STOP PUTTING ON A FRONT... THIS IS WHY BEING VULNERABLE IS IMPORTANT!!! |

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    Vulnerability... a word that we don't often like to hear, but a word that is important to implement in our own lives! Here's why I believe It's okay & IMPORTANT to stop putting on a front, to stop being so defensive & to be vulnerable... There is so much POWER in vulnerability!
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Комментарии • 52

  • @rinaswift3110
    @rinaswift3110 2 года назад +7

    I'm over here crying because I really needed to hear this. I'm ready to be set free from this feeling of holding and suppressing and running from my true feelings because I don't want to be seen as weak. This video is so life changing I thank God for leading me to your video. God bless you. You are amazing

  • @fartunmohamed8001
    @fartunmohamed8001 3 года назад +16

    Growing up in a first generation household, I’ve been told not to show emotions. My parents always taught us to be strong. But it’s gotten to a point where it’s hard for me to open up to others and I never feel connected to people on a deeper level

  • @peterreed736
    @peterreed736 2 года назад +2

    Experience has shown me that being vulnerable is not a luxury I can afford. Life has taught me to keep everyone at arms length and that includes my wife. Many people have tried to get me to open up and be vulnerable, but they have learnt that it is not going to happen. I disagree that being vulnerable gives you power as it does exactly the opposite. If I stay closed up I remain 100% in control.

    • @mrsincere4640
      @mrsincere4640 2 года назад

      Sounds like counseling is in the near future..

  • @TotallyDudeFun
    @TotallyDudeFun 2 года назад

    I’ve been hiding my sobriety from people without realizing it. I’ve felt a huge sense of shame for who I was and the awful things that happened during those times. I’m about to be 7 months sober from alcohol in two weeks and think I’m finally ready to share it with people beyond my family and very close friends because I‘ve been through a lot and it’s something to fucking celebrate! if I can do it they can too and I want to be open about talking about it

  • @nariahbriann9560
    @nariahbriann9560 4 года назад +31

    Im so glad I came across your video. I literally searched ways to be more open in a relationship because my relationship with my partner has gotten me to the point where I need to figure out what the hell is wrong with me lol because its so damn hard for me to open up to and be vulnerable with him. Your video has definitely WOKE ME UP to get my ish together, become confident with expressing my flaws and not letting my ego get the best of me and my relationship. Thank you Nissy

  • @fartunmohamed8001
    @fartunmohamed8001 3 года назад +7

    I was feeling in a rut because of something I’m going through and it’s being vulnerable to the ones I care about. I seen stand offish or like I don’t care. But honestly, I’m afraid to open up and show my real self. Everyone talks about it but not hard it can be. I’ll start here. I’ve been struggling with personal battles within myself and others.

  • @fartunmohamed8001
    @fartunmohamed8001 3 года назад +2

    I’ve struggled with body issues, self confidence and being myself fully. Self identity really

  • @jordinentertainer7748
    @jordinentertainer7748 2 года назад

    Ahhhhhhhhhh Im scarreed to not put up a front.

  • @michelles2644
    @michelles2644 4 года назад +13

    I grew up seeing my dad emotionally abuse my mom, now I do the same to my mother. I try and have power over her and others.
    I am jealous of my friend's successes and jealous of my best friends' looks. I feel like the dominant guy in all my relationships and can only be that girly, cutesy me when I am in a relationship with someone who has power over me.

    • @jaquelinequintero9192
      @jaquelinequintero9192 3 года назад +3

      stop doing that to ur mom😔 it must be tiring

    • @seyni736
      @seyni736 3 года назад +4

      @@jaquelinequintero9192 i think that is easier said than done and your comment is tone deaf

    • @TotallyDudeFun
      @TotallyDudeFun 2 года назад

      Thanks for being vulnerable. I hope you’ve made some changes after noticing these patterns. Taking responsibility is the first step

  • @ambermariemalone
    @ambermariemalone 2 года назад

    Liked and subbed when I saw the topic before watching because I knew it was going to be a great video and it is! Thank you 🤎

  • @rachaelo3882
    @rachaelo3882 4 года назад +12

    Congrats on your engagement to Ben! Just saw the proposal at the airport today 😀💕

  • @omolade16
    @omolade16 4 года назад +23

    Needed this. You're such an inspiration ❤️❤️

    • @NissyTee
      @NissyTee  4 года назад +2

      I appreciate you ❤️

  • @tamiya384
    @tamiya384 2 года назад

    I’m so grateful that I watched this video you are very wise with your words, and I just love that. Today, I decided I will be vulnerable and own up to the thing thar continued to haunt me. My body has been sexualized most of my life, I was sexually assaulted when I was 6-7 years old by someone I thought was a good person, I was taken advantage of because of by people older than me and younger than me for most of my childhood and I continued to let it happened as I got into relationships, I became very hyper sexual when I became a pre teen, but these moments that corrupted my innocence doesn’t define me and I am ready to let go and continue healing. I use to blame myself , my body and looks because of what other people did to me and I was very depressed at young age, at times I would wear things that enhance my body because I thought that was the only feature that people loved out me, yea it could me true but I choose to say it’s not. My body does not define my personality and my spirit as person defines me and I am more than my features and I am learning that as of today so thank you for helping me be vulnerable ♥️

  • @TeeTee-bz3pv
    @TeeTee-bz3pv 4 года назад +3

    Honey child, you telling the truth.
    Thank you🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @JesusIsTheGoodSheppard
    @JesusIsTheGoodSheppard 3 года назад +5

    Wow, just wow!!! I may have to listen to this again. I have been struggling with this for my whole life and it’s finally come to a point where I have to deal with it because it is stifling me. I don’t want this to hold me back anymore, I want to have more meaningful relationships and I realize it starts with me. I have always cared way too much about what people think, and I have created this image...it’s simply just not me. You have encouraged me to step out in faith, thank you❤️

  • @katelcherry6952
    @katelcherry6952 3 года назад +1

    thank you, I really needed to hear this today. I have been afraid to be vulnerable in relationships, because of abandonment issues, due to having so many deaths in my family at a very young age.

  • @amigrowing
    @amigrowing 3 года назад +2

    Thank for inspiring me to be uncomfortable. I am forever grateful.

  • @nontokozombatha9182
    @nontokozombatha9182 4 года назад +7

    New subbie from South Africa here! 💃 Thanks for such an insightful video. Lots of love 💖

  • @aprilandjune
    @aprilandjune 3 года назад +1

    I really needed this one 💜 thank you for being so down to earth!!

  • @maggiemonroe6116
    @maggiemonroe6116 3 года назад +1

    This was so needed. Thank you queen.

  • @gerryandmaggiejoseph97
    @gerryandmaggiejoseph97 2 года назад

    Thank you. I appreciated this greatly. It really helped me.

  • @saraskittles2242
    @saraskittles2242 4 года назад +3

    hi nissy! I would firstly like to say thank you SOOOOOO much for this video and all the pearls of wisdom you bestowed upon us. I needed to hear this and I think this was a divine sign from the almighty. You’re an INCREDIBLY strong and lovely woman. Something I’ve never shared on such a massive platform before is that I am getting surgery soon to remove a scar. I’m nervous, scared and excited all at the same time. Hot damn, I feel so much better already just by sharing it and being vulnerable. Love you long time 🥰🥰🥰

  • @watchvideoswatchvideos2570
    @watchvideoswatchvideos2570 4 года назад +6

    Congratulations on your engagement. I'm so happy for you 🎉🎊🎉🎊🎉

  • @annavillalpando4872
    @annavillalpando4872 3 года назад

    Amazing message you gave in this video. Helped me SO much. Thank you!!!!! 🙏🏼

  • @sharleenb2430
    @sharleenb2430 4 года назад +2

    You always know how to motivate 💞

  • @popposterboy
    @popposterboy 4 года назад +1

    I needed this 😤

  • @okay1627
    @okay1627 2 года назад

    True

  • @bananali2676
    @bananali2676 3 года назад

    this is amazing ❤️❤️ thank you

  • @ceirahjackson5885
    @ceirahjackson5885 4 года назад

    Im so glad you are back 💗💗🙏🏽

  • @fartunmohamed8001
    @fartunmohamed8001 3 года назад

    Thank you

  • @ayd7330
    @ayd7330 Год назад

    After being cheated on, I cheated on all my other boyfriends, to avoid being hurt.

  • @EmmanuelA-r4z
    @EmmanuelA-r4z 3 года назад

    I love this

  • @adventureswithnaly1134
    @adventureswithnaly1134 4 года назад

    Yas!! 👏👏❤

  • @gracegracious5464
    @gracegracious5464 4 года назад

    That's right 🙏🏾

  • @mikegrowgreens9125
    @mikegrowgreens9125 3 года назад +1

    within 1 minute i like you

  • @tolul2793
    @tolul2793 4 года назад +1

    A beauty

  • @ljp9402
    @ljp9402 4 года назад

    ty

  • @happydonyell
    @happydonyell 4 года назад +2

    You are so beautiful, it’s like when you speak I fall more in love.

  • @isiojobo6014
    @isiojobo6014 4 года назад +1

    I needed this 🥺

  • @STAGENAMESERENA
    @STAGENAMESERENA 3 года назад

    Just now finding out about this channel 😩

  • @joemabiala6459
    @joemabiala6459 4 года назад

    😍😍😍

  • @allthingsv6237
    @allthingsv6237 3 года назад

    I’m glad I came across this video. I have a question though. How would I start this kind of conversation? I want to be more open and vulnerable but I don’t really know how to start talking about it

  • @juaniafilomena8652
    @juaniafilomena8652 4 года назад

    ❤️👌🏾

  • @floret.mkinksskin495
    @floret.mkinksskin495 4 года назад

    Hey nissy!

  • @celebrity_rooster7488
    @celebrity_rooster7488 3 года назад

    Have you noticed that being invulnerable is more attractive? Who would wanna be friends and fall in love with a loser?