Avoid These Common (Financially Devastating!) Mistakes Men Make During the Legal Process of Divorce

As a divorce coach these are the 3 most common (and costly!) legal errors I see men making during divorce. If you focus on this ONE strategy instead you can save yourself a lot of money, time and heartache.
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I’m Rachael Sloan, Master NLP Practitioner, certified life coach, and the creator of Better Beyond Divorce. I've helped hundreds of men move past the shock, betrayal, grief and anger they experience both during and after a divorce, to a place of clarity, calm and confidence. I hope to help you do the same.
DISCLAIMER: I am a Master NLP Practitioner and personal growth mentor. The material in this video represents my understanding and experience and nothing more. This content is not meant to replace professional medical advice, treatment or diagnosis. Always consult your medical provider before making any changes to your treatment.
Most men going through an unwanted divorce report decreased productivity at work. Many have to take time off, as they are unable to focus at the level their work requires. I recently interviewed a man who lost his business that was making multiple six figures each year and took a $60K year job because he simply couldn’t keep it together.
I see this again and again in my coaching - men losing tens, even hundreds of thousands of dollars because they lose the ability to do their work
When you’re in this incredibly dark and overwhelming time, with your nervous system activated intensely, you now have to make legal decisions that will impact you for years, possibly for the rest of your life.
In fight/flight we lose access to the higher executive functioning parts of the brain. These are the brain regions responsible for planning, balanced memory, focused attention and decision making.
You do not want these parts of your brain offline when you are making huge financial or custody decisions. Many men who are in fight/flight either give up far more than they should in the divorce (Like one of my clients who went from a beautiful house and big retirement to living out of his van and working nights at a dead end job) just to get it over with and stop the pain, or they are in full fight response and find themselves creating nasty legal battles that can last years and cost them incredible amounts of money.
And this isn’t the worst of it… if you approach the legal side of divorce in fight/flight, you won’t be able to make sound decisions around custody. Giving up too much or forcing a battle there can cost you your relationship with your kids.

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I’d add….. do not move out or relinquish the marital home if at all possible. It is hugely important in your retaining a relationship with your kiddos.

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