One of the worst things that families and others do to victims is dismiss their pain and trauma because "your not the only one it's happened to" or "this or that person went on with their life after"...every person reacts differently...every person can't just carry on like nothing happened. It really pisses me off 😒
Even tho I'm not a victim of incest, I went through other types of home violence and I was sexu4l abused from men outside. Our storys have a lot of similaritys, that's so sad 😔😔 I'm 27 and I have no contact with my family, none of them (nor the man who raped me) was ever charged for any type of crime.
Its a whole lot of reasons. Seeing films, photos, magazines, experiencing certain degrading moments, growing up with no guidance, no adults in the home, rubbing shoulders with the wrong people, crowded homes and a whole host of other godless experiences.
Unfortunately, it is almost always an easy-access type of crime, and so many people in the public, and those who have never experienced it, including men don’t understand. They will never understand because most men don’t/cant empathize with us females, but because they are physiologically wired differently than we are. Not that it’s only easy access, the abuse usually starts when the victim is very, very young. Myself being seven years old,. Abusers heavily rely on intimidation and scare tactics. As if it’s not enough to keep us quiet by the sexual abuse itself, which usually is, they will threaten to physically harm and even KILL other family members, ESPECIALLY younger siblings. I didn’t have younger siblings at the time but I did have young cousins and the last thing I wanted was for any of those little girls to suffer the flames 🔥 of HELL he put me thru. You will likely see many more outward expressions and stories of sexual abuse more than physical abuse and that’s due to a few reasons. 1) the abuser wants to keep everything quiet, so the last thing he wants is to have physical outward signs of abuse. 2) The abusers usually don’t have to get to a point of physical abuse to control and manipulate. The sexual abuse is exceedingly enough. Etc. I hope that helps .❤️
Mothers and fathers, if your partner is abusive, PLEASE keep them away from your children. Please keep your babies close and pay attention to them. Ask them frequently what is going on in their sweet, precious little worlds and make sure they understand that NO ONE should touch their private places.. and they should not touch anyone else’s 🙏
Girl your whole family was abused and abused. You did not deserve that. No innocent young child deserves that no human being deserves that but now you come out stronger and thank you so much for sharing❤❤❤❤❤
I’m SO sorry this happened to you. So unfair how some are just surrounded by monsters from birth. And the poor mom to be constantly abused as well. I’m sorry you were failed by everyone but what a strong person you are. Keep your head up beautiful… love from Georgia in the United States
Another heartbreaking story. I’m disappointed that not one person cared enough to protect her. As moms it is our responsibility to ask our children if anyone has ever been inappropriate with them. Has anyone ever touched them or made feel uncomfortable. So much pain and trauma for one person to go through. ❤❤
@@ChiyanatitoI keep hearing story after story from women on the continent. So many countries. And then victims are always blamed, just like most sexual assault victims here in the US. Two ladies on this show, one from Nigeria, and one from Senegal (I think), even said that their moms put hot pepper in their wounds after they beat them or their moms would put freshly ground pepper in their private parts and rectum if they found out about them not being virgins. Moms who knew the girls’ virginities were Stolen. I’m so sorry. Jesus.
She went through so much. I do think since she went through all of this alone and the one time she tells anyone it’s her aunt that dismissed it. That’s an awful feeling. Then she thinks maybe call the abuse isn’t a big deal or that others go through it so I don’t need to speak up. She seen that reaching out for help when she was young didn’t matter. I’m glad when she got older she finally has supportive friends that encouraged her to write a book that helps her and others. And her speaking out about the abuse to help others that can relate. It’s true that many people will belittle you or think it’s your fault you’ve been abused and that can make us feel ashamed for sharing our stories. As she said it’s our story and we will talk out it even if others don’t understand or choose not to understand.
I'm soo sorry you went through all this abuse and pain and abuse 💔 you didn't deserve that treatment 💔 😔 it's not your fault please forgive yourself queen invite God into your life he will help you and humble you 😢this is soo sad Daddy and Brothers support to protect there's sister's 😢 God kept you 😢😢 sad you went through all this drama 😮😢😢
Sorry this happen to you. Your story brought tears to my eyes. Of course as a child you can not comprehend sexual abuse or even what is happening or what it means. I can relate to being molested as a child. Also sitting to myself and no one coming to my help. To loose your daughter on top of all you have been through, I can't believe it, I am so sorry. I am balling my eyes out. No one can take away your memories of your beautiful little girl. Your a warrior and a strong, beautiful lady. You are suppose to be here to help others by sharing your story. You have helped me. Thanks for helping me to have a voice. I wish you love, light, peace and continuous healing.💕🙏🏾💕
*Psalms 147:3* ❤️🩹🩸 *”He healeth the broken in heart, and bindeth up their wounds.”* ♥️ *ALL SOULS MATTER* ♥️ *Eternal life is a FREE GIFT.* Romans 5:15 KJB “But not as the offence, so also is the *free gift.* For if through the offence of one many be dead, much more the grace of God, and the gift by grace, which is *by one man,* *Jesus Christ,*hath abounded unto many.” 1 John 5:13 KJB “These things have I written unto you that *believe on the name of the Son of God;* that *ye may know that ye have eternal life,* and that ye may believe on the name of the Son of God.” Romans 5:6 KJB “For when we were yet without strength, in due time *Christ died for the ungodly.”* *Jesus did it ALL and paid it ALL with His Blood, because we couldn’t without going to hell forever. False (works) gospels seek to exalt a sinner’s ability to save themselves, which is impossible, while the true gospel of our salvation exalts the Lord Jesus Christ alone and His shed Blood (Romans 3:25 KJB).* *Romans 1:16a* *”For I am not ashamed of the gospel of Christ: for it is the power of God unto salvation to every one that believeth;”* Galatians 2:21 *”I do not frustrate the grace of God: for if righteousness come by the law, then Christ is dead in vain.”* Romans 4:5 *”But to him that worketh not, but believeth on him that justifieth the ungodly, his faith is counted for righteousness.”* *Ephesians 1:13* “In whom *ye also trusted,* after that *ye heard* the word of truth, *the gospel* of your salvation: in whom also after that *ye believed,* *ye were sealed* with that holy Spirit of promise,” *THE GOSPEL* of *our salvation* is given to *us* specifically by *our* appointed *Apostle PAUL* in *1 Corinthians 15:1-4 KJB:* 15 Moreover, brethren, *I declare unto you the gospel* which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand; 2 By which also ye are saved, if ye keep in memory what I preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain. 3 For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that *CHRIST DIED FOR OUR SINS* according to the scriptures; 4 And that *HE WAS BURIED* , and that *HE ROSE AGAIN* the third day according to the scriptures: *THE SIMPLICITY OF SALVATION: BELIEVE (TRUST) THAT JESUS CHRIST DIED-SHEDDING HIS BLOOD AS THE PAYMENT FOR ALL YOUR SINS, HE WAS BURIED & ROSE AGAIN THE THIRD DAY* on *YOUR behalf.* They very moment you *believe,* you will *receive* the *free gift* of salvation *instantly* and *irreversibly.* To be *born again* means to be *saved* ♥️ Galatians 1:8 “But though we, or an angel from heaven, *preach any other gospel* unto you than that which we have preached unto you, *let him be accursed.”* John 10:28 “And I give unto them eternal life; and *they shall never perish,* neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” *Ephesians 2:8-9 KJB* *”For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.*” *Repentance* is *a change of mind* *When you change your mind about the way of salvation to believing (trusting) in Jesus Christ as your only way to Heaven, you have repented. Though it is natural to think that you can earn your way to Heaven by good works, you cannot. When you understand that you are a sinner and cannot save yourself, and instead trust in Jesus Christ as your only means of salvation, you have repented.* *Romans 11:29* *”For the gifts and calling of God are without repentance.”* *GOD BLESS* 🙏🏼
I am so sad😢that you went through this with people who was suppose to love and protect you 🙏🏾🙏🏾I pray that you and your daughter's have a beautiful blessed and abundant life🙏🏾❤️🙌🏿
I'm sorry girl ❤ please don't give up, this video proves how strong and brave tou are after surpass all that shit and tell it, maybe helping others with yur history, never give up ❤
Your father and your brothers sound like horrible people, you 3 women had no outlet from the abuse at home. I’m so sorry your loved ones did this to you,you did not deserve this. I’m happy you are safe and getting your story heard today ❤
Her brothers where just children and not horrible people because they were also victims of abuse too. And why aren't you criticizing her mother who was an adult, for not protecting her children?? You're treating the mother as more of a victim than her brothers and the mother was the adult in the situation who had a choice to take the children out of that violent situation and she didn't.
Me and my brothers shared a bedroom and none of them ever did anything to me obviously her brothers were being sexual abused as well it's very obvious @@Jaime-u5m
@@djlivvy46 I mean I could say the same argument for her brothers though? My point is nobody should blame or hold her brothers responsible if they aren't going to hold her mother responsible first.
Bless you QUEEN...you deserve better...may you heal and live a better life without the generational curses, pain and traumas ..may your children not relive what you went through but learn what to do and what not to do and have good hearts and strength like you and get better and live better and make you proud and your ancestors proud, may this world be a better place, ASHE.
I am so sorry that you went through all of this, but guess what you were stronger than you thought you did not know your own strength, but God gave it to you
As if the story was not devastating enough as she tells it, at 4:55 I GASPED. I was seven years old the first time that I was sexually assaulted and raped by my uncle. I would never know my world as it was prior to the first assault. My mother also turned a willful blind eye. The VERY person who is SUPPOSED to PROTECT us. 😢 Geeze. I’m so very very sorry for the loss of your daughter. 😭 It’s a really long and arduous road to help oneself deal with the emotional trauma. Only a week ago I tearfully put my dramatic, trauma-making family members in my rear view mirror, to stay. Stay strong my love. YOU ARE BRAVER than you think and YOU ARE ENOUGH.
*Psalms 147:3* ❤️🩹🩸 *”He healeth the broken in heart, and bindeth up their wounds.”* ♥️ *ALL SOULS MATTER* ♥️ *Eternal life is a FREE GIFT.* Romans 5:15 KJB “But not as the offence, so also is the *free gift.* For if through the offence of one many be dead, much more the grace of God, and the gift by grace, which is *by one man,* *Jesus Christ,*hath abounded unto many.” 1 John 5:13 KJB “These things have I written unto you that *believe on the name of the Son of God;* that *ye may know that ye have eternal life,* and that ye may believe on the name of the Son of God.” Romans 5:6 KJB “For when we were yet without strength, in due time *Christ died for the ungodly.”* *Jesus did it ALL and paid it ALL with His Blood, because we couldn’t without going to hell forever. False (works) gospels seek to exalt a sinner’s ability to save themselves, which is impossible, while the true gospel of our salvation exalts the Lord Jesus Christ alone and His shed Blood (Romans 3:25 KJB).* *Romans 1:16a* *”For I am not ashamed of the gospel of Christ: for it is the power of God unto salvation to every one that believeth;”* Galatians 2:21 *”I do not frustrate the grace of God: for if righteousness come by the law, then Christ is dead in vain.”* Romans 4:5 *”But to him that worketh not, but believeth on him that justifieth the ungodly, his faith is counted for righteousness.”* *Ephesians 1:13* “In whom *ye also trusted,* after that *ye heard* the word of truth, *the gospel* of your salvation: in whom also after that *ye believed,* *ye were sealed* with that holy Spirit of promise,” *THE GOSPEL* of *our salvation* is given to *us* specifically by *our* appointed *Apostle PAUL* in *1 Corinthians 15:1-4 KJB:* 15 Moreover, brethren, *I declare unto you the gospel* which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand; 2 By which also ye are saved, if ye keep in memory what I preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain. 3 For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that *CHRIST DIED FOR OUR SINS* according to the scriptures; 4 And that *HE WAS BURIED* , and that *HE ROSE AGAIN* the third day according to the scriptures: *THE SIMPLICITY OF SALVATION: BELIEVE (TRUST) THAT JESUS CHRIST DIED-SHEDDING HIS BLOOD AS THE PAYMENT FOR ALL YOUR SINS, HE WAS BURIED & ROSE AGAIN THE THIRD DAY* on *YOUR behalf.* They very moment you *believe,* you will *receive* the *free gift* of salvation *instantly* and *irreversibly.* To be *born again* means to be *saved* ♥️ Galatians 1:8 “But though we, or an angel from heaven, *preach any other gospel* unto you than that which we have preached unto you, *let him be accursed.”* John 10:28 “And I give unto them eternal life; and *they shall never perish,* neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” *Ephesians 2:8-9 KJB* *”For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.*” *Repentance* is *a change of mind* *When you change your mind about the way of salvation to believing (trusting) in Jesus Christ as your only way to Heaven, you have repented. Though it is natural to think that you can earn your way to Heaven by good works, you cannot. When you understand that you are a sinner and cannot save yourself, and instead trust in Jesus Christ as your only means of salvation, you have repented.* *Romans 11:29* *”For the gifts and calling of God are without repentance.”* *GOD BLESS* & much love ❤️ 🙏🏼
You have gained another reader and follower from me now on. I am sorry, all from my my heart is love to you. Many do not understand this, l do for some reason, l feel you, my sister. Women have many sad stories that hurt deep. Abuse comes in many different forms in marriages, families, and what are supposed to be one's support systems. I pray for love in the world we live in on this side of life.
Honestly this is a success story. Not every survivor seems their rapists die. We will continue praying for this though. God or whomever has to listen at some point it’s been over 3000 years now.
My mom treated me the same way. I too had a very lonely and sad childhood. Only my favorite auntie talked to me. And was sexually abused at 10, molested at 15, anally raped at 17, raped vaginally by another. I hated my life. Also wished I was dead. God introduced me to the man he had for me so I'm learning to love myself, stop fearing men, and being happy
As the man (Gen 1:26-28) KJV, a husband (Gen 2:21-25) and a father (Gen 3:16), the minister of God (Rom 13), teacher (Eph 4) and one of the survivors who was bullied in school, I am so sorry this happened to you. Every time I see and/or hear anything like this, I see my wife or my daughters. If I could have protected you from being harmed by "it", I would have, but I can not be everywhere all at once. (1 John 4)
Prayers for solace with the women and discipline for the men seeing themselves as the way and the life .. shame til they get rejected until they have isolation for enough time to see noone will tolerate this. Shame on family abusers
OMG I can relate to this lady. I was abused sexually by men known to my family and my father wasn’t at home due to work and galavanting around with other women. We only discovered when we paid for him to visit us in 🏴 when we discovered he was HIV positive. My mom fortunately she didn’t contract the virus. My sister above me told me that she was also abused by our home help who was a male au pair. She then told my toxic sister who rang my father in Africa informing him about it and my father wanted to pass on the blame onto my mother who also didn’t know about the abuse that was going on.
Very beautiful and classy young lady. Beautiful accent! I understand her pain. My mother just played it off too. Had to protect her special, beloved baby! Its like she wanted him to b e her special little man!
This is infuriating.. the women in my family were matriarchs. They ran the household. Even when they were poor and lived in shotgun homes and shacks as sharecroppers... my grandma and great grandma didn't play. My mother says I'm a lot like my grandma. I will take a skillet to your head if you mess with me or mine, thank God I've never been thru anything like this because I'd probably be in jail. I feel so deeply pained by all these stories..its unimaginable what A LOT of women all over this globe has been thru at the hands of men.
@@LatiWins If she was taught that being treated like that was normal and acceptable then her brothers were also taught it's normal and acceptable to treat women like that. They were both victims of that family
Sounds like an epidemic because this happens so often. Nobody deserves to be traumatized and abused like this. I pray you get to recover and never have this or put up with it. I believe the numbers are much higher than reports on abuse.
I think some teachers don't want to get involved and adult act like they don't know children need to be payed attention protection. You have the right to be angry and also the right to love and protect yourself as an adult
Shame on that mother to abuse her children. She should've had tht shame aggression towrds the father thr was beating her & her babies. Truly sick ppl out here.
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One of the worst things that families and others do to victims is dismiss their pain and trauma because "your not the only one it's happened to" or "this or that person went on with their life after"...every person reacts differently...every person can't just carry on like nothing happened. It really pisses me off 😒
It seems like almost every woman’s story on this channel is about sexual abusive. It’s heartbreaking and disgusting. Why do men do this?
Even tho I'm not a victim of incest, I went through other types of home violence and I was sexu4l abused from men outside. Our storys have a lot of similaritys, that's so sad 😔😔 I'm 27 and I have no contact with my family, none of them (nor the man who raped me) was ever charged for any type of crime.
Lust cannot be satisfied. Deliverance is needed.
Its a whole lot of reasons. Seeing films, photos, magazines, experiencing certain degrading moments, growing up with no guidance, no adults in the home, rubbing shoulders with the wrong people, crowded homes and a whole host of other godless experiences.
Because people let them get away with it
Unfortunately, it is almost always an easy-access type of crime, and so many people in the public, and those who have never experienced it, including men don’t understand. They will never understand because most men don’t/cant empathize with us females, but because they are physiologically wired differently than we are.
Not that it’s only easy access, the abuse usually starts when the victim is very, very young. Myself being seven years old,. Abusers heavily rely on intimidation and scare tactics. As if it’s not enough to keep us quiet by the sexual abuse itself, which usually is, they will threaten to physically harm and even KILL other family members, ESPECIALLY younger siblings.
I didn’t have younger siblings at the time but I did have young cousins and the last thing I wanted was for any of those little girls to suffer the flames 🔥 of HELL he put me thru.
You will likely see many more outward expressions and stories of sexual abuse more than physical abuse and that’s due to a few reasons.
1) the abuser wants to keep everything quiet, so the last thing he wants is to have physical outward signs of abuse.
2) The abusers usually don’t have to get to a point of physical abuse to control and manipulate. The sexual abuse is exceedingly enough.
Etc.
I hope that helps .❤️
Just how dismissive the women in her family were when she spoke about the abuse is beyond upsetting and disturbing.
Mothers and fathers, if your partner is abusive, PLEASE keep them away from your children. Please keep your babies close and pay attention to them. Ask them frequently what is going on in their sweet, precious little worlds and make sure they understand that NO ONE should touch their private places.. and they should not touch anyone else’s 🙏
Great advice!
Thank you for sharing. It's almost a taboo to share such abuse in Zambia thank you for being brave
Girl your whole family was abused and abused. You did not deserve that. No innocent young child deserves that no human being deserves that but now you come out stronger and thank you so much for sharing❤❤❤❤❤
I’m SO sorry this happened to you. So unfair how some are just surrounded by monsters from birth. And the poor mom to be constantly abused as well. I’m sorry you were failed by everyone but what a strong person you are. Keep your head up beautiful… love from Georgia in the United States
May she continue to be strong and may God bless her and her family ❤.
She was let down by so many people. Background music is too loud
That's why boys and girls should not share the same room at
What difference does it makes if they are still in the same household?
@@nadialove2048 facts lol
My heart hurts when I hear these stories
So sad I’m glad you survived
Strongest woman in the world ❤
U healing others that don't have the courage to speak
Another heartbreaking story. I’m disappointed that not one person cared enough to protect her. As moms it is our responsibility to ask our children if anyone has ever been inappropriate with them. Has anyone ever touched them or made feel uncomfortable. So much pain and trauma for one person to go through. ❤❤
A story from home makes these stories even more real, sad and scary 🥺
I’m Zambian too and these incest stories are so common and rarely punished :(
@@ChiyanatitoI keep hearing story after story from women on the continent. So many countries. And then victims are always blamed, just like most sexual assault victims here in the US.
Two ladies on this show, one from Nigeria, and one from Senegal (I think), even said that their moms put hot pepper in their wounds after they beat them or their moms would put freshly ground pepper in their private parts and rectum if they found out about them not being virgins. Moms who knew the girls’ virginities were Stolen. I’m so sorry. Jesus.
The background music is a little too loud this time
Agree. Too loud.
I dont hear any music
Background music is very distracting.
I agree as well. It also makes me anxious. It reminds me of music from a horror film when something bad is about to happen .
Exactly!
She went through so much. I do think since she went through all of this alone and the one time she tells anyone it’s her aunt that dismissed it. That’s an awful feeling. Then she thinks maybe call the abuse isn’t a big deal or that others go through it so I don’t need to speak up. She seen that reaching out for help when she was young didn’t matter.
I’m glad when she got older she finally has supportive friends that encouraged her to write a book that helps her and others. And her speaking out about the abuse to help others that can relate. It’s true that many people will belittle you or think it’s your fault you’ve been abused and that can make us feel ashamed for sharing our stories. As she said it’s our story and we will talk out it even if others don’t understand or choose not to understand.
Sis you've been through so much!
Im so sorry this happened to you
Wish I could give you a Hug! You truly are a Survivor! 🙏❤
RIP to your daughter 🕊😭
I am so shocked at your father's behaviour and sorry for what he did to you, I'm glad you got away and brought it all to light.
Well done
I feel for you
Only sad thing your brothers were not in prison
It also good thing they passed on
I send you so much healing Queen Mother🙏🏽✨✨✨💖
You have been through too much...may God bless you and the girls
Aww so sorry for what you went 😭 through
I'm soo sorry you went through all this abuse and pain and abuse 💔 you didn't deserve that treatment 💔 😔 it's not your fault please forgive yourself queen invite God into your life he will help you and humble you 😢this is soo sad Daddy and Brothers support to protect there's sister's 😢 God kept you 😢😢 sad you went through all this drama 😮😢😢
Being a teen sharing a room with ur brothers u dont think it shouldnt b happening
She wasn't a teen. The brother was a teenager. She was a small child.
Sorry this happen to you. Your story brought tears to my eyes. Of course as a child you can not comprehend sexual abuse or even what is happening or what it means. I can relate to being molested as a child. Also sitting to myself and no one coming to my help. To loose your daughter on top of all you have been through, I can't believe it, I am so sorry. I am balling my eyes out. No one can take away your memories of your beautiful little girl. Your a warrior and a strong, beautiful lady. You are suppose to be here to help others by sharing your story. You have helped me. Thanks for helping me to have a voice. I wish you love, light, peace and continuous healing.💕🙏🏾💕
Jesus Christ our Lord & Savior. Protect her & her healing process. May she truly TRULY FORGIVE & LIVE in Ur PEACE & JOY 4eva, Amen 🙏🏽 🙌 ❤️ 😇
*Psalms 147:3* ❤️🩹🩸
*”He healeth the broken in heart, and bindeth up their wounds.”*
♥️ *ALL SOULS MATTER* ♥️
*Eternal life is a FREE GIFT.*
Romans 5:15 KJB “But not as the offence, so also is the *free gift.* For if through the offence of one many be dead, much more the grace of God, and the gift by grace, which is *by one man,* *Jesus Christ,*hath abounded unto many.”
1 John 5:13 KJB “These things have I written unto you that *believe on the name of the Son of God;* that *ye may know that ye have eternal life,* and that ye may believe on the name of the Son of God.”
Romans 5:6 KJB
“For when we were yet without strength, in due time *Christ died for the ungodly.”*
*Jesus did it ALL and paid it ALL with His Blood, because we couldn’t without going to hell forever. False (works) gospels seek to exalt a sinner’s ability to save themselves, which is impossible, while the true gospel of our salvation exalts the Lord Jesus Christ alone and His shed Blood (Romans 3:25 KJB).*
*Romans 1:16a*
*”For I am not ashamed of the gospel of Christ: for it is the power of God unto salvation to every one that believeth;”*
Galatians 2:21
*”I do not frustrate the grace of God: for if righteousness come by the law, then Christ is dead in vain.”*
Romans 4:5
*”But to him that worketh not, but believeth on him that justifieth the ungodly, his faith is counted for righteousness.”*
*Ephesians 1:13*
“In whom *ye also trusted,* after that *ye heard* the word of truth, *the gospel* of your salvation: in whom also after that *ye believed,* *ye were sealed* with that holy Spirit of promise,”
*THE GOSPEL* of *our salvation* is given to *us* specifically by *our* appointed *Apostle PAUL* in *1 Corinthians 15:1-4 KJB:*
15 Moreover, brethren, *I declare unto you the gospel* which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand;
2 By which also ye are saved, if ye keep in memory what I preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain.
3 For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that *CHRIST DIED FOR OUR SINS* according to the scriptures;
4 And that *HE WAS BURIED* , and that *HE ROSE AGAIN* the third day according to the scriptures:
*THE SIMPLICITY OF SALVATION: BELIEVE (TRUST) THAT JESUS CHRIST DIED-SHEDDING HIS BLOOD AS THE PAYMENT FOR ALL YOUR SINS, HE WAS BURIED & ROSE AGAIN THE THIRD DAY* on *YOUR behalf.* They very moment you *believe,* you will *receive* the *free gift* of salvation *instantly* and *irreversibly.*
To be *born again* means to be *saved* ♥️
Galatians 1:8
“But though we, or an angel from heaven, *preach any other gospel* unto you than that which we have preached unto you, *let him be accursed.”*
John 10:28
“And I give unto them eternal life; and
*they shall never perish,* neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.”
*Ephesians 2:8-9 KJB*
*”For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.*”
*Repentance* is *a change of mind*
*When you change your mind about the way of salvation to believing (trusting) in Jesus Christ as your only way to Heaven, you have repented. Though it is natural to think that you can earn your way to Heaven by good works, you cannot. When you understand that you are a sinner and cannot save yourself, and instead trust in Jesus Christ as your only means of salvation, you have repented.*
*Romans 11:29*
*”For the gifts and calling of God are without repentance.”*
*GOD BLESS* 🙏🏼
I am so sad😢that you went through this with people who was suppose to love and protect you 🙏🏾🙏🏾I pray that you and your daughter's have a beautiful blessed and abundant life🙏🏾❤️🙌🏿
Cant believe this happens in my home country, im so sorry you werent protected, wishing you happiness for the rest of your days 💚❤️🖤💛
💯💖 You're stunning!
🤸🏻
So sorry you had to go through so much!!! God Bless you ✝️✝️✝️
I'm sorry girl ❤ please don't give up, this video proves how strong and brave tou are after surpass all that shit and tell it, maybe helping others with yur history, never give up ❤
What a strong queen 🙌🏽🙏🏽
I'm sorry this happened to you. These things should not happen. God's continual healing to you and your family.
Your father and your brothers sound like horrible people, you 3 women had no outlet from the abuse at home. I’m so sorry your loved ones did this to you,you did not deserve this. I’m happy you are safe and getting your story heard today ❤
Her brothers where just children and not horrible people because they were also victims of abuse too. And why aren't you criticizing her mother who was an adult, for not protecting her children?? You're treating the mother as more of a victim than her brothers and the mother was the adult in the situation who had a choice to take the children out of that violent situation and she didn't.
@@Naturegurl124 Agree fully, the mother failed her children. A girl should NEVER share quarters with her brothers.
Me and my brothers shared a bedroom and none of them ever did anything to me obviously her brothers were being sexual abused as well it's very obvious @@Jaime-u5m
@@Naturegurl124- did she have a choice? How are divorced women treated in Zambia and how do they support themselves and their children?
@@djlivvy46 I mean I could say the same argument for her brothers though? My point is nobody should blame or hold her brothers responsible if they aren't going to hold her mother responsible first.
The ability to forgive just shows how strong that you are ❤ I can’t forgive but I wish I could.
Thank you for sharing your experience with us. ❤ God bless, you and your family!
Dang the mother in law was one of the most decent ppl and she wasn’t family
What a story. And you survived to tell your story. What a strong woman ❤ Much love and strength to you. Thanks for sharing your story.
VERY STRONG SISTER!
You are so bright. Thank you for sharing. I'm happy your babies have a protective mommy ❤
Im so sorry for everything that u went thru. May God give u the strength to heal 🙏
Bless you QUEEN...you deserve better...may you heal and live a better life without the generational curses, pain and traumas ..may your children not relive what you went through but learn what to do and what not to do and have good hearts and strength like you and get better and live better and make you proud and your ancestors proud, may this world be a better place, ASHE.
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You're a survivor
NOW YOU'RE GOING TO THRIVE ❤
Faith, hope, and love
Hugs 🤗
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God bless you and thanks for sharing your story
My children are 7,9,11,and 15 now and it is so heart breaking to hear. I cannot imagine.
What a tragic story but what a triumphant ending as well. May god continue to bless her.
God bless you , I pray for your continued strength and healing ❤
I am so sorry that you went through all of this, but guess what you were stronger than you thought you did not know your own strength, but God gave it to you
Prayers for your complete healing!❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏
Your children are so blessed to have you as their Mother. You are beautiful inside and out. Keep, keeping on my virtual sister 😊
I felt your pain 😭😭😭
I hope you the rest of your life to be full of blessings and love. Send you hugs.
Sending you Love and Light ❤🧡
As if the story was not devastating enough as she tells it, at 4:55 I GASPED.
I was seven years old the first time that I was sexually assaulted and raped by my uncle. I would never know my world as it was prior to the first assault.
My mother also turned a willful blind eye.
The VERY person who is SUPPOSED to PROTECT us. 😢
Geeze. I’m so very very sorry for the loss of your daughter. 😭
It’s a really long and arduous road to help oneself deal with the emotional trauma.
Only a week ago I tearfully put my dramatic, trauma-making family members in my rear view mirror, to stay.
Stay strong my love.
YOU ARE BRAVER than you think and YOU ARE ENOUGH.
I'm so sorry you went through that 💔 I will never understand how anyone could do such a thing to anyone, let alone a child. I hope he is in jail now
*Psalms 147:3* ❤️🩹🩸
*”He healeth the broken in heart, and bindeth up their wounds.”*
♥️ *ALL SOULS MATTER* ♥️
*Eternal life is a FREE GIFT.*
Romans 5:15 KJB “But not as the offence, so also is the *free gift.* For if through the offence of one many be dead, much more the grace of God, and the gift by grace, which is *by one man,* *Jesus Christ,*hath abounded unto many.”
1 John 5:13 KJB “These things have I written unto you that *believe on the name of the Son of God;* that *ye may know that ye have eternal life,* and that ye may believe on the name of the Son of God.”
Romans 5:6 KJB
“For when we were yet without strength, in due time *Christ died for the ungodly.”*
*Jesus did it ALL and paid it ALL with His Blood, because we couldn’t without going to hell forever. False (works) gospels seek to exalt a sinner’s ability to save themselves, which is impossible, while the true gospel of our salvation exalts the Lord Jesus Christ alone and His shed Blood (Romans 3:25 KJB).*
*Romans 1:16a*
*”For I am not ashamed of the gospel of Christ: for it is the power of God unto salvation to every one that believeth;”*
Galatians 2:21
*”I do not frustrate the grace of God: for if righteousness come by the law, then Christ is dead in vain.”*
Romans 4:5
*”But to him that worketh not, but believeth on him that justifieth the ungodly, his faith is counted for righteousness.”*
*Ephesians 1:13*
“In whom *ye also trusted,* after that *ye heard* the word of truth, *the gospel* of your salvation: in whom also after that *ye believed,* *ye were sealed* with that holy Spirit of promise,”
*THE GOSPEL* of *our salvation* is given to *us* specifically by *our* appointed *Apostle PAUL* in *1 Corinthians 15:1-4 KJB:*
15 Moreover, brethren, *I declare unto you the gospel* which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand;
2 By which also ye are saved, if ye keep in memory what I preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain.
3 For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that *CHRIST DIED FOR OUR SINS* according to the scriptures;
4 And that *HE WAS BURIED* , and that *HE ROSE AGAIN* the third day according to the scriptures:
*THE SIMPLICITY OF SALVATION: BELIEVE (TRUST) THAT JESUS CHRIST DIED-SHEDDING HIS BLOOD AS THE PAYMENT FOR ALL YOUR SINS, HE WAS BURIED & ROSE AGAIN THE THIRD DAY* on *YOUR behalf.* They very moment you *believe,* you will *receive* the *free gift* of salvation *instantly* and *irreversibly.*
To be *born again* means to be *saved* ♥️
Galatians 1:8
“But though we, or an angel from heaven, *preach any other gospel* unto you than that which we have preached unto you, *let him be accursed.”*
John 10:28
“And I give unto them eternal life; and
*they shall never perish,* neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.”
*Ephesians 2:8-9 KJB*
*”For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.*”
*Repentance* is *a change of mind*
*When you change your mind about the way of salvation to believing (trusting) in Jesus Christ as your only way to Heaven, you have repented. Though it is natural to think that you can earn your way to Heaven by good works, you cannot. When you understand that you are a sinner and cannot save yourself, and instead trust in Jesus Christ as your only means of salvation, you have repented.*
*Romans 11:29*
*”For the gifts and calling of God are without repentance.”*
*GOD BLESS* & much love ❤️ 🙏🏼
Thank you for sharing your story.
Her story touched me 😢💞
Wow - thank you for sharing your story-- I feel really impacted by your story and inspired -- God bless you ❤️
Alot of parents dont care
Sadly so true
Soooooo #TRUE, Sister 🎉
@@angelaholmes8888💯💯💯💯
Some ppl don’t deserve to be parents
You have gained another reader and follower from me now on. I am sorry, all from my my heart is love to you. Many do not understand this, l do for some reason, l feel you, my sister. Women have many sad stories that hurt deep. Abuse comes in many different forms in marriages, families, and what are supposed to be one's support systems. I pray for love in the world we live in on this side of life.
I am so sorry for what happened to you. WOW. You have endured such a hard life.
Honestly this is a success story. Not every survivor seems their rapists die. We will continue praying for this though. God or whomever has to listen at some point it’s been over 3000 years now.
I'm really sorry for what you went through
I never knew how much incest occured in our community
It is shocking. I had no idea either.
Yes a lot of our women are abused, lots of testimonial on this channel
I know a whole family like that. It’s sickening 😢
My brothers terrorize me wen I was 12 I hurt them both!!!
@@AlanaGurlAMEN AMEN, Sister, I knew quite a few, too🎉
You are a strong invincible woman. God is still with you. God don’t give you more than you can bear.
God bless you … thank you for sharing your story❤
My mom treated me the same way. I too had a very lonely and sad childhood. Only my favorite auntie talked to me. And was sexually abused at 10, molested at 15, anally raped at 17, raped vaginally by another. I hated my life. Also wished I was dead. God introduced me to the man he had for me so I'm learning to love myself, stop fearing men, and being happy
As the man (Gen 1:26-28) KJV, a husband (Gen 2:21-25) and a father (Gen 3:16), the minister of God (Rom 13), teacher (Eph 4) and one of the survivors who was bullied in school, I am so sorry this happened to you. Every time I see and/or hear anything like this, I see my wife or my daughters. If I could have protected you from being harmed by "it", I would have, but I can not be everywhere all at once. (1 John 4)
I wish I could hug you shaday , I am so sorry this has been done to you. I hope have gotten justice. I hope you recover and find peace.
I'm so sorry.💔.
I am really thinking about sharing my story.
Prayers for solace with the women and discipline for the men seeing themselves as the way and the life .. shame til they get rejected until they have isolation for enough time to see noone will tolerate this. Shame on family abusers
I'm sorry this happened to you. It's terrible how the abusers are usually closer than you think.
Well done you xx
OMG I can relate to this lady. I was abused sexually by men known to my family and my father wasn’t at home due to work and galavanting around with other women. We only discovered when we paid for him to visit us in 🏴 when we discovered he was HIV positive. My mom fortunately she didn’t contract the virus. My sister above me told me that she was also abused by our home help who was a male au pair. She then told my toxic sister who rang my father in Africa informing him about it and my father wanted to pass on the blame onto my mother who also didn’t know about the abuse that was going on.
Very beautiful and classy young lady. Beautiful accent! I understand her pain. My mother just played it off too. Had to protect her special, beloved baby! Its like she wanted him to b e her special little man!
Poor girl❤ u r so strong. Give your pain to the Lord and accept him as your saviour and you will know true love. 🌈🥰🙏❤️🙏
I feel so sorry,Sendung u Love
So sad I feel so sorry for her
Yeah the anger is so unreal.. it’s like why did this happen to me??
This is infuriating.. the women in my family were matriarchs. They ran the household. Even when they were poor and lived in shotgun homes and shacks as sharecroppers... my grandma and great grandma didn't play. My mother says I'm a lot like my grandma. I will take a skillet to your head if you mess with me or mine, thank God I've never been thru anything like this because I'd probably be in jail. I feel so deeply pained by all these stories..its unimaginable what A LOT of women all over this globe has been thru at the hands of men.
Everyone failed this girl smh its unbelievable.
Your Father had a demon spirit 😢
Brothers too
@@ceceprincess4758No her brothers where victims of abuse too
@@Naturegurl124so what. Its not an excuse for them to abuse their sister.
@@LatiWins If she was taught that being treated like that was normal and acceptable then her brothers were also taught it's normal and acceptable to treat women like that. They were both victims of that family
Sounds like an epidemic because this happens so often. Nobody deserves to be traumatized and abused like this. I pray you get to recover and never have this or put up with it. I believe the numbers are much higher than reports on abuse.
I think some teachers don't want to get involved and adult act like they don't know children need to be payed attention protection. You have the right to be angry and also the right to love and protect yourself as an adult
Yes you are right there are some horrible teachers that couldn't care less if a child has been abused
I feel so bad for your mother and you , I know African women go through a lot.
I am sorry this happened to you , you did not deserve this at all
God is good
The background music either needs to be turned down to barely noticeable or not used at all.
Didn't their dad know wtf he was doing wrong acting violent like that towards his family hurting them very badly!?😓
God bless you. 💕💕
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The people who don't believe it are narcissist who can't emphasize unfortunately! Thet have to be ignored and you keep telling your story.
Many Blessings!!
I’m so sorry this was your life 😢 this should have never happened to you 😞
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Shame on that mother to abuse her children. She should've had tht shame aggression towrds the father thr was beating her & her babies. Truly sick ppl out here.
God bless yall on what yall do always from Jeff
This lady went through hell
❤QUEEN❤
I can do without the music. The music is so annoying.