How To Unf*** Your Life | 6 Steps To Reinvent Yourself In 2024

Поделиться
HTML-код
  • Опубликовано: 5 дек 2024

Комментарии • 339

  • @benjamindotun3213
    @benjamindotun3213 10 месяцев назад +35

    36:01
    D - Don't React
    A - Aware (Become become aware of your emotional state, the feeling)
    P - Pause (before you do anything else, pause and take a breath)
    P - Ponder (Ponder what options are available to you)
    E - Emotions (Choose the emotional state that works best for you that serves you in a path towards empowerment and growth)
    R - Respond (Decide how you want to respond)

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  10 месяцев назад +8

      That’s it

    • @SUPRSPRDR
      @SUPRSPRDR 7 месяцев назад

      Let's create a better start to that list than 'Don't'. Highlight the behaviour you want to move towards, not the behaviour you want to move away from.

    • @jswizzlerizz
      @jswizzlerizz 6 месяцев назад

      ​@@SUPRSPRDR how about D -disengage ?

    • @geewiz8253
      @geewiz8253 4 месяца назад +1

      @@jswizzlerizzDisengage means you engaged in the first place. Don’t react in his definition means Stop and pause so you can think analytically instead of deciding through emotions.

  • @sooyounglee369
    @sooyounglee369 8 месяцев назад +8

    I just made my son cry before I put him to bed. It was a long day of grumpy disrespect from both of us. One of those nights where I wonder if I am crazy to keep building my business as a single mom. Then I watched this again for the 3rd time. Feeling hopeful for the last hour of my night because I choose to be. The power of choice is essential in my consulting work. I just need to be reminded by internet strangers like Chris.

    • @MrgoldenRose
      @MrgoldenRose 7 месяцев назад +1

      You got this❤

    • @sooyounglee369
      @sooyounglee369 7 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you! Appreciate you

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  3 месяца назад +1

      we all do our best. but we are not perfect.

  • @Fabiannysblog
    @Fabiannysblog 11 месяцев назад +183

    Right now, few minutes ago I was about to enter in an spiral of negative thoughts and emotions and feeling sorry about myself, the abilities I lack, the places I couldn’t visit this year and so on~ I was about to literally laid down and cry and this video popped up. Now I’m crying because I’m thankful to you 😭 I’ll have lunch now and workout, and continue planning for 2024 🏋🏻‍♀️ Thank you so much

    • @shanediegojansen3169
      @shanediegojansen3169 11 месяцев назад +6

      @fabiannysrondon the best teacher in life is your own experience non of us know ourselves until we fail. Keep up the consistency of outperforming yourself even in the smallest of activities.

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  11 месяцев назад +8

      Wow! Good on you Fabian

    • @vcat417
      @vcat417 11 месяцев назад +2

      I think this is the time to tell yourself it was time learn something. As you can see for yourself it’s just the matter of perspective.
      P. S. What happens to you doesn’t define you , how you react to that does…

    • @smartfreelancer-dp2qd
      @smartfreelancer-dp2qd 11 месяцев назад +3

      ​@@thefutur hi. I have a question. I listen to almost all episodes of your podcast and I still dont have the answer to my question. What should we do about ai. At some point you said we gotta expand our expertise and be a good writer/ designer who can help brand raise awareness and just working on one specifix skill might not work anymore (ep 215) and you also mentioned if we are working in an industry that is possible to be wiped out by AI we have to change...but change how? To what industry? Even the programmers themselves are gonna get replaced by AI someday so even the computer science is not safe anymore...what should we do? Thx

    • @whereztheliepodcast1318
      @whereztheliepodcast1318 11 месяцев назад +3

      Rooting for you! You got this!

  • @GetNotableDotAI
    @GetNotableDotAI 11 месяцев назад +37

    18:21 | The 6 Steps are: (1) Decide, (2) Awareness, (3) Pause, (4) Pivot, (5) Execute, (6) Rewire. Hope it helps.

  • @warezit
    @warezit 11 месяцев назад +100

    🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation:
    00:00 🧐 *Embracing Change and Growth*
    - Exploring the reluctance to change despite dissatisfaction with one's current state.
    - The importance of letting go of an old identity to adopt a new, more aligned one.
    - Introducing the video's theme: mindset and intentionality in life.
    01:21 🌍 *Perception and Emotional Influence*
    - The impact of emotional stateon how we perceive and interpret objective truths.
    - Example of interpreting a parking ticket scenario differently based on emotional state.
    - Emphasizing the subjective lens through which we view objective events.
    03:12 🔄 *Transitioning to a Higher Self*
    - The importance of observing without judgment for personal growth.
    - How our emotional states can skew our perception and interpretation of events.
    - Anecdotes illustrating how a change in emotional state can alter perception.
    05:05 🤔 *The Impact of Emotional State on Communication*
    - Discussing the influence of emotional states on how advice is received.
    - The difference in interpretation of the same advice based on one's emotional state.
    - Highlighting the role of self-esteem and confidence in perception.
    07:09 🔄 *Platinum Rule over Golden Rule*
    - The Platinum Rule: treating people how they want to be treated.
    - Understanding and respecting others' preferences in communication and support.
    - The significance of adapting to others' needs for effective communication.
    09:40 🧠 *Choosing Your Emotional Lens*
    - The choice between viewing the world through a negative or positive lens.
    - How this choice influences our interpretation of events and interactions.
    - The impact of gratitude and abundance mindset on personal perception.
    11:54 🌱 *Practices for Positive Perspective*
    - Strategies for adopting a mindset of gratitude and abundance.
    - The importance of breaking negative thought patterns and establishing new pathways.
    - The role of meditation in achieving self-awareness and emotional control.
    15:00 🗣️ *Nonviolent Communication and Self-Talk*
    - The significance of practicing nonviolent language with others and oneself.
    - How our internal dialogue reflects our external communication.
    - Understanding the origin of our critical inner voice and its impact.
    18:22 🧭 *The Dapper Framework*
    - Introduction to the 'Dapper' acronym as a framework for emotional control and growth.
    - The steps of Dapper: Decide, Awareness, Pause, Pivot, Execute, Rewire.
    - Applying Dapper to everyday situations for better emotional management.
    25:34 🤔 *Overcoming Identity Attachment*
    - Exploring resistance to change due to attachment to current identity.
    - The paradox of desiring change while clinging to familiar discomfort.
    - Emphasizing the need to let go of the known for growth and development.
    28:07 🔄 *Embracing Personal Evolution*
    - The natural process of growth and letting go, illustrated through nature metaphors.
    - The importance of shedding old identities and beliefs to evolve.
    - Encouraging personal development by embracing change and new possibilities.
    31:08 🎯 *Intention and Application for Change*
    - The critical role of setting intentions for personal growth.
    - The disparity between those who apply learned concepts and those who don't.
    - Encouraging active application of principles for transformative results.
    34:08 🔄 *Refined Dapper Framework*
    - Refining the Dapper framework for emotional intelligence and growth.
    - Emphasizing the importance of non-reaction and awareness in personal development.
    - Encouraging practical application of the Dapper principles in daily life.
    Made with HARPA AI

    • @FatTonyTheSkipper
      @FatTonyTheSkipper 11 месяцев назад +9

      Does the AI listen to the video and make this ? HHow does it work

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  11 месяцев назад +11

      I think so.

    • @warezit
      @warezit 11 месяцев назад +12

      @@FatTonyTheSkipper the video Transcript gets passed to the AI for parsing 🙂

  • @alleycat2502
    @alleycat2502 8 месяцев назад +2

    I think post covid, a lot of people (including me) needed to hear this. Being in a funk, listless, kind of depressed. The only person able to pull us out of this is ourselves. We can reinvent, move forward, maybe take a different path, and do it with a positive outlook. Go with grace

  • @HaiNguyen-hn5lv
    @HaiNguyen-hn5lv 7 месяцев назад +1

    I heard recently from someone.....it's not a mistake, it's a state! You broke that down in such a relatable story that put so many elements in coherence. Brilliant. Respect. So grateful to find you. Sensei 🙏

  • @maazahmed1695
    @maazahmed1695 11 месяцев назад +4

    Chris gave me goosebumps and was like talking to me by saying, "You have so much to offer the world. Get up and chase your dreams to become the best version of yourself."

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  11 месяцев назад +1

      It was meant for you.

  • @kagelevelofficial
    @kagelevelofficial 11 месяцев назад +13

    Thank you, Chris. Let’s f*cking go 💪🏽… start acting like the person you want to be, they’re already alive in your mind. Bring them to life IRL.

  • @selle2545
    @selle2545 11 месяцев назад +5

    Refreshing to hear when most self development talks by influencers nowadays try to instill the main character syndrome inspired by the ego. This is such a great and humble approach to do a deep dive on how we can be better for ourselves and those around us. Appreciate all you guys have done for so many years, and I'm excited to see where this pivot into new subjects leads you!

  • @AndresCreates
    @AndresCreates 11 месяцев назад +10

    Yes, please a full video on Emotional detachment. Really enjoy this video.

  • @raymondek3828
    @raymondek3828 11 месяцев назад +8

    I’m so impressed and admire your wisdom and ability to articulate so well. I had a craniotomy last September so my whole last year has been humbling and my thoughts to words has been trying to say the least but just watching your ease of speech gives me hope that I can speak just as well. If I see you ever I want to hug and thank you. This is the video that gives me strength and the will to continue. Love it, keep up the amazing work.

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  11 месяцев назад

      Thank you so much. When you do, please give me a hug and tell me about this comment.

  • @TheBodyElectricSupplement
    @TheBodyElectricSupplement 11 месяцев назад +5

    We owe you so much Chris. Open and frank is exactly what most of us need.

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  11 месяцев назад

      That’s all I got. So good news.

  • @Race.M1nd
    @Race.M1nd 11 месяцев назад +10

    Fun fact: 'Dapper' means 'brave' in Dutch so I raise my glass to all you dapper warriors out there!

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  11 месяцев назад +1

      Cheers to that.

  • @Amegla1976
    @Amegla1976 11 месяцев назад +19

    Both DAPPER meanings are on point. They’re just applicable at different stages in a “conflict”. Well done, both!

  • @FBDracer
    @FBDracer 11 месяцев назад +2

    Thanks for taking the time, both of you, for putting out the positivity yall are pushing.

  • @digitalcsea
    @digitalcsea 11 месяцев назад +1

    Emptying your cup, breaking your shell, shedding your skin, gotta fall in love with the process. Appreciate the way you are now and embrace your journey of growth. It’s what life is all about. Great video

  • @grandjette
    @grandjette 7 месяцев назад

    25:38 ff The longest distance is the distance between your heart and your brain.
    ...you can understand things logically more...but your emotional state...gets into this scarcity mindset, this loss aversion quickly.
    ff explains how detachment is NOT a lack of care or compassion but taking a step back and looking at things with perspective.
    My take away: we can choose to be free and available for the needs of others when we remove the shackles of victimhood or negative thoughts from ourselves or "received/remembered" from others.

  • @shakeel.design
    @shakeel.design 11 месяцев назад +18

    New intention ➡ new beliefs ➡ new identity ➡ new actions ➡ new results ➡ new life.
    Repeat.
    I love this holistic take on personal development, and would love to see more content on emotional detachment.
    Happy new year to the Do Nation! 🎉

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  11 месяцев назад +3

      Happy new year Shakeel. Good to see you here. Planning something at ArtCenter for Jan 2024.

    • @shakeel.design
      @shakeel.design 11 месяцев назад

      @@thefutur looking forward to it, as always!

  • @raeinthewild
    @raeinthewild 11 месяцев назад +2

    I appreciate you Chris! You have a wealth of knowledge not only about design, but life. I am grateful for your willingness to share.

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  11 месяцев назад

      Thank you. You rock!

  • @angeladurham6655
    @angeladurham6655 10 месяцев назад +1

    Mr. Chris Do, I so appreciate your contribution to my corner of the world. I relate. Thanks!

  • @AbdulkaderAttoura
    @AbdulkaderAttoura 10 месяцев назад +2

    Honestly I was waiting for Chris reaction toward the suggestion for Dapper 😂😂😂😂😂
    It's a really good hidden lesson in this video unrelated to the topic but it's important to learn about good way to give feedback without being too nice or too rude.
    Also loved how fast the Dapper started from the beginning of it, Very Smart move to summarize and remember everything.

  • @kerucreuvitar9495
    @kerucreuvitar9495 10 месяцев назад +1

    I've been living in scarcity mindset for so long and didn't know I had chosen to not evolve......thnx for bringing it to my awareness!!! Will work on evolving from here on out.

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  10 месяцев назад

      Glad it was helpful!

  • @happypartylifetvyoulike5518
    @happypartylifetvyoulike5518 11 месяцев назад +8

    A comfort zone is like an addictive drug, change is a necessary factor for growth. This is a huge revelation for me, and I'm grateful for this video. Thank you Sir

  • @jswizzlerizz
    @jswizzlerizz 6 месяцев назад

    I don't know how I am just now coming across your channel but you have a beautiful way of thinking. I've been working towards these ideals for the past ten years or so and I am excited to add you to my list of mentors. Your contributions to society are creating ripples that reach far into the universe. Thank you.

  • @nicolepeaslee5692
    @nicolepeaslee5692 11 месяцев назад +1

    I lost my job (well... it was forced resignation) literally the first business day of 2024. This video is is perfect timing and I feel like I've been given this opportunity to start fresh in the new year.

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  11 месяцев назад +1

      Best of luck.

    • @divineorder22
      @divineorder22 10 месяцев назад

      I had the same experience happen to me in Decemberof 2016. It was the best gift that God could have given me. Don't worry or be anxious about anything. Focus on the greatest that is unfolding in your life and enjoy every day. Thank God ❤

  • @amandahooverlester
    @amandahooverlester 11 месяцев назад +10

    This was a phenomenal “workshop” for me. Thank you all for you being you and doing this work. ❤

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  11 месяцев назад +1

      Our pleasure!

  • @thetroydixon7283
    @thetroydixon7283 11 месяцев назад

    Having friends that have these discussions and conversations is just golden

  • @CharlieFerris77
    @CharlieFerris77 11 месяцев назад +2

    I’m so grateful the algorithm made me found you, thank you for all the amazing content you put out

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  11 месяцев назад

      You’re very welcome. Welcome to the Futur

  • @BeautyGraphicDesigner
    @BeautyGraphicDesigner 8 месяцев назад

    YES PLEASE I'd love to see a video on Emotional Detachment. Much of what you touched on are things I've learned to get better at especially being intentional about what I'm going to say reactively and ask myself: "Will this get me the outcome I want?" and if not, being mature enough to rethink in order to have a higher probability of the outcome I desire.
    Additionally, speaking of letting go, just yesterday I literally had to let go of a toxic situation which was also something I prolonged for far too long. When I tell you the weight I feel that's already been lifted and the boost I have to really pour into myself to get my design biz of the ground in order to serve the people who need me most... gosh I feel so much relief and I should've done it sooner.
    Nonetheless, I'm here now and trying my best to show up. Thank you for this message Chris!

  • @LeiskaLeinonen
    @LeiskaLeinonen 11 месяцев назад +1

    You're addressing really important fundamentals here. I, for one really needed to hear this. Especially the idea of emptying the cup to have room to fill it. Made me realise that the fear of letting go is really holding me back.
    Would love the follow up video.

  • @alecule
    @alecule 4 месяца назад +1

    Chris, such an amazing video, you speak my language, you've distilled your experience into pure gold for others. As a compliment I've added this video in the Spirituality playlist, alongside Papaji, Sri Ramana Maharshi, John George Butler... Thank you for speaking up

  • @alexwright4944
    @alexwright4944 11 месяцев назад +4

    Wow! Thanks for putting this in words and giving examples to make self regulation more accesible.

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  11 месяцев назад

      Absolutely!

  • @nicholaspenrake
    @nicholaspenrake 11 месяцев назад +1

    I love the humanity flowing through your analysis. Insightful and entertaining. That's no mean feat.

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  11 месяцев назад

      Thank you 🙏

  • @platanocheftv
    @platanocheftv 7 месяцев назад

    I have been watching you channel for months but this one was the one. Thank you and blessing. You are a special person in this world .

  • @OwlzDreamz
    @OwlzDreamz 11 месяцев назад +3

    I liked both DAPPERs! Thank you for this incredible episode! It made my day and set me on the positive and successful path in 2024!

  • @MelissaShaw-m3d
    @MelissaShaw-m3d 6 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you so much. I’ve only just been introduced to you guys. You’ve just reaffirmed my next steps. Really reframed getting out of my own way!

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  6 месяцев назад

      Wonderful!

  • @deucebrandt
    @deucebrandt 11 месяцев назад +3

    Yes a video on emotional detachment would be great. This is a powerful lesson thank you!

  • @hardway_6823
    @hardway_6823 11 месяцев назад

    Holy cow! Okay one more remark - and my first over long one, regarding your personal style of dress, which was superficial and I hope you take in the spirit in which it was meant to be- comes nowhere NEAR the powerful message of your thoughts and words in this remarkable video. Chris, I just want to thank you for sharing your views and ideas on personal change and the views we tend to hold onto that inhibit us from taking the steps toward a new life. Thank you for sharing your wisdom, you’re right up there with Watts!

  • @DudeMat
    @DudeMat 11 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you for this video. So much value in this dialogue.

  • @chewjune6653
    @chewjune6653 7 месяцев назад

    Thank you Chris for sharing. At the end of the day, this is my takeaway. The golden rule always applies and works with quality such as kindness, caring empathy. The platinum rule is great to be applied for people who are still in search of themself, in vulnerable or negative state of mind.

  • @olenievart
    @olenievart 10 месяцев назад

    That’s great and very useful. Treat people as they want to be treated. Don’t treat them as you want to be treated. Metamorphosis component of the story is just wild. Thank you, Chris.

  • @jit-r5b
    @jit-r5b 10 месяцев назад +1

    I've got nothing to do with design but this dude called Chris has been profound in my career called life

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  10 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you 🙏

  • @VikkehBee
    @VikkehBee 11 месяцев назад

    I've always appreciated that statement, Observe others with no judgement. It helped me understand my judgement is for me walking so I don't step into a pot hole, it is not to judge other people. Judgement is used to keep one safe, not to put others down. I enjoyed this very much, thank you.

  • @mynameisrob_co_uk
    @mynameisrob_co_uk 11 месяцев назад +5

    Wow! I love how thought-provoking it is. I not looking to necessarily make money, I’m looking to be better and feel more fulfilled. I am broke, I literally have £3 in my bank account but the biggest thing I want to do is grow as a person. Happy New Year. Thank you for sharing :)

  • @divineorder22
    @divineorder22 10 месяцев назад +1

    All the DAPPER"S are Great. Thank you very much. This was wonderful and right on time. ❤

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  9 месяцев назад

      You are so welcome!

  • @GailNott
    @GailNott 11 месяцев назад +2

    This is just what I needed today. I'm rewinding to catch the first DAPPER...

    • @GailNott
      @GailNott 11 месяцев назад +1

      18:20 Found it! Here's the first DAPPER. I vote for this one because I prefer single words in acronyms. 😁

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  11 месяцев назад +1

      Haha. Another one for Mo.

  • @priyankakarki9888
    @priyankakarki9888 11 месяцев назад +1

    Emotional detachment is something that I really struggle with, during periods I have serious mood swings and brain fog, please make a video which includes this ... That will be a life saver for me ..
    Thank you ❤

  • @belaventura6744
    @belaventura6744 11 месяцев назад +1

    I'll be waiting for that emotional detachment video-please. I apreciate this discussion very much. Very timely for my recent state of mind in a new chapter in my life. Thank you, lots.

  • @War-child_
    @War-child_ 11 месяцев назад +1

    Chris Money, I truely appreciate how much you give

  • @samhayek_
    @samhayek_ 11 месяцев назад +1

    Legend! - Have been following for 10 years and loving the philosophical topics. Super powerful.

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  11 месяцев назад +1

      Wow, thank you!

  • @dfd4688
    @dfd4688 11 месяцев назад +2

    “To observe without evaluating…” (

    • @theblackbookbasics
      @theblackbookbasics 11 месяцев назад +1

      Yes. Look up Dr. David Hawkins

    • @dfd4688
      @dfd4688 11 месяцев назад

      @@theblackbookbasics thanks much… per your suggestion I am listening Power vs Force now and looking forward to learning more. Much gratitude 🙏 cheers

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  11 месяцев назад +1

      Observe without judgment.

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  11 месяцев назад +1

      Observe without judgment.

  • @virgobeautygg
    @virgobeautygg 11 месяцев назад +2

    Absolutely would love an emotional detachment video. Love this episode.

  • @hardway_6823
    @hardway_6823 11 месяцев назад +1

    Chris I gotta tell ya - I’ve watched several of your videos, mostly about typography and design, which is one of my interests. Tonight I came across this video and I’m at a point in my life where this is really relevant. I’m only at the beginning but I really want to make this unusual comment / observation that I’ve noticed about you. It is about your personal “style” and I think it lends you tremendous credibility, in addition of course, to what you actually have to say. Sorry for the lengthy comment and please don’t mistake my meaning here, the way that you dress, the way you wear your cap and the glasses you choose, in almost all cases, in my mind, are indicative of a ‘poseur’ of a particular variety. Not you though. Not only do I respect your style, regardless it seems to be often imitated in some way - you positively RADIATE authenticity, in part BECAUSE of the particular style you choose to show to the world. Certainly it’s not only your style, your ideas and thoughts and experience in graphic design speak loud and clear in that as well. I really think highly of the rare individual who express themself as eloquently as you do in every way and I’m listening intently to what you have to say in this video. Not trying to flatter you here with any of this, just offering my opinion on what I can see, for whatever it might be worth to ya. You strike me as one of those rare and exceptional individuals, thanks and I hope you keep it up!

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  11 месяцев назад

      Thank you.

  • @grafartist
    @grafartist 4 месяца назад +1

    I'm getting to this video late but this was perfect timing to hear. I know that these are definitely things that I struggle with. Thank you Chris for your wisdom. I'll do my best to implement these things in my daily conversation with myself (most importantly) and others.
    Was there a video made about how to detach emotionally?

  • @deborahrose7047
    @deborahrose7047 11 месяцев назад +2

    Abundance and gratitude

  • @scribyss
    @scribyss 11 месяцев назад +7

    Thank you, Chris! This is a very timely post. I'm currently looking for ways on how to adjust my routine to claim 2024 as my year, and this video helps a lot! So, thank you! ❤

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  11 месяцев назад +1

      You got this!

  • @KananaBundi
    @KananaBundi 11 месяцев назад +1

    Yes please, do a video on emotional detachment. Can't wait to learn all about that.

  • @banders-ralfs
    @banders-ralfs 11 месяцев назад +2

    Love your teachings , thanks The Futur team!

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  11 месяцев назад +1

      Glad you like them!

  • @Jactshi
    @Jactshi 11 месяцев назад +1

    I love both Dappers! But this video has given me insight and gave words to what I have been trying been trying to practice in my own life and an understanding of why I am stuck. Ive held on to my own identity for so long, I am ready to adopt and become. Really working on the critical self talk of not only myself but of others.! Thank you so much!!!!

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  11 месяцев назад

      Glad to hear.

  • @sam.barcelos.d
    @sam.barcelos.d 11 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you so much The Futur, Chris Do and Mo for publishing this video. And I'm grateful I watched it before the new year. It has slapped me in the face many times. Definitely will watch it again!

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  11 месяцев назад +1

      Gentle slap.

    • @sam.barcelos.d
      @sam.barcelos.d 11 месяцев назад

      @@thefutur I have to say: not so gentle... 🤣

  • @abdomination
    @abdomination 11 месяцев назад +1

    Been talking about the platinum rule for almost 30 years I learned it from a very successful entrepreneur as a teenager and I learned it so long ago and for so many people not to even be aware that it exists always boggles my mind and I like seeing this guy speak on it because from the few years I've been following him I have a feeling of respect for what he does

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  11 месяцев назад

      You are ahead of the curve.

  • @reneecherrie
    @reneecherrie 11 месяцев назад +2

    Yes please! Emotional detachment video please❤

  • @teenola5783
    @teenola5783 7 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you. I needed this video. In one year from today I will come back this comment and update you guys on how it's going.

  • @sherylpokorny
    @sherylpokorny 9 месяцев назад +1

    Yes a video on emotional detachment would be well received
    !

  • @eikonagrfxsmedia
    @eikonagrfxsmedia 11 месяцев назад +2

    This verse came to mind while listening on my exercise bike. Mt 6:27 “And who of you by being worried can add a single hour to his life? This is a rhetorical question that he's asking that requires the same answer every time. "You can't". Worrying will never let you grow... My upbringing taught me to worry and it's been an uphill battle to overcome it. Thanks, Chris for the vids... Just turned someone else on to this vid, who just thanked me for it... Very unexpected.

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  11 месяцев назад +1

      Please share with others.

  • @jshill1391
    @jshill1391 11 месяцев назад +1

    This was helpful and eye-opening on many levels. First thank you for stepping out of your 'groove' and doing this atypical sharing - VERY informative and helpful. Second, yes - Chris share another 'out-of-groove' training and share knowledge, wisdom and humor on Emotional Detachment. Thank you both for blessing my day and future!

  • @pariesjohnson
    @pariesjohnson 7 месяцев назад

    A video on emotional detachment with some actionable steps would be great! Thank you both Chris & Mo.

  • @Rockin501s
    @Rockin501s 8 месяцев назад +1

    Im so happy I found your channel. Looking forward to weave in your new content as i catch up from the old ones 😊

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  8 месяцев назад

      Welcome to the Futur

  • @oladunnidaodu3878
    @oladunnidaodu3878 7 месяцев назад

    Thank you Guys so much for these wonderful videos , you have no idea how much this is helpful to me . 🙏

  • @sebastianhofmann4040
    @sebastianhofmann4040 11 месяцев назад +1

    Chris, the content you put out into this world is so great and helpful. Thanks a lot, please keep going as long as you can!

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  11 месяцев назад

      I’ll do my best.

  • @gauravidesigns
    @gauravidesigns 8 месяцев назад +1

    It feeels like My story . Thankyou for sharing Chris 5:25 , even if it is not mine I totally agree

  • @victoriab8053
    @victoriab8053 9 месяцев назад +1

    Yes for an emotional detachment video!!this was so insightful. Thanks Chris😊

  • @boyantrifonov
    @boyantrifonov 10 месяцев назад +1

    Please make more videos like this!
    This video was very valuable!

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  10 месяцев назад

      Appreciate the feedback.

  • @Mr.AAX7
    @Mr.AAX7 11 месяцев назад +1

    Loved that you gave an example of J. Krishnamurthy, great person he was.

  • @MoniqueHansen-mg5lu
    @MoniqueHansen-mg5lu 11 месяцев назад +1

    This was flippen on and in time!!!!. Wow. I was also overthinking in this very moment and boom here I get this video.🙌🏽

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  11 месяцев назад

      Boom. 💥

  • @delfina7214
    @delfina7214 11 месяцев назад +1

    Lifechanging as always

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  11 месяцев назад

      You’re very welcome. Will plan on it.

  • @artformaedu
    @artformaedu 9 месяцев назад +1

    I think that this topic is great! And the industry in which we aspire is a very difficult one. And we do tend to be very critical on ourselves. I think more of this theme is important.

  • @rachel28514
    @rachel28514 6 месяцев назад

    Second dapper is my favorite ^^ The verbs instead of nouns ake it easier to remember. Thanks for the episode, guys!

  • @paintwithmeboquete
    @paintwithmeboquete 11 месяцев назад

    I love both DAPPERs and will start my meditation session with it. Really nice video❤

  • @davidrivers2734
    @davidrivers2734 7 месяцев назад

    Love this Chris, very impactful and helpful, thank you

  • @Amegla1976
    @Amegla1976 11 месяцев назад +2

    This episode is golden!

  • @williamtendo7835
    @williamtendo7835 5 месяцев назад

    From the bottom of my heart,
    Thank you 😊

  • @DigitalInkling
    @DigitalInkling 11 месяцев назад +1

    Yes i would love to hear more about emotional detachment please.

  • @Hendricana
    @Hendricana 7 месяцев назад

    We don’t ever really get rid of parts, though. They always have a good purpose. They just need a better method and also whatever burdens they carry they need to be healed and let go of the lies they learned through painful experiences that make things so terrifying, so they can lighten up, and with the help of the core, find a new way of operating, eg the growth mindset that you are talking about (My perspective on parts is from IFS Internal Family Systems therapy which is all about the core and the parts, as explained by Richard Schwartz) Thank you for this video! Just found you recently and am really enjoying and appreciating what and how you share. Thank you! 🥳🙏💖

  • @austinsinger7565
    @austinsinger7565 11 месяцев назад +1

    I've came to similar conclusions myself. I have been losing money all year.(started at 39,706.26 in january to like 19 dollars in december. A lot of loss happened and some things that were out of my control, such as a car accident.) I thought I was suppose to wait and receive money from the Universe but it rarely came. So in this month after much reflection, I just decided I was just going to make to make it happen my self. I came up with a multi million idea. I'm starting it in January next year. I realize some of my spiritual beliefs and faith were holding me back. I still believe that the universe will give me money but I'm no longer focus on the when or outcome. It'll happen at it owns time, in the meanwhile I'll be doing my thing.
    Also thankyou for this video! It's my 32 birthday today! I've learn so much from watching your videos.

  • @on7air
    @on7air 11 месяцев назад

    Thank you Chris and Mo

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  11 месяцев назад

      Our pleasure!

  • @EmbraceTheDarknessLLC
    @EmbraceTheDarknessLLC 6 месяцев назад

    My own spin. 🙃
    Develop a practice that leads to...
    Awareness (this helps to learn to respond instead of react)
    Practice daily (review the day to see where/when you reacted and replay how you will respond next time)
    Pause (when you catch yourself reacting, pause to take a breath so you can slow down to respond)
    Empathize (with where they are coming from, where you are coming from, and how you can...)
    Recognize (the common ground)
    Often times when people emotionally react, logic goes out the window unless you address the emotion. Sometimes it could also be a hidden emotion and not necessarily the one they show.

  • @jasonhooper800
    @jasonhooper800 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you and your team for this and all of your videos!❤

  • @juancarlosqr
    @juancarlosqr 11 месяцев назад

    This was phenomenal!! Will keep this one around to rewatch as long as I'm able to, so I can take action and avoid falling into my comfortable identity. Beautiful! Thanks 🙏🏼

  • @donnacarraway9182
    @donnacarraway9182 11 месяцев назад +1

    Yes, I’d like to know about emotional detachment! Thank you!

  • @awtriphop
    @awtriphop 11 месяцев назад

    Finally someone can explain this in a nut-shell great work! Love your channel

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  11 месяцев назад

      Glad you enjoy it!

  • @gaberoyalll
    @gaberoyalll 11 месяцев назад +1

    10:12 is my perfect new years rez 2024

  • @doublemintmaple
    @doublemintmaple 10 месяцев назад

    Yes, Mo, please make a video about emotional detachment

  • @thuyminhphambui8160
    @thuyminhphambui8160 10 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for this video ❤

  • @djjiang3718
    @djjiang3718 11 месяцев назад

    Love you guys! Thank you for all those great sharing!

  • @nvisionbeats
    @nvisionbeats 11 месяцев назад

    Much needed video and you should definitely do the full length version on the topic it would be very beneficial. A lot of these things don’t come natural or get spoken about enough of to make people aware. I’m stuck in the place of finding it hard to accept but me making change is necessary.
    And in terms of you thinking people that have watched for awhile would be thinking it’s a new direction- not at all you guys have always spoken to some degree on the things that prevent us in business and life from achieving what we want.

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  11 месяцев назад

      Thank you

  • @Bridgettesilvaaa
    @Bridgettesilvaaa 11 месяцев назад +2

    I think both DAPPERS serve in different situations.
    MO’s DAPPER is applied in a ‘Growth Mindset’ or ‘Evolving Mindset’ if you will.
    CHRIS’ DAPPER is applied in a ‘Intentional Mindset’ after having gone through the work of rewiring the conscious and sub-conscious.
    It’s kind of crazy to see where both of them are in their journey in respect to their Personal and Professional healing/ growth.
    Either way, both very useful for different areas in life. Bravo.

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  11 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you 🙏. Way to point out the differences in our two beliefs.

  • @michaeljconnolly3001
    @michaeljconnolly3001 11 месяцев назад +1

    Mo is the prince of DAPPER

  • @AndreaDingbatt
    @AndreaDingbatt 11 месяцев назад +2

    Awesome Upload as Always Chris and Team!!
    DAPPER!!❤
    Gratefully Appreciated,
    ~ and I hope that you know that you have such an Amazing, Helpful , Encouraging,and Most of all,,,, inspirational Presence ,
    Thank you so very Much!!
    Namasté 🙏🕊️
    Andréa and Critters. ...XxX...

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  11 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you