Who are you people?! It's rhetorical. This is one of the best videos you've done so far. It is brilliant. Your classical philosophical references are solid, as is your reference to Robert Greene's book, "48 Laws of Power". Keep up the Good Work!
This is exactly what I did when four of my friends ended up being narcissists who tried to manipulate, mock, shame, guilt trip and gaslight me. Now they are nobody to me.
You are much better than them, they are the ones with issues normally learned from childhood and young adolescence trauma. Be yourself you know your worth !!!
It’s a fascinating fact that when people see the majority of other people in a group as “narcissistic” that they themselves, may be more than likely, the one with antisocial personality disorder
As far as women go, a girl I cut off 6 years ago just texted me again out of the blue. She was disrespectful while we were out, so I dropped her off for the very last time and never took a phone call or answered a text from her (and there have been several) since. I learned that the what will drive a woman crazy forever is never to argue with her. Deal with her logically and if she doesn't want to comply, just leave her alone with no explanation...EVER.
The sigma is the most effective type when it comes to dealing with problematic, toxic people. They know how to deal with them, and when the toxic party realizes it, they glare at the sigma in anger and frustration, knowing their strategy has hit the wall.
Have a half brother. He is absolutely unable to give my accomplishments any kind of positive attention. All I can get from him is the vibe of jealousy. I MYSELF CAN ADMIRE what people do. I suspect that he suffers from low self-esteem. I CAN'T CHANGE HIM. But I can decide to let it be.😊
Same thing with a long-time friend of mine for whom I was his best man at his wedding. He was so certain that marriage was guaranteed happiness. Well, not only did he soon become unhappy in his marriage, but he started being bitter towards me.
Yep that's me. Reinventing and surviving. Every attempt at my destruction has failed thus far, I assess from the eagles perch and soar into the future.
Speaking of experience, this is what I call intelligence. I realized at a point that when the same thing does not work, change it. I don't like it that the "progressive" people have named it "sigma". It is simply, you are not insane because you don't try the same thing over and over again and that will give you a peace of mind.
Still amazed how spot in these videos are all the time. It has me shaking sometimes how true it is. At the same time though, its empowering and awesome to know someone understands how we are and why. Just want peace and respect bro. Gladly give it, so i expect it in return.
That’s one good thing about us sigmas every mistake we make we learn from and are happy to have learned a lesson we see the positive side of knowing that we won’t make that mistake again or that we will never have to deal with that person again or shop at that place . We can forgive but we don’t forget anything.We constantly work on self improvement in every way.We want to create the ultimate comfort zone in every part of our life it’s hard to reach but we set goals and we reach them little by little we shape our world to be everything we dreamed about.
No. It is clear from the first microsecond. The logical approach is constant, non-selective, it is part of the mental system itself, there is no way that from a pure logical approach you will not notice a breaking point, no matter how small or "insignificant" it may be.
@@JohnSmith-x3y8h i talk about facts, not luck. if you can't detect them it's because you don't have the ability, it's simply not bad, it's like any other ability. what is wrong is to assume that others are like you
Wow! This exactly describes my thoughts towards the group of friends I recently distanced myself from. We have been drinking buddies the last 20 years, but now I've started to really evaluate our relationships a lot differently now that the party life has slowed down.
As a long time 12 Step member, another reason for controlling the information is to find out where the leaks are, because gossip is such a destructive force. A form of trust but verify
I was recently betrayed by a coworker, I told my my boss I’m out I quit.. he begged me to reconsider, I told him I need two weeks. I just finished week one😅 I work at a company with 6 employees, I think I will make the other employee retire😏😏
Oh WoW. I was like that with all my Ex's. I never yell I keep quiet and planned my exit. when It's time to leave they ask why. I lay It out!! They cry I say bye
So I enjoy these videos and I like the idea of being a sigma male over an alpha male, it would certainly explain a few things for me. But, there is a lot of romancing going on in these clips that often makes a flaw sound heroic. For example in this clip, just because you're a deep thinker does mean you always get it right, and you might be burning your bridges in a way that does you more harm in the long term. These clips also infers that being a sigma is a genetic disposition like the colour of your eyes, or a lifestyle choice like it is something you can afford to do. When I believe we now have a society that is failing more people than it is helping. A majority of people, boys and girls, are quiet quitting at work and turning their back on relationships because they have become dysfunctional, toxic, a con, and a delusion. And this is where the above clips and others like it are dangerous for a lot of men. We need to be talking to other men and women about how you want to be the decent sort but that decency punishes you in this current society. It makes you vulnerable to users and abusers, be it work or personal relationships. We need to be talking to each other rather than being all stoic and going all lone wolf.
Thanks. I find some reassurance in understanding why i am what i am and i admit, this precisely describes me even into my childhood years, just more so as time passed. More so than i care to reveal in any detail or regarding past experiences. Lets just say it fits.
This is how I am when it comes to relationships, but im a woman. I do have emotional outbursts but its for insignificant stuff like if i can't find my pen.
I’m a sigma and I’m always by myself “lone wolf “, I don’t believe in friends only family.When someone disrespects me I’ll stay quiet the first time second time I am bringing you to the side and ask you wtf is your deal?It usually ends their 😂
I watch and listen, trying to figure out things in my life. I have realized, at least in part, that I am not Alpha, yet I have Alpha tendencies at times. Myers-Briggs says I am 50% introvert; 50% extrovert. I believe I am Sigma, but while most things line up, some do not. I’m very curious to learn more! The other thing is that I exercise stoic principles. I am what I am, and couldn’t or perhaps more accurately, still can’t explain or understand what it is that I most align to, but if I were a betting man, I would say I am a stoic sigma. Albeit, there are some differences. I welcome your thoughts on the matter.
I don't think anyone fits any personality type 100%. Probably, sigmas are drawn to stoicism because it's natural for us. I use John Wayne's and Clint Eastwood cowboy characters to explain the difference between alpha and sigmas, John Wayne being alpha and Eastwood being sigma. John Wayne was almost always the leader of a group and very much "in your face" when he disagreed, while Eastwood's characters were almost always aloof and quiet, but a person to be reckoned with and could lead others when it was needed, but was otherwise a loner and a planner and non emotional. He didn't get in anyone's face and try to argue with them, he took action.
It sounds like you’re on the right track! Don’t worry about fitting perfectly into a label-focus on what feels true to you and keep building on that. Self-discovery is all about the journey.
Support Trump and Live in Seattle. These Seattle people hatful to the "American workers" like carpenters or truck drivers. I respect hard honest work and truth. I have left them all. I can't stand to listen tot the hate anymore.
Yea this isn’t true at all. Most people go silent cause they can’t handle confrontation or are afraid to speak up, and this is because lack communication skills to articulate during emotionally stressful situations. These same people play out the arguments in private spaces.
I was born sigma ..most of you think you are sigma but really are not . These videos just make you think hey this is me . News flash it ain't you . I've known I was sigma since I was in the womb. I'm too real even for all of you fake sigmas . You all wanna be sigmas ain't real ones .
I kinda sorta agree with this except I don’t sit around and contemplate while rehashing all past insults or transgressions. For me it is a running list that is always just there. I don’t consciously think about it, it’s just there under the surface and when I have had enough it’s immediate. I’m done, you may as well be dead and I don’t even think of you again unless someone mentions you specifically. Like you never even existed. But I don’t sit around and contemplate or plan my revenge which is a common theme in this videos.
Had to cut off my two older and younger brother too. The lack of respect, lies, and power moves that were all negative. Had to let them go. Parents passed on and the real them was on display. Im not included in anything unless, its for resources. Not acceptable.
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Who are you people?! It's rhetorical. This is one of the best videos you've done so far. It is brilliant. Your classical philosophical references are solid, as is your reference to Robert Greene's book, "48 Laws of Power". Keep up the Good Work!
Betas do react but in a passive aggressive way.
This is exactly what I did when four of my friends ended up being narcissists who tried to manipulate, mock, shame, guilt trip and gaslight me. Now they are nobody to me.
Keep working hard, 💪
You are much better than them, they are the ones with issues normally learned from childhood and young adolescence trauma. Be yourself you know your worth !!!
It’s a fascinating fact that when people see the majority of other people in a group as “narcissistic” that they themselves, may be more than likely, the one with antisocial personality disorder
I went through the exact same thing. Fake ass friends are the worst.
Well done bro 💪
People who antagonize others need to be taught a valuable lesson!
As far as women go, a girl I cut off 6 years ago just texted me again out of the blue. She was disrespectful while we were out, so I dropped her off for the very last time and never took a phone call or answered a text from her (and there have been several) since.
I learned that the what will drive a woman crazy forever is never to argue with her. Deal with her logically and if she doesn't want to comply, just leave her alone with no explanation...EVER.
The sigma is the most effective type when it comes to dealing with problematic, toxic people. They know how to deal with them, and when the toxic party realizes it, they glare at the sigma in anger and frustration, knowing their strategy has hit the wall.
This Is Absolute
Every scenario has already been played out in my mind. And the most effective choice is made. It starts with me, going quiet......
No Cap Once I Start Thinking It’s Too Late I Not Only Think Of My Next Move But The Opponents As Well
Stay away from people who test you. Peace.
Totally agree 👍
Have a half brother. He is absolutely unable to give my accomplishments any kind of positive attention. All I can get from him is the vibe of jealousy. I MYSELF CAN ADMIRE what people do. I suspect that he suffers from low self-esteem. I CAN'T CHANGE HIM. But I can decide to let it be.😊
Same thing with a long-time friend of mine for whom I was his best man at his wedding. He was so certain that marriage was guaranteed happiness.
Well, not only did he soon become unhappy in his marriage, but he started being bitter towards me.
Yep that's me. Reinventing and surviving. Every attempt at my destruction has failed thus far, I assess from the eagles perch and soar into the future.
you are the definition of phony are you a motivational cliche or an effin human
an eagle doesnt perch they are carnivores, they tend to nest when not flying.
@puppets.and.muppets Lol. I really don't know what to say to that one! Thanks for the feedback?
Speaking of experience, this is what I call intelligence. I realized at a point that when the same thing does not work, change it.
I don't like it that the "progressive" people have named it "sigma". It is simply, you are not insane because you don't try the same thing over and over again and that will give you a peace of mind.
This feels 100% accurate, AND it's not just a feeling now anymore... IT'S A KNOWING!! 🤫.
Still amazed how spot in these videos are all the time. It has me shaking sometimes how true it is. At the same time though, its empowering and awesome to know someone understands how we are and why. Just want peace and respect bro. Gladly give it, so i expect it in return.
The video was just like a description of a recent situation. Nice.
Same for me and now this “friend” blocked me and tried slandering me online but not using my name
Thank you for helping me to remain resilient to ups and downs in my day to day encounters. 🤲🏽
Anytime! Glad I could help
It's a pleasure to listen to you, and to say this, there is someone who knows us and understands our personality.
Thanks again
Very accurately presented logic over emotion is the best approach.🙏🏾👆🏽
That’s one good thing about us sigmas every mistake we make we learn from and are happy to have learned a lesson we see the positive side of knowing that we won’t make that mistake again or that we will never have to deal with that person again or shop at that place . We can forgive but we don’t forget anything.We constantly work on self improvement in every way.We want to create the ultimate comfort zone in every part of our life it’s hard to reach but we set goals and we reach them little by little we shape our world to be everything we dreamed about.
Yes we are learning from our own mistakes! And we are remembering everything, every single word that bean said, every move bean made.
The problem is that these breaking points happen but are ignored at the time.
It’s only looking back later that you realise its importance.
No. It is clear from the first microsecond. The logical approach is constant, non-selective, it is part of the mental system itself, there is no way that from a pure logical approach you will not notice a breaking point, no matter how small or "insignificant" it may be.
@ Good luck thinking you’ll pick up on all breaking points immediately on meeting 🙄
@@JohnSmith-x3y8h i talk about facts, not luck. if you can't detect them it's because you don't have the ability, it's simply not bad, it's like any other ability. what is wrong is to assume that others are like you
@@AriHCo
Cluelessness confirmed
Blocked
Wow! This exactly describes my thoughts towards the group of friends I recently distanced myself from. We have been drinking buddies the last 20 years, but now I've started to really evaluate our relationships a lot differently now that the party life has slowed down.
N❤😂
People change. Don't expect happiness from another person. Trust no one and work on yourself. Peace.
trusting this over the ebook Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki? no wonder the same cycles keep happening
As a long time 12 Step member, another reason for controlling the information is to find out where the leaks are, because gossip is such a destructive force. A form of trust but verify
All 6 points are absolutely correct. Thats what I am 😀
Sigma Males unit!
Thats an oxymoron.
Bad spellers of the world untie!
Wow, right on the head sir ....Thank you for explaining what I've been doing subconsciously.
People who try this don't understand it's just natural
I was recently betrayed by a coworker, I told my my boss I’m out I quit.. he begged me to reconsider, I told him I need two weeks. I just finished week one😅 I work at a company with 6 employees, I think I will make the other employee retire😏😏
Thanks for all the great video insights!
My pleasure!
Oh WoW. I was like that with all my Ex's. I never yell I keep quiet and planned my exit. when It's time to leave they ask why. I lay It out!! They cry I say bye
So I enjoy these videos and I like the idea of being a sigma male over an alpha male, it would certainly explain a few things for me. But, there is a lot of romancing going on in these clips that often makes a flaw sound heroic. For example in this clip, just because you're a deep thinker does mean you always get it right, and you might be burning your bridges in a way that does you more harm in the long term. These clips also infers that being a sigma is a genetic disposition like the colour of your eyes, or a lifestyle choice like it is something you can afford to do. When I believe we now have a society that is failing more people than it is helping. A majority of people, boys and girls, are quiet quitting at work and turning their back on relationships because they have become dysfunctional, toxic, a con, and a delusion. And this is where the above clips and others like it are dangerous for a lot of men. We need to be talking to other men and women about how you want to be the decent sort but that decency punishes you in this current society. It makes you vulnerable to users and abusers, be it work or personal relationships. We need to be talking to each other rather than being all stoic and going all lone wolf.
Not when people refuse to see the truth.
Call Me Now Bavy I Cumm A 🏃♀️ Runnin.....🎉
Captured the story of my life.
Thanks. I find some reassurance in understanding why i am what i am and i admit, this precisely describes me even into my childhood years, just more so as time passed. More so than i care to reveal in any detail or regarding past experiences. Lets just say it fits.
This is how I am when it comes to relationships, but im a woman.
I do have emotional outbursts but its for insignificant stuff like if i can't find my pen.
Yo when he said the art of not giving AF … I lost my composure 😂 that’s funny
Was the angry gaze at the beginning of the video, Vladimir Putin?
Like leaving a flea circus
Thanks man that helped me heaps❤🎉
I have already done this without knowing... Sigma similarities 🤔
you are just a logical person. who worked it out on your own.
Sigma is just the injf personality type. Thats why these videos resonate to us so much.
Absolutely 💯 accurate...
Very accurate video.
Well done.
I appreciate you!!!!
Thank you, that means a lot!
Mannn..you guys got this exactly right! and ...don't ask me how i know.
I’m a sigma and I’m always by myself “lone wolf “, I don’t believe in friends only family.When someone disrespects me I’ll stay quiet the first time second time I am bringing you to the side and ask you wtf is your deal?It usually ends their 😂
"Less is More"
Here buy this book lol
Very accurate about my personality
Not my monkeys, not my circus....
Wow, this was a stare in the mirror. Describes how I handled a recent family conflict.
#2 is totally me
Is all true dear😊😊😊
Top❤
Exactly this.
straight up
im 21 and and its been 15 year but im still a POOKIE 🤣
I disagree with the silence. When I go silent it is the end. I am not trying to figure anything out.
Yeah.
I was thinking this is common 😂❤
Present 😊
Thanks you!
I watch and listen, trying to figure out things in my life. I have realized, at least in part, that I am not Alpha, yet I have Alpha tendencies at times. Myers-Briggs says I am 50% introvert; 50% extrovert. I believe I am Sigma, but while most things line up, some do not. I’m very curious to learn more!
The other thing is that I exercise stoic principles. I am what I am, and couldn’t or perhaps more accurately, still can’t explain or understand what it is that I most align to, but if I were a betting man, I would say I am a stoic sigma. Albeit, there are some differences. I welcome your thoughts on the matter.
I don't think anyone fits any personality type 100%.
Probably, sigmas are drawn to stoicism because it's natural for us.
I use John Wayne's and Clint Eastwood cowboy characters to explain the difference between alpha and sigmas, John Wayne being alpha and Eastwood being sigma.
John Wayne was almost always the leader of a group and very much "in your face" when he disagreed, while Eastwood's characters were almost always aloof and quiet, but a person to be reckoned with and could lead others when it was needed, but was otherwise a loner and a planner and non emotional.
He didn't get in anyone's face and try to argue with them, he took action.
It sounds like you’re on the right track! Don’t worry about fitting perfectly into a label-focus on what feels true to you and keep building on that. Self-discovery is all about the journey.
Ya tell me something idk...
Describes me perfectly, to the teeth! Incredible!
❤❤..
Give me a break. Sigma or whatever. You don't hang around a---holes. That simple.
this is cool and all, but ebook Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki shows the whole picture
bingo!
Support Trump and Live in Seattle. These Seattle people hatful to the "American workers" like carpenters or truck drivers. I respect hard honest work and truth. I have left them all. I can't stand to listen tot the hate anymore.
2 months I kept silent 2 months..and who knows how much longer we're they doing this now I'm the bad guy.not cool 4:29 6:02
i AM SO SIGMA OMG
😂 lmao wow
Yea this isn’t true at all. Most people go silent cause they can’t handle confrontation or are afraid to speak up, and this is because lack communication skills to articulate during emotionally stressful situations. These same people play out the arguments in private spaces.
Allah, why this is so mee ???
I was born sigma ..most of you think you are sigma but really are not . These videos just make you think hey this is me . News flash it ain't you . I've known I was sigma since I was in the womb. I'm too real even for all of you fake sigmas . You all wanna be sigmas ain't real ones .
Says, a fake "sigma' bragging. You sound like a narcissist. 😂
I believe your very message is pretty much opposite of everything sigma.
I kinda sorta agree with this except I don’t sit around and contemplate while rehashing all past insults or transgressions. For me it is a running list that is always just there. I don’t consciously think about it, it’s just there under the surface and when I have had enough it’s immediate. I’m done, you may as well be dead and I don’t even think of you again unless someone mentions you specifically. Like you never even existed. But I don’t sit around and contemplate or plan my revenge which is a common theme in this videos.
Had to cut off my two older and younger brother too. The lack of respect, lies, and power moves that were all negative. Had to let them go. Parents passed on and the real them was on display. Im not included in anything unless, its for resources. Not acceptable.
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