LEADERSHIP IN MARRIAGE | What does it look like?

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  • Опубликовано: 24 май 2023
  • We discussed submission at length about 2 weeks ago. Phetola share how sometimes lack of leadership could have been her stumbling block in submission. Today we unpack what leadership looks like from his vs her perspective.
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  • @welheminahkgokgutsebane9635
    @welheminahkgokgutsebane9635 Год назад +36

    Please remember to like.

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад

      Yes please!! Thank you🤗🤗…Plesse also Subscribe, comment and share❤️❤️❤️

  • @gbngcobo
    @gbngcobo Год назад +17

    'People don't follow dreams, they follow progress.' That's so profound.

  • @materenemolaoa1752
    @materenemolaoa1752 Год назад +34

    The level of wisdom bestowed upon you two is absolutely out of this world.
    Thank you for sharing yourselves with us.
    May the Lord continue to increase you in wisdom even as you continue to pour yourself out on us. 🙏🏾❤️

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад +1

      You’re so kind! Thank you so much for your words of affirmation ❤️

  • @dineomakibelo8048
    @dineomakibelo8048 Год назад +12

    Papa Action 👊🏾 The thing with your conversations is that you don't have to be married to benefit from them. I mean as someone who's divorced, this was still such a Masterclass on life and self-development! Thank you for always sharing gems with us, yerrr!

  • @suzethngutonua6908
    @suzethngutonua6908 Год назад +6

    "YOU CAN TRUST A PERSON THAT'S CONSISTENT "~ Phetola👏👏what a word! "Consistency equals trust"

  • @nette2144
    @nette2144 9 месяцев назад +2

    New subscriber here from across the Pacific. I found this video at a very low moment in my life where I am confused and feeling overwhelmed by years of anxiety from being like a mum instead of a partner in a marriage. The overwhelming load of responsibility that I carry is wearing me down.

  • @nomsa06
    @nomsa06 Год назад +9

    Phetola you’re my number one. I absolutely love how you articulate yourself. The points you got across on this video were solid ma’am. I resonate

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад +1

      Aaah sis! Thank you❤️❤️❤️🤗🤗🤗

  • @missbokani775
    @missbokani775 Год назад +1

    Papa Action!!!! 😂😂😂... I know lm really late but thank you for this installment. I'm not married yet but lm happy l get to hear these things before marriage and it's gonna help me learn to support my partner the right way without making him feel incompetent

  • @gcinilemhlanga3226
    @gcinilemhlanga3226 Год назад +9

    Our very own Alicia and Usher😁. On a serious note, you know what, I can listen to the two of you all day. Your content is so refreshing and thought provoking at the same time. Thank you for another exciting episode. I cannot wait to hear your thought on…’submission in marriage- what does it look like’…in your next instalment 😍😍. My take home - purpose, consistency, Papa Action🤩🤩

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад +3

      Thank you so much!❤️❤️❤️. Absolutely love the idea of sharing what submission looks like. I think in the previous installment we focused more on what it doesn’t look like❤️🤗

    • @user-to1ov7qp8p
      @user-to1ov7qp8p Год назад

      Yep

  • @mamellomphahlele6965
    @mamellomphahlele6965 Год назад +3

    I believe in consistency and structure, however I think it would be unfair to expect the leader to lack room the freedom to at times let their guards down, to relax and not to have it all together some times. Leaders are also human 🖤

  • @nomcebo63674
    @nomcebo63674 Год назад

    Load shedding, loved the video❤

  • @nkosinhlemhlanga636
    @nkosinhlemhlanga636 Год назад +1

    I sooo need this now! Thank you guys

  • @roomforimprovement4
    @roomforimprovement4 Год назад

    ACTION! Very enlightening conversation there

  • @joeydlaminivlogs
    @joeydlaminivlogs Год назад +1

    I ready enjoyed this conversation thank you so much. Loadshedding

  • @siyamthandandlakuse8042
    @siyamthandandlakuse8042 Год назад +12

    Thank you so much fam for covering this topic with such wisdom and grace. Thank you for giving us crib notes so we can learn from your journey. May God continue to bless you and increase your territory #PeaceAnd Blessings #PapaAction

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад

      Thank you for inspiring this instalment Siya❤️❤️❤️. We really appreciate you❤️❤️

  • @happymuller841
    @happymuller841 Год назад

    Ewuuuuuuu Nkosi! Load-shedding! Papa Action! Kuningi!
    ...One Love! Loved this fam❤❤❤

  • @sheronsnethembancube2693
    @sheronsnethembancube2693 Год назад +3

    I love your ministry ❤

  • @KatlehoMo99
    @KatlehoMo99 Год назад

    Dankie papa le mama ACTION !! 🎉

  • @nomsa06
    @nomsa06 Год назад +1

    Liking before I watch. Dangerous 😅. Liking because I’m always happy to see a video upload from this family.

  • @lerekomolefe4323
    @lerekomolefe4323 Год назад

    Papa action. Thank you for yet another informative installment ❤❤❤

  • @ndumimakhanya4612
    @ndumimakhanya4612 Год назад +2

    Been patiently waiting for this💃💃

  • @user-ew9sg2bz5j
    @user-ew9sg2bz5j Год назад

    Your advice has just made me a better man. Salute🙏🙏🤝

  • @metkalfouregis5944
    @metkalfouregis5944 10 месяцев назад

    Great stuff guys

  • @nwadiutoasandanwankwo
    @nwadiutoasandanwankwo Год назад +1

    Papa action. This offers so much nuance to the topic, which is incredibly profound! I love that the man was also humanized in the discussion, while still calling him to be the leader he was ultimately born to be. Thank you so much Mr and Mrs Makhs, you embody Ephesians 5 so beautifully!

  • @busisiwengwenya4450
    @busisiwengwenya4450 Год назад +2

    Loadshedding! We are here.

  • @4thegrandkidsIdonthave
    @4thegrandkidsIdonthave Год назад +1

    Pearls of wisdom galore!❤ #papaaction😅

  • @valentine_b_ndlovu
    @valentine_b_ndlovu Год назад +1

    You closed at a high note Fam🎉 action! I know the bible says money is the answer to all things, action for me is the answer to all things, because even money will not come unless you do something 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽papa action is it 👌🏼👌🏼awesome conversation right there, love you both ❤❤

  • @brigettebond6088
    @brigettebond6088 Год назад +1

    Papa action. Lerato wow thank you for saying leaders need to Communicate and yes Photo there's nothing more attractive when a man takes action. Thanks again to the Makhs for an inspiring podcast. ❤

  • @suzethngutonua6908
    @suzethngutonua6908 Год назад

    Be the person of action! Yes sirrr

  • @godandglam9636
    @godandglam9636 Год назад +2

    Papa Action!!!!!!😂😂 I love this !!!! Love love this 🎉. Y'all should have more than an episode a week!!!!! A week becomes too long to wait on this wisdom🤧🤧.

  • @nobo0hle
    @nobo0hle Год назад

    One thing about you guys, you will always sign your name. 🥰 Thank you for this video..

  • @kangolmqhakama6273
    @kangolmqhakama6273 Год назад

    Papa action😂😂😂. Thank you Mr. and Mrs. Makhs. Much love💕

  • @zoe_flower7373
    @zoe_flower7373 Год назад +6

    My Favs❤❤ Watching while I'm at work 💞

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад +1

      ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ thank you fam!

  • @johannamakwala
    @johannamakwala Год назад

    Thanks u for Ur teachings 🎉❤

  • @fortunatelebogangndlovu3707
    @fortunatelebogangndlovu3707 Год назад +1

    Old time fan you really inspire me alot I am definitely learning alot from the both continue teaching us what you know may God bless you all the time

  • @kgothatsomosweu7358
    @kgothatsomosweu7358 Год назад

    PAPA Action😁😁 I truly enjoyed this.

  • @sindithabisilephungula8127
    @sindithabisilephungula8127 Год назад +7

    I absolutely loved this conversation so much family 🥺
    Thank you so much for this thought provoking conversation.

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад

      Thank you for being with us❤️

  • @misscarol_m
    @misscarol_m Год назад +7

    love you guys..nothing as attractive as a papa-action indeed

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад

      😂😂😂😂♥️♥️♥️

  • @shalomthembydonga1748
    @shalomthembydonga1748 9 месяцев назад

    Papa Action.... Thank you 🤗🙏🏽

  • @reabetswe_m
    @reabetswe_m Год назад +2

    Bathong now I can’t unsee the usher and Alicia keys 😂😂😂😂.
    This was such a powerful podcast. Teaching us to carry each other in love and understanding. As I doer my approach to the dreamer was not always great and frustrated me and now I know how to probe certain conversations without being frustrated. Thank you 🙏🏽

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад

      😂😂😂❤️❤️❤️mama and papa action. Thank you for sharing❤️

  • @KhanyiMsibi
    @KhanyiMsibi Год назад +1

    Loadshedding 😂
    Thank you for another riveting instalment ❤️

  • @kozibamtyutu6507
    @kozibamtyutu6507 Год назад +1

    Wow wow.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @siyabulelaunathigongqa2957
    @siyabulelaunathigongqa2957 Год назад +1

    My fiancee plugged me to you guys, and I love you guys and your content❤🫂😊

  • @temalangenimachethe6944
    @temalangenimachethe6944 Год назад +4

    Intro always gets me 🔥🔥🔥🔥
    OK, now let's watch

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад

      ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @ShereenRamahuma
    @ShereenRamahuma Год назад

    Load shedding 😂😂😂love you lots❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @user-to1ov7qp8p
    @user-to1ov7qp8p Год назад

    Mrs Makhs skin yahoo also she knows Mr Makhs will always give her the accurate word😊 she is looking for .

  • @aphelelesibali6355
    @aphelelesibali6355 Год назад

    LOVE IT GUYS. SABU USHER AND ALECIA- KEYS😅😍. You guys just made me laught at the beginning of the video

  • @winniethipa4011
    @winniethipa4011 Год назад +1

    e ba Papa Action Lerato is funny love the instalment

  • @Prince-fb2rg
    @Prince-fb2rg Год назад

    This was a set up/ an indirect grilling on Mr Makhs, the 'leader' in the marriage/ fam'.. 😅😆.. Kidding .. Great content as always y'all! 👍

  • @sunflowerpalee
    @sunflowerpalee Год назад

    😂😂loadshedding....ohhh papa action😂😂a beautiful conversation your journey is helping us alot guys. We love you❤❤❤

  • @mamaneontshichats7665
    @mamaneontshichats7665 Год назад

    No we're always learning from you, thank you ❤️
    Papa Action 😂❤️

  • @blessingolayemi1527
    @blessingolayemi1527 Год назад +2

    I'm now hooked on your podcasts. So much wisdom and the communication is top-notch

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад +1

      Thank you so much for journeying with us ❤️❤️❤️

  • @vistorinaamputu4682
    @vistorinaamputu4682 Год назад +2

    I am always here for all these great, raw conversations you bring to us :) #loadshedding

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад

      ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @lebohangntjabane693
    @lebohangntjabane693 Год назад

    Papa action😂😂😂loved this installment

  • @sanelemjoli4877
    @sanelemjoli4877 Год назад +3

    Beautiful conversation as always. I'm glad to be in present in this class.
    The Great I AM loves you

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад

      Aaaah Sanele. Good to see you❤️. Thank you🤗

  • @kholofelohope3540
    @kholofelohope3540 Год назад +1

    The intro... you guys are so funny 😂

  • @thandoselowe7478
    @thandoselowe7478 Год назад +2

    Phetola is so beautiful 😍❤️🔥I love you so much Mrs Makhetha😍😍😍🔥🔥❤️❤️❤️

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад +1

      Aaaaw Thando you’re so kind! Thank you so much sis❤️❤️

  • @FELICITY_NOBELA
    @FELICITY_NOBELA Год назад +5

    Papa Action
    I feel like I am married lapho I am not dating.
    I am so happy I got to learn all this stuff in my single phase

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад

      ❤️❤️❤️🤗🤗🤗

  • @kingdomgirlsarise
    @kingdomgirlsarise Год назад +3

    Notification gang🎉🎉🎉

  • @palesamatabane3138
    @palesamatabane3138 Год назад +2

    Notification gang!!!

  • @mamellomphahlele6965
    @mamellomphahlele6965 Год назад

    A suggestion please: It would be great to include a snippet of Mr Makhs playing the piano /keyboard from time to time, like he did on Christmas day with the family 🎹 ❤😍🎼🎵

  • @wethembekilendebele7922
    @wethembekilendebele7922 Год назад

    PAPA ACTION!!!!

  • @sindysibanda1841
    @sindysibanda1841 Год назад

    Loadshedding❤❤

  • @maphefomalatji2226
    @maphefomalatji2226 Год назад

    Papa action 🤣🤣🤣 I love it here.🥹

  • @busisiwemgolombana6385
    @busisiwemgolombana6385 8 месяцев назад

    Thanks

  • @suzethngutonua6908
    @suzethngutonua6908 Год назад

    Papa action😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂good one!

  • @selmakaviua3786
    @selmakaviua3786 Год назад +1

    Papa action ❤❤❤❤

  • @andybizzle4376
    @andybizzle4376 Год назад +5

    Afternoon Fam. ❤ (Alicia and Usher 😂😂)

    • @nozwelomahlaba8064
      @nozwelomahlaba8064 Год назад +1

      It's giving My Boo 😂 (that song by Alicia and Usher from the early 200s)

    • @andybizzle4376
      @andybizzle4376 Год назад

      @@nozwelomahlaba8064 listen!!!

  • @faithlivingwithSam
    @faithlivingwithSam Год назад +2

    I loved this conversation and l will like to have it with my husband we have never spoken about what leadership looks like. I think that on the consistency thing, l think we should have grace for each other.

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад +1

      Definitely. We could all use a little grace ❤️

  • @paulinanangombe2349
    @paulinanangombe2349 Год назад +2

    You guys are the one maan.... i jc love your bond, how you are open to discussing and bring your thoughts in different areas that most couple's don't talk about.... relationships are there... jc a tap on your shoulder " i want to have it" that's all🤣🤣🤣

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад +1

      Aaah thank you Paulina. We appreciate your kind words. JC has got you😂❤️❤️. Ba re ask Akere ❤️

    • @paulinanangombe2349
      @paulinanangombe2349 Год назад

      @@TheMakhs tata action🤣🤣

  • @NatashaShapolaMwamba-ny9vy
    @NatashaShapolaMwamba-ny9vy 10 месяцев назад

    #loadshedding #Papasction. Men litsen to Mr. Mahks be Papa action🤣❤loved it❤
    The last remark about your sex life was unforseen,but it was the cherry on top made me giggle. Adore you both 🎉

  • @Lindokuhle_Mat_Mas
    @Lindokuhle_Mat_Mas Год назад +4

    Thank you so much for the upload 😊

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад

      Thank you for being here❤️… sorry for the delay🥹

  • @MissSipamla
    @MissSipamla Год назад +1

    #PapaAction😍😍

  • @samanthaonkakhulu2566
    @samanthaonkakhulu2566 Год назад

    Wow.

  • @Lindo.N7
    @Lindo.N7 Год назад

    Well😌 #PapaAction it is fam😂 good talk ❤

  • @theotherside602
    @theotherside602 Год назад

    Had this conversation with my husband not so long agao😊😊😊

  • @shamiso_t
    @shamiso_t Год назад +1

    33:30😅nkosi yam😂😂😭🤣❤️

  • @nomkhosimchunu4744
    @nomkhosimchunu4744 Год назад

    Papa action! 😂❤

  • @kethabiledazuka5368
    @kethabiledazuka5368 Год назад +1

    Papa action💃💃💃😂😂

  • @marvelousmbali8002
    @marvelousmbali8002 Год назад +2

    Issa wrap♥️ papa action 💀

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад +1

      Issa wrap fam!❤️❤️

  • @oaratwalesedi-mmopi8573
    @oaratwalesedi-mmopi8573 Год назад +1

    Ga re itse loadshedding mo Botswana 🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️❤

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад +2

      Bathong lona! Are you guys not God’s favourite mara! Aowa we are moving to Bots mos😄❤️❤️

    • @oaratwalesedi-mmopi8573
      @oaratwalesedi-mmopi8573 Год назад

      @@TheMakhs 💃💃❤🤣 tlang kwano

  • @zizogxowa7446
    @zizogxowa7446 Год назад +1

    Not Papa Action chile🤣😂. Guys, please not Papa Action abeg😂Do we know who Papa Action is guys😂🫢? But,I love the sentiment and 100% agree.

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад

      😂😂😂😂😂 Ma 80s know😂😂

  • @temalangenimachethe6944
    @temalangenimachethe6944 Год назад

    Eish Fam. Maybe I was in the wrong frame of mind to absorb....I struggled to follow in today's instalment.
    Let me watch again in a few days.
    Love💕

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад

      Please do watch again❤️…

  • @shamiso_t
    @shamiso_t Год назад +2

    😂😂Eskom bathong.
    Papa Action. Norr this was very informative 😅

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад

      Eskom e re tshwere ka di washene!😂😂😂

  • @teemtshali9411
    @teemtshali9411 Год назад

    Papa Action😂😂❤❤

  • @tshepobogopa5645
    @tshepobogopa5645 Год назад

    Vision is so important but at times heavilty critisized whith no fruits

  • @sinovuyobusakwe1001
    @sinovuyobusakwe1001 Год назад +2

    Paps Action

  • @PalesaV
    @PalesaV 24 дня назад

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @lungilendlovu4584
    @lungilendlovu4584 Год назад +1

    This one spoke to me a lot cz I am going thru a time where I don't feel heard. I try to communicate but it's jus not happening. I'm at a point where I dnt know what n how to voice myself. Kurough Papa action is new kom nee

    • @siyamthandandlakuse8042
      @siyamthandandlakuse8042 Год назад

      Hang in there sis 🤗 🤗 don’t stop praying and talking to God about it. He sees and he hears you…

    • @lungilendlovu4584
      @lungilendlovu4584 Год назад

      @@siyamthandandlakuse8042 thanks cc

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад

      Sometimes it takes time for our significant others to hear us… but because God is God they do some day get that revelation❤️

  • @nitagh-9451
    @nitagh-9451 Год назад

    Papa action 😂❤️

  • @kholofelohope3540
    @kholofelohope3540 Год назад +1

    Load shedding bathong 😂
    Papa Action 😅

  • @ShereenRamahuma
    @ShereenRamahuma Год назад

    Haibo papà action😂😂

  • @KhanyiMsibi
    @KhanyiMsibi Год назад +1

    Papa Action 😂😂❤

  • @mayanacosar1900
    @mayanacosar1900 Год назад +2

    papa action😆

  • @bonolomabaso9611
    @bonolomabaso9611 Год назад

    Papa action

  • @oaratwalesedi-mmopi8573
    @oaratwalesedi-mmopi8573 Год назад +1

    😂😂😂😂okay Usher and Alicia ❤❤❤ ke a le rata

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад +1

      😂😂😂😂 we love you!

  • @materenemolaoa1752
    @materenemolaoa1752 Год назад +1

    Papa Action. 🤣🔥

  • @andybizzle4376
    @andybizzle4376 Год назад +1

    #PapaAction

  • @nalediliphapang7429
    @nalediliphapang7429 Год назад +2

    Loadshedding 😂❤️

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад

      😂😂😂😂❤️

  • @tshepobogopa5645
    @tshepobogopa5645 Год назад

    This is Tough Most Men are not taught these or exposed early to this