PODCAST: HOW TO GET YOUR RELATIONSHIP/ MARRIAGE OUT OF A DEAD PLACE | South African Couple YouTubers

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  • Опубликовано: 31 июл 2024
  • In todays' instalment we discuss the lessons learnt while finding our marriage in a dead place.

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  • @Rose_Karey
    @Rose_Karey 2 года назад +50

    For those of us who like before watching the thing..

  • @sinothandosirunu
    @sinothandosirunu 2 года назад +34

    Your installments always feel like pre-marital counseling. Thank you for this conversation ❤️

  • @atlegangpooe2915
    @atlegangpooe2915 2 года назад +31

    This podcast is slowly helping me to believe in love again, Thank you guys and God bless you.

  • @emmilywoods5781
    @emmilywoods5781 2 года назад +14

    The Bible story was about Zachariah, who was married to Elizabeth. She was pregnant with John the Baptist. Love ❤ your channels.

  • @iam_mmathoka
    @iam_mmathoka 2 года назад +47

    Wow The wisdom 🥺❤🔥 not me watching the whole episode 😢 in loadshedding ka battery ya 10% 😭😅 this was indeed another ravishing and enlightening installation and I definitely took notes for the time I finally get into a relationship 😊
    #DreamTeam ❤

  • @preciousmoss9087
    @preciousmoss9087 2 года назад +8

    Im Here For The Wisdom Downloaded Straight From God's Throne!❤🔥

  • @MissCombs1511
    @MissCombs1511 2 года назад +21

    You once said you had to wait for the right time to start this channel, and I think we are all the better for it because you are respectfully raw. Thank you so much Makhs! Lovely weekend ahead..♥️

  • @mbalimthethwa5618
    @mbalimthethwa5618 2 года назад +20

    I resonate with Lerato and I like what he says about learning not to be offended by ingratitude. Love it.

  • @ziyandantlombe4412
    @ziyandantlombe4412 2 года назад +13

    Guys you have no idea how grateful I am for coming across your channel. Within less than 3 weeks I have watched all your installments and I must say, I have grown. For that, I thank you.

  • @bongiwedlamini9790
    @bongiwedlamini9790 2 года назад +3

    It's the Consistency for me keep it up family much love from 🇸🇿🇸🇿🇸🇿❤️❤️

  • @pulaamontz6110
    @pulaamontz6110 2 года назад +10

    Absolutely loved the structure of this installment. The indoor plant analogy brought it home. Quotes for the day: "your single-hood good habits may not necessarily be good for your marriage 🙌🏾". "Grace is like fertilizer, don't expect rewards of your grace immediately". Ke le utlwile sentle🙌🏾🤗☀️🌻💛

  • @nonjabuloshongwe1212
    @nonjabuloshongwe1212 2 года назад +10

    Lerato is also very wise hey. I like your mind.
    Your intellect complements ausi Pheto and likewise.
    I just love how you have made this comparison, it’s so accurate

  • @pulengmatshelo8434
    @pulengmatshelo8434 2 года назад +3

    I love you too guys.
    May God continually strengthen your marriage.

  • @lebogangramela7093
    @lebogangramela7093 2 года назад +3

    loving someone involves looking for new ways to always put a smile on their face. wow i felt this

  • @boitumelo.speaks
    @boitumelo.speaks 2 года назад +9

    😂 you think my data is the only thing that is finished? My paper and arm strength is depleted from all the note-taking. Love you guys.

  • @bulauzy1
    @bulauzy1 2 года назад +4

    I relate so much , wow. Sis Phetola I'm growing from so many things you're mentioning as having to learn to let go . I have a lot of introspection to do .

  • @andilengubane5178
    @andilengubane5178 2 года назад +2

    It takes a whole lot of maturity and grace to reach this kind of mindset! Stubbornness is a killer

  • @kayjnr10
    @kayjnr10 2 года назад +2

    I learn to be a better man and also, I’m a better man every time I listen to you speak Lerato on such talks and topics coz man, blessed is the fruit of thy wisdom. God has blessed you with your match (wife) who’s not only challenging you but also brings the very best out of you…Blessed be the Lord God Almighty.

  • @mmatebogomoitswadi
    @mmatebogomoitswadi 2 года назад +5

    The Makhs senior's= The Makhs junior 🤞❤️

  • @leehlemzamo
    @leehlemzamo 2 года назад +7

    Sis Pheto looking gorgeous as always and the podcast is amazing, so much seasoned wisdom. 👌👌

  • @asandanene4095
    @asandanene4095 2 года назад +15

    Love loved this installment- Lerato just dropped a gem at the end not knowing if he noticed that... "You create a safe space for me to be confident" Now that kept me THINKING DO I CREATE THAT FOR MY PARTNER - IF SO how do i intentionally create and maintain one? #Hit hit would love to hear how you would unpack that gem..... Please continue sharing your thoughts some of us are growing, learning and unlearning things... Love you lots and may God continue to bless your union

  • @seithatintumelangsetswanap2639
    @seithatintumelangsetswanap2639 2 года назад +1

    Story of Elizabeth when she was pregnant of John, Zakaria's mouth was shut because had no faith. Thank you guys for the wisdom you shared, I started watering the plant of where I stay every day it was literally brown, I learned patient from it. It's now has green leaves❤️💕. God bless you and protect your family

  • @lebogangmasemula8958
    @lebogangmasemula8958 2 года назад +6

    My favorite "cover each other's nakedness". Another amazing instalment, lots of LOVE!

  • @louisebennett6088
    @louisebennett6088 2 года назад +4

    Quality conversation. Learning lots. Thank you❤️🙏🏽

  • @LethoHali
    @LethoHali 2 года назад +2

    “Stop it I like it”
    “Sorry not sorry”
    😃 Lerato is cheeky today.
    He’s right though, ur so beautiful Pheto!

  • @neopilane3850
    @neopilane3850 2 года назад +5

    Man, this is amazing 🤩 May the Almighty continue to bless your union. Love you, guys❤️

  • @neoshamalapela6265
    @neoshamalapela6265 2 года назад +3

    I love love this conversation. I came here to comment even before i finished watching. As a single person, this is treasure to me which i believe i will put to good use some day. Thank you for the wisdom. Thank you for pouring your hearts out to us, and sharing your experiences for our upliftment, growth and encouragement.

  • @Joelle__K
    @Joelle__K 2 года назад +6

    I've been watching your podcasts but haven't really heard the intro properly. I had proper earphones on today. Ugh!! It's SO GOOD!!!
    Okay, let me listen to today's conversation!!

  • @itumelengselepe7254
    @itumelengselepe7254 2 года назад +2

    This is why I subscribed ❤️❤️❤️. I am so glad to be part of the dream team🙏💙💜.

  • @alinaabed6082
    @alinaabed6082 2 года назад +7

    The Bible story of the man that was muted took my mind back to the content of the installment you guys made earlier "The right to incubate", Lerato spoke about it. You guys still keep wondering why the family spend their day listening to you, well I'll answer that ...you guys are amazing just like the content that you give, I mean who would like to miss out on this amazing content 😉. You guys are the best, please keep the content coming.... I love you all❤😇😁💏

  • @yolisanqari5899
    @yolisanqari5899 2 года назад

    I love that last line.... "its so humbling that people actually spend their data to listen to us... its crazy" But truly you guys are a blessing. Big ups Lerato and Phetola🥰

  • @thembisilesongbirdnhlaponh8200
    @thembisilesongbirdnhlaponh8200 2 года назад +6

    I love you guys so much. This was so wholesome man. Thank you for always dropping gems. May God continues to shower you guys with wisdom. I can't wait to be married 😭😭😭🙏🙏👰👰👰

  • @masehletselucymaboya801
    @masehletselucymaboya801 2 года назад

    Love this Fam! May God continue to take this ministry from glory to glory!

  • @ingavika9383
    @ingavika9383 2 года назад +3

    Oh man! Amazing! The bringing a dead plant to life analogy is the one!

  • @LivingWithTheFrancisFamily
    @LivingWithTheFrancisFamily 2 года назад

    Absolutely love love the conversation 🙏🏽

  • @kokimothoagae9533
    @kokimothoagae9533 2 года назад +3

    I am just on 10 minutes Mara wow you are just on 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 wow to think on Monday this was exactly what I was talking to hubby about and we had a very long discussion regarding this wow🔥🔥

  • @timbasibongile
    @timbasibongile 2 года назад +6

    Never clicked this fast on a video literally seconds ago

  • @Reine111
    @Reine111 2 года назад +5

    I haven't even started watching yet. I only got the notification and I'm blushing 😊 because it's wisdom time !! The deep soul connection between you both is sooooo tangible 🥰

  • @kundaikoti9701
    @kundaikoti9701 2 года назад

    Just here to drop some love ❤. May your cup continue to overflow

  • @nomvelobuswana
    @nomvelobuswana 2 года назад +1

    Liked before even watching !
    Love y’alls channel♥️

  • @phozisangubombi9899
    @phozisangubombi9899 2 года назад +3

    WOW 🙌🏾. I believe God is using you to share your wisdom through this platform. Thank you Family 🙏🏾 May the good Lord continue to bless you

  • @keneilwemmushi4692
    @keneilwemmushi4692 2 года назад

    "Us" is worth listening to!Insightful, entertaining, loving and a safe space for learning and experiencing love at its most

  • @make931
    @make931 2 года назад

    Wow the plant illustration relating to the direct sunlight ..wow ❤👏

  • @didihighly-favoured7163
    @didihighly-favoured7163 2 года назад

    You're speaking life.
    Lots of wisdom as always.
    Thank you, you both are amazing.

  • @asiphebekwaphi8547
    @asiphebekwaphi8547 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for this wonderful installment ♥️♥️ ... I must say this I am growing and learning so much from you guys, I love it here♥️👏

  • @alettahtsotetsi3276
    @alettahtsotetsi3276 2 года назад

    So much wisdom. I loved it.. Let continue watering the plants and God being the first in everything.

  • @mbalisadikge3660
    @mbalisadikge3660 2 года назад

    Wow , I needed to hear this and love your closing line Mr. Makhs "This could be a beautiful thing if you let it ". The wisdom🔥🔥🔥 , Thank you family. Love and appreciate you both

  • @alisashidhika7815
    @alisashidhika7815 2 года назад +1

    Wow!!you guys are everything,full of wisdom,you are giving hope out there for better and good relationships.Sending you love and blessings from Namibia.

  • @busi889
    @busi889 2 года назад

    Great lesson ..keep empowering us..we learning alot..thank uu❤❤

  • @CornerHouse_Media
    @CornerHouse_Media 2 года назад +1

    This one was not revealed to you guys by man ….the jewels here are priceless,God bless you guys real big …

  • @limakatsoselatile6424
    @limakatsoselatile6424 2 года назад +1

    The wisdom in this podcast filled me with joy. Thank you for sharing it with us, it is life changing. We love you!

  • @happymuller841
    @happymuller841 2 года назад +3

    As'bonge for the seeds sowed in here! The greatest of the insights shared sparingly about nurturing the "plant" that is life generally, how & where it flourishes...🏜❤❤❤love you fam❤❤❤

  • @poppymlotshwa9032
    @poppymlotshwa9032 2 года назад +2

    The content we sign up for, you guys are awesome thank you 😍😍😍

  • @ofentsemailula7177
    @ofentsemailula7177 2 года назад

    This was beautiful. Thank you so much for this

  • @ayandaphilasandelefatola1461
    @ayandaphilasandelefatola1461 2 года назад +2

    This was such a beautiful and an authentic episode. Guys thank you for pouring out your experiences to us. I love and appreciate you.
    💖💖💖

  • @LethoHali
    @LethoHali 2 года назад

    We love you more guys! 😍

  • @pewalina3484
    @pewalina3484 2 года назад +1

    Quality Content galore... I love it for us here❤❤❤ .

  • @beingtshenolo.3840
    @beingtshenolo.3840 2 года назад +3

    Im here for the content in this channel, it really came in a good time. for me i was really in a dead place im ready to stand up and do better. God bless you.

  • @salomechauke6181
    @salomechauke6181 2 года назад

    Loved loved loved this installment guys,especially the scripture in Ezekiel in the end...at this point I could listen to an installment every day

  • @tshandukomandiwana3334
    @tshandukomandiwana3334 2 года назад +1

    Thank you guys for such an inspiring instalment... One thing amongst others that stood out for me was the fact that instead of throwing the flower, you went and research to try and bring it back to life...
    Lesson: We cannot change what we don't know or understand. I'd relate this to what the book of Proverbs 24:3-4.
    1. Seek knowledge(Research)
    2. Understanding(Comprehension) the info you got from your research
    3. Wisdom (The ability to apply what you have learned)
    Thank you guys and may the mighty El Yahuah continue to bless your family !!!

  • @linusshaddai8753
    @linusshaddai8753 2 года назад +2

    You guys are so amazing 😍😍, I mean I love you guys. It's the second time I'm seeing particular session and it's still blessing me.

  • @nonhlanhlaxanase3345
    @nonhlanhlaxanase3345 2 года назад +1

    Wow what a graceful and nurturing installment about Love and Life
    🌿☘🌿❤🇿🇦

  • @boitumelomalema1470
    @boitumelomalema1470 2 года назад

    So inspired by how you say marriage has made you a better person. I love this because I promised myself to never get married because of, honestly, fear and past traumas. So inspired to explore this journey and make life choices not from a place of disappointment. Love it

  • @bmol9869
    @bmol9869 2 года назад +1

    The love still radiates even when calling each other out on any matters or concerns. Love how you respect each other 💖💞. Correcting each other gently. The solid fan from 🇧🇼.

  • @heleni7346
    @heleni7346 2 года назад +1

    So much wisdom 👏👏👏👏 Your podcast has blessed my husband and I. ❤

  • @zinhlethusi8585
    @zinhlethusi8585 2 года назад

    Just downloaded this segment, love you guys

  • @leratodyani1586
    @leratodyani1586 2 года назад +2

    Marriage is a journey indeed. Thank you for this instalment. I learnt a lot

  • @zinhlendlangamandla206
    @zinhlendlangamandla206 2 года назад +1

    Your studio guys 💖👌 it a WOW! Really love it...

  • @Lindo.N7
    @Lindo.N7 2 года назад +2

    I always learn from your instalments ❤ Thank you DreamTeam!

  • @moiponephokojoe4858
    @moiponephokojoe4858 2 года назад

    you guys are the best, so much wisdom

  • @thabithamphela6090
    @thabithamphela6090 2 года назад +1

    The wisdom in this channel is phenomenal
    ......

  • @natzg
    @natzg 2 года назад +2

    Hey, I have been binge watching, I find your installments so edifying. I need a covering of "Boundaries while Waiting until Marriage"
    would love if you could look into this.

  • @MotherMogashoa_Mmathapelo
    @MotherMogashoa_Mmathapelo 2 года назад

    I don't know, but God always has a way of sending me to you guys, I've been going through a phase of social media fatigue. I haven't been able to finish videos of my most favorite RUclipsrs and content creators in general. Like I'd read a caption and feel wow this is fire, but not even half way through I'd get tired. But yho you guys literally just revived my spirit. Thank you God bless you.

  • @veronicachirombe7617
    @veronicachirombe7617 2 года назад +4

    Such wisdom♥️ sharing your personal experiences with such humility and love for one another.... which is so evident and lovely to see the way you know each other so well and can talk about the tough topics. May God continue to take you from strength to strength!🔥♥️

  • @boldanddefiant6490
    @boldanddefiant6490 2 года назад

    Am from Africa and I really learn alot from you. May God continue to use you

  • @kelebogilemoshe4347
    @kelebogilemoshe4347 2 года назад +3

    I loved the topic. Thank you❤️

  • @zeldakgatlane1588
    @zeldakgatlane1588 2 года назад +1

    The Makhs, I absolutely love your ministry ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @inathisofika1669
    @inathisofika1669 2 года назад +1

    😅 yes we wanna listen to you! Y'all are amazing.

  • @viwemabulu444
    @viwemabulu444 2 года назад

    🙌🏾❤️ I’m not even married but daaaaamn! I relate to this content so much. Thank you Mr and Mrs Makhs for sharing

  • @rseletisha
    @rseletisha 2 года назад +3

    #DreamTeam the wisdom is out of this world. Thank you I'm actually learning so much. Great content Wow... I always look forward to your instalments, the work you are doing is amazing shhaaammm...

  • @sylviaskosana6651
    @sylviaskosana6651 2 года назад

    You two are full of grace 👌,

  • @Thulare_Ramokgopa
    @Thulare_Ramokgopa 2 года назад +2

    I enjoyed THIS!!
    🤍🤍🤍🤲🏾😭

  • @maipelosentle1302
    @maipelosentle1302 2 года назад

    Thank you Dream Team.. Profound

  • @lydialekgothoane117
    @lydialekgothoane117 2 года назад

    You guys are full of wisdom,we learning a lot from you!

  • @nonjabuloshongwe1212
    @nonjabuloshongwe1212 2 года назад +3

    Notification Gang whats up🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳

  • @gbngcobo
    @gbngcobo 2 года назад

    I still can't believe that I'm still in love with this couple's content after so many months...

  • @Zcona9797
    @Zcona9797 2 года назад +1

    Yhoo guys you are packed with wisdom 👌❤️uTatu God anisikelele

  • @lebogangmashiloane6714
    @lebogangmashiloane6714 2 года назад

    This was beautiful. I really learnt a lot from it.

  • @ameliamathebula6213
    @ameliamathebula6213 2 года назад +2

    Hello dream team... Thank you for this chillas + am here waiting for the electricity to come back

  • @daphneymashao
    @daphneymashao 2 года назад +1

    Lools you guys and the verse parts.. the uncertainity🤣😅. John the baptist's dad is the one who went mute..
    Great installment!

  • @ameliamathebula6213
    @ameliamathebula6213 2 года назад +1

    Bathi indlela ibuzwa kwaba phambili... Big up to your platform for reaching and widening our views. On all your talks there is something to pick when you do some self introspection

  • @charletmokomele2452
    @charletmokomele2452 2 года назад

    I love it! Thank you 😊

  • @lindsayndhlovu183
    @lindsayndhlovu183 2 года назад

    I love this so much ,im being taught and prepared for marriage..thank you 🙌💛💛

  • @AnnahGrace
    @AnnahGrace 2 года назад

    Thank you for healthy habits to a better relationship. Loved it.

  • @karabomakgopela7593
    @karabomakgopela7593 2 года назад +2

    I love it here🥺🌸

  • @nkelemokami4115
    @nkelemokami4115 2 года назад +2

    U guys r so beautiful hle, phetola ur style is jst on another level

  • @nokwethabamdluli6694
    @nokwethabamdluli6694 2 года назад +2

    W open the door by ...liking first dream team💃💃🥰

  • @rollykgware
    @rollykgware 2 года назад +2

    Just want to say le di ever fresh 🙌🏽.

  • @segobernice2103
    @segobernice2103 2 года назад

    ❤️ "a bad habits for your marriage is not necessary a bad habit"

  • @lesedisekhu1542
    @lesedisekhu1542 2 года назад +2

    We love The Makhs!!