How to Ask Better Questions | The Art of Listening & Communication

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  • Опубликовано: 22 ноя 2024

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  • @josephgebreamlak2473
    @josephgebreamlak2473 11 месяцев назад +142

    Speak in such a way that others love to listen to you. Listen in such a way that others love to speak to you,

    • @HectorGarciaCPA
      @HectorGarciaCPA 11 месяцев назад +2

      Love this :)

    • @taotrades
      @taotrades 11 месяцев назад +3

      Definitely.

    • @billyhoward2201
      @billyhoward2201 11 месяцев назад

      How do you build this skill?

    • @zeitakulobusta
      @zeitakulobusta 11 месяцев назад

      What makes you love listening to people?

    • @josephgebreamlak2473
      @josephgebreamlak2473 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@zeitakulobusta The way they talk, The topics they bring to table that inspire both of us, to elevate more to discover more,No nonsense that can't help me to become better, buddy surround those kinds of peoples until Create it yourself.

  • @marceloleitejr
    @marceloleitejr 9 месяцев назад +5

    I feel like people who give great answers are the ones who asks great questions. People like Chris Do, Seth Godin, René Brown and many others.

  • @JosiahPilon
    @JosiahPilon 10 месяцев назад +11

    "Deploy Empathy: A practical guide to interviewing customers" is an excellent book to learn to be a proactive listener and facilitate an environment for deep understanding. Thank you so much for the awesome video Chris!

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  10 месяцев назад

      Thanks for sharing

  • @epicgameryt4052
    @epicgameryt4052 11 месяцев назад +22

    No freaking way I was looking for one of your old videos about asking better questions, and this video pops up! You're amazing Chris, vibes were up as well. You made my morning.

  • @phant00m1
    @phant00m1 11 месяцев назад +16

    Even though I'm still learning this part, I'm already trying to teach my very young kids how to think smart and how to ask the right questions.
    Especially in the AI era, these skills will be more valuable than ever.

  • @mtahiralauddin
    @mtahiralauddin 11 месяцев назад +10

    This is absolute gold.
    I am so in love with The Futur

  • @formerle
    @formerle 11 месяцев назад +5

    The Coaching Habit is excellent 👌 It’s one of those books that you can go reread and learn something new every time.

  • @jsssii
    @jsssii 9 месяцев назад +3

    Chris - whether this was intentional or now habitual, great late night FM DJ voice! You've really mastered that technique now and you can tell that the audience is listening and engaging. Keep it up!

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  9 месяцев назад +1

      It’s my default voice

  • @BlackBoxStudiosGh
    @BlackBoxStudiosGh 9 месяцев назад +2

    After watching this video over a dozen times, asside marketing ideas, I realized a bigger picture that Chris Do is the hero of eliminating the rat race.
    He’s teaching us not to be like our parents in the 9-5 jobs, the transition of generational work life, to be pursuing our dream projects. Negotiations arent easy to learn if you have no experienced person to teach you the skills.

  • @percydobson1135
    @percydobson1135 11 месяцев назад +18

    I’ve been guilty in the past of quickly offering solutions because I take verbatim the client’s self-diagnosis….been actively working on changing that and the difference is significant! 😊

    • @joao_neto23
      @joao_neto23 11 месяцев назад

      Sou do Brasil e abri recentemente uma agência de marketing, onde eu por muitas vezes cometi este mesmo erro que você descreveu acima. Hoje marco se necessário duas e até três reuniões antes do "diagnóstico" final da empresa contratante.

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  11 месяцев назад +2

      That’s a great first step. Understanding and acknowledging the things we need to change.

    • @RevealedFilms
      @RevealedFilms 11 месяцев назад

      ⁠@@thefuturyou hate public speaking but you’re so good at it. Have you ever had any oratory training?

  • @Camilla-tc8vq
    @Camilla-tc8vq 11 месяцев назад +4

    SO MUCH VALUE IN 33 MINUTES 🙏

  • @MatthewCicanese
    @MatthewCicanese 9 месяцев назад

    “Really good questions frame the problem, and are 50% of the answer.” I’ve felt this a lot more in my coaching and consulting recently. I guess that means I’m making good progress!

  • @jackg338
    @jackg338 11 месяцев назад +3

    Please come back to Europe!!!
    Austrians want to see you in person (at least myself)
    I have been learning so much from you
    Thanks

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  11 месяцев назад

      Will do Jack!

  • @abdullateefmuraina4602
    @abdullateefmuraina4602 6 месяцев назад +1

    You've always been impactful. I can't wait to meet you someday Mr. Chrisdo! You're a rare gem!

  • @mugen8studios
    @mugen8studios 8 месяцев назад +1

    i love this content! its helping me a LOT!!

  • @lorenanovoainspires
    @lorenanovoainspires 4 месяца назад

    Love every video you do Chris! I'm not a designer but I have big dreams and your knowledge, advice, guidance and generosity is inspiring and motivating me so much! I learn an incredible amount from your videos and I'm so grateful i found you🙏 thank you thank you thank you!

  • @jackshen8169
    @jackshen8169 3 месяца назад

    Ask meaningful questions:
    - Branch off of 1 main issue/curiosity
    - Do not robotically ask unrelated questions
    - Be able to appreciate honesty/be empathetic

  • @ElroyBeezley
    @ElroyBeezley 10 месяцев назад +2

    This is brilliant, Chris. Thank you.

  • @joao_neto23
    @joao_neto23 11 месяцев назад +4

    Obrigado por compartilhar estes conhecimentos. João aqui de Recife no Brasil. Deus te abençoe meu irmão.

  • @aristotlemaniago8801
    @aristotlemaniago8801 11 месяцев назад +3

    Thank you so much

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  11 месяцев назад

      You're most welcome

  • @frankpatron868
    @frankpatron868 11 месяцев назад +3

    Great public speaket

  • @fabulousswag6683
    @fabulousswag6683 11 месяцев назад +2

    The Anatomy of question,can also be liken to types of test.
    As leading on question can be liken to True or false and Yes or no question or test.
    (1) True or false.
    2) Multi choice
    3)Essay
    4)Fill in the blank.
    And life is like a blank slate or open cheque,wherein you are required to fill the blank blw your date of birth and death.

  • @brianfong5711
    @brianfong5711 11 месяцев назад +5

    For any of you thinking about wtf an apron?
    It is prop showing how you can better serve the client better.

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  11 месяцев назад

      Haha. Good one.

  • @kwalombo_ta
    @kwalombo_ta 11 месяцев назад +1

    Questions are more important than answers in my opinion; because without questions, answers simply do not exist.

  • @fritz-loho
    @fritz-loho 11 месяцев назад +4

    Amazing learning material as always! Thank you

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  11 месяцев назад

      Glad you enjoyed it!

  • @ungvariboriska
    @ungvariboriska 10 месяцев назад +2

    Thanks

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  10 месяцев назад

      Thank you for the tip. Appreciate it.

  • @AndyJamerson
    @AndyJamerson 11 месяцев назад +4

    I haven’t watched The Futur in a bit and came here surprised seeing Chris becoming a fashion dude now 😄

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  11 месяцев назад +1

      Welcome back

  • @deborahakinruli8656
    @deborahakinruli8656 10 месяцев назад

    Thanks Chris.

  • @LutherBottrill
    @LutherBottrill 11 месяцев назад +3

    Another killer video

  • @alphonsuskevinimmanuel4676
    @alphonsuskevinimmanuel4676 11 месяцев назад +2

    Hey chris in Indonesia there's this yearly conference talkshow that revolves around the creative industry called "IDEAFEST", last year we had takashi murakami here and I think I speak to a lot of Indonesians that it would be great if you could come here🎉 🤣,
    Thank you

  • @tarryl.m
    @tarryl.m 11 месяцев назад +2

    That was an info packed session! Going back again to take notes. Especially the framework at the end. So helpful. ❤

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  11 месяцев назад

      Glad it was helpful!

  • @moutasim_ayoubi
    @moutasim_ayoubi 11 месяцев назад +21

    My father always tells me that God gave us 2 Ears and 1 mouth, because we should listen more than we talk 😊

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  11 месяцев назад +5

      Your father is a wise man.

    • @TvBoxHead
      @TvBoxHead 3 месяца назад

      Your dad is wrong that is certainly not the reason we have 2 ears but ok 😂

  • @MariadeLourdesAniesSanch-ze7hf
    @MariadeLourdesAniesSanch-ze7hf 7 месяцев назад

    thank you so much

  • @rahulgautam8661
    @rahulgautam8661 11 месяцев назад

    This is amazing Chris! Wonderful start to my morning! Thank you!

  • @massterrbarber
    @massterrbarber 9 месяцев назад +2

    So do you know why you landed on my page?? I’m inspired

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  9 месяцев назад

      YT algorithm at work.

  • @MariadeLourdesAniesSanch-ze7hf
    @MariadeLourdesAniesSanch-ze7hf 7 месяцев назад

    for me He is value in the job

  • @beatalastovko9346
    @beatalastovko9346 8 месяцев назад +1

    Wow, what an outfit! 🔥

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  8 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you

  • @klaythedog
    @klaythedog 4 месяца назад

    thank you

  • @kite821soda997
    @kite821soda997 11 месяцев назад

    Superb content!

  • @RodrigoTasca
    @RodrigoTasca 11 месяцев назад +3

    This going to be good one!

  • @blurryace2807
    @blurryace2807 11 месяцев назад +3

    love the outfit do!

  • @treykinzer
    @treykinzer 11 месяцев назад +5

    What is more important the Question or the Answer?
    It depends, are you asking the Question or giving the Answer. If you are asking, the Answer is more important; but if you are giving, the Question is more important. In other words what the other person/party is sharing speaks volumes to their state of mind, concerns and focus.

  • @briankelm
    @briankelm 11 месяцев назад +2

    Replay!!

  • @OpenBookmarksCo.
    @OpenBookmarksCo. 11 месяцев назад +4

    i heard that this year he spoke at adobe max, a top design conf. perhaps next, he'll be at techcrunch, fast company, nyt, or forbes?

    • @HectorGarciaCPA
      @HectorGarciaCPA 11 месяцев назад +1

      TED! Would love to see him in TED or TEDx

  • @alex_gemini_artist
    @alex_gemini_artist 9 месяцев назад +2

    🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @VictoriaAlfredSmythe
    @VictoriaAlfredSmythe 6 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you from Manhattan ©2024

  • @ThugLifeModafocah
    @ThugLifeModafocah 11 месяцев назад +5

    Dale Carnegie has a very old book about how to make other people like you... you make them talk about themselves lol very good book

    • @davetinoco
      @davetinoco 8 месяцев назад

      How to Win and Influence Others or something like that

  • @RichieRussell23
    @RichieRussell23 5 дней назад +1

    Big Takeaway of the video starts at 28:10

  • @farhan-7871
    @farhan-7871 Месяц назад +1

    12:13 last

  • @katscandance
    @katscandance 11 месяцев назад

    That first trick question was so clever

  • @Rimbombannus
    @Rimbombannus 3 месяца назад +1

    Can someone share the title of the books Chris talks about?

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  3 месяца назад

      Time code please.

  • @drapoon3
    @drapoon3 11 месяцев назад +3

    Oh this video is gonna be interesting. As always tho !!

  • @Ng8v_Sanity
    @Ng8v_Sanity 11 месяцев назад

    Hey Chris, would your view of the futur still be the same if you were left handed and actually blind, not just your studio label?

  • @Marvelous-i1c
    @Marvelous-i1c 16 дней назад +1

    Question might be an answer either way

  • @cloudlocalauthor
    @cloudlocalauthor Месяц назад

    Anyone…what is the book coach has recommended in the video?

  • @CryptoGrit
    @CryptoGrit 11 месяцев назад

    Regarding the engagment the wierd thing is that it took me like a year to get to 500 subs and than I got another 500 in a month, but I feel that my engagement now is lower than it was :/

  • @GothDaddyMusic
    @GothDaddyMusic 10 месяцев назад

    You can tell the relevance of what you offer to your audience by their engagement.

  • @increditors
    @increditors 11 месяцев назад +4

    33:26 The next confrance you should speak in, is my google meet confrance, Chris 😅

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  11 месяцев назад +1

      Bahahah 😂

  • @SeanBogue
    @SeanBogue 11 месяцев назад +2

    Chris, what are your thoughts about , someone aggressively steering client away from what they want? I talking as if, hurting the company or creative team's ability to do exactly what the client is requesting?
    This person talking to the client, is the project manager, and Owner of the company. We get many requests that are not out of our league, especially at the point our team is well over 40 years of experience, and clients will pay and ask for us to do their requests, because of the trust and confidence we display, and word of mouth advertising.

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  11 месяцев назад +1

      What’s the real questions you want to ask?

    • @SeanBogue
      @SeanBogue 11 месяцев назад +1

      @thefutur isn't the show of confidence in your work, how you build that long-term relationship with potential clients? it's just as contagious as the opposite side actions.

  • @daniellageorge3605
    @daniellageorge3605 10 месяцев назад +1

    Hi Chris, you asked for a question after drafting out the Anatomy, here's what I came up with putting that into consideration.
    "Tell me how your environment has impacted your business and brand in terms of consistency?"
    I'm learning how to ask questions, I'd really appreciate the feedback. Thank you 😊

  • @Xxsasuke51797xX
    @Xxsasuke51797xX 11 месяцев назад +3

    Are you wearing yohji? or maybe Comme de Garcon? Looks fire man

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  11 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you. Something I picked up in Taiwan. Not sure of the brand but good guess.

  • @GothDaddyMusic
    @GothDaddyMusic 10 месяцев назад

    High Roi + emotional link + believability = A customer

  • @jamesseymour6786
    @jamesseymour6786 10 месяцев назад

    Joe Rogan should have you on his podcast

  • @THCMusicBlog
    @THCMusicBlog 10 месяцев назад +1

    Chris is a Socratic Jedi*

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  10 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you 🙏

  • @camjonny
    @camjonny 11 месяцев назад +2

    Like the sharp outfit 👌 What is that font, used at 1:30 for example “Karen Story”.

    • @breu.design
      @breu.design 11 месяцев назад +3

      Helvetica I guess

    • @TALE5music
      @TALE5music 3 месяца назад

      ​@@breu.designHelvetica is the best for real, timeless piece of art. After some time being in the world of graphic design, seeing it again and again you start to recognize it specifically, ending up in you noticing it EVERYWHERE. Best font ever, Roboto is good but it's not Helvetica :)

  • @zeitakulobusta
    @zeitakulobusta 11 месяцев назад +2

    Answers and immediate solutions is much more a guys thing. 'Oh you should just XYZ'. No dude, shut up and listen - the client knows way more than you ever will - it's their business. Question, repeat and rephrase answers and once you've parsed out the essentials turn the lens of your expertise on the insight they've given you.

  • @frankpatron868
    @frankpatron868 11 месяцев назад

    Adettiveness

  • @sehwagali
    @sehwagali 11 месяцев назад

    The biggest trick was the shadow that the art board was creating

  • @shashfx
    @shashfx 11 месяцев назад

    19:30 batman riddled the riddler.

  • @MariadeLourdesAniesSanch-ze7hf
    @MariadeLourdesAniesSanch-ze7hf 7 месяцев назад

    for me speak no alone in the past

  • @Ng8v_Sanity
    @Ng8v_Sanity 11 месяцев назад

    Questions are more valuable because everyone you meet knows something you previously didnt. your questions could also be something someone else is afraid to ask. Answers can be misinterpreted, Questions are usually understood by everyone in the room.

  • @frankpatron868
    @frankpatron868 11 месяцев назад +1

    Uestions bring lifht to the topic

  • @stevenfeken508
    @stevenfeken508 8 месяцев назад +1

    The answers can be "yes" and "no" but the questions can be anything you want them to be!

  • @Ng8v_Sanity
    @Ng8v_Sanity 11 месяцев назад

    I don't know what people consider as high value? people have different standards.

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  11 месяцев назад

      You must ask that person what is valuable to them. Everyone will have a different response.

  • @MariadeLourdesAniesSanch-ze7hf
    @MariadeLourdesAniesSanch-ze7hf 7 месяцев назад

    this problem myself reason no one I like free man

  • @frankpatron868
    @frankpatron868 11 месяцев назад

    S are road?signs

  • @MariadeLourdesAniesSanch-ze7hf
    @MariadeLourdesAniesSanch-ze7hf 7 месяцев назад

    no alone
    I guess school

  • @frankpatron868
    @frankpatron868 11 месяцев назад

    Ke your listerns?feel seen

  • @frankpatron868
    @frankpatron868 11 месяцев назад

    Cobfendence shiw your talebt

  • @frankpatron868
    @frankpatron868 11 месяцев назад

    Im a kaemren cause i dont care about eithet party

  • @robertt8279
    @robertt8279 5 месяцев назад

    100M to take care of just 40000 immigrants? Whoa, that can't be true. And then you reduce services that my tax dollars paid for? I'm an independent voter have been since I was a teenager. I've always lean left when it comes to social issues. But this is ridiculous. Allowing China and our adversaries to come by our properties in our land and do business within our borders, to millions of immigrants, decrease our way of life, is not how that is supposed to work.

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  5 месяцев назад

      What’s this in relation to? Time
      Stamp
      Please

  • @JOMOPressureWash
    @JOMOPressureWash 11 месяцев назад +4

    Bro. What is you wearing?

    • @SharonDeCaro
      @SharonDeCaro 11 месяцев назад

      I was thinking the same thing. I'm glad someone mentioned it. LOL. It was all could think about, instead of his talk.

    • @herdenq
      @herdenq 11 месяцев назад

      garb

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  11 месяцев назад +2

      Wide flare pants. And an apron/skirt.

    • @TALE5music
      @TALE5music 3 месяца назад

      Bravery is having the courage to be disliked. You and your little judgmental brains mean nothing to him, that's why he's up there and you're wherever you are, which I'm sure you're not very proud of.
      Sick fit bro

  • @isis5257
    @isis5257 7 месяцев назад

    this was so cringe to watch toeards the end lolll

  • @fabricadecuero4944
    @fabricadecuero4944 6 месяцев назад

    Skirt??? Unsubscribed.

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  6 месяцев назад +2

      Someone is judgmental. Byeee! For the record, it's an apron.

    • @fabricadecuero4944
      @fabricadecuero4944 6 месяцев назад

      @@thefutur so dim sum ain’t running his channel? tf r u?