Great video! I have faced these and know my decisions. Number 4.... revenge or undeserved forgiveness - I think sigmas rise above revenge, and are too wise to give undeserved forgiveness, so i choose neither - cut ties.
#4 there is no sweat revenge. Old Russian saying: 'Revenge is the most foolish reason to hunt.' Also when you seek revenge, make sure that you don't become the very thing you hate (then you lose all your self-respect), that also gives them all the power over you (remain in your character). Lastly 'The best form of revenge is to simply live well '.
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The tricky part is maintaining a relationship post-betrayal, but keeping it at arm's length so no more damage occurs.
@@Jets228 Because in the adult world, there are sometimes benefits to be derived from maintaining working relationships with jerks. Big boys do it on their own terms.
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@@Jets228 Because there can be benefits from even toxic relationships, especially in business.
When you forgive betrayal, it sets you up to be betrayed again. I have done second and third chances. It never works out. I don’t do that anymore. Burn me once, I’m gone.
I hate any source of Violence, and detest anyone who I see showing it. Revenge never, I would just walk away. I am not about myself but for others. I hate using the word Mine.
This is exactly what I am learning, embracing as a Sigma. I would never cross that path before but the power of forgiveness and recognizing the weakness of others being human. Sigma Empath Heyoka
In my opinion, 'forgivness' is overused and got slightly misinterpreted, over time. Since you can walk away and forgive, without letting anyone know, it's something you do for yourself, in order to drop grief and find peace. Not necessarily *for* someone else - presented like a noble gift, or a grand gesture, to 'a sinner'. Forgivness is actually pretty useful, for yourself, in order to avoid bitterness.* The rest seems to have gone off rail, quite a bit. But still, strong stuff. (*basically kidney malfunction iigot that right)
I've been like this for years. It may sound cruel, but you are the most important thing. Always stand your ground and never forget your values, and just because society demands otherwise never relent. I'm a kind man, and a good person. But I am my own man. Dan.
I do. That is why I never believed in anything that happened in 2019 - 2022 and still don't. I never took anything as I just can't take medication unless I actually have to.
@@christopherlowery855 Careful about saying that because killing somebody to take their 20 bucks is natural law too. Humans are an intra-predatory species and that's why criminal activity happens. Natural law is about what you can get away with for a roughly guesstimated period of time, such as robbing somebody to get high on fentanyl. It is NOT about the subjective experience of right and wrong, i.e. having a conscience. Cancer, AIDS, and getting killed by a rattlesnake or a hungry bear are natural law too and that doesn't make them good!
Sort of. Everybody needs rules for certain activities that are of a collective nature even if we don't think of them as such. For example, look at driving a vehicle. When you learn to drive the first thing you need to do is have a working understanding of the rules of the road, otherwise you can't learn how to drive decently because you kill yourself trying :) The rest of driving is information-sorting based on order-of-priority, from the most mission-critical (i.e. stop signs and red lights, other vehicles in front of you or beside you) to the utterly trivial (the address numbers of all the buildings you pass because you're not driving there, for example.)
The last one. I reported it to his boss. Then quit within a week. 2 other coworkers quit after me. No 2 wk notices. I refused exit interviews and refused to tell the former boss where I'm going. I'm at a better company now
I have found that things happen in cycles, they will sabotage themselves or someone else will do to them what they do to you. Sometimes, fate will give you a front row seat to the results of their decisions. So, you don't need to seek revenge..when you seek revenge, dig two graves.
Now I say what I need to say, do what I need to do, and decide what and when I have to decide. Other people's judgment carries no weight, but my own does.
i remember between the age of 10 & 14 a friend of mine didn't like so he use revenge on me, my thoughts cross my mine and refuse to seek revenge. not worth my time and energy, but my friend is a spoiled brat. i've learned first hand and thoughts through, even hate can backfire. this was in 1972 to 1976. so i rather to forgive and move on.
Before you choose either path you have to remember that these folks are humans too and you have to give them every chance to change before you walk away...
number 4 is the realest conundrum that sigmas face...been thru this so many times, its not funny. And like number 6, I have had to expose alot of former bosses in my time. I once time had a boss who used to say she was Christian but would talk about everyone who worked for her like a dog and really disrespectful...the day I quit, I gave a coworker a bible for her with the message that 'she needed to read it because she wasnt following it'.
I don't care about the 'world' as in following the masses or 'society'...I care about individuals, what they do, what they're like, etc. As with everything else I look, observe, seek my own counsel. I'm also a sigma empath. Empathy is extremely important.
Betrayed by a woman a very hard decision, against my nature forgave. It was the right decision but the most difficult one of my life. #2... I love to keep them guessing, even when you know they believe the absolute worst ... there's nothing they can do about it. #4... Never seek revenge ... let Karma be the perfect judge, if nothing happens maybe I was wrong and they were innocent... #3 & 6 mostly working under ridiculous micromanagement ... new rules every week ... my response was I'll take them under advisement ... and they can fire me before I lie for them
If I make the decision to forgive someone, that does not mean that the person I am forgiving has had the change of heart necessary for them to become a trustable person. Sometimes they have no intention to change . Forgiving someone is not the same as trusting someone.
I am a Sigma male as I have all traits that are in this video and all the other videos on different channels. I am alone with the power of knowledge and I have no friends. I am right and others are wrong but I get no recognition from anyone. I walk alone in this life. I hate all TV and everything from Hollywood, and celebrities. I live for the Truth and trust no one except God. 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉.
The "sigma male" label often serves as a psychological crutch for those who feel marginalized, insecure, or out of step with traditional archetypes like the "alpha." It’s easier to adopt an external label that projects strength, mystery, or independence than to confront personal weaknesses or insecurities directly. Content creators feeding into this trend often prey on people searching for validation or a sense of identity, offering them an appealing but shallow framework to feel superior or unique. This can create an echo chamber where the "sigma" archetype becomes a substitute for genuine self-improvement or self-awareness. The irony is that the traits supposedly defining a "sigma"-independence, confidence, and self-reliance-wouldn't need validation from online communities or external labels in the first place.
Sigmas walking away after betrayal don't see it as "revenge" you can forgive betrayal or person, but thats it, how others experience the Sigmas (in)action is their problem.
The real ones vet all people they encounter carefully. Only a young sigma would even experience betrayal. Any of us over 30 keeps everyone at arms length except those who have proven, by their character, that they can be trusted.
I guess from birth I already had what it needed to become sigma. Life did the rest. For instance, when someone betrays me, I am okay with that. I let that person be but I walk away and never look back. I had people trying come back to me. I kindly and calmly told them that I trusted them, that they betrayed that trust and that there is no way that they can ever come back. I swore to myself I will never come back to situations I was in before with a tattoo to remind myself of that promise.
Well, to make it simple, when everyone goes right I go left. If I am on the wrong side of the path, I prefer to fix it than follow the other way around myself. Am I a sigma male? I don't know and I don't mind, still what I actually know is that is the only way I accept to live my life at all.🤷🏻♂️
That's a good start. The opposite direction of the crowd is a good litmus test, but not a definitive direction by itself. The two paths still need to be evaluated carefully. Sometimes the crowd gets it right. However, the general rule is that they are being herded by an external force. Only follow them if you agree with their direction. Likewise, refuse to follow them only if you disagree with them. Sometimes blending in for the sake of advancement and movement can be a stratigic win. What's important is effeciency, not always being right, or needlessly going against the grain. Only those who are in the building care when its on fire. Those outside the building will just sip their coffee and watch it burn. Therefore, the fire hazard is only harmful if the intent is to stay in the building. But if the intent is to exit the building, let all those who have ignored it, while refusing to leave, deal with it.
It isn't that hard to tell any liar in your life to go pound sand. Who needs that in your life? Go away regardless of who you are, you have defined youself as a liar, that is all I need to know. Easy, a Sigma is never lonely.
You forgive but you don't forget. If you forget, then you are a fool. Life is brutal that way.. Most of the people in the world are not strong or mature by default. Nor do they strive in life for self mastery. Most of these betrayers are selfish folk with self righteous attitudes, or they are narcissists or worse. If you forgive, these people won;t give a damn about your forgiveness and generosity. They will go back to being who they are once again. You forgive, learn your lessons, and then never forget. The path gets lonelier. A king has enemies, and followers, but o friends. Self mastery demands everything! The path of a sigma is a path of a king. The one who masters oneself, is truly a king of one's own inner sanctuary. A rare individual like that will be respected as a king outside too. But there are no friends in this game. No one to share your feelings, No shoulder to rest your head on. You are the ultimate light for yourself, and in essence, you become a light to others.
A king rules over masses of people. People are inept and incompetent. Unworthy of my leadership. Therefore, I am no king. I am the king's closest advisor.
Maybe not revenge but helping karma do its thing sometimes you need patience bad people always have skeletons then moving on has served me well. I have no interest in the aftermath just justice.
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Great video! I have faced these and know my decisions. Number 4.... revenge or undeserved forgiveness - I think sigmas rise above revenge, and are too wise to give undeserved forgiveness, so i choose neither - cut ties.
May I offer: revenge is not necessarily justice, also karma...
Thank you, have a lovely day please
Karma never misses an address
i suggest outing the perpetrator, so people are aware of these toxic types
A sigma is pure logic and are several moves ahead on the chess board of life. He knows when a situation is beyond recovery and simply moves on. 👍
#4 there is no sweat revenge. Old Russian saying: 'Revenge is the most foolish reason to hunt.' Also when you seek revenge, make sure that you don't become the very thing you hate (then you lose all your self-respect), that also gives them all the power over you (remain in your character). Lastly 'The best form of revenge is to simply live well '.
The tricky part is maintaining a relationship post-betrayal, but keeping it at arm's length so no more damage occurs.
Why bother maintaining such a relationship?
@@Jets228 Because in the adult world, there are sometimes benefits to be derived from maintaining working relationships with jerks. Big boys do it on their own terms.
@@Jets228 Because there can be benefits from even toxic relationships, especially in business.
fair enough, I did not consider "business relationship" in my reply
Also, coparenting relationships that are toxic and dysfunctional
When you forgive betrayal, it sets you up to be betrayed again. I have done second and third chances. It never works out. I don’t do that anymore. Burn me once, I’m gone.
There's an old saying "betray me once shame on you" betray me twice shame on me
10:00- your dreams lie outside your comfort zone take the risk or lose the chance
When I try to share or even tell people what I have done they don’t believe me and think I’m full of s. I don’t need to share, what’s mine is mine.
revenge doesnt fix the damage, it darkens ur soul, only way is to forget it and get away from that person.
I hate any source of Violence, and detest anyone who I see showing it. Revenge never, I would just walk away. I am not about myself but for others. I hate using the word Mine.
This is exactly what I am learning, embracing as a Sigma. I would never cross that path before but the power of forgiveness and recognizing the weakness of others being human. Sigma Empath Heyoka
My most valuble asset is my personal intergity. I will never compromise my personal integrity. I will not forgive. I will walk away.
In my opinion, 'forgivness' is overused and got slightly misinterpreted, over time.
Since you can walk away and forgive, without letting anyone know, it's something you do for yourself, in order to drop grief and find peace. Not necessarily *for* someone else - presented like a noble gift, or a grand gesture, to 'a sinner'.
Forgivness is actually pretty useful, for yourself, in order to avoid bitterness.*
The rest seems to have gone off rail, quite a bit. But still, strong stuff.
(*basically kidney malfunction iigot that right)
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@@OstOst-t6b When I walk away, I forget about it. The issue is not worth considerstion.
As long as I have the will to live and the strength to make it happen I will fight to my very last breath.
I've been like this for years.
It may sound cruel, but you are the most important thing.
Always stand your ground and never forget your values, and just because society demands otherwise never relent.
I'm a kind man, and a good person.
But I am my own man.
Dan.
5:40- question everything albert Einstein
I do. That is why I never believed in anything that happened in 2019 - 2022 and still don't. I never took anything as I just can't take medication unless I actually have to.
We have also the choice: Forgive someone but also cut ties.
(I prefer to give ONE other chance..... mostly, not always)
Depends on the severity
I have done that. You forgive them not for them, but for yourself to be at peace and heal.
If you sit quietly around evil people for too long they will begin to tell on themselves...
Exceptional !
Brought back memories.
Interesting how someone described my life every corner, in one video, kudos!
Rules are for people who need them.
The only laws I follow are natural laws.
Everything else is calculated consent.
@@christopherlowery855 Careful about saying that because killing somebody to take their 20 bucks is natural law too. Humans are an intra-predatory species and that's why criminal activity happens. Natural law is about what you can get away with for a roughly guesstimated period of time, such as robbing somebody to get high on fentanyl. It is NOT about the subjective experience of right and wrong, i.e. having a conscience.
Cancer, AIDS, and getting killed by a rattlesnake or a hungry bear are natural law too and that doesn't make them good!
Sort of. Everybody needs rules for certain activities that are of a collective nature even if we don't think of them as such. For example, look at driving a vehicle. When you learn to drive the first thing you need to do is have a working understanding of the rules of the road, otherwise you can't learn how to drive decently because you kill yourself trying :)
The rest of driving is information-sorting based on order-of-priority, from the most mission-critical (i.e. stop signs and red lights, other vehicles in front of you or beside you) to the utterly trivial (the address numbers of all the buildings you pass because you're not driving there, for example.)
@@devilsoffspring5519 I'm not saying you're wrong, but I would ask you to think beyond the constructs of what exists around us.
@@richardboreiko I'm saying that too :)
The last one. I reported it to his boss. Then quit within a week. 2 other coworkers quit after me. No 2 wk notices. I refused exit interviews and refused to tell the former boss where I'm going. I'm at a better company now
Great video, especially 6
Glad you enjoyed it
I really don’t care about revenge. However, I would not permit you to hurt me again. 1st time is a bad mistake, the 2nd time is a bad decision.
@@kaneo3243 the best revenge is massive success
Wise Thinker...Great Platform.
I have gone through all of these. I didn't even realise I was one until I watched this
2 the less you share, the more they make up and the less I care.
I have found that things happen in cycles, they will sabotage themselves or someone else will do to them what they do to you.
Sometimes, fate will give you a front row seat to the results of their decisions.
So, you don't need to seek revenge..when you seek revenge, dig two graves.
May love guide your actions, hope light your path, and peace fill your heart
I no longer seek to be the bigger man, 40 years of it has given me absolutely nothing. I've done enough.
Now I say what I need to say, do what I need to do, and decide what and when I have to decide. Other people's judgment carries no weight, but my own does.
6:30- if no one breaks the rules then how will change happen if you do what everyone else is doing then you will get what everyone else is getting
i remember between the age of 10 & 14 a friend of mine didn't like so he use revenge on me, my thoughts cross my mine and refuse to seek revenge. not worth my time and energy, but my friend is a spoiled brat. i've learned first hand and thoughts through, even hate can backfire. this was in 1972 to 1976. so i rather to forgive and move on.
Forgive but walk away
Ignore is even better than forgive. I can erase them from my life.
Absolutely correct, without any questions about Sigma males.
Before you choose either path you have to remember that these folks are humans too and you have to give them every chance to change before you walk away...
No you don't. Forgiveness doesn't mean giving them the chance to do it again. Forgive and keep distance.
Listening from Mackinac Island Michigan
This information is so empowering
Yup, Hobson's Choice is a tough one...
number 4 is the realest conundrum that sigmas face...been thru this so many times, its not funny. And like number 6, I have had to expose alot of former bosses in my time. I once time had a boss who used to say she was Christian but would talk about everyone who worked for her like a dog and really disrespectful...the day I quit, I gave a coworker a bible for her with the message that 'she needed to read it because she wasnt following it'.
Too cowardly to give it to her yourself. No passage chosen to drive your point home.
I hope you were in your teens or 20s
EVERYTHING HAS A LIMIT EVEN TIME AND NATURE IS UNFORGIVING WHEN IT'S MISUSED AND ABUSED👍
Been there amen 🙏
This video was so good!! I’m definitely a sigma male
We exist to drive humanity to continue to evolve
socialising feels like interogation, they wanna know everything about u..
I don't care about the 'world' as in following the masses or 'society'...I care about individuals, what they do, what they're like, etc. As with everything else I look, observe, seek my own counsel. I'm also a sigma empath. Empathy is extremely important.
A Sigma has to do what a sigma has to do. Stay self focused.
The most beautiful views come from the toughest climbs
Betrayed by a woman a very hard decision, against my nature forgave. It was the right decision but the most difficult one of my life. #2... I love to keep them guessing, even when you know they believe the absolute worst ... there's nothing they can do about it. #4... Never seek revenge ... let Karma be the perfect judge, if nothing happens maybe I was wrong and they were innocent... #3 & 6 mostly working under ridiculous micromanagement ... new rules every week ... my response was I'll take them under advisement ... and they can fire me before I lie for them
I hate the last one. I've quit so many times because the boss is being manipulative or abusive.
First difficult video for me 😮
MORAL AUTONOMY !!!!!! YES!!!!🙌
The 'revenge' might be just waiting for the other person to realize that the revenge is not coming at all.
You can forgive and still choose to cut ties
It is what it is.
If I make the decision to forgive someone, that does not mean that the person I am forgiving has had the change of heart necessary for them to become a trustable person. Sometimes they have no intention to change . Forgiving someone is not the same as trusting someone.
I am a Sigma male as I have all traits that are in this video and all the other videos on different channels. I am alone with the power of knowledge and I have no friends. I am right and others are wrong but I get no recognition from anyone. I walk alone in this life. I hate all TV and everything from Hollywood, and celebrities. I live for the Truth and trust no one except God. 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉.
Revenge, is a No-No ( the ability is obvious,,, as is the choice )
Thanks @ Wise.Thinker
Always!
Present 😊
Eff em @ the end of day my life! Is my life to live! You gotta be your own person..
The "sigma male" label often serves as a psychological crutch for those who feel marginalized, insecure, or out of step with traditional archetypes like the "alpha." It’s easier to adopt an external label that projects strength, mystery, or independence than to confront personal weaknesses or insecurities directly.
Content creators feeding into this trend often prey on people searching for validation or a sense of identity, offering them an appealing but shallow framework to feel superior or unique. This can create an echo chamber where the "sigma" archetype becomes a substitute for genuine self-improvement or self-awareness. The irony is that the traits supposedly defining a "sigma"-independence, confidence, and self-reliance-wouldn't need validation from online communities or external labels in the first place.
Sigmas walking away after betrayal don't see it as "revenge"
you can forgive betrayal or person, but thats it,
how others experience the Sigmas (in)action is their problem.
The real ones vet all people they encounter carefully. Only a young sigma would even experience betrayal. Any of us over 30 keeps everyone at arms length except those who have proven, by their character, that they can be trusted.
Family will betray you quicker than anyone because they're sure you'll let it pass 😅
I guess from birth I already had what it needed to become sigma. Life did the rest.
For instance, when someone betrays me, I am okay with that. I let that person be but I walk away and never look back.
I had people trying come back to me. I kindly and calmly told them that I trusted them, that they betrayed that trust and that there is no way that they can ever come back.
I swore to myself I will never come back to situations I was in before with a tattoo to remind myself of that promise.
I’m once trust is gone, that’s it, bye bye…. No use for you…..
Well, to make it simple, when everyone goes right I go left. If I am on the wrong side of the path, I prefer to fix it than follow the other way around myself. Am I a sigma male? I don't know and I don't mind, still what I actually know is that is the only way I accept to live my life at all.🤷🏻♂️
That's a good start. The opposite direction of the crowd is a good litmus test, but not a definitive direction by itself. The two paths still need to be evaluated carefully. Sometimes the crowd gets it right. However, the general rule is that they are being herded by an external force. Only follow them if you agree with their direction. Likewise, refuse to follow them only if you disagree with them. Sometimes blending in for the sake of advancement and movement can be a stratigic win. What's important is effeciency, not always being right, or needlessly going against the grain. Only those who are in the building care when its on fire. Those outside the building will just sip their coffee and watch it burn. Therefore, the fire hazard is only harmful if the intent is to stay in the building. But if the intent is to exit the building, let all those who have ignored it, while refusing to leave, deal with it.
We forgive but don't forget 😅
🧐 forgiveness dont mean relationship 🤔
Am not sigma
But salute to all sigma behaviour
It isn't that hard to tell any liar in your life to go pound sand. Who needs that in your life? Go away regardless of who you are, you have defined youself as a liar, that is all I need to know. Easy, a Sigma is never lonely.
You forgive but you don't forget. If you forget, then you are a fool. Life is brutal that way.. Most of the people in the world are not strong or mature by default. Nor do they strive in life for self mastery. Most of these betrayers are selfish folk with self righteous attitudes, or they are narcissists or worse. If you forgive, these people won;t give a damn about your forgiveness and generosity. They will go back to being who they are once again. You forgive, learn your lessons, and then never forget. The path gets lonelier. A king has enemies, and followers, but o friends. Self mastery demands everything! The path of a sigma is a path of a king. The one who masters oneself, is truly a king of one's own inner sanctuary. A rare individual like that will be respected as a king outside too. But there are no friends in this game. No one to share your feelings, No shoulder to rest your head on. You are the ultimate light for yourself, and in essence, you become a light to others.
A king rules over masses of people. People are inept and incompetent. Unworthy of my leadership. Therefore, I am no king. I am the king's closest advisor.
#5
Maybe not revenge but helping karma do its thing sometimes you need patience bad people always have skeletons then moving on has served me well. I have no interest in the aftermath just justice.
I don’t turn the other cheek, consider yourself lucky you aren’t in the hospital…….
This makes me feel very skibidi
MGTOW!
& females 😢
Screwed you once, they’ll do it again……..
!!! FORGIVE !!!
Ts so corny Bruh 😭🙏🙏🙏
Corn balls
I can live with myself, can you…..
If you wore the mask , and got the injection , you are NOT a sigma .
If you followed conspiracy theories instead of understanding science you are a fool. Sigmas learn continuously and understand vaccines work.
@@mythokratis Take another booster
Why care what others think or speculate?
Waste of precious time.
Homie, Don't play that.....
How should i allow someone who doesn't want to see you happy always to betray you.
Been there amen 🙏