So much to watch out for financial, security, intentions, and trust. This needed to addressed and thank you so much as always Mrs Carey appreciate you.
Your a life saver. I am speaking to someone in Panama bay Florida I'm in port st lucie Florida. We actually know each other tho .I agree with everything u said. We both work but we have time for each other..we set up a time we are going to hang out with each other and everything... people are scammers an u got to be careful now a days guys. Listen to what this person is saying
Thanks Carey great protocal !! I unfortunately spent 8 months talking to someone sounded so sincere, excellent english grammer, never asked for anything...I was very nieve i had only been on an app 1 week, I lost 3 years getting through and over this horrible, destructive scam !!! I recently 6 months ago re engaged with dateing apps, tried 4 different ones, but seriously.....very hard to get a coffee meet up...I have just shut the apps down again the whole thing was very draining. :-( oh well hopeing to just meet someone randomly🤗love your video's
I’m so sorry that happened to you and hope that we can Save someone eight months… or three years of their life by just following this one rule for themselves. If you decide to stay on the apps just be assertive and stick to your guns with the one week timeframe! Ps. In person works too!
@@CoffeewithCarey thank you Cary I learnt my lesson and only told my story in the hope of helping others to realize..it may not be a money scam but more a very needy, narcisistic type who wants attention, it was an emotional rollercoaster ride. I'm stronger now and the whole experience was healing in the end as it shone a light on my 'need to please'. Childhood Abandonment Issues. It was a gamechanger for me. Thank again for your careing comments, love your grounded advise💖
I will pass this video along to a female friend who's in her 60's. She is on dating platforms and constantly being hit-up by scammers who all seem to use the same playbook: they are always out of the country never local; they only want to text never talk on phone; within a week they tell her they are madly in love with her and want to marry her; within 2 weeks they're asking her for money because of some dire emergency. My friend has actually been fooled by scammers. Maybe she'll listen to you. Thanks!
Just FYI I live on the west coast and will always have a Chicagoland area code. My mother chose it while I was in sixth grade and the last seven numbers are 823-4SAM. Not a scammer!
Except such a scammer! 😋😍 Also scammers can now mirror your area code anyway. But you can always Google the phone number or run a reverse check. My main point stands: if they’re not meeting you within the week you are no longer communicating!!
I've had one of them hit me up. In the military in Iraq and kept asking me about some sugar baby shit. It was a red flag for me so I stopped talking to them.
when the guys don't take no. I show them the photo of me with my Axel dakimauraka and say "I'm going to stick with the video game character" i think some are scammers, one was. he was going to do the google voice sim card scam
I’ve have another way of doing this, not that your advice isn’t helpful because it really is, find out their spiritual life if they’re a protestant, Catholic, and talk about Jesus, most scammers really won’t have much to say about this and that pretty much tells you all you need to know 🙏🏼✝️
This could work for people who are very religious and for whom their partner’s religious affiliation is important to them. Glad you found what works for you. 👍
I have a scammer and I am trying to find out who he really is, because i try to break it up with him but he got me under control and I am trying to get the hell out of this dump shit, But anyway I just wanted to find out who he really is so I can tell him that I am aware who he is.
I feel like I listen to my mom in heaven. I'm new to dating and this is very helpful. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. Kind Regards
Between Mom and some smart people on the Internet and following your gut… 👍
@@CoffeewithCarey thank you so much. Be well ♥️
So much to watch out for financial, security, intentions, and trust. This needed to addressed and thank you so much as always Mrs Carey appreciate you.
You need to watch for NONE OF THAT To start!! You ONLY need someone who shows up.
i would text to tell them that i am not interested in a relationship
Your a life saver. I am speaking to someone in Panama bay Florida I'm in port st lucie Florida. We actually know each other tho .I agree with everything u said. We both work but we have time for each other..we set up a time we are going to hang out with each other and everything... people are scammers an u got to be careful now a days guys. Listen to what this person is saying
Thanks Carey great protocal !! I unfortunately spent 8 months talking to someone sounded so sincere, excellent english grammer, never asked for anything...I was very nieve i had only been on an app 1 week, I lost 3 years getting through and over this horrible, destructive scam !!! I recently 6 months ago re engaged with dateing apps, tried 4 different ones, but seriously.....very hard to get a coffee meet up...I have just shut the apps down again the whole thing was very draining. :-( oh well hopeing to just meet someone randomly🤗love your video's
I’m so sorry that happened to you and hope that we can Save someone eight months… or three years of their life by just following this one rule for themselves. If you decide to stay on the apps just be assertive and stick to your guns with the one week timeframe!
Ps. In person works too!
@@CoffeewithCarey thank you Cary I learnt my lesson and only told my story in the hope of helping others to realize..it may not be a money scam but more a very needy, narcisistic type who wants attention, it was an emotional rollercoaster ride. I'm stronger now and the whole experience was healing in the end as it shone a light on my 'need to please'. Childhood Abandonment Issues. It was a gamechanger for me. Thank again for your careing comments, love your grounded advise💖
I will pass this video along to a female friend who's in her 60's. She is on dating platforms and constantly being hit-up by scammers who all seem to use the same playbook: they are always out of the country never local; they only want to text never talk on phone; within a week they tell her they are madly in love with her and want to marry her; within 2 weeks they're asking her for money because of some dire emergency. My friend has actually been fooled by scammers. Maybe she'll listen to you. Thanks!
Hopefully!
Im almost scammed
Almost doesn’t count, so good for you,
Stay diligent!
Brilliant advice, practical. Well done.
Thank you so much Johann.
Just FYI I live on the west coast and will always have a Chicagoland area code. My mother chose it while I was in sixth grade and the last seven numbers are 823-4SAM. Not a scammer!
Except such a scammer! 😋😍
Also scammers can now mirror your area code anyway. But you can always Google the phone number or run a reverse check.
My main point stands: if they’re not meeting you within the week you are no longer communicating!!
I've had one of them hit me up. In the military in Iraq and kept asking me about some sugar baby shit. It was a red flag for me so I stopped talking to them.
It is so true!
Thank you
Why even reply? Block and delete.
when the guys don't take no. I show them the photo of me with my Axel dakimauraka and say "I'm going to stick with the video game character" i think some are scammers, one was. he was going to do the google voice sim card scam
The only one I would date online would be my ex. He lives in WI. I am in GA
You only want to meet someone online that you already know and dated? 😳😂
Is it not dangerous to meet a stranger, one on one?
How else are you going to date?
@@CoffeewithCarey
I guess I have been watching too many crime shows, like this kind of 1st. meet-up
@@TP-vu3tc #PublicPlaces
I’ve have another way of doing this, not that your advice isn’t helpful because it really is, find out their spiritual life if they’re a protestant, Catholic, and talk about Jesus, most scammers really won’t have much to say about this and that pretty much tells you all you need to know 🙏🏼✝️
This could work for people who are very religious and for whom
their partner’s religious affiliation is important to them. Glad you found what works for you. 👍
are ladies pretending to be men on romance scams
Sure. There are groups of people, pretending to be everybody in huge call centers.
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You are beautiful inside and out!
Very sweet.
When going the date. And meet at a restaurant is it better to pay for your own meal ?
I think that episode is called ‘first date: who is paying?’
Is this a scam if your date ask you what you do for a living?
No. Everybody you meet wants to know what you do for a living
I have a scammer and I am trying to find out who he really is, because i try to break it up with him but he got me under control and I am trying to get the hell out of this dump shit, But anyway I just wanted to find out who he really is so I can tell him that I am aware who he is.
Just delete. He’s probably not even just one person. Move on…