You know when you're relationship is strong when you're asked where do you see the relationship in 5 years and your partner goes oh that's easy we're going to be just fine
Time's up????😧 I was still watching...ay no! Askies Pheto, I can see you were really touched but the thing about people who are eloquent like Lerato is that it becomes a gift and a curse because they are able to effectively express their thoughts or feelings so well that even when they articulate things that don't sit well with them, the delivery is consistent. I believe the words he used were to help you understand exactly how he's feeling and his hope was that it would be understood and not taken personally. Anyone who's watched you guys can attest to how he loves when you cheer him on or affirm him and he's vocal about it. My biggest take away from what he said was that he is fueled by your absolute trust in him, that he loves knowing that he's a dependable partner. And just by expressing that, he basically revealed the type of person that you are....you are loving, supportive and like he said, his "biggest cheerleader" and when your cheerleader forgets their pom poms sometimes it becomes a bit of a concern😘❤ all love fam, nitey!
Salute to Mr Makhs 🙏🙏, Hes so aware of madam's personality (sensitivity), and take it with sooo much grace . I truly appreciate it bcoz woow, The other Gender 🤦♂️😭 isshh can be cold .you guys are soo real and just know that, we truly appreciate what you are giving in your channel ...you are building ✊👊
This is my ideal relationship - I need to be with a person I can communicate with - I need to be able to freely say where we are & where are going without having to lie about things bcz my spouse have chip over their shoulders. I was thinking that Lerato was more like me in a way he articulate things (even his personality) - but omg I do appreciate Phetola's gracefulness (infused with wisdom) of dealing with the unexpected (if this is an act - guys you are good actors)...I love to see that you are not so alike & yet you can still communicate & make it work without an offence - having a relationship that has the ability to heal is incredible (only from God)...I wish you the best in your journey together, keep it up & may the good Lord continue to bless you in your amazing covenant...
"What is one quality you think holds me back?" I think this one is very important - even outside a romantic setting. To ourselves, we are perfect and always right and we need people who really love us to bring this up in the most constructive way possible ❤
one of the many many things i love about the Makhs is that they have completely different personalities but they work so well together.i think it speaks of how highly they respect and value each other.its never about 'if u dont do things my way then you wrong'.
The OG is in the house 💃🏾 popoopooopooooo 🔊🔊🔊🔊🔊🔊 let’s get into it. Dream Team Don’t forget to watch the Ads y’all. Registe signed; I’m gonna enjoy this one
These are risky questions but after answering them together you realize gore we are all human and motho waka ke bosso ,I would still choose him again. In relationships we grow and learn only when tap-on on those risky and uncomfortable topics. Mara time was not yet up tlhe, 50/60min videos are welcome.love you guys
Hmmmmm this is soooo deep. I’m paraphrasing the last point Lerato made, ‘we love others the way we want to be loved rather than the way they want to be loved’. Thank you for the installment, with love from Nigeria 💕💕
When you guys said you think time is up my heart nearly sank because I was ready to listen for another 30 minutes 🥲 I love how you're always having such meaningful and insightful conversations. Thank you fam👏🏽💕 Lerato saying "you're an incredible wife" got me🥺
I also live in my head and I'm blessed to have Sisters around me who remind me to embrace the current. Also, I am not my best in the morning. Anytime before 10:00 is not the best time for me. I'm at my highest between midnight and 4am
This was the first time on your channel and I'm so glad to have found it. These questions were amazing, thank you for keeping it real. May you grow beyond what you ever thought was possible.
2. I’m with Lerato. Total freedom in a safe space is GREAT. I fear saying “I want 123”. I’m afraid of offending people, sounding like a freak, being judged, my true needs being leaked from the bedroom. That’s why I’ve been celibate for 6,5years.
"I wish you believed in me like you used to." That hit hard...Hubby has said that to me before. Still not sure how to reactivate that belief ngoba life has hit hard. 😕
Where trust has been broken,i believe,it is difficult to fully give/gain back. It'sxlike a chocalate that melts because of heat,even if u put it in the freezer,that "chocolate will not have its original shape.
I loved the whole episode but the highlight was the last question. Lerato's response was so deep and it really put a lot of things into perspective and just got me thinking about friendship and relationship dynamics.
It's the maturity for me. One thing I'm getting out of your videos is that relationships aren't perfect put you invest in them by building and just having grace for one another.
The only person who can truly give you feedback about how love them is your partner. We may be giving our best but their feedback is the true measure❤️let's keep talking and asking
This was sooo authentic and honest🥺🙆🏾♀️. Thank you for being vulnerable with us and schooling me. You are guys are honest, open and each other's safe space-you are communicating crucial things with love&maturity - l am not saying you are perfect l am saying you are doing great fellaz👏🏾❤️💕. P. S. I don't regret subscribing shame😆
Your authenticity and purity, together with the way you just speak with so much depth and clarity is going to impact a lot of marriages and relationships in an incredible way. One only hopes people who come here and watch you, do so with open hearts and minds hungry to learn a thing or two. I was on RUclips just watching scholarly videos and then booom your video appeared on that Playlist..studying night turned into reflection night with my wife. Thank you.
We love you guys even more because we looooove Tom Bilyeu!! Him and his wife Lisa have really good, thought provoking conversations.❤ Y'all are just amazing bathong ❤❤❤
Jonga. Sana. Best recommendation RUclips's given me 👏🏽 I CANNOT believe I've only now come across your content. Bathong. And I'm LOVING it all. God bless and continue to fortify your union, thanks for sharing all these pearls in such an honest and raw way!!! 🙌🏽🥰❤️
I could subscribe more than once to this channel if I could! The realest, most authentic content! Authenticity should be goals, not the perception of a 'perfect' relationship
The trust thing hit me, I feel like I will work on that so that my husband feels trusted. That point reminds me of men are from Mars women are from Venus I give my husband help because it’s what I would like but as a man I see how that may seem like I don’t trust him 🥰🥰 great content guys I will try the questions out
Waitse ke eng, it’s the honest, the unrehearsed and the risk for me🙌🏽. I was glad to hear that the channel will still be here in 5years because I heard no mention of closure😂😂😂. Pheto my dear, it happens to the most of us, o tla ba sharp, now you know, you are much better off😊
on the last one, I get Lerato. I actually think this is where the whole TREAT PEOPLE AS YOU WANT TO BE TREATED comes from. When I lost my mom, I wanted to be left alone, di askies and o tla siama annoyed me. to this day I don't think I know how to comfort anyone grieving a loved one, which is kinda sad. I feel like if you need me you will let me know and that's whats important. I think the main thing though is we need to communicate better and express our wants and needs so we avoid miscommunication, because people arent mind readers. With that said, great video guys, psychologists might say Pheto was being defensive when she folded her arms but I love that you both were ready to receive what the other one had to say.
Your video has been sitting on my list of recommendations for a while and today I listened/watched. Wow, so I wonder if this is South African or global. Jesus you guys are dealing the truth. Wow wow wow. God bless you.
My "fresh" breath of air every time i return to your platform after being "away" . You both just light up. So much love form this Island gurl from Papua New Guinea
I feel you Pheto in regards to young faith in God and as one grows we kind of have up and down faith...we translate that to our partners...you are deep😍
Oh man I love you guys and yho Phetola's laugh is contagious ya'll I'm here giggling like a school kid😂 Great conversation you have here and love love love the honesty. Till the next installment fam ❤️
The freaking out part my God. My partner has reached your level when it comes to my freaking out, he tries so hard not to offend me and be in it but he is just not there
Askies Pheto - I am with Ntate Makhetha - Freaking out is not something that sits with me. I am Pragmatic, practical, lets solve the issue, lets problem solve and move type person. Investing my energy and effort in "freaking out" ke fela matla, ha se ntho e ke hotseng ka yona. Always moving! Move mama! 😂😂😂😂
Guys you are adoooooorable. In the most grown up way tho.! I’ve stumbled here and I am staying. Phetho bathong , girrrrrl your laugh! Bathong. It’s so sotho, then it’s so english with a bit of zulu( 😂😂😂)
Loved this episode. Loved how real you both were and I personally identified with a few of Phetola’s personality traits. You guys are also very adorable.
I don't even think couple needs to pay for counseling, just head on to the makhs channel, joh the level of wisdom you both have is not of this world, thank you for being so raw and real, ya'll inspire me every single day... NOTIFICATION GANG ALL THE WAY FROM 🇳🇦🇳🇦🇳🇦
How did you come up with this idea of sharing ur life with us, I mean creating this RUclips channel. What compelled you to do so. I have just watched few hours ago but I don't want to stop. Guys ur so amazing thank u so much
Yasssssss!! Just finding this page and am now going back to watch the other episodes. Aww I'm in love with yall. Sis's sayings alone has me hooked. Praying all blessings for this family!!
I love how they don't talk about materialistic things.
This is beautiful.
"Complete freedom. Safe-space. No inhibition. Complete expression of love and intimacy..." Wow.
Gave me goosebumps…
You know when you're relationship is strong when you're asked where do you see the relationship in 5 years and your partner goes oh that's easy we're going to be just fine
Time's up????😧 I was still watching...ay no!
Askies Pheto, I can see you were really touched but the thing about people who are eloquent like Lerato is that it becomes a gift and a curse because they are able to effectively express their thoughts or feelings so well that even when they articulate things that don't sit well with them, the delivery is consistent. I believe the words he used were to help you understand exactly how he's feeling and his hope was that it would be understood and not taken personally. Anyone who's watched you guys can attest to how he loves when you cheer him on or affirm him and he's vocal about it. My biggest take away from what he said was that he is fueled by your absolute trust in him, that he loves knowing that he's a dependable partner. And just by expressing that, he basically revealed the type of person that you are....you are loving, supportive and like he said, his "biggest cheerleader" and when your cheerleader forgets their pom poms sometimes it becomes a bit of a concern😘❤ all love fam, nitey!
As a single woman I’m pleased with coming across this content. This was so enjoyable.
I was a little surprised to hear my name mentioned when shout outs were made😁😁😁 love you Fam!
Salute to Mr Makhs 🙏🙏, Hes so aware of madam's personality (sensitivity), and take it with sooo much grace . I truly appreciate it bcoz woow, The other Gender 🤦♂️😭 isshh can be cold .you guys are soo real and just know that, we truly appreciate what you are giving in your channel ...you are building ✊👊
Hello😍😍
I realise how a relationship is an everyday journey 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
I just love the way you guys communicate. Safe Space, Safe Space.
They respect each other sooo much
This is my ideal relationship - I need to be with a person I can communicate with - I need to be able to freely say where we are & where are going without having to lie about things bcz my spouse have chip over their shoulders. I was thinking that Lerato was more like me in a way he articulate things (even his personality) - but omg I do appreciate Phetola's gracefulness (infused with wisdom) of dealing with the unexpected (if this is an act - guys you are good actors)...I love to see that you are not so alike & yet you can still communicate & make it work without an offence - having a relationship that has the ability to heal is incredible (only from God)...I wish you the best in your journey together, keep it up & may the good Lord continue to bless you in your amazing covenant...
I love Phetola shame, "I thought I was perfect".. 😂😂😂😂
"What is one quality you think holds me back?"
I think this one is very important - even outside a romantic setting. To ourselves, we are perfect and always right and we need people who really love us to bring this up in the most constructive way possible ❤
one of the many many things i love about the Makhs is that they have completely different personalities but they work so well together.i think it speaks of how highly they respect and value each other.its never about 'if u dont do things my way then you wrong'.
The OG is in the house 💃🏾 popoopooopooooo 🔊🔊🔊🔊🔊🔊 let’s get into it. Dream Team Don’t forget to watch the Ads y’all. Registe signed; I’m gonna enjoy this one
Awww Kamo relebogela topic suggestion. 💗
@@samkambule8899 I knew these two would come through with their consistent content. We love them for their authenticity akere
These are risky questions but after answering them together you realize gore we are all human and motho waka ke bosso ,I would still choose him again. In relationships we grow and learn only when tap-on on those risky and uncomfortable topics.
Mara time was not yet up tlhe, 50/60min videos are welcome.love you guys
Hmmmmm this is soooo deep. I’m paraphrasing the last point Lerato made, ‘we love others the way we want to be loved rather than the way they want to be loved’. Thank you for the installment, with love from Nigeria 💕💕
Yayyy!! Naija representing 🇳🇬
Very wise and sound.
I’m actually dying at how touched Phetola is🤣🤣🤣nnete ya baba🌸 love your honesty fam. Thank you.
It’s the “I thought I was perfect” for me 🤣🤣🤣🤣💔💔💔I felt that one on my studio.
When you guys said you think time is up my heart nearly sank because I was ready to listen for another 30 minutes 🥲 I love how you're always having such meaningful and insightful conversations. Thank you fam👏🏽💕 Lerato saying "you're an incredible wife" got me🥺
I definitely love the rawness of this relationship 😭🙏🙏
Favs, I said a silent prayer for you guy's. May the Lord preserve your love and marriage. It's beautiful watching your installments❤️
I love it when he says “ I’m sorry, I’ll do better”
I just love Peto's laughter..so cute & contagious...keep laughing..
I also live in my head and I'm blessed to have Sisters around me who remind me to embrace the current.
Also, I am not my best in the morning. Anytime before 10:00 is not the best time for me. I'm at my highest between midnight and 4am
Beautiful real conversation. Love the honesty and the "discomfort". You guys handled it so well. Love and respect even when there is disagreement.
Your candidness and openness is truly inspiring. Very much appreciated
I love the way he looks at her
This was the first time on your channel and I'm so glad to have found it. These questions were amazing, thank you for keeping it real. May you grow beyond what you ever thought was possible.
2. I’m with Lerato. Total freedom in a safe space is GREAT. I fear saying “I want 123”. I’m afraid of offending people, sounding like a freak, being judged, my true needs being leaked from the bedroom. That’s why I’ve been celibate for 6,5years.
Your communication is top notch, say the toughest things in a very mindful way.
"I wish you believed in me like you used to." That hit hard...Hubby has said that to me before. Still not sure how to reactivate that belief ngoba life has hit hard. 😕
Askies sis. 🤗
@@palesakhoza7153 thanks Sis❤
That part hit me too. Like, I was so cold. Omo....
God is the answer ❤🙏
Where trust has been broken,i believe,it is difficult to fully give/gain back.
It'sxlike a chocalate that melts because of heat,even if u put it in the freezer,that "chocolate will not have its original shape.
I loved the whole episode but the highlight was the last question. Lerato's response was so deep and it really put a lot of things into perspective and just got me thinking about friendship and relationship dynamics.
It's the maturity for me. One thing I'm getting out of your videos is that relationships aren't perfect put you invest in them by building and just having grace for one another.
You guys are so mature even in the discomfort♥️very very interesting questions, I needed this vid
Wow, honestly your family is a blessing to us. Beke le beke, we keep learning. Thank you so much ❤️🙏.
Even in winter you guys are glowing hle 🥺😍❤️🔥
Di favourite tsa Modimo
@@KamogeloB uyazi mos 😁
The only person who can truly give you feedback about how love them is your partner. We may be giving our best but their feedback is the true measure❤️let's keep talking and asking
Just discovered this. Love the content, the personalities. Looking forward to more real talk ♥️
i love it when you say "mmmmm" when you are paying attention . dont change who you are please
I love how Lerato explained the silent wishes based on characters, hmm, makes a lot of sense. Wish the video was longer.
I love her laugh its so soothing, she''s the friend and older sister one needs
This was sooo authentic and honest🥺🙆🏾♀️. Thank you for being vulnerable with us and schooling me. You are guys are honest, open and each other's safe space-you are communicating crucial things with love&maturity - l am not saying you are perfect l am saying you are doing great fellaz👏🏾❤️💕.
P. S. I don't regret subscribing shame😆
First watch on this channel and I’m hooked! Loving the authenticity! God bless your union
Oh and in this installment, Lerato looks like Casper Nyovest, or is it just me who sees that? 🙈🙈🙈😂😂
We see it too🥺😹😹😹
Of course 😂😂😂
Even the sound
I agree 😅
🤣 I tried to ignore it
Yazi time is not up😂😂I would listen to you guys the whole day like for real
Like time really is not up on my watch🥺🥺🥺🥺😂😂🙈
@@keabetswethalakgale9172 exactly I felt like the whole episode was an introduction nje I so wanted more 😩🥺
Real conversations.....never thought I'd have these convos but am ready, the candiness & honesty guys🙌👊👌thank you guys 😊
It took me days to finally watch this. I wasn't sure I was ready to engage the video. Glad I finally did
Your authenticity and purity, together with the way you just speak with so much depth and clarity is going to impact a lot of marriages and relationships in an incredible way.
One only hopes people who come here and watch you, do so with open hearts and minds hungry to learn a thing or two.
I was on RUclips just watching scholarly videos and then booom your video appeared on that Playlist..studying night turned into reflection night with my wife. Thank you.
Phetola, sometimes i come here for your laugh, so contagious and therapeutic
This was so real and informative thank you Makhs for being vulnerable with us, love love how you communicate.
" I WISH YOU BELIEVED IN ME LIKE YOU USED TO" - Lerato
Some of the words that changes a beloved to a stranger or gangster
It's the "but this installment is going to be an hour now" for me🤣🤣🤣🤣. Great installment fam. God bless you.
The way I love these two ♥️ you’d swear that I know them personally 😂🤣 great watch, thank you!
I just love how the questions were not rehearsed.
We love you guys even more because we looooove Tom Bilyeu!! Him and his wife Lisa have really good, thought provoking conversations.❤ Y'all are just amazing bathong ❤❤❤
Jonga. Sana. Best recommendation RUclips's given me 👏🏽
I CANNOT believe I've only now come across your content. Bathong. And I'm LOVING it all.
God bless and continue to fortify your union, thanks for sharing all these pearls in such an honest and raw way!!! 🙌🏽🥰❤️
I am with you Pheto, it does not sit well with me either, addressing God as Bro
I could subscribe more than once to this channel if I could! The realest, most authentic content! Authenticity should be goals, not the perception of a 'perfect' relationship
The trust thing hit me, I feel like I will work on that so that my husband feels trusted. That point reminds me of men are from Mars women are from Venus I give my husband help because it’s what I would like but as a man I see how that may seem like I don’t trust him 🥰🥰 great content guys I will try the questions out
Waitse ke eng, it’s the honest, the unrehearsed and the risk for me🙌🏽. I was glad to hear that the channel will still be here in 5years because I heard no mention of closure😂😂😂. Pheto my dear, it happens to the most of us, o tla ba sharp, now you know, you are much better off😊
Yho.. Phetola is me, I literally live in my head guys!! Like I'm hardly PRESENT 😭
Bathong Phetola's laughter 😂😂😂😂😂
😅I love it
on the last one, I get Lerato. I actually think this is where the whole TREAT PEOPLE AS YOU WANT TO BE TREATED comes from. When I lost my mom, I wanted to be left alone, di askies and o tla siama annoyed me. to this day I don't think I know how to comfort anyone grieving a loved one, which is kinda sad. I feel like if you need me you will let me know and that's whats important. I think the main thing though is we need to communicate better and express our wants and needs so we avoid miscommunication, because people arent mind readers. With that said, great video guys, psychologists might say Pheto was being defensive when she folded her arms but I love that you both were ready to receive what the other one had to say.
A recent subie. I've been binging on your installments ❤️❤️
Definitely gonna have this conversation with my wife. Hopefully it ends in a similar manner😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂 abort I repeat abort😂😂😂😂
@@belindam200 🤣🤣🤣🤣🙈
🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂
Maybe you should send a vid😂
Your video has been sitting on my list of recommendations for a while and today I listened/watched. Wow, so I wonder if this is South African or global. Jesus you guys are dealing the truth. Wow wow wow. God bless you.
Can we have a reality show because I need more of this
My "fresh" breath of air every time i return to your platform after being "away" . You both just light up. So much love form this Island gurl from Papua New Guinea
Shu! Open and honest as usual. 🙌🏾Thank you for the installment.
Y'all on Black Love... Whaaaaaaaaaaat! Global growth! 💞💞💞 #50000
So grateful for such platforms, This is beautiful guys.
Thank you so much. 💓
Hey sis ❤️👏
❤❤❤❤❤
The Engrish in this household tho 💯
I feel you Pheto in regards to young faith in God and as one grows we kind of have up and down faith...we translate that to our partners...you are deep😍
Oh man I love you guys and yho Phetola's laugh is contagious ya'll I'm here giggling like a school kid😂
Great conversation you have here and love love love the honesty. Till the next installment fam ❤️
I am thrilled at how you seem to always be in each other's thought and this makes every video seamless and deep... God bless you fam ❤️🥰
My beautiful couple, more blessings in Jesus name 🥳🥳
The freaking out part my God. My partner has reached your level when it comes to my freaking out, he tries so hard not to offend me and be in it but he is just not there
at 12:00 i think you are free spirited/ spontaneous / easy going which is good in most situations. we all can't be structured.
For some reason I knew you were gonna say Phetola thinks or overthinks stuff...don’t know why. Or maybe it’s because I relate to her so much
We appreciate the transparency😍
They were soooo transparent, at some point I was panicking on Phetolas behalf. Mr Makhetha was really honest
@@thekhoabanesunfiltered8896 Yes and they both receive the honesty so well!
Love this content!
I'm definitely going to be answering these questions with my partner
Lerato's eyes on Pheto ge e bolela ka tsa kamoreng. Thank you for this one. Re leboga consistency aswell.
Guys you are so mature, I love it... I'm actually so teary right now.
AM SUBSCRIBING BECOUSE OF THE NUMBER OF TIMES PHETHO MENTIONS GOD....BLESS YOU SIS
Askies Pheto - I am with Ntate Makhetha - Freaking out is not something that sits with me.
I am Pragmatic, practical, lets solve the issue, lets problem solve and move type person. Investing my energy and effort in "freaking out" ke fela matla, ha se ntho e ke hotseng ka yona. Always moving! Move mama! 😂😂😂😂
Oh my goodness! This guy is me😂
My wife goes through the exact same stuff with me!!
I just love you two, I'm so glad I found this channel when I did. Real inspiration. True love exists. ❤️❤️❤️
Guys you are adoooooorable. In the most grown up way tho.! I’ve stumbled here and I am staying. Phetho bathong , girrrrrl your laugh! Bathong. It’s so sotho, then it’s so english with a bit of zulu( 😂😂😂)
Mrs Makh...my handsome husband, Mr Makh...stop it I like it ! 😁🥰❤ I love it !!!
I love you guys🤗❤️ would watch you two the whole day learnt a lot from you.. watching you from Zambia ❤️❤️🇿🇲
The transparency of it all💯
That intro got me to subscribe, first time watching and am hooked....
Love from Namibia 🇳🇦❤
Loved this episode. Loved how real you both were and I personally identified with a few of Phetola’s personality traits.
You guys are also very adorable.
Wifey's laugh is so cute!!!😭❤
I love their transparency and realism 👍
I don't even think couple needs to pay for counseling, just head on to the makhs channel, joh the level of wisdom you both have is not of this world, thank you for being so raw and real, ya'll inspire me every single day... NOTIFICATION GANG ALL THE WAY FROM 🇳🇦🇳🇦🇳🇦
Phetola's laugh 🤣🤣🤣 Love love love her... Thank you both so so much for this 🙏God bless
The shortest and most insightful 30mins ever on a RUclips videos 🙏🏻
Pheto’s sensitivity 😂😂, I love you fam ❤️
How did you come up with this idea of sharing ur life with us, I mean creating this RUclips channel. What compelled you to do so. I have just watched few hours ago but I don't want to stop. Guys ur so amazing thank u so much
The transparency... really learning a lot.Your content is bomb🔥🔥🔥🔥and top quality 🔥💯
Yasssssss!! Just finding this page and am now going back to watch the other episodes. Aww I'm in love with yall. Sis's sayings alone has me hooked. Praying all blessings for this family!!