MICRO-CHEATING | Episode 133

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  • Опубликовано: 22 янв 2025

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  • @kirimikajuju
    @kirimikajuju 10 месяцев назад +118

    I'm so sorry Lydia and Murugi too for losing a loved one. The fact that you have continued to show up and give us engaging content ,at a time when it might feel easier to step away shows your commitment to your craft and audience. Please know that you have a supportive community of in-betweeners standing behind you, I offer my heartfelt condolences and unwavering appreciation for continuing to show up.❤❤❤

  • @hildamaloya5214
    @hildamaloya5214 9 месяцев назад +7

    Your friendship guys is so beautiful I really like it it's my prayer that you guys must remain friends forever.
    I think the other example of micro cheating is saving your X's photos in your phone,like taking them from social media and be saving them in your phone so that you can keep seeing them

  • @sellahchabe1248
    @sellahchabe1248 10 месяцев назад +57

    Lydias hair is giving ❤❤.You look good ladies .

  • @peruthmwenkanya2508
    @peruthmwenkanya2508 9 месяцев назад +16

    It's the ''are you drunk?'' for me.. Lydia can be really funny😂

  • @joyceyugi9266
    @joyceyugi9266 10 месяцев назад +6

    I'm sorry for your loss Lyd. On other news, you both look so good. Also the amount of self - awareness and growth I've experienced ever since I began listening to this podcast is so profound. I'm so grateful ❤.

  • @sherismith8361
    @sherismith8361 10 месяцев назад +30

    I went through micro cheating but I was too lazy to break up. He was texting some girl he had met and he was venting to her about our relationship. (We were in college). I saw the messages aka shed some fake tears and we continued. We broke up the next year tukiwa long holiday. They're now married so ni Mimi I was standing in the way of true love 😅😅

    • @brie2545
      @brie2545 10 месяцев назад +2

      Wueh😂😂😂! Girl how did you reach acceptance stage (like for real this is smne else's man) hugs though 😊

    • @ImmaculateIsaboke
      @ImmaculateIsaboke 10 месяцев назад

      🤣opps .

    • @hossie101
      @hossie101 9 месяцев назад

      Ouch😳

  • @angelayez9114
    @angelayez9114 10 месяцев назад +27

    Had to pause at 41:36 for a short story, a guy I was going on the date with for the first time came with his friend who was more funny, charming, and was attentive to me. Guys, I was confused!!😄😄😄 Let’s just say I chose not to go out again with the guy I had initially come to see.

  • @danielmiyaba8816
    @danielmiyaba8816 10 месяцев назад +38

    I might not be the first here .. but atleast I'm here... Denims I love ❤❤❤❤❤.
    And the buns both the neat and messy ate ... I love you guys
    Kenya kingbetweener

    • @mwendenyaga91
      @mwendenyaga91 10 месяцев назад

      Eishhhh 😅🤭🤭

    • @annmumbi5693
      @annmumbi5693 10 месяцев назад +3

      Clearly you are a catch dan🥰

    • @joyceyugi9266
      @joyceyugi9266 10 месяцев назад

      Yaaaaaaaaaay kingbetweener

  • @Young_Techiez
    @Young_Techiez 10 месяцев назад +8

    😂😂loved Lydia's point on 'things are easier said than done'

  • @angelinematina7049
    @angelinematina7049 9 месяцев назад +24

    Not lydia shouting Jezebel at murugi😂😂😂

    • @nkathapamela5703
      @nkathapamela5703 9 месяцев назад +1

      😂😂😂this one got me as well 😅

  • @royalusala8527
    @royalusala8527 10 месяцев назад +52

    Even this thing of He/She is not my type/standard is skewed sana... Everybody is better than you in something.. Everybody has something you don't have.. Its a large Ego statement!

    • @sheeireri3716
      @sheeireri3716 10 месяцев назад +7

      King betweener in the buildiiing 🔥🔥😊.

    • @lindaawuor1446
      @lindaawuor1446 10 месяцев назад +2

      For sure

    • @hellenirungu8542
      @hellenirungu8542 10 месяцев назад +3

      The type thing doesn't always refer to where one is in life or what they are good at it. It is just a preference thing. For instance, I don't like mouthy guys, and if I notice you talk too much, you def aren't my type.

    • @royalusala8527
      @royalusala8527 10 месяцев назад +4

      @@hellenirungu8542 It's still the same.. My point is, that mouthy guy may have been better for you 8n the long run compared to the one u chose instead of him, coz of the mouthy thing.. He has very many other great qualities!

    • @dorahmulinge3800
      @dorahmulinge3800 10 месяцев назад +2

      Somebody tweet this❤❤❤. So true

  • @NyandengAGarang
    @NyandengAGarang 10 месяцев назад +13

    Pole sana kwa msiba, Lydia KM.

  • @Peacine
    @Peacine 10 месяцев назад

    22:28 😢 losing an Ex taught me everything about disenchanted grief
    So many questions in your head, basically grieving alone and longer

  • @JaneWanjiku-l7f
    @JaneWanjiku-l7f 10 месяцев назад +55

    I'm gonna have to disagree, emotional cheating should not be excused, it's actually worse than physical cheating.

    • @akiinefaexperiencinglife
      @akiinefaexperiencinglife 9 месяцев назад +9

      I agree,it shouldn't be excused(it'sjust (un)fortunate that someone can get away with it)..I do not think it is worse than physical cheating,it's a step towards the physical cheating if one is not consciously aware of it...and I would say that we should evaluate our emotions to learn more about ourselves and our behaviours,for our own well being and those closest to us.

    • @oliviakadesa2754
      @oliviakadesa2754 9 месяцев назад

      Llllllllllllllllllllolllllllllllllolllol9lllll😊llllllllllollol

  • @annmumbi5693
    @annmumbi5693 10 месяцев назад +3

    I just learnt alot from this episode…and am better for my next man…thank you TMI🥰🥰🥰

  • @julietmwaniki8349
    @julietmwaniki8349 10 месяцев назад +6

    Loved this episode so much! The phrase 'emotional crutch' is staying with me for a while! I'm wondering if you could do an episode on setting boundaries with friends and partners. As someone approaching my mid-twenties, I'd love to hear your perspective and experience!

    • @faithnairuko7351
      @faithnairuko7351 10 месяцев назад +3

      Hey love
      There's an episode on boundaries.... It's called "Setting Boundaries and Sticking to them"

  • @esthermulu1229
    @esthermulu1229 10 месяцев назад +12

    However if its my man's friend who is funny,, there's always a limit😂😂" Lyd that limit laughter" 😂am down on the floor

  • @margaretkanganga4882
    @margaretkanganga4882 10 месяцев назад +8

    always here thanks for reading my comment Lyd😍

  • @annewacuka
    @annewacuka 9 месяцев назад +1

    This was such a fun episode🤩. It's micro cheating if him and his female friend call each other babe, hun and darling on texts.
    PS: I was the female friend in this case 😭, and he did set a boundary so at least he's not a lizard😂

  • @esthermulu1229
    @esthermulu1229 10 месяцев назад +17

    Lyd ,,your Hair is incredible babe

  • @faithwanjiru6927
    @faithwanjiru6927 10 месяцев назад +5

    Loved this episode, Lyd's fire today 💯

  • @lizznjeri9231
    @lizznjeri9231 10 месяцев назад +20

    Lidya I am like you,I roll with the punches in almost all situations, until my daughter recently accused me of toxic positivity

    • @wambuigorgeous
      @wambuigorgeous 10 месяцев назад +7

      Daughters keep us in check 😂 I was told I'm always on my phone and I insist she limits her screentime, I was told start with yourself 😂

    • @bellaolum9768
      @bellaolum9768 9 месяцев назад +1

      That.sounds like something my daughters would say 😂😂😂

  • @Shanshan-fe6cw
    @Shanshan-fe6cw 9 месяцев назад +1

    This was such a beautiful episode. Loved every minute of it babes❤!

  • @DeDollyshow
    @DeDollyshow 10 месяцев назад +1

    I live for the affirmation and love between Jo and Lyd is so beautiful to watch❤❤❤

  • @marciajames9434
    @marciajames9434 10 месяцев назад +2

    Sorry Lydia for you and your family's loss; God's peace surround you all. One more thing, yet another episode where you (Lydia) was extremely funny/hilarious; thank you ladies.

  • @mercykiaritha350
    @mercykiaritha350 10 месяцев назад +4

    I needed a pick me up today so seeing TMI has posted is exactly what I needed today🎉

  • @esthermulu1229
    @esthermulu1229 10 месяцев назад +3

    Big siz come this side,,It's wed and surprise 🎉🎉🎉 against Definitely TMI

  • @naomiwaithera5820
    @naomiwaithera5820 9 месяцев назад

    your history keeps score there's no running away from it...very thin line na intuition

  • @glorykinyua1669
    @glorykinyua1669 10 месяцев назад +4

    Its definitely TMI...among the first ❤..my Wednesday are always lit 🔥🔥big sisters 💯

  • @andabwarosekiarie5477
    @andabwarosekiarie5477 6 месяцев назад +1

    Murugi you look wow 😍I love the blue and white dress code..Lyd ❤hugs

  • @giftyalfa2460
    @giftyalfa2460 10 месяцев назад +6

    I found it soo difficult to move past that demonstrative laugh by Lyd😅😅😂

    • @brie2545
      @brie2545 10 месяцев назад

      Ikr😂😂😂

  • @YouAreMyFavoritePodcast
    @YouAreMyFavoritePodcast 9 месяцев назад +3

    Murugi Munyi Murugi Munyi Murugi Munyi !
    ❤🌹

  • @lilyankamau3111
    @lilyankamau3111 10 месяцев назад +4

    It's definitely TMI ❤️ 🎉🎉

  • @nkathapamela5703
    @nkathapamela5703 9 месяцев назад

    I had so much fun watching this,,,😂😂😂you 2 are adorable 😍 mich love

  • @faith.adeyaa
    @faith.adeyaa 6 месяцев назад

    Thankyou for reminding us about the healthy boundaries

  • @bettykubai927
    @bettykubai927 10 месяцев назад +9

    Kucheka nayo nitacheka😂😂. If your friend is funny? I will laugh. I will not be denied laughter. Is it not the best medicine? 😅

  • @hinesightmind
    @hinesightmind 9 месяцев назад +1

    Sending money to female friends 😢 I've been telling you, sina pesa no Kinuthia No.

  • @lydiarichu8421
    @lydiarichu8421 5 месяцев назад

    You ladies are shouting😂😂am laughing ticking all the boxes tht my man did all that micro cheating😂..love u guys❤

  • @bettiekym
    @bettiekym 10 месяцев назад +2

    My condolences dear,may Guks rest well.

  • @Vlicky_05shotta
    @Vlicky_05shotta 9 месяцев назад +2

    I love these two, your content is amazing.Also can we talk about boundaries between friends who are dating.So my bf has male friends who happens to be dating a certain chic.My problem is this chic is very close to my guy.I once saw some pics she took in my bfs bedroom and was like😮😮😮

  • @DeDollyshow
    @DeDollyshow 10 месяцев назад +2

    It's definitely Tmiiii❤❤❤

  • @MohandMpymWorld
    @MohandMpymWorld 10 месяцев назад +4

    TMI❤ .
    Nipitieni leo guys

  • @Its_at.ieno12
    @Its_at.ieno12 10 месяцев назад +3

    Tmi team...tuko kwa sanaa!!!😊❤

  • @andabwarosekiarie5477
    @andabwarosekiarie5477 6 месяцев назад +2

    Girls...you sound like therapy to some of us.. please can you do an episode on detachment..where you've mentioned about exes..I think you should do an episode on how to detach from them too .we all know there is always one person in our lives who we are stuck with.. truth be said aloud

  • @joycewamari1116
    @joycewamari1116 10 месяцев назад +10

    It's the "aaaah Jezebel ndio huyu"😅😅😅 for me

  • @JoanJepkemei-zm6jw
    @JoanJepkemei-zm6jw 10 месяцев назад +4

    Its Lyd hair ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @magdalinekinyanjui404
    @magdalinekinyanjui404 9 месяцев назад +1

    Love the tops ladies😊👌

  • @hopewangari5970
    @hopewangari5970 9 месяцев назад +1

    The double tap part lol!!!

  • @bennykimanibk
    @bennykimanibk 9 месяцев назад

    I really learn alot from you awesome people. Much appreciated.

  • @norahkaranja4054
    @norahkaranja4054 10 месяцев назад +4

    Murugi what has bloating got to do with a ring??😂😂

  • @joycemuthoni4011
    @joycemuthoni4011 10 месяцев назад +2

    You look lovely Murugi😊

  • @e.s.t.a.r
    @e.s.t.a.r 10 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you lyd and murugi for this! As usual, very informative🎉. So sorry for you loss, lyd. May he rest well

  • @yvonne355
    @yvonne355 10 месяцев назад +2

    Murugiii your jeans ❤❤❤❤

  • @gracedaniel726
    @gracedaniel726 10 месяцев назад +1

    I am more of a Lidya i guess, every time she said to Murugi are you drunk ?? I was like yeah Murugi are you???

  • @joyesther5916
    @joyesther5916 10 месяцев назад +4

    Given a case you are dating a guy and some other guy approaches you and asks for your number,what do you do?
    Do you give them your number or your boyfriend's?

    • @annmumbi5693
      @annmumbi5693 10 месяцев назад +1

      Your number

    • @juniorkibuthu6928
      @juniorkibuthu6928 10 месяцев назад

      You don't give out your no/his , respect your partner,, why are you giving out your no in the first place if you are in a relationship

    • @risperbevalyn9670
      @risperbevalyn9670 10 месяцев назад +1

      if you are not married ...yes

  • @ImmaculateIsaboke
    @ImmaculateIsaboke 10 месяцев назад

    the background is beautiful 💗💗💗

  • @BrendanyamburaJosephinelenny
    @BrendanyamburaJosephinelenny 10 месяцев назад +40

    Can we now sing please?😭😭😭 thank you😂

    • @danielmiyaba8816
      @danielmiyaba8816 10 месяцев назад +1

      I second this thought.... I will be seconds in to the podcast ( the intro bit) and then I'm singing the TMIIIII and my girlies are like pulling an Oprah kind of unison TMII... please sing in some episodes

    • @estherdeborahnakitende1537
      @estherdeborahnakitende1537 9 месяцев назад

      Please sing in all episodes.🥺 I begun watching this podcast when they were singing so its all i know and sounds best.

  • @claranyaga8984
    @claranyaga8984 10 месяцев назад +1

    beautiful set

  • @faithnjoki1471
    @faithnjoki1471 9 месяцев назад +5

    "Are you drunk?"
    I'm still on the floor 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @rastagirl758
    @rastagirl758 9 месяцев назад +1

    My micro cheating behaviour is a man who sends a woman snaps on snapchat,it feels illegal to me and worse placing the messages to delete after view

  • @valokumu3880
    @valokumu3880 10 месяцев назад +1

    Liking every photo in their feed pls🤦‍♀️front door is there 🚪

  • @jessenanette7958
    @jessenanette7958 10 месяцев назад +5

    First.....love from Rwanda

  • @patriciasharon3053
    @patriciasharon3053 10 месяцев назад +4

    Elderly sexuality matters!!🗣🗣😅😂

  • @yvonnemurugi6795
    @yvonnemurugi6795 10 месяцев назад +3

    Lydia pole even i got to know your grandpa is my neighbor cant believe you normally come to our neighbor hood .

  • @annemwaura3910
    @annemwaura3910 10 месяцев назад +3

    TMI🎉❤

  • @Empress_Hellena
    @Empress_Hellena 10 месяцев назад

    These queens are Gorgeous!!❤❤❤

  • @JoshuaMusembi-i3s
    @JoshuaMusembi-i3s 4 месяца назад

    I can't take advice from media we are different

  • @amandawambui8063
    @amandawambui8063 9 месяцев назад

    Am sorry Lydia for loosing your Granddad❤

  • @dorothyshee777
    @dorothyshee777 10 месяцев назад +3

    Tmi ❤❤

  • @mwendenyaga91
    @mwendenyaga91 10 месяцев назад +1

    Ehh woow!Fayaa fayaa

  • @TashaNjagi
    @TashaNjagi 10 месяцев назад +1

    TMI day 🎉🎉❤

  • @shanicemumbi6993
    @shanicemumbi6993 10 месяцев назад +2

    Wednesday dose😊😊😊

  • @winniepere
    @winniepere 10 месяцев назад +2

    What's the name of the book Murugi was talking about?

  • @danielmiyaba8816
    @danielmiyaba8816 10 месяцев назад +5

    Sorry for your loss Lyd😢❤

  • @EuniterMumbua
    @EuniterMumbua 10 месяцев назад +6

    They are so self aware, this year I wanna focus on my self awareness journey, anyone to help me with tips on where to begin please?

    • @giftyalfa2460
      @giftyalfa2460 10 месяцев назад

      Therapy please
      The sermon's been on for long💃🏽

    • @letstalkkenya2
      @letstalkkenya2 10 месяцев назад

      Check the Stoic philosophy... really helped me

    • @EuniterMumbua
      @EuniterMumbua 10 месяцев назад

      Thanks ​@@letstalkkenya2

  • @msnique406
    @msnique406 10 месяцев назад

    Very interesting 👌 👍

  • @nyamburakimani3726
    @nyamburakimani3726 10 месяцев назад +2

    Does my ring hurt your finger by Charlie Pride

  • @lydiaakamau
    @lydiaakamau 10 месяцев назад +3

    Best thing about my Wednesday today🥺❤️

  • @maman_moon
    @maman_moon 10 месяцев назад +1

    A man sending money to almost all his exes and somes females friends. That’s my experience

  • @winnienjue-h7k
    @winnienjue-h7k 9 месяцев назад

    Are you drunk!!!!😂😂

  • @faithchepngetich8033
    @faithchepngetich8033 10 месяцев назад +5

    One of the guilty people who totally believed I have subscribed but hadn't😰 fixed it though..
    Making it up by subscribing on my work account too🤓
    Keep repeating the "subscribe" message to us, looks like the 99th time's the charm😩

  • @GirlThatVlogsKE
    @GirlThatVlogsKE 10 месяцев назад +2

    This is the 20th comment, i love being here

  • @mercykitolo6871
    @mercykitolo6871 9 месяцев назад

    I am triggered😭😭😭

  • @Verracheryl254
    @Verracheryl254 10 месяцев назад +3

    🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @evelynmbithe
    @evelynmbithe 10 месяцев назад +7

    Love how you've styled your hair Lyd. Currently twinning that style will definitely try.
    May your Guka's soul rest in peace.
    Thank you both for showing up more importantly, for showing up for each other.
    ❤️❤️❤️

    • @rahabthuku9445
      @rahabthuku9445 10 месяцев назад

      Hi what's the name of the braid plz