Family Ties: The Story of Adeline Yen Mah

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  • Опубликовано: 11 ноя 2024

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  • @owenlewis9505
    @owenlewis9505 6 лет назад +381

    RIP PLT like if you know what I mean😭😭

  • @KING-bt1tm
    @KING-bt1tm 6 лет назад +190

    Even PLT was brutally abused by her family.

  • @curlwhurl8054
    @curlwhurl8054 6 лет назад +69

    I read this book and was fascinated with it when I was in highschool. And now at 21 it has pride place in my bookshelf of my own place. I want to read it again soon and see how I process it as an adult. I googled her the other day and was thrilled to find out that she is still alive at the amazing age of 80!!!!! Such an incredible, beautiful woman.💕💖💕

  • @RG-ml8ji
    @RG-ml8ji 6 лет назад +92

    She is such a strong and intelligent person growing up with all the discriminations against girls . Very impressive that she has the tremendous strength to grow up to be so successful and even helping women to gain an equality status in mankind in our modern society .

  • @triplea3630
    @triplea3630 7 лет назад +80

    I read this book and I cried and CRIED ;0;

  • @cynthiahawkins2389
    @cynthiahawkins2389 7 лет назад +113

    The ill treatment and, emotional abuse of innocent youngsters when a family expands to become... 'step' is, unfortunately, a very common story. The cruelty Adeline suffered, (which in no way do I condone) informed and, shaped her for a lifetime. But, she turned it into a kind of triumph, with understanding and even compassion toward people who clearly did not deserve it...And I must say I admire her enormously. She did indeed reach a kind of closure. She was a wife, a loving mother. She was successful in her career. And now writes and travels widely.

  • @lissmc.x
    @lissmc.x 5 лет назад +91

    What I want to know is, does she still know wu chun mei . Wu chun mei was a good friend

    • @Queenofthemall1445
      @Queenofthemall1445 4 года назад +14

      She has said online on her website that she no longer has any contact with wu chun mei and hasnt since she left shanghai when she was 10

  • @lunairies
    @lunairies 3 года назад +16

    I read Chinese Cinderella when I was a child and I'll never forget it. Thank you, Adeline Yen Mah for your courage and bravery.

  • @marymaedimakiling5110
    @marymaedimakiling5110 4 года назад +21

    I just accidentally discovered her book online and I got sad and fell in love with it. I am totally inspired Adeline so much!
    After years of rejection and abuse, at least, she has a great and awesome ambition, and most importantly, she has now her own family, her husband and loving children who truly supports and love her much in heart more than her own previous family in the past.

  • @lilyoregan3892
    @lilyoregan3892 6 лет назад +117

    I think she's a reallt pretty woman! Her Niang used call her ugly ! She's far from it

  • @eml1618
    @eml1618 4 года назад +26

    She is my absolute inspiration, the fact that she become so successful was really satisfying. I even wonder what Niang would've thought of how beautiful she grew up to be.

  • @goldreverre
    @goldreverre 3 года назад +23

    I just read Chinese Cinderella in one sitting today. 5 hours straight with a riveting book... I came in search of further info on how things turned out. It's so satisfying to see Adeline in this doco looking so beautiful and strong. I think I fell in love a little bit with her. I especially appreciated being taken through the house in Shanghai and knowing so freshly the pathos behind her tour there and her reminiscence of Ye ye and Aunt Baba. 加油 五妹

  • @WasimFazal07
    @WasimFazal07 7 лет назад +71

    The stepmother niang is vile

  • @KP-zd3hc
    @KP-zd3hc 4 года назад +39

    I also feel bad for Susan. She was disowned by her own parents because of her mother’s irrational hatred.

    • @BookieMonsterr
      @BookieMonsterr 2 года назад +6

      Yes, and I feel that James was spineless.

    • @johnburkardt3202
      @johnburkardt3202 2 года назад +5

      @@BookieMonsterr Like father, like son the father is the most contemptuous person in her book.

    • @EdwardLee-m9z
      @EdwardLee-m9z 5 месяцев назад

      @@BookieMonsterr pity him, don't despise him. he is simply a male version of Adeline without her inner strength

  • @yongong683
    @yongong683 7 лет назад +30

    Many thanks for posting this. Had read Dr. Adeline Yen Mah's book "Falling Leaves" when it came out in 1997. Saw the above clip when it was first shown on BBC Two in August 2000,

  • @gabriellagonzalez9311
    @gabriellagonzalez9311 2 года назад +4

    I don't know how I came upon this book in middle school, but it was the most intense book I'd ever read in my life. There was an older lady who actually took my book and never gave it back. I appreciated this book and all this woman went through. After everything she went through, she stood tall and showed her life. This is the meaning of showing others that we are not alone.

  • @opinionatedwhitegirl8111
    @opinionatedwhitegirl8111 6 лет назад +18

    thanks for making this, read this when I was 16; 33 now and still think about it

  • @thatsnotmyname4238
    @thatsnotmyname4238 3 года назад +19

    When her dad didn't know her name. That got me.

  • @lucycairney9456
    @lucycairney9456 5 лет назад +25

    I’m currently reading this book and when I found out it was real I couldn’t believe it people were treated like this

  • @julianawinter3423
    @julianawinter3423 3 года назад +10

    I cannot tell you how many times I cried while reading this book 😭. I read Frank McCourts and Malachy McCourt’s memoir about death but she made me cry more then anything. She was amazing and so strong 🥺

  • @lfork
    @lfork Год назад +4

    So happy to see her friends in this video. I’ve always wondered whether she has kept in touch with the girls in sacred heart, especially her best friend Mary

  • @eml1618
    @eml1618 3 года назад +12

    Adeline remained a level headed, a dignified and notable women, above her resentful family. I hope she knows she is a strong women and her past relationship with her despicable Niang and sister will not define her and weigh her down. Adeline, I hope you now live a wonderful life you always deserved!

  • @LovingCharice
    @LovingCharice 7 лет назад +16

    Thank you for posting this video. I really love her story

  • @gracecannell9226
    @gracecannell9226 3 года назад +3

    What an amazing woman. I've reread her book as an adult, I don't think I appreciated it as much as a child reading it at school. Her words brought me to tears, for her sad upbringing and for her strength throughout and after to speak up.

  • @venx5804
    @venx5804 4 года назад +14

    I’m a chaotic person;^;
    But I cried while reading the book:”)
    It was also the longest book I read:)
    And I swear this is such an inspirational book

  • @dreamyx01
    @dreamyx01 Год назад +5

    I recently found this book on a free book table. I’m almost finished the book. I can’t believe what a horrible person Niang and the father was. Really the whole bunch was poison. It was totally the father’s fault not obeying the Dr’s orders to have Adeline’s mother admitted to the hospital after her birth complications.

  • @sydthonyc4939
    @sydthonyc4939 3 года назад +3

    Chinese Cinderella was my favorite book and has gotten me through some tough times

  • @James_Bowie
    @James_Bowie 3 года назад +9

    At 27:01 "nothing was left to me". That is completely at odds with what she wrote in Falling Leaves. In Chapter 30 she wrote, quoting the contents of her father's will which her husband Bob found: "Father had divided his estate into seven shares. He left one share to me ... no share was left to Susan .. no share is to go to my daughter Lydia ... He at least did not exclude me." The fact that the evil Niang rewrote that will to exclude Adeline is beside the point. Her father did not exclude her from his own will.

    • @changeintheair9648
      @changeintheair9648 7 месяцев назад

      No, it is not at odds. Because in Chinese Cinderella - she only knew she was left with nothing. Later as she got older in Falling Leaves - she found out (quoting father's will content) BUT she was not privy to that when her father died. Niang was the one who said what was written in will (lied).

  • @hindusuresh6480
    @hindusuresh6480 6 лет назад +11

    i have read her books at school and i was like oml how have i not read this before!

  • @changbinsbowlcut8250
    @changbinsbowlcut8250 6 лет назад +59

    Anyone wonder where are her siblings??

    • @lilyoregan3892
      @lilyoregan3892 6 лет назад +30

      Cutie they don't speak to her she mentioned in another book. Since she wrote the book

    • @pabitrabaral6940
      @pabitrabaral6940 6 лет назад +4

      england

    • @tifftiff1230
      @tifftiff1230 6 лет назад +41

      l r I think I remember in one interview she mentions that her older brother read her book and felt bad for her and apologized.

    • @SUFAN-pt3rs
      @SUFAN-pt3rs 6 лет назад +8

      Tiffany12 that’s good

    • @tifftiff1230
      @tifftiff1230 6 лет назад +23

      SUFAN7152 yea, he told her he loved her too! :) he was the oldest out of the 3 brothers.

  • @tanishkasingh4353
    @tanishkasingh4353 5 лет назад +11

    Just read the book! Its beautiful 💖

  • @qiqiandtoan
    @qiqiandtoan 4 года назад +6

    In Hong Kong she is part of the A league based on where the people lived... we can all learn that even if you're at that "status" it doesn't drive happiness.

  • @danceoflotus3679
    @danceoflotus3679 4 года назад +6

    proud to say i finished reading the book📚

  • @cm4191
    @cm4191 3 года назад +8

    I know people are super against her stepmother but if u read carefully, she said ‘
    "My siblings, and maybe my father, blamed me for my mother's death," she explains. "My siblings said, you're bad luck, you brought death to our family. But my stepmother never said that to me; she told me I had bad blood from my mother, you're no good," she said.’ Her step mom treated her like shit bcs she was the only one that was disobedient and went up against her, her siblings were young but they’ve done the worst things I’ve ever seen being done by children. His father allowed the cruel bullies to happen and only sent her alone to orphanage.

  • @ellieodonovan8916
    @ellieodonovan8916 6 лет назад +32

    Do you still know wu chun mei

  • @jandl9417
    @jandl9417 5 месяцев назад

    I so respect and admire the inner strength and courage of Adeline. I admire her but have also a tender love for such a beautiful soul.

  • @jdmom29
    @jdmom29 2 года назад

    Thank you. I've searching for this.

  • @theoneudontknow4606
    @theoneudontknow4606 3 года назад +3

    This is an amazing book❤️❤️

  • @dazaisbandages75
    @dazaisbandages75 2 года назад +1

    I was in class when I found this while the teacher read Chinese Cinderella (a book about adeline life)

  • @peachrocker9716
    @peachrocker9716 7 лет назад +17

    I loved her book as a kid, but after reading WIld Swans by Jung CHang, I see Yen mah barely touched on the horrors of MAoist china. adeline never mentioned him as a bad person. But he created the bloody purge called the great leap forward, not to mention witch hunts and violence against dissidents

    • @diane-blairgoodpasture8804
      @diane-blairgoodpasture8804 Год назад +1

      She left China long before Mao came to power. Also, the story is about Adeline's relationship with her family. Mao is irrelevant in this case.

  • @symphoniaix2012
    @symphoniaix2012 2 года назад +3

    I’m currently reading the book Chinese Cinderella Niang is quite cruel!

  • @chanmanna7358
    @chanmanna7358 6 лет назад +10

    beautiful and tough Lady!

  • @zocchang
    @zocchang Год назад +1

    i’m reading chinese cinderella for a nonfic unit in my la class and the plot has been making me so upset 😞

  • @sngamergirl321
    @sngamergirl321 3 года назад +2

    I watched this in school I feel bad for her I've also read the book

  • @princessalexandra1613
    @princessalexandra1613 4 года назад +9

    Does anyone know what happened to Aunt Baba?

    • @fmh654
      @fmh654 4 года назад +11

      If you read falling leaves you'll find out that aunt baba died in the shanghai house of adelines childhood that adeline bought for her. Adeline visited her before she died.

    • @datminiplaysgames
      @datminiplaysgames 3 года назад

      @@fmh654 OMG WHY DID YOU SPOIL ITTTT

    • @datminiplaysgames
      @datminiplaysgames 3 года назад

      @@fmh654 ahhh now my life is ruined thank you. But its okay, just please put a *spoiler alert* warning next time please

    • @fmh654
      @fmh654 3 года назад +4

      @@datminiplaysgames Why did you view the replies

  • @symphoniaix2012
    @symphoniaix2012 2 года назад +2

    RIP Plt he was the best pet Adeline could have :(

  • @elipeeli
    @elipeeli 6 лет назад +6

    Queen Adeline

  • @mochitrash8743
    @mochitrash8743 6 лет назад +7

    Im reading the book right now and its amazing!

  • @Swaberrylemon
    @Swaberrylemon 3 года назад +3

    im cying i want to know more about her😭

  • @agatham.c.l.w330
    @agatham.c.l.w330 Год назад

    acabei de ler coração em cinzas(folhas caídas) e cinderela chinesa ... fico realmente triste por tudo que aconteceu com ela, porém super feliz também com o destino e a prosperidade dela ❤

  • @mrsjunggukie4923
    @mrsjunggukie4923 4 года назад +2

    We had to do this for our assignment

    • @regenapi
      @regenapi 3 года назад

      i’m doing it right now too lol

  • @digimonalvatrax2738
    @digimonalvatrax2738 7 лет назад +5

    feel sorry

  • @haych_219
    @haych_219 3 года назад

    We read the book of Chinese Cinderella
    teacher told me to watch this

  • @crewmatewillthrowthesehand7600
    @crewmatewillthrowthesehand7600 5 лет назад +5

    this is basically r/nuclearRevenge during the start of the 21st century. And she earns money as well.

  • @xlZer0n
    @xlZer0n 2 года назад

    The beginning looks like an Analog horror picture

  • @jennymcdonald855
    @jennymcdonald855 4 года назад

    Did she find an chen mai in the end

  • @clivechiam
    @clivechiam 5 лет назад +4

    I see she still takes number 11 rickshaw everywhere 😏

  • @garlic4202
    @garlic4202 3 года назад +8

    niang is rolling in her grave rn

  • @Noone-y1d
    @Noone-y1d 2 года назад

    I read the book

  • @sativa455
    @sativa455 3 месяца назад +1

    2024

  • @NOTLIZ
    @NOTLIZ 3 года назад +1

    does anyone have a cheesburger
    edit: 100th comment

  • @NatashaSingh988
    @NatashaSingh988 2 года назад +2

    " Uneducated women are virtuous being" How utterly pathetic and misleading can an outdated teaching sound.

  • @tareqgfdf7901
    @tareqgfdf7901 5 лет назад +1

    من مدرسه العهد ...يلي شافه 👍

  • @gabdbueno
    @gabdbueno 6 лет назад +8

    GRADE 8 BOOK LOLL

    • @ifrog751
      @ifrog751 4 года назад

      Gabriel Dwayne Corpuz bruh same