The thing about Mystery is that no one will ever be able to replicate his game and style. I've met 1 person like him and they're genuinely nice to be around as a guy or as a woman. While most guys go into set with an objective in mind, Mystery actually just wants a fun time.
Mystery is truly a master of the Pick-Up Arts. When I found out about this stuff, I thought it was bullsh** and it didn't work, but then i started trying it, and the change was amazing!!! Thanx so much, master!!!
I´ve never seen Mystery that natural! In every former video his appearance, especially his voice seemed very artificial to me. In this video he seems to be much more himself. His voice is very soft and he seems to be very belanced. Nice to see!
He's making a great point, it's really interesting....then he sounds REALLY chauvinistic! Then he goes back to making great points! This guy is another tortured genius. He's incredibly interesting and he's his own worst enemy.
I don't deny the fact that guys like Mystery have done a lot for the PUA community. But when you see a beautifull woman and you have approach anxiety, the things you think are probably. "What should I say?!", "She is out of my league", "She might have a boyfriend" etc. etc. None of these are (if there is no guy around her) "If I would approach her, a guy would appear out of a sudden and start beating me up!" This is how Mystery explains approach anxiety and that is what I disagree with.
Yeah, this is like with the fear of rejection. For many thousand years ago, a rejection could be the difference between mating and get killed. Approaching someone elses girl could also become your death. This is something that has haunted us back even though we don't have to be afraid of it anymore... (except that you, in worst case, might get beat up by a jealous boyfriend)
Jack isn't totally wrong. Many girls won't give a shit about you when you're ugly, but got a great personality. BUT there are much girls who aren't like this.
You arent supposed to totally imitate and copy and sound rehearsed, you're supposed to just learn the info and apply in your own way and put you're own spin on it, otherwise it wont work.
But if you look at it from a relationship point of view (that is what you describe if I understand your comment correctly), I will agree with that, but from the approach anxiety point of view I disagree with it.
He means, that our emotional system is not for todays enviroment. Today we dont live in 100 people tribes, but in citys with millions of people, with high-tech stuff. Evolution is slow change. For example this is the reason why FMR, LMR exist, why our SnR value judging system is the way it is.
Feel like the whole Area51Lifestyle thing is a bit of a sellout. The Pdf file is called "Revenge" and it's the exact same as all those weight-loss websites or advertisements on how to get women: half the page is a "BUY IT NOW" button. I got The Mystery Method from 2006 right here and if I enjoy it, I plan on getting his 2010 book too, but in it he says you need to not be too dependant on other's pick-up lines and work out your own character. Why would I need hours of field footage?
LOL!! I definetly agree. I also disagree on the way he explains "approach anxiety/fear of rejection". He keeps talking about how men are survivors and women are replicators which sounds like a lot of bullshit to me. The only reason men have a "fear of rejection" is because they have low self esteem and/or low confidence, because you don't know what to say or think she is "out of your league".
You don't seem to see the bigger picture here. You should think outside the box and understand how the whole interaction and dynamics work and THEN you'll get laid. It's calibration and that's exactly what Mystery does.
As Mystery says, your brain is a waaaay out of date machine. Big breasts, wide hips, clear skin and long hair are all signs of good health and of the woman's ability to give birth and feed our children. That is why we judge women by those features. That is the replication value and, as you can see, men still respond to it, as it is evolutionarily hard-wired in our brains.
I agree woman are the same. But the essence of ugly vs pretty is that you could care less if you mess up with an ugly chick so there is little consequences if you fail. "Oh well, guess I'm not gonna be nailing this bow wow anytime soon!"
@TheFara1979 LOL!! Trust me that not true!! Its all about personality!! Be funny and charming,engaging, confident and you will win every time.. Ofcourse looks play a factor but not as much as personality
you can say whatever you want about mystery; that he's a pathetic guy or that he's an obsessed dude about women but not that he's not intelligent. koen, holland
All I can think whenever I see this guy is that he must be going bald! Too many hats, too much re head accoutrements - glasses, headphones, blah de blah - shows the real insecurity below!
@karlsmith00 Did I say anything about mystery being right? Anything at all? I don't necessarily agree with what he teaches. I'm saying that your statements about all men being pricks is an OPINION, and I just figured you probably have been dumped a few times in the past to reach that conclusion. And for the record I'm not 40, I'm 19.
of course not. There's no chance that one planet out of thousands of other planets, in billions of other solar systems in Zillion other galaxys, could be this lucky... right... none at all.... [/sarcasm]
"the only way out is the next girl".....it works every time
I've never heard Mystery laugh like that. Very cool. He's not only a master pickup artist, he's a human being.
"So from now on, we have to be the tribal leaders, and we treat them like the little girls that they are."
huaheuhauehuaheuae awesome!
"We have simple brains..."
- Well Mystery, your mind is not simple.
Such a good communicator
The thing about Mystery is that no one will ever be able to replicate his game and style. I've met 1 person like him and they're genuinely nice to be around as a guy or as a woman.
While most guys go into set with an objective in mind, Mystery actually just wants a fun time.
Mystery is truly a master of the Pick-Up Arts. When I found out about this stuff, I thought it was bullsh** and it didn't work, but then i started trying it, and the change was amazing!!! Thanx so much, master!!!
I´ve never seen Mystery that natural! In every former video his appearance, especially his voice seemed very artificial to me.
In this video he seems to be much more himself. His voice is very soft and he seems to be very belanced. Nice to see!
This was said by Neill Strauss in his book The Games, that when Mystery came out of depression he only talked about his past relationship.
Mystery is inspirational. He is the truth!
Mystery smoked man. One of his students said on his VH1 show & on Jimmy Kimmel(RUclips) said Mystery's smokin balls.
i loved the hand raising game at the end lol funny stuff
he is very charismatic.. gotta give him that
10's don't exist. 9.5 is as high as I give out.
Very true. 10s are an illusion
Mystery such a goofy and fun yet an intelligent dude!
This is so old school. There are more efficient ways to do all this like we teach.
He's making a great point, it's really interesting....then he sounds REALLY chauvinistic! Then he goes back to making great points! This guy is another tortured genius. He's incredibly interesting and he's his own worst enemy.
You used to have videos like this, Hours long. Pls. Put an up again.
Gay women understand women the best. I love his choice of nail polish.
Mystery is a God of seduction..I am so much a better person thanks to him.
Great classic Mystery
Probably just in a zone. In 'the flow' of things. Remember he was quite excited about his material at the time.
first minute resistance (by men), last minute resistance (by women) and survival and replication value.
I don't deny the fact that guys like Mystery have done a lot for the PUA community. But when you see a beautifull woman and you have approach anxiety, the things you think are probably. "What should I say?!", "She is out of my league", "She might have a boyfriend" etc. etc. None of these are (if there is no guy around her) "If I would approach her, a guy would appear out of a sudden and start beating me up!" This is how Mystery explains approach anxiety and that is what I disagree with.
Neil mentions this lecture in his book :p
Ikr? I was thinking about that. So is all true in that book
this has been shot after the book released tho, how could that be possible
this guy is my hero and i want to meet hem and have my game for 10s
So has been your game since then?
Yeah, this is like with the fear of rejection. For many thousand years ago, a rejection could be the difference between mating and get killed. Approaching someone elses girl could also become your death. This is something that has haunted us back even though we don't have to be afraid of it anymore... (except that you, in worst case, might get beat up by a jealous boyfriend)
You won't get beat up if you know how to fight. Most people don't. Like at all. It will improve your life in absolutely every way.
No, he never gave up!
He realy have nice voice, i will practise to get somthing like this.
Does it require to have a tom cruise voice to pick up??
That best bud was humble & that girl was cardia
Where can I find more on the Mack Method?
i love this beautiful human being!!
great observation! you called his tell, yo!
I think this would have been a really good video if the volume wasn't so low.
I think you don't think. Of course I grasp, it's easy to grasp, however, it shows many things you obviously do not see. Your problem, I guess.
His outfits though
they should do a movie about this character , not like the one with RDJ but with this persona .
Jack isn't totally wrong. Many girls won't give a shit about you when you're ugly, but got a great personality. BUT there are much girls who aren't like this.
So primary school teachers make ultimate pick up artists?
talented orator 4 sho!
You arent supposed to totally imitate and copy and sound rehearsed, you're supposed to just learn the info and apply in your own way and put you're own spin on it, otherwise it wont work.
mystery's awesome!
I realy love this man
He is a genius
Over then years comment? You're a legend
But if you look at it from a relationship point of view (that is what you describe if I understand your comment correctly), I will agree with that, but from the approach anxiety point of view I disagree with it.
It works man. Peacocking is necessary!
Still out there peacockin’?
@@digitalsmithy lul
he brings them where?!?!?! holy fucking shit
peacocking is definitely not necessary
wow this is the first time ever i have seen mystery laugh
he always seems like sutch a ice queen. or king..
He means, that our emotional system is not for todays enviroment. Today we dont live in 100 people tribes, but in citys with millions of people, with high-tech stuff. Evolution is slow change. For example this is the reason why FMR, LMR exist, why our SnR value judging system is the way it is.
thanks mr Bond .
is it not possible that evolution is part of the creation?
*watches you with your knuckles scraping the ground*
He has such a stoner's laugh, it's hilarious!
Good to see mystery talk about some inner game though.
"...can i please buy u a drink?" - liljewtomr
Whatever you say T-Pain.
lol @ you!
that is exactly how i felt when...she felt me...ooo man that is true
She doesn't mean what she says ?
That's going to teach an awful lot of men that No (falsely) means yes.
Feel like the whole Area51Lifestyle thing is a bit of a sellout. The Pdf file is called "Revenge" and it's the exact same as all those weight-loss websites or advertisements on how to get women: half the page is a "BUY IT NOW" button.
I got The Mystery Method from 2006 right here and if I enjoy it, I plan on getting his 2010 book too, but in it he says you need to not be too dependant on other's pick-up lines and work out your own character. Why would I need hours of field footage?
who's had 5??? HAHHAA THAT PART WAS FUNNY
LOL!! I definetly agree.
I also disagree on the way he explains "approach anxiety/fear of rejection". He keeps talking about how men are survivors and women are replicators which sounds like a lot of bullshit to me. The only reason men have a "fear of rejection" is because they have low self esteem and/or low confidence, because you don't know what to say or think she is "out of your league".
I really don't think you grasp what he's saying. Listen to that part again, a couple times if required.
you speak the truth
thats not picking up someone, thats renting someone... thats a prostitute
The 1980's called and asked for it's hat back.
You don't seem to see the bigger picture here. You should think outside the box and understand how the whole interaction and dynamics work and THEN you'll get laid. It's calibration and that's exactly what Mystery does.
he's got amazing voice
ant-gay notice: I'm straight ;]
As Mystery says, your brain is a waaaay out of date machine. Big breasts, wide hips, clear skin and long hair are all signs of good health and of the woman's ability to give birth and feed our children. That is why we judge women by those features. That is the replication value and, as you can see, men still respond to it, as it is evolutionarily hard-wired in our brains.
He is great! So funny LOL
EXACTLY.
hes just saying they can control conversations
Died in Africa hmmm, Cause of the Skirmishes?...Oh heartattack, SHIT nvm...
Ok, what is he talking about? Back on topic, back on topic...
You guys the Chump to Champ song on stunpals dot com has a music contest going on. Show us the talent that your band has and enter. Its free!
I agree woman are the same. But the essence of ugly vs pretty is that you could care less if you mess up with an ugly chick so there is little consequences if you fail.
"Oh well, guess I'm not gonna be nailing this bow wow anytime soon!"
Some how..I doubt that....
Hes so cool
funny, he reminds me of Cris Angel
We treat the like the little girls that they are :)
@TheFara1979 LOL!! Trust me that not true!! Its all about personality!! Be funny and charming,engaging, confident and you will win every time.. Ofcourse looks play a factor but not as much as personality
great , i hope i understood the irony !
with uh uh with when i uh...broke up with uhmm "fuckwhats her name again" my girl!
you can say whatever you want about mystery; that he's a pathetic guy or that he's an obsessed dude about women but not that he's not intelligent.
koen, holland
these ares times are
high up in the cakebaked
@TheFara1979 How can confidence be overrated? Ask a women what she likes about a guy and at the top of the list is confidence and sense of humor...
It is known as stalking.
in the game he sais hey hates his dad cause he shot his dog in the head
in this comments, trolls!
Don't feed them!
yeaaaah, not so much.
This video should be named :" HOW TO BE A CON ARTIST"
He is learning you how to talk BS to women and try to get the gullible women in to the bed.
All I can think whenever I see this guy is that he must be going bald! Too many hats, too much re head accoutrements - glasses, headphones, blah de blah - shows the real insecurity below!
I don't bribe girls to be with me. I'm also sure it wouldn't work if I tried, probably have the opposite effect.
@karlsmith00 Did I say anything about mystery being right? Anything at all? I don't necessarily agree with what he teaches. I'm saying that your statements about all men being pricks is an OPINION, and I just figured you probably have been dumped a few times in the past to reach that conclusion. And for the record I'm not 40, I'm 19.
bigdaddy, you make some very big claims. can you prove your words?
KOSMO !
hahaha man hes great
They only have power when you give it to them...
of course not. There's no chance that one planet out of thousands of other planets, in billions of other solar systems in Zillion other galaxys, could be this lucky... right... none at all.... [/sarcasm]
good game but spoils some what in teaching as he tends to time waste alot.
@legendarnyziomal Ever read The Game?
@TheFara1979 That was a bad example but ok...
@MMArtist99 i use p.box to