Amazing video, A year ago i took the no contact route, well i wouldnt say it didnt go well, but i missed her and sometimes you have to leave your comfort zone and go for what you want, Without knowing and having a huge ego, we might actually miss out on our soul mate all in the name of not settling for less, I know who i am, and at the same time i know what i want for me, so i did all i could to get her back, and I must say, it was the best decision i have ever made, we have been together again for over 7 months, yes marriage isnt always rosey, but i am lucky to have her, just as she is to have me, we compliment each other.
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i am in a similar situation, and i do not know what else do to have him back, i have been dying inside, people actually think i am happy, i am not.
I feel your pain dear one, after trying out the no contact experiment that failed miserably, i had to find other means, i had to reach out to a spiritual adviser, it was brilliant idea which i never thouht it was, but it worked wonders for me.
As a sigma, I challenge this assumption. Sigma’s choose VERY CAREFULLY their friends and inner circle. If I detect flightiness or insincerity or arrogance… they’re not my friends, rather mere acquaintances who I tolerate.
Because we've learned that the vast majority of people would rather be arseholes toward us rather than crucify their need for ego/pride which will ultimately lead to broken friendships/relationships later on!!
Asking those three questions at once will lead to total confusion and reveal one of the most amusing facial expressions a person can have. Most people tend to overlook important details in their responses. #lackofcriticalthinking
So true! I wish I had this knowledge 60 years ago. I started school a year earlier than others and I had no problems with knowledge acquisition, but with the human contacts. After the first semester, during the Christmas break, I had my first panic attack when I realized that I had to go back to the other students again. I thought I was going to die. I still remember it today. On December 18th I celebrate 60 years of this death anxiety. Throughout my life since then, I have always believed that my efforts to help people and be there for them would be rewarded with respect and love. So deceived I feel. People take my commitment for granted. They expect me to stand up for them, financially, with work, and with support, but no one asks me if I need help. I have decided to cut all contact with these fake people. It gets lonely, but it makes me so much calmer. I only wish I had this realization sooner.
Hi, my husband is a sigma and over the 30 years we have been married I have seen this time and time again with how people have treated him. So like you we have removed even family out of our lives, because as you have stated they become toxic and think he will always be there. It makes me feel ashamed and has opened my eyes as well. We do still try to help as it's in our nature, but are very selective in who we help. Anyway just wanted to connect and wish you well in your life.
@@sharonbarnes5603 Thank you for your words and your story! I have begun to understand that I am not alone, even though I belong to a small group of people. Throughout my life, I have observed the behavior of others and I am amazed that most people are so superficial. I do not understand why they do not realize that they could be so much better if they showed a little effort, honesty and respect. Unfortunately, I see the current society degenerating even more into total superficiality without deeper meaning in life. I am convinced that it is due to all the social apps that people use to publish pictures of themselves, and there is no depth there. Most people are too lazy to deal with their personal problems and expect others to solve the problems for them. Then it is convenient to have someone like me, and your husband, around them. 😉
I roll like Clint Eastwood because he rolls like a Sigma male. The good, the bad, and the ugly. I'm a Lone rider because their are not many genuine people and I don't comform. Today's Western society has become nothing more than two-bit cheap drama ghetto and opportuniist similar to Tomestone, Arizona, 1870. I'm just passing through town.
That's a great question! Maybe she can claim that she mentally died but physically stayed alive 🤣🤣🤣🤣.... her brain activity completely ceased. They just can't fool the logical. Another reason us Sigma males drive people crazy. 🤣
I dont think its asking too much to expect respect, loyalty, integrity and a confidante: sadly my former friends fell short, which is why i will never speak to them ever again. Trust noone: todays best friend could be tomorrows worst enemy. You have been warned.
Sigmas or independent minded persons don't blame others or make excuses for their circumstances. This is a painful threat to those that do. These people try to tear you down. This often backfires against the Sigma.
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The more people push for you to open up,the more guarded you must be..if they won't take the hint, disengage.
Betrayal is one of thee worse types of pain.....
Amazing video, A year ago i took the no contact route, well i wouldnt say it didnt go well, but i missed her and sometimes you have to leave your comfort zone and go for what you want, Without knowing and having a huge ego, we might actually miss out on our soul mate all in the name of not settling for less, I know who i am, and at the same time i know what i want for me, so i did all i could to get her back, and I must say, it was the best decision i have ever made, we have been together again for over 7 months, yes marriage isnt always rosey, but i am lucky to have her, just as she is to have me, we compliment each other.
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i am in a similar situation, and i do not know what else do to have him back, i have been dying inside, people actually think i am happy, i am not.
I feel your pain dear one, after trying out the no contact experiment that failed miserably, i had to find other means, i had to reach out to a spiritual adviser, it was brilliant idea which i never thouht it was, but it worked wonders for me.
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him/ her?
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
Sigmas speak their mind, and question societal norms. Then people get offended!
💯 true
As a sigma, I challenge this assumption. Sigma’s choose VERY CAREFULLY their friends and inner circle. If I detect flightiness or insincerity or arrogance… they’re not my friends, rather mere acquaintances who I tolerate.
We are aware of the possibility of jugular attack! Knowledge is power!
They play their game, we don't! 🔥🤟🐊🇺🇸
Family
@@Lawrence7of9 I keep one eye open especially around my family 🔥.
Exactly
@Lawrence7of9 My father constantly abuses the boundaries of family members. Now, in his old age, he wonders why people are rarely around.
Because we've learned that the vast majority of people would rather be arseholes toward us rather than crucify their need for ego/pride which will ultimately lead to broken friendships/relationships later on!!
Yes it does...there no such thing as bonds....no such thing as true love ...your in this thing by your self....simple..
A sigma female came along and changed that for me.
Always ask: " Why? To what end? For what purpose? "
Watch how others react.
Asking those three questions at once will lead to total confusion and reveal one of the most amusing facial expressions a person can have. Most people tend to overlook important details in their responses. #lackofcriticalthinking
This hits the spot
The best aspect of realizing that one is a sigma is the increased motivation to further improve oneself.
So true! I wish I had this knowledge 60 years ago. I started school a year earlier than others and I had no problems with knowledge acquisition, but with the human contacts. After the first semester, during the Christmas break, I had my first panic attack when I realized that I had to go back to the other students again. I thought I was going to die. I still remember it today. On December 18th I celebrate 60 years of this death anxiety. Throughout my life since then, I have always believed that my efforts to help people and be there for them would be rewarded with respect and love. So deceived I feel. People take my commitment for granted. They expect me to stand up for them, financially, with work, and with support, but no one asks me if I need help. I have decided to cut all contact with these fake people. It gets lonely, but it makes me so much calmer. I only wish I had this realization sooner.
Thanks for sharing this!
Hi, my husband is a sigma and over the 30 years we have been married I have seen this time and time again with how people have treated him. So like you we have removed even family out of our lives, because as you have stated they become toxic and think he will always be there. It makes me feel ashamed and has opened my eyes as well.
We do still try to help as it's in our nature, but are very selective in who we help.
Anyway just wanted to connect and wish you well in your life.
@@sharonbarnes5603 Thank you for your words and your story! I have begun to understand that I am not alone, even though I belong to a small group of people. Throughout my life, I have observed the behavior of others and I am amazed that most people are so superficial. I do not understand why they do not realize that they could be so much better if they showed a little effort, honesty and respect. Unfortunately, I see the current society degenerating even more into total superficiality without deeper meaning in life. I am convinced that it is due to all the social apps that people use to publish pictures of themselves, and there is no depth there. Most people are too lazy to deal with their personal problems and expect others to solve the problems for them. Then it is convenient to have someone like me, and your husband, around them. 😉
Thank you so much for helping people to know more about themselves and give confidence to proceed further in a better way.
Keep going 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👍
Always!
I roll like Clint Eastwood because he rolls like a Sigma male. The good, the bad, and the ugly. I'm a Lone rider because their are not many genuine people and I don't comform. Today's Western society has become nothing more than two-bit cheap drama ghetto and opportuniist similar to Tomestone, Arizona, 1870. I'm just passing through town.
100% Correct 💥
100% true
Thanks
"Wise Thinker", a wise choice.
Cheers!
sigmas are not snowflakes !
Great video guys 😎
Thank you!
They are just jealous.
Yes they are! 👍💯
6 years in the Middle East, and I never meet a Sigma muslims
And a jealous friend is a very dangerous thing.
Yes yes 💯% yes
Call them 'frenemies'!
Well said, great video 💪💯
Thanks for watching
That would explain her panic attacks.
What part of "'til death do us part" can be negated by "I changed my mind"?
That's a great question! Maybe she can claim that she mentally died but physically stayed alive 🤣🤣🤣🤣.... her brain activity completely ceased. They just can't fool the logical. Another reason us Sigma males drive people crazy. 🤣
I dont think its asking too much to expect respect, loyalty, integrity and a confidante: sadly my former friends fell short, which is why i will never speak to them ever again.
Trust noone: todays best friend could be tomorrows worst enemy.
You have been warned.
It’s tough when people fall short. Trust can definitely be a risky thing, yet it’s a choice we all have to weigh carefully.
Sigmas or independent minded persons don't blame others or make excuses for their circumstances. This is a painful threat to those that do. These people try to tear you down. This often backfires against the Sigma.
Present 😊
Super! Thanks!
The last backstabber lost a few teeth
if you identify as something and constrain yourself to a label youre not really what hes talking about. just fyi
True always
Thanks!
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Old enough to drive riding a bicycle? Expect to be treated like someone old enough to drive and riding a bicycle😊
Because they're beta ?
Fax. A bunch of weak ppl hating on the strong.
Who is hating on who lol
Let's make up a term that really means nothing and then make a bunch of RUclips videos about it!!
Sigma males are the real men. Everyone else are just weak pawns.
@@thaistompYou can NOT be a real person bro 😭