm not living in sin, but as a mother I could/would never turn my back on any of my children nor my family, no matter what a book or priest tries to tell me, my children and my family are my heart and if they want to live a different way than me, than so be it, because in the end your going to look back and regret pushing them out of your life and not having them around.
Just because someone doesn't agree or wants to follow a certain religion, doesn't mean they're bad people and going to hell... I have family who are very religious and follow the book closely, but they have never shunned me, they may not agree with everything i do but they don't judge me because only God can.
FYI, I'm very happy within, maybe you should look in the mirror before trying to judge me😀 Bless your heart and have a nice day! 😘
@@daDurvis So I’m guessing you live in a glass house? I get a kick out of those who judge others, it’s got to be so hard to be perfect.
I’m in southern Ohio and I’ll never ever forget being 16 and my dads friends brought two Amish boys to one of there car shows and some older Amish men showed up screaming at those boys and tried dragging them back to the buggy’s. There family threw them out over nothing and they ended up living with my dads friend for a couple years until they got on there feet. But those boys were wild back then to say the least we all always got into trouble lol They have there own business building homes for 15 years now and still succeeding without there mean ass parents help in anyway
This is so sad. I was not raised Amish...was raised very 'English'. However I was married to a malignant narcissist who was excessively controlling etc. (It was quite difficult getting away.) I wonder if her husband made her do this. She was already raised to be very submissive. I hope she and her family find freedom in Christ.
@@cosmicsugarmuffin1908 I thought this as well.
Same
I wondered the same thing!
Heartbreaking. For her because she’s lost. For you that you’re treated poorly.
Yes heartbreaking
You did the righteous thing brother and yes praying is powerful ❤may GOD bless and keep you AMEN 🙏
I am so sorry that you're facing this type of aversion and suffering. I'm not Amish. My family are mostly Christian, Baptists, Episcopalian and whatnot. I knew about Christianity but when I was 15, I had a near death experience and it changed me for the rest of my life. My own family is mostly gone now (I'm 58) and the few that are left, don't want anything to do with me, I"m just too different.
However, without knowing my history, my fiance's (husband now) family gave me a seat at their tables. They loved and accepted me, even though they consider me a heathen. I'm a practicing Buddhist because it makes me less of a selfish, grasping person and teaches me how to better love others. Rejection from the people you love is always going to hurt to a degree. But don't let it stop you from finding people who love and accept you as you are. You are a creation of The Ineffable, just like everyone else. You are worthy of love and acceptance. Being able to take the Bible thump hit and thump right back is certainly a bonus. Love and light to you, brother.
You did a wonderful job staying positive and respecting her boundaries, but also educating her and giving her something to really contemplate. You did what you could. She will really regret it someday if not already.
Yea he didn't respect her boundaries
I know that had to be heartbreaking. I'll keep your sister in my prayers and pray that God will open her eyes to the truth. My family (Bylers) were Amish but got out several generations ago. I'm so glad that they did. So many people these days romanticize the Amish. Thank you for shining a light on what is really happening.
My friend's daughter is married to ex-Amish, Eli Byler. No idea if you're related or not though, I'm sure there are many.
@@pamelameckley5040 I'm sure we are distantly related! The Bylers in the US all descend from the same man, Jacob Byler, who came to the US from Switzerland in the 1730's.
I can't imagine how difficult it is for you. They aren't rejecting you. They are rejecting our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. God bless you for your witness to them.
I feel sorry for you that you and, your brother have lost your sister.
And I feel sorry for her that she is so insecure in her beliefs and parenting and community that she can't risk to expose her children to “outside life".
I'm an atheist myself but when I see people who are happy and content in their beliefs, without feeling the need to force their views on others to create an environment that allows them to escape their own questions and doubts, I really like it.
I've watched a few of your videos and I think we could discuss for hours about religion, respectfully, and you would not be afraid of my point of view that any religion is another part of philosophy. I could not weaken your beliefs, because they come from within and aren't fed to you from the outside anymore. You have found your very own way and you live and you feel it.
I hope your sister gets to that point, too, and I'm very sure that you and your brother will open your door for her and invite her back into your life, if she wants to return.
I am so sorry that you experienced this kind of treatment from your family. I'm not Amish, but my family were German Lutheran farmers and they idolize the Amish. I too have experienced what you're going through and trust me, either they simply don't care or they're far too terrified to go against the status quo. The women especially, have never lead an independent life, they're way too scared to go against the church and the family. I was adopted and moved away at 18, the first chance I got, so I was secretly tolerated, but my name was drug through the mud, when they thought I couldn't hear. I've learned the best mindset is to just let go, people will be who they want to be and it's no reflection on us. I know it's difficult to let go and let them be, but it's what's best for your peace of mind. Don't set your self up, for a broken heart my friend. You deserve better.
You amaze me Eli, your understanding of scripture and ability to communicate it with such love is awesome! Keep up the good work! I will try to find the words to pray, for you and your mission.
This man has no idea he's probably doing something that will change the world not even knowing. This man is going to make history sir you are nothing short of amazing and you will be absolutely unconditionally loved by God . ❤️ AND WHAT YOU THINK ABOUT YOUR SISTER, IS 100% TRUE. DONT LET ANYONE TELL YOU OTHERWISE. YOUR CORRECT HERE. IM SO HAPPY FOR YOU. I LOVE YOUR CONTENT AND YOUR BEAUTIFUL SOUL SHINES RIGHT THROUGH YOUR EYES AND YOU CAN EVEN HEAR IT IN YOUR VOICE. THANK YOU FOR HELPING THESE POOR CONFUSED PEOPLE, THEY NEED IT. BADLY .
I can do all things through Christ Jesus, who strengthens me. Thank you very much my friend for your kind words and God bless you and your family.
@@eliyoder491 ❤️ And the same to yours , it makes me so happy you found love through a beautiful loving woman and your so happy. It's just beautiful (I'm also freaking out inside screaming to my 18 year old son who watches your content with me oh My gosh ELI GAVE ME A HEART AND A RESPONSE I FEEL LIKE I JUST MET A CELEBRITY!!!!! I started watching bc my brothers lived in littiz and Manheim pa so I always saw the Amish. NOW I'm just happy to actually "meet" you lol 😆 I'm rambling I'm sorry I'm excited 😊 🤗 🤪
Just a reminder: God loved Eli absolutely and completely before Eli knew Him. And God loves Eli's mother and sister in the same way. God never loves us more and He never loves os less. Many people can't seem to understand that they can't do something to increase God's love nor cause His love to fail. It is complete, endless and unchanging.
Even though it’s painful, sharing this as part of your testimony is important for healing, forgiveness, and teaching others about true Christianity. Thank you.
This really spoke to me. Your attitude toward your sister really shows the heart of Christ. Thank you for setting such a good example.
Found you a couple weeks ago on TikTok. This is the first video I have seen. You have a gift for telling your family stories. I believe you deserve a lot of credit, some of us have suffered due to family's mental issues and not fared as well as you. Keep giving meaning to your experiences. I will follow you from now on, best wishes, marylou❤
I can tell in your tone visiting your sister was hurtful. We can love our family but we do not have to like them. As you stated she is ingrained to believe how she does through the years of conditioning. At least your mother left some room there even if the door is half open. You're still healing Eli. Embrace your family you have. Healing comes from love and understanding.
I’m so sorry Eli. This must have hurt so much. Your ability to be loving - and your grace to understand the limits your sister is living with, even in the face of real ongoing hurt - is radical. That is the kind of costly love that inspires. Thank you for sharing.
I'm so sorry for the treatment you are receiving, it is sad. God is love. Prayers for you and your family.
I can see how much pain this causes you. God bless you brother.
Yes I’m so sorry, you seem like a wonderful brother, even in the manner you spoke to her.
I live in Ohio, not far from Kenton. We purchased a home from the Amish when they moved to a larger Amish Community. I find that shunning is just so harsh, it is so heartbreaking. It leaves a wound that never heals and it benefits no one.
I live near Marlette and have given my friends who are Amish a ride with their chickens or such that they buy at the stockyards! The Amish here are very friendly and welcoming! I just live in Yale and I am a Pastor
Marlette Michigan is where my sister Clara and her husband, David Lambright live and they are very welcoming when we come to visit and they allowed me to sit at the same table and even eat with them and I really wish my Amish community would learn from their love that they display in Marlette Michigan
@@eliyoder491 that’s great. I grew up in Elkhart, IN. My ex brother in law was Amish and my grandparents were Mennonite and wore some very simple clothing. Grandma wore a bonnet. I don’t remember much but dad could understand Pennsylvania Dutch.
Oh Eli, I feel your pain. I left an abusive family but it still hurts to this day to think that they hate me because I love Jesus!
I never knew about the Amish until now. The ones I've met have been very pleasant, and the former Amish I have met have been wonderful, kind, strong Christians like you. Thank you for telling the world about both the Amish and Jesus.
Love & light Brother,
I know what it's like to be shunned by my own family.
It's the toughest journey I've ever walked.
Stay strong man you're always welcome with us English.
I’m sorry for your headache brother. It never ceases to amaze me how anyone can shun their own family over things such as religion, politics, or social issues. You and your family are in my prayers. I pray that The Lord touches your mother’s and sister’s hearts, and they come to know the love of Jesus and can come to understand how to show that love in return.
@myisekeossYou do know shunning is in the Bible!? Although, the way shunning is used by Amish is excessive and not the way it was meant to!
I agree with u wholeheartedly, in general, and with the spirit u meant to!!
That’s the ultimate Ideal!
Yet, the Real life can bring in situations that are very, very difficult to deal with!
Sometimes it can be even a matter of life and death, such as during Wars, persecution, etc!
Historically, People got arrested for certain political or religious views, or being of the wrong religion, ethnicity, nationality, etc! Even the sympathizers or those that help them, get imprisoned or executed!
The Amish and the Mennonites had suffered much persecution when they had to leave Europe as Refugees to save own lives!
Those that followed Jesus in the Bible, surely brought a family division and conflict within their Families! Lots of pain for both sides!
It is great when the families are on the same page, can help each other!
What if they are not on the same page??
When people are at polar opposites , whether politically, religious, social, cultural, etc, it can be very, very difficult to navigate within the Family!
I’m dealing with this right now myself and I’m at total loss how to navigate this!
Of course, one or both can decide not to talk about it, ignore the polarization and concentrate on the familial ties!
It can still present a serious moral or ethical dilemma, depending on the issues!
Strong emotions are aroused whenever the topic is touched on! Each side is convinced they are on the right side!!Even when u know that the certain family members are deluded and had accepted the disinformation or bias fed to them, too often neither side is able to move forward to peace or an agreement!!
Just like in this ex-Amish video!
Cults tear apart so many families! I’m so sorry you’re going through this, I hope she changes her mind and comes to her senses! I think you’re right that her husband and his family has really pushed that decision. What fascinates me about the Amish is they aren’t like a lot of other cults where they join as adults or they have equal exposure to everything else. I think a lot of people, especially women and children, doing know anything else because they’ve never been exposed to it
They are also extremely insulated and one of the😮 reasons they’re dangerous. The Amish aren’t involved with the police, imagine how horrific it can get without real consequences.
Hugs for your honesty.
Shalom from the Ohio Valley 🙏
Im so sorry your sister is losing such a beautiful relationship with a brother like you. Thank you for sharing your story, im so glad JESUS is your King and your Brother.
This is the first video of yours that I watched. I live in a community populated by Amish, Mennonites and English. First I’m sorry that you have “lost” your family. To me Family is so important - good, bad or indifferent. Recently my niece married a a young man who was born and raised in a Mennonite family but left. We have gone to several family function where his family also attended and I find it very refreshing how they still show love, kindness and caring to him even though he does not participate in their religion. I wish your family would do the same for you.
But why wouldn't they show love and kindness? Why do you find it in any way extraordinary? Christianity is all about love and yet I find that quality far more in atheists than in theists of all denominations.
You seem like a nice guy. I wish I had a brother like you.
The forgiveness and love you have for your Amish people is phenomenal. I, too, was raised in a cult & it's not easy to forgive, but it is possible with God's grace. Thank you for being so honest. You're a brave man!!
It is very evident by your spirit that you that you are a believer in Christ. You are an encouragement to lots of people.
Your sister's love being conditional makes me sad. 😢. I'm so sorry. Bless your heart for the way you keep trying to have a relationship with your family.
Oh my, Eli. That must be so hard - your family turning their backs on you. Keep on keeping on. You have a whole group of spiritual brothers and sisters all around the world - Christians. Watching from Poland (American missionary).
My family’s not Amish but they are in a cult in their own way. I’m very happy that my sister allows me to see my nieces even though they have said similar things about my leaving their cult. Much respect to you Eli, that’s a rough position to be in, I’m not a praying man but I do hope she softens her heart and comes to her humanity in her feelings towards you and your brother.
I was raised similar to you my friend, but not amish, however when things heated up, with my dad, I’d had enough and joined Uncle Sam’s lustrous U.S. Army!! After 3 long years, and serving in a country overseas, which was a cesspool at best I came back home a changed man! My relationship with my father, may he Rest in Peace, did a total turnaround in my favor! When I found out that the Amish were exempt from serving this great country I honestly could not stand to even look at them! I grew up in Butler, Ohio and was very close to where several Amish settlements were. I appreciate your videos and support you 110%!
I am Atheist despite being raised in a extremist religion. I too consider my families religion to be a cult. It is rare that I find a religious person I would consider holy, however you sir are one of those special people who represent all that is good and holy. Perhaps if I had someone like you in my life I would have found my faith growing up. Thank you for being the awesome sauce that is you. Sincerely thank you.
It's not too late to find your faith in Jesus. He is waiting with his arms wide open.
@@CraftyCarder-pe8zx I appreciate the faith but that’s not how Atheism works. It’s not a on off switch.
@@alethealenning3809 Having faith isn't a switch either, yet plenty of people lose faith. Some find it, others lose it. So yeah, you could still find faith if you wanted to. Believing in science has nothing to do with faith.
@@janitorial-engineer2286 Who said anything about science? I certainly made none. My lack of faith in a nonexistent God has absolutely nothing to do with science. You don’t think I would love to be able to believe in an all powerful being that has a plan for me? It isn’t a choice for me. That’s not my reality.
@@alethealenning3809 Well considering the typical atheist believes more in science than a God is where I got that from.
I felt the exact same way for 15+ years. The "reality" is your exposure to faith has been negative. Find good exposure to it within yourself and others who have good intentions. You'll see a difference. Or you could just keep arguing. I was just giving my two cents, take it or leave it.
Eli, You are suck a good man to forgive your sister and pray for her. I'm so sorry that she treated you and your police officer brother that way.
Your laugh just gets me every damn time
Dude I've watched a lot of your videos especially the ones about you and your father and honestly I think you're carrying on your father's Spirit after he left us. You seem to both be free-spirited guys who just want to live your lives and while it's a shame that your father is no longer with us I would definitely say you're doing your father proud I'm sure he's looking down on you from heaven saying "that's my boy" .
You don't let anyone tell you what to do although you're more than reasonable to work a compromise, honestly your father would be really proud if I base it off what I've heard you say about him like your hilarious story about the dirt bike which cracks me up everytime I hear it.
I love that story XD such a good father-son memory
The pain in your face when you talk about being loved to your sister, i felt that. Im not religious but i feel the same way about English/Christians as you do with the amish. How can anyone expect someone to willing come to them when they dont convey love, respect, or compassion just conformation? Not all but many, i just want to say it takes a lot to put yourself out there/ your past and painful experiences, thanks for sharing and i wish you peace always.
I am sorry for your loss of family. I am in a similar situation with my siblings over my mother’s death (congestive heart failure.) They wanted her material possessions but for more than two weeks, and myself having a heart attack, never helped with the work and refused to even help with her cremation expenses. They wanted money and material goods only and her “estate” was of no real value! I offered many things to them as well as offering to transport it at my expense. I miss them but have no room in my life for such callous, lying and thoughtless people. It’s rather sad but they will have to answer for their actions eventually. It is not my place to judge them but I do still pray for both of them.
And after everything this man has been through he is still a man that loves his mother and sister and is trying to save them this my friends is a great Man
Godspeed Mr Yoder
I am glad your sister in Michigan was able to bring you in to the house & love on you . To be shuned only works if you have been loved . I am glad the Amish in Burton Ohio are not like the ones you grew up with . We all need to pray for them
I'll tell ya right now, I am not a religious person, but I was raised Christian. And I do know the love of Christ knows no bounds. Those who put limits upon that love has misunderstood. Love those who do not. And keep making that point. Thank you for reaching out. That's the best love you can show
I am so very glad that you found the the Love and Forgiveness of our Heavenly Father and I am praying for the restoration of your family to you by the Grace of God and His Loving Forgiveness 🙏🕊️❣️
I know you're putting up a strong front and you have comfort in your new faith, I also know the pain it brings to be rejected by family for no good reason other than essentially he/she said... I pray for your comfort, ease of mind and Jesus to touch the hearts of those whom have been manipulated by the perversion of the word of God by man.
I am impressed that you can face your own sibling who isn't being christ-like & rejecting you while keeping a smile on your face. The things that divide our families today is a big challenge. Sending you blessings and prayers as move forward with a happy spirit. 😊
I am so sorry this happened to you, Eli. You are a lovely person. I hope some day your sister becomes brave enough to actually love you.
The Amish have always intrigued me. I see so much respect, so much humanity, but then I watch how they treat others and learn they are no better than the rest of the world. I for one am not perfect, it it is not my place to judge others for things they do, they is left for the day of judgement. I do like your explanation of love and respect as far as the 2 different Amish communities. How one tries to judge and shun where upon the other is respectful and inviting. For being the first video of yours I have seen, I learned a lot.
I love learning about your life. You're family is beautiful!
Very well spoken. God bless you!
I hear the pain in your voice when you tell these stories. Keep doing what you’re doing and when it’s all said and done you will see who holds the door of heaven open for you or your Amish family. I am glad you’re happy.
God bless you. Jesus said “For whosoever shall do the will of my Father which is in heaven, the same is my brother, and sister, and mother. ”. Thank you for sharing as it helps me understand better the Amish community. You are right about love, accepting those with different beliefs into our homes. I pray GOD will open her eyes and heart.
Amen brother. It breaks my heart when I hear just how brainwashed some of the amish cults are but it's encouraging to hear your story and I will definitely add your sister and family in my prayers for their eyes and hearts to be opened to the truth of Jesus. God bless you brother. ❤️🙏
Thank you ELI, for sharing to us this unfortunate incident with your sister. I will remember to pray for her and the congregation she belonged to.
They truly needed JESUS in their lives.
I am so sorry you have to deal with such a horrible situation. You seem so kind and full of love. I pray your family sees truth and can one day be reunited.
You have the patience of a saint, Eli. You certainly do a great job demonstrating the Lord's love and grace
You're brave. Accepting a loved ones rejection is so hard. Recently my family has been destroyed by rejection
Your spirit is so strong and huge to wrap them in prayer unconditionally, I am proud of you, blessings
I’m so sorry. It’s so hard having to walk away from family at their wishes or against. Knowing there are outside forces forming this opinion doesn’t make it hurt less. I hope you can find peace, and I hope she opens her eyes.
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You’re stories of Forgiveness and Jesus are awesome. I would be humbled to have a beer and learn your wisdom of the Bible and Amish life.
I would love to drink a few beers with you and chatt
Its difficult to loose a sibling in this way, I have no experience with amish but can relate in losing my young sister over religious/ideology reasons. Sry for this unfortunate situation. Thanks for sharing.
Eli your path has been hard but you’re following the path God is showing you! God Bless you!❤
Praying for them, and all of y'all.
Thank you for sharing the Gospel! You are so valued and such a great influence to others :)
I just loved the way this guy laughs 😃
My heart goes out to you for this.
My dad and mom both left their amish upbringing in their late teens. I have many amish cousins and have never felt this judgement or rejection. I've known of these amish communities that shun, and pray those chains can be broken before it's too late. It's the bishop who has the control over his local group and whatever he says goes. Thanks for your video and thoughts. I think you're right on!
Your response was great! Fabulous example for her to consider.
May God bless you, you are a brave, honest, decent man.
Much love to you, Eli. I can't imagine what you must deal with. You have made such an effort to stay connected to your family, which is beautiful.
Heartbreaking...Your so brave to confront her .💗
I just couldn’t imagine rejecting my sister’s that way! My heart hurts for you! I know you’ve been dealing with this for years and you understand why she reacted in that manner but she’s still your sister and because of that I know it hurts! I pray God will use you to reach your family before it’s too late! God bless you for the work that you do!
Eli, Im so sorry this must be heartbreaking because she is your sister and you love her.. deep down I think she loves you too. I hope one day she will see the light and let you back into her life. Because family is so important but im sure you know that already. Your son is lucky he has you for a father because you have taught him to be loving and caring and we need more of that in the world.
I'm so sorry about the heartache this is causing you. I pray God will give you peace and I pray he will save those of your family.
If anybody has given themselves ‘over to the Devil,’ it’s not you. I just recently found your site, and love how you are teaching about God’s love for us.
You, my brother, are a wonderful man. May God continue to use you. ❤️