my exact same feelings. the moment i realized it was her i wouldve hung up. she doesnt deserve one word from me if she leaves me high and dry at the altar on our wedding day. and u can hear the tone in her voice. shes just like "ughhh whatever can u take care of me and my bastards or not"
Not to mention, completely disappeared without even an explanation. This is the type of woman who will destroy a man to the point he deletes himself, but if a man yells at her, ''oh, he was abusive"
@@simjam1980 i had a girl do me dirty as hell. when it didnt work out with her next two boyfriends and she wated to come back i said she was a bitch. she truly believed i was abusive for calling her a bitch. these women are fuckin demons.
It's so tempting to tell them how hurt you are, but that's just attention and validation to them. Better to go 100% no contact. Silence is an incredibly powerful weapon. I really get how f'ed up he feels, but she will never empathize no matter what he says to her.
Please don't take her back . My heart is breaking for this man. I'm literally in tears because I can't imaging treating my man like this.😔😔 She will use you if you take her back my guy and you will be heart broken for a second time. Please know your worth. If your girl isn't completely and totally obsessed with you from the beginning she isn't the one. PERIOD. Marry the girl that simps over you instead of the other way around.
If a woman or man really truly love each other they would not leave them at the altar. And she would have ask him first if he's cheated instead of listening to her single bitter friends that's why I always tell others be careful who yours friends are
I had to divorce a cheater in 1972. She went from most beloved to a Saturday night pump&dump. After six years on the carousel, she knew what she had lost. When she asked to come back, I had one word for her: "No". Most recently, a hot/crazy that I got rid of in 1997 phoned me for a second chance...26 years later! The first one I dated and the last one I dated were both the same. Remorseful cheaters. They never change.
After 12 years, she's just a person I know. Not intimate, no sexual desire. No second chance. Good, she's ok, but the interest is non-existent. Plus, there's no trust, no loyalty, and a large lack of respect. Not bitter, just wiser
Ah nah he agreed to let her have his number and reconnect, I all of the sudden don’t feel bad for him anymore. Brother, YOU. DONT. NEED. THAT. MESS! The moment I realized who was on the other end of the phone line is the moment I hang up. If someone doesn’t respect you, if they disrespect you, you have to respect yourself to let them go/cut them loose.
"Aubrey said you cheated on me" "Well, that's not true" *Ignores that statement and goes on. If this woman still thought he cheated, she couldn't gloss over this sentence. She already knew the truth and continued to chase Chad.
She probably made it up as an excuse. If it was true, it would have been front and center in her story. She almost certainly cheated. I wouldn't be at all surprised if she's coming back now because she's a single mother. Dude needs to stay away from her. He'll never get honesty or closure out of her. (Btw Aubrey is the ex and the sister who she says claimed he cheated was never named.)
She doesn't feel bad in the least and she has no regard, love or respect for him, she's just absolutely desperate for someone to fix her self made problems.
Ladies please understand this if your single friends tell you your BF/Husband is cheating on you please do some research or hired a PI it can show you who your friends really are
is he takes her back after that he is just setting himself for suicide. that woman doesnt love him, she is just settling, the moment another opportunity arrives she is going to betray him again, and that time, the blow is going to be too much. the guy is clearly still healing from the first backstab, he took 12 years and he is still not healed, a second backstab and he is done. but even if she doesnt do it, he will never EVER stop thinking about it, about "what if she leaves me again?" question, he cant have a happy life with that woman around. he needs to move on and either find another woman or stay single, but taking that one back? that is like putting all your potential happiness in life in a rocket to mars and wave it goodbye on the launch
It's like someone drowning, they will hold on to anything that comes their way to keep from sinking, even if it's the hand of the person who threw them into the sea. These presenters should be empathetic enough and not allow her to talk to him, this woman turned him into a zombie.
Exactly. He wants her to know how she made him feel, but she just doesn't care. It's just validation that he loved her so much, proving how awesome she must be, that he's still hurting so much all these years later. Healing will come from within. It will require help from a psychologist, priest, parent, friend, etc... nearly anybody EXCEPT her. He needs to stay no contact. Oh and after all this time, resuming contact via a radio show? TACKY
@@Murph_gaming I know dude. That's why I moved 500km and 8 hours away. We have a no contact order for just such a reason. I honestly don't know what would happen if she stood within arms reach, but I know it wouldn't be a hug and good feelings. Hopefully we'll never find out. Thanks for your advice!!!
Do not believe for a second she was told he was cheating. She left cause there was someone else. Her first reaction would’ve been to confront him on those allegations. But she left. Someone else was pulling her strings.
Man, I really feel bad for the guy in the first video. You can hear the pain in his voice for all the emotional damage he's dealt with since his ex-fiancee left him & then remembering the pain again. He shouldn't be talking to her anymore after this. Her friend who started that rumor mostly deserves the blame for starting this & for possibly destroying a genuine relationship.
It's both. It's a feeling at first - combination of admiration and sympathy. It's a decision - to keep creating that love, that relationship, contributing to it. Most people "put it on automatic", then wonder why the feeling disappears over time. It disappears for the same reason a house plant disappears when you neglect to water it.
An absolute fool to talk to her again. She left him at the altar based on a rumor? If she left him once, she'll do it again, probably when another rumor gets started. If he takes her back, he's a fool and a SIMP.
Little brother, the Lord took her out of your life for a reason it’s messed up. She left you at the altar, but the Lord did it for a reason I wouldn’t entertain it anymore. All you doing is gonna fuck up your peace.
This friend of hers wanted to destroy her relationship so she told lies to get her to believe her man is cheating. Women tend to believe everything their friends say. Now she wants to come back because it did not work out with the so called Chad. I don't think he should entertain her
I can see why she left him. The man has no self respect. After all these years I would have expected him to be older and wiser. If this is the older wiser version of him, no wonder she didn't want to marry him. But, leading him on until he was at th3 alter was unforgivable
That guy ... i pity him for agreeing to talk to her . She has poor impulse control and he is the safe guy to settle with. To her he is the simp he has always been.
I can't believe that he said yes when they asked if they could give that 403 his number. I would've told her to take a head-first dive into an operational wood-chipper.
First of all, this is a evil manipulative selfish person. If she actually cared about the man, she wouldn't call a radio show where possibly thousands if not millions of people are listening and publicly humiliate him again. It shows two things, she cares nothing about his feelings, and she has been plotting and planning this. She's using the radio show as an obligation trap. My guess is she's been cyberstalking him and sees he's probably doing very well for himself and she on the other hand is broke. Her only words to him were, "Sorry" like she forgot to pick up dinner on her way home 12 years ago. That excuse about someone telling her he was cheating on her sounded like a lie.
He is ok taking her back 😮 - what woman can respect a man that is that weak, i believe we should all forgive and move on, dwelling in the past is not a smart move.
I might not be an expert when it comes to relationships. But I personally believe that Love is NOT a decision. Commitment, however, is in fact a decision. This is the main reason why open marriages work for some folks. Even though I could never be involved in those types of polyamorous relationships, I can understand how the term Swingers came to be 😉 As far as the first case you showed, I can't help but feel for that dude. I'm sure the girl just wants him back for money or something along those lines! 😕
Even in an open relationship you still take the risk of catching some STD and be ill. I suspect the girl to be in her late 30s and I know why the guy is willing to take a chance with her because he wants to know WHY she left him. This guy wants to close a painful chapter in his life and move on. Listening to his voice you can tell there are many conflicting emotions. As soon as HE hears WHY he is out the door.
@@Murph_gaming I'm not ruling out the fact that love could be a choice in some instances. But it also happens when you least expect it. You can't really decide to fall in love with someone simply cuz you feel physically attracted to them. It takes time as well as the recognition of compatibility. I guess the biggest tell that you have fallen for someone is when you start caring about their wellbeing in all aspects of life. You literally hurt when they hurt cuz you just want nothing but the very best for them! ✌🏻 There's also a spiritual component that is determined by our intuition. Like you just know deep down when a particular person has something special that no one else does. It's like you feel as if they were your soulmate or someone you're destined to be with. On top of that, their mere existence ignites cosmic sparks that manifest in the form of a tingly/ticklish sensation inside your chest and solar plexus!...They have the "it" factor so to speak. That's also why distance is not even an issue. At the end of the day, they're ALWAYS in your heart 💫💖💫
Im extremely pissed off at this guy to be honest. The second he heard that it was her on the phone he shouldve hung up. Hes going to let her do it again. After 12 years, fuck... even after one hour if a woman leaves you at the altar. Never talk to them again. Ever. They have traumatized you for life, they are either coming back to cause more damage because that makes them feel good about themselves, or you are their last option. And they have finally lost all of their other options.
That guy is completely destroyed and finished.
Never give this kind of power to a woman.
He sounds low T
@@totalradguy7739 yeah, more like the personification of zero T
12 years and he's still not over her?
Grow a FREAKIN' pair!!!!! MOVE ON!!!!!!
@@clarkkent6927 I listened to more of the original video. I think he had two other relationships but, they didn't last. Trust issues - go figure.
Spinning the block after 12 years of getting ran through. If he takes her back, he deserves all the trauma he endures. Smh
My G was heart broke ... ftb
Dude...what is there to talk about? I would outright refuse to speak to anyone who treated me that way.
my exact same feelings. the moment i realized it was her i wouldve hung up. she doesnt deserve one word from me if she leaves me high and dry at the altar on our wedding day. and u can hear the tone in her voice. shes just like "ughhh whatever can u take care of me and my bastards or not"
Probably to know himself more or for closure or for them to be together again. There are many reasons. It's all emotions.
@@clownman9404closure is only good for the person who did you wrong and not for you.
They always save the nice guys for last
They come back because they are desperate.
She knew she could come back to this loser and he'd still be pining for her.
If she thinks he is a cheater, why would she go back to him ? Does she have any accountability ?
Exactly, it was probably some made up excuse.
*’Nothing succeeds like a man you’ve just dumped!’*
Hes doomed again if he takes her back
Pay attention fellow guys.
NEVER take them back! Youre better than that.
12 years... After dumping the dude at the altar???
Un-fucking-believable.
The *A U D A C I T Y!!!*
Not to mention, completely disappeared without even an explanation. This is the type of woman who will destroy a man to the point he deletes himself, but if a man yells at her, ''oh, he was abusive"
@@simjam1980 i had a girl do me dirty as hell. when it didnt work out with her next two boyfriends and she wated to come back i said she was a bitch. she truly believed i was abusive for calling her a bitch. these women are fuckin demons.
that man should have hung up the phone soon as he heard that womans voice not tell her how he feels
It's so tempting to tell them how hurt you are, but that's just attention and validation to them. Better to go 100% no contact. Silence is an incredibly powerful weapon.
I really get how f'ed up he feels, but she will never empathize no matter what he says to her.
Please don't take her back . My heart is breaking for this man. I'm literally in tears because I can't imaging treating my man like this.😔😔 She will use you if you take her back my guy and you will be heart broken for a second time. Please know your worth. If your girl isn't completely and totally obsessed with you from the beginning she isn't the one. PERIOD. Marry the girl that simps over you instead of the other way around.
If a woman or man really truly love each other they would not leave them at the altar. And she would have ask him first if he's cheated instead of listening to her single bitter friends that's why I always tell others be careful who yours friends are
@@clarkkent6927 exactly why I have no friends. They all tried to ruin my relationship the minute they seen me happy and thriving with my man
I don't think either sex should be simping for the other, it's not healthy.
Oh, he was supposedly cheating. What a gutless woman. She played the victim how unusual???
Subosably? WTF does that mean?
@@11C1P I think he meant supposedly lol
I was screaming at the computer screen saying LEAVE HER TO THE STREETS!
Stop the cap you weren't screaming at all.
I had to divorce a cheater in 1972. She went from most beloved to a Saturday night pump&dump. After six years on the carousel, she knew what she had lost. When she asked to come back, I had one word for her: "No". Most recently, a hot/crazy that I got rid of in 1997 phoned me for a second chance...26 years later! The first one I dated and the last one I dated were both the same. Remorseful cheaters. They never change.
After 12 years, she's just a person I know. Not intimate, no sexual desire. No second chance. Good, she's ok, but the interest is non-existent. Plus, there's no trust, no loyalty, and a large lack of respect.
Not bitter, just wiser
Sometimes they come back. Steven King.😮
Ah nah he agreed to let her have his number and reconnect, I all of the sudden don’t feel bad for him anymore. Brother, YOU. DONT. NEED. THAT. MESS! The moment I realized who was on the other end of the phone line is the moment I hang up. If someone doesn’t respect you, if they disrespect you, you have to respect yourself to let them go/cut them loose.
"Aubrey said you cheated on me"
"Well, that's not true"
*Ignores that statement and goes on.
If this woman still thought he cheated, she couldn't gloss over this sentence. She already knew the truth and continued to chase Chad.
I noticed that too it went right over her head
She probably made it up as an excuse. If it was true, it would have been front and center in her story.
She almost certainly cheated. I wouldn't be at all surprised if she's coming back now because she's a single mother. Dude needs to stay away from her. He'll never get honesty or closure out of her.
(Btw Aubrey is the ex and the sister who she says claimed he cheated was never named.)
She doesn't feel bad in the least and she has no regard, love or respect for him, she's just absolutely desperate for someone to fix her self made problems.
This dude needs to tell her to come to the altar and not show up.
What a virgin loser he will be a fool to think she was ever in love with him .😢😮
Ladies please understand this if your single friends tell you your BF/Husband is cheating on you please do some research or hired a PI it can show you who your friends really are
Jesus, this dude sounds very weak. Don’t bring her back into your life, don’t be weak.
She was Patrick god .😮
This guy better not take this woman back ,After 12 years ,because she left him !!! So you better toughen up guy right now on this matter!!! 😤😤😤
Nooooo this guy is a fool. Dude it is not worth it at all
Audrey is a struggling single mother , this is the only reason why she calling him back!
Wanted to get out of the relationship but was too gutless to say she wanted out and wanted a reason without having to clarify it
She clearly has not changed a bit if she calls him and makes it available to the public to see. Run as fast as you can and don't look back
This is the most painful call ever ,,,I'm so angry like it's me,,,I wouldn't talk to her for a second not to even discuss about return
is he takes her back after that he is just setting himself for suicide. that woman doesnt love him, she is just settling, the moment another opportunity arrives she is going to betray him again, and that time, the blow is going to be too much. the guy is clearly still healing from the first backstab, he took 12 years and he is still not healed, a second backstab and he is done.
but even if she doesnt do it, he will never EVER stop thinking about it, about "what if she leaves me again?" question, he cant have a happy life with that woman around. he needs to move on and either find another woman or stay single, but taking that one back? that is like putting all your potential happiness in life in a rocket to mars and wave it goodbye on the launch
She got ran through in the streets
It's like someone drowning, they will hold on to anything that comes their way to keep from sinking, even if it's the hand of the person who threw them into the sea. These presenters should be empathetic enough and not allow her to talk to him, this woman turned him into a zombie.
She coming back to him because she wants to secure her pension.
He hasn’t done the work to heal. She broke this man. On some level she’s thrilled that she could have affected someone so profoundly.
Exactly. He wants her to know how she made him feel, but she just doesn't care. It's just validation that he loved her so much, proving how awesome she must be, that he's still hurting so much all these years later.
Healing will come from within. It will require help from a psychologist, priest, parent, friend, etc... nearly anybody EXCEPT her. He needs to stay no contact.
Oh and after all this time, resuming contact via a radio show? TACKY
I haven't spoken to my ex in like 8 years. She literally ruined me. I've told doctors that if I see her ever again, I couldn't guarantee her safety.😕
Naw that's not cool man, no matter how much pain you must always remember that being the better person is always a choice.
@@Murph_gaming I know dude. That's why I moved 500km and 8 hours away. We have a no contact order for just such a reason. I honestly don't know what would happen if she stood within arms reach, but I know it wouldn't be a hug and good feelings. Hopefully we'll never find out. Thanks for your advice!!!
@@Murph_gamingWrong
Do not believe for a second she was told he was cheating. She left cause there was someone else. Her first reaction would’ve been to confront him on those allegations. But she left. Someone else was pulling her strings.
Man, I really feel bad for the guy in the first video. You can hear the pain in his voice for all the emotional damage he's dealt with since his ex-fiancee left him & then remembering the pain again. He shouldn't be talking to her anymore after this. Her friend who started that rumor mostly deserves the blame for starting this & for possibly destroying a genuine relationship.
It's both.
It's a feeling at first - combination of admiration and sympathy.
It's a decision - to keep creating that love, that relationship, contributing to it.
Most people "put it on automatic", then wonder why the feeling disappears over time.
It disappears for the same reason a house plant disappears when you neglect to water it.
The Sad fact of giving her another chance after leaving him for 12 years, now she won’t respect him..
Dude. Run and keep running from this woman. She will only hurt you again.
Unbelievable!!!
Ohh man you do not learn but you will learn the hard way
Homie doesn't know. Be we all know.
Yea if that was me I would have just hung up the phone
An absolute fool to talk to her again. She left him at the altar based on a rumor? If she left him once, she'll do it again, probably when another rumor gets started. If he takes her back, he's a fool and a SIMP.
Little brother, the Lord took her out of your life for a reason it’s messed up. She left you at the altar, but the Lord did it for a reason I wouldn’t entertain it anymore. All you doing is gonna fuck up your peace.
He should say "No."
Dam this guy reminds me of forest an jenny.
This friend of hers wanted to destroy her relationship so she told lies to get her to believe her man is cheating. Women tend to believe everything their friends say. Now she wants to come back because it did not work out with the so called Chad. I don't think he should entertain her
Thats fukup!
Congratulations you played yourself
I can see why she left him. The man has no self respect. After all these years I would have expected him to be older and wiser. If this is the older wiser version of him, no wonder she didn't want to marry him. But, leading him on until he was at th3 alter was unforgivable
That guy ... i pity him for agreeing to talk to her . She has poor impulse control and he is the safe guy to settle with. To her he is the simp he has always been.
This dude.... tell that 304 to pound sand...
I can't believe that he said yes when they asked if they could give that 403 his number. I would've told her to take a head-first dive into an operational wood-chipper.
First of all, this is a evil manipulative selfish person. If she actually cared about the man, she wouldn't call a radio show where possibly thousands if not millions of people are listening and publicly humiliate him again. It shows two things, she cares nothing about his feelings, and she has been plotting and planning this. She's using the radio show as an obligation trap. My guess is she's been cyberstalking him and sees he's probably doing very well for himself and she on the other hand is broke. Her only words to him were, "Sorry" like she forgot to pick up dinner on her way home 12 years ago. That excuse about someone telling her he was cheating on her sounded like a lie.
He avoided being 12 years a slave.
He is ok taking her back 😮 - what woman can respect a man that is that weak, i believe we should all forgive and move on, dwelling in the past is not a smart move.
Runaway bride. He is not coming back to you. He will ignore you. and not return
HE SHOULD HAVE NOT RESPONDED. HE SHOULD HAVE PRETENDED HE DIDNT KNOW HER. WHAT A SIMP
Hey dude, man up. Damn...
I might not be an expert when it comes to relationships. But I personally believe that Love is NOT a decision. Commitment, however, is in fact a decision. This is the main reason why open marriages work for some folks. Even though I could never be involved in those types of polyamorous relationships, I can understand how the term Swingers came to be 😉
As far as the first case you showed, I can't help but feel for that dude. I'm sure the girl just wants him back for money or something along those lines! 😕
Even in an open relationship you still take the risk of catching some STD and be ill. I suspect the girl to be in her late 30s and I know why the guy is willing to take a chance with her because he wants to know WHY she left him. This guy wants to close a painful chapter in his life and move on. Listening to his voice you can tell there are many conflicting emotions. As soon as HE hears WHY he is out the door.
@@Enrique-qy1ki 💯
Love is a choice as much as it is a feeling and also an action.
@@Murph_gaming I'm not ruling out the fact that love could be a choice in some instances. But it also happens when you least expect it. You can't really decide to fall in love with someone simply cuz you feel physically attracted to them. It takes time as well as the recognition of compatibility. I guess the biggest tell that you have fallen for someone is when you start caring about their wellbeing in all aspects of life. You literally hurt when they hurt cuz you just want nothing but the very best for them! ✌🏻
There's also a spiritual component that is determined by our intuition. Like you just know deep down when a particular person has something special that no one else does. It's like you feel as if they were your soulmate or someone you're destined to be with. On top of that, their mere existence ignites cosmic sparks that manifest in the form of a tingly/ticklish sensation inside your chest and solar plexus!...They have the "it" factor so to speak. That's also why distance is not even an issue. At the end of the day, they're ALWAYS in your heart 💫💖💫
It's a fake sketch the radio show is doing for views.
Run forest. Run.
Women are unbelievable
The guy is a simp … that is why she came back
Oh BTW this was a skit by the two callers. I looked into it and apparently, this was a prank by two friends because they thought it would be funny.
Im extremely pissed off at this guy to be honest. The second he heard that it was her on the phone he shouldve hung up. Hes going to let her do it again. After 12 years, fuck... even after one hour if a woman leaves you at the altar. Never talk to them again. Ever. They have traumatized you for life, they are either coming back to cause more damage because that makes them feel good about themselves, or you are their last option. And they have finally lost all of their other options.
Im sure he took her back ..he sounds like a simp
Please don't
These millennials and their use of "literally" ...LMFAO They come off as such doofuses lol
I don't think he knows what literally means
@@ivanochoa542Americans don't know what literally means. English is hard for them.
I am sorry for u, but stop simping!
yowai.
Jenny