IS YOUR PARTNER INTIMIDATED BY YOUR SUCCESS?

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  • Опубликовано: 31 июл 2024
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    When we got married we were encouraged that the only thing that we should be competing about is out- loving each other.
    What then happens in a relationship when one person flourishes more than the other? How does that affect your level of self confidence? Have you ever been intimidated by your partners success or vice versa?
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    #relationship-matters #themakhs
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  • @answersfrommylips197
    @answersfrommylips197 Год назад +114

    I have always wondered why this amazing channel has not reached 100k but then I realised that we are in an “instant noodles” generation where we want to just watch for laughs, play the video at 1.75X and move on. This channel though, every instalment is a sermon on its own, you have to have your writing materials. You guys are amazing and please keep dishing out the “word” to us. 🤗🤗🥰🥰

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад +12

      These are such affirming words. Thank you so much for taking the time♥️♥️😄🤗 . We appreciate your kindness🤗

    • @zamabhelentangana
      @zamabhelentangana Год назад +3

      Very true!

    • @answersfrommylips197
      @answersfrommylips197 Год назад +3

      @@TheMakhs You are most welcome. Thank you also for giving freely from the abundance of your knowledge 🤗❤️

    • @oloratomogatle2562
      @oloratomogatle2562 Год назад +3

      you said it... amen... am learning a lot from this channel, from this beautiful, so informative, and refreshing, so authentic, God please strengthen their union, bless their families.

    • @blessingnyathi1532
      @blessingnyathi1532 Год назад +2

      that is soo true. i love this channel so much. its my nimber 1 youtube channel

  • @TraciLebo
    @TraciLebo Год назад +14

    I still say ' and I'm Phetola Makhetha ' with Pheto 😂,All the time.

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад +2

      😂😂😂♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @NdukuWambua
    @NdukuWambua Год назад +6

    Yuh! My current issue….
    I agree with Lerato, it should be a motivator….and also an encouragement that you chose well. No one wants a lazy partner, its also not attractive. 😊

  • @dineomakibelo8048
    @dineomakibelo8048 Год назад +7

    I like the fact that you are quite grounded and not taken up by trends. As modern a couple as you are, you always speak from the position of being wise. Thank you for the rich nuggets that you always share with us, we are wiser for it 🤗

  • @prettypeyalimon6097
    @prettypeyalimon6097 Год назад +6

    God spoke to me through this Podcast😭

  • @happymuller841
    @happymuller841 Год назад +3

    The Makhs! The Makhs! The Makhs!🗣🤌👌y'all were CREATED FOR SUCH A TIME AS THIS!!!
    Thanks for this ministry❤❤❤Lord bless you!

  • @Ntuthu28_M
    @Ntuthu28_M Год назад +9

    Please always remember that it's not about the "numbers"your numbers are piling up in heaven because Wow you are impacting alot of lives and this is the best podcast ever❤️watseba modimo ga phaphe.. Continue doing what you doing.

  • @temalangenimachethe6944
    @temalangenimachethe6944 Год назад +2

    Intro ya 'here's a thought' 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽

  • @pashukeni_
    @pashukeni_ Год назад

    Let’s self actualize

  • @pashukeni_
    @pashukeni_ Год назад +2

    “You would do anything for a woman who can do anything for herself”

  • @iamruth9868
    @iamruth9868 Год назад +2

    Been dealing with this for 7 years, 2 children and lots of emotional torture 😢. Thank you for sharing this especially for those yet to get married.

  • @moe_ramz
    @moe_ramz Год назад +1

    I’m also one of those women who are socialised, to want men who provide. I’ve tried not dating men who are on my level money-wise. I felt resentful because I carried the bulk of the load. I then decided to be alone. It’s been nearly 5 years. I’m at peace because I don’t want to carry anyone. I’m a single mum. I already have loads that I’m carrying. Next thing, I must add someone who adds nothing but sex. It’s draining. It’s exhausting. I’d rather be alone. I loved this episode ❤

  • @thulanibeingthulz
    @thulanibeingthulz Год назад +2

    I've never watched an episode and not learn something new🥺❤

  • @veronicachirombe7617
    @veronicachirombe7617 Год назад +9

    Always love the way you guys have these tough conversations so easily. Such an example. ❣

  • @royalqueen8679
    @royalqueen8679 Год назад

    Looking good is a form of good manners- love this

  • @katlegolekalakala152
    @katlegolekalakala152 Год назад

    This is soo amazing , i have truly been sleeping on you guys. Loved this

  • @nompumelelophungwayo8646
    @nompumelelophungwayo8646 Год назад

    It's always such a joy to listen to you guys unpacking these dope subjects. Love it Love it. Thanks for being real.

  • @Solwazi918
    @Solwazi918 Год назад +1

    What a beautiful episode, and the way you speak to each other with so much love and respect 😍🤗

  • @pashukeni_
    @pashukeni_ Год назад

    Be the best version of yourself so it challenges your partner🤍

  • @lungingubane379
    @lungingubane379 Год назад +3

    Pheto, you are gorgeous 🥰, my goodnesss, I can't stop admiring.

  • @mzekenamanjearistokasi6832
    @mzekenamanjearistokasi6832 Год назад +1

    The Makh-A-docius. Thank you for a profound episode.

  • @PerfectlyBey
    @PerfectlyBey Год назад +1

    What an important conversation! Thank you for sharing. 💚

  • @sibobuhlungu4404
    @sibobuhlungu4404 Год назад +1

    I love you guys, keep doing what you are doing you are truly impacting and changing lives without maybe you knowing. Never doubt the impact that you are making, in due season God will raise you above what you can think or imagine. Stay blessed 🙏

  • @carolinemacharia5679
    @carolinemacharia5679 Год назад +2

    I love the podcast in a legit way.Lots of love @the mahks from 🇰🇪

  • @tintswalomathonsi
    @tintswalomathonsi Год назад

    Wow wow!! This was so great, yol are anointed for this.

  • @keepcreationprocess
    @keepcreationprocess Год назад +2

    Totally agreed , brother...100 and 100- this is such a hard topic- i now feel the other side : the side of the man--- And i feel the real side of a marriage and a relationship....your wife is really a role-model that God has put on our pathssssss---- the path of ALLL of us watching and thinking about this topic now---- we do not think about your marriage or you 2 BUT ABOUT THIS TOPIC......this hurts.........or if it is not wounded ----- it is a celebration......No, your wife is always very polite....

  • @othusitsepereko5896
    @othusitsepereko5896 Год назад

    Hello the Makhs Juniors!! You are veeeerryy good you know!You always give the best. God will increase your efforts in RUclips. Dont stress about the numbers. God works in His own time.

  • @semakanesebola7870
    @semakanesebola7870 Год назад

    Pheto oe beile hantle, a re: a re shinisaneng maan. Loved it. Thank you.

  • @nhlanhlam121
    @nhlanhlam121 Год назад +1

    Great conversation 🙌🏾

  • @mphosehlatsana7311
    @mphosehlatsana7311 Год назад +2

    You guys are amazing 😍 I love you ,all the way from Lesotho 🇱🇸

  • @sunak4896
    @sunak4896 Год назад +1

    This is a very important topic...as most couples shy away from discussing such sensitive matters....

  • @siyamtolo6733
    @siyamtolo6733 Год назад +4

    I don't mind earning more as long as he earns enough to take care of business.

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад

      ♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @Themafueffect
    @Themafueffect Год назад

    This is powerful
    Thank you

  • @kgomotsoboikanyo8126
    @kgomotsoboikanyo8126 Год назад +1

    C'mon now Mr Makhs being the best version of yourself yohhh! Y'all challenge me🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @ayandahazel5955
    @ayandahazel5955 Год назад +5

    What a wonderful conversation!!! Loved it ❤️

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад

      ♥️♥️♥️♥️ thank you so much

  • @rumbidzaimukarakate9130
    @rumbidzaimukarakate9130 Год назад

    Looking good is a form of good manners...I got that!

  • @MissQomfortable
    @MissQomfortable Год назад

    Nice one fam🥰

  • @buyisilemohale2881
    @buyisilemohale2881 Год назад

    Insightful conversation

  • @lesedisekhu3192
    @lesedisekhu3192 Год назад

    I love love love this team💥💓

  • @kiki_mofokeng
    @kiki_mofokeng Год назад +2

    I wish we could like this video more than once, because wow! This was good

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад +1

      Yaaay! RUclips must do the right thing with their settings😆. We need to like more than once 🤗♥️

  • @ziziphomagula8183
    @ziziphomagula8183 Год назад +2

    So much wisdom thank you

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад +1

      Thank you Zizipho. We see you.🤗We appreciate your support♥️

  • @potuseshibe
    @potuseshibe Год назад +9

    Enjoyed this entire conversation, it was so good. Watched till the end. I think next time we gonna need an instalment ya “when you know you know”😅✨

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад +2

      Thank you so much! One time, two real!!♥️♥️♥️

    • @MissNomps
      @MissNomps Год назад

      8

  • @pashukeni_
    @pashukeni_ Год назад

    I personally really have a problem with people especially some woman that have expectations from men but some of those expectations are things they know themselves they will never ever be able to do it for themselves. And there is nothing wrong with having expectations but our generations is so materialistic and have such unrealistic expectations.

  • @keepcreationprocess
    @keepcreationprocess Год назад

    We loved it - when she is sophisticated : because, it is television.....you do not have to be hasty.....take your time and be precised and nuanced and be clearrrr which she is.......invest in your careeerr --- He needs to take his time to rest more........

  • @Lerato_Morailane
    @Lerato_Morailane Год назад

    Love it here…

  • @sarahmenieso6614
    @sarahmenieso6614 Год назад +5

    One of the best conversations I've heard this entire year... More of this could come in handy in these times...Thank You!!

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад +2

      Oh wow! This is such a great compliment. Thank you Sarah♥️♥️♥️

    • @sarahmenieso6614
      @sarahmenieso6614 Год назад

      @@TheMakhs My pleasure❤❤❤ Your videos have healed me from many childhood traumas. Don't stop doing them because you are making more impacts thank you know.

    • @keepcreationprocess
      @keepcreationprocess Год назад

      Yes, the topic is ssooo real : but we do not know about it.....the same as one person inheritates a big sum of money : - so to me, it is not his money or it is not her money.......because it was a gift.....it depends if he or she wants to share it or not.....or invest that money....

  • @akhomngeniso1254
    @akhomngeniso1254 Год назад +1

    Sana?!
    That octafx ad???!!🔥💕

  • @MotherMogashoa_Mmathapelo
    @MotherMogashoa_Mmathapelo Год назад

    Also I'm here for the "If you know you know, just marry that girl" 😂😂😂 a whole installment should come from this😂😂😂😂

  • @asandanene4095
    @asandanene4095 Год назад +1

    🔥So this only means if you do not back yourself who will....Once you believe & back yourself it only makes it easier for the next to do the same

  • @diaryofkamali
    @diaryofkamali Год назад +2

    I like this already ❤

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад +1

      Thank you!♥️♥️♥️

  • @ntombenkosiphekula4838
    @ntombenkosiphekula4838 Год назад +7

    This loadshedding is really hitting us hard. Please allow us to download so that we can watch later

    • @modileshikoane8174
      @modileshikoane8174 Год назад +3

      I totally concur, I mostly listen to podcasts when it's loadshedding...

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад +2

      We really hope that you got to listen. Loadshedding 🫠🫠🫠

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад +1

      ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @keepcreationprocess
    @keepcreationprocess Год назад

    It is good that he succeeds and she failed : which is ok ---- I am just proud of you : that you even tried : it actually does not matter if you are the man or the woman in the relationship .....Another couple she succeeds after a few times failing : He failed in one time big --- and he was depressed : she failed she stood up -- but both of them need the money : so actually it is like the relationship is the company and two of them are workers --- so, it does not matter --- i do not think they care ; they were worrying about survival.....WHAT A good topic : i never think about this , because i am not in this situation -- it is sooo useful to know this...

  • @zamabhelentangana
    @zamabhelentangana Год назад +2

    Wow guys , this topic 👏

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад +1

      ♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @tshegoragabane2557
    @tshegoragabane2557 Год назад

    Wa bona monna wago Phetola.. ga itshoge.. when he said we know what works for us..

  • @MotherMogashoa_Mmathapelo
    @MotherMogashoa_Mmathapelo Год назад

    One thing about The Makhs? they will fetch me unprovoked!! 😂😂.. It's crazy cos even God has been speaking to me about the need to fetch my own life, lol God is bored with my life too.. But watching this truly ministered to the depth of my spirit. Listen man, Thank you expect a testimony from me regarding this installment in about 2 months 👏🙏❤️

  • @baloyicharmaine8447
    @baloyicharmaine8447 Год назад

    🥰😍😍wisdom and wisdom🙌🙌🙌 ALWAYS

  • @hannahawadzi
    @hannahawadzi Год назад +4

    I wish all men talk like Lerahto

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад +1

      ♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @pashukeni_
    @pashukeni_ Год назад

    The Makhs have really become one of my favorite people. I love how transparent they are, the wisdom, knowledge being shared is truly life changing.
    May Almighty God please elevate them🙏🏾🤍🤍

  • @tshebeletsoselela5237
    @tshebeletsoselela5237 Год назад +2

    My faves!❤️🥺

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад +1

      ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @zimmim6738
    @zimmim6738 Год назад

    Hears a 💭 ❤️

  • @marvelousmbali8002
    @marvelousmbali8002 Год назад

    Hey Fam😊

  • @ngundapenouuakakujaha
    @ngundapenouuakakujaha Год назад +2

    Why can’t I download this?😭😭😭😭

  • @siyamtolo6733
    @siyamtolo6733 Год назад +2

    ♥️♥️♥️

  • @fezilenkabinde9087
    @fezilenkabinde9087 Год назад +1

    Heheheee Mme Makhs uya trader manje? 🙌🏿

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад +4

      Fezile why are you this person😄. I’m learning how to. Excited about the prospects. Multiple streams of income are so important🙌🏾🌸♥️

  • @sindysibanda1841
    @sindysibanda1841 Год назад

    ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @koketsomalekana9545
    @koketsomalekana9545 Год назад +1

    Brother Lerato I agree with but thingie is nowadays women are impowerd and earn more money than man so when you say they are doing us a favor when contributing I don't know about that cos they are making money alot money.
    Imagine if she's not contributing at all and I don't make enough more kamo she got stands she wants.
    And I'm not sure I'm acculating myself well

  • @user-ky9jo1qf9w
    @user-ky9jo1qf9w 3 месяца назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @missbokani775
    @missbokani775 Год назад

    Hie guys when are we gonna see the sign language guy

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад +2

      Hi Bokani. He is missed right?! Hopefully next year again🫶🏽

  • @diaryofkamali
    @diaryofkamali Год назад +6

    Yes, man are more intimidated by their lady’s success. And well established women struggle to find healthy love as a result

  • @keepcreationprocess
    @keepcreationprocess Год назад

    I do not agree with him......He is less wise then her....I am older then them.....I know a little bit more.......what he wants has consequences - but he does not understands.......It also depends on how long people have been married before this topic arises. The woman career driven could become tricky...

  • @prettypeyalimon6097
    @prettypeyalimon6097 Год назад +2

    Phetola❤Lerato ❤❤❤ Wisdom wisdom wisdom galore 🎉 Just look at God😩🥺✨🫶🏾🫶🏾

    • @claudinemofokeng4025
      @claudinemofokeng4025 Год назад

      Guys!!! Wisdom Wisdom. Pls invite me to yo marriage seminar. I'm so blessed to know u♥️♥️♥️